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Depending on who says it and in what tone, these can easily go hilariously wrong. Girls ain't dumb, they can smell try-hards from a mile away
/r/seduction16/09/13 05:11 AM
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Invite her to a party or something. Honestly though, don't over think it, and realize she might just want to use you for doing her homework. Play it by ear.
/r/seduction14/09/13 01:21 AM
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I'm tellin ya, just have fun. If you base your night on how you do with women you're gonna have a bad time. If you have fun with some buds I'm sure at some point you'll bump into a couple of gals to strike up a conversation with.
/r/seduction27/08/13 06:44 AM
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Like everything else, you have to focus on your strengths. I can't speak about on behalf of all introverts but I connect the best with women when I'm one on one, in a relaxing places. These places may include just sitting on the couch watching a bad movie, getting a cup of coffee, or on the deck outside of a noisy party. In the end, if you're more comfortable in certain situations, there's a good chance it'll show through in your confidence.
/r/seduction27/08/13 06:23 AM
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She was building you up too. Calling you sexy and a real man over and over and she even teased you with that kiss. I mean you probably deserved a good portion of credit, but just be aware she deserves equal credit. Don't get me wrong, there ain't anything bad with two people being equally into each other!
/r/seduction28/05/13 05:43 PM
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By all means congrats, but I think she was gaming you just as much as, if not more than you were gaming her. My best advice is just take it for what it was- a good night- and just leave it at that. Don't build yourself up too much, don't overthink things, just smile that you had a good night and keep having fun out there.
/r/seduction28/05/13 05:04 PM
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It came off a little too sexual assualty for me around 1:10
/r/seduction28/05/13 04:56 PM
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I mean sure it may work, and props to you if it does. It's just when I hear it, it sounds like it's straight from every bad sitcom. You know the line "Well my friend is...." Then she says..."Well tell 'your friend' if he....".
/r/seduction20/05/13 01:32 PM
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Different people are here for different reasons. You want to sleep with women just for the sex like 4chan OP? Okay that's cool. If you're trying to improve yourself to start a relationship, that's cool too. This should be a place for everyone's goals. Now my personal mindset and goals are not the same as 4chan OP, it's not my cup of tea...but I mean there's solid advice in there (which could probably be worded different) and the upvotes def show it's other people's cup.
/r/seduction15/05/13 10:29 PM
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You've made money off of this??? I too, have taken an intro to communication and intro to psychology class. Explicit communicate is typically verbal and straightforward where as with implicit communication she's sending a message based on action rather than the surface meaning of the words. Non verbal communication is important...got it. When she’s acting inappropriate, you pull away. You take your attention away from her for a period of time. You may even cut the date short, as a signal to her …
/r/seduction20/04/13 02:57 PM
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Take the over-analyzing and guess work out. I think you're too much in your head, and it's ok, it happens to us all. They'll never know how you feel unless you tell them/show them. They'll never go out on a date if you don't specifically ask them on one. Be decisive, (it'll take some work!) it'll go far.
/r/seduction11/04/13 05:14 AM
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Don’t you dare stop gaming her. You have her now because you’re new, mysterious and exciting. As soon as you become familiar and quit gaming you’re no longer interesting. You’re boring. She will find someone who isn’t. I know what you're getting at, but I think this can be taken the wrong way. You kind of make the word "gaming" sound like you are putting on a song and dance the whole time to make up for inadequacies you have, and when you stop this dance she sees how boring you really are. I kno…
/r/seduction11/04/13 05:05 AM
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Been subbed to seddit for almost 3 years and check here every once and in a while. It's best to use this place as a place to bounce ideas around. Everyone tries to dissect things like it's an artform or science, but really most of it is to get you to talk to girls better-remember to have fun!
/r/seduction27/03/13 11:02 PM
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She asks "What was your name again?" Me: "It was pjhollow, it still is, don't worry."
/r/seduction10/03/13 07:01 PM
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How does this get upvoted to the top post in the sub?
