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MOOD FOR LIFEpinkgirly111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 02:53 AM
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DISCUSSIONpinkgirly111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 06:44 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYpinkgirly111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 02:49 AM
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this is literally so terrible and wrong. god i wish i had a magic wand and could just fix things.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/02/23 11:00 AM
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yes!!! the pandemic got me into reddit and then there was a popular post here. i couldnt believe the takes i was reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:27 PM
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they get off on changing your mind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 05:27 AM
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i’d easier to degrade us when they dehumanize us first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 05:20 AM
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yep. bc men get off, like get the fuck off, on validation from women. it’s sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 05:12 AM
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to guys like him, wOmEn are not people, they only exist make him feel good. so glad you never met this loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 05:06 AM
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diseased
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 04:50 AM
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ugh second paragraph in and i’m reeling…ok continuing on. edit: they are so transparent. they pull the sad sap, nice guy, romantic game. i’m sorry op.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 04:46 AM
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it’s like a game. i had plans to go out with this guy, and l had to cx for a legit reason. two hours later he’s like, we’ll now i’m doing THIS. like, ok? i didn’t respond. idk what is it little shit games. little ego boosts by leaving you hanging. il not sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 03:57 PM
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usually it’s marry her and have the family. then cheat, cheat, cheat. then divorce for wife and family #2. i’ve seen is so many times. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 07:41 PM
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this. but her body will do in the meantime. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 07:38 PM
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control. it’s always about control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 07:22 PM
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omg this is so accurate and so disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 07:08 PM
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and they all laugh…ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 07:04 PM
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i ignore the chats so i don’t see them anymore. i’m usually a responder so i feel bad (which, why??) otherwise. don’t respond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 07:03 PM
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you women. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 01:57 AM
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it’s funny bc i always think i’m imagining this, and here it is. laid out. fucking sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 04:49 PM
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i had to read this twice to understand. and i’m fucking livid. sometimes i just want to give up. how can men be so cruel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 09:29 AM
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i hate these men. i got my wisdom teeth out as an adult and my face puffed up so bad and i looked so ugly and he literally left home for three days. i still cry thinking about it. my sweet, sweet family came over and took care of me (ofc i gave them an excuse) that was the beginning of the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 08:18 AM
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that beard is really hard to look at. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 07:32 AM
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it’s the haha for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 09:15 PM
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i. fucking. can’t. and adam is a ✨nice guy✨ how many man children grew up on this fantasy??? literally my ex still thinks it’s cute to act like a kid. grow the fuck up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 04:46 PM
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naw, cops are complicit. they are the worst abusers of all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 04:43 PM
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this may be controversial, but is that a safe breed to have around two small children?!? what an asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 03:24 PM
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epic post. proud of you. also thinking of waiting a misogynist supposedly HV job bc i just can’t take it anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:13 AM
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OMG YES!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 02:30 AM
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holy fuck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 03:23 PM
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be safe 😭😭😭😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 08:14 PM
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i looked at the hashtag they are using and the posts are repulsive. it’s scares me that people actually think this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 06:38 PM
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SAME! the world stopped and i felt like my life started!!! i think not having to deal with societal abuse was a huge part of it!!! no performative “being sweet bc girl” anymore. the freedom to say the fuck no to ANYTHING bc pandemic. not having to be around a single man (i live alone) was glorious. i’m still wfh with a small circle, but i do not miss their creepiness. i think i felt safe for the first time ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 04:23 PM
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yep, i’m done. notice they will never act this way to their friends or male peers. just us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 02:51 PM
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they hate us! they hate us even more when we’re right!!!! so then he has to go to incel reddit for backup. fuck these losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 02:41 PM
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yep. miranda deserved so much better. it’s almost like a punishment!!! i said this in the AJLT sub and got downvoted to hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 02:39 PM
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hence the manipulation: love bombing, gas lighting, future faking. it’s all there. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 02:32 PM
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they really just think with their dicks. dudes and their damn dicks. sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 03:50 PM
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especially for people who just moved there. like how bad do you want to warn someone sometimes?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 07:33 PM
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yas! love 2c it!!! 💖💖 edit: i just got caught up and what an absolute piece of shit. this is 💯 what men are doing when they go quiet. don’t be naive. (and i have been…) edit 2: he’s 6’4, lives in brooklyn and looks like it, a virgo (DUH) and the texting games are so bad. the projection onto the girls of what he does….it’s all there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 07:32 PM
