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9

It doesn't seem like you're getting actual fun if he doesn't make you come
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 12:46 PM
51

Why are you seeing this man?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 05:36 AM
9

I can't stand someone that says that type of stuff, they usually act like saying they're sarcastic means they get a pass to be snark at you and treat you like you're stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 04:55 PM
326

"why don't you just speak out? Go to the police?" "Let me be the devil's advocate maybe it wasn't like what you're describing it was like? Are you sure he did it? Maybe you didn't yell louder and he couldn't know because men are only fucking stupid when it benefits them to be"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 05:42 PM
41

And even better, op looks like she sees what others are seeing, he will get dumped💖🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 05:08 PM
12

Every single sentence that this heartless asshole wrote is vomit inducing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:55 PM
4

White men are out there thinking they're some kind of god
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 08:22 PM
3

Im livid. He finds it real funny, what a fucked up man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 07:22 PM
8

I mean cool, but if you have to call out your friends that often you should do some introspection on why you even hang out with them, as we say in my country "dime con quien andas y te dire quien eres"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 06:56 PM
40

And she's everywhere, always catering to men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 06:54 PM
32

The safest way to do it is not doing it at all. Why would you risk someone's life? I truly don't get it, like, even if by a teeny tiny chance I could physically hurt my boyfriend to pleasure myself, I wouldn't do it at all, not fucking worth it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 06:52 PM
7

Just a teeny tiny bit, no biggie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 02:56 PM
6

Don't get me wrong I'm no kinkmeisha, but this goes beyond a kink, this shit is insane, he has like, serial killer level type of mindset, he was turned on because he tore her jaw open, and wanted to continue, how long until he chokes her to unconsciousness, or to death?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 02:55 PM
7

I mean I wish I could tell you it is fake but it's 2020 so anything goes apparently😬👎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 07:30 PM
44

That's what it is supposed to mean, like, you did get it right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 07:26 PM
4

Youtube is a life saver tbh, just put whatever difficulty you have in the search bar and at least 10 channels will show up with solutions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 03:49 PM
6

He tells on himself on 2 texts. If he "kind of likes" being older because he is "dominant and protective" he's basically admitting that he preys on younger women because he can manipulate them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 03:06 PM
65

"you want a man not a boy🙃". Because old fucks targeting 20 year olds are SoOo mature and not boyish at all🙄, and what's with the passive aggressiveness anyways? Yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 08:13 PM
13

Yikesss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 12:27 PM
3

Sickos. Disappointed but not surprised tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 02:03 PM
15

Wow get your shit together dude you're 32 without a job or a car? That's a recipe for homelessness, level the fuck up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 05:21 AM
23

What a cold hearted dick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 07:58 PM
14

I was just answering based on what I know, there's no need to put me down for it. Have a nice one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 07:26 PM
4

Look at my other comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 02:14 PM
29

I watched a documentary about this, they use public restrooms to wash themselves and get toilet paper that act as pads, i think they can sterilize a menstrual cup with water and the sterilizing liquid designed for it in a public restroom as well, a cloth pad would be harder because they'd need to hang them to dry, disposables are easier to use but also harder because if they can't afford them they would need to get their supply from donations, and this is an issue that often gets overlooked, whi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 02:13 PM
66

There are charities that donate cloth pads and menstrual cups, but there's a huge gap between their reach and the amount of homeless women that need those things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:40 PM
126

That's so fucking sad. What can we do to help?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:02 PM
26

The truerateme sub be like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 03:44 PM
22

When I was 18 I was getting takeout and a dude that was at least 27ish was trying to flirt on me, I just wanted my damn chicken, when I get back to the car my mom was like omg, didn't you see? He was flirting with you!! she was so excited and I told her that he looked old, she then told me my brother is about the same age and I told her to ask him his opinion on me dating a man his age, see if it'd look cute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:48 PM
3

The reason why those things he mentioned are mainly done by men is because the women that dare to go in those fields are greeted with sexual harassment and sexism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 01:41 PM
3

No, I can't take a joke, I'm bullshit intolerant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 02:56 AM
39

I love happy endings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 11:40 PM
20

I was cringing before I read the last part lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 12:29 PM
3

I love this woman. Ive been watching her videos and I particularly liked the one where she talks about harmful messages that we can catch from Disney princess movies, and I identified with the cinderella complex, thinking that if I endured my toxic family environment I would someday move out with and rent an apt with my boyfriend, but I'm no damsel in distress, moving together can wait because I can do it on my own and that's what I'm doing, moving out despite what my mother would have to say ab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:51 AM
4

It means he's a creep, a creep with issues
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 03:24 PM
4

A guy once wrote my name on his arm with cuts because I wasn't replying to his texts and sent the picture to me, I wasn't replying because he wanted me to be his girlfriend and I said no and he kept begging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 12:55 PM
13

It's sick that some men think of marriage as the definite "lock down" as if cheating when you're unmarried is completely okay. Like umm no? Marriage just means you're sharing finances and stuff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 07:22 PM
9

Pls make it mobile friendly i never get into discord servers because most of them do video verification and I can't do that on mobile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:25 PM
6

I think that one was set to private by the admins, not sure though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:44 AM
3

Nah, twitter will let its users ruin someone's life for woke points.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:42 AM
24

This was my first thought. He is sick in the head
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 08:41 PM
2

Omg I felt my blood boiling reading that, I'm glad you're out of there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 02:24 PM
5

Tbh I wasn't ever sure about him. Putting things on perspective all the stuff he did would make me less and less attracted to him, but I'd read that "so you're going to leave JUST because of x or y?" gaslighting bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 01:33 PM
11

He's soulless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 05:44 PM
26

Yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 02:48 AM
3

Thank you so much, great resource
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 02:32 AM
16

Wait what does it mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 02:18 AM
3

I would've started sleeping with a baseball bat next to me after that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 04:02 AM
339

I bet he has no issue with having sex in the "talking stage", but god forbid asking a woman on an actual date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 06:32 AM
27

His source is porn? Really? Videos where performers get paid to do and say what the producers tell them? How fucking stupid can someone be?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 05:11 PM
3

There IS a murdering "kink". Im looking at the restforever freaks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 03:07 AM
24

It's a meme, as in men put pictures from many ages and pounds ago, the original tweet was with some random dude that did try to hit on her because he was that dude (and it was a recent photo) but she didn't go along with it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 01:30 AM
20

What are you talking about!? It's obviously okay to end up with organ damage during imPaCt PlAy, my kinkmeisha ass is clearly consenting to this, along with incontinence from anal and esophagus braking from chokeplay, because that is SO cool /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 09:14 PM
28

One time that my ex asked me for my part of the bill, it was my birthday and all my friends were there, they felt so sorry for me that THEY picked up my part of the tab. NO MORE LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 12:35 PM
47

It's incredible how they give themselves away with teeny tiny details. This screams: 1.my masculinity is so freaking fragile that I am physically unable to bear having to store feminine articles at my place, even if it is for a few days 2.i want to let you know that I don't like it when you leave evidence that you, a girl, were here and spent the night with me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 04:14 PM
29

Reverse google your pictures. He might have used them to catfish someone else
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 10:28 PM
13

Loooord give me patience. Why date someone you CLEARLY resent because of your own upbringing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 04:54 PM
6

"EVERYONE STOP MAKING AN EFFORT YOU'RE RUINING MY CHANCES SERIOUSLY JUST STOP I NEED TO GET LAID MORE OFTEN"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 05:14 PM
19

Damn, there's a lot to unpack here. Makes me question if he's really THIS self unaware or if there's someone using some random dude's picture for one of those "social experiments" that incels like to make.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 05:04 PM
15

So she herself said that she goes out of her way and he does tiny things and she's happy about it? Can't help this one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 12:44 PM
5

Why is he sending that to you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 12:39 PM
19

I didn't even remember this. Some red flags just woooshed over my head
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 04:50 AM
91

