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WHOLESOME CONTENTpinkamena_pie/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 06:21 PM
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If you’re putting all behaviors into the lens of male and female, and those are masculine traits, it seems like you’re saying that men behave badly in general. I think both of you are a little gross for wanting a wilting flower of a woman who agrees with everything and acts like you want her to act instead of being true to herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 03:41 PM
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The comment stated that they wanted feminine behavior. You took this to mean “act right” - which piqued my curiosity. Can you elaborate on this more?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 05:32 PM
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Meaning male behavior is bad? Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:52 PM
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Wow. I vocally detest circumcision and was able to convince my friend not to chop her son. It was the father who wanted his sons penis to “look like his” - wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:41 PM
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I definitely don’t do this. Both my last partners were bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:40 PM
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Wtf none of this is true. I’m a woman and very vocally supportive of ending circumcision. I support men using toys, want them to feel good, and am not gonna police what men look at either. I would just prefer in my own relationship that the men not use pornography. It’s for various reasons but the big one is that I really want their dick to work for me well into old age. Nobody is happy when they’re pushing rope from porn-induced ED and death grip. It’s bad times.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:39 PM
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It’s not a jump. If all you care about is sex, that’s the “resource” you want a woman for. If that’s the case and you view relationships as transactional, why do you feel it’s wrong to do the same for money? For the record I don’t believe any of this garbage and I value love and sex and security and I have it in a wonderful man. I don’t believe in this transactional mess. It’s just hypocritical of you to think one is fine and the other is evil. Either they’re both fine or neither is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 04:57 PM
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If you feel so transactional about things, do you not see the irony is saying all you want is sex, and that you are “strip-mining” women for sex in the same way that you’re railing against?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 04:48 PM
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Can you say more about that? Dating culture states that we are all owed relationships and sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 02:49 AM
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Again, name calling, idgaf. Not illegal, not nice, but whatever. FDS is not about being nice. None of the following stuff you brought up is in the handbook. I don’t see any of that behavior through the vast majority of posts. It’s a space men can’t go, which I think is where the transphobia discussion came from? I’m pretty sure we are all in agreement that trans women are women. If that mod is actually a TERF, she needs to GTFO. If those users are violating the sub rules, ban them. The sub as a …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 06:25 PM
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Don’t pretend like saying: “men need to step up, men are broke/cheap/abusive/etc, I don’t want to date them if they aren’t good enough, lol check out this dusty scrote” Is the same as: “Women are just holes, I would rape them if I could get away with it, let’s kill women, I like seeing women suffer” They are not the same. Incels promote violence on women as see us as property, all while feeling sorry for themselves. FDS never promotes violence, and the whole purpose is finding a partner and self…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 05:16 PM
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What? Therapy does not equal head meds. Therapists can’t even prescribe meds. Psychiatrists can. Even so though, if your brain chemistry is broken, meds help. Are you one of those crazy therapy-haters?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 07:34 AM
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Religion is a crutch for the weak. Y’all believe in talking snakes and magic. I mean, I like Harry Potter but I’m not forming a religion around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 07:15 AM
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Yeah talking shit on the internet isn’t illegal, and we both know that sometimes it’s deserved.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 07:11 AM
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Therapists have real qualifications and degrees and know how the human brain works. Religious counseling is based on the judgement of a god from an irrelevant old book. I think I’d know which one to trust with my mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 12:20 PM
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Be clearer; what you meant and what you said don’t line up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 12:12 PM
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Who cares about any of that? It literally doesn’t affect you. If you’re not interested in that type of woman, don’t date her. Why on earth do you care what the dating standards of women who you won’t date are??? Unless you’re scared that other women may see the strategy and say “maybe I should expect more effort from a man”? Women are already less likely to put up with the average porn-addicted, weed-smoking, lazy gamer dude. If you’re scared of that, you should be. Men gotta step up their game …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 02:13 PM
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Personally, probably not. I’ve never been a 1-night stander. (Men just aren’t very good at giving me orgasms so what’s the point?) however I think I’ll reserve the right to do so if the whim strikes. It’s unreasonable to think that after a date we’re automatically exclusive. Dating does not equal relationship. I think everyone would agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 02:47 PM
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Are you conflating relationship with dating? If I’m dating people, and we don’t have the exclusivity conversation, then we aren’t exclusive. Until we have that conversation and the whole commitment of boyfriends/girlfriends it would be ridiculous to assume exclusivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 02:26 PM
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You definitely sound like you’ve never been to therapy because I’ve never been to a hospital for my therapy appointments. All are small offices that feel like half college admissions lounge, half spa. No one is normal. Everyone has problems. Therapy helps with problems. Therapy teaches you to deal with problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 02:23 PM
