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pillaway/r/askTRP16/03/15 07:48 PM
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Many girls I've been with cry after sex, especially my current girlfriend. When its really really good and it suddenly stops is when the crying starts. Its usually just really overwhelming to them its so good. If the tears dry up pretty quick (>5mins) then it could very well be from this. Their mood, despite the tears, is still usually okay and they're back to normal in minutes, in this scenario. If its like a sobbing/heaving cry, if it lasts longer than a few minutes, and if their mood is notab…
/r/askTRP23/03/15 05:43 PM
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Found TRP a month ago. I started realizing much of the redpill philosophies last summer though, when my girlfriend left me for being beta as hell. I realized a lot then. I've also studied pick up and game on and off for years. Anyway, as for the last month or two, I've started lifting consistently and eating better, I quit fapping, I've gained frame and a good dominance in my current relationship. Abundance mentality is growing. Confidence and overall happiness is greatly increasing. Self improv…
/r/askTRP17/03/15 04:57 PM
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Definitely. Spoke to the girlfriend last night, went well. Her having accepted TRP made it much easier for her to understand why we shouldn't move in together. Thanks for the advice. Realized if I'm getting a legal contract to do something its probably a bad idea xD
/r/askTRP17/03/15 03:29 PM
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/r/nofap 3-5 times a day is far too much, regardless of testosterone levels, masturbation addiction can cause all sorts of mental glitches from insecurity and shame and dopamine imbalances. There's little/no reason to ever fap. Use that testosterone on things that matter. Lift, read, learn, progress.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 06:49 AM
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Beautiful :')
/r/askTRP17/03/15 05:08 AM
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My current girlfriend of six months and I dated six months prior for...six months. Sorry for the purely coincidental 666. Anyway, the first time we were together I lost frame HARD. Crying, sniveling baby hard. I had zero value and was so BP its gross. We broke up, I spun plates and prospected, moved on. Gained some alpha traits back. Six months later she's back, my short lived alpha traits started to fade, and for 2 months I was quite BP again. Then I realized MANY RP traits on my own, and begun…
/r/askTRP17/03/15 03:30 AM
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Screaming shit test. I'm still internalizing, and have nothing clever to advise you to say, but look at resources on the different responses to shit tests, and choose accordingly. Or just wait for an a more experienced person to comment off some one liner you can copy paste. I'd suggest the former as it will help you learn and internalize it better.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 03:22 AM
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A comment I just wrote in reply to someone else who posted Rollo's blog post on not shacking up: Convincing, along with other things I've read today. Think I'm going to end the plans to move in together. She'll be bummed but a little dread ain't so bad. Among other reasons not to, I'm really starting to hit my stride internalizing a lot of this information, and I'm likely going to need more time for myself then there has previously been in the relationship, something that would be very hard to r…
/r/askTRP17/03/15 02:24 AM
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Convincing, along with other things I've read today. Think I'm going to end the plans to move in together. She'll be bummed but a little dread ain't so bad. Among other reasons not to, I'm really starting to hit my stride internalizing a lot of this information, and I'm likely going to need more time for myself then there has previously been in the relationship, something that would be very hard to regulate living together. Thanks for posting this comment with Rollo's words, really helped solidi…
/r/askTRP17/03/15 02:19 AM
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There's no secret to overcoming approach anxiety besides approaching. The more you move the easier it is to stay in motion. Approach anxiety comes from fear of rejection, which comes from the lack of abundance mentality. Continue to increase your confidence through working out and improving yourself, and continue to approach. It will get easier.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 09:58 PM
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Yeah, not the right term. Dread game is making a girl aware of your abundance mentality, essentially. How would pursuing this enrich your life? What positive thing could you get from it? If the answer is nothing (and it should be) just move on and forget about it. Why does the infidelity of some women you dated a year ago even matter?
/r/askTRP16/03/15 09:48 PM
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How are you going to dread game another male? Anyway, move on. Not at all worth it. If its not moving forward your life its a waste of time.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 09:43 PM
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If you can't hold frame always restrict contact, pursue other girls to get back abundance mentality, and lift.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 09:40 PM
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If getting to the gym is trouble I'd consider getting what you need at home, as 3 training days a week is generally optimal. Also, if equipment is too expensive, look further into bodyweight training (I personally advocate bodyweight muscle training over anything because I feel it to be the most natural and true to our primal selves, as well as practical and very fun.) And don't be fooled, you can get ripped from BW training (though if you want a bodybuilders physique you'll need weights). Anywa…
/r/askTRP16/03/15 09:36 PM
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Lolol that's great. Anyway, yeah, looks like a written contract onced-over by a lawyer is what I'm going to do.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 09:10 PM
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There was domestic abuse, he was beating his GF. Good point though. Will have to further research.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 09:08 PM
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I have a family-friend lawyer I can speak to. I'll definitely contact him about this. Definitely a gamble, after all, AWALT. (But it will never NOT be a gamble, so, gotta take risks.) But she's proven to be good LTR material, and am kinda seeing this as further testing of her potential.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 09:02 PM
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Oh, interesting. Mentioned it in another comment, but am considering having her sign a contract defining these things.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 08:48 PM
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Verbal. Though a notarized contract sounds like a good idea. And she is pretty understanding (knows RP theory and where I'm coming from), and don't think shed have any objection to signing it. No clarification on who does the breaking. Don't know those laws very well, will research. We will be splitting bills evenly.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 08:47 PM
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Unless I can create a sub-lease? A notarized document defining these things?
/r/askTRP16/03/15 08:40 PM
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Absolutely. This would be happening with or without her.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 08:38 PM
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Um, not hard at all? I've dealt with it before. The cops literally stood over his shoulder till he had everything out of my house. If they are on the lease is when it gets difficult.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 08:37 PM
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She will not be on the lease and its been made clear a breakup will serve as a two-weeks notice for her to move out. Any un-civil conduct in that time (banging dudes in my house) will result in her stuff packed up and locked outside. Looks like I've got my bases covered, just wanted to make sure I didn't miss anything.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 08:30 PM
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http://therationalmale.com Find the posts on plate theory. Sidebar of the main sub is chalk full of great information.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 08:18 PM
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True, haha. Though we've known each other for years, and dated back in 2013 (which lasted six months before falling apart due to my BP-ness then. Word, p much what I'm doing. We will have our own rooms from the get-go, she will not be on the lease, and I can handle bills fine if she does end up leaving.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 08:08 PM
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