"Ok I'll never ever laugh again at anything so I don't offend you" (he liked making up shit and mix it with real stuff so he could laugh at me for being so gullible and believing the fake parts of his stories).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 04:28 AM
19

Beenverified is a good site imo. You look up their name and tons of results might show up but they're classified by state and then by city, you will know who it is if they're going by their actual name. They have a $1 trial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 08:08 AM
4

I've had this happen twice. With old fucks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 04:22 PM
7

What a catch /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 11:55 PM
1

He mistook OLD with uber-fucks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 04:09 AM
11

STDs anyone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 10:26 PM
3

My mom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 03:27 AM
1

This is insane
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 03:24 AM
2

This man thinks you're stupid enough not to notice that he sent the apology in the same text.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 12:50 AM
13

I was the crying friend. One day i decided to write everything we fought about, like, the hard facts, and I used to look at it when I was thinking of forgiving him so I wouldn't forget how he made me feel. He said I was vindictive, and maybe he was right but if I hadn't done that maybe I'd still be miserable with him crying over shit I'd let fly because I didn't love myself enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 03:51 PM
24

The perfect birthday gift. A daily reminder that he gave you a candy for each day he had to wait until he could legally get his dick wet, on your 18th birthday as his "gift" to you. And who knows? If you had done everything right, maybe for your 19th birthday gift he would have let you pay his mortgage! 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 12:25 AM
10

He's a fantastic guy, all you have to do so he doesn't rape you is not be alone in a room with him, because that's how human decency works, by a lack of opportunity to do vile things /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 09:42 PM
45

What a dangerous piece of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 05:31 AM
3

Oh those are the actual PC's yes, gamers either buy them premade though I've heard is not very common, or buy all the individual components and install them inside pretty see through boxes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:36 AM
2

I feel the same way about anything featuring a stalker. I hate that maroon 5 song too, i actually stopped listening to them because of how uncomfortable that song made me feel. My stalker hasn't followed me to places in like years but he still feels entitled to my attention and interactions to the point where if I don't acknowledge his presence he will sneak up on me and grab my arm and act like it's the most normal shit ever and we were old friends. Or idk maybe he is actually there but he got …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 02:33 AM
9

Take that to HR it was inappropriate asf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 02:12 AM
2

Where are the 3rd ones I can't see them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 02:09 AM
67

My mom does it because my dad doesn't save money at all. If he had any emergency he would not be able to come through if it wasn't for my mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 11:54 PM
9

Maybe he himself is either dating a much younger woman, or wants to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 12:36 AM
10

Maybe she didn't tell him all of the truth, or maybe she's ashamed of what the psychiatrist actually had to say about her relationship dynamics, idk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 07:05 PM
27

She is dating her dad. Her "boyfriend" triples her age, and what she has to say about him is "He is my dom, he got me into bdsm" But she says her dad is a controlling asshole who called her names and thinks all he wants to do is control her... Did the psychiatrist with all the complete info really said all of this was fine?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 07:03 PM
8

That's so weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 05:52 PM
29

You know it's going to be something really fucked up when they start with "so we love each other and istg he is nice in literally every other aspect"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 04:31 AM
10

Society is failing young girls. It is sort of unrelated but the other day I saw a video "meme" saying "lockdown has us like" and it was a toddler stepping on a scale and making a face as if she didn't like what she saw, a goddamn toddler is already socialized to hate herself? She doesn't even read yet but she was taught to tie her worth to a number on a scale?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 12:07 AM
12

It's cringe fuel🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 10:06 PM
17

teen vogue
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 08:33 PM
7

If this were a woman's profile on any app the wherearethegoodmen sub would explode
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 08:09 PM
7

When we say maintenance sex, we mean having sex just to have it, even if you don’t feel like doing it. It means keeping the sex up to ensure both people in the relationship are sexually satisfied. It sounds like one side of those "strong" relationships isn't sexually satisfied at all, they wouldn't be engaging on sex they don't want to have!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 07:57 PM
37

"Omg i literally just realized I was just confused i want to be with you forever"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 04:28 PM
10

Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 10:48 PM
34

You know what's funny? when men(mostly, but some women too) claim that Hollywood sets unrealistic expectations from relationships, but I can count on one hand the amount of movies that actually represented a healthy relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 09:36 PM
25

I bet he cries "not all men"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 09:32 PM
1

Sometimes it's kind of a cultural/generational thing, in my family if you leave permanently(not for uni) without an engagement ring you will be judged and questioned harshly at every gathering
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 05:45 PM
72

Radical, yeah, unfeminist? That pisses me off, oh yes it's very antifeminist to reject the degradation of women for the public to see, only to pay her dimes and mark her unemployable for the rest of her life, it's short anyways because she'll end up dying from some substance abuse, she is obviously very empowered by this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 12:48 PM
229

It must be sad realizing your own son is a prick. I wonder if at age 18 his parents can do anything about it or if they should just tell him to move out as he's threatening to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 02:31 PM
14

For a future reference, men who ask too many questions are a red flag, yes you're getting to know each other but forcing that kind of intimacy on someone you met 2 weeks ago is odd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 02:28 PM
2

If they have a DUI that will show up on sites like beenverified, along with any other charges
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 10:14 PM
17

There's always at least one comment saying "wow does nobody work to build relationships nowadays? Y'all crazy" regardless of how fucked up the post is though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 09:27 PM
62

I'm ashamed of the girl I used to be. I'd listen to the type of advice that comes from the relationships subreddits like "jUst cOmUnIcaTe". And would have hours long arguments with my ex about how he was being such a prick and would end up apologizing for making him feel bad by telling him that he was not being good with me. And he'd tell all of his friends about it but would make up stuff so I'd look like a toxic girlfriend. The relationship lasted FOUR YEARS and I was constantly stressed. When…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 10:24 PM
6

"sILvEr fOxeS"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 04:18 AM
2

"you'd probably drool" that doesn't happen, coomer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 02:42 PM
2

Yk what i think that's my issue, or at least it's very similar. I have no problem reading small stuff like the news or columnists publications, or stuff related to my job, it's books i have an issue with because I'm used to short term stimulation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 02:26 PM
12

I don't wear wired bras, they stab my ribs and I don't really need them, but I don't like my nipples seen so I wear bralettes with sponges to cover them and they do the job but are sooo comfy, when I want more structure I wear shaped but also non wired bras. Sports bras are very uncomfortable to me though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 01:15 PM
4

He's living in her house and the bedsheets were bought with her money to begin with...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 04:08 AM
5

Im still working, but at home I like doing small crafts. Also I'm taking online courses, one to advance learning my 4th language, and one to make a better use of office tools. I tried reading again but I can't bring myself to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 07:50 PM
16

Wow what a POS, you should go to HR
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 01:15 PM
26

"you have all of my support to be my personal free hooker while I don't ever do anything to please you, and to pay for your share in our dates(you don't want to be a gold digger, do you?), that is, of course, if I decide that we should be seen in public(because you don't want to force me to do something I don't want, if you voice your concern, then you're toxic and manipulative), it's 2020, equal rights equal lefts you b"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 01:41 AM
3

What the hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 10:32 PM
19

OPTION? To get TRAFFICKED? damn yo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 08:26 PM
5

Mine are unpainted because it's easier to keep them clean with all that's going on right now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 02:07 AM
5

Yup, porn makes about 14 billion annually, and they can't afford to pay more to the actresses? Nah, because they treat them as disposable, most of them have a career no longer than 4 years, and make so little out of it yet are shamed worldwide, i read about an actress that claimed to make in a month what mia made in the whole year she performed, like, okay? Your career is still going to die in a few years. Mia was banned in several countries because of a scene she made, was it really worth it? I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 01:03 PM
31

"you're wonderful just the way you are" aHAHA. This man's dream is to be told to stay in his comfort zone without ever bothering to reflex on his own attitudes and actions, never improving himself, his fantasy is perfect mediocrity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 03:53 AM
4

