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Virgin shaming is the red flag for me. Just because virgins are not your type, it doesn't mean they are broken or problematic people.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/26 10:28 PM
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Remember, even if you find a husband in your early 20s, you will eventually age. All of us will. If you get pregnant, you body will also change. A man worth having is someone who seeks a partner, and not just a youthful body for pleasure.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/26 04:59 AM
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I don't know any husbands who are stay at home for decades, but I do know some of them who are for years. I have relatives who migrated to wealthier countries and the wives have more in-demand jobs like nursing or caregiving. So while the wife works under a special visa, the husband stays home with the kids until they get residency/citizenship. Who stays at home and who works are not a permanent arrangements that define the person in a relationship. Life can have many possibilities and couples a…
/r/ExRedPill08/01/26 10:19 PM
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And women who fall in line. The moment she is deemed a "whore", she loses all the value. If she rebels, she is punched down to a lower place.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/25 10:38 AM
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"Women's inherent value," is harmful to both genders. Young men become bitter because they think women don't have to work hard as much as them. The same people who perpetuate this idea of women's "inherent value" believe women have an expiry date based on reproductive capacity. They are exceptionally cruel to older single women.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/25 09:23 PM
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It's taken way out of context from a dating site study, which again, has a skewed gender ratio and does not reflect face to face interactions. Women only rated 20% of men attractive HOWEVER Women are also more likely to message men they rated low in attractiveness. Meanwhile, men tend to message more those they rated high. When people parrot this 80/20 thing, they either don't know the whole story behind it or purposely being dishonest.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/25 03:21 AM
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I don't think there's a relation between redpills statement and your argument Yes there is, because it counters their idea that girls are born valuable and protected more than boys. Boys are already valued from birth, even as a fetus. Girls don't get the same preference. Even if you discount economic value, there is still value on males carrying the family line.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/25 09:20 PM
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How do people who believe this explain mass abortions on female fetuses? How do they explain the imbalanced gender ratios in India and China?
/r/ExRedPill08/05/25 04:53 AM
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They also highlight hyper masculine "alpha" traits as attractive to all women. But then how does that explain the popularity of K-Pop idols and boy bands?
/r/ExRedPill04/11/24 04:21 AM
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These guys want to make themselves feel better, and cope with their inner insecurity by finding others to pick on. Single mothers? Must be sleeping around and punished for it. Fat and Ugly women? Unlike men, they cannot change their "Sexual Market Value" by getting more resources. An RP man always seen everything as a kind of competition where everyone is ought to take advantage of one another. Picking on "losers" regardless of gender make them feel ahead of the competition.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/24 09:32 PM
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This is like thinking every man you meet is a serial killer waiting to kidnap you. Yes, we have to accept there's a very small chance that there's a nutjob out there that will hurt you. But then, will you ruin your relationship with 99.99% of the human race because of something out of our control?
/r/ExRedPill09/09/24 12:53 AM
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That means you don't value yourself and what you can bring in a relationship, and that's your problem. It's not the women who will fix what you feel about yourself.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/24 10:03 PM
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If you read all the replies, they already answered enough. Attraction is complex and varied. You don't have to be a celebrity to be hot, and you can be hot in many ways, and women can have a variety of taste. You can be both hot and good, and you can actually be neither. Being good is a choice you can control 100%. Finding someone who finds you hot is a mix of health, visibility, luck, and socialisation.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/24 10:00 PM
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Women don't like desperation Aloof men generally don't look desperate, but it doesn't mean aloofness is a preferable trait to all women
/r/ExRedPill12/07/24 07:17 PM
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No No, unless they're being creepy, or the women are generally unavailable I'm one of those women who prefer friends first because that makes me feel safe, and there are also a lot of women who prefer flirting in private in a public display. I prefer to get to know someone deeper through a one to one conversation or a casual date. Men who give up so easily because they want instant attraction will never work out with those women. Either they don't have patience or have the wrong idea that there …
