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| 7 | Seducers of Reddit: Who’s the Most High-Profile or Attractive Person You’ve Seduced While Being Broke or Low-Status?Depends. Brazil, Uruguay, Argentina, no chance. Colombia, Bolivia, Ecuador, Peru, yes. | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 03:18 PM |
| 14 | Seducers of Reddit: Who’s the Most High-Profile or Attractive Person You’ve Seduced While Being Broke or Low-Status?Between ages 20-26. I just saved money working nightshift in factories (it pays well in Australia) while studying. It was also around the time of the global recession which we avoided so the Aus dollar popped and even America was cheap for me. | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 03:00 PM |
| 48 | Seducers of Reddit: Who’s the Most High-Profile or Attractive Person You’ve Seduced While Being Broke or Low-Status?I didn’t ‘seduce’ them per se, they picked me up. I was backpacking around Asia when I was 20 and got pulled by a Malaysian model at a nightclub in Penang who took me back to her suite at the Hilton. WILD night. The next morning I remember thinking ‘this is too good to be true, am I being scammed here?’ And I think she could sense that, and showed me her portfolio, and sure enough she had a copy of FHM Asia where she was the cover model. I kept the magazine. Again, I was backpacking/traveling ar… | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 02:34 PM |
| 0 | Women have become the bane of my existence24? You’re still a kid. At that age there should be more important things in life than girls. You should be out there chasing life and your ambitions. You’ve got plenty of time for women to come in and out of your life, but don’t make it your singular focus. Once you do that you’ll become more attractive. | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Women have become the bane of my existence24? You’re still a kid. At that age there should be more important things in life than girls. You should be out there chasing life and your ambitions. You’ve got plenty of time for women to come in and out of your life, but don’t make it your singular focus. Once you do that you’ll become more attractive. | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Can a Fat guy seduce girls or get girls?Fat, lazy with an off-putting personality. Not exactly a recipe for success. You at least know what the issues are, so you can fix them. | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Women have become the bane of my existenceYou’re reeking of desperation. Get some hobbies, and focus on them instead, because no shit Women run from you with that attitude and mindset. | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 01:58 AM |
| 4 | Does bodybuilding really increase my chances twentyfold?Getting bodybuilder jacked actually alienates most Women and only a small minority prefer it. Being Athletic looking is what appeals to the broadest amount of Women. Think the physique of a Swimmer, Tennis player, Rock climber etc. Very fit, but functionally so. I attempt to get ‘big’ at one point and stacked on about 13 kilos of muscle. My GF (at the time) liked it, said it made her ‘feel safe’ but I basically stopped getting checked out or flirted with by Women, basically became invisible to t… | /r/seduction | 20/03/25 01:59 PM |
| 1 | You Play It Safe, And That’s Why You’ll Never Get ResultsWell you’re the expert. You’ve been projecting in this entire comment section. | /r/seduction | 25/02/25 05:12 PM |
| 3 | You Play It Safe, And That’s Why You’ll Never Get ResultsOP sounds like a virgin. | /r/seduction | 25/02/25 04:42 PM |
| 1 | READ BOOKSApe discovers fire. | /r/seduction | 12/02/25 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Why Waiting for Women to Come to You Never WorksThrough work, mutual friends, traveling, hiking, one just picked me up on the subway when I was drunk at 3am. I dunno. Just put yourself out there in a social setting. Things just happen. Broaden your social circle. I’m no catch, average looks, average height. I just throw myself out into the world out of curiosity and catch bait when I ain’t fishing. Just don’t over think it or try too hard. Just exist as yourself but push yourself out of your comfort zone. Go places, be somewhere. | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Why Waiting for Women to Come to You Never WorksI don’t disagree. I just disagree with the OP. I literally did no work to put myself in those positions, I just basically existed and it happened, when I wasn’t looking for it. I think a lot of guys just tend to get in their heads too much and search too hard. It changed their demeanor and Women can tell. All my relationships have come about by basically being in the background and waiting without knowing it. Not trying, not pursuing, just being there and present. They decided to choose me for w… | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 03:24 PM |
| 3 | Why Waiting for Women to Come to You Never WorksWell once I was given the ‘green light’ as it were then sure I went for it, but I waited for that green light. I’ve never heard of a guy meeting some by cold approaching 100 Women in a park. When it gets to that point Women can smell the desperation and are repelled at the game. | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 11:21 AM |
