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pingpongsam/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 05:24 PM
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Notice the state attorney rationalized the decision by couching it in preserving true woman victim belief rather than punishing the ruining of lives and reputations of innocent men.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/18 11:18 AM
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This guy has so much important things in life to do he has time to read women’s erotica novels?
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 05:27 PM
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The interesting part of all this is, wait for it... All of the women are having lots and lots of sex with men. The issue seems to be you are not one of those men.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 05:59 PM
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I don't disagree with anything you just wrote but damn, it has to include having some serious talent. You don't get drafted to the Lakers purely by hubris and frame control.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 08:25 PM
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I took the survey even though my oldest isn't at threshold age yet. I was curious of the content. I did not think there were too may questions at all. I thought many of the questions were insightful and caused me to seriously consider our current situation and attitudes. The questions pertaining to how my spouse think s I think were particularly revealing because I mostly don't know or doubt my convictions about it. There's clearly some dialog missing. My only qualm with the survey was the sever…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/17 06:18 PM
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This makes sense if A) you have a hell of a lot more energy than I do (which means you probably aren't doing nearly as much with your life as I am) and B) you aren't getting laid very often. When you've got multiple small children, are in your forties (and married 2 decades), have a demanding career, hit the gym hard, and are having sex 3-5 times a week you must be a better man than me to make every bang the big one.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/17 04:28 PM
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It's all very context sensitive. I'll use a recent example. I'm at the gym and this girl gets starts wrapping her hands. I walk over and ask her who's ass she is about to beat. She laughs and says she's just going to go in the other room and do some bag work (I probably would not have opened with this had we been in that other room as it would have seemed dumb then). I say something about the bag being better cardio than I remember back when I trained TKD. She asks how long ago that was. I tell …
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 09:31 PM
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While this post isn't totally worthless it seems to miss its own point. Instead of saying it differently you would do better to say different things. That is, break the mold of subject matter. I've established strong rapport without ever talking about names or occupations. People seem shocked when a few hours later they look at me funny and say, "Wait, what was your name, again?" and I tell them I never told them to begin with. All the initial conversation starting material is really just filler…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 04:25 PM
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Looks like most of the comments are about the drinking (which I don't do so there's my only suggestion for that) and tracking a cycle (which really isn't necessary if you have any sense of time at all and you are attractive enough she's DTF regardless). I'm just here to point out that I'm seeing that she clearly initiates the sex. While it is fine for her to do that (I'd say a regular rule is to never turn that down when she does) you should be doing this too, and succeeding. I haven't read any …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/17 03:38 PM
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No, bitches don't generally start off with that behavior. They keep testing boundaries until one day guys realize they're being screamed at and insulted. When you establish healthy boundaries up front and enforce them this shit never starts.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 07:09 PM
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The wife didn't want to give up the dominance in the relationship that I'd handed over to her on a silver platter. Syntax Error: LMFTFY The wife understandably wouldn't quickly or easily trust me with the responsibilities I had forsaken for fear of seeing the ship crash into the rocks. That said, she desperately wanted a worthy man to take them from her.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/17 07:31 PM
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Well, now I feel dumb and unamerican.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 05:40 PM
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The math is wrong. She gave you $50 and told you she could only give you $60 if you could make change with your own $10 Bill? There is no USD denomination of paper money where that scenario adds up.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 07:58 PM
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Before 30 you get the body God gave you. After 30 you get the body you earned.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 01:34 AM
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I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt that you are not a troll nor an idiot. If you think a 35 year old woman has peaked in her attractiveness while a man peaked in his attractiveness at 18 you are an idiot. The concept you are arguing so stupidly against is called the sexual marketplace where individuals are reduced to their sexual market value. These values are the peaks being discussed. I have no idea what the fuck you were talking about but it isn't SMV. You have clearly not read th…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 07:14 PM
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Great FR. Especially liked the bit where your wife found your TRP/MRP writings. Excellent Frame held.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/16 08:33 PM
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Mostly agree. There's a thing, though, for me, about doing the right thing. I spent several years of my life cheating the system in various ways and I was miserable and often poor during that time. When I finally straightened out everything about life improved dramatically. More specifically, the wallet scenario; past me would have took the money and run. Present me would return it on the spot. now, I wouldn't think the universe would reward me in kind today, but I do know that I will be okay fo…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/16 07:23 PM
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What was I supposed to learn, here? What's the takeaway?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/16 05:41 PM
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Giving up: Complaining (about one month into this) Screens after 10:30 Work past 5:30 Going to do: Lay 5 bricks a day Study for a certification I can complete by end of year Already gym, bulking with macro tracking, nofap, and sober
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 08:44 PM
