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No, the stupid ones will just assume that they’ve had bad luck with the several men they’ve had sex with tending to be small.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 06:10 PM
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If the only thing stopping people from cheating is legal reasons or social pressures then it wasn’t a good relationship to begin with. In a good relationship people don’t cheat because they don’t want to do anything that would hurt their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 12:50 PM
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This is not a meaningful way of calculating hypergamy. We could, for example, add that if you want someone who is alive, then you are hypergamous because most people are deceased. If you want someone who lives within 500 miles of you, then you are hypergamous because most people live on another continent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:14 PM
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An attractive 30 year old virgin is like a person who seems like he knows a lot about finances, but is poor. The woman will second guess whether he really is attractive. She’ll wonder, ‘am I missing something? Is something wrong with him?’
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:10 AM
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As exemplified by FDSers, some people mistakenly think that their failure to attract quality people is simply a result of not presenting sufficiently high standards. They get into a vicious cycle of increasing demands that repel more people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:07 PM
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I honestly think it is only maybe the top 30% of men who make this distinction between standards for casual and standards for relationships. Most men struggle to get either and are kind of open to whichever is offered (casual or relationship). But the top 30% might be the only men you are paying attention to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 11:57 AM
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I don’t believe a significant percentage of men write such essays. It looks like you’re question is actually about one specific man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:20 PM
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Mgtow men have girlfriends? I guess I’m still unclear on what exactly mgtow is…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:40 PM
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So, if I understand this correctly: wanting to have sex = feeling entitled to have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:20 PM
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I’ve never really considered myself RP, but I think it’s interesting how the arguments from the BP side if anything convince me that RP is onto something. Nowhere does the post claim that BP men will get sex, just that they ought to be content without it. After all, wanting to have sex is apparently the epitome of “toxic masculinity”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:10 PM
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I think people are confused about the math here. If we take the classic 80/20 numbers, let’s say you live in a city of 10,000 men and 10,000 women. We’ll just take it to the extreme and say the top 20% of men have had sex with every woman in the city. So every woman has a body count of 2,000, but 80% of men in the city are virgins. I’m not saying that reality is nearly this extreme, I just want it clarified that high body counts among women does not necessarily mean it’s easy for average men to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:47 PM
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Then shouldn’t responsibility be assigned based on height and muscularity, not gender? There are plenty of tall women and short men out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:25 PM
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Have you ever read a Playboy? I think only about half of it is about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:01 PM
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Well, are women’s magazines filled with pictures of short fat men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:42 AM
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I wouldn’t necessarily be opposed to the dildo/sleeve, but I’m concerned about your approach to the situation as some of your comments imply that you basically want to fantasize about sex with your ex while having sex with your boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:56 PM
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Women have sex with hot men immediately because, whether they consciously admit it or not, they know that’s all that’s being offered (not a relationship).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:41 AM
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Just because there wasn’t a criminal trial doesn’t mean that the abuse didn’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:34 PM
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Remember Casey White who escaped from prison with the help of a female guard? Even prisoners aren’t 100% out of the competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:18 AM
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I remember a guy on r/Tinder complaining that all his matches were gold diggers. He showed his profile, and it stated his credit score.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:05 PM
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So is this leading up to a proposal from the left to remove voting rights from virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:33 PM
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This should be reposted with option number 4 changed to just marry an average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 11:13 PM
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Also, it’s more about who women are hooking up with, not who they’re dating. But statistics seem to indicate that more women are choosing hookups over dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:23 PM
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http://www.wisconsinfathers.org My dad fought for years trying to get 50% placement of me. It was almost an obsession. He never got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:34 PM
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I am engaged. I think I might be about 20% RP, but I’m not really an expert on everything RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:31 PM
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I think you need to define HVM. By some definitions, HVMs and f*ckboys largely refers to the same people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:49 PM
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The relationship is more valuable, but the first time I had sex with my fiancée was about two hours after meeting her, so I don’t really see it as an either/or thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:22 PM
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The short answer is yes, of course, men want to have families, and men love their children. It seems like what you’re implying is that young men shouldn’t worry about not getting sex, because once they’re 30 they’ll get a wife and kids. Firstly, it might be reasonable for men to want both (sex in their 20s and a family later), moreover, some men aren’t getting either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:15 PM
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Wait……are you married to my ex wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:00 PM
