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-1

There isn’t a non creepy way to do it. Just skip it altogether.
/r/seduction16/08/21 09:29 PM
29

Yikes
/r/seduction15/08/21 11:46 PM
21

Nope
/r/seduction15/08/21 11:36 PM
3

Truth
/r/seduction15/08/21 05:02 PM
28

Yeah she definitely doesn’t want you to kill her. When in doubt go with LESS force / pressure.
/r/seduction15/08/21 12:50 PM
3

You gave money to a woman you’ve never met?
/r/seduction12/08/21 03:22 PM
0

Drinks, dinner & a walk
/r/seduction12/08/21 11:41 AM
9

Maybe they just don’t want to make eye contact with a complete stranger?
/r/seduction10/08/21 12:45 PM
1

Have you met before?
/r/seduction09/08/21 08:12 PM
-2

If you’re in a romantic relationship, you shouldn’t seek or need reassurance. You should feel confident and KNOW your partner is both emotionally and physically attracted to you.
/r/seduction08/08/21 11:47 AM
2

Right!
/r/seduction08/08/21 11:46 AM
16

When he is clingy, insecure, not confident, constantly needs / seeks reassurance, blows up my phone, is whiny, negative, complains too much
/r/seduction08/08/21 07:09 AM
13

I’m stuck on “needy”. That’s one of my biggest turn offs, personally.
/r/seduction08/08/21 06:59 AM
1

I am 😊
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:01 AM
-3

I found mine, that’s all that matters.
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:00 AM
-4

If a high value woman finds a high value man on a dating app somewhat quickly, then it all works out (my case). No need for any cold approach.
/r/seduction05/08/21 01:51 AM
-7

Eh not really. I’m in a relationship right now. And when I was single, I would go on a dating app.
/r/seduction05/08/21 01:47 AM
-3

Ding ding ding!
/r/seduction05/08/21 12:51 AM
-9

Dating apps 😊
/r/seduction05/08/21 12:17 AM
1

That’s fair.
/r/seduction04/08/21 05:31 PM
5

Why wouldn’t you start dating now?
/r/seduction04/08/21 05:14 PM
2

Truth
/r/seduction03/08/21 04:49 PM
8

Helpful suggestion: OP should continue (or possibly increase) his therapy and / or possibly antidepressants or anti anxiety medication.
/r/seduction03/08/21 11:51 AM
10

I’m sure it’s pretty accurate for everyone who read this 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/seduction03/08/21 11:41 AM
5

Yikes
/r/seduction03/08/21 11:20 AM
1

Are you still trying to communicate with her after she blocked you?
/r/seduction02/08/21 05:13 PM
12

Agreed. My bf has this same attitude. Easy going, goes with the flow, super funny and goofy. It definitely just puts people at ease. He’s so comfortable being himself (and confident) and it shows.
/r/seduction01/08/21 09:38 AM
-4

I was not giving advice. I was simply providing my experience. Every guy I ever went on a first date with could have had the same intention (to take me home that night). Irrelevant. Most of the time I didn’t feel attraction to them in person so it didn’t go anywhere.
/r/seduction01/08/21 09:24 AM
1

If you clearly stated your boundaries and didn’t do anything that wasn’t comfortable - yes you made the right decision. You’re entitled to decline when a prospective date asks to bring a bodyguard - just like she is entitled to not want to go on the date at all after that.
/r/seduction01/08/21 09:17 AM
14

Your friend is smart! Obviously his confidence and sense of ease about the situation is great.
/r/seduction01/08/21 09:11 AM
0

😂 if only it were that easy, everyone would be laid, and we wouldn’t see so many whiny “kissless virgin” posts huh? I’ve had tons of men sexualize the convo, turn me way the hell off, and then I would unmatch / delete / block right away.
/r/seduction01/08/21 09:09 AM
2

I’m a girl. Those “times” I mentioned were first dates (from dating apps).
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:20 AM
2

No clue. All of mine started with something to drink.
/r/seduction01/08/21 02:00 AM
30