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You think? Seems knowing your resources can't be abruptly diverted to some other spawn would, at a minimum, negate the dread. I mean, women don't really care that you cheat (covertly), it's the potential loss of resources that creates the dread.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 06:03 PM
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There's a grey line here. If I'm serving out rice for my lunch the next day and she asks me to do her one too I will because I am in a better position at the moment to do it than she is. If she didn't ask until the next morning like it sounds in your post then, yeah, fuck no. That said, it does not hurt to actually do it when not asked at all which is possible when I'm not being compliance tested to begin with.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/16 09:49 PM
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Too bad "No More Mr. Nice Guy" isn't TRP sidebar material like it is in MRP. There you will find that when we say nice guy we are talking about someone who is lying and being disingenuous.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 05:15 PM
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5 years sober, here. Life just keeps getting better. The most surprising thing is that no one really notices or cares. 9 times out of ten saying,"no, thank you", when offered a drink suffices. In the 10 percent of cases where you get a "why" my favorite so far is, "I've drunk enough". In about .01% of those cases someone inquires further. That guy is looking for help with the same problem. Definitely looking forward to the book. My big issue is how annoying drunk people and drinking scenes are s…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 01:32 AM
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Anger is about my will. Resent is where I didn't get my way in the past. Fear is not getting my way in the future. Anger is me not getting my way right now.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/16 01:20 AM
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"It's a tennis match, versus an excellent opponent" This looks somewhat defensive, is definitely explanatory, and is conceivably a rationalization.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/16 07:42 PM
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meh, a bit of DEER in the second sentence. The comfort test was in the "I washed your shit", there was still shit test in the "girlfriend" bit. My hindsight 20/20 comeback machine says the best response was, "If I was married to me, I'd be worried all the time...I'm pretty incredible, it's a good thing you do all kinds of cool stuff like wash my clothes, fix my meals and suck my cock to keep me around". Still, results are results and it sounds like you got good ones.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/16 06:08 PM
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Being smooth is not the same as being a smooth operator. Being smooth, in this context, means not being direct and trying to protect or coddle the woman from your intentions. It's being disingenuous which horribly unattractive regardless of the side of the fence you stand. By not being smooth you are not worried about how she is going to perceive your advances. This concept has to be practiced in concert with the other principles already outlined in the 101 and 102. That is, you still don't come…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 01:52 PM
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Coming in late to say everyone has shot you straight and I'm going one further; if this is your first child you are about to get royally schooled if you are already losing it this badly over some pregnancy weight gain.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/16 06:26 PM
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OP used the word generally. Rereading it I see he worded as something I value being threatened which is subtly but distinctly different from something I am being threatened. I will retract my exception to this point.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/16 01:21 AM
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Suit yourself. whatever works for you, you do that. I keep things simple. There is anger and then there is what I do with it. Emotions make me human not beta. Actions determine my status.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/16 07:24 PM
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I'm going to take exception to your attitude about 1. Anger is a legitimate and useful emotion and experiencing anger is in no way beta or weak. Nor would I agree that it generally occurs in reaction to a threat. Anger is a motivator. It's an indicator light on the dashboard that service is due. Not only does it light up but it provides the actual energy required to service the issue. No, anger is awesome stuff, the big issue is what we do when we are angry. That is ultimately the distillation o…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/16 06:34 PM
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I thinkyou misunderstand. This means to not summarily dismiss but to pay consideration and temper the notion that you have it all figured out all the time. Basically the opposite of what you said.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 03:46 PM
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Because you are unnecessarily limiting your options by a drastic number. The reality is pretty much any desirable girl has a "boyfriend" for different values of boyfriend. Also, because this is usually shit test #1 and is a softball you want to knock out of the park.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 08:04 PM
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I'm partial to, "Hah, yeah, me too!" Then there's this (where I'd prefer, the "so does my girlfriend" line)
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 08:02 PM
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A couple observations: That she calmly and coolly used the boyfriend line is indicative of the fact that she is used to getting propositioned (which should be duh for an 8). The takeaway here is that you aren't really putting her in an uncomfortable position because she's been here thousands of times. I believe a lot of approach anxiety is centered around the notion that we are creating an uncomfortable situation. this clearly isn't true. Even if it were, it's not really about us. Secondly, the …
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 06:56 PM
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I guess i missed the part where she stopped being everything he wanted of her? Can't win for losing? I mean, sometimes you have to stop overthinking it and enjoy the fruits of your labor.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/16 06:17 PM
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Which is patently untrue. Yes, it is significantly more painful due to the increased consequences but the only thing stopping you is you.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 02:49 PM
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Walt Whitman - Leaves of Grass
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 01:01 AM
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I disagree with the stated perception that MRP espouses marriage as an overall good strategy and somehow the true way of the alpha. I do not think marriage is always a bad idea but I think it rarely is going to be a good one. It is, however, red pill on hard mode. Hard mode is when the player is intentionally handicapped to increase difficulty. Marriage definitely does this. If I knew then what I know now I would not get married. But today I am and I intend to stay married to this woman. Failing…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 03:16 PM
