pirulitinha Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Is Women flirting while in an LTR a normal behavior or is it dangerous/red flag? I was this girl and this is the truth honestly. I know some other girls like this and you know what we have in common? Strict parents and daddy issues. Once released in the wild, usually in college, a girl like that wants to get everything out of the system at once. Male attention becomes a drug. I'm very ashamed of this behaviour but I'm glad I didn't turn it to a high n count and countless regrets. I did broke a couple hearts of perfectly fine guys though. God, I was a fucking asshole. I chang…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/19 09:40 PM
4	(Q4All) What would bother you more about the last ex of a new potential SO? If they were very attractive, or if they were an uggo? I don't care. My girl game is being the "smart and interesting cute enough girl", so naturally I've dealt with guys with hotter exes whose make-up are on point. The only thing that could possibly bother me about an ex is that my SO loved her more than he loves me. This is a deal-breaker. I don't care if I'm not the most attractive one, but I have to be the best.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/19 08:57 PM
1	Men having a Stacy fucks Becky bucks strategy is pointless Well, not exactly 20 something but they usually have a second wife younger than their first wife. Source	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/19 07:55 PM
2	Q4Women: Do you ever fret that you are not the best sex your SO ever had? do you share these same fears? No. I've been told I'm great at it. If I'm not enjoying the sex I will say it, so I expect my SO to be honest as well. Is your current SO the best sex you've ever had Yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/19 07:46 PM
1	Why do women tend to have lower self-steem about their appearance when they're more desirable than their male counterpart? The Yanomami practice polygamy, but the tribe leaders and other important members are the ones usually given the privilege to marry more than one woman. Most men engage in monogamy, obviously because there isn't enough women for everybody. Unfortunately I only have sources in Portuguese =/ (most information about South American tribes available in English is horrible wrong btw)	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/19 12:31 PM
0	Q4RP: Do you enjoy being Red Pill? What exactly is this "RP act" you're doing and how are you acting when you stop doing it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/19 04:51 PM
2	Q4W: What do you think a guy should do to age like wine? Have money Sunscreen Tretinoin Lift weights No smoking No heavy drinking Eat less fat and more protein Minimal stress Exercise facial muscles after 30 Dress well Nice hair or becoming completely bald Keep brain active every day And the most important thing: genetics All of this applies to women as well (except going bald, I guess).	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/19 04:59 PM
1	Is Ignorance Bliss or Would You Want to Know if Your Partner Cheated I have a really open sexuality; if he really needs to put his dick somewhere at the risk of ruining our relationship, we could hire a sex worker or whatever. So if he's cheating on me is because he's emotionally invested in somebody else and no, I won't share my boyfriend with anyone, that's just dumb.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/19 04:37 PM
2	[Q4W] You're walking down the street with your man, a wild stranger appears. I live in a moderately dangerous area so we would both think the guy might be high, armed or both. I guess I would mentally thank my partner for not being a impulsive idiot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/19 04:22 PM
1	Do you think a woman is better or worse off for not engaging in "hookup culture?" My perspective: if she wants a man whore as a husband/LTR, I think it's a better strategy to engage in hookup culture. If she wants a religious, loyal man, she should wait for sex until after marriage. If something in between is what she desires, like most women, the best strategy is to be a serial monogamist in late teens and early 20s until finding the most compatible partner to marry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/19 08:50 PM
4	If a man made you wait for sex how would it make you feel/react? I would love it and feel extremely flattered.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/19 07:58 PM
1	CMV: A man has no obligation to announce his relationship intentions prior to a one night stand. (Neither does a woman, but the former is what some people seem to believe) . So, I went to read the study, hope this settles the discussion between you and u/kandyapplez. “Hooking up,” defined as casual sexual activity between uncommitted partners that can range from kissing to sexual intercourse (...) The Time 1 survey assessed demographics and a wide range of hook‐up‐related constructs. Only measures relevant to the aims of this study are described below. In line with the previous literature (e.g., Garcia & Reiber, 2008; Owen, Rhoades, Stanley, & Fincham, 2010; Paul et…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/19 07:08 PM
4	What do you have to offer to men who you deem must wait for sex versus men that you jabe sex with right away? I feel really dumb now, but no one ever told me the purpose of "real dates" and this is a really big revelation. Thank you for that lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/19 06:52 PM
1	Q4W: Why do women have so little empathy for men who don't make the first move? Okay, I understand. I'm sorry you went through that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/19 05:57 PM
4	Q4W: Why do women have so little empathy for men who don't make the first move? I don't know what I'm supposed to be empathetic about. I never hear men complaining about this in real life, just like you probably don't hear about how much it fucking hurts to wax down there. It's just something that people do. About approaching: some men won't take a woman seriously if she makes the first move. They might have sex with her but not commit because she seems too easy. For women interested in committed relationships, it might be a bad strategy to do that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/19 05:43 PM
