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This is the way
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/23 09:43 AM
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Honestly if someone was leaving shit like that in view or what ever it's clear to me there the one that caused all the problems and can't be trusted. Steady rock man she is tri g to goat you
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 10:40 AM
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No, that's not what cs is for. That'll means she can't budget or manage money.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/23 12:45 AM
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To be honest I read it that way as well op
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/23 04:22 PM
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I think all in were closing in on 50 to 60k per year
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/23 01:50 PM
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Mine has turned into 2 years. Judge is about to have a feld day on the 10th. File for contempt.
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/23 11:49 PM
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She doesn't, were both actively closing our debts and trying g to save money, but were both doing to protect each other. We've already spoken to lawyer about premarital agreement and on same page. I am just wondering if there was some option that I haven't thought of.
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/23 12:54 AM
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There is no common law here. To be covered under tycare mil insurance, she would have to be a dependent/wife. Therefore, out of pocket for health, life, and so on. Car insurance just adding her as non spouse used the premium 120 month ,vs 20 for the year.
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/23 12:41 AM
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Be sure to read that fine print on the front page... mine is waiting g for her signature, and it has stuff in there vaguely stating that kind of activity will result in charges
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/23 11:50 AM
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Fuck her, tell her to get a court order
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/23 01:21 AM
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Why on earth do you not have them for Father's day??!
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/23 03:24 PM
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Document and take to lawyer and cps
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/23 12:26 AM
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Damn thou she had to be a good lay being that level of crazy
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/23 11:01 PM
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Ask your lawyer
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/23 12:30 AM
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We smile and wave at each other... other than that we haven't been allowed to have any other contact. And I am not sure her bat ass crazy mother knows we do that. So she knows I love her, and I know she knows I'm there And for now that's good enough. I prepared her prior and told her unless I tell her I will always love her and be there if she ever needs any thing. No mater what
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/23 04:52 PM
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If you take the money you will pay the fees... unless you roll them to another 401. I'm banking on my ex to take it and not and get stuck with the taxes. Other wise they want it when it matures at the current growth rate meaning I could be on the hook for millions
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/23 12:55 AM
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Counseling is required. And yes, we pull bah pay now over these stunts. They have started really hammering service members over this fraudulent mess. Nothing like getting 3 years of bah pulled, and from the wrong state ect from you pay and having to go to nmcrs to get funding.
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/23 05:35 PM
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As a service member... I would love to know what command he is with and talk to them about what the actual fuck letting there guy marry some one over zoom
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/23 08:50 PM
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Hahaha I hit mine up a for a date before things got really out of control...
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/23 01:27 AM
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This is true, not sure I could ever get rid of the woman I have now. We spoil the shit out of each other, and not money wise She also knows I have my broken parts still and has pointed me on how to work on it rather than make me feel bad or hold it as a negative.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/23 11:20 AM
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Just be careful dude. If your going rp do it do it right... Like print the statements... if asked how you got them they were left out. You understand what I am saying
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/23 01:01 AM
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Yo... you can not be logging into her email or other personal stuff... if you happen to see it it's one thing it's another to Crack it and get in
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/23 12:26 AM
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Yes, it is. She has to provide why she can't work in court. I believe you need another lawyer
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/23 12:16 PM
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That's not your job she has to prove she cant
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/23 10:06 AM
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If your military, Several things you need to do first. Inform your coc. Talk to jag, and get a command letter to the child care center for emergency entry. File the restraining order now with no contact and you as the provider and care of the kids. This locks you in as the only person with access to the kids and pulls you off the boat and into single-parent status. Work with your chief/cob/department head to get humus orders NOW. Failure to do all this puts you at risk to lose the kids and ponyi…
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/23 01:46 PM
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Tried. Wish I didn't waste my time. Honestly, my daughter is better off now that I've cleared my head a year later. And it's all to do with the healthy relationship I have with her around now.
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/23 10:40 PM
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I'm a year in and the judge has ordered it. We go to trial in May now.
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/23 03:19 PM
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How is the judge letting this go for so long?
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/23 12:14 PM
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Sounds like my current stbxw boyfriends situation. Good luck He's in MA
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/23 03:21 AM
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Where in MA are you located
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/23 03:17 AM
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The Pre trial date was set today for February... I'm still here waiting to get the actual date. Been since last year. God I can't wait for this to be over
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/23 07:42 PM
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Still waiting to drop the recording I have where she said she would say or do what ever it takes because I am a man they will believe her. Two weeks later I was arrested. Going to court on monday
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/23 04:10 PM
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Fuck it, go What's the worst that happens... kidney goes missing?