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As men we don't stoop to acting like women. We don't need to one up women to prove superiority. We laugh at and we ignore the behaviors of women because to us they are like children. Grow up and be a man.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 01:32 PM
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Best thing I've read on this sub in a couple months. Excellent FR. Superb material and excellent writing of it. I especially liked how you avoided the I told you so at the gate.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/16 04:29 PM
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MRP delivered everything it promised and more and far faster than I was led to expect. The only reason i keep coming back is because I am convinced that it can be even better but it has already surpassed my wildest dreams. I think the perception might be due to the same mechanism that affects product reviews on the internet. The vast majority of satisfied owners never followup with feedback while the vast majority of dissatisfied customers want to leave a mark.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/16 05:53 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/16 07:17 PM
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While I am not going to disagree with TTB I would add that based on what I am reading there is a textbook case of alcoholism at play here. I mean the kind that can't be fixed by simply stopping drinking because this person cannot stay stopped and will be a basket case stopped or not without help. I've got lots of experience in this area and the symptoms here are, as I said, textbook. PM if you'd like to discuss any of this, specifically, further.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/16 08:16 PM
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She's not fat. She's clearly has a fitbit and probably hits over 10,000 steps a day. /s
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 08:09 PM
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Correct. I mean she will put a dick in her mouth and her ass for you.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 05:01 PM
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I've always thought that being a widower would be a huge SMV boost. You get the benefit of pre-selection without the downside of it not having worked out all the while she has to compete against an idyllic memory. Depression would certainly be a major complication, though.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/16 05:56 PM
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I am completely honest in saying that right now my Fitness, Diet, Hygiene, Style, Career, and Finances are fully on track and in incredible shape. Social and Hobbies is a tough one right now with a 20 month old and another coming in March. So, Game it is. I could use lots of improvement in that area. I filled the TRP monthly for talking to people regularly but flaked on the next month of talking to females regularly. An easy excuse is my job in construction greatly lowers the opportunities but I…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/16 10:49 AM
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You've heard about plates, right?
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 09:29 PM
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The real fun starts when you get around 40 yourself and all of a sudden your parents get way smarter and wise. When you are under 30 it's you, not them.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 04:10 PM
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The state becomes involved in family affairs by way of a few mechanisms. The most obvious is the marriage license which is a state inclusive contract. Contracts create shared ownership of the output and products of the contract venture. Less obvious is social security. Again, another voluntary but coercive contractual arrangement wherein children are explicitly assigned government property ID numbers. In short, if you don't want the state involved in family affairs then you are responsible for n…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 08:25 PM
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Does a Captain put the First Officer on the bridge so he can go tie one on?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/16 06:15 PM
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I am not qualified to answer your question in whole. I can say, as a father in an intact marriage, that my son and daughter learn about each sex from the respective example in the home. That is, my daughter learns about men by watching me and learns about women from watching her mother. While I hope to provide a good example of what a quality man looks and acts like I can't approach providing any thing in this vein for how she, herself, should behave as a woman. I think I can say what I will but…
/r/RedPillParenting14/12/15 09:12 PM
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We don't need yet another FR to confirm AWALT. We do need good examples of why getting "shit the bed drunk" is bad behavior on our parts. Keep the focus on us and not on the girls since we are the only ones we can improve.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 04:48 PM
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My wife is currently pregnant with our 2nd child. We tried NFP during the period between pregnancies and I was actually pretty good with it but she hated it. She made the point that she was denied sex when she wanted it most (ovulation) but doesn't consider using condoms during that period to be worth the potential risk of more kids (we are both in our late 30's, she will be 40 in January). We both agree no more kids (the 2nd kid was intentional). I would appear to be a prime candidate for vasec…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/15 02:51 PM
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These language traps are contagious. the more those around me use them the more likely I am to begin using them myself (I know, falling out of frame). My counter to that is to preface with clarification of my own. It always begins with, "What I heard/am hearing you say..." e.g. "I feel like this might not be the best idea" "What I am hearing you say is that you don't want to pursue this course of action, do you have an alternative you might like to present?"
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/15 01:46 PM
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Well, that's one way to dismiss it. I have often found that my mindset surrounding an action is more important than the action itself. That is, I can do the same thing and get entirely different results depending on the motivations for doing that thing. Thus, when I view myself as practicing CC when practicing 2/3 I don't think I reap any benefits at all. If I can understand how to practice 2/3 while not creating a CC I think I increase my benefits for doing so, even if they are only internal. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 05:45 PM
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It's a question I was seeking input on. Color me confused as to how I can practice the one and not be practicing the other. Seeing as both are recurring tenets in my TRP studies I thought maybe someone could coherently point out how they are distinct because all I see is overlap. Maybe, though not likely, I've made a novel discovery of a heretofore overlooked contradiction in the method.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 05:36 PM
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