1	How much of a dealbreaker is penis size? Ok, I will say it. This woman probably have a large vagina. It's ok, vaginas have different sizes. You need to find a partner who matches you in genital size in a way both of you can feel pleasure. If you don't match, that can be a dealbreaker.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/19 04:59 PM
2	(Q4Women) What was the hardest "redpill" you had to swallow about men? Yeah, it's the worse. Apparently for these people, children want to have sex. It would be funny if it wasn't tragic. I hope you're okay as well! I'm great. My friend went no contact with her family last year and found a sweet guy who treats her well. She's getting better every day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/19 04:38 PM
1	(Q4Women) What was the hardest "redpill" you had to swallow about men? Especially the fact that women insist on their house being cleaned to its best level when “guests” are coming, particularly “high ranking” female guests like the MIL. Can confirm, I get anxious just thinking that MIL is coming and I have to make the house look perfect. But, in my defense, she is a clean freak and I'm a 21-year-old who wasn't really planning to play the wife role so early. I'm learning and getting better, but she is very judgemental. She has a daughter with the same age as me who…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/19 03:15 PM
7	(Q4Women) What was the hardest "redpill" you had to swallow about men? I'm so sorry all this happened to you. It seems like those are experiences most women have at least once in their lives. I actually heard a guy saying that once ("every woman I ask was sexually abused as a child!") like it was a big revelation. I was upper class and lived in a nice, safe small town for my entire childhood. My cousin put his finger in my vagina when I was 5. This asshole continue to live with us and was treated as a prince by everyone. A random old guy said to me that "God told m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/19 03:01 PM
1	Would you date a man who had used prostitutes in the past? This has absolutely nothing to do with the discussion. You just want to rant and kept pushing until you found something barely related to what you really want to say. Everyone is allowed to have standards. I never said that a man who hired prostitutes regularly is a bad person, I just said I don't want him to be my partner. Some men prefer blond virgins. They aren't saying promiscuous brunettes are horrible people, he's just not interested in a relationship with them. I can sympathize with some …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/19 06:33 PM
1	Would you date a man who had used prostitutes in the past? No, that would be a negative thing too. But that's not the only alternative to hiring prostitutes. You can, you know, have a girlfriend or a FWB.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/19 04:18 PM
3	In which ways do men treat you differently when they find out you are/arent in a relationship? (Context: I'm a STEM student in a mostly male field.) They get visibly upset at first. Some don't talk to me again, and some keep talking to me as a friend, which I greatly appreciate. About buying stuff, honestly everyone is trying to buy me things and help me all the time, and I have always been in a relationship. I think I have a "helpless puppy" face and also, because I usually help and listen to everyone, they want to return the favour. I could have taken advantage of this, but I'm too prou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/19 04:00 PM
1	Would you date a man who had used prostitutes in the past? Are men not entitled to sexual experiences when they are in no position to date? I never said that. Men can do whatever they want. I just don't find this particular point a positive thing about a partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/19 03:06 PM
1	Why do some women exclusively date men way older than them, but men don't? I never met a woman who exclusively dates older men. Maybe those "sugar babies", but not any regular one. I have a relationship with a gap of 10 years, but I had two others with guys my age before that. I just met someone that happened to be older. Of course, being older you usually have more money so you can have nicer clothes and haircuts, which boosts attractiveness. You also have more experience, which builds confidence; you had more time to learn how to be charming, and probably have at lea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/19 12:20 AM
1	Would you date a man who had used prostitutes in the past? If it was a regular thing, probably not. But once or twice in life as a young single person... I mean, it's not something cool, but not the end of the world either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/19 11:40 PM
2	Q4Women: In a LTR, do you think you're demanding more and more commitment and giving back less and less through time? If yes, what did you do to make sure you kept being a good deal? You aren't cleaning anything in 20 minutes. Tidying is not cleaning.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/19 11:29 PM
7	Women process break ups during the end/decline of the relationship, men process breakups afterwards. I'm uncomfortable with how relatable this is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/19 05:50 PM
3	Q4Men: are you willing to pay for a “mommy makeover” to correct the puffy belly and saggy boobs that come with your wife’s pregnancy? True, I was wrong. But still, she had a lot of kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/19 09:30 PM
2	Q4Men: are you willing to pay for a “mommy makeover” to correct the puffy belly and saggy boobs that come with your wife’s pregnancy? So you think that the lady in the picture is a lazy slob No, he/she doesn't. This is woman is middle aged and had FIVE pregnancies. OP said that it depends on the age and number of kids. edit: I was wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/19 09:04 PM
