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You can be young and end up with kids with health issue just from your genetics. So your point is moot. You're making it seem that fertility goes insanely down for women and that there's a bunch of complications at young ages which to me is pretty concerning you think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:27 AM
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I mean they don't need to really, you see their kids as proof, or the hundreds of women who get told they weren't able to get pregnant- panicking because they got pregnant. Most women get pregnant after 25 and that's the healthiest age even though pregnancy itself is already damn dangerous but to lie to yourself and act like your anecdote is the norm is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:14 AM
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She had fertility issues then, this is not the average or the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:03 PM
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Be careful for telling her truth as a man, they'll call you a white knight, but you're correct lol and saying men age better is such a crazy delusion lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:43 AM
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He's all over this thread...I think he's taking this really personal and is probably an old man with a younger wife (if his flair is to be believed that is).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:39 AM
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There are so many older men who date women younger then their children. So having daughters doesn't mean shit and it's always sad we're not seen as people deserving of empathy until a man has a daughter and even still, many don't change their misogynistic ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:38 AM
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Thank you! A girl in my gaming group was dating an asshole who was my age at the time (35) and kept pressuring her (20) at the time to do stuff sexually she didn't want to do but did to make him happy. Dude even tried adding me to their relationship and she came to me telling me that I was the only woman she trusted because he wouldn't stop telling her that he wants to add another woman to their relationship. I blocked him, and gave her advice the best that I could and told her I'm always here f…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:34 AM
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For me it's experience. I don't want these old men but most of the younger women I know who ended up with an older dude learned the reason why women hide she wasn't interested. And btw feel like I'm taking crazy pills but women age must better than men and this is just fact. We're the ones who take care of our skin better, we're the ones who get more cosmetic procedures done, we're the ones to me then not go to the doctors. I'm really sick and tired of the bullshit ageism towards women. Most of …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:29 AM
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Why can men want hot women but we're supposed to not want hot men lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:26 AM
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How many men try to tell lesbian women that they aren't really lesbian and that their dick is magical and can change them lol This has nothing to do with leagues- it has to do with men truly hate women and just see us as incubators and vessels for their orgasm, and if we're oh so lucky- we get to be a free therapist for them too! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:42 AM
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Their history...yikes ☠️.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:31 AM
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No shit lol the women do all the work. I pity them because they were spoonfed lies about the beauty of parenthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:38 AM
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It actually does lol sza even did a song about "big boys" https://youtu.be/B9Z5YtWOJBM?si=kMjrGGBh5A9b1GPC
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:17 PM
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A fat woman rejected him. Lol that's all I can tell from his responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:37 PM
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Yet BBW is a top category, and look at the amount of subscribers to /r/chubby. You like what you like, that's cool and all and fat positivity is just about treating people with respect, that's it. It's not that hard to not be an asshole. Why is it so hard for men to respect women they don't find attractive? Because women only exist for your eye candy and if they don't do that, it makes you guys mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:35 PM
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Everyone can be entitled to what they want. Doesn't mean they will get it. Why shouldn't fat women be able to have standards? Just cause you don't find them attractive, plenty men do. Attraction is subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:49 PM
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You don't understand at all what I'm saying. What I'm saying is why is it I can find a woman or man attractive and refrain from making them uncomfortable? Knowing how to read the room and vibes are telling. If men could learn to control themselves like majority women can it wouldn't be a problem. Why do you think so many women pretend to be men online or use male names/pictures? Because you guys act like animals and it's annoying as hell. Control yourselves. It's not that hard to not be a damn c…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:57 PM
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It is difficult to understand men sexuality as a woman. As someone with a high libido, and an attracted to women like 75 percent compared to 25 percent of men, I do not understand why men can turn every conversation sexual. I don't understand why it's so difficult to be friends with straight men without them either being an asshole to me cause they think I'm ugly, or being an asshole to me because I don't want to talk to them sexually. It's honestly a concept I feel like women will never underst…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:54 AM
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I'm not listening to anyone who plays league about dating advice. /s On a more serious note, you're absolutely correct. I just hate how they speak about women who are "promiscuous", and the double standard. It's really simple, just date people who have the values that match your own, but these same guys are so sexually deprived they're desperate and if given the opportunity they will sleep with these "sluts" and then come on here and complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:27 AM
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Upfront women scare men off. They say they want women upfront but I've noticed if I'm super upfront and unabashed, they lose interest compared to when I played "childish mind games". Anyways, men like that aren't my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 10:26 PM
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They say it in this sub all the time that the lose respect for a woman who does the same thing he wanted and the same thing they did. These fools can't make up their minds lol they are their own women repellent, and for good reason cause God I'd feel bad for any woman who ends up on a date with any of the (majority) of men in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 10:23 PM
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I never said it was but I wouldn't be dating or talking to a guy if I thought he was ugly, so that wouldn't be an issue in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:05 PM
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So is it not all men or is it all men? Which is it? It's like men must really be bad if you guys sit here and admit women need to be warned about their intentions and the dangers of men. You guys know majority men are awful, you just hate to admit you're statistically probably one of the bad guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:58 PM
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No but why would we want to date an ugly guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:54 PM
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It's his personality lol look at his post. Absolute dump fire. Thinks women shouldn't have bodily anatomy...so you were right, lots of misogyny from this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:05 PM
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I guess same can be said about men then...the older they are the more baggage they have so honestly why would any woman want an older inexperienced man who has failed with women all their life so most likely is ugly anyways? Lol do yall think you're some prize or something? The delusions are real.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:45 PM
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Why are you saying no one does this? Have you ever met a BPD person? Some of us are ok with hookups when they happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:01 AM
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Um you're so wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:59 AM
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I'm just saying, men don't even acknowledge ugly women and they think a man wanting to use you as a fleshlight is a prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 08:53 AM
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Exactly. Men can't bare to be alone the same way women can handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:08 AM
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This is all in your head. Would you date every woman who threw themselves at you? It's ok to have standards and boundaries. Men are just desperate and can't accept that lonely women are better off then lonely men because women support other women while it's not "masculine" for men to seek therapy or check in on their friends and have serious talks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:07 AM
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Men are down right nasty to ugly women and there are many studies that prove this, hell I made a post about this very same thing and many men admitted that unattractive women anooy them even if they did or said nothing to them. They've even admitted just being in the vicinity of an ugly woman makes them mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:02 AM
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Wow why are you in here? Lol a sane man. Like literally, context matters. The men on this subreddit are too obtuse to understand the two. Glad to see a man who understands women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:00 PM
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Women still look youthful in their 30s if they take career of themselves. I rather look my age now then I did in my twenties. I looked like a child for so long it was weird. I feel like so many men can't tell a woman's age at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:38 AM
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What a weird comment. A lot of people don't want children and for good reasons too. This is such a weird take.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:32 AM
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It's not childish or selfish to live a hedonistic lifestyle. Live for yourself not for what you think or where you should be in life. Maybe it's a cis-straight man thing to think your only purpose is to have spawns.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:58 AM
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Lol that's not how it works and I am better without one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:22 AM
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I knew at 10 I don't want children. I do not want to give birth, I do not feel any maternal instinct to have children. I do not want to waste money on a parasite. I think the world is fucked already and there's no need to have children, and if anything it's selfish to have them. Yeah maybe people who can't give birth may claim they are antinatalist as a cope, but if you look at the /r/regretfulparents subreddit you'll realize more people than not do not want children and don't find them to be fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:25 AM
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Huh? Please tell me how women can't feel loneliness? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:57 PM
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They have other issues and being single isn't one of them. They need to work on themselves and be emotionally healthy before being in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:56 PM