/r/ExRedPill12/07/24 07:15 PM
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Neither. Women don't like to see desperation, and that coincides with aloofness/hard to get, but not the same. Some women want to be the initiator and make men fluster, but in the first place, there is already something attractive from that person.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/24 07:10 PM
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A good majority of men are NOT desperate The ones that are not desperate and able to thrive as a single person are generally more desirable Self-pity is an unattractive trait
/r/ExRedPill18/06/24 11:36 PM
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That's because that is what is in your head rather than taking what I wrote in face value. So many men watch porn. Just because you find pornstars hot, it doesn't mean you want to pursue them over the nice girl in your neighborhood. It's really just the same logic for women staring at hot guys.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/24 01:58 AM
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The same way men want to be with hot women like Sydney Sweeney.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/24 01:15 AM
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Most women are also average. They might find Chris Hemsworth hot, but a good 99% are realistic they will never have a chance with him.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/24 01:11 AM
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You're conflating attraction to the willingness of women to have sex. Women can be attracted to average men, but without trust, it may not be worth it to have sex due to safety risks and possibility of pregnancy. Men just have less to lose by engaging in riskier sexual behaviour. The world is harsher on women's apperances, not men. There are more average-looking men in Hollywood than women. Men can look normal, but women have to look attractive no matter what. Even in zombie movies or post apoca…
/r/ExRedPill29/05/24 03:25 AM
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Being perpetually single and friends with a lot of perpetually single women, we are just invisible. There is a group of women who never get anything because they are solitary, introverted, and content being that way. Some do lack confidence to flirt or date, so they remain off the radar.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 12:05 AM
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Not feeling it 😆 . I'm invisible, but I'm doing my best to socialize and hoping to find someone in my hiking trips.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/24 12:24 AM
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As a woman who is "boring but stable" sometimes I wish I had a phase I'm more fun and exciting. Since I turned into an adult, I know what I wanted, and I never had a phase where I'm just finding out and feeling the thrill of attraction and making mistakes and learning. I just had... nothing, because I know what I want and I haven't found someone I truly wanted. By the time I reached this age, most people are already experienced and have been through so many cycles while I'm just... nothing. No h…
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 11:36 PM
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Yeah, and when women decide they're better off alone than dealing with men, they consider it a social problem and blame it a supposed male loneliness epidemic. P.S. loneliness epidemic is real, but it's not exclusive to men
/r/ExRedPill02/05/24 10:46 PM
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I feel they're trying to have a cop out and still end up "winning" If a woman pursues them, then it adds to their desirability If a woman gives up on them/walks away, they can say she didn't try hard enough If women don't pursue them, they can say women don't have a good judgement on men and chase superficial traits This is again another case where they pretend "reversing the gender" is a genius argument. Normally, men have to prove themselves as safe because women are always at a physical disad…
/r/ExRedPill02/05/24 10:33 PM
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My uncle cheated on his wife and they separated. My uncle had no stable career and retired without savings. Yet his ex still sends him some kind of spousal support from her pension, decades after they broke up.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/24 09:49 PM
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I was given very strong messages that without a thin body AND academic and financial success, I was not worth anything My old grandma from the rural provinces praised my success but in a sexist way that reinforces the topic of the OP. Grandma is proud that I graduated from top schools and is now in a good career but said that she wished I had been a man. I would have been an ideal son to carry the family name. There are women who want things in life outside beauty and motherhood, and they get sh…
/r/ExRedPill12/04/24 10:05 PM
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The promiscuous atheist and a conservative Christian man could believe in the same thing: that all women are hypergamous and should be controlled. For them, women aren't trustworthy, loyal, or capable of unconditional love. The redpill teaches that you have to be the "alpha," because all woman will naturally seek only the top 10% men. That's why redpill centers on abuse and manipulation, because it aims to break down the independence of the woman instead of empowering her. They cope using the co…
/r/ExRedPill08/04/24 11:32 PM
