pizzaandburritos Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	How I ask girls out That's true but I'm not really talking about the subtle clues of sexual attraction, I'm talking about basic human interaction skills like knowing how to tell if a conversation is going well. If after 15 minutes of me nodding politely and not saying anything I have to finally tell you that you bore me, then something is seriously wrong with your ability to read people in general, not just women. The whole game of women trying to send signals so that guys ask them out is pretty lame, I agree. In m…	/r/seduction	22/01/14 06:34 PM
3	How I ask girls out In my opinion the place you probably went wrong is that you misread having a connection. I've been on a lot of dates where the guy was totally not picking up on my signals of lack of interest. He goes home thinking all is well and then is surprised when I tell him I don't want to hang out with him again. Guys love to give each other tips on how to woo women but I think the most helpful thing for guys would be if they learned more about how women communicate. We are oblique creatures. We expect g…	/r/seduction	22/01/14 03:43 AM
2	How I ask girls out As a woman I disagreed with a lot of the post, though I can understand how it would work on many women. The key you have to understand is that these are techniques you want to use if your primary goal is to get a lot of dates with women. I can see how this would get me to say yes to the first date but from there it is all a matter of whether I like the guy, and that is something totally separate from how smooth he is. Sure, some women care about that a lot, but I don't. In fact, someone like OP …	/r/seduction	22/01/14 03:31 AM
3	How I ask girls out That may be true in general but of course there are girls who prefer to be more assertive or at least equal on the planning front. I am one of them. If you always take the lead then you will attract girls who like that. If you hate planning everything then just tell her you want her to plan more. In a lot of cases girls are just passive because they feel like that's expected.	/r/seduction	22/01/14 03:07 AM
1	Girls see me as LTR material, but I just want to bang Good on you for having that conversation with her. I think everyone has such different expectations for relationships, so you always have to be really clear about what you want. What you describe with the girl you've been seeing is quite common, I would think...I've been guilty of something similar as well.	/r/seduction	21/01/14 03:16 AM
2	How to set up your facebook to help get girls? If OP wants to actually date people and not just flex his pickup artist muscles as you are so eager to do, he has to realize that girls like to have more information than just how hot and alpha you are when you approach them. There is a big difference between picking girls up at the club and finding girls in your regular life who you can date. I think you are making a lot of assumptions about OP's priorities. I was referring more to situations where you know someone somewhat already and become f…	/r/seduction	10/01/14 09:26 AM
1	I succeeded but don't feel good. What happened? Well, there's a learning curve for both of you. She also needs to learn that sex in cars doesn't usually lead to relationships. I think in that sense, you did well by taking the relationship from 100% platonic to 100% sexual. It's good of you to get to the point. Now your intentions should be clear, if she has had any experience with guys. But maybe she doesn't. Or maybe she is just really into you and her vision is clouded by wishful thinking. You probably need to just tell her that it was a on…	/r/seduction	10/01/14 02:48 AM
1	Girls see me as LTR material, but I just want to bang If you just want casual sex, go get it, but don't expect emotional connection. FWB is a gray zone and I don't know anyone who has sustained a FWB relationship longer than a few months, much less one that was fulfilling. It usually becomes something of a train wreck. When you do friend stuff like hang out together or talk, it really causes a lot of confusion. So if sex is all you care about, avoid that stuff. There are girls out there who will be your booty call. Just be clear about it. Don't try…	/r/seduction	10/01/14 02:27 AM
1	I succeeded but don't feel good. What happened? This is what I hear you saying: You were friends with her and she texts you about hanging out. For some reason you see that as an opportunity to get laid. You go full speed ahead with this and do the deed. Without more details, it's really hard to say whether your read her signals correctly. From her perspective, this is what she sees: She's hanging out with this guy she's friends with when he suddenly kisses her. This probably shocked her but maybe she was ok with it if she was into you, too. T…	/r/seduction	10/01/14 01:52 AM
2	How to set up your facebook to help get girls? This might be good advice if the goal is to create an air of mystery. But what then? There's no point in piquing a girl's interest if you can't take it to the next step. If you share some information about yourself, girls who are interested in you will use that to gauge whether they would go on a date with you. And as a girl, I can say that a big reason I say no a lot of times when asked out is that I don't have enough information. If I feel like I have a bit of an idea of who you are via facebo…	/r/seduction	10/01/14 01:14 AM