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| 4 | How long did it take you to stop randomly cringing during the day while remembering past pickme behavior?Quite often but I hope that I will stop remembering as time goes by. It’s only been two years or less since i’ve gone from pathetic pickme to, well, the opposite. I am sort of at peace with the fact that I used to be extremely stupid but at the same time I wish I could just forget it. I’ve already mentally detached from that person I used to be | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 09:21 AM |
| 29 | Jason Mamoa 🔥Idk why you got downvoted, this guy really is a lvm, look it up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 04:11 PM |
| 11 | I avoided being in a LTR with a manipulative LVM thanks to FDS for reminding me to know my worth👑Looool the first one definitely had a girlfriend/wife | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 03:05 PM |
| -4 | Unexpected pregnancy?But there are childfree women on fds. And I think I am right in believing that our views are accepted as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 02:26 PM |
| 6 | I saved my friend from her LVM now exThis reminds me that I have a very strong dislike for all women who act like pickmes that I should maybe get over... it’s not healthy because some of them are my friends but seeing them so willing to accept shitty men makes me so mad that I don’t want to do any free labor trying to convince them of the fds ways... it seems hopeless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 03:03 PM |
| 7 | 🧻 When he offers to wipe for you 🧻He is a good man. These apparently small or mundane gestures are what matter so much and truly show character. Also, yeah, the suppository is supposed to be put in right before you lay down to sleep so that it can work properly during the night | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 09:31 AM |
| 12 | Gentle reminder: Please go get that Pap smear you’ve been putting off. And a full std test while you’re at itIs that because of an STD though? I know that the disease mentioned in the post can cause cancer if left untreated for a long time, but usually (pre)cancerous cells are not transmissible, cancer just happens, it’s an uncontrolled mutation of your own cells. That’s why every woman should get the pap smear even if they don’t have sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 03:57 PM |
| 50 | Women can do anythingYessss!!!! I definitely don’t want any kids and I don’t want to have a mindblowing super-ultra-amazing one in a million career either. I am way more than enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 10:02 AM |
| 5 | Found on fb. This just seems like “things a decent spouse should do,” hardly worth a 4 page essay.Is this a fucking joke?? He WASHES A DIRTY MUG and that’s something special? And he can’t cook. Is she describing an adult man or an child? What excuses do men have for not knowing how to cook AT ALL?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 05:03 PM |
| 21 | Comment says cOmMunIcAte. Sure that’ll fix it!At this point i think they enjoy being martyrs for no reason. Saving this post to show anyone who asks me about marrying and having kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 09:51 AM |
| 32 | “Your body is more than a vehicle for desire” YES QUEEN. Breasts👏🏻don’t👏🏻exist👏🏻for👏🏻grown👏🏻men👏🏻. End of.Yeah, i used to (and still sometimes) dress sexy just because i felt like it, but in the past year i have become so incredibly disgusted with the idea of male strangers seeing my body that I kinda avoided clothes that are revealing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 06:48 PM |
| 4 | I am done dressing for men, or anyone else. Is misogyny so internalized that people both men and women are now revolted by things (for example fashion styles) that remind them of femininity?I’m european and it doesn’t work for me either. Same as you, I fit most of the categories when taking the test. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 04:27 PM |
| -14 | 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮The serum for a man just feels very pathetic tbh. Yeah it’s good for him to wash your face with the proper products and maybe use some spf cream, but a fucking serum? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 10:05 AM |
| 4 | Just bought myself this 800$ designer necklace, because I wanted to treat myself. Women don't need men to buy them nice things, we can do that for ourselves. Just another lie by the patriarchy that women are gold diggers. I am perfectly capable of making my own money.I am not OP, just wanted to wish you well! We all deserve to treat ourselves sometimes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 08:06 AM |
| -14 | WHAT IS A “WALK DATE”?!You can get diabetes if you only eat once a day. Someone i know did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 05:38 PM |
| 10 | Saw this exercise posted here, thought I'd share my pre-FDS ex and why I left him. I'm 3 years out now and much better, but this was the reward I got for moving states with someone I barely knew. Always vet!This is terrifying... one of the most shocking posts i’ve seen on this sub. That cutesy-style drawing combined with the facts... the fact that this is not some character but a real person who is still free to abuse other women. People like this shouldn’t exist. It makes me scared of humankind in general. I hope we never meet someone like this at any point in our lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 04:51 PM |
| 40 | The trope of the broody, mysterious, damaged, bad boy who deep down just needs to be loved by a woman and he’ll be saved needs to die.Started by twilight?? Wtf. It’s been around for a loooong time... google the byronic hero | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 03:19 PM |
| 10 | Another meme summing up relationship subsI wouldn’t be surprised if a post where this actually happens would turn up in that sub... i would be sad and angry, but not surprised | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 02:43 PM |
| 17 | It's the signs of affection and support in the little things over a period of time that makes a man high value. Don't settle for neglect and then lovebombing - the real deal is out there.That is wholesome, I would say for once let’s not doubt the man’s intentions, since they’ve been happily married for so many years he must be a decent partner, especially since their daughter notices green flags, she’s been raised well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 02:47 PM |
