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"Watch what they do, not what they say" used to be the going Red Pill mantra.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:53 PM
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Yes great idea. Instead of using entertaining tech as something to joke about WITH women and enjoy WITH them, make sure to use it as a cudgel to remind women how their harmless enjoyment is invalid. I don't really care what you find legitimate gaming or not but comments like this might be why some guys can't connect with women in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:37 PM
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I mean... Covid! But kiddo is due in December so PPD did manage to bring SOME kinda good into the world, hopefully lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 01:50 PM
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I'm 5'10 and built like Cara Dune. And I was in the army. People are actively surprised when I say I'm a straight woman who likes the color pink; I'm glad I'm off the market now because I ain't gonna lie, it was sometimes really hard to attract male interest, even stepping up the femininity. Gina Carano isn't exactly at the top of everyone's list to play the lead in a romantic chick flick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 07:07 PM
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There's all types. I'm half-considering going back in for a specific technical job, and you can't even apply for some without a college degree and exceptionally high test scores.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 10:11 PM
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my sister is literally batshit insane and I have to hire my own lawyer. So the adventures in parental death continue Hoboy... Care to fill me in on the details? Always happy to commiserate over crazy family lol. Also, I saw on FB about your dad. I'm sorry, babe--i know you loved him dearly. If there's anything I can offer or do as an internet friend several hundred miles away, let me know. Helluva year.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 01:13 PM
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Can you expand on that a bit as far as why it was ok for one gender to "date outside" and not the other? It's something I've always found fascinating and never really understood. My sister lived in Alabama for about a year and dated a light-skined AA man, and said the opinions they faced were largely hatred from black women and white men. I grew up in the whitest part of America and haven't really ever dated outside it mostly just due to availability, but the intersection of race and relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:49 PM
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With all due respect, I have no interest in the sub as it currently stands. There is no standard for discussion to the extent that it's literally people screaming at each other over a void and insisting they're right and the other person is evil and/or insane. There are no rules in place which can be applied to the QUALITY of conversation, only the CIVILITY, and as long as that is the case I would rather not take part in nor moderate discussions of that nature. Thank you for the nomination but I…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 05:41 PM
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Growing up, most people had their first relationship when they were 15, and had sex by the time they were finished highschool. Unless you were in an exceptionally overly sexually active high school, or grew up in I can almost guarantee you this is not the case. This is the perspective built from watching movies painting high school as a drunken orgy, not reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 05:44 PM
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You just want to be able to do whatever you want with zero risks. No, you do. Even getting married and having kids carries risks for women. They generally come out the other end making less and having worse retirement, even when the man is loyal and stays with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 03:10 PM
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In your scenario, men risk basically nothing while women risk even more than men who do get married. Statistically women don't get huge payouts after divorce, they end up poorer than their husbands and with reduced job opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 01:24 PM
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YOU, as a woman need that in case you want to ditch your husband for whatever reason and still benefit financially from having his children Or in case he wants to ditch me and run off and leave me to raise his kids on my own. Which A LOT OF MEN DO. This isn't rocket science. You're asking women to care about men's issues A TON when you obviously don't about them. Pure projection Ok. So is the idea that women just marry for divorce rape. It's not backed up by stats. The average child support paym…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 01:20 PM
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But the premise they have to get married or else the man will run away is idiotic and cruel. You don't want someone being with you because you locked them financially thanks to an unfair contract. No, it's statistically accurate! Maybe not in whatever country you're from, but in the US men don't even fight for custody most of the time. They're happy to dump their kids with the woman and go start a new family. Men ARE idiotic and cruel, just as much as women. To not see that is denial
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 01:11 PM
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Through this whole comment, OP tells women over and over again if they're a "good woman' they won't ask for marriage. I dunno what you're reading but he's said it like 12 times
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 01:09 PM
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Thanks for at least being willing to recognize the opposing viewpoint. I generally tend to think you present your thoughts like a bit of an asshole, but you're doing miles better than OP, not that it's a particularly high bar this time around...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 07:52 AM
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Look at you avoiding all the real comments with statistics that show it's not sunshine and roses for women and they have very real reasons for seeking stability when it comes to raising kids and family. Statistics on women more likely to be poor after divorce? Women more likely to take more care of the kids? Women more likely to struggle with just about everything after? Yeah you've got nothing to fight that with and you know it. It's almost like there's PRACTICAL LOGICAL REASONS women look for …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 07:50 AM
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Marriage is unfavorable and illogical for men and therefore, if you respect yourself, you should avoid it. Ok. Children without marriage is unfavorable and illogical for women and therefore, if you respect yourself, you should avoid men who ask it of you. If your woman threatens to leave if you don't marry her, she is simply more interested in guaranteeing her future at your expenses instead of sharing a life of adventures and love with you. If your man never proposes, he's more interested in se…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 07:42 AM
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Yes. Most women would, because those those men often turn out to be liars and cheaters just like the rest of them. Women are not idiots, we see other single moms left to struggle by men who insisted they'd take care of them. But you won't respond to this one because you have no argument for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 07:33 AM
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Since it's top comment for a reason, can we leave this up even though it's from a guy, mods? I'd have said the same thing but he beat me to it. My vote is for a one-time exception here on the Q4WOMEN/MEN rule. But, to Maecenas13, maybe do keep an eye on that in the future; generally it's a pretty strongly-enforced rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 11:39 PM
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If women want men to marry them, maybe they should rally the streets and demand equal rights in divorce. Sure, like demanding he be the one to take off work for sick kids, be the primary homemaker, etc. I swear you guys act like there haven't been HUNDREDS of studies by dozens of different organizations that almost all conclude women put in more unpaid hours taking care of their families, to the detriment of their careers. Marriage doesn't add anything to the relationship. Personal opinion. f a …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 11:26 PM
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I think you're missing the point about how UNFAVORABLE being a single mom is because dad decided to cut and run when he found a new hottie. Statistically speaking, divorced dads have it tens of times better than single never married moms in basically every metric. You're basically saying "I refuse to risk 15 shmeckles for you, but I also demand you risk 150 schmeckles for me."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 10:45 PM
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Please point out exactly where I personally attacked you. I refused to validate your ludicrous idea for what's a reasonable combination of expectations from women. That's not attacking you. You can chase whatever you want. Your odds of finding it though are slim in this case, and you're not going to get women en masse to agree with you because you write off all their reasons as illogical. Here's a bit of advice. Just because someone's priorities are not the same as yours does not mean they're il…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 10:25 PM
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Literally no one here cares if you get married, dude. Do or don't, whatever floats your boat. This hard line stance will make finding a "good woman" to bear your children and have a family with a helluva lot harder though--most of those good women would refuse without marriage. That's just the reality of life. What you're not going to do is convince the women here it's a good choice for them. So stop trying to get their approval, which is basically what this post is. They're not your girlfriend,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 09:30 PM
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Yes. It shows understanding of reality and experience. You are undoubtedly smart, there's no denying you're educated and effectively communicate your points, whatever your background (I haven't looked at your comment history), but I only now realized you fall into the same trap a lot of younger TRPs do. You read field reports and horror stories about women and you think that's the average. Your AWALT barometer is skewed towards the "these shitty women always win" side of things. You see Jeff Bez…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 01:28 PM
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What do you think these rewards look like? Real question. Actual dollar amounts and realistic results.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 01:04 PM
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The disagreement from men's side isn't that men don't have a violent nature,but that we are very good at controlling it.Rapists make up something like 1% of the population.Most men aren't criminals. ... And? Many women here don't necessarily take issue with the fact that women look for resources, but with the idea that all women only marry for money. Most women don't divorce-rape. Is that even an argument?We shouldn't be treated equally because our ancestors used to mistreat you? No, that's not …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:06 PM