/r/seduction10/03/13 06:53 PM
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Approach: Front. Exchange names in ears- it may be too loud for anything else. Dance the way you are comfortable Suddely get closer as song continues. Put your hand out in inviting way. She grabs hand Start dancing hand in hand. It can escalate many ways from there. The hand is my go to. You won't usually get rejected, and it's a good starting point for more things.
/r/seduction19/02/13 05:38 AM
2

Let's be real here....scrabble is all about positioning.
/r/seduction29/01/13 05:50 AM
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It's as simple as asking a question most times. Be at a club: "I can barely hear you, want to go somewhere a little quieter to talk?" House party: "I need some fresh air, want to join me on the deck?"
/r/seduction19/01/13 09:41 PM
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meh. Nofap is more of a placebo effect. It's kind of like if you make you started making your bed everyday- I have more discipline now! This translated to a life that is completely self fulfilling! and now get I more pussy than the ASPCA. Thanks /r/bedfolding !
/r/seduction12/01/13 01:40 PM
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I stopped trying to please everyone and started doing stuff for myself. Activities? Picked up golfing again/working out Started to approach women seriously for the first time Got really into my school studies Got really into student government I started living my life the exact way I wanted and I started waking up happier about my life every day, and that made all the difference from my confidence to becoming less outcome dependent.
/r/seduction28/12/12 05:50 AM
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Just in general. Statements rather than questions helps. Example: Question: What did you think about the movie? Her-It was good. Statement: I really thought the acting was fantastic in the movie! Her-Yeah, the part where he finally met his dad had me crying. If you start planning topics, it may start feeling like an interview. You can still arrive to the same point with questions, but I just personally find statements more effective in starting conversation.
/r/seduction22/12/12 07:44 PM
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It's achievable with baby steps. Talk to everyone. Cashiers, people in line, that acquaintance you only usually give the head nod to, random person at the bus stop. This gets you used to talking to strangers. Once comfortable just step it up. It's as simple as asking a question. Ask her to join you for a coffee, ask them for her for number, ask her if she'd like to come back to your place- each depends on the situation and report you built. Honestly, the walking over to a stranger and starting t…
/r/seduction21/12/12 02:52 AM
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There's no single right answer for this that is all encompassing. This may be very ambiguous, but be engaged and be in the moment. People like to think women are this different species but they're not, they want to find out just as much about you as you do about them.
/r/seduction19/12/12 04:33 AM
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Don't just focus on the actions, focus on what you're trying to improve in yourself. You shouldn't just focus on building a birdhouse, you should focus on your toolbox. You will improve this toolbox of skills probably if you meet your goals, but it's good to know what these are along the way. Looking at what you want to do, here are some likely themes: Conquer Approach Anxiety Lose outcome dependance Get better at Kino/Escalation Become a better you
/r/seduction19/12/12 04:27 AM
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This guy seems like a douche...just saying. Taking his advice could easily make you seem like a salesman. It's not that all the things in this video are bad, it just comes off bad...I was ready for him to break out the D.E.N.N.I.S. system.
/r/seduction19/12/12 04:17 AM
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Women shouldn't be the only thing you focus on when you go out. You should be going out to have fun. Women can be one of the many different byproducts of this fun. If you're so outcome dependent and focused on women the whole night, you probably won't have a lot of fun.
/r/seduction25/11/12 10:33 PM
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Her POV: Another person goes over to my table. Shit he better stop high fiving his friends I have 5 other tables to go to. "I'll have a beer, hun." Yeah sure whatever makes this go faster. Can't believe how swamped it is, I better get my tips. "We're having a firepit...what's your number?" This guy is half decent but I can't give my number out right now I have a lot of work. "Like I'd give my number to you :) ." Eh whatever, I give out my number like 5 times a week, anyway, maybe he'll come back…
/r/seduction25/11/12 10:27 PM
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Lol how does this have so many upvotes? I get what you're trying to say, but it's kind of silly. While you're at it, why don't you just get your wingman to slap you in the face right before you approach? You'll lose the 'flinch' that way too. If I can take a slap with confidence I can do anything! It's all placebo. If you think it'll work it probably will.