I partly agree, you don't need to be submissive, or feminine. But something's not right here. Yeah his ex might have stayed with an asshole, but that doesn't change the fact that he was an asshole to her. You've never met his wife, so you haven't seen them together, you don't know the dynamics of their relationship enough to make that sort of assessment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 08:54 PM
3

He sounds insufferable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 08:38 PM
39

Yup, she did not make more than 10,000£ in her ENTIRE career. She's known worldwide but after retiring she did not have much to show for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:32 PM
22

You say you think it is wrong, but it is not, soap increases the risk of infection because even if you only clean you vulva with soap and not your vagina, you can still manage to kill healthy bacteria that your body is producing to self clean and get yeast infections, the vagina is self cleaning and the vulva only needs warm water. Do what you want, but don't encourage others to engage in unhealthy behavior https://www.abc.net.au/news/health/2017-09-12/a-gynaecologists-guide-to-good-vulva-and-va…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:28 PM
12

"see i know im fucked up but look, I cried:(" sounds like a YouTuber's shitty apology
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 03:14 AM
12

Well you can't live off of salads, you need quite more than 50 calories a day! Does this little guy not know about basic nutrition?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 12:31 AM
12

Ghosting is not a terrible thing to do, he doesn't care about you why should you tiptoe around his non existent feelings for you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 06:52 PM
14

Don't say "slob", "low effort" or "low maintenance" to describe your appearance, it doesn't represent who you are, it doesn't matter that you're negating the words, your brain, and other people's brains pick up those words, it's not good for your self esteem or for other people's perception of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 09:22 PM
27

Now I've noticed a pattern in the type of tragic men I draw into my life is from my personal flaws (like feeling comfort and familiarity in dysfunction, trauma bonding) and I'm wondering if this is also a side effect of this behavior. I think this is something you need to work out with a therapist, yes, it might be attracting poor behavior men. I don't want to sacrifice my style to snag a HV man, but how can I come off as a woman with standards and expectations while still keeping my same look? …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 04:30 PM
3

True
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 04:00 AM
35

Fetishists are getting weirder as the years pass. Witchcraft blackmailing? Who even thinks of that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 11:41 PM
10

I don't think he did, i just think the relationship is pretty much over, he feels betrayed over such petty thing and she obviously resents him for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 11:26 PM
31

Yup, that she was crazy or cheated on him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 10:21 PM
120

Imagine telling your friends and family that you broke up with the girl that did absolutely everything to accommodate you except for the one time she didn't accommodate your foot fetish even though you "forbid" her from doing it like you're her owner or something like that. I don't think anybody outside from reddit would look at him with a straight face while he's telling this story. Because that relationship is pretty much over
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 08:57 PM
4

Who even thinks about making someone cry from real sadness? Like how could that ever make someone happy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 06:25 PM
4

This lack of self love is pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 06:19 PM
306

"so ik you went to school and all that but my boyfriend and I KNOW what we are doing so back off and don't share that knowledge of yours, even though i literally paid for you to share it with me"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 10:53 PM
4

Agreed. Men are not dumb, he's just doing what he's asked terribly and with the worst possible attitude so he never has to do it again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 10:41 PM
113

Except pregnancy, childbirth and housechores🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 08:43 PM
44

Trust your gut, if you find yourself uncomfortable ask yourself why, there is a huge possibility that you unconsciously spotted something that was wrong. Beware of men that make you feel like you owe them any form of sexual gratification (nudes/sex/sexual activities). Don't let yourself be pressured to be nice to them, don't be afraid to tell them to kick rocks. Don't send nudes, ever, please listen to me on this one it's one of the worst things you can do to yourself, being worried about them g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 08:19 PM
50

He wants her to convince him to stay with her. He is using the "well im not even sure i want to be with you" Everytime she calls him out on his shenanigans. It's an abuse tactic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 07:18 PM
72

It's just their need to blame women for their own mistreatment, instead of reflecting on how they might be behaving like a fuckboy or a niceguy or an incel. So blaming us and hating us for selecting them better comes from the same place, the unwillingness to make an effort
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 07:16 PM
6

I watch her videos because let's be honest I'm not the most mannered person I know and I've seen an improvement in my behavior, but I have other stuff to invest my money in at the moment. Edit: i forgot how to english oops
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 07:04 PM
4

Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 07:01 PM
13

In the middle of a pandemic outbreak, he wants his pregnant wife to go tell him what to get from the store because he can't be bothered to read a damn list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 06:46 PM
27

Don't answer. Don't tell him all the things you hated that he did, he'll break them down, deny most of them, minimize the ones he can't deny, and ignore the rest so you forget about everything and forgive him. Why after all these months? I'll tell you why, he exhausted all his "possibilities" and since he didn't have any more luck with other girls he came back to you because he thinks you're easy to access.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 01:46 AM
19

I can almost hear him chanting muh penis muh choice at an anti social distancing protest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 09:40 PM
4

He looks a lot like this guy https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/g3twap/is_he_serious/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 05:58 PM
8

You are what you consume, you are not overreacting and it's not okay just because it's fiction, because it's not even fiction, women get abused in real life, in many ways similarly to the things you've been reading, and worse. You are right about not wanting to consume that garbage content. You are way too young to distort the image you have about healthy relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 12:44 AM
85

Toxic ex (the new psycho/crazy ex trope) Way older than her ASKED her ex to have an abortion, jfc Did not want a future with her, was stringing her along all the time 🚩🚩🚩🚩 And she's blindsided? Did all this really came out of "nowhere"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 06:36 PM
26

Even if he himself has no actual gold to dig out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 02:46 PM
1

It was most likely a neg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 06:22 AM
1

Alcohol and tobacco can make someone look VERY old. Some of my uni classmates looked about 30 because they started drinking and smoking in their teens and never toned their parties down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 06:21 AM
200

The porn industry is taking a personal offense on what people choose NOT to do with their bodies? That's so intrusive and honestly very weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 05:43 AM
44

That's textbook abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 03:46 AM
109

"just communicate" is their way of putting all the blame on you. When you do try to communicate harder, they'll say you're picking fights. When you leave them, they'll say all you did was nag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 09:27 PM
32

His dream sounds like a threat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 08:11 PM
13

Men will think that if you even mention the words then you want to have sex. It doesn't matter to them that the word NO or DON'T is right before it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 02:14 AM
2

Talk about stingy...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 10:17 PM
34

Where is this from. Edit: you don't have to downvote just because I don't know the name of a movie and asked for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 02:55 PM
9

I agree with that, over the top is no good either "Before you leave the house, look in the mirror and take one thing off." - Coco Chanel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 02:54 PM
15

In my previous relationship, I'd make myself smaller because this clown would show up in basketball type of shorts, dirty or too worn sneakers, and shirts that were discoloured or had holes in them. It wasn't because he couldn't afford clothes, he just was too lazy to sort out his closet and keep only the things that were still good to wear, do not be me, do not quit to the things you love, it's not vain, don't let them gaslight you into thinking that liking to taking time to groom yourself is b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 02:47 PM
30

The ex sure must be glad not to be with him anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 02:08 PM
3

Don't be in "okay" relationships, that's settling, why waste time and energy with someone you're just not into? Besides you can't know for sure that he's HV when you don't really know him, if you want to truly know him, before you make any choices, at least wait until quarantine is over, so that you know if he makes an effort, if he's kind to waitress/ess, if he's well groomed and whatever boxes you want a man to check
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 01:07 AM
18

I'd lose my mind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 10:08 PM
6

So she pays most on the bills and their dates? WHY? I bet she also cooks and cleans most of the time because "oh he's always so stressed"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 10:05 PM
13

I don't really date men that have dated a lot, it gives me the impression that they have some sort of commitment issue, or that they cheat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 09:24 PM
73

Living in another city is kind of a red flag too tbh. I've seen many cases of men having multiple families in different states. Ldr are risky for this and many other factors
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 09:20 PM
8

What do you define as bare minimum?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 06:23 PM
32

That's the epitome of laziness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 02:26 PM
127

"she's using him for his money" oh for fucks sake. So the victim is ALWAYS a man, who gives a shit about a woman who has been groomed since kindergarten, those damn toddlers sure are golddiggers, amirite?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 02:02 PM
7

