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It being difficult to leave shouldn’t be the reason you stay. Make decisions from faith, not fear. I never said it would be easy - yes it would hurt a lot to leave, but guess what darling, it’s also going to hurt a lot to stay. Pick your pain. Short term pain for long term happiness is a much better choice than long term pain. I don’t see you ever being happy with this man. He will never give you what you truly need. Yes it’s going to SUCK to leave, I understand it all too well, but the quicker …
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/26 12:40 PM
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Also I’ve seen this a lot: - man marries a woman more successful/attractive - is secretly intimidated/insecure/jealous and resents her for being so successful/attractive - cheats on her or brings her down in some way to “get even” This is happening to you. Please only get with men in your league that are secure in themselves… This guy is beneath you lol. You seem way more competent.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/26 12:22 PM
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You’re young, hot, and smart. Please wake up.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/26 12:18 PM
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Are you jealous of your husband?
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/26 12:35 PM
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You don’t want a man who won’t ask you out / take action
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/25 09:15 PM
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I love the idea of my man having sex with other girls But yes, highly depends on the girl- how does he REALLY feel about her? If it’s just for sex, I have no issue. If there’s a chance that him sleeping with will “reignite” something and he’ll miss her, helllllll noooo. Be careful, OP. What if he begins to want to be in a relationship with both of you? And your fear of being alpha-widowed pushes you to agree?
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/25 04:02 AM
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I agree with what you’ve said, I just don’t think it’s relevant to my situation. Without going into too many details, he did have many flings before me, but I was his first long-term relationship that he told his mother about straight away for the purpose of marriage, and I do believe him when he said I was the first woman he saw as a wife. So as far as sexual marketplace goes, I do think of myself highly. As for everything else in your first comment, I agree, he should be an asshole to me. And …
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/25 12:31 PM
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Yes I agree, and this courtship is culture we both practise. We began off that way, seeing each other in the presence of family to discuss marriage. Unfortunately, his mother strictly wanted him to marry someone of the same cultural background, and would not budge. That’s when we began to see each other in secret for years, hoping she would one day change her mind after speaking to her about it again and again (plot twist: she never did) Will I ever do the same in the future? No, I believe there…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/25 11:48 AM
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We have each other blocked and communicate through email/calls here and there. Consider ways you weren't compatible, how that led to the end of the relationship, who he ended up with instead. The relationship didn’t end because we weren’t compatible. It ended because his mother strictly wanted him to marry someone of the same cultural background, and after years of fighting, did not relent.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/25 11:43 AM
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You're longing for a man who was significantly above you in the sexual marketplace. What makes you say that?
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/25 11:37 AM
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Don’t tell him about the other guy, it’s just unnecessary. You can mention it’s not your taste without bringing that up. If you’re going to the store regardless, I would talk to him about exchanging it. Pick out something together and use that time to explain to him what your taste really is.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/25 07:03 AM
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I would never submit to a man that’s beneath me. This guy is a loser. Only submit to masculine men who are leaders and protectors. You started dating him when you were young. You made a mistake in judgement (and continuing to be with him, despite his behaviour, is bad judgement.) Don’t have sunk cost fallacy. Just because he was your first love, doesn’t mean you have to put up with this. Respect yourself and cut your losses.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/24 07:08 PM
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If a man isn’t worthy of my submission, I wouldn’t be with him in the first place. It comes naturally with the right person.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/24 09:56 AM
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She demonstrated the complete opposite of who I wanted to be
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/24 12:58 AM
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No.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/24 11:47 PM
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I think he meant he would give us both a lot of attention/affection, not me more than her Yeah I agree. He’s said a lot of manipulative things to instil fear in me. And it worked. I believe I will find better than him in that I’ll find someone who will treat me better, and “choose” me, but idk if I’ll find better in all the other categories. That’s basically the “sacrifice” he speaks of. By “better than him” I think he measures that by success in his business because he says, I don’t know anyone…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/24 11:45 PM
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For me to go ahead with this, I would need to love what he would provide for me, and love his money, more than I love him.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/24 10:30 PM
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Lol. He’s said ALL of this. It’s a good life if you love what he’s providing more than you love him. This is not the case for me, so it’s not going to work out. You both aren’t accounting for emotions.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/24 07:21 PM
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I would say it’s the first option. Something I’ve experienced with him. We met when I was 18, he showed me so much, gave me so many memories, he’s the only person I’ve ever had feelings for or loved. He seemed to tick so many boxes. We genuinely connected so well. He also taught me so much about life. So much good. And he was my mentor for my career… he helped me break into my industry and get a really, really good job. Anyway, I think it’s best to put this all behind me.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/24 07:15 PM
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Yes I’ve thought about this. He’s too “alpha”
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/24 07:10 PM
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Everyone in this thread is correct. Thank you for your replies. And yes already begun nun mode (heard the term before, didn’t know it described what i’ve been doing) and it is definitely the best course of action. Thank you again.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/24 07:07 PM
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You are right. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/24 07:04 PM
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You are right. I asked because I felt like most would patronise/judge me for agreeing to this, and was seeking validation, or to see if, from a RPW perspective, this choice would yield the most benefit. I am young now, but I wonder if I’ll be “happier” with this arrangement as I grow older. This is a fear of mine: That I won’t find a man who will satisfy me like him. You are right about the second part too. It was a bad comment. Him being “blunt”.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/24 01:55 PM
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thank you for raising this point. i only recently considered this from my children’s perspectives- i can make the decision to enter this arrangement, but they will never have a choice. if you don’t mind sharing, what was your experience like?