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My wife wanted us to become polyamorous. Ultimately it didn’t work out well. Now I’m divorced and engaged to someone I met on Bumble. Anyway, I always stated in my bios that I was married, so the women who matched with me were probably skewed toward those looking for hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:48 PM
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In retrospect, I think the reason a lot of women stopped messaging me was because they were expecting me to offer to hookup the the day we matched. I of course tried to take things slow, because I kept hearing women complain about hookup requests. I was married at the time I used OLD, so my situation was a little unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 02:15 PM
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I’m pretty sure that’s not accurate. Remember that (assuming we’re only talking about heterosexuals), mathematically, the total number of female matches should equal the total number of male matches. The average woman has more matches than the average man, but some top tier men have thousands.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:41 PM
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Evolution resulted in our brains having the ability to create the technology.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:11 PM
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Wouldn’t evolution cause us to be complimentary so that we can successfully have children and raise them together?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:40 PM
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Boy Black Pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:51 AM
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I think this is the study he is referring to. It is a very specific subset (women in metropolitan areas without children) but the gap is significant, women earning 17% more in New York City. http://content.time.com/time/business/article/0,8599,2015274,00.html
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 03:40 PM
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Are women really going to the gym that much more? I honestly don’t know. The gyms I’ve been to seem to have somewhat more women, but not by an overwhelming percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:55 AM
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Why do you assume men here are sexless and rejected, I haven’t been single since 2007.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:47 PM
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Like some of the other commenters, I’m skeptical of how much we can conclude from that study, but if we accept that there is a growing gap between the number of men having sex and the number of women having sex, then the conclusion is that this is a result of average men refusing to settle for average women? I’m not totally convinced.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:37 PM
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An argument I’ve seen is that 70 years ago average men could get average women, but now that is no longer the case. In reality, I think the hypergamy thing has always been around to some extent, but OLD and a cultural shift towards less monogamy has definitely intensified it. Then again, it also might have been easier to make a living with an average job 70 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:21 PM
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I thought average men wanted average women’s lifestyle. Chad only gets sex with people at or below his level. Women get sex with people at their level, plus three levels above.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:01 PM
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So what happens to the other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 11:43 PM
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There is pretty strong correlation between good looks and good finances, so your question of ‘would you go for a poor Chad’ is kind of hypothetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:07 PM
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While it seems illogical, from what I’ve observed the frustrated bitchiness increases when women ‘go poly.’
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:46 PM
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So when people finish high school, they have the option to live rent free at their parents for 3 years? In the US this would also have economic implications. With 3 more years as dependents, tax revenue would decrease. Then there’s the child tax credit and everything. I suppose these are details though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:04 PM
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Would parents then be responsible for caring for them during this period? Also, I suppose they would need a co-signer for loans until they are 21?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:46 PM
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And here I was, not even realizing that I need to bring my TI-83 when I go to the bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:00 PM
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I think some women honestly believe that delaying sex increases the chances of the relationship lasting. For most men, I think the belief is incorrect, but I don’t think it is malicious behavior as you’re stating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:57 PM
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I’m engaged, so I won’t ever be dating again, but I find the discussions here fascinating. I think everyone has reason to be interested in these issues, as they have implications for society; seeing as I have a son and a daughter, I am personally interested in the future of these issues from the side of both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 02:49 AM
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I’m a little skeptical. Studies and my personal experience seem to indicate that women prefer at least some facial hair. https://www.fashionbeans.com/article/do-women-like-beards/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 02:17 PM
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My fiancée is a surgeon. I’m a bus driver. I guess that makes me GigaChad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:12 PM
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Yes, the Boost on Tinder, and Spotlight on Bumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:10 PM
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Yes, women swipe left at a much higher rate than men, but most women go through far fewer profiles than men, so profile exposure is still the primary driver of the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 12:39 PM
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It’s just one of several factors, the most important factor in determining how much your profile is shown is the rate at which people swipe right on your profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:12 AM
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By showing your profile to fewer people. I’ve noticed a lot of people are not aware of the mechanics of the disparity in how Tinder works for men versus women. The reason most men get so few matches is not because thousands of women are swiping left on them; it’s because their profile is being shown to very few women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 11:22 PM
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Not sure if this has changed, but historically the algorithms would penalize you if your swipe ratio starts to go above 60% right.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:36 PM
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There is a flaw in your premise. You say that women date for validation, and men date for sex. In reality men want validation just as much as women. Men get validation from women voluntarily choosing to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:18 PM
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