Yeah, i love my mom but I don't have the heart to tell her that I don't want her advice because I've followed it and got ridiculed and played by men, so I just ignore it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 01:51 PM
107

Yes, no matter how long you've known someone, or how attached you think you are, you can never be 100% sure you know someone's character.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 01:48 PM
18

"well you're not perfect" is how I got stuck for 4 years with a manchild that I was settling with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 01:26 PM
146

The group was created yesterday and it already has 4500+ members, apparently they had another one called WANKER guys club. But now are pretending not to have any hate speech or unconsenting women's nudes, they may have switched to fb messenger or to some other platform to share their depravity or something, I don't think coomers can live without their porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 12:32 PM
8

Don't you know? We're supposed to just KNOW when a guy will be like this! /s. Except we're also not supposed to know, since men like him hate this subreddit, it's the self-proclaimed-nice-guy-but-actually-an-asshole paradox
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 09:46 PM
31

This man does not seem to have ambitions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:55 PM
5

"You sit him down and tell him"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 03:51 AM
5

Yeah cause ANYBODY would like to associate croissants with fecal matter. Just ew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 03:46 AM
98

In one of the videos he moves his arm very fast and she flinched. I had no idea this man was like this because I only listen to his music when it's about to be Christmas, but wow, she looks uncomfortable to say the least
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 03:17 AM
3

Apparently it's called "hot gluing"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 11:56 PM
14

This is nuts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 09:57 PM
9

It almost looks like satire. I say almost because the men that say these things often look like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 09:55 PM
5

There's a trend where a group of neckbeards cum all over their anime figurines and then leave it there, and then do it again, day after day, and then posted pictures of it online, so I don't doubt this any bit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 09:35 PM
10

Let me see👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 09:34 PM
12

I don't think they even bother to clean them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 08:56 PM
107

I would end things then and there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 07:33 PM
70

One side advocates to find a worthy partner or stay single because there's nothing wrong with that and could actually be beneficial, and the other advocates for rape, murder, assault and whatnot, our hate is not equal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 04:51 AM
42

And how they're like "just wait a bit longer", ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 12:00 AM
20

I can smell him through this picture and the smell isn't nice, his face and profile yell: "i think washing your butthole makes you gay"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 03:17 AM
45

Translation: can't keep a job, can't keep relationships either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 10:25 PM
38

There was absolutely no way he could've saved himself from that one, he went full coomer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 06:30 PM
2

It's a rough time for most if not all of us, some have not stopped to consider other people because they haven't processed everything that's been happening. It's nuts out there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 01:30 AM
42

I stopped talking to a guy because he once implied he expected a hypothetical skinny girlfriend to get fat for a fat guy(he is overweight, I'm skinny). I'm very self conscious about my body and the idea of someone deliberately making me gain weight made my skin crawl, it seemed borderline fetishistic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 12:40 AM
-3

They didn't need hundreds of thousands to die an awful death just to do what they always do with their appearance, nothing (which in itself is not a bad thing, you can send whatever message you want about yourself, we're all different)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 12:27 AM
2

See I get the sentiment and all that, I don't relate, but I get it, but this isn't a man worshipping subreddit, this sub was made to share advice and experiences, so we can identify red vs green flags, worshipping men for existing does not add much to learn from, good or bad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 12:10 PM
15

Maybe he removed it bc i can't find it either 1
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 12:04 AM
191

That was so intrusive and rude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 10:27 PM
87

Yes! Ladies trust your "gut/instinct/heart" or whatever you call it, it's there for a reason! If you feel something is off you already know it most likely is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 07:28 PM
8

He thinks having her living with him as a sex machine is a privilege, mind you, he's an old fuck that is with her because of her looks and willingness to put up with all that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 02:35 PM
49

I wonder if he's constantly bringing her friend's "lack of maturity" to her, yk, as a way of isolating her because he seemed to bring that up a lot in his post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 12:39 PM
11

He wanted validation and instead got dragged all over the AITA comments, I hope she dumps him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 11:31 AM
76

Right like she's the poor one but he's complaining about picking a tab?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 03:07 AM
8

I bet he thinks he's a catch and can do better than her, hence why he didn't propose on his own
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 10:20 PM
97

"has never robbed an innocent person" 1.yeah right 2.is the bar THAT low?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 04:30 PM
2

Yikess.. but also 20 kids what in the ever living fuck, nobody can tell me that treating your wife as a non-stop incubator is not a strategy to force her to depend on you and be so busy with your kids that she can't see through your bullshit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 06:56 AM
7

Damn that's so trashy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 10:11 PM
19

That is disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 07:08 PM
5

I think that counts as engaging on his bs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 06:46 PM
73

"Christian" does not mean anything. I know of one that volunteers and plays at church's band but still trafficks with women's nudes. He also has multiple STDs and sleeps around with everyone naive enough to not believe the other women. Don't let your guard down because of their facade
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 05:23 PM
9

I've been in this situation, he wasn't violent but he was definitely escalating, anyways, don't open the door for him, don't try to talk to him and make him understand. He's an grown person, he's not stupid. He KNOWS you're done, but is EXPECTING you to have a conversation with him, why? So he can dismantle all of your arguments against him and you have no reason to break up with him. Do not fall for this trap. It's been about 2 years since I last let him and I'm doing fine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 04:18 PM
41

Right! Why would you catch feelings for someone that you can't share life goals with? Shits and giggles?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:30 AM
12

You're going to be just fine. You can use that time to learn new things, become a better person, and work on yourself, your happiness should not depend on a man, they can smell that desperation from miles away and that energy attracts only LVM, learn to be alone before you start dating, because otherwise you're going to put up with shit you shouldn't
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:22 AM
52

Why though?. I hate to be judgemental, since the deed is done, but somebody has to, before anyone else has this happen to them, ladies, DO NOT GO OUT WITH MEN RIGHT NOW. If they ask you on a date right now they don't care about you, they're seeing it as "end of the world sex" or something along those lines. Dating can wait, your boat is not going to sail, "the one" is a myth we've been conditioned to believe to accept whatever behavior comes from the man we're codependent with at the moment. Whe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:15 AM
6

Girl, read the handbook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 10:48 PM
10

When I got hired at my job I thought it was going to be like uni but 10x worse, and it was actually very refreshing my coworkers are very respectful even though it's a 80%-male engineering department, can't say the same about the other departments though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 03:03 AM
20

Ugh!! They'd make bets to see who could bang who before everyone else! Idk why I kept them as company for SO long but I'm low-key glad i did because I realized the amount of men that seemed normal but were actually trash, I've always said you can learn from everyone, but sometimes all you can learn is to stay away from them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 02:19 AM
11

Idk if it is approved but I really like a book named "loving to survive"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 10:29 PM
32

Nah, they're still nasty and will try to get her nudes, with or without her knowledge or consent. Even if they DO like a girl they'll lose respect for her if they find out she has leaked nudes(with or without her consent). If she doesn't and they fall in love with her they will treat her like a person, but that doesn't change the fact that they were nasty with other girls, beware of fuckboys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 09:18 PM
201

I used to hang out with mostly men and i was "one of the guys", so they felt comfortable saying all that aloud, so if anyone is doubting of this I came here to say that it is true, this is how they speak about women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 04:45 PM
39

To me it's kind of weird. Not just the action, I've never met someone who did that and wasn't a weird person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 01:57 PM
33

Can't say I can't relate, good thing I learned from my mistakes but damn it's like reading myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 03:27 PM
3

Oh thanks lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 04:01 PM
9

Jason mraz -cooler than me, such a "niceguy" song Bad romance and paparazzi by lady gaga and some others, just lol Taylor Swift's former songs Maroon V - animals seriously that song gave me nightmares, because my stalker wouldn't leave me alone at the time, and the song was everywhere and it wasn't exactly pretty, so everywhere I went he was either there or the song was there, it was pretty much the same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 03:08 PM
1