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Pastors of magical sky man are not qualified to be therapists, don’t delude yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 02:20 PM
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You’re not arguing from a place of reality if you think that women making fun of men is just as bad as MEN LITERALLY KILLING WOMEN. Like honestly, what the fuck. Get some perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 03:30 AM
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Pastors aren’t therapists and religion doesn’t give you the groundwork to communicate or ‘adult better’ though. The very difference between preaching and teaching. It can be great for purpose and all, but therapy teaches you the tools to deal with life; and without the vague “lessons”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 01:24 AM
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How do you know? Why can’t you be positive? You love your spouse, so does the other poster - why is everyone shitting on marriage? Can’t you just as easily extrapolate that maybe most marriages are good? So weird when happily married folks crap on marriage. Feels like lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 08:01 PM
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I think the strategy is sound. “Perfect or Pass.” FDS is very simply put “ruthlessly self-interested dating strategies to get what we want.” They cut a lot of bullshit. It was hard for me to read at first, but it’s just truth I didn’t want to hear. What ‘we’ want in men: Mental stability (no crazies, we ain’t your therapists) Financial literacy (no broke/underemployed dudes) Attractiveness (obviously) Generosity (with his time/money/vulnerability at least up to the level of our own) Goal alignme…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 07:40 PM
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I’m not sure what you were trying to say with that first sentence. Can you clarify? The second part is just... what? No one owes anyone a relationship, sex, or even a smile. Not if you’re the hottest model or the ugliest man alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 07:24 PM
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That’s okay. FDS ladies are very happy being single. I don’t begrudge them that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 07:10 PM
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Redpillers lead to rape culture and incel hate groups. They think women owe them sex. They hate women. They kill women. They call women hateful things, with a lot of intended venom. FDS does not hate men. They don’t try to extract sex from men in dishonest and rapey ways. They aren’t out there killing men. They love and cherish good men and make fun of bad ones. I think it’s dishonest to say that “scrote” has anywhere near the intended venom of some of the things incels have called women. FDS is…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 07:02 PM
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This is wild. No one is guaranteed an invite to “the party”. No one is owed a relationship or love or companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 06:36 PM
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Until there is an exclusivity conversation, I see no problem with either one doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 06:31 PM
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Not necessarily. Context is important. In a perfect world? I wouldn’t care much. Consent freely given is much better than consent bought. It just is. Sexual slavery and human trafficking are things that unfortunately exist. There’s no way of knowing who is and isn’t trafficked. Best to just avoid it 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 06:22 PM
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Therapy should be the norm, for maintenance, until you’re dead. Gym for the body and therapy for the mind, forever. For everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 06:15 PM
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Yes. No one owes you an orgasm. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:34 PM
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Why is the man just “having casual sex” and the women is a “slut”? Either they are both sluts or neither is. Language matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:26 PM
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I have been interested in some FDS principles for quite a while, and I have never heard of this. It’s definitely not the rule. However for discussions sake, acting as if this were true and I had a son - I think it’s important to drive home the fact that no one is guaranteed or owed a partner, and that being single is just fine. The whole point of FDS is that we would rather be single than be with someone who isn’t doing it for us. That saves both people time, money, and headaches. If we are peac…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:00 PM
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I’m not interested in revenge at all. I’d like good outcomes for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 07:18 PM
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I consider myself a feminist and I can tell you I would like men to have advantages and good lives. I want the same thing for women. I care about men personally - for example I absolutely detest circumcision and think it’s a terrible practice that mutilates little boys for no reason. I absolutely do care about men and don’t want to see them fail. Now; the academic discipline of feminism is probably completely indifferent to men, just as it’s indifferent to space travel, or anything else that’s n…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 09:20 PM
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I’m super confused by this statement because I thought EVERYONE wants a partner who is financially literate. Nothing kills relationships faster than money problems. It’s absolutely a red flag when anyone does not have their financials at the top of their priorities. You don’t need to be rich but you do need to have a retirement plan and a realistic goal for affording the things you need. Plus if you want kids, a woman has to believe you will be a good provider for your family; that absolutely sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 08:19 PM
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I actually want equity, not equality. Men and women and NB/trans folks are just not all the same so we shouldn’t pretend we are. Institute equity so things are truly as fair as possible for each individual. Also worth noting is that us ladies have had very little time in positions of power, just recently, August 26th, we celebrated 100 years of being able to vote in the US. Men have held women back for a long time, and we (and you) are still paying for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 06:40 PM
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I know they supported her success, and her getting divorced from that one dude, because he’s a cheating scumbag - but that’s just women supporting other women. They don’t approve of her crazy behavior in the past. People are multifaceted. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 06:28 PM