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/24 01:37 PM
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while if i gave up on love and just saw it as a transactional relationship i’d be able to share. this is what i thought too! i thought, maybe i should see it from a self-preservation lens. this is beneficial for me. but his reply is, “why won’t you love me? i’d still love you” if something isn’t okay with you straight away it’ll probably never really will he says, if you were 30 and single you’d 1000% agree to this and come back to me. and i fear he’s right? i’m still young, but i fear as i get …
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/24 01:33 PM
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Yes, 10000% you will find love. Just not here. Rejection is redirection ❤️ Do NOT let him return to your life if there is no serious intention of marriage. And I mean serious, not just words. His stance is perfectly clear. Don’t mistake him trying to remain in contact/friends as his stance changing. He will just use you for sex/ something casual and waste your time. Maintain your high value. Sending lots of love. You WILL be okay, and you WILL find someone who will love you.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/24 12:50 PM
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Thank you for the post! I’ve experienced what you speak of. I’m seeking advice on the following: I was offered marriage by a man that’s already engaged- essentially to be his second wife. He, his fiance, and I are Muslim (all born and raised in Australia, but he moved to Dubai for his business.) Islam tolerates polygamy; however, it has placed various conditions for it that, in practice, are very difficult to observe: Possession of sufficient financial resources to provide all expenses of each f…
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/24 07:13 AM
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The posts are asking about dating advice from an RP perspective. Very different to other subs.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/24 03:06 AM
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I actually find that this sub is very well-balanced, whilst the actual RP is infiltrated with losers who shouldn’t be there or people who don’t truly understand the philosophy. It almost feels like they’re “acting” and don’t truly understand masculinity. I’m glad this sub is more authentic.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/24 03:05 AM
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he just wanted to see if it would bother me (because I stated before that I could maybe forgive physical cheating but not emotional cheating) In case you weren’t aware, he is testing your boundaries and seeing how far he can exploit them. As evidenced by: he'd be extra careful, and not tell me about it if I don't want to so l don't get hurt This isn’t a matter of whether it’s acceptable or not (you decide that) but you should know this wasn’t a “joke”. He wanted to see if it would “bother” you. …
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/24 10:02 AM
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He weaponises them because 1. He is insecure 2. To shift blame onto you
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/24 02:40 AM
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He is making excuses… His concerns aren’t genuine issues, because you have found a way around them, and he still won’t propose.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/24 02:39 AM
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While he is 100% "the one" in my eyes - is he really if he won't propose? You’re spot on. I reached the same conclusion. Loving someone so much means nothing if it won’t lead to marriage. Someone else who is able to provide marriage, safety, commitment will ultimately “win” and be “the one”. If he is unwilling to propose soon, you need to cut your losses and find a man on the same page as you. They exist. You deserve to have your dream of marriage and babies. And no, don’t let him trick you by s…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/24 02:36 AM
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Yep, once I became more conscious, I realised a lot of my mum’s anguish stemmed from not being in a “Red Pill Relationship”. It made me realise how important it was for me to lead a completely opposite life.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 02:30 AM
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Because I loveeee it 🥰 It feels natural, and I feel very happy being feminine and submissive in relationships! I’m also extremely attracted to masculine men, and the dynamic that comes along with it. I discovered how much I prefer this when I entered my first relationship at 18 with a masculine man, and I naturally took on a very feminine and submissive role. That’s what opened my eyes to how important this is for me, the type of person I want to be, and the type of men I want to attract and bui…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/24 02:28 AM
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He sounds like a catch. You need to work on yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/24 02:17 AM
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I originally didn’t want to mention the cheating at all, so that’s why I omitted it from the post. And this is something I’ve wanted to ask about even before the cheating: just how to maintain femininity during conflict, when you are the one that is disappointed/angry/hurt. A few times he has told me to change my tone, and that I’m acting masculine. And I do agree with him. Because I don’t want to be the type of woman to do that. And I want to compose myself. I just want a way to get through to …
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/23 06:12 AM
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Precisely
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/23 06:01 AM
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This is exactly what happened. He cheated and expressed no remorse (told me he couldn’t apologise because it was intentional) I don’t want to harp, or nag. I just need him to understand the severity of what he did and why I am hurt. But that’s when he says he doesn’t want to speak to me (“bad vibes”) I actually wanted to let this go and forgive him, but he is making it difficult. Redemption is attainable but he’s giving me the whole “what’s the point of fixing this if you’ll never trust me” bull…
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/23 03:11 AM
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Thank you for your input, hun.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/23 02:58 AM
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Thank you for the recommendation, love
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/23 02:55 AM
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He cheated. I wanted him to resolve it. He disappointed me more in his inability to get me to forgive him, than he did by cheating on me.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/23 02:54 AM
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I didn’t mention this in the post, almost like I was protecting him. But now I don’t care: He cheated. And told me he can’t apologise because it was intentional 👍
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/23 02:53 AM
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Thank you for your reply lovely. What’s the first LD book that I should read that will help? I definitely agree that our intimacy is important. That’s what I’m trying to preserve. I want to resolve conflict in a feminine way, when things are serious and stressful. And especially when I’m the one that’s been wronged, and the one who’s hurt.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/23 02:51 AM
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I have a different viewpoint to this. I’ve only had one partner my whole life, and he’s the only person I’ve sent nudes to, a year into the relationship. I love doing it because he looovess it. My partner is also anti-porn and I’d much prefer he uses my pictures/videos. Most of the time, it’s accompanied with phone sex or on FaceTime. As for the shared aspect, I have full 100% trust, otherwise I wouldn’t do it. I know if things ever went south between us, he would never show anyone. In fact, he’…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/23 12:21 PM
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