I'm not sure about the double entendre, I've never heard Shakira refer that way to women that I recall
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 02:58 PM
38

Their little heads can't see beyond the garbage content they consume. I live in Mexico too and a bunch of people think everyone was ordered to stay home, I still need to go to work because we haven't been authorized to work from home, and I get told I'm stupid for going out, dude I work for a living it's not like I'm out clubbing or eating out, these ladies look like they're in the same situation, the least they need is having people assume shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 05:00 PM
5

He's absolutely lying about other stuff. His reasoning might be something like: "well if she likes me and then she sees me and I'm not that guy surely she'll still like me because it was ME she was talking to". When I was a user in the Whisper app(ik yikes) somebody asked that question and that's what men were arguing, Cinderella complexed fuckers. Edit: he might also not even be interested in meeting women, just taking nudes from them and then ghosting them, if he uses his own face he can get e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 12:47 PM
1

Haha, yeah right bud
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 12:28 PM
63

They're not worth the hassle. Someone who just dismisses such a serious concern solely because it doesn't fit their view, even if that means they're turning a blind eye on trafficking will never change their mind, and they'll take pride in that, as if their point of view was more valuable just because they won't change it. It's such a stupid superiority complex to have if you ask me, having a thick skull, wow way to go buddy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 03:20 AM
6

They can change. When they want to or feel like they need to. But I haven't had a first hand experience on that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 12:15 AM
11

Honeymoon, to me, sounds like what you're describing about how someone makes sure you cum first Tension and violence sound like the physical and emotional abuse when someone chokes you, slaps you, and then gets off on it Reconciliation is the so called aftercare, of course they will want to make you feel over the moon right after having abused you, it won't benefit them if they don't sweet talk you. Trauma bonding is a thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 03:17 AM
16

Honeymoon - tension - violence - reconciliation, these are the phases of abuse, which casually overlap with bdsm practices. Don't you think?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 01:48 AM
49

He sold her expired food and then condescendingly told her to pay for the drink, this is not petty, this was INTENDED disrespect, he knew what the fuck he was doing, humiliating her TWICE in a day, this is the kind of guy that throws food at his girlfriend to the face to pretend he's funny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 11:09 PM
25

No way this is real, is there?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 06:11 PM
24

Ew ew ew ew ew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:02 PM
11

Literal years waiting for someone to MEET you? I wouldn't wait four years for a man to propose to me after we became a couple. Let alone to MEET him for the first time ever, and in quarantine times at that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 12:19 PM
111

Look at his post history. God i hope she dropped him for good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 11:46 PM
13

Disappointed but not surprised
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 06:36 AM
8

You mean like red cross or the doctors without borders?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 06:16 AM
58

Fucking pigs. I read an article once about how poverty affects women the most. You have ladies in developing countries being forced to do sexual favors to men BEFORE they(the men) consider SELLING them(women) groceries or sanitary products. Something like that is happening to these women, just because these Johns get off on female suffering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 08:12 PM
22

"look at me!! I'm smart because I use buzzwords!!! I'm also wOkE and self obsessed"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 05:33 PM
18

The bar is underwater
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 04:01 AM
73

Porn addicts don't want women that look natural when they're using them as fleshlights, a porn addict will expect women to look exactly like women on porn, with tons of makeup, breaking no sweat, no body hair, perfect hairstyle and whatnot, a normal person won't want a sex doll, that's for the most depraved of the depraved, which I think is why these companies are emulating porn actresses However there IS a demand for some dolls without makeup, sex dolls emulating children, for the most depraved…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 02:43 AM
11

I've always thought of families that are fixated on that as tacky people. Most of them aren't millionaires or royalty so why is it even so important. Nobody besides half the family OR LESS cares about what happens in it. This shit is rampant on my family, it's gross and ridiculous, besides in this country the children get BOTH family last names, my family has some serious complexes of superiority that don't make sense at all, the adopted kids get treated as some golddiggers as if they had any sa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 03:22 AM
32

Wow men are trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 04:09 PM
64

That's so vile, why are they like this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 08:42 PM
7

Regarding what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 08:37 PM
7

Yikess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 05:40 PM
32

Good god
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 12:08 AM
9

Is this for real? Im livid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 08:49 PM
7

Same, it feels odd but idk he has other posts and mild karma
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 08:41 PM
3

It could be
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 04:12 PM
7

https://amp.scmp.com/week-asia/health-environment/article/3074433/japan-police-arrest-infected-man-who-visited-karaoke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 03:46 PM
17

He called everyone to not be scared to hug people... I wouldn't doubt it's a recent photo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 03:30 AM
48

Because he's an old man that thinks it's appropriate to kiss kids and act like he's their grandpa when he's just a creepy stranger making them uncomfortable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 02:05 AM
3

Yes, dump his touchy ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 12:35 AM
9

Yes, very creepy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 08:34 PM
20

Fucking gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 08:28 PM
13

This won't end up well. A boss is not supposed to flirt with you. It's highly unethical, huge power imbalance, you might need to start looking for another job because this shit will not stop, it's been 2 weeks and he has shown his true colors already, TWO WEEKS, he's nuts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 07:35 PM
13

I think it's a manipulation tactic, to get big even if you're not even bothered so the other person feels like they're walking on eggshells next time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 04:42 PM
2

That would require them having a tiny pinch of self awareness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 09:17 PM
18

"you hate me because I get hard on beating up women? That's so sexist"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 03:36 AM
62

"you're deflecting your own image complexes by insulting a random girl's appearance, but we all see through it because you're fucking ugly and she's not" nobody disagreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 03:32 AM
16

It's because it was made by an ig account to advertise the product, if you look up any meme account on Instagram they're all selling stuff on their posts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 10:28 PM
21

I made a post about this on pinkpillfeminism and someone tried to say i was acting like women can't take precautions,🤦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 06:39 PM
43

Some people think being white is enough to bring to the table
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 12:21 PM
4

"I don't want to date you/continue dating you" Don't try to explain because you'll be leaving a door open for them to try and change your boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 02:58 AM
31

Maybe they can't stop people from reaching out but they didn't have to reply. We're not fucking stupid, Oreo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 11:09 PM
18

My mom has one. It's really for the best, she gets her "allowance" and manages the house, almost always there's extra money and that goes to emergency savings, my dad has no idea because he'd spend it all on useless shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 10:56 PM
1

I guess it's a difference of cultures, I'm mexican and Facebook relationship status is like a must to be oficial with someone, and it's sketchy if they don't update their status. So that's a way of knowing if they are NEVER single for more than a month. But if they don't even have social media you'll need to trust your intuition, if something seems off it most likely is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 03:07 AM
8

A guy like that will be with you just so he has someone to date, not because they're into YOU specifically, they just don't want to be lonely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 01:12 AM
8

4 years, he was such a lowlife and wanted me to be part of his life again just because he was going to therapy as if that magically fixed everything he did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 02:53 AM
99

Nothing says feminism like getting mansplained into sending nudes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 09:58 PM
36

That sounds creepy tbh, I wouldn't go
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 09:55 PM
23

This exact thing happened to me!! My boyfriend is such a sweetheart and so mature. He respects my opinion and listens to me. It's so refreshing to be with someone who doesn't feel the need to debate basic respect, we don't even argue, we have conversations, and that's it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 08:35 PM
5

I feel sorry for this person, I really do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 07:49 PM
144

I'd rather dying with cats and have them eat my face after I'm dead than ending up like this. Actually, I'd rather die OF sepsis because they ate it than ending up like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 07:30 PM
33

They're going to break up sooner or later and this asshole will start dating Emily, he'll pick up every tab, i just know this will happen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 03:10 PM
22

Preach! I saw someone say she thought he might be polite because he super liked her on OLD. I used to be too optimistic too, but they do not deserve THAT much of the benefit of the doubt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 01:54 AM
7

Im not missing work because I cannot afford to lose it, but I will vote with my wallet by not buying or consuming anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 08:10 PM
12

