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that is at least 2 years if we hurry things, maybe more, we are at 32 years already at the best case scenario if I choose a 30 years old. You don't need to do ANY of that if we are talking biology. You just need to pair up and shag. And then like most males of many species leave forever and die alone. LOL!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:21 PM
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you can (and should) start building your family at 30 when both of you finished studies and have jobs to support babies. At 18 you probably won't have all of that. That is antithetical to our animal biology though. In fact much of human society is antithetical to our animal biology. But here we are. Other primates are not waiting til they are older. They are shagging the most "fertile" and youthful female or male they can bag regardless of age. But non human animals don't even keep track of age …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:19 PM
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You can have 3, 4, 5 children and still be young enough to have energy to care for them. Benjamin Franklin I think had 17 kids! He started young and just kept going. Now there is no real incentive to do that since people are living longer and it is to costly to have one kid let alone three or more. It just isn't worth it despite the biology driving us to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:16 PM
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LOL! Fertile! Ok sure and then after breeding like most males of other species they ditch the female.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:02 PM
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is what most men value in women Correction: males value in females... for it is not just humans acting this and I think that is the part that people fear most it is beyond humanity and something just purely biological that one cannot control. Though an argument could be made the moose and the chimp etc know that they are pervy hounding much younger females. Jane Goodall would probably have some interesting thoughts on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:01 PM
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I guess it depends on how one deals with it. I was sexually abused by my own mother, among MANY other abuses she put on me. I dated a total radically male bashing feminist for a while. She trashed men so much her own son had low self-esteem because of it. She hated men for reasons I never could figure out. But with my abuse from my own mother I did not grow up to hate women. I also did not grow up to hate men despite abuse from them to. I think people choose to enter these hate caves because it …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:57 PM
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^^^^^ This right here. Men are visual. Love at first sight shit started with males (of any species). I mean a male moose is not looking for a dossier on the female she just looks right to the male moose. Same for humans (even if we try to deny it). As a female comic Lynn Koplitz once said, "Men are simple." As another female comic said, "Do we have to lower our standards when it comes to men? No, no, throw out standards all together!" Most men are not that hard to figure out. We are terrible and…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:53 PM
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If the relationship lasts you will have built somebody beyong just the initial attraction. There is a man I know who is probably in is late fifties. I've met his partner on several occasions over the last ten years. She is gorgeous Barbie looking type. And just cute and nice as can be. I never knew her age. I assumed she was nearing forty. One day recently she announced it her birthday. I said jokingly, "Don';t worry we won't mention the number." Very chipper she blurted out, "Oh it's OK. I just…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:49 PM
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Teenage girls have endlessly complex and annoying social circle drama Maaaaannn my adult female circle has endless complex drama. For example the five ladies who get together for brunch on Sunday... one week Janice is not there. They will trash talk Janice. Next week Sylvia is out but Janice is back they we trash Sylvia and act like they didn't just dump on Janice last week. Ultimately out of the five I think two actually consider themselves, "die for you friends". Another lady friend of mine re…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:45 PM
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Not surprised all my friends who are teachers say boys are a HOT MESS until about 25 and even then they are still "boys". I always went for older women even as a teenager I wanted older partners because they were just more interesting to talk to. Now that I'm older I find all ages fun to talk to but the youth are especially fun because they are not jaded yet and they will call you out on your BS, it's refreshing. Also some of the most optimistic conversation have come from young people recently.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:41 PM
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This is how I describe one relationship with an ex, "She wasn't in love with me. She was in love with the idea of me." I think a lot people get into relationships this way. Hence I will NEVER date anyone young or old who has not done at least a year of therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:37 PM
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So at twenty you didn't see yourself as adult?! That seems so weird me. Me and my peers were DYING to be 18 just so we could all say, "We're adults now, you can't treat us like kids anymore". LOL!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:36 PM
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I remember my grandfather in his 80s said something to a female college friend at a NYE party, "Hey, why don't you come and see me some time?" It was a casual but not unserious remark. The friend laughed. But my Nana shouted, "You don't have what she wants or needs. Keep barking and you can make you're own meatballs." I always felt like the older generation from the depression era and before kinda understood something about male female dynamics that we have ignored or denied. They were married 7…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:33 PM
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do shit for victims You mean survivors. Victims are dead. Dhamer had victims. I am a survivor, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:28 PM
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divorce rates are declining Yes, but also people are getting married FAR less and have been since I was in high school it is just not worth it anymore with the currently economic shit show. People are also have less children for the same reasons. The incentives people had to do monogamous pair bonding have dwindled. In my close friend circle along I know 5 women who are in open relationships and all 30+.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:27 PM