1	Single motherhood partially responsible for the resentment towards women lol at people thinking fathers are all wonderful and don't see their kids because mommy is evil. Tell that to my father who knocked up my then 15-year-old mom when he was 17, and didn't give a single fuck after that. I mean, he calls once every two years apologizing about being a shitty parent. I guess he tried ¯_(ツ)_/¯	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/19 08:21 PM
1	[Discussion] "Seven-in-ten women hold at least one New Age belief, compared to 55% of men." What explains the discrepancy? I agree. But just to point out, men aren't thinking types in the same proportion women are feeling types, so I think it's not quite right to say that "men are T and women are F" (I know you didn't say that, I'm just simplifying), but would be more accurate to say "T is more male and F is more female". Something around 45% of men are feeling types while 25% of women are thinking types. So OP's numbers kind of check out? That's cool.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/19 02:38 PM
4	Virgin women are massively overrated by Red’s. Lets debate. I certainly agree that cultures are different and humanity has seen many permutations regarding those values. However, I would love to see a source on those claims, especially most primitive tribes in Africa and South America really don't give two shits about virginity	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/19 10:20 PM
1	Q4 People in relationships, why are you even here anyways? It's incredibly hard to find people who actually think and dare to use data to justify their opinions in real life. And when I find these people, it's very rare to spot the ones who aren't simply "fuck feminism!!!1" types or "women are oppressed by everything!!" types. This is place is great. A lot of people complain about it being a waste of time, but you could say this about Reddit as a whole. I think the discussions are interesting and people aren't really emotional about defending their poin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/19 02:38 PM
1	Men who strike out with women are fat or weird. But refuse to date chicks who are also fat or weird I was about to argue that is not really the norm here in Brazil, but I've been with my boyfriend, who is 10 years older, since I was 18. Oh well But my mom conceived me when she was 15 and my father 17. Yeesh. And my grandmother was 17; grandfather mid-20s... ok, I see your point. Not really true for people with money, though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/19 01:12 PM
3	Would you say women are as disgusted by male sexuality as men are of “sluts”? That's so gross and bizarre :c	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/19 03:47 AM
8	How many men you've had sex with is largely irrelevant. Men mostly only care if you are good looking. I disagree. While it's true that most men aren't obsessed with virginity, there is a really big difference between having sex with few men while in committed relationships vs. having gangbangs and a random new guy every week until college ends. I think this is pretty obvious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/19 11:48 PM
2	Help me understand this Red Pill's Incoeherence True. My boyfriend initially used books and bags of sand, got amazing results. Upgraded to weights and haven't entered a gym in years. We both lift at home. OP, if you're reading this and are interested, check this site. It has videos of how to do every possible exercise, with a list of the muscles it targets. Also, learn to prepare chicken breast and sweet potato. It's cheap, delicious and the best source of protein ever. edit: bags, not buckets :p	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/19 11:38 PM
3	Help me understand this Red Pill's Incoeherence Just buy weights and lift at home, it's not expensive at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/19 10:08 PM
1	CMV: Women still want to be led by men in relationships Cool! So cuckservatism is really just conservatism. /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/19 03:30 PM
1	CMV: Women still want to be led by men in relationships Do you have a source on that? I'm interested.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/19 03:04 PM
1	Older women who never had children. Not everyone gets to live the life of the upper class No, but if you don't have children, it's certainly easier to achieve.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/19 12:07 AM
3	I got a question for the ladies red or blue it doesn’t matter to me This is irrelevant to me. Eh, I actually would love to have been my boyfriend's first LTR. But I must admit I'm only 21; older women might care about this for some reason I can't understand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/19 11:56 PM
1	Dating someone who was promiscuous within your friend group Honestly? You are just asking for drama. We don't know you or your girl, so all we can do is take the information provided and think of the probability of this working out. Is it absolutely impossible for her to have changed for better, for your ego to heal completely and you both live happily ever after? Not really. It can be done. But there is a huge probability that you're setting yourself up for failure. If you can do better without too much effort, she is probably not worth the hassle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/19 09:05 PM
1	Different generations a bigger deal than actual age gaps in dating/relationships? It depends entirely on the person. I actually met my boyfriend when I was barely 18 (I'm 21 now) and he was 28. At the time, regular guys his age were basically elders, although I would be lying if I said I wasn't curious about older men. The only place where they are interesting in this age range, for little nerdy me, is the university. Lots of cute genius guys with amazing stories doing their PhDs and stuff. Being Gen Z with a millennial isn't really a problem. I don't bond with people over ch…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/19 09:49 PM
1	From whom do you value compliments the most? I don't care about compliments on my appearance if they aren't coming from my boyfriend. From stranger men is creepy, from men I know it's uncomfortable, and from women I never know if it's genuine. Genuine compliments about something I did are great, regardless of who is making them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/19 09:00 PM