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They absolutely do not approve of her behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 10:23 PM
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All they’re saying is that you would be apologetic and willing to go above and beyond for the next date if you were really into the woman and wanted to show your apology for rescheduling and appreciation of her time. Is that not accurate?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 06:16 PM
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I’m not the original commenter but you didn’t really answer the spirit of the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 01:48 PM
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I’m not disagreeing I just don’t really understand the whole “Men accusing women of having too-high standards”. How does that work out of them? W: meet my standards M: no W: k bye M: REEEEEEEE Like... that’s the point. Meet my standards or GTFO. Women don’t need men to be fulfilled, but the opposite seems to be true for most men. Men seem to only get upset with the standards they can’t meet, when they should be channeling that energy into self-improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 01:44 PM
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It’s demonized (and rightly so) only when they do it under false pretenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 01:34 PM
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Coffee shop is a low-effort date. It has nothing to do with restaurant or expense, it just shows how interested the guy is in you. If you won’t take a girl you like to get a $30 meal, you’re either cheap, poor, or just not that interested. In all 3 cases, you’re not what a HVW is interested in. FDS would weed you out, working as intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 01:31 PM
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It might work but it doesn’t mean it’s good for anybody. Men lying to get their dick wet, wow so original. FDS protects women from TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 01:24 PM
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I agree, but please believe me when I say I’m not having any sex that I don’t want to be having. I think you may be confusing swinging with poly? Good secure polyam stuff requires very hard boundaries and extreme vetting IMO. Ive been committed with my most recent partner for 3 years (the other two for 5 and 10+ respectively) but my love is conditional and these relationships all benefit ME first. I completely agree that lots of scrotes like to pretend to be poly or swingers just to sleep around…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:27 PM
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😭 my feelings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 08:33 PM
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Girls are good for people, and boys are bad for people. Can’t say I’m shocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:23 PM
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I think that’s called being pansexual
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:22 PM
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Shared Google calendars! I’m poly (I don’t think FDS likes poly folks much; but I do so in a way that benefits me) so I engage in ethical non-monogamous committed relationships. I’m definitely at my max with 3 though. I think it works well because I’m dating 2 introverts and an extrovert so they all please me differently. Everyone is in therapy for maintenance and everyone is fairly happy, covid issues notwithstanding of course. Even though FDS does not think highly of poly folks, we, much like …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:05 PM
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The 👏gift 👏of 👏fear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 05:51 PM
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Natural law: Pussy has value and dick doesn’t. Women have more to lose in sexual relationships so yeah, you gotta do lots of front end labor to prove yourself to women before we will open up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 04:54 PM
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Lol you trashed that guy so hard he deleted his entire argument. 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 04:52 PM
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Thank you! Yes! Never marry anyone you wouldn’t go into business with. Marriage is the financial side of love. Protect your assets ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 08:36 PM
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Orlando FL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 09:50 PM
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Currently dating 3.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 09:49 PM
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Same, I’m actually dating 3 very childfree men, they do exist! Have faith. 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:29 PM
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The fuckin audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 03:39 PM
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“Metrosexual” was a word that men came up with to disparage guys with actual good hygiene - they’re too lazy to bathe but they’re fine with flaming men who do. Just bathe you stank ape! Jaysus!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 08:59 PM
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I love the romcom “isn’t it romantic” - hilarious movie that pokes fun at romcoms and has such great self-awareness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 02:26 PM
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Oh shit sauerkraut goes great with ear-lobsters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 01:51 PM
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Books turn your hair brown and change your boob size and facial structure apparently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 01:11 PM
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I don’t like bras, like I wear them because I have to at work but WHY are they some kind of required item? Men don’t have to wear bras and they cut glass just as hard when the A/C kicks on. Why only us?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 08:40 PM
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I’ve only done it a couple times myself, but I can attest I don’t think it’s pee - I had no control when it happened and it smelled like almost nothing, not piss. And I have stinky piss because I eat lots of leafy greens and kale and tons of vitamins - you know the fury of vitamin piss lmao. I just remember the small puddle I made on the bed and intense confusion - “who peed water on me???”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 09:14 PM
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Even if he was depressed it’s no excuse. He’s still subjecting her to his disgusting habits. Being depressed doesn’t absolve you of the responsibility to not be a gross crusty chode.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 09:02 PM
