| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 32 | How to deal with betrayal and being lied to by someone you love | pinkcorolla | /r/askFDS | 01/05/21 07:21 AM | |
| 19 | When a guy moves too quickly, what does this mean? | pinkcorolla | /r/askFDS | 13/05/21 04:05 PM | |
| 1 | It is SO important to vet and stay vetting men because they will hide their real selves and these monsters are more common than we think. | MALE DEPRAVITY | pinkcorolla | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Only date men with money who are generous because broke men carry resentment, hatred and will bring you down. | MALE DEPRAVITY | pinkcorolla | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 05:31 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 10 | How'd You Find FDS?My male cousin told me that joining FDS would help me and well, I did just that and he was right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 05:34 PM |
| 3 | If He Wanted To, He Would 💍And the diamond is FAT! We love to see it, congratulations OP! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 11:59 AM |
| 26 | Don’t waste your time or energy debating about sex work to men and libfemsI don’t bother debating at ALL, even with other topics. Men’s opinions won’t change just because you give them facts, they only ever look out for their own dick/self-interests. It’s an instant block when they have poor morals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 07:02 AM |
| 29 | When posting here have you gotten Reddit Cares messages from scrotes because they’re big mad?I remember I got the care message when I called men pedophiles for lusting over teenagers on a post where there were screenshots of men openly admitting to sexualising their daughter’s teen friends. I think anyone who commented on that post for calling these men out got the reddit care message sent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 05:22 AM |
| 31 | What I posted versus a reason for a permaban from a large “feminist” subreddit. Wow I wonder why :)I got banned from a feminist type subreddit for being an FDS member. The moderators said my reason for ban was “participating in a misogynistic, anti-feminist subreddit”. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 03:37 AM |
| 3 | The more I read, the more I am getting sure that I really don't want to have to do anything with men.I didn’t want the deal with the anxiety of if he’s going to pay for the date so I just stopped dating for the time being. I just couldn’t do it, it made me so nervous. I don’t want to sit across from a man, eat with him and talk to him only for him to be like “let’s go dutch” and have my stomach drop (even though I always bring my wallet) and then have to deal with the awkwardness after and then him trying to secure a second date. COUNT ME OUT! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 05:13 PM |
| 71 | single womenOh my god… these men are literally JEALOUS that their wife/SO are making moves in their career. I literally don’t understand this jealousy because when you’re in a relationship you’re supposed to be a team. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 08:15 PM |
| 20 | This man really thought I was gonna pick him up in my carOne guy was like “Let’s go to ___, you drive come pick me up.” I straight unmatched lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 12:51 AM |
| 123 | The Realities of Age Gap RelationshipsI was 19 and he was 26 and he was really stingy with me and I realised if he was stingy now it will never get better only worse, so I left. At the time, that was my biggest motivator for leaving and it wasn’t until I had some time to myself that I realised his interest in me wasn’t healthy but instead predatory. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 08:24 PM |
| 45 | This is the prime example of rich =/= high value..Reminds me of the guy who put slugs in his girlfriend’s foods. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 06:22 PM |
| 6 | F.R.I.E.N.D.S. is one of the worst shows I've seenI remember when I was an early teen googling the plot of Friends to see if it was worth it (lmao, I couldn’t watch anything that would make me feel bad). And I remember -SPOILER- that Ross cheats on Rachel and I could’t wrap my head around that considering it was a comedy genre and it wasn’t anything to be laughed at so I never gave it a shot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 11:00 PM |
| 40 | He's Your Ex For A ReasonHe wanted you to move in so he could pressure you more into pre-marital sex. When you stuck with your boundaries he realised he couldn’t coerce you so he left. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 06:57 PM |
| 6 | He found me.Men don’t change… ever. He’s just putting up a front. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 08:42 PM |
| 7 | Hot Take: Why I demand a beautiful proposal and an EXPENSIVE ring.I want a 10k or higher engagement ring and wedding ring, preferably higher. But tbh, I don’t want to get married because it’s just a scam and high risk for women only- it looks MISERABLE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 08:40 PM |