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Double edged sword...they think being in a relationship will fix their problems, and then put such a toxic burden on their partner if they hypothetically get one. I know the question is for men, but like I've been there still am but my reasonings are much different. A partner will not change that at all and it's just very difficult being the partner of someone who is mentally unwell and relying on you for happiness instead of having their own personality and passions. A gf/bf won't fix your ment…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:51 PM
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What do you think of people who are child-free then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:45 PM
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Hmm wonder why this man is alone...and you know damn well what he meant by that (racism at its finest).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:33 PM
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Perpetrated by other men, more likely to be the victim of crime again by other men. I recognize issues men face, but gatekeeping hobbies has to be the dumbest thing. Know how many of us girls grew up bullied and made fun of because our hobbies weren’t like other girls? You know how many of us who weren’t attractive in high school constantly humiliated and told to kill ourselves by both boys and girls just for being different? This shouldn’t be a who has it worst or who had it worst competition b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:53 PM
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Dude I literally grew up with computers and game systems since I was a child. My first computer was black screen with green text, I had an atari, sega genesis, pico, dreamcast, play station…and I can go on. I grew up playing pokemon, I has a gameboy so get the fuck out of here trying to gatekeep this shit. You think autistic women don’t exist? Do you treat other men the same and think they’re “faking” the hobby? A lot of dudes who are streamers weren’t even true gamers and actually kind of suck …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:29 PM
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Your example of a yoga class is a better example, I can see why women would feel weird and think you’re there for other reasons cause sadly PUA have told guys to try that to pick up women, but I just don’t think it’s the same as questioning someone saying nothing to anybody and gaming and getting harassed by dudes for it. Not to belittle your experience because that does suck, yoga could benefit everyone, but it’s just not the same. As for your white women comment- they deal with shit but absolu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:22 PM
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Our paranoia is warranted because you know rape, and murder. You're paranoid about women joining hobbies or looking certain things because they're "male-dominant". They are not the same, ffs. Don't quiz or ask people shit in general. Just let people be why say anything in the first place? That's why so many men don't realize there's for more women online and in gaming who use male names because simply having a feminine make gets you harassed, quizzed and trash talked simony for being a woman. We…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:07 PM
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I'm not responsible for other women's behaviors and if that's the case I'm justified in thinking every man is a rapist pedo cause other men have shown me they think that way. What a dumb thing to say and btw no I don't treat every man like a threat even though I should tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:57 PM
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Yeah but I don't ever see men gatekeep other men and think they joined a hobby or a class for nefarious reasons. Men always love to quiz women. Hell, as a black woman I get quizzed on music I enjoy and then they get quiet real quick when they learn I know more about them then they thought. It literally made me drop comp Sci because of how the men in my class treated me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:51 PM
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Dating app stats prove nothing. And I stand by what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:21 PM
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Gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:11 AM
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I'll agree on Jon Hamm, MBJ, and Chace Crawford. The rest I can say are attractive by society standards, but I personally don't find them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:06 AM
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This just isn't true lmao men are awful with guessing age, they are bad at guessing weight and on top of that lots of men are trying to get with older women, it's just most older women don't want younger men in that capacity aside for maybe sex. Women take care of their looks much better then men do, that's just a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:02 AM
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This entire sub is a joke. I forgot how I found it, but reach day it's something even more stupid. Women shout from the sky what we like (despite not being a monolith, there are traits women appreciate over than men do) yet they don't believe us. They tell us what they find ugly and unattractive like piercings, tattoos, colorful hair yet women still do this. It's like banging your head on a wall. Doubt dude is trolling, he just most likely hates women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:52 PM
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Chad I think I'm dating? What's a Chad look like to you? You don't know my type at all lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:48 PM
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Average or below average men are my type or who guys or others would consider ugly, I would think are cute. I think Rupert Grint is cute, I also think the comedian on SNL Kyle Mooney is cute, but most would not find these men attractive. But assume I "want" Chad though lmao Name an actor you'd consider a Chad because I'm curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:48 PM
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The men I I'm interested in don't want me. I learned the hard way that many men are ok with having sex with black women, but for long-term, no way. And I'm average but also tall and statuesque, most men don't want a woman taller than them, when I on the other hand don't care about height (I'm 5'11).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:45 PM
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Pretty much. I can probably get a hobosexual if I were desperate enough for a relationship. Like I'm older now, I know what I want from a guy and I just don't want to waste anyone's time, plus I'm into a very niche kink that most men aren't up for so then again I'm limited, plus I'm not hot enough or young enough to even be that picky so why bother? I had a friend get mad at me and not realize me removing myself from the dating pool is because I realized I was and am the problem with the great g…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:42 PM
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Using females instead of women, yet you say men instead of males. You guys are funny for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:08 PM
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This is bullshit. Men have a laundry list of what they want from women and they will use you as a placeholder til they find the perfect woman to them. It's just not worth dating if you're a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:03 PM
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Cause men can't help but turn every damn platform to a dating app. Literally aren't even safe from damn LinkedIn with thirsty ass useless dudes. Men are mad that women have the upper hand in dating and are happier single then wasting time on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:01 PM
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Men confuse who they find attractive with what women find attractive. They don't understand the Pete Davidson attraction, or Timothee Chalamat, Ezra Miller, Adam Driver...I can go on. But many of the men guys use as an example are attractive but I wouldn't be attracted to them. The worst is them thinking many woman find Jason Mamoa, or The Rock hot. Not one woman I know irl is attracted to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:36 PM
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And there are just as many men who say they want a relationship, when they just want to wine and dine a chick and smash and pass. They admit it on this sub constantly. ​ Oh this just in- women have money too, whodathunkit!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:57 AM
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Women do pursue. Just look at the amount of men from my last thread who said women pursued them and they turned them down because they didn't find the woman attractive. Men want the hottest women in the world so why can't women? Except at least many women are able to overlook looks over a man's good behavior, whereas men overlook bad behavior because of a woman's looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:50 PM
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Do you think most dates are dinner dates? Most people meet up for coffee or drinks at the bar. And about the sex part? If that's your only reason for going on a date is to get sex that is sad. Majority women aren't looking for sex they're looking fir a relationship. Also most dates the check is split but in my dating experience a lot of men have been offended if I tried to pay the bill. You sound like someone who has never dated and don't know women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:40 PM
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This is suuuch bullshit. Why is it always a woman vs man thing? We all want partners were attracted to and @OP if you're gonna post this why not post the original that this came from. It was reaction to the woman version of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:23 PM
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Louder for the people in the back. The amount of coping in this server.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:59 AM
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Dude have you been online? This sounds like a dog whistle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:58 AM
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This is how I feel about unattractive men who I'm polite to. Then they try to get with me, but the downside to that is I'm afraid of their reaction so I just tell them excuses (works 25/75 of the time) There's a sub about why women don't say no. So on that note my post just proved how both men put so much emphasis on looks that they don't even want them best them. I don't want to be mean about my few make men friends but they are grotesque looking but funny and fun and just great energy. Men jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:57 AM
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You're online too much. This is not reality. Men get so much leeway for being ugly. Woman's most valuable asset in a relationship is her looks. Women date ugly men all the time. Men do not. So stop with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:25 PM
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I do go outside lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:59 PM
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I know that feeling. A man can check all the boxes but then I realize he has a toxic view on women. There's so many good looking men who are misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:39 PM
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I get treated like a dude because I game with dudes. Post isn't about me. You can see my past posts. I'm not hideous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:37 PM
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I have pretty privilege. Post isn't about me. I get invited to random parties, I've been invited on a yacht but people I had just met, I get free stuff. I'm not complaining. I try to ugly myself m down and still get hit on. This post made me angry about how a friend was treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:36 PM
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Just because they do neither right. Only difference these men threaten to kill you and tell you you need to kill your self because their tortured by their looks, but when a hideous ugly man comes in the channel they praise him and I guess that's the only nice thing to do. One person's day or life is ruined while right is basmsking in compliment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:32 PM
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Average women don't, maybe really super attractive women do. Average women mostly don't care about looks with friends. I was friends with who is considered by universal standards, ugly. Yet he was short, like 5'3 but funny and outrageous. He even has a wife and 3 children. His charismatic personality and crazy stunts is what made him him. Looks really matter to men and teenage bullies (girls) in high school. I sadly was subjected to this in high school but whatever I've moved on but the prank th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:28 PM
