pkuforlife Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
204	Wha can I do? Why don’t you just stop focusing on woman and focus on getting strong and rich for like a year? Pour all the energy into yourself and tell yourself you are not going to focus on woman, because it’s been energy draining and fruitless for you for 1 year. Only after a year of only focusing on being strong and rich you’re allowed to talk to woman. See how that works out for you.	/r/seduction	05/10/22 06:19 PM
0	Therapist told me: there's no timeline and there's nothing wrong with admitting im a virgin while dating... Thoughts? [28M] Read Models: How to attract woman through Honesty by Mark Manson. Trust me, it’s exactly what you need.	/r/seduction	22/02/22 12:15 AM
1	[deleted by user] Read models by mark Manson. I was a virgin at 20 years old. I was honest about it. Lost it at 21 by following its teachings.	/r/seduction	02/02/22 03:24 AM
108	[deleted by user] “Do you want to hookup?” 😂 bro you must be like hella good looking for that to work.	/r/seduction	02/11/21 03:10 AM
1	I feel like i cant be sexy Being handsome only gets you in the door. Confidence, swag, and just being a cool dude will get you pussy. So yeah if you’re ugly, you’ll just have to work on your body and charisma more than the average bear. It’s out of your control so why worry about it. It can be your biggest advantage because you will have to rely on your game/charisma more ultimately making you better at those things than guys that don’t have to do that. And you’ll be a more viable long term partner for woman because looks…	/r/seduction	27/10/21 07:12 PM
0	[deleted by user] Do it. I personally would have tried to have had sex with her and really have a good time to know I’m extremely sexually compatible before dropping 2K but atleast you already fucked once so she won’t just stop fucking you on the trip. Also, how much do you make annually? Why do you care about 2K. It’s nothing bro for a 45+ year old I would assume😎	/r/seduction	27/10/21 07:05 PM
2	The results of not pulling back (she ghosted me) Did you actually genuinely feel like you “love her” and so blurred it out as well? If so, what’s wrong with that? - You mentioned at the end of the day you don’t want to play the field forever and if she was the right girl, she would have been ecstatic about it instead of treat you like crap. Based on what you’ve told us, she’s the typical hot girl that’s always had attention from good looking guys, so it ended up turning her off when you said that. A good girl would have been extremely excited …	/r/seduction	26/10/21 06:12 PM
1	[deleted by user] Get rid of her ASAP. A girl that says “gimme gimme attention” that is such a turn off. Raise your standards bro. (Im half teasing you on this 😈) But if you really like her, you haven’t “fucked up” but you gotta stop being the funny/entertaining guy and be the dominant seductive guy too. Set the date, tell her what you’re going to do and lead.	/r/seduction	26/10/21 06:39 AM
0	How to confirm a date without sounding needy Hi <girl I’m trying to fuck>, I would LOVE to see you <place and time> like we talked about, but haven’t heard from you so just let me know so I can plan out my day.	/r/seduction	26/10/21 04:27 AM
0	Had sex on the 3rd date, she's gone cold and flakey First thing that comes to mind - if you’re being 100% transparent here, how’s your sex game? 🤣	/r/seduction	18/10/21 06:43 AM
2	[deleted by user] I gotcha. Man, tbh if I were you - I’d not give a single fuck about the hairline and drop the finasteride. Dude you’re 6’4 and decently built. You don’t need hair. You need balls. Start lifting heavy, get good at something! Anything to build your confidence and then start approaching woman! It’s all in your head right now.	/r/seduction	13/10/21 07:49 PM
1	[deleted by user] Drop the finasteride. That shit will fuck with your DHT levels man. Or at the very least get a physical done to make sure your levels are normal if you’re going tor continue using it. I’ve heard of some horror stories of long term impotence after using it but hey everyone’s different and you might not have that issue. I just don’t want this to hinder your progress in the dating world.	/r/seduction	13/10/21 07:39 PM
3	Girl wants me to approach at gym but I don’t know how?! It’s normal. Just practice approaching on some girls that aren’t as attractive and you’ll be all good.	/r/seduction	12/10/21 06:35 AM
1	How do you break up with someone? How often would you guys see each other or be intimate with each other during these 4 months? Trying to get an idea of how serious this was.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/10/21 05:37 AM
2	[deleted by user] I mean I get what you’re doing but like that other guy said, make sure it’s the right girl. Can’t turn a ho into a housewife if she’s just looking for casual sex it’s kinda dumb to try to get into a relationship with her cause chances are she wasn’t into it like you were in the first place and just wanted sex. You either just smash and find another better girl to get into a relationship with or if you really have that strong of a boundary just leave. (Like you did) but then communicate with her …	/r/seduction	01/10/21 01:41 AM