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/23 12:22 AM
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Jesus isn't that the truth. I got on bumble, tender, and school games And even with me out of shape, I was killing it The stbxw was confused about how I was pulling off. She wanted me... what were the words she used.. "Groveling at her feet" Honestly, I think 8 years of only missionary was the killer My sex drive was about to come off the rails I've had more sex in the last 10 months than the 8 years married. And honestly, it's so much better.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/22 10:52 AM
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For me it's night and day. I did the save her shit for the STBXW Couldn't be left alone, didn't want me to ever leave My family or friends were always against her... you name it Honestly, it never bothered me till she wanted the divorce For my girl I have now, she is all about me having my own time not completely centered around her and her only. For the first 6 months I thought it was a trap... I would get home, we would cook together, then she would send me out to decompress with my favorite h…
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/22 12:50 AM
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I have, and honestly... knowing what a healthy relationship is like now, I don't know why I put up with the shit I did for so long. It's honestly been life-changing
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/22 02:50 PM
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They will work with you, you may need to come up with some to start 2500 give or take. Where are you located
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/22 01:52 PM
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Be careful Before she files shift banks and put your check into that bank, lock every thing down that is in your name. Document every thing. You can't cut her off, you have to provide housing. She can easily open a fap case. Record every encounter My dash cam kept me out of the brig when she said she would say what ever it takes to take the money and because I am a guy no one will believe I she abuses me as she hit me non stop in the car. I can not stress this enough. Record every thing She can …
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/22 01:04 PM
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Jag will not do shit. Unless your an officer maybe... its a damn joke.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/22 11:35 PM
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7 now, Been going on for about a year now Do not give up. Be smart Even last night she tried pulling stunts. Told her to contact her lawyer if she wanted to hand off her vehicle she doesn't want any more... didn't even tell me it was going to be there. Na it's yours lady, get use to paying for it
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/22 04:45 PM
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Get off social media. I got off a year ago, best thing ever
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/22 01:12 PM
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I have that now. We stay in the car, and the kid swaps at the pickup and drop-offs. We do text and email only. Otherwise, we are not allowed within 100 yards of each other or at each ithers jobs. I like it so much I am asking for it in the divorce settlement
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/22 11:41 PM
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Have her served. Do not be there or give her the papers
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/22 06:30 AM
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Shit I'm a year in and we haven't come to an agreement or nothing... I haven't had to pay for anything as she hasn't requested or responded but wants alimony my retirement child support all the equity in every thing and none of the debt... She's already moved out of state with my child and traveling back and forth to keep her in the same school. It's a fucki g mess
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/22 03:02 PM
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This is the way
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/22 06:03 PM
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I'm telling you right now don't wait. You wait your done. I am getting cleaned out only to have 2 hours a week with my daughter. She had me arrested a week after I left stating I was drunk and has managed to take everything. I have shit of recording and it has done nothing. Do not sit on this. You hit her with thing you are talking about get ready to get fuckedup
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/22 04:21 PM
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Get the money liquidated and leave with the kids. Have her arrested for disorderly conduct and take custody of the kids. Mark my words you will wish you had done this.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/22 04:10 PM
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Took mine back and was offered 250 for a matching set that I paid 10k for. I'll keep it for my daughter and let her have it. She took my wedding band so I took my rings
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/22 06:41 AM
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Mine filed and had me arrested after waiting over a week with no proof. You had best get that shit in a recording or you are fucked
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/22 05:14 PM
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When mine hit me she said she had decided over 2.5 years prior that was back in Dec. That was also 6 months prior to me having a vasectomy done... when I she first told me this that was the first thing I thought of why the fuck wouldn't you say something then... He response was you needed it so you couldn't have more and it's not like you want more now.... I was fucking livid I was 36 I could still have if I wanted she took the option away from me. And I am going to have it in the divorce decree…
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/22 04:50 PM
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Easy for you to win her having to pay for transportation there and back... but don't give up the fight to have more ever
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/22 10:53 PM
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That's what the STBXW was saying.... then she promptly got a job there to afford living there and now here cost is 150$ a month includes electric, water and all the propane she needs. She forgot to add that to her financial affidavit... so now lol I had my lawyer pull it from the company and her because she was saying her two jobs that pay 16$ an hour she was only bringing home 150$ a week... More like 60ish hours between the two more like 960$ a week damn near what I make base pay in the Navy..…
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/22 12:16 AM
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We did ot and she still is with the kids in a travel trailer. If I end up changing to location down south where a monthly spot is not 2k a month I plan to buy another truck and camper when I sell the house when I retire and do the same. To be honest it wasn't a bad life and if you don't like the locals just pull chocks and roll.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/22 11:36 PM
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I have the order of protection hearing on monday
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/22 06:41 PM