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😂 thank you for the laugh. I'm glad you get it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:23 PM
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It's worst. Discord. No one knew what she looked line and she had friends and everything that knew her, when they saw her in cam they cutoff believe it and it got so gross we left. Some of the bullies were her friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:49 AM
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No I'm pretty good looking. I am just crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:47 AM
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I'm not unattractive though. These sane men tried to get with me. This post was more about a friend. And the observations I've seen. You can see literally in reddit how a Wuhan accomplished something and if she's ugly they attack her looks. Don't downplay this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:46 AM
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On top of that when I join, they post gorilla pictures, change my name to something racist. Lost goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:35 AM
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I'd love for you to see the things people hand sis to me when they didn't find me attractive. Stalked me, threatened to kill me, ten me to kill myself, constantly posting revenge porn someone else posted. So yeah, vicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:34 AM
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Ngl I didn't lmao I just saw a credible source and the title. You caught me. But hey! It opened a discussion! Good on you calling me out. I should've used another but I anyways use them for credibility. I fucked up huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:29 AM
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I may have posted the wrong study. I was looking and reading multiple, but there's overwhelming proof men are vicious to women they think are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:26 AM
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This is not what the post is about. You completely missed the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:12 AM
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Thank you for telling your truth and growing and having insight at such an early age. What you grew to have was empathy. I'm proud of you and wish more men would admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:11 AM
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Also your last part is very true. I'm an easy target but the men who bully me are men I rejected. They save my porn, secretly record me, sell my porn to other men, it's an absolute cluster fuck. I made this post though about how they made my friend cry and was so mean to her telling her too turn her cam off and saying shit like ugly woman should be murdered. I didn't know they would treat her like that and it made me feel awful. She's extremely obese but a sweetheart, but the chat was just about…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:09 AM
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What? You don't know my experiences. I primarily date white men and have been told I have pretty privilege from the lifestyle I live and how men treat me. You may think that but many don't. This post isn't about me, I know how to get a man, I just have mental issues and other stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:03 AM
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Ugly women's opportunities are being used for sex. Men even admit that they lower their standards for sex but for dating they won't even want to be seen in public with this kind of woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:58 AM
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Not in my experience. Buy they can be mean but men are so evil with theirs. The amount of stories of women who were being dated as a joke, or part of a bet is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:30 AM
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You guys are so bad at reading. No where am I saying all men, there's just been a rise with men being so openly mean to women they don't find attractive. They will hate you and bully you for no reason then other than you're ugly and don't make their peepee hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:28 AM
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I'm not ugly though. Maybe to some but most people find me attractive. You can see my profile for pics and decide for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:37 AM
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I was talking to my friends in a server and they started talking racist stuff and attacking me. Telling me why haven't I died yet. These men are blocked but it bothers me how acceptable it is to shit on black people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:35 AM
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Wanna see the message I get?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:35 PM
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I'm talking about bullying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:12 PM
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Men are much more vicious to women they find ugly or to women who rejected them. Men have admitted it themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:05 PM
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People use it as an insult when they say you're such-and-such age without kids. So why shouldn't/wouldn't they defend their stance? People who don't want kids are shamed and called selfish, or immature. So yeah, we're gonna shout to the mountains and defend our stance. Like stop worrying about other people not wanting kids, it's such a weird ass thing to care about. Like how does it effect you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:10 PM
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This is the correct answer. Huge difference between the two. I am by choice, but do know some older women who missed out, let themselves go and are miserable. Not to say I'm perfect and not miserable for other reasons, but being child-free is definitely the greatest thing. Can't imagine my life the way I want it to be if I had children.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:40 PM
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Maybe they like pets, since pets are easier than children? What's wrong with that? As for the drinking- at least they're better than the regretful "wine-moms", since they can afford to drink. I think you're thinking way too much about it. I'm 36 and not an ounce of me regrets not having children. I knew since 10 years old I didn't want kids and still don't. Also stop comparing how others are and thinking less of them and thinking you'll be like them. The way you phrase this is like you're on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:37 PM
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Ok, so it's not me. Got it. Tf are they on about?.SHE WAS A CHILD on GoT. How is she not young? My God. I must be one foot in the grave then the way these men are so telling on themselves icks me tf out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:41 AM
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No. I said it correctly. It's selfish to force life on someone, end of story. If you can look at the state of the world and think it's great idea to bring another human being into it then you are selfish. It is not selfish to not want to be an incubator for another human being in a shitty world. If anything it's the most selfless thing you can do- not have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:14 PM
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How am I competition to these men? Clout? What are you, 16? I didn't ask to be born "bruh" (let me speak like you I guess). Are you saying I should be killed because I don't want to be a brooding mare? Please elaborate cause if so you are unhinged, further proving my comment. Your genes aren't important Skippy. Nothing you do in life matters or be memorable. All you narcissistic men who want to carry on your bloodline like you're something important, are the same type of men against programs and…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:56 AM
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Risk of losing your teeth, hair, urination problems the rest of your life, vaginal prolapse, anal prolapse, must I go on? The risks is not worth the reward. Plus- PPD, dealing with a NEWBORN in general, the risk that your partner will eventually leave you, then wait for it- SINGLE MOTHERS are the most horrific, selfish cretins on earth who are the reason of societal failure! Yeah man...single mothers, the parent who stayed, not the man who left is the problem. Fuck these loser ass men. They are …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:38 AM
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They're the ones angry the most too...lol it's crazy to me, but not surprising. That's why conservatives are pushing so hard to take away women's fertility rights so women can be incubators for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:09 AM
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Lol how is it selfish? It's selfish to HAVE kids if anything. It's the most narcissistic thing. I don't want my body destroyed anymore than it already is, I don't want to risk new health issues or possibly die just to have some kid that's going to piss me off the most during the baby phase. Why can't you people grasp the reality that people don't want kids? I bet it's mostly men in these comments too cause you guys don't bare any of the horrific burden of having a child. I'm glad more and more w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:07 AM
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It's a waste of your breathe to even say this. We tell them what we're attracted to and they don't listen. The men they find to be considered attractive isn't attractive to majority women. Lots of men think men like Ezra Miller, Adam Driver, Pete Davidson...I can go on- but so many men are baffled by why women find them attractive. And it's absolutely true, women are more open to dating variety of men because we can over look their looks of their personality and vibe is right, and grow to be att…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:03 PM
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Ok? What's your point? Why do I care about what those men are doing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:59 PM
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No, it isn't. Maybe you're ok with the bare minimum, but I'm happier alone then wasting time with emotionally unavailable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:55 PM
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Your analogy is stupid. I'm better off single anyways. Is it what I want? Not really. But I'm tired of dating and I don't need a man for anything that I can't do myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:25 AM
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Things he did in the past after we got back together and he moved in with me again. Wasn't cheating, just some manipulative emotional abuse, cause I was still in love or thought I was. Eventually it just got too much that seeing his face or knowing he was even in the house made me angry and I knew there was just no going back to what we had before.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:11 PM
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Quality over quantity. Sure we can get a guy, but are they a quality man? Will they respect me? Will they not up and replace me when they're bored? Cheat on me? Belittle me? List goes on. There's way too many garbage men out there to risk wasting your time. That's why many women later in life choose to be single because it's tiring sifting through dirt to find someone who is a good match for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:01 PM
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The honeymoon phase is awesome living together, but after years at least for me, living with a man made me just resent him more and more. Don't think I can live with a partner ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:57 PM
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Why are you sensitive and think my tone is angry? I'm not angry like the loser men who post here sweetie.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:00 PM
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Wtf if you can't hold your orgasm that sounds like a you problem. My partners have told me if they're going to cum and could hold off cumming until I was ready so we could orgasm together. You people sound inexperienced asf, but not surprising coming from this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:31 PM