🙋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 08:07 PM
27

Pretend you don't see him, that works for me, eventually I stopped noticing his presence for real. I'd also consider changing jobs if my job wasn't worth the stress of seeing him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 07:06 PM
14

Everytime I see someone labeling themselves as life coach it turns out to be a pyramid scheme type of cult. People pay hundreds to get insulted and then pay some more to keep getting insulted by these nutjobs that market it as the key to success
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 11:13 PM
13

That's just plain evil
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 01:48 PM
26

Nononono, you're not what he values you as. You were valuable before meeting him and you will continue to be valuable without his "offer". He offers what he can give, bad sex and disregards, but that doesn't define YOU, it defines him as a person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:23 AM
16

They read this sub on the daily
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:03 PM
1

It's a weird story lol, but it's in my comment history
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 02:16 PM
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My boyfriend just knows what to give to me from conversations we have, he gives me gifts I didn't even know that I wanted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:14 PM
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Oh, that makes more sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:10 PM
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I don't think making a list would look very good, but i wouldn't know how to proceed. I think giving thoughtful gifts is a hvm trait that you can't teach
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 11:53 AM
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Damn, the gaslighting is real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 08:45 PM
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I made this as a throw acc to post about my neighbor keying my car but then i kept the account and deleted the post, I was too lazy to get back at her AND to delete this user
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:51 PM
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Negotiations my ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:03 PM
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Dear lord just take Earth already
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:01 PM
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It was removed. Did the mods say why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:52 PM
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Usually the dudes obsessed with natural perfection are nowhere near hot enough to make those demands...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:10 AM
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You bet she is. Maybe she's not even there and just asked for the pic and her payment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 12:01 AM
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Picture mother gothel saying their messages to you. If it feels like her, they're trying to manipulate you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 11:57 PM
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I've noticed some posts that were not very fds-ey. I thought it was just women learning to value themselves and level up but I gave them the benefit of the doubt too fast I'm thinking the post about hiring a young male to take care of children(yeah as if). The post about VR being soOOo beneficial for us because the animations would be perfect, the ideal partner(ew). The post where someone posted an online conversation of them asking the guy if he was smart and acting like it was an interview, we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 11:52 PM
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At the tender age of sixteen, not only her voice, but also her goddamn soul
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 07:23 PM
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Can you mark this nsfw?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 04:02 PM
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Im not letting any strangers anywhere near my future kids. Too many pervs out there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:56 PM
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I hate it when they force other people to participate in their deviancies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:02 PM
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u/tinder-virgin DO NOT go with this guy. Even if he agrees to use a condom after you insist, it's very likely that he will take it off without your consent. Why? Because insisting on trespassing boundaries is a red flag. Your health and safety are first
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 02:04 PM
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WOW. The dating pool is full of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 02:42 AM
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GUYS AITA FOR EXPECTING A FREE PROSTITUTE WITH NO PERIOD OR PROBLEMS AT ALL?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 10:32 PM
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It did
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 03:03 PM
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Love how he tried to save some face with the "who is this", you should know since you texted her, clown ass 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 02:59 PM
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I read a post on this sub about lvf vs hvf and how the low value one would encourage you to engage in self destructive behaviours to appear as progressive in front of everyone while the high value one would try to help you as much as they could so you could get back on your feet, you were the hvf in this scenario, it's up to your friend wether or not to take your advice, lets hope she does, usually casual sex does not go well, tons of risks of STDs even with protection, risk of getting filmed by…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 06:13 AM
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He didn't, he even took time to argue with the incels but as any self respecting person, he didn't engage with ALL of them, they were too many
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 05:58 AM
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Those people are most likely too busy self loathing to notice that op is HAPPY, actually glad to put in effort, how is that too hard to understand for them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 05:57 AM
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Oppressive to women lmao. No we just realized libfem wasn't as liberating as we were told, we just got more shit than what we usually would
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 01:02 AM
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People age, boo fucking hoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 02:40 AM
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Sounds like an incel's wet dream
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 06:16 PM
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One of my ex's was into geeky stuff and i was treated by him and his whole group of friends as if I was fucking stupid just because I didn't watch anime, no wonder why these guys/gals were bullied.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 03:42 PM
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You say you love them dearly, and i believe you, but i think you should reconsider a friendship where they don't respect your decisions and bring them up again and again and again hoping to change you, it's your life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 03:26 PM
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That's all they do when together?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 02:32 PM
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You can almost hear the rawr through this screenshot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 11:19 PM
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Yup, i learned that lesson the hard way. I think he did drugs with them too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 04:17 PM
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My ex did this to me. To this day everyone in his social circle think of me as some manipulative bitch and it took tons of time to accept that I can't change what he made up, it took toooo much time to come to terms with it, I just can't win and that's okay, they're all lowlifes anyways
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 04:12 PM
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-Have you caught yourself double texting when he doesn't answer? -Or coming up with "more interesting" stuff to text him -Thinking you bore him? I think if you feel you're being clingy there is already some power imbalance, no shame though most of us have been there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 01:17 PM
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Op is already thinking of forgiving him and bought ALL his lies. Manbaby said he'll have it resized (a.k.a. will trade the ring with one that is a smaller size, because he sure as hell won't spend on another cheap ring) and just trusted that it's all a mistake and he'll make it right. She also said he has "minor anger issues". He thinks she's an idiot, that is clear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 11:54 PM
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If you weren't thinking about him when you think of Netflix, why'd you make a post about it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 06:05 PM
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I had the same situation, he offered to let me use his account. I said no, and told him to change the password. I did it to save some face, or what was left of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 05:05 PM
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I wrote a whole essay for him because he didn't want to do it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 11:52 AM
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His homework
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:33 AM
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I just KNOW he does this so he can assert control over her. He doesn't give a shit about the leftovers, it's the control he has
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:29 AM
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This is why I can't stand Adam Sandler movies, the characters he plays and produces are almost as mediocre as the movies themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 01:21 PM
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Cleaning my room Doing my makeup Eating fruit Spending time outside Learning stuff I want to learn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 03:01 AM
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"so who knows" I know you know girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:25 PM
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Super liking doesn't tell you anything about someone's character.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:17 AM
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It's so gross how they talk about their daughters' vaginas
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:06 AM
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Why not both?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 12:01 AM
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And men probably get off on the power more than the result. Oh yeah, definitely, that's why "bimbofication" is a thing(don't look that up). Depravity often comes from a place of overpowering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 08:26 PM
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My boyfriend games sporadically, but that never has affected our relationship, because he plays sporadically, he gives me his attention and we spend quality time together, if someone plays too much then yeah it's a deal breaker
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:53 PM
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I tagged her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:46 PM
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Talk talk talk talk. It's all that subreddit knows how to write. It doesn't work. I BEGGED my ex to respect me and stop commenting sexual shit on Facebook, where we had our family members, teachers, work colleagues, and classmates, where did talking get me? No fucking where, because the main issue was that he didn't respect me,he didn't care about me or my opinion, or my dignity, every argument we had he showed to his friends, nothing was private, communication is important, but it can't fix som…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:44 PM
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u/throwRA-32 girl, you might want to take a look at this subreddit, what he is doing is not normal, it's not normal to be addicted to porn, it's not normal to prefer it to your SO, you're not crazy at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:34 PM
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His excessive use of porn is bad. That’s non debatable. But if it’s to the point it makes you insecure, then that’s your problem. Sounds like a YOU problem. You need to work on your confidence and wellbeing regardless of the relationship. I’ve never heard of a person getting insecure of women in porn. My guess is you don’t exactly have a fit/healthy body and that’s where your insecurity stems from. Work on yourself. That’d be the first step. And secondly, you’re too young to be worrying about th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:29 PM
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If he treated you badly it's only a matter of time before he shows his true colors to the new girl. But if he was low effort he can change to be high effort when he's ready. I think there's a difference between low effort and a bad person, though many times those two overlap. I don't think bad people can change. But the most important thing here is that you should know that none of that is your fault, your value doesn't lessen because you were treated badly, it doesn't make you less of a person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:46 PM
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It doesn't sound like you even like this guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:15 AM
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You go girl!, I want to get a ram adventure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 07:38 PM
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This is so true. This one guy i had MAYBE 4 conversations with, called me sweetie in front of all his friends, it was so weird. Might as well have pissed all over me to mark territory. ffs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:41 PM
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He really thought he was being cute. Fucking gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:28 PM
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If he was SOOO willing to get involved how the fuck did he not know. He didn't care. He's an asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 12:19 AM
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Tbh i don't even know anymore. I used to be very libfem but now I'm not, I've been reevaluating a lot of things since i joined FDS. I guess I'm more of a radfem now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 01:16 AM
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Dang i hope op comes back to her senses "he's a different duck" nah sis,get out while you can
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 06:49 PM
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Same thing here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 02:44 PM
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It's hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 02:09 PM
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"i speak English" yeah no shit. do you want a cookie? Or was that what you were going for by stating you were white as some kind of accomplishment? We can see your picture 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 04:04 AM
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I only got one! Perhaps it has something to do with karma points.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 03:11 AM
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Wow, they go above and beyond to try and bully us into damaging our bodies for their pleasure. Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 03:10 AM
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Yes, and just say no, if they insist, you stop entertaining them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 12:27 AM
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"maybe it's none of my business" damn right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 12:07 PM
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Wow, good to know that hell's over
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 02:00 AM
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When I was single I was asked this a few times and nothing good came from the asker any of those times
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 06:54 PM
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No I think he just called himself fat. Anyways it was uncalled for
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 06:02 PM
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Thanks to all of you, I was worried that I was looking away but yeah, it doesn't seem like she'd listen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 12:50 AM
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I don't think it's necessarily a bad thing to be polite, I say please and thank you, but I do set boundaries and call out when somebody is rude, and cut them off if they were close to me, this way people are happy to help me when I ask them to, but also don't take advantage of that kindness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 11:02 PM
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I never publicly admitted having crushes on my crushes, because I saw how other people would tell to that person and sometimes they took advantage of that to ask for favors like get their homework done or get out of chores they didn't feel like doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 09:51 PM