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yeah after thinking about it move, she should keep it moving. idk how anyone is dating rn, but that’s just me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 05:03 PM
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that’s fair. i guess i was under the impression it was still pretty new…i don’t text daily with dudes i went on one date with. however, if she’s questioning it already…that’s not a good sign. idk i would send one text, IF she’s interested still, and if that doesn’t go well, bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 05:45 AM
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maybe try to think about it this way, you think they’re bland or awful, so you fuck them?? if it’s the orgasm you want, a vibe is a no-risk option! if it’s the interaction, maybe meet the guys but practice going home solo. i had a nice time, thank you! you might get to know some of them better too. at the end of the day, it’s your life and you should be happy and enjoy it. good luck! 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 05:27 AM
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it sounded like a legit question to me. i had an HIV scare and that’s what turned me off of casual sex…the fact a lifelong disease could have been a consequence of my hookup. so that’s the scared straight approach lol. but i also started thinking about sex as something precious i’m sharing with someone special. not just any dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 04:49 AM
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i think you have to decide what you want first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 04:42 AM
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if you want to keep this going, i would text him. if he doesn’t respond, is shady, or you get any sense he’s lying, next him. i will say working in health care is so stressful right now. he legit might be exhausted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 02:35 AM
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what a cheap bastard. i can’t read these anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 12:58 AM
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the accuracy 🙅🏼‍♀️🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 11:54 PM
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YESSSSSSS! they fucking straight up LIE! they all say 5’10. if he says that, he’s lying. (my friends and i created this rule when we were OLD, i would never swipe anymore tho. 🤮) i am actually tall so i’d get so frustrated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 11:29 PM
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i have realized the only reason most men even want a relationship is for regular sex. that’s all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 07:44 PM
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i thought this story was totally false. is it actually true?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 04:10 AM
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how convenient. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 11:46 PM
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yea. agree a million percent. and they won’t bc too many men and shitty women excuse shitty men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 03:35 PM
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oof it’s never gonna end. get ready. can you get out of it somehow?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 04:03 AM
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oh my god NO!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 03:26 AM
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ugh. so transparent always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 01:43 AM
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yes. they have a hard time understanding we fear for our fucking lives during these encounters. who knows if he’s lying about the details of how it went down too. it’s all too common. she probably got spooked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 06:17 PM
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interesting to see how common this behavior is! i also dated someone who would get upset when i was unavailable, but then call me “crazy” 🚩 and “impatient” when he would go days without responding. these guys see you as a means to an end versus a human, person they respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 06:02 PM
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ok good. thank god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 09:12 PM
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good GOD! this makes me FUME! of course it’s some bald bitch lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 09:12 PM
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i asked to see his photos, lol, since he is clearly comfortable posting hers. no response. you know for damn sure this dude is not 6ft.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 04:41 AM
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i wish this was higher up. they love bomb and then withdraw. it’s sick and learned and a tactic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 05:22 AM
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woof. i feel this in my bones. maybe there is somehow you can?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 04:23 AM
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it’s the worst. what i’ve learned from experience is they end up resenting you and then they hurt you. it’s hard bc they really put you on a pedestal in the beginning and that feels good. the guys that use the emotional strategy (and it is a strategy) are the worst. it’s very toxic and predatory. i know how hurtful it is, but him showing his true colors now is a blessing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 04:10 AM
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OMG the best. you reminded me of ariel, you did not say much but your eyes said so much. what was i thinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 12:55 AM
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i was going to comment this, but held back. they LOOK like harmless nerds, but they are most def not. it’s scary. i used to feel bad for weird dudes, but these guys are dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 05:40 AM
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i’m so thankful to have been single through covid. i think i would have literally killed my ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 06:40 PM
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it’s never his fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 03:27 PM
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i am so irrationally angry about this. he’s such a tool, and he’s gotta go on a national talk show, drunk, to defend how he’s a good guy (duh) and make it about the “kids”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 10:44 AM
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ok, so ben is already on kimmel and explaining himself. like he sits down and it’s the first fucking thing he talks about. bc he’s the good guy. also, he sounds drunk AF. thoughts: https://youtu.be/g2KKhmgelEw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 09:38 AM
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i could have sworn that she helped him win a goddamn oscar. i’d have to look it up, but when he was nominated, they were on a “perfect family” PR mission! and he has the nerve to complain. sorry i’m on one. i don’t know ben affleck, but i’ve known his type forever. fuck them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 08:22 AM
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they tend to rewrite history. ben affleck is such a textbook loser dude. he makes me so angry. i bet he chased after jen g. and fed her so many promises. women are a game to men like this. an escape from their own self loathing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 08:00 AM
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this is not a funny subject, but the way you put it 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 07:58 AM
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it was wild! she was running around hollywood with new manis and new cars like she was a STAR. 🤦🏼‍♀️ THEN a pic surfaced of her on a private plane, wearing all of tom brady’s super bowl rings! once gisele was involved she was shut down quickly lol. wonder what she’s up to now. no matter what the guy tells you, i could never act like that, especially to jen garner?? like, tf???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 05:46 AM
