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Okay, I haven’t used those!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 02:01 AM
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The only way for you to match on most dating sites now is by you both swiping right. So you won’t get any matches if you don’t swipe. Are you talking about a specific app?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 01:51 AM
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The number of guys lately that have tried to get me to ask THEM out on a date is absurd! What is going on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 01:36 AM
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Can you share the link to this? Her page has so many videos and I want to save it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 01:01 PM
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This is some shit I would do. You're amazing and good for you. He sucks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:53 PM
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Thank you so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 12:36 AM
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Thank you <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 02:12 AM
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This sounds insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:37 PM
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If someone gets mad at you for saying no, that reflects poorly on them. Not you. If someone is messaging me and we haven’t met, I just say I’m not interested and leave it at that. I don’t give any explanation because it doesn’t matter. Why do you care about ghosting someone you’re not interested in? You could just say, hey I’m not into this and then block. On dates, I don’t agree to make more plans while I’m there. Afterwards, I feel like I usually just don’t message them or if they ask to see m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:36 PM
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I fucked up in anger telling him my feelings and now I feel so dumb. I lost all my power in the setup. His response was to hide so now I feel so stupid. How did I fall into that?! So I guess I’m done for good now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:32 PM
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I didn’t start gaining weight until my ex started taking me out and he broke up with me for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 06:35 PM
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me too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:10 PM
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Well you need to think about the big picture, yes women of color may represented more because of calls to police/etc and have less resources to get help without calling police or getting involved with social services. Women who have more resources probably aren’t calling the police, or reporting it as much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 03:54 PM
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Please don’t spread this idea. There actually is no correlation that black women are more likely to be dv victims. Domestic violence happens frequently across all races and socioeconomic status. Don’t try to make it sound like we are more likely to tolerate bad men than white women because it’s not true. The only difference is that people with more affluence have more resources to hide it. I’m a social worker and I see this stuff every day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 08:58 AM
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I mean you can tell him your interests. It’s up to him do do the work and figure it out. Google is free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 02:06 AM
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I’m confused about whether or not a woman who is working on her self esteem is good or bad? Everyone talks badly about people who are insecure. I’m working on myself but is it still ok to see myself in a good light?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 02:25 PM
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What are some good strategies to forgive yourself and let go of shame? I've been giving myself a hard time for not following through on my own boundaries, blaming myself for everything, and questioning my worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 05:01 AM
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You’re welcome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 11:42 PM
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Have you tried EMDR therapy? It’s a type of therapy that is specifically designed to address PTSD and I think that it could be especially helpful for childhood trauma that hasn’t been addressed. You could start there and once you feel comfortable, you could join some kind of group activity for women to ease yourself in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 10:43 PM
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Either he wants to move in an affair partner or has some undisclosed legal problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 12:22 AM
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Saving this list! I don’t necessarily think it’s makes me desperate but I do have a personal issue with keeping boundaries because I’m afraid of retaliation. That’s always been my downfall in the dating world. I’ve been processing this in therapy but it’s so hard to practice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 09:24 PM
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No they won’t. I’ve hit my head during sex before, blacked out, and when I came to, it wasn’t over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 09:32 PM
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Thank you for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 08:04 AM
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Being single isn’t a bad thing though. If you don’t want to be single you really don’t have to be if you don’t care about what type of person you’re with. Obviously, you and the other women in your class are better off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 10:29 AM
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What's the best way to recoup when you've made a mistake?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 10:21 PM
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I told a guy that I was looking for a relationship and I wouldn’t meet him until he answered some very important questions for me. He did and the first few times we met he asked me questions about whether I’d be willing to move out of state, what I expect in a relationship, if I want kids, etc. Those are things a rational person would want to discuss when building a serious relationship. 2 months later, he finally tells me that he honestly only wants to be single and have multiple sex partners. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 03:20 AM
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They do it because they don’t really care. It’s not a fake out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 03:14 AM
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If he is already in another relationship that’s signal enough that he’s moved on and so should you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 02:08 AM
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I’m still working through holding up FDS principles and it has pretty much changed my entire attitude. I’m not as interested in developing a relationship at this point because I feel more like it’s a waste of time and I can be focusing on other things like investing in myself. I am in the beginning stages of launching my own blog, I’ve been losing weight, and I think I look very hot these days. The only negative is I still haven’t brought up the courage to block the guy I’ve been talking to. Alt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 02:04 PM
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I was going to until he said that he was going to be too tired to do anything else. That part made me mad because it seemed like he was willing to do something else until that point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 08:26 AM
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Thank you! I have so much anxiety around it but I am staying strong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 01:36 AM
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Yesterday, the guy I really like asked me if I had plans for today. I was excited about the possibilityof seeing him and he ends up inviting me at his house after he is done with a work event. I said I didn't want to go to his house. At first he offered to do something else but then he said he is going to be too tired. Then he asks why I don't want to come over. I told him that it's not a good look, it was too risky, and if he was going to be sooo tired he wouldn't have asked me to cover. I told…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 01:07 AM
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About a month ago I actually started practicing a lot of the recommendations in this sub and I really wish that I had found it sooner! I’m really on the struggle bus because I started out strong on being confident and only accepting what I want with this guy. However, I gave in and now all the stuff I didn’t want is happening. He’s really emotionally abusive and I also recognize that my attraction to this person is fatal. The hardest part is staying strong and healing while also putting myself f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 05:44 PM
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Congrats to you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 05:35 PM
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