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Men everywhere and here admit that male nature has a violent and ugly side. I suggest you search this sub for relevant threads. Many of the men who consistently remark on the evils of female nature resort to pearl clutching and horror when it's suggested that men at large have base drives which may be violent or cruel or include the idea of women (and their sexual offerings) as disposable. Problem is that while male nature is suppressed by society ,female nature .On the contrary following that d…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 01:14 PM
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Cherry picking and inferring data from selective or incomplete sources reinforces my statements, you understand that, correct? Assuming 1) all divorce is simply a resource grab by women and 2) women are the root cause of all divorce, as you seem to casually imply with this comment, when the data from most sources does not actually support that idea, is cheap and intellectually dishonest. But if women are a convenient Boogeyman for you, I will not stop you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:58 AM
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Then we're in agreement it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 04:07 AM
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No. It says they are selfish and have the tendency to be lazy, and that their base nature is exploitative because they are human and aggressive because they are men. Individuals may have the capabilities of being truly awful but only the most crazy feminist rags say they are en total evil, and most normal people have the presence of mind to ignore them. Regardless, the ideology is inconsistent as with most types of extremism. The evil named "women" in this case are amorphous, to be used as victi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 03:16 AM
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I don't know that anybody wants any of it to be true. And, truth be told, I don't even disagree with a lot of the stuff TRP says about women. What I disagree with is when some of them say most men are any better. They're not. The older and more traditional RP views understood this. Male sexual nature is predatory, exploitative, and aggressive at its most primal. Just as every woman is Schrodinger's spermjacker or DivorceRaper, so every man is Schrodinger's rapist or violent abuser. If man can ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 09:20 PM
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Yeah. He started watching more and weirder porn and stopped putting any effort into the relationship at all. This one's on him. I left him after almost 6y when he wouldn't address any of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 02:40 PM
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When I look at photos of couples where the woman is taller, I get a strong BDE vibe from the dude. Like he gives no fucks what anybody else thinks of his woman. It's not the same with any other "mismatched" pairing, it's just a taller-woman, shorter-guy vibe. I can't put my finger on exactly why.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 04:39 PM
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Many TRPs like to rail on marriage for being a challenging and dangerous risk with harsh exit penalties. The flippancy of your comment suggests exactly the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 10:21 PM
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Either divorce is easy so marriage is cheap and easy to get into and out of, or it's a financial and legal commitment that is logistically much more hardy. Pick your definition already.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 09:41 PM
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According to the redpill (and GYOW), marriage is a mistake. The typical & majority advice on these subs too is to just not do LTRs at all, so you're already breaking that. At the same time I rarely see long-term relationships that don't end up in a marriage. Because the rest of the world, as well as TRP/GYOW, correctly recognizes that ambiguous "LTRs" are not meant to be permanent. They're there because they're transitory. It sounds like you want full commitment with this chick, but you're scare…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 06:22 PM
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Stop with the catastrophizing. SOME women weaponize kids. But it's not a majority and not even enough to be considered an AWALT trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 12:55 PM
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I don't think the subreddit is actually doing much for it. You can't point to single or divorce statistics and say the subreddit is really the cause of all of it. Most people, even men who prefer the single life, would take one skim through that Reddit and write them all off as weirdos and loons.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 03:33 PM
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This I would respect and applaud. Find your bliss, chase your dreams, etc, but nobody needs to hear about your life-changing religion, drastic diet, or MLM scheme. It be like dat sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 01:25 AM
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Pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 01:21 AM
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I'd be happy with being a better breeder if we had better plow horses. But the plow horses stopped taking care of their breeders right around the time burning witches at the stake was popular, so I figure it's about time we get to do what we want, too. Shrugs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 11:01 PM
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My ex's mom had early onset Alzheimer's and was in a facility by the time he was in junior high. It was wicked expensive and their family had to downsize just to pay for their mom's care. His dad could've legally divorced her and the state would've taken over, but he would've lost a say in how she was cared for. She died when we were in college. His dad had a lot of anger issues but he was loyal to her. I still think for practical reasons he could've divorced her and still been a good husband, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 06:57 PM
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I applaud you for announcing your less than average dick size so casually. #sobrave. 😉😝
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 04:58 PM
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Eh, I don't disagree with a lot of what JP puts out, but I also think he can be overly optimistic on the expected results of his societal recommendations. Plus the whole "misgendering" discussion he got wrapped up in a few years back; I totally get his side but to adhere to it so rigidly just makes him look like a dick. If somebody wants to go by certain pronouns, as long as they're not militantly sensitive about it I'll try to accommodate because I'm not an asshole, even if I think it's kinda s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 04:57 PM
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Classism will be even more influenced by money and family. Sales and advertising industries will be turned on their head. People will be kinder on average; the average woman will be approached less (but still enough) and infidelity by men will be less common. Porn will become less popular and also more interesting since now it's got to be more than just "hot girl gets fucked by mailman" 70 minutes of awkward jackhammering. Since age might be the only visual marker between people, pedophilia migh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 04:50 PM
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Yaaaaas
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 04:35 PM
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How far are we going with this? Does race cease to be a thing? How about physical sex? Breasts are all the same size regardless of men/women? Sex organs are universal? I need to know my left and right limits on this before I start brainstorming too hard lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 04:21 PM
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It's really cool to see everyone piling on OP got this BS. But I'm sure when I skim through Reddit again in an hour, the top comments will be agreeing with him. We need an Incel content purge again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 01:01 PM
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Men will leave their families and move in another girlfriend. Women are more likely to file but that's not the same thing as being the one to end or damage the relationship. Read something besides TRP talking points.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 04:05 AM
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Sure. You also just tend to blame all the ills of the world on women. Which gender was plagued with hypoagency, again?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 10:31 PM
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GTFO. Not much more needs to be said. Also to point out, on the concept of tracking. If it's ACTUALLY for safety, he won't care if his SO knows about it. He doesn't trust women and is afraid she'll be unfaithful/wants to have the feeling of being in control, except he can't come out and say it because he knows exactly how crazy it sounds. Again, GTFO.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 09:30 PM
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Insofar as men and women are different from men, with different drives, priorities, and goals? Sure. But the idea that we're 100% unfaithful, grasping, lazy, overly emotional children who cannot be held accountable and simulatiously are accountable for all the suffering of men? Piss off please.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 08:17 PM
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And so will men. Your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 03:26 PM
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You make that claim a lot. But I disagree. Talk to someone else if you want a bitch session.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 12:18 PM
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There's too many fuck heads of either gender screwing it up for the rest of us, by and large. I got lucky eventually but I went through a lot of lazy and unenthusiastic guys before I found the fiancee. And I've typically dated nerdy betas, not Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 06:38 PM
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That's pretty much what I did, and I don't regret it one bit and I got through my twenties with a pretty clean conscience as to how my relationships with men were conducted. However, when you start looking for a long term husband/partner, just remind yourself it's ok to have expectations, especially if you plan on having kids with him someday. You're going to have to be ok leaning on him from time to time (and not strictly in financial ways), and you should look for a long term partner who's hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 02:19 PM
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I mean...I went to nursing school for a blip and I don't think she's that wrong, even though she's harsh. Nurses and teachers generally (but not always) go back to the communities or at least the class level they came from after they graduate. Yes you have educated, UMC, and generally white women in areas where they fit in, but eventually many of them go further in their careers to be managers, anesthetists, public health, or educators. Your basic run of the mill urban floor nurse, though, might…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 01:46 PM
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Poorly executed save. But have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 02:25 AM
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Word of advice: using buzz words like hamster incorrectly pegs you as a troll. She was sarcastic, not making excuses for her own personal behavior to rationalize it in her head. I'm sure you just came out of TRP thinking you have the keys to life, the universe, and everything, but if your main method of discussion is poorly criticising sarcastic comments, you're choosing as well as offering low hanging fruit for discussion. But do as you like, I'm not your mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 12:19 AM