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Filed a restraining order on her, disappeared with the kids. Got her to come back with stipulation agreement. Lasted one week. Asked me to move back in, On my birthday she wanted to see her new boyfriend and give me the kids on my off weekend. Then wanted to come with us after she was done at his house to see family. The next two hour car ride was her hitting me 4 times, accusations of raping her the while marriage, and how she never did that to me, or that men can't get raped, and that no one w…
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/22 05:38 PM
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I stayed and ended up being arrested for fake charges, went to court was able to prove she lied.... Still have child services involved, another court date, lost all my guns and more... Don't fucking do it
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/22 12:09 AM
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All my hearings have been in my dress uniform. But from what I've seen there is little class at any of the courts I've been to. Personally would have dress pants, a button-down, and a tie minimum.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/22 10:42 AM
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Sounds like STBXW
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 09:52 PM
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Sleep with that's guys wife too while your at it.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/22 11:40 AM
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I've rebounded some what quick, but it's been ruff. Take it slow, at times it's been great to have a more than one female friend to talk too. Haven't slept with anyone but that's a wall I'm not really ready for... But that said it's making that leap easy to get ready jump. I'm hoping this current lady I'm talking to will be the one I really move forward with. But if it doesn't that's fine too. She's well aware of the walls I've built and fortifyed and does want to move fast as well. So fig do th…
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/22 02:34 PM
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O it does, as well as the code of conduct with the agency. This guy is fucked. His security clearance was already revoked. Honestly this would not have been a issue of she had told me back in Dec and said she was going to see other people. At least then I would not tried for months to get the marriage fixed before I found out what actually happened behind my back. That's why I'm taking it hard and fast on the legal side.
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/22 01:36 PM
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I am active duty. Her boyfriend is reservist officer, and secret service. Meet him at her bar when the first lady came to town in nov-dec
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/22 12:43 PM
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She filed in Jan, I counter filed in Feb when I found out about the affair and knew she was going to try and back out
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/22 12:41 PM
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I'm waiting for the same.... But honestly I would rather make myself happy. If she's truly happy else where then great I will let that poor bastard deal with her. If they make it longer than we did great for them. She thought for the longest time we would get back together... There is no way I would take her back. For what reason? The dwell on the years lost only end up back together. That's fucking nuts Honestly though I was single for 31 years prior marriage and I will be fine single for anoth…
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/22 01:34 AM
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I'm most cases yes that will help you
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/22 12:39 AM
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Several men at this point haha. She's calling my work because I filled stuff with the secret service about their agent sleeping with my wife. She's trying everything now to get me but nothing can get me at this point I've kept my dick in my pants. Keep trying sweetie I'm going to end up with my daughter and you in a shoe box at this point.
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/22 09:09 PM
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Honestly I've had more luck there than tender. First one was a bit much told her upfront now sex till the divorce was done. Three dates later she wanted me to move in with my kids.... Now I have another one that is least saying what I want to hear. Took everything I said about what I knew I did wrong, told me how to be better and what she actually wants and said let me ask you for help let me fail I want to do it myself first. Damn was that so hard? And never married, no kids and doesn't want th…
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/22 04:52 AM
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Going to vist friends in the middle of the week and stay over night was a big one but that was also after she got really ballsy about bouncing on another dick
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/22 11:14 AM
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This is why I love this group. Finding more ways to move on daily. I plan to bring this up next Monday at my therapist to she what she says.... Last one she said we were both toxic 🤣 and I said I know I'm only getting worse because now I want to hurt her mentally, emotionally and financially.
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/22 01:42 AM
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Her third marriage, my first
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/22 11:19 AM
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Etc sorry typo
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/22 12:43 AM
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38 same as me
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/22 11:30 PM
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I already have proof of the affair on tape, phone logs, gps locations ect prior to my lawyer telling me to stop as no more was required. CT how ever is a no fault state, so we could sleep with who ever and it wouldn't matter but it does affect who can get what money wise. Trust me my mind is in the game I've been playing the long game. Even now. She is starting to wissen up to what I'm doing.
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/22 07:09 PM
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Yes, and so glad this shit is over. Granted my mother has her own issues but it got out of hand really early so should have seen the red flags then.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/22 07:28 PM
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NH has none
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/22 03:22 PM
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If it makes you feel any better I'm finally going to get to see my kids this weekend. And I guarantee my soon-to-be ex isn't going to allow me to talk to my kids or see my kids on my birthday next weekend.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/22 03:55 AM
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After we fooled around and she said she felt like she was cheating on the other guy. So yeah....
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/22 09:49 PM
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Document and file follow the lawyer advice. In short no.