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It's nice and healthy up until the point you decide to set boundaries.. then you're toxic and insecure🙄🤦 I'm LIVID
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 09:49 PM
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I hid my ex's shenanigans because I knew how stupid it would make me look, but then he asked his friends for advice and told them about what he did(disrespect me, say fucked up shit, flirt with other women and then play stupid,t yell at me, be late) and most of the time they agreed with me but it was so so so embarrassing knowing that they knew what i put up with no matter how hard i tried to hide our arguments, god never again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 09:10 PM
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HOW the fuck does he want you to "hang out" with him if he never even asked. Because this isn't an invitation, it's a passive aggressive question. What he says after screams "beg me to go out on a date, because I'm not gonna ask you, because then we couldn't go dutch"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 05:31 PM
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And then they project their fear onto us by saying we're the ones scared of dying single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:52 PM
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That is great ♥️, it's very important to feel comfortable in your own body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:18 PM
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It's so sad seeing my mom and dad being together still. My dad makes zero effort in her and she just looks so sad when they're in the house at the same time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 02:41 PM
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They also identify with Sherlock or dr house, it's so cringey and childish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 04:04 AM
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I can't finish reading this. Society is fucking sick. Not just men, but libfem pickmeishas that support porn too like it's liberating. And her fucking family. Almost everybody abandoned her. What the actual fuck is wrong with the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:38 AM
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It's how I got here lol. I came as a pickmeisha but everything made sense, y'all saved my dumbass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 12:37 AM
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In my country everybody gets a little something on vday, it's like Halloween
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 01:32 PM
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"don't you ever think about us and how cute we were?" "Yeah, but then I remember what you did" 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 03:07 AM
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I want to learn woodworking, but the classes are imparted too early
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 03:03 AM
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Seriously, this guy sounds awful. The second you start paying for the 100% rent he's going to expect you to do the entirety of the house chores because "well you're not going to any job"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 12:00 AM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 10:08 PM
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Idek how I was so stuck with him. This sub would've been so helpful when I was younger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 07:01 PM
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I should've done this, my ex stole money from me, he bragged about it on fb months later, which is how I found out, a friend of mine showed me the screenshots
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 06:52 PM
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Or men getting angry that uteruses are working organs. "I am pressuring my fiancee to get an abortion because we said no kids but i didn't use a condom and her birth control failed, AITA here?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 04:26 PM
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I was active in that sub but it's a fucking dumpster
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 04:13 PM
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Great update! I was worried sick. The one will come along one day, and he'll do everything he can to be with you, but also will respect you and cherish you, don't you worry about this little slip
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 03:04 PM
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Hi can I please have the link? I need to paste it from the app
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 01:31 PM
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"His side" will be whatever you want to hear. You met him for a few days, the small 1% chance of him not being a predator of any kind is not worth risking your life for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:26 PM
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That sounds super unsafe. This does not sound like a Hvm at all Edit: we advise each other not to get in a stranger's car on the first dates. And you're going to HIS country and staying with him, please don't do that, it sounds really really sketchy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:13 PM
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Exactly! One of the comments said "you'll weed out decent guys too if you wait" . Crap, I'm NOT going to fuck 10 guys after dating for one month looking for the goddamn unicorn that won't leave as soon as he gets what he wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 04:15 PM
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The comments though...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 03:36 PM
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Sounds low effort. "Tell me what to say so I can act like the man you want me to be long enough to go to your home and Netflix and chill".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 04:17 AM
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He's so clueless I almost feel bad for him. I hope he learns from this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 11:16 PM
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He has everything planned already, he won't tell me what it is because it's a surprise. I'm working on his gift, it's a combination between a craft, a dessert I'm making,and a little something that I haven't decided yet. I'm so excited!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:44 PM
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When I was single I didn't like OLD, to many men it's a free sex catalog and will assume that's what you're there for. I made a profile and kept it for like 2 days because of this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:19 PM
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They weed themselves out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 11:09 PM
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I can stomach it, but some time ago i decided not to read stuff that would mess with my inner peace
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 06:32 PM
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Oh. I have bad sight oops
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:40 PM
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That reminds me of a webpage they use to upload pictures of sex workers and rate them. And say how to get away with paying less than what she asked for. The pictures are usually nude photos that they took during intercourse but also pictures they take of them on the street, so you know exactly where to find them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:38 PM
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In anonymity, they absolutely will. In their social media, they'll say they did it as a joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:34 PM
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It seems someone spread the word about this lady and asked them to text her and share her answers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:02 PM
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And don't beat yourself up for believing him. I was in a relationship with a compulsive liar once (worst ex imaginable, all other exes were pretty okay or even great guys) Ooof i also totally get this. One ex made up a relative that was about to die from cancer so Id feel bad for him and took him back. I genuinely think that's the worst thing that someone has ever done to me, mostly because I believed him for some months until i decided to ask around. Like who even thinks of that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 06:45 AM
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What the fuck. That's financial abuse and cheating. Oh God
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 06:52 PM
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What does that consist of?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 06:22 PM
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I'd find a blindfold kind of uncomfortable to look at, I don't like it when I can't see someone's eyes, but I'll move at my own pace, thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 06:20 PM
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It's been about 2 years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 06:10 PM
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I like this, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 06:10 PM
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I kept going back to those situations, i tend to beat myself up for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 06:07 PM
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I love Gina
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 06:05 AM
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He was pretty ugly, boring and misogynist tbh, idk why I was so into him. Maybe I was desperate It's because you weren't confident in yourself, you didn't realize your worth so you thought only a guy like this would appreciate you, or at least that's why I acted like that a few years ago. It's good you're working on treating yourself the way you deserve
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 12:17 AM
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Oh I've seen him. I just ignore his presence and I don't make a big deal about it, I don't want to give him that satisfaction. I despise the evil shit though, I don't know what I'd do if he tried to speak to me, I think I'd lose my shit, he threatened to sell the nudes he fucking BEGGED for. Don't let men guilt trip you into giving up your intimacy ladies, you never really know his true colors until you do. Nothing good comes out of sending nudes, nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 12:12 AM
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This is literally the first time I've ever heard of that, what the actual fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 11:23 PM
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I have that book! It sat for years in my bookshelf, i don't even know how it got there, but i decided to read it and it's great
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 04:30 PM
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Imagine having to come anywhere near that crusty neck, no thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 04:10 AM
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You're going to feel that way for some time, i recommend a book i liked very much and helped me in a time when I was feeling like that, its name is loving to survive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 07:07 PM
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You're partially right. But some women are in abusive places, their partners will want to get them pregnant so they won't leave, an iud gives them the chance to one day escape those places. Besides, condoms are not 100% effective, if it gets broken, you're still going to need an additional form of birth control
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 03:32 PM
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You'll unfortunately notice that some "friends" will be gone when they see that you respect yourself enough to expect the same amount of respect from people. I lost many when they saw i wasn't going to have none of those misogynistic jokes they like so much. I was also told that I expect too much from men, and that i was so uptight for not putting out asap and so on. But it's really for the best, you're hurt now, but after a while you'll feel much more peaceful because you will not be picked on …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 12:09 AM
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You don't need their approval or opinions on the matter, they've stated that they don't agree with you, i don't think you need to convince them, if they want to settle and be pickmes that's on them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 11:53 PM
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I'm happy I cheated on you you're so toxic I bet he calls this poor gal his crazy ex that dumped him out of the blue
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 11:51 PM
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Omg, i want to be 25 already, im 23 and the baby fat isn't gone yet, and I'm a little underweight!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 09:54 PM
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Congratulations bby that's great. You should be with someone that makes time for you and has their stuff together
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 09:47 PM
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Buy the condoms, drive him around, don't wear tight clothes, don't wear makeup, etc Good thing I never took men's advice because my classmates were stupid enough to show their true colors 24/7 so i knew any piece of advice I'd get from them would be pure bullshit, half are fuckboys and the other half are incels so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 06:13 AM
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You're right, I can see "if a b?tch fucks only on Mondays and another one from Tuesday to Sunday, don't leave the Monday b?tch, date them both and get laid all week" blowing up on Twitter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 05:56 AM
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Yeah, he was 24 and I was 12,literally half his age and he was very weird always trying to talk me into being his "pretend girlfriend" and insisted that it would be very cute, that he didn't know why i was such a meanie to him. I told him every time that it was odd he couldn't find a girl his own age and block him but he kept making new emails until the msn was discontinued
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 10:54 AM
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Im very skinny, I've always been, except for the 2 years where I was just thin. Anyways I tried "twerking" one time and it looked very awkward and got made fun of, so i thought "why am I even trying to entertain these people I don't even care about?" so now I only dance ironically with friends, or dance more old school/traditional music from my country. It's very fun actually
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 01:33 PM
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Did he really use athlete's food and romantic feelings in the same fucking paragraph? Wow ew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 01:07 PM
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The best revenge is to be better. Don't you ever look back, work to improve yourself, learn new skills, get a higher education than what you currently have, idc if you have 3 phds get another one, make new friends, etc. He's going to look at you and will regret ever hurting you (or he won't) , but you will look back at this moment and be glad you decided to take the higher road because you will be so much happier than him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 01:36 AM
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My mom is always giving me pickmeisha advice, and is very old fashion in terms of gender roles, she also always favors men when she's talking about something, e.g. She hates Angelina Jolie for "stealing" brad pitt and i tell her well ma it takes two to tango and she's like oh shut up feminist. She's kind of a lost cause. She also uses me for emotional labor every time my dad yells at her but won't leave him, one day she said that if she hadn't become pregnant of me she would've divorced him like…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 01:18 AM
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Exactly, lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 11:18 PM
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Someone i know was told all of his life by his enabling mother that he didn't need to rush things and to take life slooooowly, as a result he married his forever gf after 10 years. But they still live at his parents place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 04:23 PM
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I knew I wasn't the only one who thought of it! This reads like a troll post but I hope I'm wrong, if i am, sorry op but..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 01:07 AM
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I hate people who live in a fucking bubble to pretend that nothing is wrong when mostly everything is. I'd leave Mexico if I could.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 12:56 AM
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This dude 100% has been dating other women and uses this as an excuse. That's why he won't visit and won't text, he's too busy to care. It seems that he sees in your friend the good submissive wife that will never question him which is why he wants to marry HER of all women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 11:35 PM
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Your feet are that size because you're tall, they're there to support your frame, i think they're just fine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 07:13 PM
6