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ben is a dude who treats women as another “substance” to get high off. i literally hate men like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 04:47 AM
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oh yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 04:45 AM
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omg the nanny!!!! i was OBSESSED with that story. the best was when she upgraded to a lexus with ben’s hush money and was posing for the paps in it. what a scene.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 04:44 AM
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never tell men your trauma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 12:32 PM
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this sub is redic. i cannot believe people post and comment on this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:23 AM
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he hit the wall early.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 12:32 AM
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this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 12:30 AM
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you will get there! esp in stem. there is never a shortage of users. it’s kind is shocking. just remember you are the prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:40 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:03 AM
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i just have to vent some more. she’s like what are you spending your money on? it’s like, whatever the fuck i want bc it’s my money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:00 AM
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that’s where i’m at. like $200 is a bargain to be done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 07:58 AM
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and if i cut her off now i might be out the $200 she owes me (as she’s talking about MY money) but that’s nothing in the long run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 07:53 AM
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it makes me so angry bc, like, i don’t operate that way! that’s such a shitty way to treat people. i can’t comprehend it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 07:52 AM
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i’m just kinda done. i quit responding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 07:45 AM
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omg this is what i’m dealing with 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 07:45 AM
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exactly this. they want to think you’re hanging on every word. swooning for them. it’s kinda sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 07:09 AM
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yes, and i’ve really started realizing that, as a woman, people expect you to give in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 06:04 AM
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most men are trying to get control. i firmly believe it’s all a game to them. i am (and i question why a lot) an easy going and agreeable person. men will actively try to make me upset. like they want to know they have the power to do this. i always watch for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 05:52 AM
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this article is from 2014, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:18 AM
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you’re assuming it’s women want male porn/sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:14 AM
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ooh i’m heated. i hate when people decide your money is our money. i had a friend, a good girlfriend, do this to me just last night. i’m contemplating cutting her off for good. there’s something just so shady about it. i work hard for what i have, not to have someone scheming on it. i keep my cards close to my chest when it comes to finances. bc at the end of the day, for a woman especially, money is freedom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 05:13 AM
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women do not choose these men, tf? they are victims of these men. edit : i see you are a troll. people like you are a big part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:32 PM
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violence, abuse, retaliation, revenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:21 PM
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naw. still to this day women many reasons to be fearful of men. however things are very recently beginning to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:16 PM
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women have been conditioned to be agreeable bc of the threat of what men will do to them if they aren’t. very different scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:52 PM
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textbook vulture behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 08:39 PM
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imagine what women could have done if they had a men taking care of the home and children etc. men didn’t do it all, they had help. now there is a generation of men who don’t have women to lean on for these roles and men are struggling with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:33 PM
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same. it’s been over six months since i blocked him and i’m still depressed and empty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 04:40 PM
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do you mean dating market or casual sex market
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:25 PM
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it’s a game to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 03:07 PM
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i think men and women are both really scarred from OLD “dating” idk what it’ll take to heal, but working on yourself is never a bad idea. it’ll happen when it’s supposed to!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:11 PM
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i love that page, but it’s almost an art page. whoever runs it edits photos a lot and adds quotes etc. it’s a cute page tho and i’m here for the message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 02:24 PM
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i high key doubt it, but if you rewatch and find it, please lmk! i saw this on paris2000s stan account.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 09:22 PM
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lol i don’t think she actually said this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 05:10 PM
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gross. leave him to die alone, dick in hand, with his pixels. sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 04:37 PM
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oooooh girl that amnesia is real. i went through this recently too. i was like dude you were begging me, crying even, to be with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 02:14 PM
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lol to any man that wants to bitch about makeup. literally look at these tats. permanent makeup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 10:40 PM
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🛎🛎🛎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 06:28 PM
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YES WE ARE! WITH OUR CUTE ASS DOGS AND BESTIES ON THE TEXT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 06:02 PM
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i have never, ever had this urge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 08:41 AM
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like fake to get posted here to neg us. i didn’t realize how popular this sub was. its discussed in so many other subs. i also had a highly upvoted comment recently and def experienced the vitriol from male commenters. it was weird af!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 08:27 AM