| 13 | Why Waiting for Women to Come to You Never WorksI kinda disagree. All 5 of my relationships have come about through circumstance/happenstance when I wasn’t actively trying or even seeking a Girlfriend. | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 09:10 AM |
| 2 | After 300+ Cold Approach Rejections. I think my Self-Confidence has gotten even WORSE (Self-Reflection and mini Vent)Firstly, as someone with severe rejection sensitivity, bravo for cold approaching that many people! Kinda badarse in itself. I can probably count on two hands the number of Women i’ve cold approached in my life, and they all gave off positive body language first (eye contact, smiling etc) so I play it very safe in that regard. I’ve only got game when i’m approached first, then it’s like a switch flicks in my brain which gives me license to just flow and i’m generally a pretty good conversational… | /r/seduction | 21/09/24 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Seduction for ADHDers?I do, in all honesty. It’s the one area i’m trying to work on. It does happen, but everything needs to ‘feel right’ like the stars aligning. I need to build some rapport naturally first with someone and then from there i’m fine and can escalate towards something more, comfortably. Fortunately I get hit on when I go out and can set up dates on apps on a weekly basis so that compensates for the inability to cold approach. | /r/seduction | 18/09/24 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Seduction for ADHDers?You know brother. Just be you, and put yourself out there as much as possible. Shit will just happen. Always does for me, and I don’t knowingly even try. | /r/seduction | 18/09/24 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Seduction for ADHDers?It’s true. I have a zillion hobbies and interests that I can barely or cannot keep up with and they come in handy. Lol we’re getting downvoted by some seduction bro wannabe pick up artist. Stay boring, weren’t born with gift of being interesting by default. Use the same played out pua techniques and let me know how it goes kid. | /r/seduction | 18/09/24 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Seduction for ADHDers?This is the way. It’s just another hobby to pick up, get hyperfocused over for a bit, bored with and then dropped for something else to obsess over. | /r/seduction | 18/09/24 04:12 PM |
| 8 | Seduction for ADHDers?ADHD’er here. I find trying to engage in ‘the game’ frustrating and overwhelming, let alone trying to remember all the ‘rules’ and ‘tix boxes.’ It just overcomplicates things and stresses me out. I have found, however, outside of my anxiety, being ADHD can actually be used in our favor. If you’re anything like me, I cannot shut up, i’m very talkative and slightly hyper in social situations, I will take conversations in random areas and don’t say the standard shit you’re ‘supposed’ to say. This c… | /r/seduction | 18/09/24 12:31 PM |
| -1 | I attract a lot of women but it never goes anywhereI’m in your boat. All my relationships and 80% of hookups have been through Women initiating. I got out of a long term (8 years) relationship this year and i’m a bit lost. Like you I have a lot female friends, their company is easy to be around and i’m fine with being platonic. Since being single, I have been with 5 Women, but they’ve all initiated, irl and from apps, which is great and all, but i’ve also missed out because I can’t initiate with Women i’m attracted to. So if they don’t, i’m fuck… | /r/seduction | 15/09/24 09:26 AM |
| 3 | Is there a nice guy game?Nice guy here with no game, I don’t even try. Very empathetic by nature. I just talk to Women like I would anyone else. Crack jokes, ask questions, but I don’t go out of my way to show interest. This is not a conscious decision. Last thing I want to do is spend my odd night out chasing. It seems to work. I get hit on, or asked for my number. I am nothing special. 5’9, decent looking for my age (38.) Just put myself in enough social situations and try to have a good time and things just happen. I… | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Any guys here on the more average side have a good amount of success?He’s just born with it. His Dad was the same from all accounts. He ain’t a PUA, he just is. Never met anyone like it. Absolutely effortless and natural to him. I’ve seen him pick up a chick who was on a date in the space of 15 minutes. He picked up a Mum AND her daughter at a Bachelor party. | /r/seduction | 09/09/24 03:01 PM |
| 13 | Any guys here on the more average side have a good amount of success?I have a mate who gets nothing from apps. He’s got a great job, but he’s on the heavier side and has a moon face. But fuck me, get this guy in a public setting and he is Brad Pitt. Can confidently chat up the hottest Woman in the room, get her number and set up a date for the next night. I’ve witnessed him do it time and time again. It’s like a magic trick. Just born with the gift of the gab. | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 01:57 AM |
| 65 | Any guys here on the more average side have a good amount of success?I was a bartender for a few years in my early 20s. I would get numbers just about every shift. Unfortunately (fortunately?) I was dating a co-worker who had eagle eyes on me. | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 01:55 AM |