I’ve done it a handful of times. It had little to do with convo and everything to do with off the charts chemistry (which you can’t plan for or try to make happen). It’s just there or it isn’t.
/r/seduction01/08/21 01:54 AM
1

Ok buddy 😂
/r/seduction31/07/21 11:53 AM
2

Give us specific examples of what some women did or said when you asked them out on a date. Also, how didi you meet them? Dating app?
/r/seduction30/07/21 06:49 PM
2

Non verbal
/r/seduction30/07/21 06:21 PM
8

Holy hell that video was so damn cringey to watch. That girl could not have looked more bored, less interested, etc. The guy didn’t pick up on that?!
/r/seduction30/07/21 01:01 PM
9

Couldn’t she show that same level of enthusiasm to another guy at the same time?
/r/seduction30/07/21 11:29 AM
7

Maybe she started talking to someone else she felt a stronger connection with it even went on a date and felt a spark, so she wants to pursue THAT and not you. Now of course she should have told you something (hey I’m busy, I’m not interested, etc) and not just ghosted you but … that’s probably what happened.
/r/seduction30/07/21 11:22 AM
17

Yes, when I see that, it just screams insecurity to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 11:05 AM
0

How old are you?
/r/seduction30/07/21 10:49 AM
2

1 is good. Immediately bringing sex into messaging before having met in person will turn off women not interested in casual sex. Good vetting process.
/r/seduction29/07/21 06:12 PM
1

If the women around you are receptive to it, that’s great!
/r/seduction27/07/21 06:17 PM
1

Well your height is on point 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/seduction27/07/21 10:49 AM
1

This is not something you can change. If there’s no chemistry, there’s no chemistry.
/r/seduction26/07/21 06:36 PM
4

She probably didn’t feel attracted to you / chemistry in person.
/r/seduction26/07/21 05:00 PM
1

Every woman has different traits she’s attracted to. Confidence and nice physique are pretty important.
/r/seduction26/07/21 03:25 PM
1

I guess I just don’t understand the point. Unless she’s clearly wearing an engagement / wedding ring, you have no idea if she’s already committed relationship. Don’t you feel like you’re bothering them? They’re running errands or meeting people already.
/r/seduction25/07/21 09:50 PM
1

Why are you doing this at all? Why not just use dating apps?
/r/seduction25/07/21 09:34 PM
16

👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 05:20 PM
8

Does she live by herself?
/r/seduction24/07/21 09:10 PM
1

Well said!
/r/seduction22/07/21 03:33 PM
1

She doesn’t want to spend money?
/r/seduction22/07/21 12:08 PM
1

What did you do that was needy?
/r/seduction21/07/21 03:14 AM
4

She’s just being nice.
/r/seduction21/07/21 03:11 AM
3

I’m not familiar with what you’re describing. If I’ve felt chemistry with a guy, then I’ve seen it through (to whatever that means - FWB, relationship, etc). I didn’t go from having chemistry with a guy to me then friend zoning that guy.
/r/seduction20/07/21 09:13 PM
5

My personal opinion is that you don’t leave the friend zone once you’re in it. I’ve never changed my mind about a guy I didn’t feel chemistry with.
/r/seduction20/07/21 07:16 PM
4

Hm I don’t know about comments regarding clothes / hair simply because I don’t generally approve of any type of physical comment early on (other than you look great / pretty / beautiful - said once). Ask her about what she likes to do with her friends, where she likes to travel to, what are her favorite books / movies / shows / music. Is she a foodie? Where does she love to go to eat. Is she sporty? Find out what kind of exercise she enjoys.
/r/seduction20/07/21 06:23 PM
8

Things you can’t control: So here’s the thing. You don’t “lead” women to think or feel anything. If they feel attracted to you, if they feel chemistry / spark in person when they meet you - neither of you can control that. It’s either there or it isn’t. Things you can control: You can be thoughtful and considerate in conversation (ask questions about her interests / experiences, don’t be negative / critical), you can take care of yourself physically (hygiene, hair cut, trim facial hair, exercise…
/r/seduction20/07/21 05:55 PM
7