2	Cold approach DAYGAME is addictive You’ve been cold approaching for 4 years? How many total approaches/conversations did you start in that much time?	/r/seduction	11/09/21 08:04 AM
8	How is any of this supposed to work if you don't have any women interested in you to begin with? Lol. do you live in a small village or something? Literally anywhere - Grocery stores, malls, parks, gyms, coffee shops to name a few. When was the last time you asked a woman out?	/r/seduction	03/09/21 04:12 AM
14	How is any of this supposed to work if you don't have any women interested in you to begin with? You’re literally rejecting yourself before the woman reject you. Have you ever heard the saying “Don’t reject yourself before the market does?” Stop worrying about things that aren’t in your control. Go out and approach 3-4 woman atleast 3X a week. And then tell us they’re not interested. You gotta atleast do something before you start complaining. Not trying to be harsh - I really just want to get through to you. Your mindset is holding you back.	/r/seduction	03/09/21 04:05 AM
20	How is any of this supposed to work if you don't have any women interested in you to begin with? I gotcha. Honestly judging from your posts and comments, you just seem very passive about dating. Unfortunately as guys, we have to take MASSIVE action to get ANY woman interested at all. Based on your stats and hobbies - that all seems pretty normal/average. You just need to actually get better at communication with woman and taking action. Stop waiting for woman to show interest in you and start showing your interest to woman. That would be the first step.	/r/seduction	03/09/21 03:39 AM
8	How is any of this supposed to work if you don't have any women interested in you to begin with? Tell us more bro. Open up a little more and maybe we can help you better. For starters, just start with your hobbies, career, and passions and maybe your height and fitness level.	/r/seduction	03/09/21 02:58 AM
2	How to permanently take girls off the pedestal Oooh that’s harsh bro 🤣	/r/seduction	03/09/21 02:56 AM
24	Reddit is anonymous, so no need to lie: be honest and tell me. How old are you? How many girls have you had sex with/dated through cold approach? In what time span? And how attractive do people consider you? Just turned 30. 10 woman. 25-35 kissed. 4 relationships.	/r/seduction	01/09/21 04:52 AM
1	I just went on 10 dates in 10 consecutive days. Here's what I learned. Makes sense. I don’t think there’s necessarily a perfect science to it. I think a lot of times you can kiss on the date itself and still bring the girl back over to your place. It just depends on the vibe. I just had a date where I royally fucked up. Had great conversation - got real deep about career and relationships and even held her hand walking her to her car but I got in my head whether to go for the kiss or not - which I didn’t end up doing and then forgot to even ask her to come thru to …	/r/seduction	30/08/21 01:26 AM
1	I just went on 10 dates in 10 consecutive days. Here's what I learned. Thanks. So I’ve got another question - usually on a date I’ll go in for a kiss at some point during the date (usually after an hour or two in and I’m vibing with the girl) and usually get the make out but then face further resistance when trying to bring them home. It seems like you don’t actually go for the kiss/make out till AFTER they agree to come home with you. Do you have any thoughts on this and if it’s better to only kiss once they’re back at your place? I almost feel like if I go for th…	/r/seduction	27/08/21 10:59 PM
1	I just went on 10 dates in 10 consecutive days. Here's what I learned. Seems like you have 0 problems bringing girls back over after a drink or meet up. What have you found to be the easiest transition to getting a girl back home or to hers after the meet up?	/r/seduction	27/08/21 07:00 PM
1	I missed out on my teens, and I fear my 20s will be the same. Advice? I just turned 30 years old. Lost my virginity at 20, entered 4-5 relationships and I’ve been with a total of 12-15 woman. It’s not much to the “players” but I’m extremely proud of myself for taking the initiative to improve my dating life. I’ve done most of all the drugs I ever wanted and partied pretty ridiculously and even blacked out drunk multiple times. You can have it all. The question is: Will you keep wallowing in your self pity or choose to actually do something about it. Your choice ki…	/r/seduction	29/07/21 04:48 AM
2	is it too late for me ? Do 2,3,4 not 1. Limiting masterbation will increase your libido and energy levels. Talking with people will allow you to get comfortable being social. It’s a cycle. Once you get a small taste of success, you won’t ever want to go back.	/r/seduction	02/07/21 11:09 AM
6	is it too late for me ? Quit porn starting NOW. Stop touching your dick. You can masterbate once a week WITHOUT PORN. Be social. Talk to EVERYONE. Start by saying hello to the cashier when you’re running errands. Talk to average looking girls. Build confidence that girls are just humans and it’s not a big deal. Dude. You’re 6’2 handsome and have a good body? You neeed to dial this in so you can slay some tail. PM me if you want.	/r/seduction	02/07/21 02:29 AM
