pihkaltih Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	I keep wingmanning myself out of getting laid.	Fundamentals	pihkaltih	/r/seduction	17/06/21 02:02 PM

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1	If you are 30 and marry a 30 year old man then there's an 99 percent chance that he is settling. If a guy doesn't bald, stays fit, a good looking guy in his 30s >>> good looking guys in their 20s. Masculinity's most attractive traits peak in early-mid 30s, experience, ruggedness, toughness, status, maturity etc. I can tell you right now, 99% of women will fuck Henry Cavill Geralt over Harry Styles or any 20s male idol. Men in their early mid 20s still look like teens usually. Why male fashion like suits, bombers etc look better on older guys as well. Hell I'm living proof, in my 30s, and I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/22 05:41 PM
2	Women say most men are “awful,” toxic or undateable, or that “the bar is so low” which is such a joke. Most men worship the ground women walk on, even attractive ones, and women are ridiculously selective. I see average/ugly/short guys with super hot women all the time, the thing is, these guys usually signal massively some "bad boy" vibe, working in the trades, aggressive aura, tattoos, typical "bros" etc. What I see a lot of though, is nice/nerdy guys who are quite good looking (tall, good facial features, fit), with women well below them in looks match. Its actually why I think being outgoing, gregarious and assertive, are the most attractive qualities to women, rather than looks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/22 05:18 PM
0	Both men and women are attracted to unrealistic qualities. Yeah where do people get this idea you need to hit the gym to stay thin? Just eat less, if you're a lardass, it's because you are eating too much food. I worked at a fast food outlet and ate garbage every meal because I got it for free, still stayed thin because I severely limited my intake of the garbage (2 recommended standard kj portions a day, salad instead of chips) while picking up an active hobby (skating) which I did for a few hours on the weekend. Every person packing on pounds I've eve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/22 05:10 PM
1	[deleted by user] I used to be quite charismatic and I was literally a theatre kid lol, but fallen on just a run of insanely extremely bad luck over the past couple years + people coming into my life with BPD and such, which has sent my mental health not on a great trajectory. My lack of charisma is due to largely complete mental fatigue from stress and anxiety, I can actually think of what to say which would be charismatic, but it comes 10-20 seconds after the point of where it would be appropriate to respond, c…	/r/seduction	04/10/21 09:50 AM
5	What’s your biggest piece of sex advice? Watch the Nina Hartley "how to eat pussy" video. That vid should be mandatory in sex ed honestly. Gives such better ways to actually go down on a woman than most guys would ever dream of. Aftercare is always important after sex, make sure to cuddle, ask her if she's alright and if she's good, kisses on forehead. They always get those relax hormones flowing.	/r/seduction	03/10/21 10:24 PM
4	[deleted by user] Yep, get me the tiniest bit tipsy, and I'm extremely confident, I can approach and talk to anyone without a second thought. The problem is, I can talk, that's where my skill ends, I can never really turn that conversation into successful flirting, humour, charisma etc. You know when you are in a Tinder convo that's going too long and you're waiting for when is this going to get a bit spicy but never does? That's me IRL. I'm very attractive I've been told a lot by women, 6'3, I can do the approac…	/r/seduction	03/10/21 10:09 PM
4	Why do men push the Older Man/Younger woman dynamic? Yep, some of the discussions I see on the discord groups I'm in filled with zoomers are bonkers. Some guy is a pedophile for dating a woman 2 years younger, what the fuck? The age gap between my parents is like 10 years, some of my friends parents 15-20 years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 10:35 PM
1	Is there a "secret underworld" of sex going on all the time? I never trust studies like this honestly because most women are going to severely downplay the number of partners they have, while most men are going to overplay. Sorry, no way the average college aged woman has only had 4 sexual partners, that's ridiculous, lived in house shares with college women for a decade and most beat that "body count" in 2 weeks. Almost all my women friends admit counts in the 30's/40s and even then when I joke they're halving it, I get a smirk and sideye.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 09:46 PM
1	Ugly - hot people I mean, sure, I'm attracted to weird personalities and other specific things about women honestly, if a Woman has a weird but effort put in hair style and yet a 4/10 face, I'm all in on that. For some reason I notice hair and big eyes more than anything. What I always find hilarious though is Women pretending Adam Driver is a 10/10 where, if he wasn't a famous actor, his face would put him at a 4/10 at best. In my "nerd society" groups, there are lots of guys that look very similar to Adam Drive…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 09:41 PM