Are you asking how you can improve for women you meet to feel MORE sexually attracted to you?
/r/seduction20/07/21 01:23 PM
3

Find new friends. Toxic assholes are not friends.
/r/seduction19/07/21 08:16 PM
2

No friends would be a red flag for me.
/r/seduction19/07/21 08:08 PM
0

Yes
/r/seduction19/07/21 08:06 PM
2

Don’t approach. It will come off as creepy every time.
/r/seduction19/07/21 08:01 PM
5

Nope
/r/seduction19/07/21 02:20 PM
1

If a guy gets laid on the first date, it’s because the girl decided it was going to happen 😂
/r/seduction17/07/21 02:54 PM
26

When I was active on dating apps at age 30, I was talking to / going on dates with men in their early 40s. I’m very mature for my age, and my ex husband was my age, so I figured a man ten years older than me would be more mature / have his shit together (yeah, the joke was on me there!) Also, at 30, I was done with marriage/kids (already did it), so I figured an older man would have already done those things, or would be less likely to want to have more children. So that was my strategy as a new…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 01:27 PM
-2

Dating apps
/r/seduction14/07/21 11:34 PM
0

Sureeee my experience as a college age girl and who I was banging is completely irrelevant. 😉
/r/seduction14/07/21 12:12 PM
-4

Nope
/r/seduction14/07/21 09:07 AM
7

Yes
/r/seduction14/07/21 01:24 AM
0

Its exciting for him. That’s ok. It doesn’t have to be exciting to everyone else!
/r/seduction14/07/21 12:42 AM
1

Cool but OP may only be attracted to white women
/r/seduction14/07/21 12:28 AM
1

I don’t engage with trolls 😊
/r/seduction13/07/21 12:17 AM
2

This post sounds familiar. Do you just say the same dumb shit over and over?
/r/seduction12/07/21 11:45 PM
1

Yep!
/r/seduction12/07/21 11:35 PM
14

I hear you. I’m sure this is true for a large portion of single dads. I wouldn’t describe my ex husband that way. He’s a wonderful, involved father. To be fair, he has stepped up as a result of the divorce. So NOW he’s a great dad, and does everything 50/50 with me. Ironically!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 07:44 PM
25

I thought the same thing as you. I had never tried online dating before. I went out with a few single dads and unfortunately they all had toxic baby mama drama. I know that’s not the case for all single dads! And I know my situation is more unusual (amicable, friendly co-parenting relationship with my ex husband, no drama). So I ended up having more success with guys younger than me who hadn’t been married yet or had kids. Believe me, I was not expecting that. My bf is great with my daughter. He…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:54 PM
51

Yep. When I got divorced and became a single mom of a toddler, I did not date any single fathers, by choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 04:46 PM
3

I think I went on 30 maybe. I understand how it can be demoralizing. I remember feeling the same way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:53 PM
1

I’m with you. But some people don’t do that!
/r/seduction11/07/21 11:47 PM
7

She agreed to the date over text? Yeah, you can say whatever you want in a text and not actually mean it. She’s just being nice / letting you down easy.
/r/seduction11/07/21 11:31 PM
7

She’s not interested. Move on
/r/seduction11/07/21 11:26 PM
14

Exclusively on Hinge
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 11:12 PM
43

My boyfriend is one. I employed a dating strategy that may not work for everyone. I was very aggressive going on a ton of first dates. No spark - no second date. For me spark is a mental connection & physical attraction. I have very high standards. I would not feel a spark with 80% of men I met. After 6 months I met my boyfriend. We’ve been together for two years and he is incredible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:56 PM
2

I wouldn’t be receptive to any strange man (regardless of race) approaching me in public. I’m only ok with dating apps for meeting people to date / hook up with. Separately, you just need to accept that everyone has different dating preferences. Yes some women only date white men, but plenty of women are attracted to other races as well.
/r/seduction11/07/21 07:51 PM
1