| 2 | How did you get her to chase you?Yeah I look alright for my age, which helps. I’m not sure on specifics, but it reads to me that a lot of wannabe PUA on here just overthink it, vigilantly following some 12 step arch with the sole aim of trying to pull a Woman. I know a few PUA in real life, and they’re just born with charisma and the ability to talk. I doubt they’re even aware of tactics. I know a few wannabe PUA too, who read all the books and go in with game plans, but it becomes the focus of their entire night and rarely do … | /r/seduction | 30/08/24 02:19 AM |
| 2 | How did you get her to chase you?Yeah i’m not into that all. It’s too mentally exhausting for me, I ain’t a natural at it or want to be. I just be myself and see how it goes. There is the odd good tidbit on here that illuminates some aspects of the subject matter for me, and ill realise i’m doing it without knowing it which is interesting, but making PUA a full time persona or everytime you go out sounds like a nightmare honestly, but I enjoy reading about it, and picking apart the fiction from the non-fiction on here. Some of … | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 04:42 PM |
| 2 | How did you get her to chase you?I don’t even know what the tactics are. I wouldn’t ever lead a Girl on i’m not interested in intentionally, not into that game, but it’s happened unintentionally, they misinterpreted my friendliness and/or intention to be their friend as more. | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 02:51 PM |
| 21 | How did you get her to chase you?I’ve never done intentionally, just unintentionally, and it’s because i’m not interested in them or only view them as a friend. I don’t think I could do that to someone I was actually into. I would upper-cut myself if it backfired and I wouldn’t want them if it worked because the dynamic would be fucked. | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 06:13 AM |
| 1 | (M25) Do better on dating apps than in person?Dating apps are easy because mutual attraction and leading conversation is already set and established so all you have to do is turn up and see if theres chemistry in person. I’ve never had the ‘game’ to cold approach Women in public so never done it unless the stars aligned and I feel insatiably drawn to someone. Fortunately I have something about me that compels Women to approach me (which I still fuck up half the time) which makes it easier. | /r/seduction | 21/08/24 05:37 AM |
| 4 | Let’s flip to the other side of the coin, what have you found makes women approach you?Peacocking works for me. I don’t really do it on purpose, I just like wearing colourful, flashy clothes that fit my body well, it gives them an excuse to approach and comment on my shoes, shirt or belt. Makes you seem ‘fun’ and extroverted and that you put in effort. Being 38 with a six pack and bfp of 10 probably doesn’t hurt either. However the exact opposite has happened. I go to a local pub where I dress down and just want to have a beer, watch sport and shoot pool with whoever is around, wi… | /r/seduction | 20/08/24 01:40 AM |
| 3 | A simple, actionable hack you can do right now to help you deal with approach anxietyDidn’t even know I did this. I tend to either twirl my keys or flick my vape over my fingers. I might as well just carry an apple around at this point or bounce a tennis ball. | /r/seduction | 06/08/24 06:26 AM |
| 6 | This is more of a relationship question because I know nothing about seduction - How do I become the chaotic adrenaline rush for women?Are you really sure you want to become like that bro? Especially if it isn’t natural to you? You’re probably going to end up with bad Women and hating yourself, not find anyone remotely ‘wife’ material. I think you should emphasize your good points, hit the gym hard, switch up your wardrobe and just try and be the best version of your authentic self. A toxic guy with ‘edge’ does work on Women, but if it ain’t natural, don’t bother. Just DON’T be boring, you don’t have to be a douche for that. Ha… | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 01:02 PM |
| 45 | Does cold approach just not work for an ethnic guy?I’m Australian, I know quite a few second gen (or grew up since childhood) Aus-Asians, and they seemingly have no trouble landing Women, white, ethnic, whatever, and have acclimatized and integrated into the culture seamlessly. At 5’8 your height is fine, you’ll tower over most Women. The only thing I can say is all these guys either have loads of confidence or flair, or are just super laid back and laconic, just your average Aussie dude basically. It’s the first Gen Aus-Asians that have a heap … | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 12:18 PM |
| 3 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?If your texting game sucks and you can make them laugh within a few messages, then just set up a date as quickly as possibly. | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 06:32 AM |
| 2 | I’m officially physically attractive. Now what? My experience with not focusing on building genuine confidence.I used to be like this, through a combination of body dysmorphia and low self-esteem from a bad childhood. I would get severe imposter syndrome, negative thoughts and self-sabotage all the time with Women. Eventually I just.. aged out of it? Having some long term relationships definitely helped. All attractive Women and good people. I still have lapses at times, where I fall into a hole, but I just tell myself that it’s not reality and do something that I know will make me feel good about myself… | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 03:10 PM |