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I told my SO I'm down for a Disney World honeymoon whenever we get around to planning it. I had a big family so cross country trips required too much $$ and planning for me to get to go as a kid. For one I love roller coasters and rides. For another who doesn't get childlike nostalgia at Disney. Plus, fireworks, night parades, plenty of bars including at the Animal Kingdom and Harry Potter World (Ok that might be Universal Studios but if you do one you have to do both, amirite)? It's not the hoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 05:56 PM
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The majority of times I've heard women say this is when they're balancing school, work (often as primary or sole breadwinners), childcare, and home tasks while their SO lives on the couch or in front of videogames.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 05:38 PM
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OP, first I'll start off by saying I usually really appreciate your comments. You're a chill, seemingly average, sensible dude with a lot of common sense. Now I'm going to be a bitch and link your own comments back to you to give you some perception on this, because I kinda think you might be a bit of a baby right now. It's cool, everybody gets one, but honestly do not give a fuck what we say because we're not your moms or sisters or friends. http://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/di2aub/…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 06:40 PM
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Any time a woman has expectations or standards, she's an entitled bitch, obv. (/S)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 01:09 PM
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Most people have to deal with things they don't want to, every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 10:00 PM
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Sure. But there's a degree of power that remains with a BJ. No guy is going to be TOO badly behaved when his penis is between your teeth. And your clothes can stay on so you can make a quick escape.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 09:55 PM
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... You can't even tease him in under 300 words, can you? Lol. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 07:04 PM
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Except that's what's expected of women by a lot of the guys here? If she's 24 she's nearly post-wall and needs to hurry up and get her life straight and find a husband. Except it's cool if her age-mate husband barely knows how to do a load of laundry.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 11:52 AM
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Yeah good fucking luck, OP, honestly. 90% of the men posting here think women's lives are charmed from birth to death and men know nothing but suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 12:33 AM
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Agree, but I'll also point out that the "bitch management" tactics are useful for ANYONE and not necessarily one gender against the other. The idea of understanding gender drives has its place but so much of that is lost in anger and frustration that it's only a shadow of what it could be. A lack of understanding that each individual/gender is only doing what makes sense to them, and it's often pragmatic, is lost in the cacophony of "Men/Women suck."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 02:33 PM
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It's the pragmatic reality of being female. He might get angry and violent, he might get sad or awkward, he might get frustrated and annoyed, whatever it is, it won't be positive 99% of the time. Having a dick in your mouth for 5 minutes is all but guaranteed to get you out of there quickest and with the least negativity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 01:55 PM
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Typically people with spectrum disorders etc are not as understanding, or CANNOT be as understanding, as a stable relationships requires. I've seen plenty of quirky odd couples but they tend to either not last or end up pretty miserable, because OCD, autism-spectrum, and similar syndromes tend towards high-frustration, low-patience habits. It CAN work but I think it's actually harder to find and make work than a neurotypical+atypical pairing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 01:32 PM
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Haha! I wondered if anyone would get the reference--you're the first!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 09:55 PM
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This one has been going for 2y and survived my trip to Kuwait, so I'm hopeful. It's also why I'm a firm believer in "n-count is not the thing that REALLY matters" when it comes to relationship history. Cheating is. How long relationships have lasted is. Ability to compromise is. But who you fuck when you're single and aren't "pledged" to anyone? Not nearly as important.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 08:42 PM
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Only my first one when I lost my virginity, really. We dated for several months (both virgins) until we went for it, then dated for 5+ more years. After that, I did the single girl thing for a bit and lost all my really significant hangups about sex. More importantly, how does a girl even get into a relationship without some sexual activity before hand? Be very religious and date very religious men. That's the only route I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 08:31 PM
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Mostly just V, with somewhere between 25-30. O and A is for relationships. O because I'm selfish for hookups--he's going to get off regardless so I might as well do things that make me feel good and giving oral does nothing for me. A because it takes a lot of trust and control not to actually be injured and I do not trust random hookups to be careful or kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 08:22 PM
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Pretty sure she's back btw, under "Trad_MetalMod_Wife2." She was just Trad_MetalMod_Wife" until 24h ago. She also had a habit under her "UncommonSense" names of scrubbing everything within a few hours and frequently swapping accounts, looks like she's doing something similar under this new name. The whole thing is RIDICULOUSLY sketchy aside from being pretty judgemental and holier-than-thou, but if you like her commentary by all means have at it, thought I'd give you a heads up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 07:01 PM
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Man get out of here with this healthy well-adjusted and understanding attitude. Don't you know where we are??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 06:45 PM
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It was never really typically for people in love until the 20th century. Once upon a time marriage was for the construction of a family and alliances and communing of wealth, and sex was recreation and procreation, not adoration. Princess Elizabeth Von Richhaus was gonna marry Lord Eric De Monei whether they'd even met each other. Sally the whore was going to get plowed by Georgie the stable boy because he wanted to get a nut off in a human and was gonna pay her $$.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 04:43 PM
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U mad bro
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 11:37 AM
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Men come here and bitch about not getting laid in HS. Then they bitch when a woman said she'd fuck highschool guys. There's nothing y'all are happy with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 02:10 AM
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Congratulations. Want a cookie? Look, good for you if it's important to you. Just recognize you're not convincing them of anything and you don't get a big gold star in this life for only having one dick. Now, you're right that they freak out about it way too much and it's dumb. But you offering yourself up for their convincing is pointless because they won't believe you and even if they did they wouldn't care. It doesn't fit their world view so they will reject it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 02:03 AM
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Girl literally no one cares. Sorry but even for Purge Week this is silly. The women don't care because we know exactly how easy it is to get dick. The guys think you're attention whoring. I don't mind your usual commentary but I don't know why you'd want to share this, they'll just spin it against you if/when it ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 09:57 PM
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5'10 and same. BF is maybe an inch taller than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 09:36 PM
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I got major Assassin's Creed Odyssy vibes from this comment. All I want to do is go home and marathon game for a few hours now but I'm out of town until Monday goddamnnit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 09:26 PM
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Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 12:03 PM
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I think it's possible. But I've been wrong before.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 10:16 PM
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I wish you guys would share just a handful of the best (worst) modmails for Purge. I understand why you can't, but I want it. Maybe scrub the names? Idk. But give us a good laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 10:00 PM
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No, she didn't. She played too much into the "I'm better than you because X" card, and I'm not convinced she wasn't a LARPing tradcon dude. If that was her actual story, I'm glad for her, it sounded pretty cake. But as someone who was raised very Catholic and very Traditional, it also sounded incredibly lucky--something many tradcons (and many Catholics, Christians, and MC folks) I've discovered with time fail to recognize. As far as the "average" woman goes, there wasn't much to learn from her …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 09:58 PM
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I think we have a surprisingly similar view of things. Although yours sounds more trippy than I'd describe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:54 PM
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Another reason RP doesn't strike me as all that impressive is... The stuff that's good is good for ANYONE, regardless of gender. I mean I've used concepts referred to as "holding frame" and avoiding DEER with crazy people in my own life, men and women. But, aside from the fact that TRP doesn't really have a monopoly on that stuff, yeah, it's hella useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:36 PM
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You have kids or someone supports you while you're career building, you can't just unload them and walk away to start a new family with a younger woman (although plenty of men do just that) and write all that off as "strings attached," to most people. It's like you want to dump women with all the responsibility and sacrifice cause you get bored or something. What happened to men being the honorable and responsible ones. Oh, yeah, that only counts if she's young and tight. When she's old, who giv…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 06:00 PM
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I'm going to give you the same response men here regularly give women who are afraid/have been pumped for years and dumped when he got a new younger gf, after she worked to put him through school and managed the home so he could succeed in his career or he started drinking too much or gambling or anything else you can imagine: He should've picked better or stayed single. Why are you asking for sympathy? You don't give it to women when they have it tough. Have some agency, AMIRITE? Look, for real…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:39 PM