Overnight or overweight? 😂
/r/seduction11/07/21 04:47 PM
1

Why not? I have no idea. His post didn’t make it clear if he enjoyed it or not, that’s why I’m asking.
/r/seduction11/07/21 03:45 PM
2

But do you enjoy it when you have sex with the overweight girls?
/r/seduction11/07/21 02:17 PM
7

I’m guessing … they got kicked in the balls? What would be your ultimate goal in doing this?
/r/seduction10/07/21 02:30 AM
2

You’re overthinking it. Maybe she lost interest or started talking to someone else.
/r/seduction09/07/21 10:12 PM
1

Why ask? You know the answer.
/r/seduction08/07/21 06:11 PM
1

I’m sure even a small town has a local coffee shop. How far away is a larger city?
/r/seduction08/07/21 01:04 PM
2

8 - so much YES
/r/seduction08/07/21 02:02 AM
6

Oh this is interesting. You bring up a very valid point about false male perceptions regarding sex and arousal. I’m not going to lie. If I was the girl in that situation, I would assume you were not attracted to me, and I would not want to see you again. That may not be true at all, but that would be my interpretation of the situation. Have your texted her since?
/r/seduction07/07/21 10:04 PM
2

2-3, sometimes 4. Assuming both parties live decently close to each other.
/r/seduction05/07/21 08:05 PM
1

🤷🏻‍♀️ I don’t know what to tell you. I mean, I understand dating apps are heavily skewed for attractive women.
/r/seduction03/07/21 10:30 PM
8

Oh ok, that makes more sense. You need to learn to not take these rejections so personally (easier said, then done, I know). There are so many possibly things happening behind the scenes that have nothing to do with you. Yes, she probably had a good time. Just not enough of a good time where she wants a second date. Or, she enjoyed herself, but didn’t feel a spark / chemistry / attraction, so a second date doesn’t make sense. Or she’s talking to multiple guys / went on another first date around …
/r/seduction03/07/21 10:23 PM
1

You mean that this particular scenario keeps happening to you? Midway through the date, the girl invited you to her place, but then changes her mind at the end of the date?
/r/seduction03/07/21 10:18 PM
1

Lol is this a real question? Isn’t she legally a minor?
/r/seduction03/07/21 08:29 PM
1

It probably doesn’t have anything to do with you. You’re messaging these girls online like on dating apps? They probably have tons of matches / simultaneous convos going on at once.
/r/seduction03/07/21 01:18 PM
2

You can’t avoid being friendzoned. If a girl is not attracted to you physically but enjoys your company - then you’re getting friendzoned and there’s nothing you can do about it. You can’t force someone to feel attracted to you or have chemistry with you. It’s either there or it isn’t.
/r/seduction03/07/21 01:13 PM
3

Yes, I vote for being funny over serious.
/r/seduction02/07/21 10:17 PM
3

I definitely agree with not getting worked up!
/r/seduction02/07/21 05:37 PM
-5

Could backfire. But interesting thought!
/r/seduction02/07/21 05:32 PM
4

6 is ballsy. But it could work.
/r/seduction02/07/21 04:54 PM
1

If she’s attractive, she’s got so many messages.
/r/seduction02/07/21 03:45 PM
4

If you’re a guy with little to no success in dating and you’re looking for advice, then I think this is fair: “listen to experienced men, not women”
/r/seduction02/07/21 02:18 PM
2

This all sounds really good! Enjoy 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 02:16 PM
1

It’s a great point. I love being single, and every time I’ve been single, it has been my choice. I don’t settle. So when I decide to be in a romantic relationship, it’s providing me more value than I could have myself as a single woman (otherwise it would not make sense to be in a relationship).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 12:50 PM
1

Gosh what happened to you?
/r/seduction02/07/21 03:03 AM
2

Again, that may be your experience. But some women have different (more positive) experiences. 😊
/r/seduction02/07/21 03:03 AM
1

Yeah, for you maybe. Sucks!
/r/seduction02/07/21 03:01 AM
1

Cool! Not something I’ve ever encountered personally.
/r/seduction02/07/21 03:01 AM
1