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Yeah please tell me where this world is so I can live there lol idk why I stay on this subreddit. It's everyday a woe is me post from men blaming women for their own failings.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:17 PM
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Where did I say it's something women give? If you have that mindset that's a you problem. Women are less likely to benefit most of the time cause so many men are awful at it and selfish. There's physical evidence when a man cums, a woman can fake it just to get it over it then some guys wonder why they didn't get a call back. How's that being clingy? There has been times I've had great sex and hated the person and did not get clingy to them at all. Get out of here with this BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:16 PM
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Explain the orgasm gap then? Lol you people are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:39 AM
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That's the issue, you want to please your partner for selfish reasons and not because you ACTUALLY want them pleased if you're threatened by them having experience and knowing what they like. If this isn't the case then you're not the you're of man I'm referring to but many men are intimidated by sex toys, don't understand majority women can't cum/orgasm from PIV, and many men also skip foreplay and expect women to be blessed by their golden cocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:05 AM
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What it means is you're so warped by your own inexperience, that a lot of you men make pleasing your partner about you and your ego, and not about actually pleasing your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:57 AM
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A lot of people find relationships later in life, some don't but everyone has baggage. Nobody's perfect, it's just so many people seem to not want anything serious, or are always looking for someone "better".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 05:03 PM
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I hate this term and how you guys just always reduce women to their looks. BTW women do the same thing so this isn't Gerber specific and wouldn't get you hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 03:51 PM
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So I actually loved that song, I listen more to the music and the singing sometines then the actual lyrics and then when I realized it, like you I cringed. Do I enjoy the song still? For nostalgic reasons yes, but the lyrics are horrible. Reminds me of Pumped Up Kicks, and my favorite sorry to tell is a song by The Dresden Dolls- Coin Operated Boy that I had no idea at the time was about a dildo/vibrator so I played it a lot and accidentally made it my younger sibling favorite song. We joke abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:53 PM
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This and "Misery Business" by Paramore are always talked down on as pick-me girl songs. They are usually always dragged through the mud, but at least Hailey has spoken about her embarrassment of that song. I don't listen or follow Taylor swift so idk if she's ever said anything about her song though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:48 PM
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There it is :) point proven. Completely derailing the conversation to something irrelevant, off topic and a personal attack. Typically expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:23 AM
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You sound young because your primary focus is LOOKS. This is what frustrates me so much with this sub, you guys want a fucking ornament to brag about, not a genuine partner. Showing your mom a picture of your friends girlfriend, and your moms comment? That is the most childish shit I've heard. I'm hoping you're under 25 because if you aren't and are doing this you need some mental health. -"On a societal level, this is bad" What? How is his relationship effecting you in anyway? Because she's not…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:13 AM
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I like banter and shit talking, and there's guys who know the perfect balance of doing it which has made me have crushes on them (since they live further) but aren't really my type physically. It's just we mesh well. This is what women want- well some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:57 AM
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Why did you feel bad for him if he's happy? That makes absolutely no sense. Men here complain all the time they would be hurt if their partner didn't find them the hottest person, but here you go feeling sorry for a guy in a relationship dating someone who you feel looks like a 3/10. This is absolutely why I find rating people so tasteless. You don't know what he likes or why they're together but your focus on getting hot women is the shit women are annoyed with and when they say women who are g…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:48 AM
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No lol you should see the worst men I've hooked up with 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:56 AM
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Can't win 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:19 PM
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Men on my level treat me the same. Even worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:06 PM
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But attractive enough to fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:33 PM
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Haha yeah I know but there's just history there. I don't know what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:33 PM
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No one's crying victim. I'm saying make it clear with your intentions and not lead a woman on. Don't be on a dating app and saying you're looking for a ltr, then have said chick come to your house who was already weary about you in general, have drinks a great laugh and chat- great sex then ghost til you're bored and horny again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:32 PM
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Men can do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:26 PM
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No you're right. It's just difficult :/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:25 PM
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I probably needed to hear this, it's just been so long. I feel I'm at a crossroad. I love the sex between him and I but I don't even get any after care or pampered by him. I cum first as he makes sure of that but it's after he cums it's take me home . This is embarrassing to admit :/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:23 PM
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Be honest then and end up with no sex. Therefore she's not led on risking her sexual health just to be another boost count to a man who doesn't give a fuck about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:21 PM
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We wouldn't be confused if men just flat out told us they only want to use our holes and nothing else, instead of buttering us up with lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:19 PM
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That's how I feel. If there's a spark where we want to ravish each other then there's gotta be more to it to explore.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:17 PM
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I end it constantly to the point he thinks I'm insane but he always comes back.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:16 PM
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You have your body up the same way, you have no respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:16 PM
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Women can't win. We get lied to, led on, taken advantage of and decide to leave the dating world altogether- were blamed for the decline of relationships. I'm better off alone then dealing with builshit and waiting. I can be alone comfortably.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:14 PM
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The latter I would. But he's very standoffish and weird towards me like I don't know if he cares about me at all but there's been moments he's been jealous and has queries about my safety. I just don't know what to do. I've only been with him this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:11 PM
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Huh? How is that unlikely? You were down for a hookup too. Why is the onus on the woman? If one man is making me feel good I'd obviously want to see him more and not have to crawl through the garbage that are other men. Then mindset men have is so foreign to me. You did the exact same thing, why aren't you a ho not ready to settle down?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:09 PM
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Make it well known your intentions though so no one's feelings are hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:06 PM
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One fwb: 15 years another fwb:7 years. The latter has called me a low tier woman in the past and has never taken me on a date in public. I will be honest, he's probably much much more attractive than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:03 PM
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Thanks for the honesty, and happy for you and your wife. My only gripe is, when you were hooking up while not looking for a ltr did you let these women know? I've been lead on knowing I want more but they just play games.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:59 PM
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If he hooked you with me that easily that means he has done it with many other women and I'm not that special if that's the case. I hookup when I am really into the person after deep conversations and getting to know each other. I find them special and want to continue on, but in most my cases I'm just a fetish and treated as such, so I have stopped hooking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:56 PM
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I couldn't date and fall for someone without knowing our sexual chemistry will match.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:51 PM
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True. I've used men I had no interest in just to get me off and not return the favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:50 PM
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I digress. Many women sleep with men who aren't what other men see as high value. What men think is high value, most women do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:49 PM
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But couldn't the same be said for the man? They both consented and wanted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:47 PM
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Women are more comfortable with being alone than men are. It's just fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:06 AM
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See how you said relationships and you resort to dick? You can get dick too you know!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:06 AM
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Not a monolith and plenty blobs are in relationships lol You guys aren't a reflection of the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:19 AM
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Keyword: Hot. Lol the women they would actually get along with isn't their physical type which is understandable but they hate when women have standards though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:58 AM
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Also misdiagnosed with personality disorders. I'm BPD, but realizing I'm on the spectrum with some of the things I do, and no men don't like me more because of it. They think I'm weird asf but it is what it is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:56 AM
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It's online every where and how women write erotica is completely different from how straight men think sexually. For the women who do watch porn majority do watch gay males because they are most always attractive and much more erotic compared to the abusive straight male shit that doesn't care about the woman at all. He won't listen to the information though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:41 AM
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Gay porn is mostly watched by women. The men are hotter and attentive. Straight porn and lesbian porn is watched by men and for the male gaze and doesn't cater to women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:38 AM