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I've heard women comment that it was the best sex they ever had but it was the most god awful relationship IN RETROSPECT. This sounds like the female version of guys who fuck legitimate nutbags but stay because of the BPD crazy-hot sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:28 PM
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I hate that I love this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 02:14 PM
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Hopefully you'll never need it. If you might, it's there. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 01:16 PM
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I had a stalker from getting catfished on OKC. Was on my college campus studying and he told me after the fact he was there doing a light installation or something and saw me from afar; described my clothes and bag and everything. Turns out he was a lonely fat dude looking to step out on his wife; I'm glad we never really met but I did feel kinda sorry for him as well as her. Had an obese and abrasive med student tell me I would be lucky to date him after I politely declined his information. Wen…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 02:25 AM
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13 is the going rate, last I heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 02:14 AM
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Goddamnit I lol'd. Have a fucking upvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 02:12 AM
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Cannot decide if this is alpha manly roughing it or poorfag loneliness. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 12:11 AM
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Melancholia was the single most deeply disturbing movie I've ever seen and even today I can't tell you exactly why. Excellent film on all fronts. And then Nympho was just... There.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 10:21 PM
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Directions unclear, am now in Pakistan, send nukes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 09:59 PM
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You have a funny complex about white women, I've noticed. Whatever floats your bucket.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 09:51 PM
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Careful or they're going to tell you you're a woman and you need to STFU.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 09:47 PM
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MADNESS, I SAY!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 09:44 PM
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With good reason. I first saw him in Kings in 2006? I think? Barely-there NBC show that only lasted a season. He played a gay but even then I saw he was SUCH a babe, gay or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 09:32 PM
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Normies get laid, dude. Since that's such an issue you've spent time creating a whole identity around it I suspect it's kind of a big deal to you. You're not better than Normies just cause you listen to ChanCore or watching indie movies, is all I'm saying. Most normies are pretty happy people from what I can see.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 09:26 PM
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Literally do not care what you do dude. Just saying there's reasons we get hostile, and this week we see them in full force.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 09:22 PM
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Instructions unclear, boob caught in oven, send halp.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 08:02 PM
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10/10 would stick a cucumber in.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:54 PM
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I could buy that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:32 PM
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They're just here to insert themselves into male spaces Is this a male space? I wasn't informed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:13 PM
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Truth. I cuss quote a bit IRL, (thank you Army), but I try not to in a role where it's expected, and although I might refer to someone as a fuckhead or candy ass from time to time, it's never racially or sexually skewed. I don't think I've ever used a racial term to knock on someone. Individual or group. You're weird fuckers, but you're my fuckers, and text doesn't convey anything about the speaker but social class.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:58 PM
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... Only when quoting song lyrics. I get a pass for that, right?? ~Signed, white guilt and unsure about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:37 PM
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I won't disagree with you there, although I'm sure we'd find plenty to bicker about when it comes to the details of what those incentives are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:36 PM
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That's what I said! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:23 PM
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Miranda Kerr is cheating though. She has looked 14 for most of her life, before and after.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:21 PM
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I don't understand Margo Robbie being facially attractive.... She's got the combo of crazy eyes and crazy mouth (the thin upper lip thing does it, I think). Helluva body but she's one I just don't "get" as being beautiful, I guess. The rest on this list and OP, can confirm: would attempt lezbianizms with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:09 PM
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Please let this be a internet joke... Right? Cuz that nasty and also cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:07 PM
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Dude I once blew the mind of my army buddies when I sang along at full power to Gold Digger. Apparently good Midwestern girls aren't supposed to know all the lyrics.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:00 PM
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Hey, I'm also doing positive callouts. We don't talk much and sometimes you piss me off, but you seem to have a good head on your shoulders and usually not slip into the perpetual women-suck mantras. I'm sure we'll be cursing at each other before too long but thanks for being a decent human and contributing thoughts you spent more than 5s constructing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:38 PM
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Mostly I agree. There just seems to be a weird shock from the men that we don't just roll over and take the collective dickings like good little girls
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:29 PM
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Cool story bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:08 PM
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I'm sure. Were you the blonde dude with longish hair, btw? For some reason I always imagined you to be kinda twiggy and dark. Color me shocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:50 PM
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You know I'm a vagina person, right? But then you're one of the more nasty types here this week so I'm sure it will only make me a new target to point that out. Do what you gonna do, bro, don't let me stop you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:49 PM
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Fite me. 😂 You're the pillow thief. Then you turn around and make fun of me for having 6 pillows on the bed. It's in retaliation for you stealing 5 of them every night. Also PSA: /u/BPremium is a TOTAL bed hog. Don't believe his lies!!! This is anti-women propaganda!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:56 PM
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Is it because one side doesn't do it as "badly" as the other? If that is the case then I could understand that. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:52 PM
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The issue I take is that the men themselves don't call out the laughable positions, and then get offended when the women react as if they're going to face these situations all the time--because we often do. It's fine if they don't do a damn thing about it, honestly. But to act mortified when women respond with apprehension is myopic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:52 PM
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So which one is it? Don't pull me into a word war. You know what I mean--RPs basically trademarked AWALT. Don't feign shock at the concept applied to others. Some men have shown they can have reasonably polite discussion. They're unfortunately something of a rarity around here. You seem to believe the former exists, but not the latter. I'm saying don't pretend that the latter doesn't exist. And by extension, women aren't entitled to "green list" treatment either And men are less likely to call s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:50 PM
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But to me, RP didn't need policing because it was never to be a one size fits all thing. RP to me was always "take what is useful, discard the BS, and GTFO". That works THERE. For HERE, you need some kind of ideology structure for discussion and debate. Again, I also don't think RP cares about being taken seriously? By who exactly? The entire premise of RP goes against societal expectations that has centuries of foundation, so it would be naive to expect RP to ever be taken seriously. Again, HER…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:44 PM
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... And I do? Like I've said several times now? I see it worse from the men. Dunno what else you expect from me right this second.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:36 PM
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Can't disagree with you, and I'll head over and bash some girl brains shortly. But as cheap as it is to say... The guys did it first. Again, women are more reactionary than aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:32 PM
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I enjoy it when the topics and individuals are sensible, rational, and maintain a degree of civility. But that's rarely the case, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:31 PM
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Never you, bb. ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:28 PM
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Cockatiel!! One of my top two bird bros!! Where you been? Surprised you haven't taken the festivities of the week as licence to push the BirdPill on all of us and put incels and SJWs alike to shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:27 PM
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"we assume all the women here are dumbass hateful bitches here cause that's what I've seen (and seen it encourages, cause I have)" would be insanely dishonest. And yet many of the guys here do JUST THAT. Maybe you're not one of them, I don't think I've interacted with you prior to today. Maybe you're new or an old hat with a new alt. But keep an ear to the ground and you'll see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:22 PM
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You only admit one of those things. So you didn't read or ignored the part where I say I've called women out on their BS here too? Or the part in the post where I did suggest women need to put in their tampons and get over some of it? Cool. Nice to know you're being objective about these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:20 PM