Like I said, I have no clue about trans women or porn.
/r/seduction02/07/21 03:00 AM
-19

You don’t 😊
/r/seduction02/07/21 03:00 AM
1

Oh I won’t pretend to know anything about trans women or porn. 😊
/r/seduction02/07/21 02:59 AM
1

It can be as simple as: Some women (like you) feel depressed, hate their vaginas, feel like men don’t appreciate / sexualize their vaginas. Some women (like me) think their vaginas are awesome and have had consistent sexual / relationship experiences where men are nothing but positive and encouraging about how their vaginas look / feel. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/seduction02/07/21 02:58 AM
1

Why do you hate your vagina? I think mine is great.
/r/seduction02/07/21 02:56 AM
2

I think … you should stop repeatedly posting this via different accounts? Maybe indulge in some therapy or just let this shit go.
/r/seduction02/07/21 02:55 AM
1

I feel like I’m not supposed to engage you since you’re a troll 😂
/r/seduction02/07/21 02:55 AM
7

Yep, bring something. Not necessarily a pizza, but a snack. Or if she likes to drink, bring her a bottle of wine.
/r/seduction02/07/21 02:54 AM
2

Oh shoot! Thanks for letting me know. Yikes!
/r/seduction02/07/21 02:53 AM
2

I can only speak for my personal experience as a 32 year old woman. I certainly could not speak on behalf of all women or on behalf of society 😊
/r/seduction02/07/21 02:52 AM
1

I’m so confused by your post and I’m curious. I want to understand. So what has your experience been? That men have been less interested in your vagina / what it looks like because other genitals / body parts have been fetishized instead?
/r/seduction02/07/21 02:51 AM
3

Wait. I’m a woman and I DO think vaginas are appreciated like boobs and butts - meaning this has been my personal experience.
/r/seduction02/07/21 02:46 AM
13

How do you deal with the bf? Um you do not pursue the girl who is already in a relationship, for starters.
/r/seduction01/07/21 08:41 PM
-4

😂 it just wouldn’t happen bro.
/r/seduction01/07/21 04:39 PM
-2

Not a realistic scenario.
/r/seduction01/07/21 04:36 PM
-6

I couldn’t agree more. Not compatible in the slightest since I am over the age of 18 😉
/r/seduction01/07/21 04:26 PM
-10

32 is middle aged? I’m 5 years older than you 😂
/r/seduction01/07/21 03:54 PM
2

Very well said.
/r/seduction01/07/21 03:51 PM
-7

This whole post is yikes.
/r/seduction01/07/21 03:45 PM
1

What is aspie?
/r/seduction01/07/21 03:44 PM
2

There’s nothing wrong with wanting or not wanting casual sex. It’s not for everyone! I think you need to be very emotionally stable and secure in order for it to work, not everyone has the right mindset.
/r/seduction01/07/21 02:20 PM
1

I like the pizza analogy!
/r/seduction01/07/21 02:08 AM
1

Absolutely, every woman’s body is different and orgasms vary greatly.
/r/seduction30/06/21 08:22 PM
1

Dating apps
/r/seduction30/06/21 04:14 PM
1

“All dick pics get shared by girls to their friends” This is 100% true. Sometimes we even photoshop emojis or text to turn it into a meme and send it to the group chat for laughs!
/r/seduction30/06/21 04:10 PM
1

Couldnt agree more - no point in asking beforehand.
/r/seduction30/06/21 11:34 AM
20

Ahem some women certainly can have orgasms from PIV. And those that can’t orgasm, DO still enjoy feeling full / stretched, so let’s not knock size. But anyways it’s awkward and trashy for a woman to directly ask about dick size. She should just find out for herself when you’re getting it on. And then if it’s disappointing, you guys don’t have to see each other again. I wouldn’t recommend going with a flirty response (“Why don’t you come find out?”) - this implies you’re packing. That’s how I wou…
/r/seduction30/06/21 11:25 AM
3

