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Can we focus on connection versus data? Yall fucking killing me lmao. Read models by mark Manson plzzzz
/r/seduction15/07/25 09:49 PM
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Hey bro it’s fine. If they aren’t fuck yes.. then probably not the best
/r/seduction06/07/25 01:55 AM
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You thank her for a time and walk away like a MAN
/r/seduction23/06/25 10:58 PM
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Happened to me once, he tried to overcharge me, got her Instagram, I had him correct my tab and left. She ran after me when I left. She did not get a second dare
/r/seduction23/06/25 09:48 PM
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Met this girl, instant connection, tension, we had so much in common. Even made out a bit. Boom ghosted. I didn’t ask questions. I moved onto the next If you want an explanation either: Ex came back into picture Or She is emotionally unavailable EITHER WAY she saved you some time
/r/seduction16/06/25 04:40 PM
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Read models by mark Manson. Been working at it since 2019 and I discover something new every time or something I overlooked. Sadly you gotta do trial by error to really learn the true meaning of things. Just don’t let fear get in the way. Rejections should be welcomed. It keeps two ppl who shouldn’t be together separate. Plus you will learn from your mistakes. They are lessons. Easy focus: -level up your career -hit the gym -clothes that fit you well. -start conversing with strangers. Make some …
/r/seduction29/04/25 06:32 AM
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Good try!!
/r/seduction29/04/25 05:12 AM
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Take them off the pedestal. We are all on the same level of being a person in and around one another. None better than the other. I was in Miami and the hotness of women there compared to the city I live in put it in perspective for me. Allowed me to approach more and be more confident about where I am. I ask myself would I like to be around her rather than would she like me enough to stay and talk to me.
/r/seduction18/04/25 08:10 PM
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Work on your life, money, and passions. Read models by mark Manson. Take them off the pedestal. Screen for compatibility. Yeah she’s hot but is talking to her like nails on a chalk board. Go figure out what makes you happy, go do that. Then they will come. If you want some specifics: Gym Hygiene Dressing better/find your style Get involved in your passions. This will also put you around women better suited for you who have the same values or similar lifestyles. But do this all to improve YOUR qu…
/r/seduction14/04/25 06:23 PM
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This guy fucks^
/r/seduction14/04/25 03:48 PM
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I’ve been working on myself constantly, whether it’s the gym, healthier lifestyle, getting involved with my passions, grooming, and until recently I still didn’t feel attractive until I was approached by several different women at these events. Sometimes I forget all the work I put in and my anxiety still makes me revert back to the same. There’s this quote I like that it requires 20 seconds of extreme courage to change your life. To anyone else out there that feels the same. Just do it
/r/seduction11/04/25 08:55 PM
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Google it and it pops up as the first one . Put models mark Manson.pdf in your google search
/r/seduction01/04/25 08:18 PM
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First hookup after my last relationship was so dogshit im cool with no sex for now
/r/seduction20/02/25 06:28 PM
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Lmfao but this time it’s easier with the heavy ones
/r/seduction18/02/25 02:58 PM
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No pick up lines just take off the filter. You will get results
/r/seduction01/02/25 07:19 PM
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Maybe you’re investing too much of your identity in what women think of you. You need to be honest with yourself and start living the life you want. An attractive lifestyle is important. You live it for yourself, you’re having fun, being who you wanna be. When you start living honestly and living your truths the women will come
/r/seduction19/01/25 07:14 PM
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At what point are you connecting with her??
/r/seduction08/01/25 01:55 AM
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Everyone is focused on doing things to make girls like them when you should be seeing if you like her.
/r/seduction06/01/25 02:46 PM
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Don’t spare tire for her but def keep in touch. Who knows where the future will go. But also don’t wait for her. But don’t let chemistry blind you to a situation with too much friction to work.