| 3 | Why so hard despite being attractive?Learn how to make a Woman laugh, look her in the eye, initiate touch, if she hasn’t pulled away by then you’re basically in. But don’t over think or strategize, Women can see that shit a mile off. Once it comes naturally you won’t even notice you’re doing it. | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 03:00 PM |
| 2 | For guys in the early to mid 30's, how has dating changed in the last 10-12 years? Good and badYou can thank Blink 182/George Carlin for it. | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 03:46 AM |
| 3 | Gym girls - here’s how I go success with themThis is the way. I have approached Girls to ask them if they can show me how they’re doing a particular exercise (I was genuinely curious and wanted to incorporate it into my routine) and that’s always worked out well. But dead approaching a Women to correct her form mid set 💀 💀 💀 you’re going to become ‘THAT’ guy at the gym real quick and piss everyone off. | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 03:15 AM |
| 9 | Gym girls - here’s how I go success with themA guy at my gym does this repeatedly. I think he means well, but fuck it’s annoying, and people avoid him if they can. One Girl and I just shake our heads and laugh to each other when he pulls it on one of us. He cut it out recently and just keeps to himself so I wonder if someone had a word to him. | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 03:04 AM |
| 5 | For guys in the early to mid 30's, how has dating changed in the last 10-12 years? Good and badI was in a relationship for almost 10 years, so had no experience dating in that time, and the stark differences for me are; Reliance on dating apps. I’d never used them before outside of one bad encounter when I was 28 and scrapped them immediately. Didn’t need them, just would go out, be social, bump into someone eventually and that was that. Now of the 10 Women i’ve met since being single 1 come about by going out and getting their number, the other 9 from apps. Addiction to social media. Esp… | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 02:20 AM |
| 1 | What are some gestures that women receive that men don’t but should more often ?Who wants flowers, Women or Men? Is this the 1950s? Leave the flowers alone. | /r/seduction | 21/07/24 06:07 PM |
| 1 | I met her in the gym, to ended up being blocked. Your thoughts on why?Fuuuuck I know. I used to be one and know how they are. What a total dildo 🤦♂️ | /r/seduction | 21/07/24 07:45 AM |
| 2 | I met her in the gym, to ended up being blocked. Your thoughts on why?I had an almost IDENTICAL experience a few months ago, but exchange the Girl at the Gym for a Bartender at my local pub. The sex was hot hot hottttt, which is why I think I ignored the litany of red flags (13 years younger than me, 25 but the emotionally maturity of a teenager, tried a ‘push-pull’ thing on me which was a first. After I gave her the silent treatment returning to the pub she reached out again to me, I caved, gave her another chance, mainly because I wanted to salvage being able to… | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 06:21 AM |
| 3 | What are ways a girl can play hard to get, whilst showing she is interested?I recommend therapy! I don’t think your mind is OK. | /r/seduction | 16/07/24 07:38 PM |
| 4 | What are ways a girl can play hard to get, whilst showing she is interested?Ease off the gas pedal there Satan! | /r/seduction | 16/07/24 07:22 PM |
| 16 | What are ways a girl can play hard to get, whilst showing she is interested?Just don’t do it? You’ll turn away most guys, and only attract the ones who like the ‘game’ of resist and reward and they generally aren’t relationship material and will drop you once they have their prize. | /r/seduction | 16/07/24 07:22 PM |
| 18 | I really don't understand why tinder is still so popular and why men keep using this trashI’ve had about 9 dates off Tinder. 3 of them were fatfishes, but other than that the rest were a fun time at worst, and a great time at best. Met one genuinely wonderful person, which i’ll be forever grateful for Tinder for. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 10:12 AM |
| 4 | How do I know if a girl wants to fuck?I didn’t sleep with her that night because she was fucking hammered and I was basically sober, but we exchanged numbers, and had a wild 3 weeks together. Unfortunately she had a few personality disorders and was absolutely chaotic as a human being, so things ended quickly, and I no longer go to that pub. Was it worth it though? Hell yes! I haven’t been fucked like that since my 20s. | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 05:01 AM |
| 1 | How do I know if a girl wants to fuck?Australian. And yes ‘pissed’ is drunk. | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 04:56 AM |
| 234 | How do I know if a girl wants to fuck?I had this bartender dropping hints at me for months, and I just figured she was paid to do that. Then she came into work (fairly pissed) on her night off, came and sat next to me, and 20 minutes later was rubbing my cock through my jeans. That’s when I finally got the hint! | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 09:46 AM |
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