I would also find this hilarious!
/r/seduction29/06/21 08:46 PM
1

Who defined a session at an hour?
/r/seduction29/06/21 07:52 PM
3

I mean is there really a limit?
/r/seduction29/06/21 07:50 PM
6

Therapist for sure. Do you live in a religious / conservative / repressed country where this is a common experience?
/r/seduction29/06/21 05:55 PM
-1

I wrote “me” didn’t I? MY preference, my experience. Of course other women may feel differently.
/r/seduction29/06/21 05:08 PM
0

I really enjoyed reading this. I think this is such a smart strategy!
/r/seduction29/06/21 04:59 PM
-5

A stranger coming up to me in public is disrespectful. Leave me alone dude, I’m grocery shopping / working out / at happy hour with friends. If I want to meet men, I’ll go on a dating app which is the appropriate forum for that.
/r/seduction29/06/21 04:55 PM
4

Bless you. If only more men felt this way.
/r/seduction29/06/21 03:23 PM
6

Oh and she also ghosted you? So two indications she’s not interested? Got it.
/r/seduction29/06/21 03:22 PM
11

This makes zero sense. Did her friends tie her up and carry her away? Dude if she really wanted to go home with you, she would have. Plain and simple.
/r/seduction29/06/21 03:10 PM
2

Wow. What is she looking for I wonder?
/r/seduction29/06/21 12:55 AM
1

Yes, for the most part.
/r/seduction29/06/21 12:03 AM
1

Why .. did you invite her two more times?
/r/seduction28/06/21 09:23 PM
1

So the premise here is that in order for a high value woman to see value in you - you must have a vigorous social media presence?
/r/seduction28/06/21 12:47 PM
11

Then you look like a serial killer 👀
/r/seduction27/06/21 10:36 PM
2

Ignore it
/r/seduction27/06/21 10:36 PM
1

Aw not even close!
/r/seduction27/06/21 10:19 PM
15

If you’re going to get laid on the first date, it’s because SHE decides it, not you 😂
/r/seduction27/06/21 09:39 PM
2

I’m legitimately curious as to what you would consider harassing, stalking behavior.
/r/seduction27/06/21 04:57 PM
1

Oh well, if she doesn’t respond, I mean you can always just rape her right? Since your desire to get laid will conflict with her desire to stop talking to you. This train of thought is very logical.
/r/seduction27/06/21 04:54 PM
2

What the actual fuck did I just read. If you approach a strange woman in public, attempt to strike up a convo, and she either flat out ignores you or turns her back - you leave her the HELL alone. Ever heard of consent dumbass?
/r/seduction27/06/21 04:52 PM
1

I’m thinking “damn he’s cute” or “his arms are amazing”
/r/seduction27/06/21 02:29 PM
1

Well that’s just words, may not necessarily be the case. Perhaps she was desperately trying to forget she’s still in love with her ex so she went overboard with you.
/r/seduction27/06/21 01:44 AM
1

Are women just using you for casual sex? This is a two way street. As long as everyone involved (gender doesn’t matter) consents, have at it!
/r/seduction27/06/21 12:49 AM
0

Correct. Massive turn off when a guy is desperate, needy, clingy, insecure, etc.
/r/seduction27/06/21 12:21 AM
3

Isn’t this going to affect your sex life negatively?
/r/seduction27/06/21 12:05 AM
1

You walk away. Because her saying “I’m with my people” in response to you asking for her number, means she’s NOT interested.
/r/seduction26/06/21 05:43 PM
-1

Roll away! 🙄
/r/seduction26/06/21 04:47 PM
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Listen buddy I agree - it would be MUCH more organic and romantic to meet someone in real life, at the grocery store, at a coffee shop, etc. But it’s just sadly the way things are now. It’s just always creepy for a strange man you don’t know to come up to you and talk to you. No dice.
/r/seduction26/06/21 12:07 PM
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Why would anyone tell you casual sex is wrong? Unless you live in a super conservative / religious country maybe.
/r/seduction26/06/21 12:06 PM
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So … what do you have to offer? What are your positive points?
/r/seduction25/06/21 09:00 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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