piman34 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Masculinity is considered evil until butch lesbians try to emulate it This is what I got out of it too, it was more of an awareness message about how the objectifying women behavior was coming from both straight and gay communities, from both men and women, and that it should not be commended or supported from either side.	/r/MensRights	20/05/13 09:39 PM
1	What the hell CNN: "How do I raise a boy not to be a rapist?" Haha well, apparently we both are then. Interesting study, though I still think their sample size is awfully small considering how many people are in the country. Also, my point was just that his classification of what constituted a rapist was what I disagreed with.	/r/MensRights	23/03/13 05:00 AM
0	What the hell CNN: "How do I raise a boy not to be a rapist?" I'm willing to see some of these statistics then, especially with how prevalent rape is within our culture	/r/MensRights	23/03/13 01:46 AM
3	What the hell CNN: "How do I raise a boy not to be a rapist?" I'm open to those statistics then, please share	/r/MensRights	23/03/13 01:45 AM
1	What the hell CNN: "How do I raise a boy not to be a rapist?" Interesting study, I think that the social norms surrounding traditional and nontraditional upbringings have a large effect on that, and hopefully it won't be like that in the future. Also the source of that statistic was described in that report as misogynist, anti-semitic, racist, and homophobic, which makes me question both the integrity of the study as well as the sample	/r/MensRights	22/03/13 09:31 PM
-8	What the hell CNN: "How do I raise a boy not to be a rapist?" I think you're underestimating how frequent rape occurs, as well as the "type" of people doing it.	/r/MensRights	22/03/13 09:28 PM
1	Adria Richards fired from SendGrid. I'm not meaning to imply that at all. I do agree that most likely the comments were misinterpreted by her, but I still think that all it takes is one person to misinterpret something to make it an issue. The gender issue stemmed from the status quo of the attitudes toward women in male dominated industries, and since she interpreted the comments in a sexual manner, that is how I am guessing she thought towards the girl. Just saying how I could see it. I don't necessarily think that either, and I…	/r/MensRights	22/03/13 09:24 PM
1	re Adria Richards: this was not a sad incident, it was the breaking of a new dawn in gender relations But doesn't this beg the larger question about what can we do as a society to change this stigma? Instead, the reaction is that women in the same workplace as men doing the same job are a lawsuit waiting to happen. I'm not agreeing nor disagreeing with the Adria incident, but I think that the larger issue should be public and professional appropriateness of content. If someone overhears a racial slur in a public situation, but that racial slur was not directed at them, does it make it any less i…	/r/MensRights	22/03/13 07:46 PM
1	Pretty proud of my school for this one I think we're misunderstanding each other... I was trying to initially say that we should support and believe survivors and not victimize the rapists instead, which is generally what happens because of the risk reduction examples we were talking about. The examples I gave were just some examples of the things a rape apology mindset would offer to not believe someone was raped because of something that was being worn or certain behavior was seen. That's the part I disagreed with, and it seemed fr…	/r/MensRights	22/03/13 07:33 PM
1	Pretty proud of my school for this one While that may be how it ought to be, it's definitely not how it is. There is such a huge stigma upon this idea of risk reduction in order to shift the blame from the person committing the rape onto the person who is being raped. Which in essence defends the rapist. That's how I saw that anyway	/r/MensRights	22/03/13 07:18 PM
1	Adria mess: A new phase in the movement - for the first time, a feminist is publicly shamed and fired. I think that while I agree with most of what you said, and how her opinion on this matter is also racist and ultimately unhelpful, it should also be noted that you are applying blanket statements that continue to foster the negative opinions toward feminism from men and as a male feminist, that is the part that bothers me	/r/MensRights	22/03/13 06:30 PM
2	Adria mess: A new phase in the movement - for the first time, a feminist is publicly shamed and fired. I think the reason they were fired was more related to the public knowledge attainment of their inappropriate comments while in a public setting representing the company. I also would like to think that the same actions would take place regardless of the gender	/r/MensRights	22/03/13 06:27 PM
1	Pretty proud of my school for this one To me this sounds like the condition of men trying to assume the worst when it comes to negatively stigmatized the beliefs in our society attempting to be overturned.	/r/MensRights	22/03/13 06:17 PM
0	Pretty proud of my school for this one While there could be improvements on the language, I think that it's a good start. Why do you insist on finding a negative behind this poster? We don't know who posted it for what reason, so we're left to infer. Why choose to attack someone who you don't even know is responsible? Seems like you're trying to pick a fight over which McNugget is bigger when others are just enjoying that it's finally all white chicken meat	/r/MensRights	22/03/13 06:14 PM
1	Pretty proud of my school for this one What's wrong with that, even if is true, do you think that the men's rights groups would do it?	/r/MensRights	22/03/13 06:06 PM
0	Pretty proud of my school for this one I think that you're misreading it. I read it to say that not blaming the victim and siding with the rapist. That includes not blaming for what was worn, or the slut shame, or anything else that is typically seen these days to defend rapists. That doesn't mean don't question what happened, and find out more details, it just means don't brush it off because of something highly stigmatized by society as putting themselves in a certain position.	/r/MensRights	22/03/13 06:04 PM
1	Pretty proud of my school for this one If that is the case, shame on them. It sucks that this happens, and I'm sure it does a lot more than the public knows. Ultimately though, there is such a huge stigma towards men and rape in society that any publicity of neutrality toward overcoming this should be highlighted	/r/MensRights	22/03/13 06:01 PM
1	Adria Richards fired from SendGrid. I think you're missing the point. She's arguing for the fact that degrading sex talk in general is harmful. Especially towards a young girl who is entering a male dominated profession. I think the backlash and negative actions taken as a response give much more of a bad name than her actions. Sure, there could have been other ways to approach it, but let's be real. Do we honestly think that if she had confronted the guys talking that they would have stopped? I think the only way for a win win he…	/r/MensRights	22/03/13 05:54 PM
1	Facebook argument... I can't fault his reasoning. I agree that the way it ought to be is that the punishment fits the crime, regardless of gender. But since that's not the case, stuff like this just isn't helpful towards reaching equality	/r/MensRights	22/03/13 05:42 PM