pitifulparsnip Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
139	Reminder to also vet your female roommates! This EXACT thing happened to me, my roommate brought home a guy off Tinder for sex she had just met right after their dinner date (I was out of town) and then got pissed at me when I told her I was very uncomfortable with strange men spending the night in the house, even if I wasn't there. She was so offended, saying "I'm not dumb, I wouldn't let a dangerous guy in the house" as if you can tell after LESS THAN A DAY with this strange man. So glad I live alone and in peace now.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/22 01:05 AM
55	This is one of the most horrific stories I have ever seen on Reddit. Thank god she is getting out. How is there not protections for young women like this. I have tried to talk to my college going cousins about this because they keep dating loser LVM and their self esteem takes a hit when these bozos just want sex and no relationship, but they laugh at me and call me picky when I tell them not to settle for coffee dates and to expect high effort courtship / dating 😮‍💨	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/22 03:59 AM
43	D.L Hughley on Kanye West stalking Kim Kardashian This and also saying how another man will just fuck his ex harder. It's not another man fucking your ex, Kim has the freedom to be in any relationship she chooses. She's not a fleshlight ffs	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/22 02:43 PM
16	The Tinder Swindler Someone needs to tell the woman at the end to get off Tinder and get onto FDS!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/02/22 12:51 AM
49	The Tinder Swindler LMAO that's the biggest red flag right there! Plus the rushed emotional intimacy after one meeting. This guy's a master manipulator.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/02/22 11:09 PM
138	The darker underside of the “cool girl” Almost sounds like a cry for help 😬	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/02/22 02:40 PM
164	Men are threatened by EVERYTHING. Why?? If men are jealous that women get tampons, instead of limiting the tampons women can get, they should give men the same amount of tampons to be equal. And let the men shove it up their ass, what else are they gonna do with them?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/01/22 11:58 PM
32	Strangest icks and dealbreaker? That is marginally better than what a guy I knew said, that girls become women after they lose their virginity to a man 🤮	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/01/22 04:54 AM
183	Hot Take: Whenever I see stuff like this, I assume the guy has paedophilic tendencies or has watched too much porn You're not wrong, beards are technically also pubic hair!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/01/22 03:51 AM
241	LVM lining up for cheap, tacky, overpriced jewellery two days before Christmas. The comments are defending them. “bE gRaTeFuL” for the bare minimum? Nah. The difference between LV and HV gift giving is crazy! My HVM cousin got his sister fancy streetwear sneakers this year, he didn't know her shoe size so he went to her place while she was out to check her shoes in the closet to check her size and see what colors she wears. And the year before he got her a big photo coffee table book of her favorite A24 movie. He's still young & in college and doesn't have a GF yet, but he's so sweet and insanely respectful to everyone, I know he'll be a great pa…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/12/21 02:38 PM
63	Is the bar actually this low? That we are just so happy to find a guy who isn’t r*pey that we think they’re the one? 😐 I don't know about that, I've definitely had girl friends who have the mindset of "as long as he wants me, I'll always stay with him" and get stringed along forever by guys who want to waste their time.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/12/21 03:44 PM
42	Evidently it’s necessary to confirm upfront if their listed location is where they actually live 🚩 They do this SO OFTEN! I was ranting about it to my younger cousin, she later tried Hinge for a week and texted me saying she now understands why I get so annoyed at these weirdos.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/12/21 05:05 AM
3	Even in a best case scenario with a seemingly “ok” man, age gap relationships still suck Oh god she's 26! I was the same age (23) when I realized what a loser my ex LVM and ditched him. 8 year age gap there, wasted 3 years of my youth 😬	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/11/21 10:51 PM
335	Men will do anything for sex (except actually put in effort): A refresher course on the DENNIS system The first N in DENNIS is the most important step - nurturing dependence. If you're an independent woman mentally, emotionally, financially, and socially, then it doesn't matter if a seemingly HVM enters and then exits your life - you won't chase him because you don't depend on him for anything. This is why FDS is always saying how important it is to focus on yourself and learn to be happy by yourself BEFORE adding a romantic partner to the mix. This way an abusive LVM can't wiggle his way into t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/11/21 04:15 PM
41	Just a friendly reminder that men will date and marry women they don’t like. There's literally nothing stopping men from complimenting each other.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/11/21 01:40 AM
143	Men have become so comfortable with violating women’s boundaries that they don’t feel any shame in admitting to it I'm sure they'd suddenly understand if their wives said they want to peg them with a strapon in their sleep 🙄 "you're asleep, you won't feel it anyway!"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/21 05:46 PM
67	The lack of attractive men out there is so disheartening The hottest guys are always gay 😭	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/10/21 04:38 AM