| 10 | Neither woman wants you, dude, because your post history is you looking for a woman who’s into golden showers and “water sports?”. This is why we shouldn’t be friendly with men. Friend or lover, they just want to use you for emotional support instead of going to therapy. Vet everyone.Lmao, she doesn’t give two shits about him 🤣. He’s so delusional making up a whole narrative that doesn’t even exist… if the co-worker actually even thought of him as a friend she would of let him know ahead of time that she thought about quitting. And here he is with such angst LOL, spouting nonsense that he’s losing a significant other, what an emotional, cheating goblin. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 08:11 PM |
| 8 | I think she's serious 😂I’d rather go through the delta variant all over again than propose to a man… 🤢 If you got to propose to a man just know that he will never ever respect you and it’s just a downwards road to hell from there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 07:58 PM |
| 25 | Can’t wait to see the male commenters of DM collectively lose their tiny minds.🎵 Started from the bottom now we here, started from the bottom now the whole team fuckin’ here 🎵 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 05:49 PM |
| 14 | Men don't care about women. They won't even engage with a book/movie/TV show if it was written by or centres a woman. They have class solidarity only with each otherI remember as a child I would BEG my father to find me movies with female protagonists who were kicking ass/doing cool shit. I got tired of the Barbie and Bratz franchise, I wanted to see women karate-chopping, going on adventures and fighting evil. It got to a point where he ran out of ideas because there just weren’t many films targeted for young girls in that genre. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 10:59 AM |
| 2 | Is This A Case of Too Good to Be True?Nepotistic men are just a no from the get go, they always reek of entitlement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 01:58 AM |
| 11 | 365 Days on Netflix really helped when I was feeling horny AF.I got through 15 minutes of the film before I felt as if a teenager wrote the script. There were frightening resemblances to shitty Wattpad fanfics that I used to devour in my early teen days lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 10:35 PM |
| 151 | I will let you guys tear into this one 🤣 keep in mind that the screenshots are NOT from a dating app so that makes it even worse. This app is solely for writing letters to people in different countries and making friends‘purple mushroom head’ is he proudly stating that he has an STI???? 🧐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 09:55 AM |
| 47 | “Communicating” gives LVM the perfect opportunity to gaslight youWhen a guy messes up or I feel hurt by their actions I never communicate it because it’s obvious what they did wrong, I just leave them lol. If they say “I had no idea/I didn’t know it would hurt you” they should know better because it’s basic emotional intelligence and if they lack that then they’re not good partners. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 06:43 AM |
| 4 | FDS when you're down on your looksYou should wait until you feel better about yourself because, from my experience anyway, when I felt badly of myself I let so many red flags slide that I normally wouldn’t have. For example, a scrote I blocked everywhere changed his number and contacted me but because I was feeling down I entertained it for a couple of days before I blocked which I normally would do in the first instance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 11:16 PM |
| 32 | Men know very well the horrors of non-consensual penetration and this is proof. Don't give them the benefit of the doubtOn an episode of The Boondocks, a character called Mr DuBois had a phobia of getting anally raped in prison so spent his whole life being a law abiding citizen and became a lawyer so it wouldn’t happen to him. He would even have nightmares about dropping the soap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 12:00 AM |
| 28 | Does anyone else find themselves shocked sometimes by judgements made by women they thought they REALLY knew?It was really off-putting when my friend shamed Mia Khalifa for making porn, it really caught me off guard because she knows of the horror of the industry, partook in hookup culture and has/had a boyfriend who was a regular consumer of porn. I had to distance myself after that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 07:57 AM |
| 4 | The Dying Art of ConversationOh it doesn’t bother me with friends at all! With men it’s a no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 03:44 PM |