2	Leaves me on open, matches with me on Tinder? She’s into you but you gotta lead bro. Ask her to come hangout at your place. Make up some reason that’s cool and be super chill about it - if she’s hesitant ask her for a super low key date like coffee or walk in the park and then bring her back to your place and smash	/r/seduction	09/06/21 05:45 AM
8	For those who have had some success, try this *Don't Get The Number when you're out. I like this message. Takes me back to the time I met my first real girlfriend. Believe it or not, it was a nightclub and all I did was literally try to simply have fun the whole time with her and everyone else. 2 hours into it she straight up asked ME for the number. I was thoroughly inebriated and couldn’t even handle my liquor at that point but yeah anyways it’s a strong reminder to just have amazing energy and positive vibes and enjoy the ride. If the girl likes you she’ll let you know by sti…	/r/seduction	02/04/21 10:19 PM
4	I got my shit together, but I'm not in the mood. Ofcourse dude! I have a similar story. From 25-28 all I did was focus on myself. No girlfriends, little to no hooksups. I was grinding on my own startup, hitting the gym and learning business. and it’s finally paying off. Now, I work for myself and have more time to date and work on attraction and having fun. Over the last year I’ve cold approached nearly a hundred woman and learned a lot. I was 28 when I started and now 29, and still want to experience more hookups before I settle down. I know …	/r/seduction	09/12/20 08:45 PM
1	I got my shit together, but I'm not in the mood. I don’t think you’ve figured out what you really want for yourself. As you get older, your priorities will change. Just like you - I’m in my late 20s and even though I’ve had plenty of girlfriends before I never immersed myself into hookup culture and so I’m focusing on that and it’s been a lotta fun. Figure out what you want and then chase it. Your age has little to do with it. It’s all about your values and priorities.	/r/seduction	09/12/20 08:13 PM
1	Idiotic Missed Opportunity Yo my dude - like man this happens to like almost every guy right no matter white numb I don’t care how much of a natural you are you get way too much in your hair whenever it’s a pretty girl but like you have to get in the frame of like you know like instead of saying a tractive not attractive you don’t get into the frame of like one or zero meaning one is a girl that you find attractive so you’re just gonna push like you would any other fucking girl right and if it’s a zero then you’re not gon…	/r/seduction	09/12/20 04:12 AM
1	Should I tell her I am a virgin Nah just be honest. The only time you need to tell her you’re a virgin is when you’re in bed together and you’re nervous af and can’t get it up. Think about what a confident dude means. He’s a dude that’s unbothered by others opinion of his virginity. He’s someone who respects himself and carries himself well. He’s someone that’s honest and expresses himself. No need to tel her you’re a virgin but if it comes up before sex - be confident, and tell her. The right girl will want to bang you MORE	/r/seduction	03/12/20 10:19 PM
9	How to get a guy interested at the gym? I think that’s perfect right there. Asking someone a question like that is the perfect ice-breaker. Who doesn’t like being complicated? Be confident, look him in the eye and tell him you admire his dedication to the gym and you just wanted to introduce yourself.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/10/20 05:44 PM
1	Here's the god honest way to stop being needy and have girls chasing you Hmm. Honestly, I think it’s more about the individual. My personality is such that I actually prefer this method because i find it more efficient and I’m past the point where I want an “awesome social circle” There are a lot of guys that want the social circle thing and want to have lots of friends and parties every week. If you’re that type of guy - by all means figure out the social circle dynamics. If you’re just trying to get laid, I’d recommend getting VERY comfortable with approaching quic…	/r/seduction	25/09/20 03:15 PM
21	Here's the god honest way to stop being needy and have girls chasing you Alright men - if you’re a total beginner and are just looking to shag, even though this dudes advice is great - you don’t need all this social circle stuff Here’s what I do - Cold approach whenever I’m out and about doing regular errands - grocery store, pharmacy, picking up food from a resteraunt, working out at the park. THATS IT! I already have a busy life doing normal shit and working on my own business. Get these woman out on dates, be direct, bring them back to your place and close the dea…	/r/seduction	25/09/20 04:21 AM
2	Girl coming over Alright my dude, the hard part is over. The fact that she’s coming over means she is VERY interested in the possibility of a sexual scenario. Don’t second guess yourself. Know in your head that you’re going to push sex, that’s all you can control. Whether she says yes or no is irrelevant. If you pushed for sex, you did your part as the dude who’s being a dude. If she responds, skillfully move forward - if she doesn’t be super relaxed about it. It will show her you’re not desperate or needy and s…	/r/seduction	30/07/20 09:09 PM