1	Advice: Do men lose anything by putting off dating? Your "peak" was your late 20s, dude. Go date and live your life. Right now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/19 08:32 PM
6	What are some things you wish men understood about women/the female experience? I believe prostitutes are usually not included in the women's surveys because they're huge outliers of female sexual behaviour. But men are probably including their encounters with prostitutes in their n-count. Maybe that's why.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/19 02:01 AM
1	CMV: Most men are incapable of loving women I agree with u/MoodyBrizo. Men are at least honest about wanting these traits in a woman. Women are often in a illusion that they can "change" a guy to become The Perfect Man ™, and stay in terrible relationships chasing this dream. If that's not "loving who you want the person to be", I don't know what that is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/19 01:42 AM
1	Whatsyourprice.com - Men pay women to get a chance to take them on dates I mean that this is just biology. I can't make my brain enjoy the work out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/19 03:06 PM
1	Whatsyourprice.com - Men pay women to get a chance to take them on dates I find vigorous exercise and nutritious food to be their own reward. I'm not OP, but have you considered that people are different? Not everyone likes doing exercises, and many will do it only to look good. Just like some people don't find gaining knowledge something pleasurable, but just something they do to find a job - which is foreign to me. About the costs of our appearances, again, everyone is different. I, for example, have very sensitive skin and live in a third world country with heavy …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/19 01:29 AM
2	Whatsyourprice.com - Men pay women to get a chance to take them on dates Dude, you have no idea what you are talking about. Check r/SkincareAddiction. Sunscreens cost money and your genes can't do anything about the sun. Also, retinoids and a few other acids are scientifically proved to make skin look better. You have to maintain a routine of moisturising and exfoliating to minimize the effects of oily and/or dry skin. And don't even get me started on make up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/19 12:39 AM
2	I have a question about women and asking guys for money. Oh, I hope so. I've never traveled abroad so I can't really compare.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/19 09:31 PM
3	I have a question about women and asking guys for money. Brazil! Women take their appearance very seriously here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/19 09:21 PM
4	I have a question about women and asking guys for money. In my country it's extremely common for men to give money to their girlfriends, but this is changing among younger folks. This money is usually for beauty stuff, which I guess is the reason why men accept this arrangement. I don't think they would give money to random women that aren't interested in them though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/19 09:09 PM
2	do you feel offense when I say girls have to put less effort into dating? WTF dude, you're really tall. Maybe that won't do it the Netherlands (really? because there are lot of foreigners there too) but will do anywhere else in the world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/19 01:49 PM
3	do you feel offense when I say girls have to put less effort into dating? I see. Maybe lose weight and move to the Netherlands? :p	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/19 01:04 PM
2	do you feel offense when I say girls have to put less effort into dating? Can't you just split the bill? Will she be offended by this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/19 12:45 PM
2	Incentives for women to learn relationship skills (anger phase rants) Most men are boring as well and many lack the ability to hold a conversation. They consider watching sports a hobby and treat the time spent with their girlfriends as a chore they do to get pussy later. See, I'm not disagreeing with your comment, but the truth is that most people aren't that interesting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/19 02:39 PM
1	Q4All: What are your political beliefs and how do they fit or conflict with your pill? Haha I'm almost married already (gotta be a good RP woman, I guess), but thanks! Do you have like-minded friends? If so, how did you find them? I'm in college and surrounded by anarcho-capitalists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/19 09:07 PM
1	Q4All: What are your political beliefs and how do they fit or conflict with your pill? I'm double red as well! God, it's so hard to find people like this in real life (is there a subreddit for us?). Also I'm female. I don't think my views conflict at all. Things make a lot of sense when you think in terms of evolutionary biology and psychology. I believe there is enough scientific evidence to prove some "red pills", especially about gender roles being mostly a product of nature. I do think many RP-leaning people don't understand statistics well and make dumb generalizations, thoug…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/19 08:44 PM
1	What are your love languages and how does it affect your attractions/dating life? I do acts of service and give cool gifts and little surprises to my boyfriend to show how much I love him, and this always put a big smile on his face. Most of the time, he answers giving me the quality time I so desperately need. His love language is physical touch, which means my hair can never stop being messy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/19 02:11 AM
1	Ideal Weight: Our Perception https://www.mybodygallery.com/photos-50955-body-shape.htm?StartAt=13#.XEZm1pDJ00M Generally I'm not really the one who will support "fat activists", but just look at the woman above. Her BMI puts her in the "overweight" category but she looks great due to those massive hips. At least in my country, this person would never be considered fat, but very attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/19 12:49 AM