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I think it's tied to the Madonna Whore complex. Redpill tells you to sleep around and discard women like whores but marry a submissive, virgin Madonna. The wife will bear your children and be your domestic servant while you do whatever you want. That's why young, innocent brides appeal to them, and they shame career women past 30 years old as low value/expired.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/24 09:41 PM
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When I was younger, and in the earlier days of the internet, I was just discovering feminism when I happened to read an anti feminist blog that said: Men want to take care of you, not to compete with you Why sacrifice your opportunity to bear children in your 20s? You can come back later in the workforce when your children are grown up. It used to be convincing to me as someone who was raised in a conservative household. So I had a very short phase where I thought that my happiness lies in findi…
/r/ExRedPill08/04/24 02:25 AM
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Woman here. I distrust men and pessimistic in finding a good husband. I also fear that even if one day I found someone to marry, that later he will still be corrupted by red pill ideas.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/24 04:04 AM
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So why won't they just say what they're actually attracted to? Nobody's gonna chastise them for it. Most women can't tell a height just by looking. If I see a 6'0 man and a 5'10 man, I can't tell their heights. They're just both "tall." They might answer an arbitrary number of 6 foot, but if face to face with a guy who is shorter but attractive, it won't matter. I agree, but what if there's a short guy with a great personality vs. a tall guy with a great personality? Wouldn't the tall guy beat t…
/r/ExRedPill30/03/24 08:48 AM
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They idolize Joe Rogan and Jorden Peterson Complaining about "wokeness" "Women are born with value, men has to bring value" "It's harder to be a man" RP guys tend to find out too if you're a feminist so they will try to see if you agree with them.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/24 09:16 PM
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Coming from a woman who was never first choice - a lot of "first choices" are from basic attraction. Not only that, some are only chosen because someone is afraid to be single/left out, then years later, they realized they aren't actually compatible and wasted so much of their youth in an unhealthy relationship. It's not necessarily a good thing.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/24 11:44 AM
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Other people already lectured you enough.
/r/ExRedPill11/03/24 02:43 PM
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Women have to learn how to handle men's advances, and it's often a 5D chess saying no without hurting a man's ego too much that he becomes a threat rejecting without appearing as try hard to get, because some men think "no" means just a little more convincing to be friendly/kind but not encouraging enough that the man presses harder to gather enough information to determine if the man is safe or risky a woman can be open friendly chats but not open to flirting/sexual Women generally fear safety …
/r/ExRedPill11/03/24 02:05 PM
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There's too many issues in your post that are not about romance. Statistics show that women are more likely to stick with their terminally ill husband than the other way around. . When the woman is sick, they get 21% divorce rate while sick husbands get 3% divorce rate. American husbands are statistically more likely to cheat than wives. Ashley Madison, a dating website for infidelity, has mostly male membership, with 99% of female users just bots to boost the membership. In the US, 80% of singl…
/r/ExRedPill11/03/24 09:23 AM
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All other answers in this thread already give you answers. I see averages as plain math and statistics, I don't assign much meaning to it.
/r/ExRedPill26/02/24 11:05 PM
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No, it's not going to be consistent due to standard deviation. If you have five couples with 6 inch gap, and five couples with 0 inch difference, the average height gap would be 3 inches. This average does not reflect the actual reality.
/r/ExRedPill26/02/24 10:56 PM
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How would I know? There is no specific study for people you consider short. There are various articles and studies with the height gap of 5-6 inches, but with 3 inches standard deviation.
/r/ExRedPill26/02/24 10:43 PM
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There is no rule on how much the height gap would be. The point is that there are plenty of women who will end up shorter anyway. The average height of a man in my country is 5'5 while an average woman is 4'10.
/r/ExRedPill26/02/24 10:36 PM
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Because the average man is also taller than an average woman. I saw that article saying height is a consistent factor in success. But then the average gap between a male and female partner is also quite within average.
/r/ExRedPill26/02/24 09:50 PM
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Women who don't care don't post. Even those who do wouldn't normally talk about penises online. So there is a large silent majority you're dismissing.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 12:58 PM
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TL/DR: Do women abroad in traditionalist countries have better morals because of not engaging in casual sex? Your question highlights a major contradiction: women in countries that are highly patriarchal aren't allowed to choose. They can't engage in something they're never allowed to do. Also, why are you only asking about women's body count? What about men?