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I could say the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:09 PM
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An incel says stupid shit you KNOW men as whole don't subscribe to > snarkiness from women is justified I know some men don't subscribe to it. Because they call it out and I've seen it. They're on my green list. What I'm saying is, if men want to be treated like they're on the green list, they need to act like it. They're not entitled to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:08 PM
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I've probably read more of the sidebar than most reds. Doesn't really matter in the end, we get bogged down with No True Scotsman and Strawmen arguments because the reds don't really police their own or call out Incel BS as not really what they're trying to discuss or debate. It's almost like Red men need to police themselves to be taken seriously. Who'd have thunk. What's also relevant is the fact that this sub USED TO have a lot of active and reasonable RPW but they've all but vanished because…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:06 PM
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I'm talking specifically about the population of THIS SUB and the content on THIS SUB. If you don't care to have civil discussion do what you like but if you want it, recognize it's a two way street and the women here are not required to play nice the moment you want an actual debate as opposed to mutual trolling and snarking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:54 PM
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Tell that to the posts that went up last night praising female suicide and the murder of women. I haven't seen that shit on this sub from women yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:51 PM
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Hey, me. Hi. I DO. I'VE called out Poppy and Jamm and a half dozen others. I've told the Femcels to shut up and go outside. But you don't really give a fuck. So don't be surprised when women don't give a fuck about being pleasant to the men laughing at posts that talk of murder, rape, and female suicide as a good thing. We HAVEN'T been posting shit HERE calling for sexual genocide or total slavery this week, but that has been floated by incels to the laughter of men. And at least that bit isn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:50 PM
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And shockingly I call them out. But you're doing the same thing women are--you assume women don't, so you blame us all. Similarly put, we assume all the men here are assholes cause that's what we've seen (and seen it encouraged) so we respond. Do what you like, IDGAF, but stop being a blind moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:47 PM
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Scroll through the posts from last night. Although it wouldn't surprise me if they actually got deleted; even for purge week they were pretty dark. Stuff on women being murdered and committing suicide was funny or even a good thing. It has to do with the population of THIS SUB, not the internet at large. If the men expect their women reasonable they should treat them reasonably.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:46 PM
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Have you met /u/BPremium? He's my boo. You have a lot to talk about. But really, fellas at large, it's THIS shit I'm talking about. If you respond with "lol" to this dude, you're not really encouraging the women to act with grace or good faith when they talk to you. Fuck, guys--if there's anything I snowflake about, it's that my BF and I are both on this sub and MET here. It's not like y'all veterans don't know that. But it's a cheap fun joke, right? No big. So why should I assume any interactio…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:42 PM
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I see it as reactionary. And, maybe it's my bias, but the level of nastiness directed at women seems to be more extreme. We don't really have women making actual posts on how men committing suicide is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:17 PM
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True, but this isn't really directed at them. They're gonna do what they're gonna do regardless of the rest of us. It's more on the guys who encourage it from time to time and then get mad when they WANT to have a serious talk and the women cunt off to them, or the guys who get butthurt when women cunt off to OTHER guys and they just read it. Nothing happens in a vacuum.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 12:58 PM
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Cool story breh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 12:50 PM
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I like to see myself as a sarcastic commentary on the state of things, more than a whiner. If that's what you got I'm sorry. And yeah, I suppose you could call it spreading awareness. Don't really need to vent or anything and whatever anybody does isn't my biz, but since we're all part of this fucked up little (((community))) I felt the ((female)) impulse to put it out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 12:47 PM
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I haven't actually seen much humor come out of some of the shock- and gore-porn threads in the past 24h, but if that's funny for you have at it. I prefer the TRP-as-told-by-famous-authors series the women are putting out a lot more, and they're not nearly as offensive. Different strokes I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 12:42 PM
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I'm not actually mad. I just find it ridiculously ironic we get called cunts for responding to the hostility we see here pretty regularly. It's more a call to attention for the humorous mental disconnect than anything. I'm a very much "respond to what you're given" kinda person. My BF regularly tells me he wishes I got more angry and passionate IRL. But to expect us to just tolerate this level of BS and just respond with sugar and honey is pretty laughable to me. But, even I get annoyed about so…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 12:21 PM
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Tbh that's why they only do it once per annum. A lot of folks here--a LOT--are honestly pretty terrible people to talk to. I wouldn't stay if every day was like this, I'll admit, and I'm not even usually a target myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:31 AM
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That's not actually how this works. It's a species-designation, not an individual one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:25 AM
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Turned 30 past January. Can confirm my boobs hang low. I can tie them in a knot, I can tie them in a bow.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:24 AM
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Does this work in reverse too? If women can do things like get on Tinder for sex on demand, men should be able to also? If women can get a guy to pay for her dinner, does that mean men should get the same treatment? If a woman can ride the CC or receive govt money to feed her kids or female scholarships and reduced prison sentances or what have you, shouldn't men get those things too?!? No, dummy. Men and women are different. Sometimes this means women get stuff men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 12:13 AM
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I think you missed the part where we're making fun of men around here who say shit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 10:28 PM
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I meant it with more affection than I probably conveyed, I promise!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 10:13 PM
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It's Purge Week, the gloves and diapers come off. But a lot of us are genuinely interested in the discussion, and when it's good it's very good but when it's bad it's horrid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:46 PM
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Your granddad was Bradley Cooper?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:37 PM
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Updooted for the hysteria around CS. Also gross but yay Purge Week.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:32 PM
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... Read the whole OP lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 04:13 PM
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Honestly so many. It's why I stay, even though some of you cunts drive me crazy. ArenAugustine, if his blood sugar is reasonable. Concacanca is my favorite drunk Brit. Benzo is my favorite druggie Brit. Decoy88. I don't chat with him much but he's always got a pretty sensible approach to things. Darude is chill. I wish cxj posted more than he does cause I'd like to argue with him. Squiddy is cool-ish. I don't really like that he specifically goes after married women and his thoughts on politics …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:52 PM
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Then don't group yourself in when people point out incels do shitty things. I don't know what to tell you, bud, you seem to want it both ways. Can't help you there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:36 PM
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When did I include myself under any lable, or call women my oppressor? You called yourself an Incel several times in this thread. Like here: I'm talking about incels. Men who, for whatever reason, are single and lonely. We get caught in the crossfire everytime you want to offend a Redpiller. Just see that using such terms as "incel" is doing the same thing as yiu would condemn a racist or sexist for. You really are in need of a fight, aren't yiu? Yiu wont get it from me. I'm not against you You …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:25 PM
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Still a better ending than twilight.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 02:38 PM
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I generally don't though. You're mad about us assuming ALL INCELS ARE LIKE THAT and yet here you are parading ALL WOMEN BE LIKE THAT. This is a perception problem for you, bud, not an issue that I personally am complicit in. But by all means take it as confirmation bias that I'm not giving you a tissue, IDGAF at this point. You're butthurt, and I feel for you on that, but you're choosing to include yourself under a label and then turn around and include all women under a label as your opressor. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 02:31 PM
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Ok here's the thing--you're personalizing where you shouldn't. I, me, personally, don't typically insult people en masse. I, personally, me, don't target YOU, specifically. The guys who say nasty shit about women aren't necessarily talking about me, I, specifically, and sure it's still kinda hurtful, but I recognize that it's depersonalized. You would do well to do the same. Everyone can choose to see themselves as a victim when they're part of a group, or they can choose to set themselves apart…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 02:28 PM
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We've had incels here dox people and say ridiculously awful things. Many of them make it their whole identity. My point is that it hurts to read, and it doesn't hurt the people you're aiming it at. That's kinda life though. The other option is restricting free speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 01:04 PM
