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I would have have guessed anxiety stems from being anxious , but would do I know 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/25 06:27 PM
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If someones attracted to U theres no such thing as being "too tired"
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/25 06:24 PM
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No need to hate her , that's a level we don't want to be at being gentlem, right? It's totally normal for you not wanting to believe ur girl is sharing a bed with another man, I been there myself - it's not like I say that to hurt u .... I know how painful it is having to accept that, my only intention is to share my experience and if possible save you from more pain than your already going through...hoping I'm wrong. Simple & plain = without respect there can be no love Tell me: do you feel she…
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/25 05:58 PM
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I can't read all that right now bro, sorry... To answer your question/first sentence: there always is!
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/25 09:08 PM
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Right... That's stupid, I bet you your wife already has an attorney
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/25 12:20 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/25 12:18 AM
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For real... I'd call myself quite a freak in bed but who the fuck gets off on pictures of his wife being fucked by some random dudes...wtf
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/25 12:18 AM
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After suffering for 8-10 months I realized that the woman I love, my soulmate, my partner/lover for 10years, the person I would have died for without hesitation, my wife and mother of my son doesn't exist anymore and she will never come back... I look deep in her eyes and I see a stranger, a person I don't know.... It's like my wife disappeared or died... I'm still suffering, I can't get my life right, I am scared, crying, can't eat right ect ect I would do most anything to get back my wife but …
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/25 09:28 PM
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Thank you...if I wouldn't have a person to talk to i'd be either dead or insane. This needs to stop, these women really want to kill us.. Wtf...
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/25 01:34 AM
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I feel ur pain... Please stay strong and don't let her bullshit get to you. Stay strong💪 u got this brother
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/25 01:32 AM
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Listen my man... I read the whole post twice and I can tell u - you are not at fault here - you did mistakes, just like your ex did.. It's always 2 in a marriage Please don't take following personal or get offended she most likely cheated on you already she has already left you a long time ago (emotionally) she doesn't love, respect or feel attracted to you anymore she won't come back to you Prepare for the worst, keep records of everything you find out (f.e. the Google searches), check your fin…
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/25 01:22 AM
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What you are experiencing is probably a PTSD... Post traumatic stress disorder. Go see a doctor and explain to him. These women just don't seem to understand what they are doing to their ex husbands, who they once claimed to love, as well as the traumas they inflict on the kid(s)... Stay strong💪 u got this king 👑
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/25 01:11 AM
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Solid advice... Thank you 🙏🏼
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/25 04:15 PM
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You stupid or something?
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/25 09:26 PM
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Stay strong and keep pushin King 💪🏼
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/25 09:25 PM
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This is a real man speaking right here 💪🏼 stay strong and keep going, your daughter loves & needs you, just as you need her - probably more so U got this KING 👑
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/25 09:24 PM
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You're totally right my friend.... Going through similar btw, been almost a year and while like 8-10 months ago i felt like I was dying for weeks I'm better now but still less than 50% "myself". I hope you will be better soon and will be able to leave the trauma behind and write a new chapter... full of love, happiness and companionship 🙏🏻 Stay strong 💪🏼💪🏼 u got this
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/25 09:21 PM
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/r/Divorce_Men28/07/25 01:37 PM
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You're just a stopgap until she finds someone else... You'll regret every minute you spend with her now. ...I hope I'm wrong, but please be careful
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/25 07:32 AM
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It's a bit difficult when his wife wants to prevent him from seeing the children... Such women don't even realize what they are doing to their children when they take their father away. In my opinion this is child abuse and they should be brought to justice for it. My ex wanted to move out and went to my son and told him: "start packing, dad doesn't like us anymore and is throwing us out"... 😕
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/25 07:24 AM
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Regarding your question “how to deal with the fact that she is moving forward and you are in a transition phase”: Believe me, she's not making any progress, jumping into a new relationship immediately after a breakup is the stupidest thing you can do (rebound relationship) and just shows how incapable these women are of admitting their own mistakes and working on themselves. The path you are taking is the right one, even if it hurts, it is important to process the marriage/divorce and in the end…
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/25 07:15 AM
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, 💪🏼💪🏼
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/25 06:44 AM
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I'm struggling with the current situation myself... after 10 years, my wife fell into the arms of the first guy who helped with the move out and the two have been in a "relationship" ever since, the move out was almost a year ago. I only found out about it later; after she moved out, we tried to get together again until she told me that she had a boyfriend and couldn't decide between us. That was the point at which I realized that it was no longer my wife in front of me, but a psychopath.... Our…
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/25 06:23 AM
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💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/25 06:02 AM
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💪🏼💪🏼
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 10:29 PM
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Exactly
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 10:29 PM
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I'm sorry for you... You deserve much better, remember you're the one suffering, not her... And does she care? No, right? ...Unfortunately your love has died, get over it as quickly as you can, she won't come back, sorry to tell you like that.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 08:44 PM
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It's no longer your problem what she has or doesn't have... She has chosen it and is responsible for her decisions. You are separated, you are no longer a couple...
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 08:40 PM
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I know that in a similar way, it's just so fucking hurtful... Hope you're feeling better now
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 08:38 PM
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Correct, once she has decided to leave there is no going back, you can do whatever you want...