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 01:25 AM
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Despise is a strong word and could be untrue. Just because women don't find someone attractive enough to be a partner doesn't mean she despises that person. A man who doesn't have a "world" can be uninteresting, or he could be someone so starved of companionship and emotional support that it will be difficult for one woman to fulfill these needs.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 10:05 AM
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My answer is "yes, but" and "no." Yes, but high standards don't necessarily mean unreasonable and superficial. Standards could mean important deal breakers such as compatible values and relationship goals. No, because there are also an increasing number of people realising they are happier single instead of rushing to relationships or marriage because society tells them to. Single doesn't mean lonely. Also, if you're basing your view on the survey in dating apps where women rate men as unattract…
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 08:26 AM
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Agree, for me -2 and +5 covers the same generation. I would love to have someone who relates to the same things as I when growing up.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/24 02:53 AM
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Did you read points 1 and 2? Funny you have an alt account just to post your bad takes.
/r/ExRedPill06/01/24 12:16 PM
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I'm from the Philippines, and we are a prime destination for passport bros. I think it's kinda fair for people to want sex with beautiful people, paid or not. But these disgusts me: They're supporting businesses that may be employing underaged girls or exploiting underprivileged women. Here in the Philippines, prostitution is an open secret but illegal. You are never sure about the background of the sex worker you pick up. They're marrying a specific ethnicity because they crave the power imbala…
/r/ExRedPill05/01/24 10:50 AM
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As a woman, I can't see myself staying with a man who is scared to open up to me. Being open with each other is part of emotional intimacy. The outcomes for you are: Open up and out if your girlfriend is empathetic and mature Be closed off to her until she she's fed up and your relationship deteriorates Open up and find out she's not a good person Keep your charade and be miserable for years
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 02:54 AM
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Some women can also pick up the signs. Redpillers think they're enlightened, but they're hella predictable, and their algorithm are all the same: Men have to work to have value, women are born valuable and to be taken care of it is harder to be a man male loneliness epidemic (women don't have the same problem) Low value vs high value [mention of wokeness in recent movies] insinuating that women are miserable working/feminism make women unhappy The funny thing is that some of them tell these to w…
/r/ExRedPill17/12/23 01:59 AM
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I'm a small woman (5'2), and I was once downvoted by redditors when I said I can't tell apart a 5'10 from a 6 footer. I said at a certain point, additional inches don't matter anymore, and I got accused of lying.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/23 10:41 AM
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Massive cope. Instead of taking responsibility for the type of woman they're pursuing, they glorify their hard work and shift the blame on women when things go wrong. Also, I'm glad that men in my country today don't have to be drafted into the army to fight Japanese invaders. My great grandfather died in WW2 and lived a live 20x harder than my family today. Not to mention my grandparents also lost half of their families from the war.
/r/ExRedPill28/11/23 10:29 PM
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I'm not sure why this myth even persist. Every woman in my family who got pregnant out of wedlock got abandoned by the fathers and never received child support. 35% of murders on women are perpetuated by their intimate partners vs. 6% of males killed by partners.. Homicide is the top cause of death for pregnant women. The risk of getting killed by an intimate partner is 35% more during or after pregnancy. Edit: The dating site for married cheaters, Ashley Madison, has a male population of 99%.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 01:40 PM
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When women are the cancer patient, divorce is 20%, but when men is the patient the rate is only 2.9%.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 01:31 PM
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You can add to your analysis how traditional work done by women which are typically unpaid domestic labor actually appreciates in value. Childcare and caregiving can't be replaced by machines or AI. These work have been outsourced by career mothers to less privileged women, sometimes even through the import of labor from poorer countries. But when these underprivileged women also become empowered, the price for childcare/caregiving skyrockets.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 11:17 AM
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Sex selective abortion and female infanticide happened so much because girls were deemed less valuable. China has 30M more men than women, while some villages in India have 130 more men per 100 women. My own grandmother told me she wished I was a boy because I achieved things and would have carried the family name. In societies that are highly patriarchal, 50% of the population have more rights and advantages than the 50% female half. Of course, this is not perfectly true as wealthy women have m…
/r/ExRedPill20/11/23 10:54 PM
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