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As somebody who hates racism, sexism, fat shaming, and things of this nature, I try to avoid offending people as much as I can. Cool me too And then, from the left, I see people like me being mocked by the very people who claim to act as if our feelings matter Well then we have MGTOW and TRP claiming all women are divorce-raping harpies, if we've had sex with more than one person we're worthless, and as vagina-people we make all choices based on pure emotion and are dumb. When yiu call a MGTOW r…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 11:58 AM
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But but but my feefees!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 11:45 AM
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I thought it was "The bigger the hoop, the bigger the ho?"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 10:00 PM
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I wish there was a sub for PPD Normies to post and generally chill and have heated debates alongside socializing, but it would probably defeat the purpose. In any case you should DM me photos of you guys, I'm curious and not (very) weird. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 07:24 PM
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They openly refuse that they get more attracted by women flirting with their partners.So they are blue. That's because it doesn't make our partners more attractive. It makes us recognize their value in the SMP. There's a difference. relationship" next to photos and found them more attractive Because being trustworthy and reasonable enough to maintain a relationship is attractive. You're missing a fucking key point to female sexuality, mate, and that's the truth that not everything is due to stra…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 05:02 PM
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Not entirely true. I picked an old one of us that I took with the potato camera on my antique phone where I thought we looked happy and cuteish. BP dug through a dozen photos of us, tweaked the lighting, whitened our teeth, smudged away a particularly annoying zit I had, and probably "fixed" a half dozen other miniscule imperfections one or the other of us had. He's way more polished in general than I am, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 04:46 PM
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Dread game is contested by blues in all it's forms.Active dread is supposed to be a last resort option. Then based on that, the majority of the women here would NOT be blue. Preselection is the notion that women desire the man that other women already desire.Bonus points if that man is currectly with another woman.I have arguments about it pretty much once a week here. Depends on what you actually mean by this. As I (and many other women here) have said, a "taken" man benefits from another woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 04:26 PM
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Where is the Kickstarter for this cuz I got extra money I need to burn like now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 04:06 PM
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95% of the time women give no fucks about PASSIVE dread game. Actively going out and getting numbers or openly flirting with other women in front of your wife, however, is a good way to tank whatever is left of your marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 04:02 PM
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Try not wearing a bra ever, eating whatever I want and getting fat, showering when I feel like it, leaving the dishes in the sink for way too long, working the bare minimum to support my lazy hermit bachelorette/cat lady life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 04:01 PM
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Most of us DGAF about passive dread game. If you reach active dread, you're probably killing what's left of your relationship Preselection has ceased to be a meaningful term anymore because anyone you ask has a different definition. I might agree with yours if I heard it. Dark Triad: again, been super diluted. Self-sufficiency and healthy boundaries are dark Triad to some, and most women would agree they're handsome traits. But the dark Triad I see described these days on TRP doesn't resemble th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 03:57 PM
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The problem is Red has turned into "SERVE THE MALE IMPERATIVE OR GET FUCKED." Plenty of us agree on basic differences between men and women but disagree that basically rolling over and becoming sextoys who cook and clean is really going to be any better for society--or for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 03:16 PM
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Holla. ;) https://imgur.com/1ONADiX.jpg https://imgur.com/vj0KSvN.jpg https://imgur.com/EM5kwwE.jpg https://imgur.com/OfrX3QE.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 03:06 PM
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Done.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 02:33 PM
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https://imgur.com/HBXMjKY.jpg https://imgur.com/xtz63F6.jpg https://imgur.com/eCUVQMl.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 02:33 PM
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Tbh I'm ok with it. I take good care of my guy but the idea of not having to put on the performance of girling all the time would also be nice, like an indefinite vacation or chilling at a retirement home. In some ways it would be a weight lifted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 01:17 PM
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Haha rest in peace, Pete. May heaven be filled with cocaine and hookers, or whatever he was into!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 01:15 PM
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"his dream girl is a blow up doll that can cook." 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 01:08 PM
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The Snapchat dude version of me was sexy in a bad boy kind of way but not my type AT ALL. In fact perhaps unsurprisingly it reminded me a lot of my rough and tumble little brother which is gross on a whole different level. https://imgur.com/jYeP5ql.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 01:04 PM
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Ah you're one of those "women aren't nice to me so I'm going to be a jerk to all of them" types. I mean I'm sure it sounds fair in your head but it's not going to win you any points with women OR with most other men because it's atypical behavior. But you do you, boo. You just sound much more bitter and unhappy than I care to interact with so I'm going to stop here, I think. Best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 01:02 PM
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Dude your comment history on this thread is pretty passive aggressive. You only compliment if it's backhanded. But he is handsome so I'll take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 12:45 PM
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He's a handsome bear, what can I say. And he doesn't go around insulting people for fun so he's more socially competent than you, I suspect. But that's just me spitballing, I could be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 12:32 PM
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I want to be your bff.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 03:48 AM
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I mean I don't really think so but I'm 30, so even I'm a bit older than the average PPDr these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 10:04 PM
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PJ and BP bitches. https://imgur.com/1hE48Lo.jpg Also y'all are beautiful fuckers. Except that one dude/chick. You know who you are. Also fuck you weirdos who inevitably decide to archive this shit. Took the mystery away from you so have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 09:56 PM
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I think that's a bit of sarcasm on his part. I believe he's in his 40s based on his commentary, but I could be off.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 09:43 PM
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Do you want to punish the rest of us??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 02:59 PM
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The women woke up first to make coffee. The men will chime in with their rage boners once football starts in a few hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 01:40 PM
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Flair is relevant, I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 09:57 PM
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In a perfect world, your rights end where mine begin. But we don't live in a perfect world so shit sucks for everyone except the top 5% of either gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 09:47 PM
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No it means when I come across a comment that I suspect comes from a heavily biased or otherwise entrenched position that is unwilling to engage in meaningful or civil discussion, I check out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 09:31 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 09:12 PM
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Cool story bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 07:46 PM
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If he would rather masturbate, he'd be doing it. No need for another person's participation. A fat or ugly girl is barely a step up, but it's still a step up. Otherwise why would you guys always rant about how a fat girl can get a hot guy any time she wants to?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 07:46 PM
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Yes. Moreso than whacking it to porn, otherwise that's what he'd be doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 06:58 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 05:50 PM
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I won't argue with the strawman you've created in your head, but have fun with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 05:48 PM
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Met /u/BPremium on here two years ago, been living together now for one. We both recognize some differences between the genders and hate some things about our own and the opposite, but he appreciates my strengths and less-than-average AWALTness, and I respect his pride and am super loyal. Plus we're pretty direct at solving conflict and compromising.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 05:46 PM
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Better for whom? I guarantee you she doesn't enjoy an embarrassed pity fuck when the guy probably doesn't even care to try to get her off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 05:41 PM
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I think fat women are much more likely to be the object of jokes and harassment than ugly men though, unless you're talking about ACTUALLY DEFORMED ugly men. Stuff like fatpeoplehate seems more hostile to fat women then men, and there just doesn't seem to be as wide-spread for ugly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 05:19 PM
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😂😂😂😂 love you babe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 12:29 PM
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Edit. And if you're the motherfucker that downvoted me Fuck you too It's happening all over the sub now, me and Smurf remarked on it last week. Dunno if it's a Reddit thing or bots or if it signals the incels are about to flood again, but in any case don't let it get to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 11:42 AM
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BF can crack jokes, hold an intelligent conversation, and makes practical life choices. I'm cool with it. I'm more educated and have higher IQ, but IMO the thing that makes us work well is our different levels of patience. In most realms of life, he's more likely to make a choice and act on it, while I can be too much of a fence sitter. I add a degree of well-reasoned thought to plans and he's often the one who actually says "ok, let's do this." It can be a double edged sword. I think his impati…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 11:34 AM