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Lol I was about to say. Most women prefer gay porn and bi men because they're much more attentive imo. This is all anecdotal but it's always men who are afraid of bi men because they're afraid bi men will treat them the same way cis-straight men treat women. Having two men please you and focus on your pleasure? What woman wouldn't want that? Yeah there's some, but women's sexuality is so shamed admitting to wanting two dudes at once makes you disgusting and not worthy apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:04 PM
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Lmao did you follow me from somewhere else?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:26 AM
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I don't get what you're saying nor understand why you're sorry lol its just the way the world is. Just saying I wish men cared more for personality than looks then many wouldn't be on here complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:19 AM
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Yeah and that's how the women who get pumped and dumped feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:11 AM
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Women don't care about looks like men do, and to explain it further it doesn't mean they find you unattractive it's just that objectively to others you aren't the best looking but in their eyes you're the sexiest man on earth. There have been men I felt repulsed by physically, but upon knowing them better, I started to find them attractive. This doesn't seem to happen with men though so you won't get it. Just how us women will never understand how looks matter more to you instead of a god person…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:20 AM
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Then it's OUR fault for believing they actually liked us for more than sex, just look at the answers in the current /r/askreddit thread. Like it's damned if we do, dammed if we don't and it's so annoying they assume we want what they think are "hot" men. So many men think Adam Driver, Pete Davidson, Ezra Miller and a few others are ugly men when women say the complete opposite. They tell us that we dress for their attention, yet women continue to get tattoos, piercings, wear high waisted skirts/…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 09:41 PM
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What an insensitive disgusting comment. And you guys wonder why women don't care to give a fuck about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:20 PM
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Seriously. It's hard to trust what men say or gauge their actual attraction when they say all the time they would fuck a woman willing to fuck them but not date them. Why should women put their sexual health at risk for losers like this? Also lonely women do exist who aren't chasing (god I hate saying this) "Chads" a lot have mental issues, physical disabilities and/or are just exhausted from the same bullshit. I find it funny though that women are more comfortable with being a lone or dating so…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:18 PM
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I don't need to do an experiment lol I know how men are and even other men in this thread are saying the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:28 PM
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You're fucking delusional if you think any man that matched those women wanted to know them. Maybe the 1st one because she just looks average to me, but the other two of they were getting messages it was too be used as a flesh light cause dudes were down that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:42 PM
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It's simple. They didn't see you as gf/wife material, but they also want to put their dick in you. They especially hate women who enjoy sex, but they assume a woman who does is automatically a "slut". Madonna/Whore complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 09:29 PM
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People who downvote comments this disagree with simply have no idea what the downvote button is for. I didn't downvote you but I did day my piece. Older women just know men's true nature now and it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:37 PM
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Jaded because they didn't know the true nature of men til their later years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:50 PM
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Tell them to stop stalking me. Don't ask me to be civil if you're not going to do the same about them. Literally was no reason for them to go through my history because it's irrelevant of the post at hand. I'm just calling them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:26 PM
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That's like telling a depressed person to outside and don't be sad! What horrible advice. When I say ugly I'm talking UGLY.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:25 PM
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It's creepy that you went that far back and are trying to gather Intel on me or some shit. Get a fucking hobby you weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:18 PM
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Why does having a match that you're not into matter so much? Men fucked it up by doing this. How difficult is it to just swipe on who you find attractive instead of matching women you're not interested in?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:15 PM
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Great point. It's always sad to me when a pedophile teacher is attractive and men come out the woodwork saying they wished it was them. It's sickening, and it's usually women who are the ones calling that shit out and how gross it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:13 PM
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They for the life of themselves don't understand it. And when they think of ugly women, they think of actually good looking women. Like I'm talking about truly ugly women and it's like it's lost on them and they can't grasp that, also they think these women are punching above their weight, when it's men who care Suu much about looks when women just want someone they can get along with. And btw I'm not saying all men or women are like that, just an observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:10 PM
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Thank you for taking the time to type this and understanding. Both face different issues, but I feel that men's issues are overshadowed by women's, and no one seems to think about the truly ugly invisible women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:53 PM
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For genuine ugly women it's not that easy but ok. I also was a fat teenager but I was slim before and creeps harassed me but I became invisible when I was close to 300 pounds. I lost that weight but it did shed light on how people treated me differently when I was ugly. But anyways, my main point is actual forever alone ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:34 PM
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she was really hot. There you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:23 PM
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My God I've seen some women be rated like a 4/5 when idk to me they're absolutely gorgeous. It then makes me question my own attractiveness sometimes. Yeah I'm not hot, I am average maybe below average, but the way men rate women online has to be a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:22 PM
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There's no such thing as the wall. I was being sarcastic and just saying the shit I hear men say.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:20 PM
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Seriously. Shit is annoying. Everyday it's a complaint about how they can't get sex. Every source theory they have revolves around sex. It's like nothing else is important to them and they hate saying it but they just want to be able to bang women they want. I doubt many men complaining want a relationship with a woman from the way they talk about them at least. They want a flesh light mommy who is a pure virgin that fucks like a porn star.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:18 PM
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You guys love bringing up being obese but plenty obese women with pretty faces are in relationships, hell they're even top paid models. I'm talking ugly dude. Like genetically ugly for things they can't change, and if there are some things they can change with cosmetic surgery or something they probably can't afford it or they would've done it by now so thus making them ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:55 PM
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Who says the guy is out of her league? Why do men always assume this? And the orgasm gap proves otherwise how women are used for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:48 PM
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I am banned from twoX. It's not the place it used to be anyways. Too militiant for me anyways and lots of bitterness there. If you disagree with them they want to shut you up. I found other smaller subs for women that are much more friendlier and open to actually discussing and accepting of different views without getting banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:45 PM
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You know...you didn't have to reply to this post since it seems to trigger you so much. Maybe work on your anger problem weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:41 PM
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Well good for them then! Sorry for being judgemental.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:38 PM
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They only upvote the attractive women on there sadly and the real ugly women are downvoted. Even the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:38 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:35 PM
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Did I ask for my opinion to be changed? "Bruh" it is flaired "discussion". Learn to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:34 PM
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What men think is attractive in a man is different then what women find attractive. I don't want a muscular beef cake. I don't want a tall giant despite me being 5'11, I just want a guy who is fun to be around, good looking (to me), knows how to express his feelings, and open minded to differing views.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:29 PM
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Which is fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:15 PM
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He has a fat fetish then. This is not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:13 PM
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Where do see this at or are you just blind to the endless bullying towards ugly women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:11 PM
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Yes. Since being fat is seen as a negative quality in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:08 PM
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Women who get used for sex most definitely have it worst. Not saying it's a competition but there's more at play here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:05 PM
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Perhaps this is true, to an extent. Mental illness, autism, socially awkwardness can actually be a factor for both genders as well as low self esteem. I think most people are attractive to an extent but that's just me, I find beauty in most people but if their attitude is gross, I'll find them gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:03 PM
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Yesss! I notice the toll of stress has taken on women my age who have children and me- child free, look younger than them. Even going out people will think I'm mid/late twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:00 PM
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I have low standards already, what's your point? The bar can't get any lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:58 PM
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Useless women who hit the wall. Lonely bitter childless cat woman. Meh...like where the hell did that even come from? I feel maybe it's that ugly single women still have a support system like friends and family, and can maybe handle it better being alone. Like what's wrong with cats anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:57 PM
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Not my experience but ok. Ugly women are treated like shit. Even women with bodies that society deem attractive but have an ugly face they will call her a "butterface" [everything looks good but her face].