15	Daily Community Chat Megathread What has been bothering me recently is looking through media, youtube etc on like issues people have, mental health struggles, dating struggles, struggles with bullying etc and something I've noticed is nearly all the content is aimed at women, about Women's struggles, yet they almost always pretend that this is like the only space women's stories can be told. The only content that comes in close with being aimed at Women, is for Gay, Trans etc men. I can't even honestly name a single youtube ch…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 09:32 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread What gets me as someone looking in is those who are trying to ban it, they seem to state that life is sacred but then support the bombing of brown people on the other side of the world. I mean, what makes it hilarious is that these people are the most insane social darwinists even in the US. The baby is sacred in the womb, but once it's out, lol if it lives in the trash because the parents are homeless or it needs healthcare or it will die, oh well that baby should have bootstrapped harder. Also…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/21 02:44 PM
1	Would you date a woman you met at work? Also people, please don't bang your housemates. View them as your family. Your housemate can tell that you want to fuck them and it will just make them feel uncomfortable in their own house. Also as someone who has gotten very drunk and stupid with a few housemates when I was younger, it might be fun to basically have a fuckbuddy the next room over for a month or so, but it turns awkward and weird pretty quickly. (especially when it comes to house politics and other roommates)	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/21 02:36 PM
4	If men had more self respect, dating wouldn’t be so skewed in women’s favor Was this survey given exclusively to the Social elite on Epstein's Island!?!?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/21 02:31 PM
9	If men had more self respect, dating wouldn’t be so skewed in women’s favor What starts changing I found is from about 28 onwards, Women stop caring so much about looks as much, and start caring a lot about career positions and wealth. The amount of dates I go on where it's basically an interrogation on my work and pay-grade is actually astonishing. Dating in your 30s as a guy still fucking sucks just in a slightly different (but not so different) way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/21 02:26 PM
9	If men had more self respect, dating wouldn’t be so skewed in women’s favor We can't persuade all men to follow a certain code, even if we would all benefit from said code. Hard lesson for me. Almost every time I go out, I end up wingmanning the clearly friendzoned friend of the women who are clearly flirting with me and generally I'm pretty successful, I pull the guy aside often, tell him to be more aggressive and I facilitate that. I do this because I see myself in those young guys, when I was in my early 20s, before I found my confidence and ability to be relaxed aro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/21 02:24 PM
24	The name of the game is brutal, painful honesty on this prompt folks. Most young guys just have zero game, this is coming from someone on Purple Pill subreddit lol, also they're so self aware of trying not to appear "gay" to their mates, they will rather cockblock themselves than do something "gay" like letting loose and dancing. I choke when I try to go after women myself sure, but I wing man A LOT, hell if I go into a club, I will hook up 5 guys over that night. Something I've found is young men just overthink everything. The other night, bunch of girls dancing …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 01:41 PM
2	To what extent are modern female standards inflated or just revealed preferences? Yeah but I think this is the difference in socialization. Yep, been groped by women (and guys) tonnes of times and don't give a shit, in the grand scheme of things, little to no harm was done and it was 2 seconds of being uncomfortable compared to all the actual dangerous shit you can come across out in the streets like being mugged, king hit, stabbed etc. One of my most controversial opinons is that rape is pretty much no worse than any other violent crime, and much of the trauma of rape, comes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 01:24 PM
1	Afghanistan Discussion Mega-Thread The Socialist Government actually had an ideology, hence why people fought because they were fighting for something. US/Western system is Neoliberal, meaning in our society we focus on the individual and free markets. Not exactly a great way to build a National project like a state. The West could never ever Nation Build these days, The fact that the US did 1000x worse than the 1980s Soviet Union should attest to that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/21 06:19 PM
3	If casual sex suddenly became readily available to you, (same way it is to women) how much time would you now devote to having sex? If you're currently in a relationship, would you drop her? Had a lot of casual sex when younger and it honestly made me depressed in the same way anyone is when going years without a relationship, what I ended up wanting was just someone to cuddle with and watch movies with in bed. That said, I would obviously take casual sex over masturbation, My women friends pretty much use Tinder as a "Free male escort app" and frankly, I would probably be doing the same in reverse, a woman >>>> My hand. If I was in a relationship Generally I'm in Poly relationships…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/21 05:56 PM
5	Do People just use this sub as the new red pill sub because the rest is all banned/quarantined? I love how whenever the media talks about incels, their "expert" is always a 35+ year old woman. Never, ever actually ask young men what they think because then people might see that the discussion isn't the strawman "they all just hate women" the media portrays.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/21 05:40 PM