/r/seduction25/11/12 10:07 PM
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When she asks a question, respond with "guess it!" "What do you do for a living?" ->"guess!" "Umm accountant?" ->"Close, the correct answer is Astronaut Farmer." "Astronaut Farmer, huh?" -> "Yeah, you wouldn't believe how hard it is to harvest without rain...or soil...or an atmosphere." Make convos fun.
/r/seduction22/11/12 06:36 AM
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Don't go straight for getting laid, or even to hookup. Just try and talk to strangers...men and women. A lot of 'game' is simply just being able to talk to strangers and relating to them and doing it with confidence. Just start by getting comfortable and scale it up. Talk to the cashier Talk to someone when you're in a long line Heck, start by making really good eye contact with people walking by. Talk to that person you usually don't talk to at work/class. Just get comfortable and relaxing can …
/r/seduction22/11/12 06:27 AM
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It extends battery life!
/r/seduction05/11/12 05:27 PM
3

You don't need to be "the alpha" all the time. If you're always trying to put the last word in or one up jokes it can get pretty annoying and you can look like a douche. Most of the time, if you're having the most fun that night- you're excited, laughing, projecting, saying your stories, and not giving a fuck-everyone will be attracted to that and recognize that, both men and women. The whole alpha thing isn't set in stone, it can definitely fluctuate from night to night, even hour to hour. Stri…
/r/seduction20/10/12 06:59 PM
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Inner game has evolved really in the community as a whole, and it has shown in this subreddit. This sub caters from beginners and AFCs to experienced people who post FR regularly. A beginner might need a lot of work and would benefit most from the whole inner game deal. Then there's the experienced guys here who are only here for a few tips and all the inbetween. There is room for all to coexist.
/r/seduction19/08/12 06:48 AM
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Yeah for real. I'd wear something subtle- like the city's sports team jersey or a work related tshirt. After saying hi and small talk. She'll say something like:"You like the Phillies? No way me too." Second scenario: I wear say my orientation leader t-shirt. "You were an OL no way?!" Women can be bad at conversation too, even worse than men. Wearing something overt can give a good transition and tell them something about yourself. Anyways that's the way I would/have personally gone about it.
/r/seduction19/08/12 06:37 AM
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Don't act like a salesman trying to get something for her. Be happy before you talk to her, know that you'll be happy after talking to her.
/r/seduction09/07/12 05:03 PM
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As long as you both have fun, then do it and that applies to every type of date/hangout. Some of my best experiences are just sitting around talking over how crappy the FX movie we're watching is while eating popcorn.
/r/seduction09/07/12 05:01 PM
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Not 21 yet, but I'm gonna pull this out sometime if a girl is clearly just trying to get free alcohol: Her: "You want to buy me a drink?" Me: "Let's go to the bar." Me: "Barkeep two beers please" She goes to grab for the second one. Me: "Whoah who said you were getting any? I'm just really thirsty." walks away with both hilarious or dick move?
/r/seduction18/04/12 10:55 PM
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"I'm not gay, but my boyfriend is." Just play it off, you can't get rattled that easily
/r/seduction16/03/12 06:49 AM
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high fives/play stuff-> arm brush -> hand on lower back -> hand on thigh (sitting) -> arm link-> hold hand There are many opportunities to skip a few, this is just what a general progression may look like
/r/seduction16/03/12 06:46 AM
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I usually go for the cheek kiss first. If it goes bad you can easily recover. If it goes well (i.e. a smile, or she responds positively) its full steam ahead
/r/seduction10/01/12 09:49 PM
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Since it was my first time, it was really quick and I felt like the dog in the lab that has no idea what he's doing. Favorite part lol. Good job man, and I completely agree about just going for it before you have enough time to overthink it
/r/seduction02/01/12 06:07 AM
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WWJBD?