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:53 PM
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Dunno in some communities I've heard many men say ugly women would not exist and should be killed. An online friend of mine who is obese and sadly ugly in the face dared turned her camera on in a discord group that is usually friendly but they bullied her relentlessly that she deleted her account. Like people were telling her to kill herself, and all sorts of evil malicious things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:50 PM
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Yup. It's dumb. I've seen men post their profiles for dating and I would say wow why aren't they getting any matches? Genuinely attractive men, even average guys that made themselves presentable and had great profiles barely got matches. Sometimes I think they do this on purpose ssi men will pay for the app tbh. And sadly the obese friend is the type of girl they match with at 3am looking to fuck and never speak to again until months later after a dry spell 💁🏾‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:47 PM
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I would like to think so. Many people seem to like my energy/vibe. Strangers are kind to me, I've made lots of friends through going out and being my natural self, so I do think my company is enjoyable. But I guess I can't really judge myself for someone else because to me it may seem like they enjoy my company but it may just be they tolerate it. So I suppose this is a difficult question to answer since of course there's a bias towards myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:43 PM
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If only I could show you the ugly men I have dated who treated me like garbage but alas I won't post their pictures, but trust me they are out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:38 PM
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What? I'm not invalidating their struggle/experience. I sympathize with them, but as I've said I've seen some post from men who think they're ugly when honestly it's they're attitude that is, or there are just things they can do that can slightly enhance their appearance, but so many have gotten sucked into the negative manosphere becoming bitter. Also- the ugly bumbling fat husband and hot wife isn't just a TV trope, it reflects in real life. I've only seen very rarely where the male is far mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:36 PM
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Quality over quantity. Many men are the reason "swipe" apps are screwed because they would swipe on any woman just hoping to get a match. That means absolutely nothing. I'd rather have 2 genuine matches from men genuinely interested in me and attracted to me, then to be bombarded by men who think I'm good enough to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:32 PM
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Sad but true. I'm sure you're not even mid though, the amount of women I see who are lonely, even men are actually more attractive then they think they are. I think maybe it boils down to how we now interact with one another which is digital- making people even more lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:30 PM
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Ugh you know what gets to me the most? Men even people are so bad at age and them setting their age limit to 25 when they're like 35 and think that women over 25 suddenly age like raisins. Most women in their thirties (if they take care of themselves) look like they're still in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:27 PM
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They're not even teenagers. These are grown ass men, which makes it even worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:24 PM
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I don't get what you're asking? But then again I am not the voice of who is attractive and who isn't. I have a varied taste but it mostly skews towards a certain type.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:23 PM
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The mods aren't deleting their post, it's that the posts themselves seem to be something men can't empathize with because their loneliness is different than what the lonely women there are experiencing. Plus, a lot of men on there will harass women in the DMS, which is another issue on its own.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:20 PM
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I am not entitled to anything that is correct, but men aren't entitled to my body. I don't want a "gigachad", I don't even have high standards in terms of looks, I dated a guy who was 5'2 while I'm 5'11. He was just an asshole like any other, despite being nice at first. You don't know my taste in men. I sadly like nerdy men but they have some weird complex and lots of anger problems. I don't need their money, I live by myself, and am quite comfortable with my life. I also am adamant against hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:17 PM
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Oh high school is so so brutal. I was traumatized by a "joke" they pulled on me. It was horrible how I was treated. I had a best friend and she was the most gorgeous girl in school, Puerto Rican, darker skinned girl with bright green eyes, and we were only friends because we started the same day as new students. She was so kind to me but people would walk straight up to us in the computer lab where we had lunch and talk to her while her and I would be in conversation despite me being right there…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:12 PM
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Perhaps I was over exaggerating, but you get the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:07 PM
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Indeed. At my highest weight I was 140 at 15 and 5'7, ballooned up to 290 by 16 years old, due to the horrible meds they had me taking. I lost the weight when I was 18/19 and sadly no one told me about how rapid weight loss causes excess skin, but still I lost the weight started coming out of my shell around 20 and the way I was treated was like night and day. It really opened my eyes to how superficial people were. Sadly the halo effect is real. The more attractive you are the better you're tre…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:06 PM
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They do. But it got so bad that they had to make their own subreddit. Women would post in /r/lonely that is filled sadly with a lot of bitter incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:01 PM
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Ha you should've written my post because if this isn't the truth idk what is. We literally yell from the top of our lungs that we know we can get sex easily, but it's like they completely ignore that it isn't what we're looking for in dating we want a fucking connection mentally that isn't just "oh she's fuckable but idc to get to know her despite sharing common interests- she's not good enough to date!"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:00 PM
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Because sex isn't the goal. I rather masturbate. If I want to fuck someone I want to feel like they actually enjoy my company, not some warm hole for their dick to go in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:57 PM
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Exactly this. I don't think they can empathize with women who are used for sex because to them, sex seems to be their main focus, not a relationship. Those same women who have been used for sex end up wanting to withhold sex if offered a date because they are used to the male behavior and then men will say the woman isn't worth it if she's not having sex with you after three dates. Not saying it's not as bad, but its better to be lonely and not used for sex (which actually puts your sexual healt…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:49 PM
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You should try hotel lounges then, or dive bars then! At least you can talk in these sort of places, and the ambience of hotel lounges is a great way to relax and talk (and no you do not need to be a hotel guest to go them).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:37 PM
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A lot of lonely people put themselves out there just to feel defeated. When a woman posts, she is bombarded by sexually deprived men and maybe 0.01% are actually interested in her post (I made up that stat but you get the idea) Also, the dating app bumble makes the women write you first. There's been post from women even myself when I used the app, that they would write out long winded messages based on the profile just to be ignored. I've experienced this as well, even on the dating app hinge w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:35 PM
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Good on you, but drunk karaoke with friends is fun. Dancing is fun. When I go out to shows/bars/clubs it's the intention of unwinding and having a great time. I'm not looking for a hookup or a husband there. Maybe when I was younger, I entertained that behavior but still, my intentions were always just having fun with my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:27 PM
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Thank you for being the one to admit it. Men are straight up vicious to women they think are ugly for absolutely no reason except for existing and not being eye candy for them. I've noticed it on groups especially gaming servers that if they see what you look like they will bully you, for no reason. Maybe it's not a good example but it's just one of the things I've noticed. Also at bars/clubs and you're the ugly friend? You will be treated with annoyance if they're trying to talk to your hot fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:22 PM
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No I am not trolling. Why do you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:16 PM
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find almost all women attractive for enough for sex This is exactly the problem. Sex. What else is there then? Women don't want to be used for sex, they want relationships just as much as men do but all you see on here is men talking about sex. As for overweight/obese women, if they are the right kind of "fat", men will fuck/date them. I mean just look at the stats of porn hub or any category for porn and BBW is one of the highest. I mean just look at the amount of people subscribed to /r/chubby…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:14 PM
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Plenty ugly men in relationships with women equally attractive or more attractive. Rarely see the inverse. Men lower standards for sex, and have higher standards for who they date. The men who are "ugly", usually aren't even ugly, they just don't groom themselves right and have negative bitter attitudes towards women and they have high high standards and only think of women they deem as a "10/10". It's better to be an ugly man with a great personality than an ugly woman with a great personality …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:09 PM
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Ugly women don't exist and you don't know how many times I've heard some men say ugly women should be killed or hidden away. Men are far meaner in their rejection towards women they deem unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:06 PM
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They wear a mask and it comes off when things get serious. They lie and deceive then slowly as you start dating longer the real them shows. It's not like they are punching you on the first date. I hate when they say well yeah you have bad taste in men, when sometimes the flags are there but majority the times they're not because they play the long con.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 08:25 AM