| 13 | An observation regarding hair loss in men versus womenI’m on female hair loss too, I had covid really badly followed by a severe bout of anemia and my hair fell out in chunks and it’s struggling to grow back 10 months later. It really does impact my life because I see the way my parents look at my hair and when my dad was tipsy he pointed out how I’m really balding. My mum then rushed to tell me that it’s normal and that it happens to everyone 🥴, but really only women face the consequences. My dad is balding himself and no one has said anything abo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 06:35 AM |
| 44 | The Dying Art of ConversationI was talking to this guy seriously for quite some time (4 weeks which is a new record for me) I was really excited about him but alas, I’m always disappointed 🥲. He asked me a question about me but I remember covering the topic a while ago which had me questioning if he was even listening to me all this time. I proceeded to ask him questions about me which I’ve already talked about which concluded he wasn’t listening at all. I felt like such a clown, I ended it with him but oh my gosh, is it so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 05:48 AM |
| 27 | Reminder why it’s crucial that you do not reveal any personal information or pictures on the Reddit account you use for FDS. If writing a post looking for advice, I’d suggest lying about your age, the time the situation happened, names (obviously) etc for your own protection. Please stay safe.Since my inbox is closed, they will even go as far as commenting on any post you’ve made in other communities. A guy lurking on FDS commented on my animal crossing post. I would suggest just making an account SOLELY for FDS with inbox closed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 09:04 PM |
| 35 | When we say some men are delusional, this what they mean. Your wife is not yet born is creepy! Calling women pretty young things is gross and dehumanizing.This is some TOP level cringe and delusion. I’d rather talk to a guy my age who can’t speak the same language as me than talk to an old man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 01:35 AM |
| 21 | As an essential worker, I’ve honestly met more male ‘Karens’ in my life than the stereotypical lady ‘Karen’Yup! The most stern memories from working in service industry are from men threatening me. They couldn’t accept the fact that I couldn’t issue refunds for food they’ve already eaten or that a certain dish was out of stock. I’ve had rude women customers but it was nowhere near the level of men. I’m still kinda scared to this day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 09:35 PM |
| 112 | The IckThis was just the second time meeting him but it was enough to get an ick. The song “High fashion” by Roddy Ricch was playing and the line went like “I like you a lot bae” but instead of saying bae my date said bitch. I ordered an uber expeditiously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 03:57 PM |
| 23 | I knew I wasn't crazy to think that BDSM/rough sex is wildly incompatible with respecting someoneThe “🤷♂️” speaks volumes LMFAO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 09:03 PM |
| 40 | This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setupThe way he kept listing how his gf has helped him……. he would be struggling if it wasn’t for her. I was thinking about this earlier and felt guilty that I would leave early on in a relationship if something happened to the man because I knew he would leave me in the given situation. This just solidified it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 12:37 AM |
| 352 | Men always knowI cancelled a date on my way to the date (more like blocked him without telling him lmfao) when he told me that “it would be awkward if his colleagues saw us”. I knew instantly I wasn’t anyone serious to him and that wouldn’t change in the future. I would never say anything like that ever and besides we are grown ups now, why would it be awkward unless you were embarrassed of me? Their masks always slip, just trust yourself ladies and prioritise YOU. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 04:48 PM |
| 91 | A List of Lovebombs•When you throw back the question “what do you look for?” and they respond in a way that implies you e.g describes your physical appearance, “you” 🤢. 🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 10:44 PM |
| 202 | Never call a man out for negging youI block at the first insult/degradation, doesn’t matter how small it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 02:00 AM |
| 5 | Let's discuss! When did you first get assigned to sit next to a disruptive boy in class, supposedly to be a good influence on him?When I was 8 it was so exhausting. Sometimes I still have nightmares about it. 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 02:40 PM |
| 79 | Passive men are a huge turn off, and actually dangerous.In the same breath, I hate men that get overly confrontational with women. It’s so easy for men to overshadow, overpower and demean women so whenever I see a guy raising his voice and being disrespectful (when it’s not warranted), it’s always a huge huge red flag and turn off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 02:55 AM |