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this is the most dangerous time of the abusive relationship: when the woman tries to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 08:24 AM
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these have to be fake at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 07:54 AM
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men excusing men! what else is new!!! fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 04:51 AM
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that’s why i put women in my post, bc you’re right, they sure as hell know about consent then!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 09:51 AM
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“how does basketball work” 😭😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 05:36 AM
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ok trying again so my comment doesn’t get removed. especially bc this behavior bothered me so much: my ex had a BMW, stick shift (manual? lol) he drove that thing like he was trying to ki.ll me. in and out of lanes of traffic, zoom up and slow down, pass people. one of my final straws with him was seeing him drive like that with his mother in the car and me wedged in the backseat. she was begging him to quit it, and he didn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 10:42 PM
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raccoon! 😭😭😭😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 05:56 PM
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ok, i have to know what you did/said. i live for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 05:55 PM
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damn girl! straight facts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 05:49 PM
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omg the self loathing, taken out on women. i know this guy too. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 08:21 AM
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good point! my take was that dudes are searching for some sort of “magic girl” and “she” is often a figment of porn or movies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 08:18 AM
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he’s faking it for you to see. they are so petty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 07:00 AM
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so cliche. and i’m sure this is a line he has used for yearrrrrrs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 06:53 AM
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i’m rewatching greys and when she said that, i was floored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 06:40 AM
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YUP! i live in a city of that experienced major riots over the treatment of POC by police. so SO many men were on board. calling out the cops and racists. THEN! the men on the local music scene began getting called out for being rapist, grooming, abusers. those same men, screaming about racism, silent. it was sick. i lost a lot of friends over it bc i saw their true colors. all men benefit from shitty men’s behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 06:29 AM
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for real. we can never win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 06:02 AM
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tbh it was my take from the beginning…the comments confirmed. i’m sure the princess and the current (hopefully ex!) girlfriend are dolls. he and his family have some imaginary bar and no woman will meet it, expect one willing to give up her dignity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 05:46 AM
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most hetero men seem to like all/any sexual encounters with women. which is why (i think) they don’t understand or care about sexual harassment/rape/ etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 05:26 AM
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they are hyper sensitive about it bc they know how much they try to con us. like literally one of my first memories of television is george on seinfeld. showing a picture of a beautiful woman as his widow…to fool other women that he as deserving. i was what, 8? anyways on a tangent now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 05:10 AM
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they are projecting. cuz they’re always putting on some act to get laid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 05:03 AM
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bc men think any beauty enhancements are deceiving them. i have hair extensions and i told a guy i was dating. he goes, “i feel deceived.” this is how they think. they want something that doesn’t exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 04:48 AM
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this dude is probs balding and jealous of her hair. i def have a special hair towel (microfiber turban). he can’t just let her shine, he has to cut her down to feel better about himself. edit: found the post and he claims she is “biracial” this now seems like covert racism…what he doesn’t know is women of all ethnicities use hair towels. sometimes i wonder if those posts are actually real. i hope not, but i sure did post my relationship issues back in my pick me days, so i fear they are real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 04:35 AM
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THIS! they are so insecure and bringing you down gets them off. he’s probs jealous of her hair bc he’s probably balding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 04:31 AM
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agreed. and blaming it on a woman. again. sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 04:11 AM
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it’s a blessing. don’t move in with a boyfriend. you usually become a forever girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 03:52 AM
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the worst. ive been contemplating writing a post about this bc the old flames have been coming out of the woodwork over the pandemic and as i enter my late 30s. i’ve been burned by two former high school boyfriends. one was obvious, i entertained it but wasn’t too shocked when he was still a douche. the other one…fuck. i loved him back in the day. he brought up all our cute high school moments, told me he loved me, wanted forever…then gave me an STD. then denied he ever said that stuff, he “wasn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 11:41 PM
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these guys are losers who cannot afford to take you out on the steak date date. so they take it out on you. dont let these losers bring you down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 12:43 AM
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bc it's literally the fact that men want THEM to be YOUR whole life. they want you on call for them. if you have hobbies, pets, friends, interests, it interferes with their needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 12:21 AM
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any guy (it's usually guys, but anyone in general) that talks shit about my little white dog is cut off. major red flag. also - dudes get jealous of the attention and care i pay my dog. it is so bizarre and sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 12:10 AM
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they always want to bring me down. they start out gassing me up, then start tearing me down. i'm tired of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 12:03 AM
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porn is not real. it is made by men, for men. my ex's porn use really bothered me. he refused to give it up though. so i started flirting with men, no intentions of cheating, but just for fun. i told him that porn to men was like attention to women. he could NOT handle it. i had to deal with his "harmless" porn, but he couldn't deal with my "harmless" flirting?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 12:01 AM
11