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 08:36 PM
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Let it go but keep your big heart, it will hurt but you will grow from it in the end. .. Stay strong 💪🏼
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 08:35 PM
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That would be really funny if it weren't so sad. Stay true to yourself and all the best 💪🏼
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 08:33 PM
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My friend, definitely a lot of men experience a traumatizing divorce, you are definitely not alone. I'm going through the same thing, separation almost a year ago and it's getting better although I still have moments or days where it's not like that. I'm also behind the fact that you only think about her, pursue her, etc... You have to understand that for us men, divorces are often traumatic experiences. It's best to get professional help from a therapist, e.g. b. Sorry to say it but your ex wif…
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 08:26 PM
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Not with me either, because she knew that she would lose out... But she knew exactly how to manipulate me without that.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 08:15 PM
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They're really putting us through hell and if they told you how many men divorce is traumatizing, they probably wouldn't care at all... Congratulations on the shared custody, well done - it means the world to your kids as well as to you, right? We men keep our word, we protect our family/children and take responsibility 💪🏼💪🏼
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 08:12 PM
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True words, and the most blatant thing is that these women don't give a shit how much they harm their own child (imagine you are one of the sudden breakup of your family, your everyday life and you don't understand what is happening... You feel confusion, fear, sadness, anger etc and then your mother tells you that your dad doesn't want anything to do with you anymore, takes you away from your usual surroundings and you are no longer allowed to see your dad, you miss him because he loves you so …
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 08:04 PM
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To the point! They wouldn't even go to your funeral if you died, wouldn't even shed a tear...
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 02:46 PM
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Ok I understand, but I think that staying abroad distracts you a bit from everything... I would wish that for you 🙏🏻
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 01:31 PM
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Try using a dating app... They're actually not that bad...
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 01:33 AM
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Surely we can do it, my friend... We are honest with ourselves, regret our mistakes and miss.... I think a lot of women could learn something from that
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 01:31 AM
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All the best and lots of strength
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 01:28 AM
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When I saw the guy who was now fucking my ex I thought to myself... Wtf what has become of my wife, how low can you sink 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 01:25 AM
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True words 🙏🏻
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 01:23 AM
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Same here.... At 1.90cm, I lost weight to less than 60kg because I couldn't eat; before I was always around 90kg. It's been almost a year now and I'm feeling better, although there are always days when it's not like that... I wish you lots of strength and all the best for the future...
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 01:22 AM
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I feel for you and am going through the same thing but have been separated for almost a year and am doing better. You have to understand that we men suffer differently in a divorce, women separate and get married while they are still living with you and usually keep "a facade" up... For us it is usually much more unexpected and we don't understand how our wife can hate us from one day to the next... Family, loyalty and keeping our word are also very important to us... Which is why we like to bla…
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 01:16 AM
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I'm happy for you both, enjoy your time together - so many years have been taken away from you... I don't know if he's telling you this or showing it, but I guarantee you that your father is the happiest man in the world since he has his daughter around him again ☺
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 12:41 AM
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Exactly that!! I'm glad you recognized that, my ex does that to our 13 year old too... I've never said a bad word about her in front of him... That's really sad, it breaks my heart and I blame myself so much... The fact that you make sure you don't talk badly about his dad in front of your child and vice versa shows that your heart is in the right place, stay as you are and all the best 😃
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 12:36 AM
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I'm glad you realized what your mother does, my ex does it with our son too and I can't understand it... Don't you realize how much pain you're hurting your child when you tell him "Dad doesn't like you anymore" or "Dad doesn't want to spend time with you".... I'm an adult, I know what's true and what's not and I don't give a shit about what she says, but our son is 13 - I would give anything to relieve him of the burden he has to carry through the separation and my ex doesn't give a shit Fuck h…
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 12:28 AM
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Well said sir
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/25 07:33 PM
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I felt the same way as you, I was even used by my father to ask my mom if he wouldn't get another chance, etc. Really bad... The fact that my son has to experience this (i.e. not identically), the fear, the confusion, the lack of understanding, etc., it breaks my heart. I would give everything to take this burden off of him. It's just a tragedy such a divorce 😔
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/25 07:32 PM
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Exactly... You're doing everything right, don't stoop to her level
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/25 07:27 PM
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I understand you, I'm more or less in the middle of this kind of shit and the fact that the person you shared everything with etc hurts you on purpose, that hurts like shit... I'm glad you're over it, keep shinin king 💪🏼💪🏼
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/25 07:25 PM
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Right... And I think that's sometimes the worst thing about a separation, because for us it just happens from one day to the next... But then your wife doesn't care about that anymore
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/25 07:21 PM
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Correct sir, may my ex live the life she deserves.... 💪🏼
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/25 07:18 PM
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Glad to hear this... Thanks for your support
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/25 12:53 AM
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Glad to hear this... Thanks for your support
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/25 12:53 AM
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Hardest part for me was (& from time to time still is) the feeling to have abandoned my wife & son, even though promising otherwise as well as feeling guilty of not caring for them anymore. It's my ex who doesn't want me in her and our sons life anymore and replaced me with some random dude, but I just can't shake these feelings off despite knowing they're "wrong".
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/25 11:40 PM
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Correct 💪🏼
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/25 11:26 PM
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You, my man, are not trash! Don't let them trick u into thinking that... That's exactly where they want you to be. You wanted to care for your wife & children, even if it meant sacrificing your own self for it. You are the blueprint of a real man, a real father, a real husband. Stay strong my friend... U r not alone...
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/25 11:25 PM
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I am going through similar... You be sure to know that a) you are not alone in what you feel & experience b) you will feel better, a lot better eventually c) keep ur head up, stay strong - u r being loved Keep pursuing your dreams and be all u can be 💪🏼
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/25 11:14 PM
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I am going through similar and its hell on earth.... Wishing u nothing but the best and hopefully you will find a partner which really and truly recognizes, accepts, respects and loves you in the way you deserve it.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/25 11:08 PM
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Thank you for sharing your view on this topic 🙏🏻
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/25 10:58 PM
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