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| 1 | Am I petty?Do you want children or are you on the same page as your bf? | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/26 08:43 PM |
| 7 | How do you see the traditional wife role—toughest job or easiest path?I went from working full time + side hustle to being a SAHM and honestly I love being at home so much more. I have never been a working parent as I've been home since she was born so it's hard to compare to that but I would not trade my current lifestyle for the world. It's important to note we have enough disposable income to travel, thrift, make silly purchases, go out to eat, buy quality groceries, etc. All this is extremely relevant to my levels of satisfaction with a "stay at home" lifestyl… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/25 12:46 AM |
| 3 | Wasting my 20s due to depression and health issues. Ladies in their 30s, I need some encouragementI turned 25 in the middle of the pandemic and was objectively in the lowest of states. Skin breaking out, hair not growing, single, attending a toxic church while actively losing my friends and community outside of it. The only thing going for me was the job I had. It wasn't that high paying but I enjoyed it enough and was good at it. I turn 30 next year and now I'm married to a great man, living in a beautiful city, SAHM and planning my next pregnancy. I even "glew up" physically. Lost all the … | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/25 12:00 AM |
| 2 | My therapist suggested I stop managing my husband to cure my anxiety. We are trying a Captain First Mate dynamic to prepare for kids but letting go is harder than I thoughtI went through a high anxiety period of my life, specifically during TTC and CBT helped me immensely. I suggest the book When panic attacks by David Burns. It really helped me see the cognitive distortions in my thoughts that were leading to constant rumination and worry. It helped me then and the techniques I learned still help me now that I'm a mom. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/25 11:52 PM |
| 16 | How do unmarried women manage their expectations regarding wanting marriageThe dating pool doesn't get any better as you grow older. I suggest you leave him asap and work on achieving those goals you have. If you think to yourself "Well I already wasted all this time with him then I should just stay to make it worthwhile" I suggest you read up on the sunk cost fallacy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/25 09:43 PM |
| 27 | How do conservative women in their 20s find spouses?Im sorry if this comes off rude but if I were you I would work on maturing, finding hobbies and/or developing interests beyond dating. Your post comes off a bit intense and immature and I’m sure men can sense that energy from you as well. You have time to find a husband. I worry that your priorities are twisted and with your current mindset you’re setting yourself up for failure. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/25 08:32 PM |
| 2 | What is/was your personal timeline for marriage?My husband brought up marriage / timelines / expectations super early on. Around 3rd date. We were engaged after 5 months of being official and married by 1 year of meeting. We are both Christians who went into dating marriage minded so that changes things I think! We talked about super serious things early on. We were both really intentional in trying to figure out if marriage was in the books for us, no time to waste lol. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/25 10:14 PM |
| 3 | Invest in Your Wardrobe in 2025Great post! I loved reading that your boyfriend was thankful of your efforts, that's so sweet! When I met my husband, he wore the same clothes he had owned for years and hadn't updated his wardrobe to better match his age/profession. I've taken the time to intentionally find him nice clothes, especially outerwear and he's CHUFFED lol. He was so cheap beforehand but now sees the value in investing time and money into getting quality pieces. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/24 01:58 PM |
| 10 | I think I found my person…I don't have much input on 1 or 3 but regarding 2: My husband was not "first choice" when I was talking to various men online a couple years back. You've only been on 2 dates with this man and besides that, only know him as a checklist or good on paper. My first choice back then, slowly turned into *not* my first choice and that helped me refocus attention on the other guys and notice my husband more. There was no moment of "sparks fly instantly, holy crap I've met my man", just a slow progressi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/09/24 02:16 PM |
| 5 | Might Be Starting Over - After EngagementAs others have said, what matters is what's important to you. I have Christian friends who married unbelievers who were happy to just go along with their practices, and they aren't unhappy. You don't miss what you don't know, so it's hard to say that they're "missing out" because they're genuinely content with their lives and marriages! It's good that you're taking the time and space to think through what your needs are in a marriage. I can't speak for other experiences other than my own and for… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/08/24 02:28 PM |
| 2 | late cyclesI feel you. I was also told im "on the spectrum" of PCOS but don't meet the criteria. I went through over 2 years of irregular periods, spotting mid cycle, horrible cramping, etc. I have been able to regulate my cycles by: Quitting alcohol (I still drink but MAX 1 cocktail every 2-3 weeks) Changing my diet by focusing on protein and reducing sugar. I admit I was a bit of a sugar addict. I ended up losing a bit of excess weight and bringing my BMI down to 21 plus my energy levels are through the … | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/07/24 05:39 PM |
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