/r/seduction21/12/11 06:03 AM
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In your head you probably have a hesitation before you initiate contact ( I know I do). Just a simple hand hold becomes a big deal and you put things on their own pedestal. Well you've just got to force yourself to do it. It's the only way. That little feeling of hesitation when you think "is this a good idea?" is there and you have to do something with it. I try and embrace that feeling of nervousness, it's fun. At first it might come off awkward, but I assure you the more the you do it, the mo…
/r/seduction09/12/11 11:01 PM
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This was a question I was asking myself too a little while back, and I still do. This works for me a little, it might not for you or anyone else. But often I get a feeling of hesitation when I'm about to open up a little more, or say something that pushes the conversation. You have to embrace that, that is the good stuff right there, you want that, and you want to speak up when you feel that urge. (I may get a little side tracked with this but..) You fit in better when you don't ever push the en…
/r/seduction28/11/11 06:36 AM
0

How I felt benching Shonne Green yesterday
/r/seduction18/11/11 10:59 PM
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Hmm idk about the don't be sensitive part. If you mean don't be too reactionary then yes. Being open and meaningful with your beliefs and feelings when their questioned is a big thing to do.
/r/seduction06/10/11 05:04 AM
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Good icebreakers to start building a report I'd say. Just don't use these as a crutch.
/r/seduction20/08/11 11:56 PM
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Thumbs down? ARE YOU NOT ENTERTAINED?
/r/seduction15/08/11 10:21 PM
4

We sit down and sip the wine. I immediately move in for the make-out. BOOM. golf clap. No messing around about messing around.
/r/seduction06/08/11 07:44 AM
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I'll just ask what everyone is thinking. How are you making 70K at 19? For some advice, there's not going to be one perfect girl EVER. You will have to make compromises. Also don't get too frustrated, just go about your life and when you see women talk to them. Day game, man. The classic suggestions are bookstore, library, coffee shop, and there's no shame in the internet these days. My last suggestion is maybe look for a little bit more older (by like a few yrs) and mature women maybe?
/r/seduction02/08/11 08:04 AM
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Alright maybe I shouldn't of put that in there. It can be taken a lot of different ways. The article you just put mostly says that you need to improve and being a self entitled chump won't get you anywhere. I'm saying do improve yourself, and that's not easy If you're truely a fun and interesting person that makes the lives around him better, that's how you get women. You can't rely on woman for your happiness. A lot do, that's how they get put on pedestals. Hotter they are, more happy someone t…
/r/seduction31/07/11 08:23 PM
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The problem with interest is she doesn't know if you're really interested in her or pretending for sex; they may both look the same. Personally when I show interest I really am interested in more in most cases. Anyways in conversation keep going in further for more meaningful content, and if you can get to actual feelings and make a connection that's where it's at. Forget the pedestals for a second. Before you even walk into the place you have to know you're going to be happy walking out of the …
/r/seduction31/07/11 09:42 AM
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Just treat these women like other people. No need to go asshole, or jerk, no need to go AFC. Just be yourself and that's so cliche but really do it. Be the comfortable self you are with your friends. Say the same kind of jokes, be just as loud, corky, and interesting. Women don't go around thinking they're hot shit. If they do, why bother with them. Cause you want to get laid? Well getting laid isn't everything ya kno. They can tell what you want and a good portion can see through things. Lookin…
/r/seduction31/07/11 09:03 AM
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I really don't think you need it. Just say, "Hi what's your name," in a confident manner. This line could easily and probably will work. But there's still the chance of it sounding dumb if executed badly. I mean they're just words, they don't matter that much I say you don't need all these fancy things to open girls. Hi works most of the time and do simple observations. But that's just me...
/r/seduction31/07/11 08:32 AM
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The AFC gives not for the sake of giving, adding value, or making someone else's life better. They do it for themselves moreover, defeating the purpose of giving in the first place.
/r/seduction26/07/11 10:55 PM
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Wear it for hygiene It smells good! Ladies will compliment if you're close to each other
/r/seduction26/05/11 06:45 AM
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This
/r/seduction19/05/11 03:49 AM
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