pilarsen Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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11	Half the work of seduction is getting her to come back. So read this great guide on eating girls out [/r/sex xpost] [very NSFW] Wauw those gif's are distracting!	/r/seduction	10/02/12 01:54 PM
1	A complex situation, not sure what to make of it. Sometimes that's just the right answer! Haha she sounds pretty crazy. Look back on the situations, see if there are any learnings to be had, and move on. (Sounds like you already have)	/r/seduction	22/01/12 10:20 PM
1	A complex situation, not sure what to make of it. An alternative approach could be not to avoid her, but to stay social with the entire group. Include her in the conversation, but without excluding the others. Keep it as a group conversation. Create a confident and independent frame for himself, because let's be honest. Girls totally dig that frame! If he keeps this frame, she will eventually make her move. And if she doesn't, he will still get a fun night out of it with his friends. No big deal. Have a little fun with it.	/r/seduction	22/01/12 12:34 PM
1	Having a hard time reading her. That's not terrible. That's just average. The whole idea of Seddit though is to not be average, so maybe you should consider working on that some day. :) Good luck with this one. She sounds like a nice girl.	/r/seduction	22/01/12 01:17 AM
1	A complex situation, not sure what to make of it. Glad to help! :)	/r/seduction	22/01/12 01:12 AM
2	Having a hard time reading her. Well the point is, that instead of wondering about her signals, take a look at your signals. Are you interested in her, then start sending out signals and see, where it takes you. You can't analyse the pants off a girl ;)	/r/seduction	22/01/12 01:07 AM
1	Tips on maintaining eye contact If you don't believe this, just pretend you did, because you have to choose an eye anyway. Hahahaha :D	/r/seduction	22/01/12 12:50 AM
4	Having a hard time reading her. You should really stop asking yourself if she is interested, and start asking yourself if you are interesting. If the answer is yes, there is no reason for her NOT to be interested.. I mean.. You're an interesting guy.. Of course she is. If the answer is no.. Well my friend.. You're on the expresstrain to just-friends-town. Oh and from what you're telling, it definately seems, that you're on that train. If this is true, I'm truly sorry for you. Have a nice day, sir.	/r/seduction	22/01/12 12:44 AM
6	A complex situation, not sure what to make of it. Ok let's have a look at the signals, you're sending. First night - good pickup! Seems like you did really good here. Second night you had a couple of poor decisions. First by keeping your distance. She knows, you guys had hit it off the night before, so by keeping your distance, you are sending a signal, that you are insecure, and don't quite know, how to handle her. After you bumbed in to her, you confirmed that frame by making out with her, when she wanted to. You're letting her control your g…	/r/seduction	22/01/12 12:37 AM
4	Invite her friends over too, or just her? Well your post really gives you the answer. You often do it one way, and you want to know, if the other way is better.... Well go find out! Have fun, and check back on how it went.	/r/seduction	22/01/12 12:18 AM
137	I finally understand woman. Click here for the truth. Please! If you genuinely want to meet someone, why don't you just meet someone else instead of heading out to "fix the poor girl, who was hurt?" That kind of hero-routine is exactly what you need to unlearn to play the game. Here's 3 tips for you.. On the house ;) * 1. Instead of focusing on being a problem solver for her, just show her a good time. * 2. Stop seeing her as "damaged". That just makes her a victim in your eyes, and that's pretty demeaning, you know ;) * 3. Get over yourself. This …	/r/seduction	14/01/12 01:47 PM
8	What I've learned after years of being in a female-dominated profession and schooling Join a spinning class ;)	/r/seduction	12/01/12 11:05 PM