wow, how embarrassing. it all feels so backhanded, while at the same time, putting her in her place (same value as a baseball card, barf).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 05:25 PM
163

i read that on this sub, and thought about my mom. i realized i often complimented her in that way! so i starting giving her more thoughtful compliments about HER. i am so embarrassed i did this to her without realizing it. this sub has really helped me to reflect and implement positive change in so many different parts of my life and relationships. the women here are brilliant!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 05:23 PM
63

and age. they def lie about their age to match with younger women. so creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 06:46 PM
21

solipsism omg. i learned something today. this is so spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:11 PM
27

"cool girl" is just a euphemism for doormat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:10 PM
41

Yep. might seem like the goal to get one, but most are sluts with a god complex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 02:44 PM
10

thank you for this. you're so right about the scars - i actually have a name for it. i call it "the deep hurt" it comes in waves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 06:25 PM
49

i honestly wish men realized how much sex assault traumatizes. and then somehow the victim is the dirty one. like, the whole trajectory of my life changed. ugh. does therapy help you? ive been off and on since i was 16. sometimes i feel better when i bottle it up. this sub helps me feel less alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 05:44 PM
60

i suffered in silence - this was the early 2000's and those boys were fucking cruel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 03:28 PM
6

BAHAHAHAHAHAHA, losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 01:52 PM
7

im leaning towards this actually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 07:41 PM
48

THANK YOU! i was just looking this up the other day! my maintenance guy is starting to get a bit too friendly w/my dog and i. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 06:28 PM
20

i think most women just want to believe...it's heartbreaking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 11:49 PM
42

so mysterious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 11:20 PM
1

WHEWWWWWWWW!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 07:05 PM
72

dudes and their dicks...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 06:18 PM
5

emotionally constipated LOL you know, i don't know. the lying and deception was so painful. i found out about the cheating bc he gave me an STD. the loser then tried to blame me. made me show him my medical records/results! then the story came out in pieces. i still get so sick and so angry when i think about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 06:06 PM
526

this is how they think. seriously. its scary af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 01:31 PM
1

talks about women like objects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:33 AM
30

-His past relationship history indicates that he is rarely single. This is someone who uses relationships as a distraction from working on themselves. whew! how naive i was. i thought he was a serial monogamist. turns out he was a sex addict and cheater. used women for entertainment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:06 AM
1

this. the successful docs i know do NOT advertise it on those apps. they were adamant about not advertising it, actually. the students, residents, and fuckboys in medicine are different tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 08:19 PM
11

hahaha thanks. i see some loser commented to say how stupid i am, but was swiftly removed. so thankful to have this space to discuss. <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:13 PM
52

this. and so many of them think this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 04:31 PM
38

no. they hate it when you stand up to them. violently hate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 04:11 PM
1