28	Everyone in the comments was congratulating him. I'm so confused It makes me sick go my stomach, my aunt was taking care of her two kids and battling stage 4 cancer while her husband (who works from home) fucked off to another country for years (cheating with another "wife"). She passed away last year and he had to come back to the US to take care of the kids and complains how difficult it is (still WFH) and 6 months later my grandma and mom are living with the kids to take care of them while he's fucked back off to the other country to be with his new wife 🙄…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/10/21 01:58 PM
26	Hinder: A Dating App for Emotionally Unavailable Men (full New Yorker link in comments) What is the deal with Distant Daves??? An ego boost? So many guys have my state set as theirs and then after a few days of chatting they admit they actually live hundreds of miles away!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/09/21 01:13 AM
22	Apparently it’s hard for men to not be freely insufferable even while doing something as mud and as taking a lift/cab 🤮 Is there any way for women passengers on rideshare apps to select only women drivers? I always get skeeved out when I have to take an Uber and my driver is a man, especially if I have a really early or late flight to catch and the roads are super empty.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/21 03:41 AM
19	Let’s create a megathread: What is one of the best pieces of advice you’ve learned from this sub that has blown your mind or had the greatest impact on your life? My mom is always pressuring me to settle down and get married especially since I turned 30. Yet she (and my grandma) have spent more of life divorced / widowed and never remarried or got into another relationship. When I ask why they don't find another husband for themselves, they say it's not worth it to put up with a man. Yet they still expect me to?? 🙄 the societal brainwashing runs deep in them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/21 01:24 PM
4	Found this gem on Twitter I love this! People always say you don't know true love until you've have children, but I disagree. Everyone is capable of giving true love to their friends, family, etc. It's just really difficult to love someone unconditionally, but it's not impossible and you definitely don't need kids to be able to do it!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/06/21 03:43 PM
45	FDS principles lands on a political news channel. A few FDS’ers in the comments defending this woman for setting standards. So many complaining dinner is expensive and she’s a gold digger for the bare minimum. Oh my god, the way he said "a lot of men, sure, but not all men!" Imagine if "a lot of cars" got into car accidents but "not all cars" who the fuck would still continue to drive???	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/05/21 02:06 PM
202	True crime and age gaps I read somewhere that it's because cats are all about consent. Cats will walk away if they don't want to be petted, and will come to you for snuggles when they want it (vs. dogs, which generally love attention all the time) Some people get annoyed at cats because they seem standoffish, but cats are just communicating their consent.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/05/21 02:42 PM
16	Is it possible to trust any man these days? Ugh I wish I heard this anthem when I was in my pickme early 20s!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/21 05:31 AM
27	He just ended things because I was making him wait for sex God my litetal idiot ex once said that giving birth is like taking a giant shit, except the vagina is a muscle so it's "easy" to push out a baby because that's their purpose. I literally can't remember what I saw in him, other than attention for my own self insecurities.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/03/21 12:52 AM
20	What do you ladies think? They should do this. If their excuse for rejection is bodily autonomy, then maybe we can use that as a precedent to stomp down anti-abortion laws for women too.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 05:03 PM
10	FDS has been saying it all along and women are catching up. Men do not love women like women love men and that's why we need to start demanding more and holding back the energies we give out for free EW, I don't even wanna think about how low they would search 🤢	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/01/21 01:09 AM
72	There's an all-women African village. They wanted to escape abusive husbands, old pedophiles, genital mutilation, and so on. Now, many living there don't even want a husband at all anymore, and work together in their village. It's a facscinating short documentary well worth the watch. Right? That's the first thing I noticed too! They look so gorgeous and happy :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/01/21 09:53 PM
86	LMAOOO 😂😂😂 from r/wheresmyWAIFU They can't look at tampons, that's icky gross period stuff!!! Yuck! /s	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/01/21 03:50 PM
12	remember- it is always, ALWAYS, better to feel lonely at times than it is to settle for being with someone who makes you feel alone. happy new year, FDS, we got this. 🤍✨ Wow, I love that! So succinct and perfectly encapsulates that feeling	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/01/21 04:58 PM
56	LVM coerces woman into sex while sick and then calls her a disgusting pig when she voms on him. Because she was SICK. Ego, probably	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/20 07:22 PM
38	I don't argue with men. Not over anything, for any reason. Did we date the same guy? I swear these men are all alike! As I've gotten older I've realized how important peace of mind is. Now I catch myself before getting into arguments with people, or typing out long responses and hitting send. I just delete, block, move on. So much happier now!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/08/20 04:43 AM
50	They want women with low self-esteem so they can be manipulated easier Because men need sex to survive! How can they go on without blowing their pathetic little load and ruining lives in the process?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/07/20 02:55 PM
7	Imaginary sky daddy apparently endorses sloppy three minute jackhammering. These people don't even know that a clitoris exists.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/06/20 10:07 PM