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pillola_rossa/r/RPChristians02/12/20 05:46 PM
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We both agree I have ego. We both agree she probably cheated. I don't know why it matters to you more than me.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/20 02:19 AM
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unnecessary It was kind of a big deal to me. Trickle truth. I see why you're reading what I wrote and inferring that, but was trying to say that she acknowledged all the circumstantial evidence I had gone over the day before were, by themselves, boundary crossings (i.e., putting herself in risky scenarios). She still maintains no physical or emotional affairs. I assume that's probably false, but don't care because I've made a decision not to. Then threatening you Again, I see how you're reading …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/20 01:29 AM
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nice post-hoc justification I hear you. At the time, it felt unmistakably authentic. Two weeks later, still does. I absolutely do have pendulum swings with it, but it's not terribly difficult to return to my choice and decision.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/20 01:24 AM
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For me, the way monogamy and abundance fit together is being in a frame of mind where I know if my wife died or left me, I'd be fine. Yeah, I'd be devastated for a while, but I could handle it. If I wanted to remarry, I could find someone. I'm a catch. It helps me not put her on a pedestal. She's is very valuable to me and I am so glad she is in my life, but my relationship with God always has to come first. So much this. I have scarcity mindset + fear of abandonment. Actually putting together a…
/r/RPChristians14/12/20 05:55 PM
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Married Man's Sex Life Primer puts Rational Male concepts into a monogamy context, which can help when later reading Rational Male. There is extreme tension between sacred monogamy and RP abundance. Unless someone is a sophisticated thinker and responsible to themselves for their own thinking and acting, Rational Male can either be outrageously wrong on one thing (and thus wrong on all things) or can be a recipe for disaster. MMSLP is less likely to evoke either of those responses in a weaker-mi…
/r/RPChristians14/12/20 01:42 PM
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Exactly. David's desire itself was the Lord himself: “O God, You are my God; I shall seek You earnestly; My soul thirsts for You, my flesh yearns for You, In a dry and weary land where there is no water. Thus I have seen You in the sanctuary, To see Your power and Your glory. Because Your lovingkindness is better than life*, My lips will praise You. So I will bless You as long as I live; I will lift up my hands in Your name.* My soul is satisfied as with marrow and fatness, And my mouth offers p…
/r/RPChristians10/12/20 03:54 PM
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(Part 3/3) The first frame test came Tuesday evening. It was a comfort test, with a smidge of shit test. I was able to hold the frame and provide some comfort. She said something to the effect of "I need time and will talk more later, if you want" and responded with "anyone committed to our marriage should want to talk about this". We were friendly and flirty all of Tuesday after the conversation and days after. A few days later, wife asked to talk more about this. She admitted that she had cros…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 01:32 PM
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(Part 2/3) So, last Tuesday, after praying and meditating through all of that, I decided to kill it, and to kill my lording over my wife with it. So, I structured a conversation where I'd present her with all of the circumstantial evidence of one or more affairs, tell her I'm almost certain this record demonstrates she had an affair, acknowledge my insecurities about marital fidelity generally, acknowledge that I have been holding it over her head, give her a chance to respond, acknowledge that …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 01:31 PM
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(Part 1/3) I'm almost 40 and 5'-8" 170 pounds with 16% Navy body fat. Married college girlfriend more than fifteen years ago, and we have kids. Started choking down red pill about six months ago. Squat 220 (4x4). Deadlift 280 (3x3). On second time through the sidebar. Last week I decided to kill my fear of being cucked and divorced, acted on that decision, and committed to following through with that decision. It was a long road getting there, and it will probably be a long road following throug…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 01:31 PM
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FWIW, I kicked a nasty poor sleep - low energy - killing lifts cycle by actually dropping lift loads, cutting hard, and doing half hour on the bike on off days. Now, when. I don't sleep well, it's because of too much energy and I still can lift. I don't lift as heavy, but lifting heavy is dumb if you can't balance it with sleep and energy to live.
/r/RPChristians04/12/20 08:52 PM
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Stop asking internet strangers to make decisions for you. Admit to yourself and to your girl that you need time to get yourself under control. Control yourself from now on and recognize that she has agency, Chad has agency, her boss has agency, and you have agency. You cannot control what they will do. You can only control what you can do. Until you start doing that, and only that, you will be scattered to the wind.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/20 06:24 PM
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You have turned your brain off and are making decisions solely on emotions. You need to start accepting where you are and who you are right now. You are a recovering Vallium and porn addict with messed up brain chemistry who is now using that chemistry to build bombs and blow things up. Nothing good will happen until you turn inward. You are correct: you have not prepared for this. But that doesn't mean you don't have it in you to start making good decisions from where you are right now.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/20 06:09 PM
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Please RP me. Can't be done. Bad idea to ask people to do things to you that only you can do for you.
/r/RPChristians04/12/20 01:39 AM
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Unfortunately most of us can never get there until what we hold most dear is taken or about to be taken: our wife, our child, our money, whatever. Or "fortunately," perhaps. Big grace often is wrapped in big packages of crisis. See the Cross and Job. Once we let go of everything no one can take anything from us. Abandonment. Truly.
/r/RPChristians03/12/20 09:12 PM
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Exactly. Abundance is attractive to everyone in every context. Ciszek said that even though fellow prisoners had been propagandized to hate Catholicism, they would flock to him and other priests while in prison. Both he and Paul had abundance through abandonment, not through surplus supply of things or women.
/r/RPChristians03/12/20 02:16 AM
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Nice. ​ I don't think it's really fair to say "abandonment > abundance" simply because we're talking about two different relationships. Abandonment & surrender in our relationship to God, abundance mindset in our attitude toward women. I think restricting the concept of abundance mentality to sexual dynamics doesn't do secular RP theory justice. "Abundance thinking is the root of Plate Theory." Not the other way around. The deeper secular RPers I've seen apply abundance to every aspect of their …
/r/RPChristians02/12/20 07:16 PM
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I read this comment about four times and agree with every sentence of it, except one. Are you looking for a reason to ditch the wife? Let me break it to you straight - you don't need to have a reason. It's not about her, it's about you. Agreed. I came to this conclusion Friday and decided that my desire is to have a marriage free from the fear of divorce or being cucked - and that is all about me, regardless of who my wife is. You're lording whatever admission she makes or doesn't make over her …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/20 01:13 PM
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I'm almost 40 and 5'-8" 170 pounds with16% Navy body fat. Married college girlfriend more than fifteen years ago, and we have kids. Started choking down red pill about six months ago. Squat 220 (4x4). Deadlift 270 (5x5). On second time through the sidebar. Pretty sure wife (nurse) had an emotional and/or physical affair with a doctor at her hospital early in our marriage. Pretty sure she tried to start another this summer, but honestly don't know how physical either got. Maybe she had affairs be…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/20 12:17 PM
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I'm failing at STFU, so working on that.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/20 09:22 PM
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