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While I agree with your general statement - our size is not at all related to whether or not we deserve a HVM - I think OP was stating just that she didn’t feel like herself, and wanted to focus on getting herself to a better place first. Her size is a factor, not because of how she looks or is valued, but because of how she feels about herself and her journey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 08:52 PM
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Agreed. And as much as they’re “not bothering women”, it’s certainly not helping them see us as humans - real people with our own thoughts, feelings, desires, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 09:13 PM
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I did this. Highly recommended. I did all the work then, and I still do. But also… now my ex wants to change his last name to mine so it “matches our kid”. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 01:28 AM
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Oh god. So… one time, I actually starfished with my ex. I had cOmMuNiCaTeD what he was doing that needed to stop, and told him if he did it again next time, I’d just starfish (gross, now that I know what I know about being allowed to withdraw consent). Anyway, he did the thing, so I followed through on my promise. …this weirdo finished and actually said “that was the best sex we’ve had”… 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 11:47 PM
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One can dream. Then I hope they’re so focussed on the robots that they don’t breed. 🤞🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 11:41 PM
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I’ve been there too. Even knowing they were a narcissist, and what phase of the cycle we were in, it was so hard to let go. What helped me was listening to HG Tudor on YouTube. Specifically finding the monologues about leaving a narcissist, and why they Hoover, and specifics to my situation to really get it to sink in that I was being manipulated. And then I let the narc do something that made me angry, and and I used the anger, backed by all this new knowledge, to cut him out, and keep him out.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 02:17 AM
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Well… what was he wearing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 05:57 PM
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This is the tone I read too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 06:37 PM
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Beat the Bank by Larry Bates The examples in the book are Canadian, and the way it’s written makes money and investing so easy to understand for someone just starting (and even as a refresher for those more experienced). It’s a quick read, and my confidence with investing skyrocketed. I’ve recommended this book to many, all with great feedback from them too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 04:34 PM
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I learned SO MUCH from HG Tudor’s YouTube channel, I second this recommendation!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 01:13 AM
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I need to read this post, please!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 12:48 AM
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I’m also in Canada, where resources aren’t as plentiful, but one I’ve found helpful is canlii.org to search public court records. Using this site, I got to read all about how a date had been convicted for shaking his mistress’s baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 11:11 PM
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Down To Fuck 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 01:25 PM
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LOL, he’s not wrong, but fire fighters are not better, like this statement was meant to have you believe. Fire fighters and police have this weird animosity between them - they badmouth each other and each believe themselves superior of the other. But they all cheat, and want to play hero.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 02:52 PM
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Thank you. I appreciate your thorough answer. Amazing advice to break it down to manageable pieces. And great idea to really understand the operating theories and concepts - I have a place to start putting in some effort in order to provide the help I’d like to. Again, thank you for taking the time to write this all out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 01:42 PM
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There are so many times I find myself sitting back and trying to figure out how I can actually help and make a difference, not just donate money but actually get involved. I don’t think I could reign in the emotions and tears, but I appreciate your experience. How long did it take for you to become functionally numb and be an effective advocate?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 05:02 PM
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So does that mean, even with your flair, you couldn’t see FDS either? I’ve been waiting for months to get one, and assumed that’s why I couldn’t see content… I got the “FDS is a private sub” message and thought only tagged users could participate and felt so left out 🙁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 01:06 PM
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While there’s no denying that their balding heads and dad bods are aged and unattractive, remember there are MANY “men” posting younger ages in their profiles to target young women too 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:52 PM
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I concur! I started my 30s freshly divorced, with all that “wall” nonsense thinking I was a huge failure... but it turns out, 30s are waaaay better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:48 PM
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