so daft. shoulders, chest, and stomach are normal. no one is talking about walking around naked.
/r/AntiFeminists24/09/21 03:08 PM
382

i was actually surprised when i saw some of the comments calling the groom out. maybe the only good thing to come from Gabby Petito's horrific murder will be a heightened sense of signs of Domentic Abuse or IPV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 02:56 PM
221

this is so sick. i wish we could have a hate crime status. misogyny is so bad lately. and i feel it's because women as a collective are at the "leaving" stage of the abusive relationship with society. which is the most dangerous time. bc abusers are losing their control. (there is nothing scientific about this conclusion, just my thoughts as of late).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 01:34 PM
7

hmmmm, shit, that's an interesting take. he is/was a major womanizer. he's an owner, so keep that in mind. i've always felt pretty "safe" with them bc they all know my family...one of the newer guys (who was trying to get with me hard) told me he was asking around about me and said i was "off limits" (gross, but i'll take that). sometimes they resent you if you don't play into it? uhg i hate this shit. also, i am single. i kinda want to invent a boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:44 PM
10

oh yeah. i def have some stories from when i first started out...i looked up gray rocking, and i may have been doing that all along with them. it works, tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:34 PM
8

yeah, i was kinda like, ok?? and it was awk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:32 PM
15

that would be ideal...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:28 PM
16

i think of it more as "boundary pushing"...will i look the other way...sucks. bc i feel i am normally pretty respected. this was kind of out of left field.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:27 PM
17

"not safe for your career" men are so weird and hierarchical too. like i was invited to interview for another practice that sometimes interacts with my practice. i interviewed well, but was told (in confidence) that ultimately they didn't want to take me from my current practice. they were worried the partners would be upset! like this is a job, not a relationship. the things we deal with. *now i am just venting, lol*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 09:12 PM
7

what is grey rocking? i suppose i could google...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 09:03 PM
15

also, wanted to add, i have stood up to other men at work...but i kinda know who/what i can get away with. when it's the partners, it's different. no one wants to stand up to them regardless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:36 PM
9

thank you, this is the realistic take/advice i was looking for. it's a fine line to walk. it sucks, but it's true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:32 PM
23

omg, my stomach just dropped at the thought of actually doing that LOL. a part of it was i was taken so off guard by his joke/story. i don't think any of us realized where it was going. and then it was like...wow ok. i felt like people like looked for my reaction. if that makes sense. it was just awkward af and i was not expecting it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:21 PM
53

this is my take too. obviously i'd like to scream FUCK THE PATRIARCHY at the top of my lungs but...let's be realistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:09 PM
40

also - i'm not necessarily dealing with sexual harassment here...just working with dudes. if that makes sense...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:07 PM
43

tbh that's the best part of WFH. not having to deal with people being gross. sad but true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 07:17 PM
67

even to a superior?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 07:17 PM
69

yeah, that's kind of my take.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 07:08 PM
136

i did a deep dive last night. he was also in a relationship with a woman and they had two kids together. he was using a friends apartment to host her for that weekend. my guess is she found out about the girlfriend and kids. i've hooked up with two married men before (they LIED) and when i confronted them, they did 180s and turned into animals. now that i'm older i realize how risky that was, i should have just blocked! her friends (always keep your girlfriends!) are being very vocal about getti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 06:25 PM
20

i like how he leads with insulting her. nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 06:18 PM
69

that was foul.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 07:04 PM
11

i can ooooonly imagine the sob stories my ex's give their new victims about me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:38 PM
8

they truly see how far they can go, basically force you to leave them. then they start all over, love-bombing a new, unsuspecting victim. it's a sick game, and i think tinder and porn are big factors behind this behavior. i don't remember things being this bad when i was younger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:13 PM
24

i cannot imagine living with a man ever again. my boyfriend i lived with was always groping me, pulling the shower curtains back, cuddling on me, trying to watch me change, telling me what "looked good" on me. and then calling me a shit girlfriend for not being receptive to it. so yeah, live for you, and do NOT let any jealous loser, who is stuck in a miserable existence, try to make you feel bad. (and they WILL try, cuz they don't have anything else going on)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:48 AM
2

hey OP? basically what i was trying to say is that you cannot trust any of them. fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:42 AM
49

