piotrpter Archive

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1	Some users on PPD doubt the existence of the female social matrix. Is there such a thing and if so, what are its most salient features? History is cruel but we don't have to. With internet so pervasive we have a chance of figuring out a society that eliminates violence thanks to perfecting the communication, so all resource is managed in distributed voluntary networks - the original capitalism's promise that got highjacked into neo-feudalism. That's probably the only way of solving global problems we now face - pandemic and climate change. We need to solve conflicts without violence so we all can cooperate. That is what every co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/20 08:41 PM
8	Some users on PPD doubt the existence of the female social matrix. Is there such a thing and if so, what are its most salient features? Strongest networks are built with cooperation, not competition. Competition arises when there're limited, shared resources but providing them raises the efficiency of the entire group. Good leaders focus on securing resources for the whole group, not just for themselves - such groups outperform less egalitarian groups, whether or not there's a visible competition between them. This simulation convinced me the most about this being true https://ncase.me/trust/	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/20 12:34 AM
9	Do women actually want to be sexually objectified? Women have a right to exist outside of sexual context - e.g in professional or public setting it's inappropriate to objectify someone regardless if you're attractive or not. You wouldn't focus on other man's physical attractiveness when discussing business and you definitely shouldn't do this with a woman, uninvited. Obviously, it's different in more social situations like in bars or when dating. We need to be context-aware and in control of our biological instincts so we all can behave like civ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/20 02:47 PM
1	Redpill men in LTRs, what do you do if youre going through major life difficulties, since you believe that women will unconsciously hold it against men for having major chinks in their armour? > As a man, being emotional once can change how people see you forever Yeah, but it doesn't need to be negative. Change is good. Being in touch with feels is good and respectable. Don't let social pressures define you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/20 05:22 PM
1	Redpill men in LTRs, what do you do if youre going through major life difficulties, since you believe that women will unconsciously hold it against men for having major chinks in their armour? it's knowing that you'll be rejected to begin with That's the point - you don't know that and if you never try and you'll forever have this fear controlling you. We are building strong relationships by understanding what women expect and accommodating those expectations. You're not building a strong relationship, you're just reacting to her signals - so the relationship is between her and a projection of her expectations. Your real you just sits there and watches it in fear from being uncovered.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/20 03:43 PM
3	Redpill men in LTRs, what do you do if youre going through major life difficulties, since you believe that women will unconsciously hold it against men for having major chinks in their armour? I don't know man, it just sounds super lame to live in fear that your wife will lose respect for you once you let your macho guard down for a bit. You can be honest about yourself and still be respected. That's not something that never happened in history, and imho it's essential to living a fulfilling life. Once you stop obsessing about what she'll think and become your own healthy person, that's how the real attraction is built, not by following some internet-incel-guidelines. Stoicism sounds …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/20 03:12 PM
0	Redpill men in LTRs, what do you do if youre going through major life difficulties, since you believe that women will unconsciously hold it against men for having major chinks in their armour? I mean, it's not about finding the one super rare girl that will get turned on by your tears but about becoming a man that can build a strong relationship with a woman he cares about. It's possible with almost any woman - because that's most of them ultimately want - but it takes a lot of SKILL. To acquire it you need to be comfortable with failure and rejection - if you don't have that, that's the real weakness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/20 02:42 PM
3	Redpill men in LTRs, what do you do if youre going through major life difficulties, since you believe that women will unconsciously hold it against men for having major chinks in their armour? > Your approach is setting boys and men up for failure. I beg to disagree. I didn't say that they should just run around and overshare with anyone because dropping an emotional bomb can be a huge burden and it's not fair to expect this kind of commitment from every random person in their life. However, I reject the premise that you should completely avoid sharing emotions with anyone. It's not an easy task but when you do it right, that's the only way to build a lasting, meaningful relationship.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/20 02:01 PM
3	Redpill men in LTRs, what do you do if youre going through major life difficulties, since you believe that women will unconsciously hold it against men for having major chinks in their armour? I'm sorry to hear about the problems and that your feelings got rejected when you opened up. That sucks but you need to recognise that not all women are like that and it doesn't translate to a good general advice. You cannot build a close relationship with a person that you are not comfortable sharing your feelings with. Of course, opening up is not an easy task, especially when dating. Because of that "real man don't have feelings" bullshit we're fed with, we are left with no tools to do it rig…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/20 01:19 PM
4	Redpill men in LTRs, what do you do if youre going through major life difficulties, since you believe that women will unconsciously hold it against men for having major chinks in their armour? That's not a healthy approach. Bottling up your emotions is the opposite of dealing with them. Being in touch with this huge part of human mind called emotions is not weakness - it's strength and the only way to control it. Being conscious about own emotions and ability to talk about them is confidence - far more attractive to women than "can't deal with my own shit so I'm going to internally repress it" attitude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/20 10:36 AM