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We're incubators who serve no other purpose than spitting out kids, did you not get the memo? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:54 PM
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Living a life without children is great being over 30... what are you talking about? Not every woman wants children and finally we have the right, and right information to not have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:53 PM
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Exactly. I don't believe someone who has ever strangled someone could change compared to someone who has one-off slapped/punched someone and has gotten therapy for it. There's a huge difference between how personal strangulation is as you've pointed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:14 AM
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As I agree with you, couples fight, friends fight sometimes it can get physical especially if there's been drinking involved. Doesn't mean they meant it at the time, but there's a huge difference between someone who slaps or punches you compared to someone who chokes you (I am not justifying physical abuse at all btw). It's just that studies have shown that being in a relationship with someone who has choked or strangled you, that the chance of them killing you goes way way up compared to other …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:41 AM
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Men who choke women are statistically more likely to kill their partners. I hope no woman ends up with you cause yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:15 AM
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Medications cause weight gain, hormonal birth control causes weight gain, there can be numerous reasons. Looking thin/fit doesn't mean someone values their health over someone who appears overweight. You're not their doctor so how do you know? Also it's ok to not find someone attractive, it's when you resort to being mean and nasty to them because they don't make your dick hard and many men are guilty of being Duan right man to women they find unattractive to the point I've heard some men say th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:12 PM
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Such bullshit. Lmao. I'm not even going to waste my time because I can already tell nothing will get through to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:56 PM
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You age, get older, gain weight due to medical issues after years of decades together- then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:53 PM
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People have different standards. And as the above poster said, men lower their standards for sex but have incredible high standards (looks) when it comes to being in a relationship with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:24 PM
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This is really the reverse. Men don't date ugly women, but women will date ugly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:21 PM
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Lotion exists. Sex toys exists. There's many options, stop trying to cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:00 AM
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Men who seek them out are of low intelligence and creeps. If you can't use your hand and you have to pay for sex, that reflects on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 03:26 AM
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Going to be honest and say that I don't have an answer for this question because I've seen men call women ugly who I personally thought were absolutely petty, and then I'd see them call some obviously artificial photoshopped woman hot. Trends and porn have warped our views I guess. So to me? I find Julia Fox ugly, as well as Bella Hadid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:33 AM
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This is all they do, they are whiny man babies who think they are the most oppressed in the world because they can't get a gf. Women can scream to the top of the mountains what we want (individual standards may differ) and they still won't listen to us. It's like how so many men say they hate makeup, high waisted shorts/skirts/pants, piercings, tattoos and yes women still get the things and they're flabbergasted when they realize we're not doing this for you yet they will say everything a woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:56 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:52 AM
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It is their personalities though. One of my friends is a model, her boyfriend is a hippie drug dealer, she's loves him cause he's an eccentric and they are so polar opposites in looks. She's tall skinny and blonde, he's shorter than her and looks like Jesus reborn as a hippie. Women have jobs you know, I wish you guys would stop parroting that women are gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:03 AM
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Oh boy... not even. I have friends who guess would see as 10s and they date guys I would never consider. I wish I could post pictures of them to prove my point but I don't want to infringe on their privacy but trust me, hot women date down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:20 AM
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I mean, would you date someone be seen in public with someone you found ugly but checks all the boxes what you want in a partner? Does looks or personality coke just for you? I can't say either of us are right or wrong but I can say there's much vitriol thrown at ugly women then there is to ugly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:04 PM
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Faulty thought patterns? No. I just have experience of the real world and don't circle jerk a woe is me like men here do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:57 PM
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Not really. A ugly man can be charming, funny, charismatic and still get a partner. Men care mostly about looks while women don't. Sure, women can be used a a fleshlight to a guy until he finds someone he's genuinely attracted to but how good is that for one mentality? I feel like lots of men have a hard time empathizing with the plight of ugly women so bad because ugly women are simply invisible to them and find it even insulting that an ugly woman would speak to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:52 PM
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Because you're a man. Men are visual creatures and yes many have different types, but it's much harder being an ugly woman than it is being an ugly man. The hot wife ugly husband trope exists for a reason. Women are more lenient on looks when choosing a partner, men can't get past looks and are even low enough to be outright mean and nasty to women who they find unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:43 PM
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What do you mean? I'm a woman, why would I be on that shitty subreddit about how to coerce women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:21 PM
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What? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:18 PM
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I mean, same can be said about ugly women. Yeah a man may fuck an ugly woman out of desperation, but most men will absolutely refuse to date a woman they think is ugly. At least women are much more open to the idea of dating men they weren't initially attracted to but grew to be attracted to them because of their personality. Being an ugly woman is absolutely 10x worst than being an ugly man. Prove me wrong though 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:17 PM
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It's selfish to have kids knowing what the world is like, why subject them to that? Plus giving birth and risking death especially if you're a POC in the USA, why burden yourself? It's not selfish to not want children, people do it because they think they have to because of societal standards. Look at all the post from regretful parents. It's not all rainbows and sunshine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:06 PM
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At least she told you but yeah, NGL, I've just ghosted men I wasn't interested interested in and sometimes it'd be a mutual ghost, other times I'd have anxiety if they reply "why not?" "What they did wrong?" And some guys can get pushy about it if you explain yourself just to prolong contact with you, and I've learned to just shut it down now and say not interested- blocked. But yeah some men's reactions can be very over the top and outrageously scary so it's better to err on caution and ignore …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:36 PM
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Did I say you think you look like gollum? No. I said a lot of men with low self esteem think they do. I was speaking in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 08:46 PM
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"Strange it would effect women", it honestly seems like it effects men more and instead of working on it they become bitter and hateful towards women because they're awkward when majority men aren't the gollums they think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 08:30 PM
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So many of you need to work on yourselves instead of your obsession with sex. Like so many of you are insecure, low self esteem and have a very warped view of what the real world is like, as well as lack of social skills or how to even speak to women no wonder you're all so bitter. They say we're our own worst critics, and I've swear I've seen so many men I'd personally find attractive think they are ugly/undate-able when if anything, I'd be considered low value to them or too ugly for them. Wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 08:27 PM
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Lol like all women aren't generalized in here? Men ☕️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:15 PM
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No it's not. You could've been in a long term relationship and figured out what you like and don't like. How does that correlate with a high "N" count. Also these men- women won't have casual sex with me and if she does I don't consider her relationship material! Also men: she must be a virgin and know how to do that Gluck Gluck 5000 and want anal all the time, but be a virgin though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:56 PM
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I lost mine at 20 and dunno why anyone would want a virgin. The inexperience I had, being uncomfortable and not much confidence, not knowing what to even do and I thought it was the greatest sex of my life...I am glad I got to get experience with a partner and learn what I do like and don't like. This obsession with young virgins is so damn weird, and I took a guys virginity before and he was so awkward and weird about it even though I continued to see him anyways, this virgin pedestal is weird.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:50 PM
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I never said me. I am speaking in general when women date younger men it's always seen as odd and weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:09 PM