/r/seduction25/12/24 04:01 AM
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A flake is always a flake. Move on
/r/seduction29/11/24 11:30 PM
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If she likes foreplay wit till you show her fiveplay hahaha
/r/seduction15/11/24 03:14 PM
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Went on the worst date of my life once. When she left I talked to the chicks next to me. Way better vibes and I got a number
/r/seduction15/11/24 02:30 PM
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Rejection keeps two people that aren’t compatible separate! We are also not compatible with most of the population anyway. This is WHY developing an attractive lifestyle is important.. because this will help you narrow down your DEMOGRAPHIC. By doing this you will be around females with similar interests and values and greatly helps you narrow it down. Examples: go volunteer if you value helping others and giving back. Join a sports league if you value being in shape and having fun. Take a danci…
/r/seduction15/11/24 02:27 PM
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Kinda mid, all clout chasers. Everyone chasing status and waiting for next best thing. I’m trying to leave this area
/r/seduction13/11/24 09:24 PM
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You can start by feeling the rain on your skin as the great Natasha bettingfield once said
/r/seduction11/11/24 06:26 AM
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Lol the worst ppl are guys like you. Trying to swoop in on another guy that actually got some. Grow some balls, approach a girl that doesn’t have a guy. If you really wanna grow some balls approach a group of girls and start talking to the one you find attractive. Get a life dawg
/r/seduction11/11/24 04:58 AM
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Read models by mark Manson
/r/seduction07/11/24 11:16 PM
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We are not compatible with majority of the women out there so expect most of these approaches not to go your way, be direct but polite. Warming up your social faculties is great. Ask someone where the bathroom is even though you’ve been there a million times. Get comfy talking to strangers. Eventually on one or two of these you will engage with a receptive woman and trust me.. she will make it easy for you :)
/r/seduction05/11/24 03:08 PM
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You can take the conversation anywhere if you listen when she tells you what she’s into/likes. You don’t have to worry about what to talk about or little gimmicks or lines. It will feel more organic
/r/seduction04/11/24 05:38 AM
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We aren’t compatible with majority of people. Rejection actually works in favor of keeping two ppl that aren’t compatible away from one another. What you could do is focus down on a demographic. Women you find in the places you like to go/ same hobbies like dance classes or kickball leagues. Talk to women in places like this who have the same common values and interests. It will greatly increase your chances and more receptive partners.
/r/seduction03/11/24 09:20 PM
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You can’t juggle 8 girls simultaneously. Especially if they find out.. it will hurt you long term. Learn how to screen for what you want. It’s a good problem to have. They want you to have options but if she sees your phone blowing up on a constant basis by 7 different girls it will hurt you more. Be honest, be vulnerable, and narrow it down lmao
/r/seduction17/10/24 03:37 AM
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You read 30 pages and are complaining about missing the point of the book? It’s about developing inner game. How to be vulnerable. How to build an attractive lifestyle through hygiene, hobbies, and self worth? Models spits the hard truth. You gotta dig deep to get it.
/r/seduction15/10/24 08:43 AM
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Have an attractive lifestyle. They hang around men with exclusive access to things. Get involved in hobbies or local groups and try to go for a leadership position within that group. All depends on your scene tho
/r/seduction13/10/24 09:02 PM
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I’ve learned cold approach only gets you so far. I like meeting people through friends or events I get involved in. Too many variables in how they interact with other ppl, how their friends treat them/you, etc. So much easier to gauge and low risk when you get a sense of who they are and what their values are. Most girls suck. So you need to find other ways to screen for high value rather than just playing Russian roulette.
/r/seduction30/09/24 07:08 PM
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Game was all about meeting someone you vibe with. You lost sight of the goal
/r/seduction14/08/24 04:03 AM
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Yes. Every time
/r/seduction11/08/24 06:41 PM
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I once observed a girl next to me and just told her to keep her elbows in. She put down the weights and walked away. My friends joke she never came back to the gym and is now obese, and it’s all my fault.
/r/seduction25/07/24 08:01 PM
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Certain demographic of women use it. I’ve recently re downloaded it and remembered why I switched to in person. It’s a Hail Mary if you’re in a new city and wanna try your luck. Even if you pay tinder is a ghost town unlimited swipes for a couple matches Hinge makes you pay for the hotties. I’m about to re delete them and focus on day game. Bumble still hit or miss.
/r/seduction07/07/24 05:33 AM
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I’m never in a rush for sex, I know I’m well endowed, I love eating pussy, I’m confident in my ability to please women because I have fun doing it. Sometimes I’ll make innuendos I’ll enjoy it more than they will, the fact I’m in no rush for getting in their pants seems to flip them into hyperdrive. So take your time, learn her body. Be confident in your ability and just have fun. Build the tension, feel the tension, poke fun at it. That fun easily translates into the bedroom, she will be frothin…
/r/seduction29/05/24 08:00 PM
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I get sucked into reels and was spending too much time on my phone.
/r/seduction17/05/24 04:11 PM
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Las chapi chapis
/r/seduction17/05/24 04:03 PM
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This^
/r/seduction14/05/24 02:07 PM
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Read what I said bro. Focus on you and the rest will come. If you worry about what to text you’re thinking too much. Text her like anyone else
/r/seduction22/04/24 03:35 AM
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I stopped putting too much stock in it. If she doesn’t text much she usually isn’t that into you anyway. Sometimes there are the anomaly bad texters and it’s usually all good in person. But the more you worry about it the more insecure you will be to her. Text away, just don’t expect anything
/r/seduction19/04/24 10:38 PM
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Knee test!
