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ADVICEpixiemaybe/r/RedPillWomen06/05/20 04:13 AM
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if i were you, i would start by finding little things to compliment them on. "hey i really love your hair today, looks super cute" "what mascara do you use? your lashes look BOMB" "that color looks really nice on you" i'm willing to bet that they think you judge them for not being as conservative. i'm willing to bet if you start complimenting little things, you'll start to see them open up. you'll surprise yourself with the common ground you'll find.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/20 06:06 PM
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i think it's really important to do a genuinely deep assessment of what makes you happiest in life. i know TONS of people in incredibly happy and stable relationships that are very not RP, this is not a mentality for everyone. if you don't know your worth first, it's really easy for the RPW to get caught up in their worth being only in their man. it took me a very long time after leaving my bad relationship to be in a healthy one. i had a difficult time emotionally opening up, and would close of…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/20 05:51 PM
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hair! when i was working, i would get floral silk scrunchies that matched my scrubs. you can wear lacy camis underneath. cute stud earrings. also, a little mascara and tinted brow gel goes a long way. i'm a big fan of zuzu luxe, they have the most natural looking, but still effective mascara i have ever found, it's crazy. a smudge of highlighter on your inner eye corner, upper cheekbone, and just under your brow gives a lot, too. then you get that lil shimmer that makes you feel special. i would…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/20 03:45 PM
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i just had a friend start divorce proceedings with a boy like this. it started small, like yours. it escalated to him essentially telling her she was ugly, trying to force bimbofication, and much worse. please don't let this idiot boy affect your self worth. you deserve a man who will love who you are and give you the attention you need
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/20 03:32 PM
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this is unfortunately true of any abusive relationship, i think. no matter who you are, your ideals, whatever, when you're abused, you always feel like "but if i was better, he wouldn't do these things." it's really sad, and even a decade after escaping that, i still really struggle with slipping back into that mentality if i upset my SO.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/20 03:28 PM
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i take a lot of my inspiration from my grandmother and mother. my granny(very soft) was very different from my mom(very tough), but something they both shared is patience and so much love. so for me, it's having an open and caring heart with a spine of steel. but i think at the end of the day, it's more about learning to be your best you. i have friends who are very womanly, but in very untraditional ways. i think everyone has to find their own essence of what it means to be womanly to them, and…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/20 03:24 PM
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it's hard to do, for sure. but it gets easier the more you do it
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/20 01:51 AM
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exfoliate daily and moisturize! i waxed for almost 2 years. i ended up stopping due to ingrown hairs, but the time i did wax really thinned out the hairs so it's worked out nicely.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/20 09:27 PM
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you may want to explain it to him like you explained it to us. i found explaining to my boyfriend that i wasn't blaming or holding these things against him, but it didn't make it not hurt. for us, he gets physically withdrawn. i am very touch oriented and physical contact, so not cuddling or being close is hard on me. that conversation allowed us to find a middle ground where we both got what we needed. it's okay for you to hurt in response to a perfectly valid emotional reaction. but i've learn…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/20 09:24 PM
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umm you're allowed to be expressive and have feelings... if he is going to react every time you make a face, that's not healthy. it really seems to me there's something more to it on his end. i can understand toning down snarky comments, been there. what i don't understand is his expectation for you to change what's part of your personality. some people just don't have poker faces. i may be reading too much into this, but it come across as a control mechanism for him due to insecurity. i don't k…
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/20 06:59 PM
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i find that rolling my shoulders up and back when straightening my posture prevents that "squared up" feeling.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/20 02:35 AM
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i second this! lacy underthings are magical
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/20 02:32 AM
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CROCKPOTS!!! crockpot recipes are the easiest meals to make ever. it's literally cut some stuff up, huck it into the crockpot, then you don't touch it. it's incredible, really. i literally will put a small whole chicken, sprinkle with maybe a tablespoon and a half of seasoned salt, a couple shakes of garlic powder, and maybe 1/4th c lemon juice. put it on low and about 4 hours later, it literally falls off the bone. freeze it in weekly portions and you are set for a hot minute. it's cheap and th…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/20 02:22 AM
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i do have to brush the baby almost daily since his a rough coat, but it's so nice. especially since i hate hate vacuuming
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/20 02:25 PM
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oh. a logical solution
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/20 02:21 PM
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ooo go you!! working while you're in school is always so impressive to me, i would burn out. i think it'll be important to not put too much pressure on yourself. girl, you are busy, and it wouldn't be realistic for you to take on all the housemaking duties. just do what you can. when i was working, i focused on taking over the things mister clearly didn't like doing and would often let go. i genuinely think asking the question is half the battle, because it means your heart's in the right place.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/20 02:20 PM
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when i moved in with the mister, i started asking myself what small things i could do to make things easier for him and went from there. you could also ask what his least favorite chore to do is and take that over. are y'all both working?
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/20 04:33 AM
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BUT WHERE WILL I PUT MY TEA CAKES FOR THE PEASANTS IF NOT MY BAROQUE SIDE TABLES???
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/20 04:26 AM
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probably not the most popular opinion, but i find "editing" myself with make up on my insecure days really helpful. make up can be so thoroughly customized to make the best of what we have. this tutorial is lip specific but it talks about some other aspects. there are a billion tutorials on how to contour to change certain features. weirdly enough, i tend to find that doing this for a while can often make me more appreciative of my features. i go through cycles of specifically hating the little …
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/20 04:23 AM
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one is a mini schnauzer and the other a giant schnauzer, so they actually don't really shed! but, i do need to add this into my weekly routine.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/20 01:11 AM
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thank you!!! 😊
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/20 03:22 PM
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i'm stealing your routine 😂
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/20 03:20 PM
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honestly, i think your best bet is to literally write out the financials. you may find you're actually saving money if you don't work as childcare is expensive! i totally get the keeping up with the Jones's mentality. as hard as it is to have a frank conversation, especially with your SO, it's probably time to sit down and really figure out your family's goals and wants versus needs and what works financially. it's really hard when you can trail run it, but you can always go back to work if it t…
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/20 03:19 PM
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i wasn't when we were both working. i've always done the bulk of things because i work less and make less, but i didn't take over all the things until quarantine meant i wasn't working anymore.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/20 03:07 PM
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i'll definitely do that when we have leftovers! thanks :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/20 03:05 PM
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not the voice of negativity, just being practical. we are planning to get married, but it's a timing thing. we want to go somewhere and spend very little on an elopement so we can spend a lot on a long honeymoon. it's gonna be a while until his work is able to run without him there, so we're not in a rush for that. if the need arises, we'll do a courthouse paperwork. that's probably a good idea, regardless, right? i don't have kids and it can't hurt to have extra income 🤔
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/20 03:03 PM
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oooh good point. i'm totally a doer when it comes to showing appreciation so i often forget how nice it is to be told.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/20 05:56 AM
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that's a good tip! i really struggle making routines for myself but i also benefit from them. i've thought about setting reminders for a while until it becomes habit, so i really like the idea of certain chores for certain days. thanks! :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/20 05:55 AM
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