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A women is more likely to overlook some things even for a taller or wealthier man that shouldn’t have with a man of less means. All things being equal, men will tend to chose younger for the same reasons. My mother chose wealth and status for sure and yeah she ignored some pretty big red flags... getting hitched to a pedophile. And lived in denial about because she so desired the status and wealth. As her child it did not go well for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:22 PM
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Men who want young women generally don’t want intellectual and emotional companionship. From they few men (and women dating younger) I know, they have told me, they like younger partners because, "they are more fun" full stop. Most older folks are often jaded and had to much life experience and just don't go around as wide-eyed and bubbly as the youth, especially if they've had kids. Also older people tend to be more negative and nag a lot more. So just not as fun. But to that all of that I say …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:20 PM
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ephebophiles and paedophiles here who have a literal preference I think in many cases it isn't even a preference but like an orientation where they were born only finding teenagers sexually attractive. I have even heard the term pedosexual used for such people. But we -ahem- will name be adding them to rainbow alphabet for obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:16 PM
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I've personally always been most attracted to people close to my age. But it's only fairly recent in human evolution we even kept track of age. "Back in the day" before we human were tracking birthdays and what not males knew a female was good to go once she hit her cycle and thirteen or whatever the actually age number was irrelevant you shagged the one that you felt could best carry on your genes and raise your offspring. The development of modern human society runs antithetical to much of bio…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:14 PM
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Meh power might make sense if we saw that similar power dynamic in other primates. But I think it's just many males consider younger female for attractive and therefore biologically more fit to carry on the genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:09 PM
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I agree and I think most people are in denial about this. And it is in part why the two main sexes seem to be having such huge problems (if you go by what is on social media). But if you go by what other animal species are doing... especially primates. I remember watching a video in an anthropology class where this dude bird took like thirty minutes to make a nest and the dudette bird checked it and was like, "Nope not good enough." And peaced out. The dude bird flew off to the next female a fou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:07 PM
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This is rather true for any cult. But I just nod and say, "No I understand. You have joined a cult and that works for you I guess, not for me."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/24 03:59 AM
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Bell Hooks is the bible. It's that simple. When you are dealing with a cult, anyway.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/24 03:57 AM
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I am developing a theory here. See the point I am hearing most (from males and females) is by in large there are no variables with a bear, you die. And for men that is why they don't choose the bear because it means death very soon and probably painful and drawn out. So the man is concerned with staying alive. Even if they get raped or tortured by the man they could still possibly survive. Men want to avoid death. Women are coming at this from a totally unrelated angel to survival, they just wan…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/05/24 06:39 PM
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^ Especially if you have done any serious therapy. This is the only real solution.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/05/24 06:20 PM
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Well obviously you choose bear because they bear is actually more likely to shut up and leave you the hell alone.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/05/24 06:19 PM
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As if women can't be abusers or predators. The main issue is something actually getting done about it in either direction. Well that the reality most people don't want to face. People know not to rape or murder or abuse and assault. But they do it anyway. So teaching people to not do it has born much fruit it seems. Also the other reality that other species rape and murder especially other primates call into question how special we are and how much is just biology or animal nature. I yeah I grew…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/05/24 06:19 PM
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Women statistically abuse more children and kill more children then men because they are around them more.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/05/24 06:14 PM
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Prosecuting a false rape accusation means you have to prove that they lied. I think we are talking about instances where t he woman admits she lied. Like that football team case.
/r/MensRights06/06/22 05:11 AM
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He has his wife on the podcast and legit calls her out on her women shit. He also knows when to shut up to just so he can survive the day without endless nagging or silent treatment. The dude KNOW how to play the game.
/r/MensRights06/06/22 05:09 AM
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Also this is why so many men are saying "Fuck it. I'm just going to leave you ladies alone and watch porn." And many women are finding now that they are having a hard time finding men to date because for men it isn't worth the trouble.
/r/MensRights06/06/22 05:05 AM
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It has also been pointed out that is audio of her taunting him saying that and basically saying if he went public with this nobody would believe him because he's a male. I resonated with this one because nobody believed me when it came to my abuse from my mother.
/r/MensRights06/06/22 05:03 AM
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Many comedians have said if it was OK to hit a woman the same way it's OK to hit a man they'd be walking and talking with a lot more caution.
/r/MensRights06/06/22 05:01 AM
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Also many people just have a REALLY hard admitting they are wrong. They jumped on the bandwagon before the full story was heard and instead of just admitting their prejudice the double down. It's not just on this, even flat-earthers do this along with many many groups. We HATE being wrong or thinking we supported the wrong or malicious thing willfully or otherwise.
/r/MensRights06/06/22 05:00 AM
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I ran into this actually "forced to penetrate" LOL! No. I was not forced to penetrate my mother she RAPED me.