/r/seduction05/04/24 05:10 AM
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You fucked up by doing a coffee date. That’s for friends. Night time, a dimly lit bar, you’re sitting next to her, touch her knee with yours, change the venue. Maybe a bar with some games, live music, ask her about what gets her excited. Maybe at the end of the night you can invite her in for some coffee hahah
/r/seduction04/04/24 05:52 PM
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Try to contact events. Offer to shoot stuff at a lower price for social sports leagues, bars, themed parties. Our photographer does pretty well at these events and seems to meet plenty of women
/r/seduction03/04/24 08:30 PM
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Honestly this is a huge W. Very wholesome. Good shit bro
/r/seduction03/04/24 05:39 AM
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Oh ofc but every time I get a lil more comfortable. Getting out of the pain period is rough. But the more I try the happier I get. I can’t wait for the day it melts into the back of my mind
/r/seduction01/04/24 05:52 AM
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If Instagram is affecting your mental health you don’t have to use it. Try a social sports club, look for events at museums, farmers market, book clubs. All can be found online and on other platforms. Try to find something you like and get involved! I deleted it too but it was too valuable of a tool when promoting shows and working these parties. I just had to have a work view of it and I feel better about it.
/r/seduction01/04/24 05:51 AM
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Honestly this is a ducking gem
/r/seduction31/03/24 01:21 AM
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Look out for some Instagram pages that host parties or post about pop ups, art galleries, new bars, etc, my city is full of em. It’s how I got involved!
/r/seduction26/03/24 05:14 PM
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I have been doing it for almost 10 years and I just got the hang of the social anxiety part. Something with being in a stressful situation is soothing to me (trauma response :(. ) but I get in the flow and just move. It’s almost trancelike. Although it’s fun practicing being present and talking to ppl, connect with them, I’ve made some really cool friends and met a lot of women but it didn’t pan out to much. Honestly just good practice
/r/seduction26/03/24 05:05 PM
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I like this answer.
/r/seduction26/03/24 05:03 PM
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Paying for school n I got sucked into the industry
/r/seduction26/03/24 01:41 PM
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Go out and think of what kind of guy you want and where he would be at. I also struggle as 28m to find quality ladies, especially since I work in nightlife doing shows and working parties it invites a particular kind of person. Although sometimes there is a gem or two. I am thinking about working every now and then at a farmers market, or volunteering, joining a book club, or social sports league. I try to think where I would find like minded individuals and focus on going out and seeing who I c…
/r/seduction26/03/24 05:58 AM
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I go out with the intention of talking to some people. You gotta feel out the vibe, maybe everyone at the bar you talk to there isn’t any connection but at some point you will meet one or two that fit the vibe. Although there are too many things to factor into this. If the vibe is right and she also escalates as much as you do. It is very rare. Women hold all the power in this so you can’t get too hung up on whether she will go home with you or not. Funny enough you think you picked her up but i…
/r/seduction14/03/24 01:44 PM
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Also maximize your looks and lifestyle. These are the easiest. Continue to work on yourself always.
/r/seduction06/03/24 03:06 PM
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Kinda just gotta roll with the punches. You may get a rejection thst stings so hard you don’t wanna talk to anyone. But on the other side of the room there is a lady who will enjoy your company. Read the room, body language, eye contact. Look for these things instead of cold approaching random ppl. And if she likes you she will make it blatantly obvious. Don’t get too caught up on one, move on, and you will eventually find someone who makes it all worth it.
/r/seduction06/03/24 03:05 PM
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Bartender. I’ve been doing it for 7 years and it’s crushed my social anxiety. Plus i have lots of cool stories and have met some interesting ppl. It’s also landed me in some cool situations. I now do music festivals and get asked to do high end private events.
/r/seduction29/02/24 04:13 PM
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There is a really interesting thing I read in the charisma myth by Olivia cabane (banger book read it if you want some good tips on it). Just be really aware of your body language and do checks throughout the night. We have this these neurons that mirror other ppl, have good posture, mirror their body language, keep talking, shift to a diff position. I used this in an interview and it really works and is very subtle when done at the right times. Just don’t have a closed off stance, feet together…
/r/seduction16/02/24 08:01 AM
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Yes but you need to work your way up to that point. The latter half you said was true and is true but you even said most of the time you didn’t find them enjoyable anyway. Maybe you found the right one but it came on too strong for her. You shouldn’t change who you are, but this is more or less how we communicate. These first impressions are important and as much as it pains me to say it. It needs to be maximized. There is a difference between that and over communicating. A trap I fell into way …
/r/seduction16/02/24 01:50 AM
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I was at a party and some girl told me I’m dry. It was a really low stakes situation but it made me realize what I need to work on. I took it in stride and have had some breakthroughs. Gonna kill this next event. Move on. Women come and go so often. My advice. Stop going through the motions. Don’t act on your emotions. Process them and then act rationally. I think we forget women want to have fun, so if you do that they gravitate
/r/seduction31/01/24 07:31 AM
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Read models by mark Manson. Take your time to do other shit. Don’t be at their beck and call. Get some hobby’s, get involved in things you enjoy, get busy. If you’re always available they don’t like that. Also never double text unless you’re confirming plans you have for the next day. Most of the time double and triple texting will kill it right then and there. Kill the neediness, focus on what you’re doing and yourself
/r/seduction26/01/24 04:25 PM
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Jokes on you, as a service industry worker nobody pays for water unless it’s bottled. Lolol broke bitch
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