| 204 | Scrote wonders “what if” he left his wife for ONS 🤦🏻♀️‘She will do anything i ask’.... wtf!!!! That sounds very abusive... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 12:45 PM |
| 50 | I’m glad more and more women are being more aware of how 50/50 is a mythWork-life balance is very important, I don’t like the idea of just dedicating your entire existence to your job and then dying. I am very strict about putting my free time, personal life and health first so I usually stop working after the daily 8 hours are up. In extreme cases I will work for 9 hours a day but even that is too much. I think I have a great life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 08:03 AM |
| 23 | There's a worrying amount of posts where the woman has no idea she deserves respect and bodily autonomy...This reminds me of the novel tess of the d’urbervilles. A teenager got raped by a NVM and afterwards she asked her mother why she never told her that men can be dangerous, that they take advantage of women. But her simple minded mother had encouraged her to hang around the dangerous predator in hopes that maybe instead of getting raped, she’ll get married | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 03:57 PM |
| 3 | My coworker y’all 🤮🤮🤮Hahahaha, I’m glad she has a miserable life (I am saying this after finding out that she tried to get you fired because you did not want to do her job for free). Let me tell you something I’ve seen multiple times, when the girlfriend tries desperately to brag about the relationship on the internet and the boyfriend doesn’t acknowledge her posts, it’s almost 100% certain that their relationship is shit. So don’t worry, her life is not as great as she says, that’s why she tried to ruin yours. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 12:25 PM |
| 2 | Probably one of the most thoughtless gifts to be given, and absolutely rampant around the holiday season. No thank you! ✋Yeah, I actually bought a bubble bath and body scrub for myself after smelling them at someone’s place (the ayurveda ones). They genuinely have nice and long-lasting scents. And the scrub actually exfoliates and moisturizes the skin like no other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 01:35 PM |
| 9 | Summary of that book's archetypes (not gonna mention the name of book cause bots think I am a scrote)I know that book, very interesting, especially all the real life examples from history | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 07:37 AM |
| 24 | Chile The AccuracyThey are really desperate for any attention and as soon as they get a breadcrumb like you said, they think they’re actually universally desirable. I don’t understand how an entire gender can be so delusional sometimes but this really is true for men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 07:13 AM |
| 14 | For only $40 he can promise to never marry you!!Yep i agree, i love pandora rings and jewelry as a treat to myself, but i would definitely laugh in a man’s face if he promised/proposed with one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 03:38 PM |
| 17 | I lost hope in love and running into a HVM has changed my life.This is love bombing and it is gonna end up horribly. I can see that OP is not responding to the comments voicing concerns, so she is gonna proceed with this relationship as before. It is also very concerning that he has ‘changed your life’... this is not gonna end well, mark my words everyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 09:59 AM |
| 15 | Handmaidens comparing FDS to red pill NVMs is some stupid and dangerous cognitive dissonanceYes, I would like to expand on this idea by saying that I was glad to see a few weeks back a thread where you guys were accepting towards women who do not want to get married but still want lifelong partnerships. I was worried about my lifestyle causing me to be classified as a forever girlfriend, but I was relieved to see in that thread that I can apply the same strategies to my partnership as long as me and my partner are on the same page and want the same thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 12:16 PM |
| 3 | “PoRn iS eMpOwErInG” ok sisSome limp-dicked addicts must have commented their valuable opinions and they got deleted. I lurk this sub a lot and i never end up seeing the males’ comments, so the mods are doing an excellent job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 08:56 AM |
| 46 | They're telling on themselvesAnd he even posed the cooking photo elaborately, trying to show off his mediocre pie. If you make that much mess for a shitty pie, i’d rather you didn’t ‘cook’. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 03:30 PM |
| 3 | Reposted to adhere to rules: woman gets proposed to by man drawing ring on her. “We” find the same ring 7 mo later in a thrift shop. Glad you got picked!I legit thiught the first photo was oxidation on her finger from some cheap ring or some skin disease. That is a horrible ‘drawing’.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 09:56 AM |
| 7 | I use to be a Pickmeisha and I kind of hate myself. But so glad I found this sub!!!I read the post three times and I only see things that apply to fds... so I’m confused | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 09:36 AM |
| 5 | I did a post on MY personal penis preferences and dudes on Reddit were ready to rope themselves over it. I don’t ever want to hear EVER again how women are “insecure” and “crazy” ones for being NOT OK with Porn.Yes, vagina depth is usually somewhere between 3 and 6 inches. Also, this is not related to depth but to its tilt, there is a thing called a retroverted uterus that some women have, and that can make sex uncomfortable/painful in certain positions, and for that i think an average sized dick is better so that it doesn’t hit he walls of the vagina. I personally have both a shallow and retroverted one and an average sized penis is better for me, but the point of the post, I think, is that we are all… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 04:06 PM |
| 1 | How LVM act in a high stress & shitty situationShe was talking about the daughter not being a lvw, not the stepdad. And i agree, she simply is traumatized by her father’s death, that would deeply fuck up any child... she is still just a child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 03:58 PM |
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