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The reaction isn't the same. It's seemed as odd when it's the other way around. Men my age want families and are for the most part boring to me. I have hobbies and interest that just don't align with them as well as I absolutely do not want children which is a huge thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:07 AM
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And what's your thoughts on the reverse? It seems it's so socially acceptable for older men to date younger women, but when I a 35 year old want to bang a 21 year old, I'm a creepy old lady despite looking younger because unlike my peers I don't want children and I'm not burnt out from the stress of a nuisance family and it's just me myself and I. Also I've became far more attractive and confident after 22 and I'm my thirties than when I was 18. BTW men are terrible as hell with guessing ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:44 PM
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Who says that's the case? The average person has 7-8 partners. You are a hypocrite. You can sleep with someone the first night but check her off your list for potential partner, why? What if she was feeling the date and was is really into you and is hoping to see you again? Why wouldn't you want to give a chance with someone you did the same thing or are you just into it for the sex and if she gives in you use her?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:07 PM
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Sounds promiscuous to me 🤷🏾‍♀️ If you both enjoyed yourselves what's the problem? Why don't men want women to enjoy a sex life?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:58 PM
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So women are just flesh lights?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:56 PM
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100% chance you're promiscuous too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:55 PM
4

You will be very surprised the amount of money men will spend just for a video call.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 11:49 AM
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The average girl isn't making 30 dollars a month. Average is different for everyone. One month you can make 2k but next month only 500. It depends on how interactive you are with your fanbase, how often you post and quality of your pics. If a girl is making 30 a month, what are her prices and what are her amount of followers? There are women who charge just that much. OF also shows you all your statistics meaning where traffic comes from, the countries that visit/follow you, your earnings chart,…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 11:39 AM
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Lmao was just wondering why I was being attacked viciously in a VC for doing nothing. Men will pay themselves on the back and be like "ya I sure told that bitch off!"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 09:18 PM
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Lmao this is what I'm trying to say! There are women in the 200s and men absolutely wouldn't know or believe it because their monkey brains don't factor in curves, breast, hips and weight distribution!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 09:15 PM
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You're not, they could be trolling but these men are 25 and up and I find it disturbing them idolizing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:51 PM
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No they're not trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:40 PM
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I'm a gamer, so I'm in a lot of gamer servers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:40 PM
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But am I really unattractive? Or are they just racist negging me? https://imgur.com/a/e2LpTBN
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:35 PM
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Bro I'm a hardcore gamer I've heard it all, especially being a black woman lol so I'm used to it but certainly in a server there's been an influx of guys calling me awful names in general chat but in my dms asking for nudes or trying to hit on me? I'm old I don't know what's going on to be honest and I don't know where I scale on the attractive level anymore so it's just all fucking mind boggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:31 PM
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Dude I literally just left a chat about people glorifying Elliot Rodgers....what in the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:27 PM
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I don't think they treat unattractive men the same. If anything, I see them gas them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:26 PM
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Yeah but a lot of women are medically overweight and look absolutely nothing what you would think. Men have no idea on how to tell a woman's weight the same with men and dick size. I thought every average dick I saw was 8inches until I bought a sex toy that was 7in that I couldn't even use, and realized all those men were lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:59 AM
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I'm fat and got told I have pretty girl privilege. So what's the definition of fat these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:51 AM
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Do you really think assholes are assholes upfront? Men hide their true colors and intentions and are fake nice to get what they want. How the fuck are women supposed to know? When we have our guard up to protect ourselves, we have trust issues. When we let our guard down and give an asshole a chance? It's still our fault. Once again, men never having accountability for being shitty people. Nice victim blaming bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 12:43 AM
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Hence why I don't trust that any ma'am has ever been attracted to me and they were actually just horny. Ugh men are disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:12 AM
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Damn I must have really low standards cause I counted 7 that have potential, but that's just me. I usually go for nerdy looking guys anyways, and guess what? They're the biggest fucking assholes. "Dude bros" have been more respectful of boundaries and to me in general than average/below average looking dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 10:48 PM
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Because oral sex is the primary way women can orgasm. Ffs, wanting to orgasm is a fetish now?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 10:46 PM
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I am a woman and I don't give a fuck about what others think about me. I'm not on this earth for anyone but myself. I live my life by what makes me happy, not others. If you go around giving a fuck what others think, that's just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 06:45 PM
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That's so pathetic. Why care what people think? Live your life. Men have such fragile little egos. It's funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 06:26 PM
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You dummies act like women don't have jobs. God the bar for men is so fucking low. So glad I'm done with yall
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 08:02 PM
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Can I get a link?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 10:20 PM
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You make absolutely no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 11:13 AM
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I'm older and don't want kids. Why would I want to destroy my body and mental health to bring a kid that didn't even consent to be born into this shitty world? If anything, the people who have kids are very weird to me and I don't understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 09:07 AM
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Can you pm a link?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 08:30 AM
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How? The two are nothing alike. Fds teaches women how to avoid men like this because abusive men are all too common.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 10:29 PM
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You're a mod. Can we please ban these types of post? Is disheartening seeing everyday constant misogyny. Everyday there's a post about how awful women are. It's gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 10:13 PM
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I'm so sorry you dealt with that. That's disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 06:48 PM
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Don't ever tell a man you've been raped. They get off to that. I learned the hard way. They're sick and depraved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 05:06 PM
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You're typing words but I don't understand what you're trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 04:10 PM
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Women get shit done. Men just complain online and blame everyone else for their shortcomings.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 03:47 PM
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Stop assuming these are men. Check the history, it's a woman, and many women like them exist. Women are constantly shamed for their interests and hobbies, that's why many go through the phase of "not like other girls". I was that way in my early years, tearing down and judging other women. Sadly some don't grow out of it. These women are real and they're sad. Just look at red pill women. They exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 06:28 PM
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Men have absolutely no modicum of empathy towards women, and the ones who do sadly were victims themselves. Many guys don't have the emotional depth to think about anything else than themselves. That's why majority are malignant narcissist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 02:45 PM
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It's painful, ruins your body, your mental health, your wallet. Plus, let's be real, the world isn't a good place. I see absolutely no reason why any sane woman would want to give birth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:14 PM
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Why the fuck is this a phenomenon o Amongst us? This is so deplorable. Why are men such trash?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 07:55 AM
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My ex in a nut shell. Wore only three shirts, never took care of his appearance but I was supposed to be "feminine, presentable and classy" and appease all his needs. Fuck outta here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 12:03 AM
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men age like crusty socks. Yet we're the fossils. His usage of innocence was so creepy. I'd report him. He's weird and so gross, that no woman should have to interact with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 03:43 PM
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How old is this guy? He's so gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 03:37 PM
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It's because women are tested far more than men, so I reckon to believe there are far more men with STDs than there are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 12:49 PM
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