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Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 08:10 PM
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...I take the Splenda packets from Starbucks. I mean I just paid $6 for a coffee and they won’t miss a handful! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:54 PM
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I have several male friendships. Platonic and very possible. I love these men, known them half my life. We will always be friends ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 09:45 PM
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Me too. That and /r/breakingmom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 10:07 PM
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I read this thread too and I was like girl. Kick him out 2020!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 09:11 PM
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I saw a beautiful black woman yesterday who had her natural hair in a Mohawk and I loved it so much I had to just roll down my window and shout compliments to her - the happy look on her face afterwards was so great that I got emotional and was driving around teary for a bit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 04:01 PM
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There’s a grippy pad thing I use. Never need a man! Lmao. I love mine and her do it happily for me but I am so stubborn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 04:52 PM
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Totally. Dates his age, kind, funny, successful, handsome. Total package.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 01:43 PM
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My partner and I are mostly adventurously vegan and as a result, we can be pretty gassy. It’s not a big deal to either of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 05:56 PM
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You said liking Disney means someone is immature. I like Disney and I’m not immature, I have my shit together. Your opinion is wrong, you won’t accept any evidence to the contrary. I’m not just disagreeing with you, I’m telling you that this attitude makes you a bad judgmental person and you should work on yourself. Additionally when you put mean words into the world, and then shirk responsibility for those words by saying “why do you care?” or “why are we still talking about it?” then you’re a …
/r/askFDS19/06/20 02:28 PM
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I’m not trying to justify myself; I’m supplying evidence that your argument is incorrect and needlessly mean. You made many assertions that enjoying those things makes a person immature. I reject that. I absolutely would never advise you get involved with someone with these interests; but that wasn’t ever the point of the post anyway.
/r/askFDS18/06/20 10:48 PM
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They started out that way, sure, but they have absolutely developed way beyond that. Fantasia and Fantasia 2000 are great examples; definitely art. There’s absolutely some stuff 100% made for kids, but animation as a medium has some true and profound art and wonderful stories to tell to a broad audience. I can’t speak to princess culture as I am too uninformed on the topic to formulate a response, but it seems to be a side thought anyway and not really relevant to the discussion of is animation …
/r/askFDS18/06/20 09:14 PM
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Why?
/r/askFDS18/06/20 07:22 PM
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This is a mean-spirited remark that a LVW would make. I love cartoons, I’m a Disney nut, I’m a 34 year old woman. I wanted to be a professional 2-D animator. It’s not immature, it’s art. You just don’t get it.
/r/askFDS18/06/20 06:51 PM
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Personally I want to get married and have that commitment from a man. He’s putting his time and money where his mouth is. I don’t want kids either, but I do want to buy a house, cars, etc as well as all the little financial things that go with cohabitating. I think a better question is why YOU don’t want to get married. Have you examined your feelings?
/r/askFDS18/06/20 06:45 PM
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You really shouldn't do that if you entered a marriage agreeing to be monogamous. Either get divorced or only fuck your wife - the rest will bite you in the ass.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 01:47 PM
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You make some good points. I have seen men settle, status wise for women more than the reverse. However there is something that you may be forgetting - childbearing. It's this reason that a man will pay off debts, have a wife who is a homemaker, and so on. Because she is the only one who can bear children. If you both decide she should be the one to stay home, which normally make more sense since women don't make as much as men generally. It takes a considerable amount of effort and time off fro…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 01:35 PM
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I think you are far overgeneralizing and speaking for all men. I think in an ideal situation you have two equals. Maybe not perfect equals, but close enough to balance the other out. For example, my fiancé is good at logic, while I'm more creative. He forgets everything all the time, while I'm the elephant who never forgets. My strengths are his weaknesses. You can be educated and be with someone who isn't, but there's a baseline of intelligence that has to be met for anyone to be attractive, ot…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 01:23 PM
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But doesn't that logic hold true for men as well? Don't they also want to marry up? What is the problem with this woman doing it?
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 03:06 AM
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Right. There's like a baseline level of just general intelligence that has to be met for there to be a meaningful connection. I would accept someone who didn't know anything about math or politics. What I wouldn't accept is willful ignorance - the refusal to learn or adapt.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 09:48 PM
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We are talking about different things. I'm not referring to structured education. I'm just referring to learning in any context. Education at school, or trade, or even life lessons. I know that a stupid person can get through college, and a smart person doesn't necessarily need structured learning in order to grow and gain skills, it just tends to be easier. Bill Gates is a great example. I'm trying to understand exactly what you are trying to say. What is your definition of stupid? What is your…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 09:06 PM
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You just said not educating women would be beneficial. Knowledge comes from education. Growth comes from education. Exactly what kind of stupid do you mean? What are you actually trying to say?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 08:21 PM
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