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My late husband was hot, tall, handsome 🔥 .... but let me tell ya. When we were arguing or he did something egregious, all of that went out the window and didn't matter
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/26 05:33 PM
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You're smart enough to ask if this is a good idea and you're getting solid advice here. Now you need to m be smart enough to walk away and never look back. Saved myself recently from a situation like that....he's already shown he's disloyal
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/26 04:21 AM
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Here's some wisdom. If the child's under 5 the love is still alive Also A man willing to walk away from a pregnant vulnerable ex to get tail is a tell into his character you should take very seriously Ohhh and 18 years of child support ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/26 04:19 AM
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Haha, I like shera7. However, going up to a man with my hand out isn't exactly my approach. I am interested in a provider/traditional husband. Shera7 doesn't use that terminology but essentially that's what she is discussing in a more urban sense and style. It's difficult to take advice from someone 2x divorced tho. I am opposite of my fam, they are all 50/50 and me and my husband were traditional and he paid all the bills and worked while I stayed home. I'm a widow now, and that is what I desir…
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/26 07:24 AM
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Leave leave leave Idc how much money he has or who he "is" it won't get better, the line has been crossed Once it's crossed he knows he can do it and get away Flee Run He's going to apologize profusely but it's all a lie and scam Imagine behind closed doors no one there. It's going to escalate This has nothing to do with rpw
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/26 06:26 PM
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Virginity is valuable. And he is flaunting it. Doesn't sound like someone who will understand the value of it aside from wanting to be the one to take it from you which means manipulating and possibly getting you to fornicate. Wait till marriage girl. You have an intrinsic value that if he's not capable of meeting standard for you need to keep it pushing
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/26 10:51 AM
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Yeah, the benefits are until kids are 18. So it's a huge blessing for me in the meantime that I'm not in a horrible situation. I'm having a newborn in July so my prospects are for 2027. I really agree 100k is like bare minimum. I hate that it's so important to me but it is, I don't want to marry into a struggle and live paycheck to paycheck.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/26 07:11 PM
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Yeah, I've come here before with similar question in regards to my situationship/relationship I'm in that is hard to navigate.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/26 07:08 PM
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I am open to widowers absolutely and older men...like 50s plus if possible. Divorced depending on why they got a divorce of course. RMV meaning? I figured it would give me a chance to stand out or elevate my look?
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/26 07:07 PM
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Totally understandable
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/26 11:44 PM
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He had life insurance and that's why I have savings and the income is from SS benefits. I don't agree with your last paragraph though because the alternative would be me having to go back to work and not able to fulfill my role to my 4 kids and potential more kids I'd have with him. Of course good father to my children is extremely important to me but making sure I can protect and look after my kids and our future ones is very important to me as well.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/26 10:20 PM
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I wanted 7 with my late husband. Unfortunately he passed. But I would be more than open to give the right man (litter LOL) a bunch of babies of his own 🥰
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/26 10:05 PM
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I know this sounds crazy buttt I'm SUPER gentle and have hard time asserting boundaries. I created a hardline no feeling break up text w chatgpt that was really effective. However it was me who had to STICK to holding the boundary
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/26 02:20 AM
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I'm sorry it is 4 total after birth so my typing was confusing. Yes he was and had his own 2 he hasn't seen since Christmas, 0 drive to work/build more, and 1k child support a month and a felon with 2 assault 4 on his record. Very attractive and sexy and made 4-5k a month and frugal but failed to plan, lacked generosity towards me ( I would complain about my nails not being done and he had no reaction) when he paid for meals he'd brag about it(lol) never offered to pick up any of my bills but co…
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/26 10:31 PM
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My savings are from my lh death. No
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/26 10:27 PM
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So I want someone who doesn't have expectation I provide for himself and is already capable himself to provide and have his own everything- the same way I already do. Meaning when we come together it is still my money and he has his own bread without expectation of me sharing my LH blood money. If that makes sense:) so he would truthfully need to be making 8k+ a month
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/26 10:26 PM
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I have 4 total after delivery
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/26 10:17 PM
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Thank you for a genuine kind reply....thank you for that wisdom. I am truly thankful for this man. It all happened very quickly as I'm still pregnant, I think maybe it caused me to be greedy or desire more and that's just so so unfair to this man who bent knee for me already. Thank you so much I am very thankful for him. My LH mocked me saying no one would ever want me if he left me as he was cruel when drunk and I actually believed it but the man I'm with has shown up for me more than anykne el…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/26 12:38 AM
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That's fair
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/26 12:19 AM
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It's not I'm sorry I just worried about it 😭 I appreciate the sobering reminder fr
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/26 12:18 AM
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Ive listened to his content pls what do u think he would say for my situation haha
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/26 12:10 AM
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He knee jerks says no to me then I complain and then he says yes to me. I'm just worried I'm being greedy
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/26 12:04 AM
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Haha, I haven't worked since 2022 my LH retired me, shit got crazy w affairs and stuff and then he passed and left me life insurance. I don't want to marry someone who won't meet the basic of me not working. Although I'm looking for a job rn 🤮 I love being stahm/stahw. But the idea of paycheck to paycheck stress makes me feel nervous like I don't want to struggle or feel like that's even a possibility with this man. He's literally amazing but I definitely just not sure if there's "more" out ther…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/26 12:03 AM
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Reset my expectations to what? My LH handed me his checks and let me do whatever I wanted with them. This man asked me how much I want a month from him. But I'm worried it might not be enough. I feel like it makes me sound so greedy but I don't want to go back to living paycheck to paycheck when this amazing man only making 50-60k rn. It's not enough for my lifestyle and that even just for myself not including kids. I have over 100k cash in the bank. I want someone whose going to fully provide f…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/26 12:00 AM
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I soooo love him. It's just I know the cost of marriage and loyalty and I'm not trying to live paycheck to paycheck again. My LH dead broke me n our littles out of the hood even tho shit got crazy I'm forever thankful for it and he provided to best of his ability. This guy pretty much in low spot rn fighting crazy gf he had kids w and has caused so much drama for him and it's scary I even think this way it feels greedy but I have 4 and this man wants to have more babies w me. When he was doing g…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/26 11:57 PM
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All my 4 are w Same LH. He got me preg than died 8 wks later from od. He is working contractor type work only making like 30 an hr. He is hard working and very quiet man. The job he's at is more bcuz his legal battle stuff is hindrance on his job and his boss very lenient w him.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/26 11:53 PM
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I see him on weekends and he already bought me a gold/diamond ring, filled my gas tank and takes me out to eat cleans my garage ...he pissed me off Thursday cuz I asked him to buy me doordash at 11pm and he said no. But then he made up for it this weekend. Im worried I'm being greedy. But yes he's already showing up for me and lives 1.5 hr away so works all week then comes to spoil and take care of me. He's quiet and broody and best s*x ever. But then I'm wondering if I got this man sprung on me…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/26 11:47 PM
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