It's fucking horrible to live here. Everyone turns to the other side. Nobody wants to admit it's a problem. It's all "yk men get killed too, why don't you enroll in the military if you want equal rights, she was provoking him" etc. Meanwhile more and more women get killed, abused, trafficked as the days pass. The protests are mocked, feminists are bullied and harassed, it's a shithole, even though men and pickmeshas pretend it's all great and cute here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 03:54 PM
26

It's the comedy films that have him thinking that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 04:34 AM
14

I didn't feel a particular way, because I didn't remember how did i know about him, i don't watch sports, i don't follow celebrities gossips, but i knew him from somewhere so it clicked me, it must have been some sort of crime where he was involved and I was right. It's kind of revolting how there's SO many assaulters that is hard to keep up with the cases and remember everyone's names. And it's even more revolting that there are people who DO remember but chose not to pay attention. Everyone's …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 04:31 AM
11

That doesn't sound very appealing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 01:00 AM
36

First, think of a picture on your phone that she might find interesting. Then pull out your phone like "check this out, blah, blah" acting w confidence like what you're showing her is the coolest thing she'll see all day. Then say something like "wait, it's too bright here, c'mon over here for second where the light is better (actually, the light isn't better, it's actually darker) so you can see this better." After you show her the picture, show her some more. Escalate. Escalate. Nobody with a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 12:27 AM
5

Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 01:46 AM
33

He didn't want a relationship and my dumbass thought we were dating, went physical with him and then asked him "what are we" he said fwb and i fucked off. To this day he's an unemployed personal trainer, go figure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 03:20 AM
14

Oh my God
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 02:20 AM
10

Girl, omg, You're allowed to set boundaries, i wouldn't be happy if my friends male or female started slapping my tights, it's inappropriate, are you really comfortable with that? You're 14 and he's pressuring you to have sex That's your redflag, actually no, this is your run as far as you can flag, he even threatened with cheating, that right there was a threat. You're too young to have those conversations, how old is this boyfriend of yours?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 12:07 AM
1

I feel like the very moment she gets advice she doesn't like she's going to HR the fuck out of OP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 10:30 PM
28

How do you have 7 kids with 8 different moms
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 01:35 PM
57

My mom taught me that I needed to keep the man that was with me and not to expect too much from them, and to forgive pretty much everything, so I became much of a pushover but I've been working on un learning all that, so I'm also very thankful for this sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 12:07 PM
7

This screams "i peaked mid Highschool"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 04:44 AM
20

I bet he asks the poor souls that happen to cross paths with him if they like being called cumdumpster
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 04:37 AM
22

Just eww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 01:18 PM
28

Lookin for a woman who loves football, muddin, fishing, MMA, and workin on cars!... ... "But she also HAS to look flawless while doing so, because otherwise it looks like she doesn't care and that's unnatractive "
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 06:34 PM
12

Maybe my opinion doesn't weight as much because I'm 5'3"-5'4", but I don't really make a difference between tall and short, I do mind when they have a complex about it, one time I got asked to not wear high heels because it made him look even shorter, so obviously this dude didn't get a date from me after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 06:29 PM
9

Call me old fashioned but marriage absolutely is the point of a relationship, you meet someone, decide if you like them, then get into the relationship and when you're sure you love them you marry them. If at some point something is not right either party can leave, and that's fine, but why would i KNOWINGLY waste someone's time or let them waste mine?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 06:19 PM
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