1	Do People just use this sub as the new red pill sub because the rest is all banned/quarantined? Sexlessness rates among young men are growing higher and higher and Tinder is becoming more predatory towards men in it's algorthms. Guys might go "lol that's incel" when around women, but when we're alone, almost every guy I talk too, even ones who are successful with women, are starting to get pretty pissed with how ridiculous the current dating scene is, especially Tinder.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/21 05:14 PM
2	Do People just use this sub as the new red pill sub because the rest is all banned/quarantined? One of the biggest issues is people can't divorce statistics from the individual. Incels read all these terrible statistics about how women act when dating, without realising those statistics are being applied as general trends over hundreds of millions of people. Even if 80/20 was real (it isn't, but sadly isn't far off from the statistics) that is still tens of millions and millions of women in that 20%.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/21 05:12 PM
7	Do People just use this sub as the new red pill sub because the rest is all banned/quarantined? I mostly use it because talking about issues of young men, especially around dating, or criticising how women act in the dating scene, is pretty much literally taboo on any other sub. I've written several indepth posts on Unpopular Opinion or Rants and had them hidden by mods almost immedaitely. None of my posts ever blamed women, but talked about mostly how everyone knows these issues, both with how men and how women act, but nobody wants to get to the truth because it the acknowledgement doesn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/21 04:28 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread There’s absolutely no way we can change it either. If they can take big gambles at sleeping with out of their league guys, get positive reinforcement from their friends for it, and then after years of gambling on the hot guys decide to settle with a normal guy, there exists no incentive to change. The only way I can see it changing is a big discussion on how women use these apps and how the apps function themselves. Sure not all women are going to give up Tinder, but there could be some social s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/21 05:10 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread It isn’t women’s fault OLD operates on a model meant to fleece money from horny men and creepers It's not, but you can't divorce the behaviour of women on these apps, from the stats that women are in fact, seemingly sleeping with smaller and smaller pools of men, while huge portions of men are going without relationships in the most important relationship period of their lives. Women aren’t shit on in trp, mgtow, ppd, etc? No point talking about this in those subs, because they don't advance any…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/21 05:07 PM
1	How common is guys getting into relationships because they want to avoid sexual dry spells? People here are seriously lowballing this, I think it's actually the norm for the Average and below guys. Almost all my male friends latch on to the first girl that lets them stick it in them and try to stay with them as long as possible even if they know they're not really for them, this is because they know if they break up, it could be years before they have sex again. Hell I used to do this when I was younger but went through a spell of several BPD women to put me very much in the "very care…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/21 03:41 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Does anyone else get pissed at how like most dating, relationship, advice subs on Reddit, they say "don't put women on a pedestal, they're human just like you", so when you go to criticize for example, how women are incentivised to use Tinder and do use Tinder (Essentially free male escort service), then everyone goes into meltdown about misogyny and how dare you criticise Women? (That is if a mod doesn't hide/remove the comment in 10 seconds) What drives me up the wall really is how men can be …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/21 03:26 PM
2	Yes, environment does indeed play a huge part in how easy it is for men to get partners. I would agree, but there are things now extremely tipping the balance. Statistically, things are the worst they've ever been for young men in the dating gaming, to just staggering levels (40% of men hitting mid 20s without losing their virginity is fucking bonkers). A Material analysis, which is what we're doing, would also take into the account of how people are interacting and what is causing this divide, what changed in the past decade or so that has caused such a diversion of "fairness" in t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/21 11:50 AM
1	I keep wingmanning myself out of getting laid. Cheers, Will take a look at it. It's something actually that effects a lot of areas of my life as well, say for example, in a deal, I will always make way too much a generous deal, even to the expense of myself, even when I know I should not be doing that. It must be some form of social anxiety coping mechanism I suspect.	/r/seduction	17/06/21 02:35 PM
1	I keep wingmanning myself out of getting laid. I know this is the case, but is there any good techniques to just stay focused on the goal and not psyching yourself out due to the emotions/feelings of others? I really wish I could block everyone else out and just go for the goal, but it's something I can't easily do.	/r/seduction	17/06/21 02:34 PM
1	Am l too skinny for a 6ft tall dude? can't see comment dude, your posts are "hidden" until you get a certain amount of Karma. how much do you weigh? I know I'm way too skinny for my height (6'3, 68kg/149lb) and no matter how much I eat (on 5000 calories a day), because of my sport training which is intensive cardio, I never put on weight, it blows and is the thing I most dislike about myself.	/r/seduction	12/06/21 06:25 PM