| 16 | ladies whats some red flags that tell you a man is low key sexist?I don’t know how to word this but one time a guy I didn’t know all that well pointed out that my knees were ashy and instantly my gut told me to get away from him (to which I did). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 08:00 PM |
| 12 | A Coward Move Many Men Make and I Just Don’t UnderstandIt’s because he never genuinely loved or even liked her in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 05:12 PM |
| 51 | Block and deleteGhosting makes them ANGRY. It’s literally the most optimal response. Block and delete and move on with your life. :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 05:07 PM |
| 24 | How do you feel about the squid game? Do you think it’s worth watching?I struggled to get past the first episode because of how much of a loser the main character is and I hated how he stole money from his mum and let her work like that while being a huge bum. But I really loved the other characters apart from the thug, my fave was the woman that was disliked by everyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 03:09 PM |
| 37 | She asked her partner of 6 years out on their first date. He confessed to her that he was unattracted to her for 2 years🤣🤣🤣 anal sex and empowering bahahahaha that’s so funny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 01:30 PM |
| 86 | Men created the nuclear family and that's what destroyed society.At this point, I’m not having a child nor a husband. It’s just not worth it, even if babies are just so adorably cute it’s too much of a risk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 01:57 AM |
| 289 | I think all women should have height requirements actually. 😌I’m only attracted to tall and strong guys. I can’t help it, it’s my biology 😏. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 12:53 PM |
| 24 | He knows he's making you feel uncomfortable and he likes itI remember when I was 17 working at Pizza Hut and my manager wanted to have a talk with me in his office. I thought I was getting a promotion, spoiler alert I wasn’t. Instead, I got asked about how many boys I’m sleeping with, if I do drugs, drink and if I would be interested in kissing him and doing more. He didn’t expect me to say no (I got fired after that). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 02:30 AM |
| 250 | 🙄🙄🙄 I just want to say I never like this excuse for a manMen have it so easy I swear to God. I remember as a child I did everything I could to cater to my father’s emotions. I could read his emotions from experiencing his anger and annoyance repeatedly (he would verbally abuse my mother and grandmother). I would always wish there was alcohol at every function we went to so my dad would be happier💀. I would chew quietly because I knew it would annoy him when he was feeling irate already. When I was 20 I remember him telling my 11 year old sister how he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 02:06 AM |
| 77 | I bailed on a date and I’ve never been more proud of myselfNo literally. It even isn’t that hard to pick a good restaurant (which takes 0 creativity)? It’s so unattractive and a total turn off. I will always reward incompetence by blocking. 😌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 01:38 AM |
| 133 | I bailed on a date and I’ve never been more proud of myselfI also cancelled a date as well. The guy asked if I would be interested in seeing him to which I agreed (thought that meant dinner date), the time nearly arrives before he asks me “So what do we plan to do?”. Boy bye. I’m not planning anything, that’s your job. I told him I’m not interested anymore and blocked lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 01:29 AM |
| 24 | Pay 👏 attention 👏 to your bodily reactions 👏 Anytime I've been consciously or subconsciously stressed & suspicious about a guy/relationship, I'd get MAD BREAKOUTS which immediately cleared EVERY TIME upon breaking up.I find it so worrying that my chronic illness shares most of the symptom list… the wrong man can literally be a sickness for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 12:01 AM |
| 36 | Let’s create a megathread: What is one of the best pieces of advice you’ve learned from this sub that has blown your mind or had the greatest impact on your life?Trust your gut instinct, you’re right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 09:58 PM |
| 112 | Case Study: A brief conversation with a LVMI once told a dude that he was too ugly to send nudes to (wasn’t going to send any regardless) and he absolutely lost the plot. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 05:11 PM |
| 83 | This is some of the vitriol that our podcast hosts recieve. Be very careful when talking about FDS. These men live and walk among us.BAHAHAHAHA men are so emotional. 😹😹 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 12:03 PM |
| 46 | Some 'men' chime in on who should pay...I just really don’t understand men like at all. Every time I ask my friends to go somewhere with me, I always pick up the entire bill with 0 hesitation and I am never filled with resentment for doing the right thing lmao.💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 07:26 AM |
