pinkelephants777 Archive

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2	Q4W: How many "Chads" did you sleep with before you met your current partner? More realistically around 50, men and women (I’m bi). But like I said neither of us counted because we honestly don’t care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 10:15 AM
0	Q4W: How many "Chads" did you sleep with before you met your current partner? My fiancé and I fit this stereotype, we both had a lot of fun in college but I doubt it’s 100+ (neither of us knows the exact number). We were both very open about this with each other from the very beginning. How does he compare to other men I’ve been with? He’s superior to all of them in every category. I personally consider him a total Chad: tall, good looking, and successful. He’s also incredibly kind, affectionate, and intelligent. We fell in love after being close friends, he asked me to b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 10:07 AM
19	Are millennials a lost generation? Or just the start of a new normal? Marriage and birth rates are way down because we cannot afford to have families anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/22 11:55 PM
3	Redpillers/blackpillers are doing exactly what they complain about Yea that makes sense. It’s still just really sad to see people approaching love and relationships like some fucked up game where your only goal is to one up the other person. Intergender relationships are one of those fields that is almost impossible to study objectively because nearly everyone has some sort of trauma related to it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/22 12:25 AM
2	Redpillers/blackpillers are doing exactly what they complain about Honest question: since when did finding a partner become some sort of vitriolic battle between the sexes? Aren’t we supposed to be searching for someone to fall in love with?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/22 11:48 PM
4	Women's inflated self-rating today is mostly due to men's desperation on OLD Exactly. I tried it in college and had so many awful experiences I swore off it forever. I met my current partner through a mutual interest and we were friends for quite some time before we started dating. Honestly the entire dating game in general is just objectively awful for everyone involved.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/22 11:41 PM
2	Serious question. What TRULY is the point of marriage for men? My parents got married nearly 40 years ago and they took their vows very seriously. When my dad had a stroke and was no longer able to provide for us, my mom stepped up rejoined the work force. My dad went from being a high powered lawyer to being unable to walk, talk, or use the bathroom by himself overnight. She nursed him back to health and within a year, he was able to do most of the things he was previously capable of. She stuck by his side as he went through horrible trauma, when he develo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/22 08:17 PM
2	Contrary to what some in here think, it doesn’t matter how attractive, wealthy or charismatic a man is. It only takes one minor misstep or sometimes nothing at all for a woman to completely lose interest. Dating just sucks in general. People are so fickle and will catch the “ick” over anything. That being said I don’t think playing games with her texting was the right move, I found the best thing to do is be upfront about your intentions and if they feel the same way you have a match, if they don’t then you just saved yourself lots of time and bullshit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 09:53 PM
1	most women like having sex with their beta husbands too. Some people settle with whoever will commit to them regardless of attraction level, but some people find “the one” and feel lucky every day they spend with that person. It definitely relates to personal standards and insecurity. I think for a lot of people, one night stands are just that: a novelty one time thing that’s more about the thrill than anything else. In these situations where you barely know the person, you go with the only information you have on them in that moment, which is how att…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 07:21 PM
7	Those supporting "sexual freedom" have no place shaming men for being "predatory" I think we as a society need to stop assigning worth to sex or lack thereof between 2 consenting adults. Sex positivity needs to include men and women, virgins and people with tons of partners. Or else it’s just another double standard that does nothing but pushes us back further. As long as they aren’t hurting anyone, let people live their lives in peace.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 06:54 PM
2	Poor timing lol She’s trying to make the situation less awkward for you, it sounds like she’s really into you and has a good sense of humor! You’re on a roll here:)	/r/seduction	14/08/21 02:34 AM
6	[deleted by user] This 100%! I would be really put off by some guy I’ve never met telling me I looked sad the last time he saw me. Maybe I was, but I don’t feel comfortable talking to a stranger about it. I’d feel a lot better if he commented something nice about my workout, or asked me what I was listening to on my earbuds, or even just telling me I look nice today.	/r/seduction	14/08/21 02:33 AM
15	Update: Had one of the worst first date scenarios ever, but saved it by staying composed and in control This is so wholesome, you sound like a great date. Big ups for giving her your shoes bc I can guarantee that level of compassion is what made her comfortable enough to spend the night. Keep us posted!	/r/seduction	18/07/21 01:45 AM
3	What do you do when people flirt with you? Be honest and upfront. If someone is flirting with you and you aren’t interested for whatever reason, let them down gently. If someone is flirting and you’re into them, tell them that and make plans to hang out. If someone tries to play games with you, let them go. You don’t have time for that and have too many people waiting in line anyway! Enjoy your hot boy summer	/r/seduction	18/07/21 01:37 AM
3	31 male no girlfriend. Hardly any friends. Lonely AF I’m sorry you’re feeling so lonely right now, the past year and a half has been really hard for many people. I would suggest getting involved in a hobby where you have the opportunity to make new friends, such as a cooking class, poetry club, joining a band, laser tag, anything you’re interested in! It may take some time to make new friends, but keep at it and you’ll meet some cool people who have similar interests as you, and maybe even someone you could end up dating. I know it doesn’t seem li…	/r/seduction	18/07/21 01:32 AM
1	Hello my fellow seddit community I'm \|24M\|I really want to get better at approaching women and eliminating my social anxiety to have a more fulfilling social life. What steps can I do? to improve now? My recommendation is find a hobby or group of people that enjoy the same things as you, and start there. My boyfriend also has social anxiety, but we met through a mutual interest and he hired me to teach him a skill related to that interest. Over time we became friends, and eventually I started looking at him as more than a friend. He asked me to be his girlfriend before we’d even had our first kiss and 6 months later, I’ve never been happier. It’s a very comfortable relationship because we spe…	/r/seduction	28/06/21 06:19 PM