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/22 02:51 AM
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So far so good. Her boyfriend did break up with her so... Thinks are working out alright for me so far .. I'm sure your right though she will come out swinging at some point
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/22 02:35 PM
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I've got over 80k in the hole... Good you cought it this early... Believe me. Luckily I should have this resolved in 36 months
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/22 11:58 PM
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For me I thought so in the beginning. But we have honestly grown closer. Still pissed about it but have managed to get more from here now than years before. I wouldn't be surprised if we end up back together after this truly. Wouldn't mind it now that we have managed to communicate finally and connect in a lot of ways we never did. Still pissed about the other guy, but fuck it I plan on sowing lots of seed and showing how happy I am while she struggles a little for once to understand my prospect…
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/22 12:41 AM
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Give mine the choice of at least including me so I could fuck him while I'm also fucking her. Waiting to hear back She thought I just wanted to kill them both at the same time hahaha
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/22 09:24 PM
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She came clean on it all, both lawyers know. The guy she cheated with is commander in the navy I am enlisted. She is blackmailing me to keep my mouth shut at this point to drag it out in court and drain any everything. Should I smoke this guy's career over this? Sparingly details I stayed calm and let her spill it all even that he is secret service and reserves. I want to burn it all down but the debt is insane. I need her to be real about the alimony and child support or I will have to claim ba…
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/22 10:09 PM
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I literally do intelligent gathering for the navy. This was easy
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/22 02:17 PM
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Funny how they think they do tho
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/22 08:49 PM
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Some to be ex ask why I have all my sit in my car. Because I want to and in the event she throws me out once she gets my list of what think is far from my lawyer to hers. I'm ready at any time and have multiple places that she already knows I'm writing as required. Other wise we are still in the same place. Still trying to make amends, but she has made it clear she doesn't want it so I said ok. I've given you a chance to back out so we can work on it. But I am not going to push it. I can say I t…
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/22 01:24 AM
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I don't understand why so many people have such huge ass beds. I have a twin and it seem too damn big now with my some to be ex in it still
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/22 09:48 PM
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I would like the links please
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/22 12:27 AM
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Limiting myself to a beer a week. I will drink myself stupid after it's finalized. Other wise I've dropped weight, and she's upset because I've gone down from 254 to 208 in 4 weeks. Mainly because I am no longer stress eating everyday and I know how much better I will be after even if it does suck.
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/22 11:07 PM
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I feel the same way going through the start of mine now and we both have said we are going to date for a long time and def not get remarried. I want some one in mid 30-40s, no kids , not looking to have kids, have no kids and ok with me having a strong relationship with my soon to be ex for my kids sake is going to make the pool less than like .001% And not looking to get married for a long ass time or at all. I'm more interested in just a long term relationship after this if at all at this poin…
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/22 04:15 PM
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Damn I haven't even gotten there yet. My my kids only listen to me anyway so I am not worried
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/22 01:45 PM
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I just left my bank with three years of statements. And that's just that bank we went though 1500 pages. I still have 100megs of data to print tomorrow from the other accounts and banks. Wife is like what is all this... Whelp sweet heart it's the last three years of our joint account that shows your spending. She has yet to start on her stuff but plans to do that with her lawyer this week. I have some much I am paying my paralegal to fill out the financial affidavit with the documents I am provi…
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/22 08:16 PM
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Yesssssss king!!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/22 08:43 PM
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She needs someone to be there for her panic and anxiety attacks she has and is on medication for. We have always lived with someone else in the house or in someone else's house so she is not alone and the times she ended up alone were the days that she had the worst attacks and was days I had to be at work and couldn't be there. Honestly I feel sad for her. But this is what she wanted and I am done trying to fix what she said I broke and I have blamed myself for years and I am seeing that that n…
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/22 04:03 PM
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Wish I could every Account is dry, any anytime there's no money she's off in a state of mind that makes you fear for your life. Followed me to the laundromat on the camp ground to tell me how she suddenly wants to work it out as soon as she found out the money was stopped to the join account. Them threats me with leaving with the kids and not telling me where she was going to go and how it's all mine anyway so good luck. It's a god damn nightmare. Sure I may have check out mentally years ago to …
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/22 03:59 PM
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Same with my wife, I'm waiting for her to hit me again and then it's the cops
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/22 01:31 PM
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I believe my wife has at least the whole fire house she now volunteers at, her previous jobs and my friends lined up. Any time I am around these people you can feel the strangeness like I am death that just walked in. To be a fly on the wall and hear what she has been saying. Likely still pissed I moved my pay check to my bank and didn't tell her I had a lawyer... I hope mine goes as well as this but there's 1/2 mili of debt and she thinks she doesn't have to take any of it.
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/22 01:30 PM
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I should have seen that when I asked. Never again
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/22 05:27 PM
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Get charges brought on her and him
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/22 07:30 PM
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