see, that is the problem. no need for a man. one of the comments on this sub said it perfectly: "It’s another cheating belittling lying smug clown with his mask hanging half off. Are you excited??! He is!! Ooo exciting drama in his sad life!" we are just entertainment for them. a way to pass their time. as we change the fucking world. im so tired of their stupid, pointless, painful shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:59 AM
2

thank you :) :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:52 AM
20

Attractive women have to be extra careful cos scrotes will go the extra mile to fool someone in high demand as they see you as prime ego supply. And they often use attractive women to pump up their ego to get a haram of pick mes. It’s incredibly sterile, predatory and parasitic WHOA. I LITERALLY HATE THEM. Not only do they USE YOUR BODY, but THEN, they USE YOU TO USE OTHER WOMEN'S BODIES! My god. They are sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:42 AM
141

i feel like this behavior is ingrained in them. "she's questioning me" or "she's sizing me up" or "she's a little too confident" better knock her down a peg so i'm in control again. ugh. we are not dogs you can train, loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:30 AM
3

wow oh wow. i struggle with this so hard. my first sexual experiences were forced. it's like that's what i learned sex was as a kid , and then also as a teenager (by my first boyfriend and his fucking dad). this post is eye-opening. wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:26 PM
50

omg yes. i work with men. i am not in the office much anymore, so they have the space to themselves. anyways i was there the other day, and my desk is out of view. one of the men was asking for a recommendation for a doctor and the convo turned gross, like is she hot? etc. etc. only one of them could see i was there, based on the way the office is set up, and he hushed them up fast. they know. they fucking know. it makes me so uncomfortable, i know they talk like this about me when im not around…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:55 PM
1

perfect. have heard every single one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:22 AM
7

this is so spot on. maybe creepy, but i'm just gonna go ahead and say it....i go into work sometimes and work in STEM (all men) I feel like they lose it when i take off my mask (obviously at a safe distance) like they've been dying without seeing women's faces, the male gaze has been that impacted by the pandemic. just a thought. shudders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:15 AM
3

my ex would tell me what a "horrible girlfriend" i was when i didn't want to have sex. i think about it and get ill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:48 AM
4

Seriously! THAT just goes to show how much they have negged us and all of civilization!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 09:08 PM
4

i have and its truly pathetic. two of my male "friends" come to mind. both spoiled ass kids, never had to ask for a thing, but getting laid is something you can't ask your parents for lol. anyways they legit cried like babies to me about not getting laid, like i'm supposed to fuck you? what in the actual fuck? i told them both how pathetic they were.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 09:04 PM
2

BAHAHAHAHAHA! seriously. they are so fucking pathetic. men and their damn dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:42 PM
1

omg that man's face....i can't. ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:54 PM
32

Try it for a week and watch ALL crime go down. Seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:40 AM
76

Yes! I'm 36 and was always SO worried about getting older, but sis, some of these men have aged like SHITE! They know it too. One of my best guy friends from HS was always so cute, but he's gotten fat and bald and always talks about it. I think that's why the whole "wall" myth has been perpetuated. Women are beautiful at any age, any size, and they know it, they always have. It's why they've had to put us down for yearssssssssssss. I just love waking up to the nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:39 AM
14

they resent us so much because they need us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 04:25 PM
59

people never change bc someone tells them to change. Especially men, especially if' it's a woman telling them. it's all about the action. withhold, don't engage, don't put out, don't reward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 03:51 PM
3

this is fascinating, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 03:46 PM
94

ew. i loved her and the doc on HBO, i guess i didn't realize this fact. sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 03:35 PM
3

thank you, cheers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 03:31 AM
4

that OR desperately vying for the affection of LVM or trying to change them. it's like, make yourself happy, damn! it's YOUR life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 11:44 PM
7

it feels so good, right? some of my friends are still not there yet, so this sub has been an amazing find! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 07:59 PM
7

thank you!!! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 07:47 PM
14

thank you, and great! it felt good to to type it out. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 01:23 PM
21

oh yes. i should have included that, because it's another conclusion i came to. they are selfish AF! their needs come first, and many of them are used to being catered to (especially the rich, spoiled ass boys i grew up with). your whole existence is to please them in some way. ew. refreshing to see a group of women that woke up and did the math...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 01:23 PM
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