/r/MensRights03/06/22 08:49 PM
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teacher shouldn’t be calling their struggling male 11 year old students “toxic” You were much kinder than I would have been, I would said why do you think it's OK to verbally abuse your male students.
/r/MensRights03/06/22 08:44 PM
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As I've been prone to say in the past few years, "The victimhood is strong with this one".
/r/MensRights06/05/22 05:15 AM
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Women often assume that because 'men control/led the world', they already know what it's like to be a man when in fact the reality they're experiencing has been more affected by power dynamics than gender dynamics. This sir is spot on. What a lot of female I find don't get or refuse to acknowledge is that most of the toxic asshole alpha men in power are not just nasty to women but also men. You don't become alpha by being submissive, passive, and nice in most cases. Again I refer to other primat…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/20 12:28 AM
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Yes this is true all you need to do is look at other animal species. Male birds build the nest to attract the female, the doing the mating, or the knock horns together or fight other males. Any male from another species who just waits will die having not passed on his most excellent genes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/20 12:26 AM
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most people don't understand the struggles of the other gender. I would replace "understand" with "can't". And we never will. Unless the given female was born with a penis and male hormone levels she will have ZERO idea what's like having that thing between your legs driving you in all kinds of weird directions. Just like men will never understand have periods or cramps. And those are just the obvious examples of our differences. I think sometimes we push to far in trying to makes the sex equal …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/20 12:23 AM
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Seduction is 90% men 10% women. As you explained wonderfully, women think of themselves as intrinsically valuable, but any man they cross paths with doesn't have value until she validates him. y "equal" /s This is so true. And Patrice O'neal said this in his comedy special. Just think how vastly different this conversation would be if men could also get pregnant. We wouldn't need women just like they really don't need us anymore.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/20 12:19 AM
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I think part of the problem is that as primates we are not meant for monogamous pair bonding in the first place. We are like other primates the alpha is in charge and gets to do the most screwing around. And then on down. We sure try to act like monogamy is the shit. But cheating and divorce rates continue to prove otherwise. Yet humans beings still try to become the exception that proves the rule.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/20 12:17 AM
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So some men lie. They say they make more money than they do. They give the impression that they will spend that money in her. Eventually she likes the deal that is being offered and agrees. But then he doesn't do everything he said he would. This is likely because unlike Moose who literally duke it out and whoever has the bigger antlers wins men can't really engage in the alpha displays the way we used to. So now it has come down to cars and $$$$ as a symbol of a desirable mate who can provide. …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/20 12:14 AM
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I would defer any discussion on this topic to YouTube and the great philosopher Patrice Oneal. I have never heard anyone so blunt and matter a fact about male female hetero dating and not just the psychology but the biology behind it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/20 12:10 AM
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I wonder if beta male chimps or mosse ect. Tell others of their species the same kind of crazy stories because they can't catch a female?
/r/ExRedPill04/12/20 12:04 AM
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Well marriage is a religious term and personally loathe it. And it means different things to different people obviously but I do agree as said above we have standards that we will not compromise on and that why it feels like there are less options for us.
/r/ExRedPill04/12/20 12:03 AM
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The kind of person you (and I seek) it less than 1% of the population. That is the reality I have accepted. So it less about people wanting me or finding me attractive it is that I won't settle for less in a long term partnership. An example would be I won't commit to anyone who hasn't been through 3 or more years of therapy. I don't care how "normal" their childhood or life was.
/r/ExRedPill04/12/20 12:02 AM
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I find the trick for success here is DO NOT move in together. Once you move in together you are no longer independent or equal in the same way and that's where the battles begin. I've seen it in EVERY relationship I've had and every major relationship around me. The exceptions being where one partner or the other is in the dominant role. Mr grandparents were a perfect example of success living together though. MY grandfather was the breadwinner but he WAS NOT the dominant one. He deferred to my …
/r/ExRedPill04/12/20 12:00 AM
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On the flip think of all the relationship people stay where their partners abuse them daily either emotionally,verbally, physically, sexually or otherwise... Staying together at is kind of weird if you look at other primates. Monogamous pair bonding is not really common among primates or really many other mammal species.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/20 11:49 PM
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Well welcome to the biological world where not ever member of species gets to mate because the opposite sex doesn't find them suitable for whatever reason. You watch enough nature videos you start to think either human have been going about this all wrong for the last several centuries or non-human animals are just as fucked up as we are when they "date".
/r/ExRedPill03/12/20 11:43 PM
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To paraphrase the great 21st Century philosopher Patrice O'Neal, "Men like women and woman love men." I have never heard anyone speak more brutally honest about relationship dynamics as both a psychological and biological species than this man.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/20 11:41 PM
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