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So alfalfa.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 01:29 PM
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You're missing the point. The original comment is about how women are faithless, and statistically speaking it's not backed up. I feel too much like shit today to get into a war of semantics with you AGAIN so go bug someone else with your intentional lack of grasping the point of things in favor of wordplay.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 03:49 PM
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Men cheat more than women in every age group except those under 25, in which case numbers are comparable. I haven't seen any study suggesting men cheat less.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 03:42 PM
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And men will always desire other women, hence you can't expect male fidelity either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 12:14 PM
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For short term relationships and hookups it's not as much of a threat. For long term connections, most women don't actually expect all of those, contrary to today's edition of IncelLit. But continue to believe what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 01:53 AM
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I referenced a lot of them in the following comment where I sort of lit into sado. The TL;DR is that a lot of statistics on divorce and marriage point to education, experience, religion, similar age and background, and cultural pressures being far better indicators of successful marriage rather than n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 12:27 AM
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From your linked doc: "There was an acknowledged connection between wife beating and the necessity of making it easier for women to leave violent marriages." This seems to support rather than contradict my point? From Wikipedia: Prior to the mid-1800s, most legal systems implicitly accepted wife beating as a valid exercise of a husband's authority over his wife. By the early 20th century, it was common for the police to intervene in cases of domestic violence in the United States, but arrests re…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 12:22 AM
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All valid points.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 11:17 PM
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"I want a low-n woman because it's my personal preference." =Secure. "I want a low-n woman because [bad science] [moral judgements] [blanket judgement on how high-n women are all dirty, broken, or otherwise damaged]." N on its own is a very poor predictor for female behavior. There's a lot more to be gained from other metrics, but those metrics will be totally ignored by men who are insecure and obsessed with n counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 11:16 PM
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It's not really how things work for most folks, for better or worse. I tell other women the best thing they can do is always have a plan to walk away. I'm a good GF and loyal and respectful to my man, but I pretty bluntly gave him a date, a ways off in the future. If we get there and we're not married, I walk, point blank, and just as he knows I'd do it, he knows exactly what he'd be losing. That's what a practical girl does these days. By the time we reach that day, he will have had a few years…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 09:43 PM
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I don't know what response you want me to give to that. Good for you I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 09:40 PM
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They make literally no exceptions. I'm tired of playing "whack a strawman" when the guys here won't criticize the crazy in their own camp. You take an issue with me suggesting it, then call it out when you see the crazy shits flinging their Incel crap. I do generally like you, cxj, but I'm holding you to the same standard I do all the guys here now: if you want your women on this sub reasonable, then you have to ask it of the men, too, and this includes batshit BlackPill fuckos. I have called ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 09:39 PM
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Why should a man accept slutty behavior? It’s neither moral or immoral to prefer relatively chaste women, just as it is neither moral or immoral for women to prefer height or social status. In fact, sexual behavior “is” one of the easiest characteristics to control, unlike things like height. A big thing that keeps getting overlooked by a lot of men here is accurate history and conflating sexual emancipation with the sexual revolution. They went hand in hand but there's a lot of very concrete re…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 08:16 PM
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YOU'RE NOT MY REAL FATHER!1!!1
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 08:07 PM
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N count is a terminology that serves men at women's expense. Because it's supposed to "knock pussy off the pedestal". That's the thing though, I think it's stopped serving men. I don't remember a time where dudes hung onto nothing else. We must be reading different subs here then. Just skim through this post to see what I mean. . You shouldn't need it because you should eventually be proficient enough to "take off the training wheels". If that's the case we'd see a lot more men pointing that out…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 07:47 PM
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You're getting combative and needlessly hostile so this will be my last comment to you on this topic. Women prioritize commitment like men prioritize sex. If you don't understand that very basic Red Pill tenet I can't help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 07:09 PM
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Asking a woman for a relationship without actual commitment (which is what that is) is akin to a woman asking a guy to be content with sex once per month for the rest of his life. It's a halfway commitment. And if she cares for you and gives her monogamy and enthusiasm to you, you're doing her a disservice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 06:42 PM
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I actually do agree with /u/Tyler_Gatsby on this, because n-count is not really that useful of a predictor for future behavior. The ones who focus on it to the exclusion of all other character traits are doing THEMSELVES a disservice because they're getting stuck on THE (false) ONE BIG KEY TO A STRONG RELATIONSHIP and ignoring a lot of other, BETTER predictors of female behavior. Look at sado, for example. He's actually convinced he can raise his daughters to be culturally extremely conservative…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 06:06 PM
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Yup. And this is just as much a beta thing as an alpha thing IME. If a guy is looking for the right woman and is committed, she won't be waiting forever, whether he's alpha or beta. If you're a "nice guy" but you've been in a LTR for a while and haven't even considered proposing or getting married in the next few years, you need to really examine if you're nice or not. You're getting what you want and she'll get your full commitment... Someday? Maybe? My college ex was like this. Chubby, introve…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 05:47 PM
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Not just that, but where does he expect to meet these women who aren't having casual sex if he's not attached to a religious body? Virgins by and large won't be at the clubs and won't be on Tinder. If you want a certain type you have to go looking in a place where those types are present. Most of the time, they aren't or they go on to say No WoMaN Is LoW N iN 2019. In which case, again, you either adapt to your market or you continue to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 05:36 PM
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We're both normie with a nerd streak, is my best guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 10:51 AM
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Well you've made up your mind then. Best of luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 10:51 AM
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If that's how you feel than GTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 04:21 AM
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Both women and men have to "dance" as you put it to attract the mate they want for the type of relationship they want. Besides that I've got nothing for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 04:20 AM
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If you read it that way, nothing I say is going to change your mind. I hope you find peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 03:54 AM
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Your words, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 03:42 AM
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Then it's on you and other success stories to coach them. God knows plenty of women have suggested that here and been told how much we don't understand. They won't listen to us, so give it a shot. I bet you they'll just be calling you Chad and telling you how much you don't understand in a matter of hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 01:31 AM
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Dude, her WHOLE POST is on how being physically attractive and charismatic is important. I don't know where exactly you think she's minimizing how important looks are but I'd be curious if you could point it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 01:29 AM
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No. No woman here will say those things aren't important. What they will also say is they are not enough on their own. Which is the part most men are deaf to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 01:27 AM
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Again my dude, you've drank the koolaid. But really, you probably shouldn't stick around this place. You argue everything from emotion and try to paint it as logic. Logic is based on reality and your reality isn't reflective of anything but the horror stories you read on the manosphere. It's not based on facts or anything but the stories that validate your feelings. I'm not going to change your mind, and you're not going to change anyone elses because you can't even really argue. You keep stampi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 01:11 AM
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I'm saying it's very rare. All of this is available on Google with simple searches from national government databases and reputable sources. Only a fraction of men in the US still pay alimony anymore. Latest numbers are less than 10%. CS average is around 800/mo on average. I think per kid the national average is $350 so that's obviously impacted by those with multiple children. The number of divorces is going down for a variety of reasons, but as I've said in other comments to you, there's stat…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 09:07 PM
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I'm not being dishonest. The data does not back up your claims. You're living in a reality that doesn't exist and have nothing to back it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 08:29 PM
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You keep saying that but you have literally nothing to back it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 08:01 PM
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I don't think it divorce favors either partner, and it's not supposed to. You'd know that if you actually read statistics on it and not just TRP nosleep tales. Anything past that and you're basically confirming my point. Go MGTOW. Women won't mourn the loss and you won't mourn them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 06:39 PM