| 37 | *Bane Voice*I saw that on Twitter and the men were absolutely horrified that a woman stood up for herself. Love to see it. 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 10:48 AM |
| 52 | First date: let’s watch a movie on discord!“I’ll stream the movie.” 😎 See I put some effort in show me n00dz now. Do men not know how much of a turn off this is.. just leave instead of putting women through this. No one is forcing men to go on dates so why are they wasting women’s time like this.. oh wait in hopes for free sex for the most minimalist amount of effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 11:52 AM |
| 15 | Can somebody please save her from a life of misery with an old lvmI’m literally so thankful that I found FDS when I was 19 years old and in a relationship with a 26 year old groomer. It truly opened my eyes and I began acknowledging the red flags and noping the fuck out of there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 05:54 AM |
| 38 | You Can Learn Lot From Their Behavior at the GymWHAT?! They don’t flush?! Why wouldn’t they flush? 😱😱😱😱 Pooped boxers, no wiping, doesn’t wash hands….. and now this… men are so disgusting wtf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 02:51 PM |
| 55 | When did it “click” for you that’s what posted here/the principles were helping/helped you? Let’s start a list for others…When FDS really highlighted that cherishing your partner is NORMAL and EXPECTED. I started to realise it was me who was doing everything, me trying to make him happy and never the other way around. He never bought me a gift or if he did it was because I hinted lots of times that I wanted measly flowers and a box of chocolates. The term “if he wanted to he would” really struck a cord in me because I saw him buying himself gifts and his family gifts I was just never included. I couldn’t unsee how … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 04:16 AM |
| 12 | Pick a Partner, NOT a ProjectIs it okay to want a generous financially stable man even if you aren’t where you want to be? Because sometimes I feel guilty for not wanting that type of guy even though I’m going to work minimum wage. Edit: cross out word | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 02:37 AM |
| 62 | Is the perception of being nice or kind really so different for men and women?I’ve had guys call me rude so many times because I don’t give them what they want. It’s always about how you can serve them 🙄. This one guy kept writing me paragraphs and I’d reply with 2 lines and that wouldn’t be enough entertainment for him. Another guy wanted me to message him first. Another guy lied to me about his height (got him to show me his passport which has his real height on it issued in 2019) and when I corrected him he got really offended. I told a guy that he texts in a way that … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 02:34 AM |
| 67 | THE CORE OF THE DATING WAR: Money.Fr. I will never pay 50/50 and the man has to cover every single cost for every date. And I expect gifts (I include it into my vetting strategy). It has worked SO well, they ghost once I mention I want ___ or ___ or they’ll straight up say no why would I buy you that. The trash takes itself out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 05:20 PM |
| 22 | Field report - how LVM masquerade as HVMEven when a woman is attractive she still isn’t seen as a human being more like a potential fleshlight that needs to be manipulated into bed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 02:42 PM |
| 35 | Where he asks you out to the first date should be appropriate for how much he makes & why splitting the bill is even more offensive logicallyI also ask if they’re going to pay for the bill before the date occurs and I’ve had guys fess up that they were thinking about splitting it or that dates going further they would want to go half. They think it’s normal to split the date so they’re mostly truthful about it (lol bye, never be with a man who makes you pay even a little for a date). One time a guy had said “well now that you’ve asked I’m not going to pay for the bill anymore” and he STILL expected me to go on the date. 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 02:11 AM |
| 63 | 🚨 Male shit tests and the pickme radar 🚨Men’s tests for women are just outright a checklist of how far they can use you for their own depraved benefit. Women’s tests are: will he pay for dinner? Will he bring up his ex(es) as any point? Will he talk about sex at any point? Will he make a subtle derogatory comment about women in any circumstance? Men’s tests are just totally abhorrent. I | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 02:06 AM |
| 11 | What are your standards for a proposal and ring etc?Pink sapphire ring worth 5-10k. Even if I love him he still needs to show that he’s invested in me financially as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 04:08 PM |
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