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❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 06:37 PM
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Is he the one who believes no woman ever gets sexual pleasure from sex/orgasms? IDR.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 04:45 PM
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Half a paycheck? Jesus. Ok judging by your responses here, OP, you are too far gone for anyone to give you realistic advice because you simply don't live in the real world. Wring your hands all you want and moan and lament the poor status of men, but the arguments you're making are not backed up by statistics. You've been reading too many TRP horror stories that are cherrypicked to give you the worst possible outcomes. You're the male version of a girl who thinks she's going to get assaulted for…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 04:37 PM
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I mean you're correct in that it was primarily a computer thing, smart phones weren't around, but we caught up. Most of the women my age use Instagram on a daily basis, and my 32yo BF's group chat with his best buds is going on like 500 days straight of activity. Some of my friends only respond via SC and treat it as their main communication. I'd say 20-30% of my above-30 peers use Snapchat at least a couple of times a week, some much more, and 40-50% scroll through Instagram daily. You're proba…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 02:19 PM
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Oof don't age us millennials that much. We most definitely had SM, just not quite the same ones that exist today--myspace, Xanga, even Tumblr in its early stages. Everyone I knew in my teenage years was on at least 1. Sure it's shifted but you're talking people who graduated high school in 2007, not 1997. Big diff in the tech that was available.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 01:05 PM
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Can you use paragraph breaks, please? Your shit is hard to read, and I'm not THAT drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 02:34 AM
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Most of the studies that say that don't take into account divorce and remarriage. There's statistics that give you an idea of how to set yourself up for success. Last I read, I think less than 30% of FIRST MARRIAGES end in divorce; the numbers are inflated because generally if you divorce and remarry, you do it again and again. Likewise, if you don't get married at all until you're post-26 and you're college educated, you're significantly less likely to ever get divorced. Understanding the nuanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 12:11 AM
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I'll flatter myself as included in that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 11:43 PM
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And women should not consider marriage because a non-zero number of men are physically abusive and men kill their female partners by a factor of 8:1. Doesn't change the fact that both instances are still very rare. Your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 11:42 PM
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Most divorced men don't pay 3000 in CS+alimony, at least in the states. Average is like 800/mo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 11:40 PM
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Honestly Google it. Pew has some really great statistics on divorce in the US. Women are more likely to file for divorce but more likely to struggle afterwards. They're also less likely to desire getting remarried after divorce, less likely to cheat overall, much less likely to be unfaithful in case of illness, and more likely to divorce following job loss or income loss. All in all there's certainly reason to vet, but hardly any reason to be overly cautious unless you're actually looking for a …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 10:37 PM
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Not Jam but statistically your argument isn't backed up. Very few female divorcees with kids are living the high life unless they're married to Jeff Bezos level of wealth; post-divorce their standard of living drops significantly, and much more than the men they divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 09:44 PM
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Just a reminder to our newer members, you can do whatever the hell you want, but the first year we did a Purge Week, several of us shared photos under alt accounts. Not a total loss, led to me and the BF meeting (and going strong about 2y now). But perhaps unsurprisingly some weird fucko decided to archive all photos and post them again last year. He's probably still around under a different name. So just don't do it, incels are weird and they actively try to fuck with other people because they …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 07:29 PM
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I'll make it a threesome for the privacy request.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 07:23 PM
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So does every single Red and most black pills, with every rationalization imaginable-some more valid than others. Plus I thought the whole "I identify as" thing was some leftist joke for most people? Like it's really a meaningless statement unless it's extrapolated and explained, and then the whole thing most often falls apart anyways. I'm not asking for your personal explanation, I could dig through your comment history for that if I felt like it. I'm just pointing out the sentence is really pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 05:35 PM
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As something of a tomboy, there's definitely been times I wished I could've been taken seriously by male peers. Deployment was shitty as fuck being the only chick worth a damn. Tbh now I try to dissuade other girls from joining because they'll have to work twice as hard for half the recognition and there's a good chance they'll get assaulted before they get out. But overall, I like being a chick. There's just definite parts of society we'll never be recognized for our talents over our plumbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 02:23 PM
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Good luck. OfficerK generally just comes to puff up on how awesome his larping is and then bash anyone who points out flaws in his arguments or that his experience is not universal. I've begun to think it's mostly a troll account due to how he gets his rocks off on generally being abrasive. Have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 05:37 PM
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If she's not actively arranging threesomes for you, you're cucked, son.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 09:31 PM
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The free market is exactly what gives these companies the ability to remove content, you understand that, right? They remove content they consider harmful to their brand and in bad taste for acquiring a larger customer base. Unless TRP and the like finds a way to be appealing to a large enough percentage that the companies can put faith in continued growth, the platform companies will continue to remove content they believe will harm rather than help them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 12:41 PM
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Then don't get your knickers in a twist, you obviously don't fit the description I gave.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 02:54 AM
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I appreciate you. That's great. 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 02:29 AM
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That would require the "graduation" you mentioned to me earlier, and a shift in view from women being mindless harpies to similarly flawed humans on some kind of equal merit with men, albeit with a slightly different set of priorities. Not gonna happen. Men as victims works too well for them, and it will probably end up killing them if they do get banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 12:54 AM
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Do you have shared custody or just visitation rights? Being better than a shitty parent doesn't necessarily make you a good one, and I never claimed women were better parents universally.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 11:23 PM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 10:06 PM
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Most of those are considered too blue by the current population of RP. And even then, again, some of those AUTHORS have recanted their works. Not to mention a lot of it isn't even observations on women but humans in general. It's not magic for unlocking the vagina, it's how to run your own life and stop letting others run it for you, and there's no sex requirement for that. DEER, light switching, etc--those aren't TRP, those are terms that developed ages ago in the mental health community for de…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 09:45 PM
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Idk most of my comments have dipped down to -1 or -2 lately an hour or so after I comment. Eventually they go up again but it'll even be in comment chains a dozen deep. I think they're bots at this point. Was mildly irritated at first but in some ways it feels like I made it, too, since this is my main sub I frequent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 09:33 PM
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Sure, but you said it yourself-they're the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 09:20 PM
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It works. We know it works because it's pretty successful to anyone who gets even 50 percent of it right. There's no empirical proof of this besides 'Lift." Holy shit, fit people are attractive, who knew. Just a lot of field reports, many of which sound like the wet dreams of 14yo boys. . Which is how women so easily get taken advantage of. And the very foundation of women not advancing past "year one". The mystery has been solved, women while in demand, are not special unicorn snow flakes. I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 09:19 PM
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Anybody who willingly dates a single father who isn't a widower gets the shit end of the stick. I didn't used to think this but after seeing enough of my peers get knocked up by guys who were already part time dads and couldn't be bothered to call their kids on their birthday and were more concerned with their own lives, just stay the fuck away from single dads. There's a reason his ex and kids don't have much to do with him and it's not just because she's a bitch or something. 95% of the time I…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 08:50 PM
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Now TRP clearly got the behaviors of women down. I heartily disagree. t's extremely clear MRP solved a dead bedroom situation. As in, one? I'm sure I could find a story of rain-dancing leading to rain or praying working to cure cancer. Doesn't make it applicable to the masses. The question is can women defend against the card counters? I'll let you in on a secret. None of the women here think TRPs have unlocked the trick to PnD'ing them. Maybe one or two but the ones who will be loving and leavi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 08:44 PM
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The huge problem...and I've been doing this for four years now, seems to be women don't understand men at a fundamental level. I've yet to see any man here really convince me that men understand women as a whole, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 07:33 PM
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Eh. I don't necessarily think of all of it as trauma; I imagine it more like stress. A little is actually a good thing for you; it trains your muscles, it teaches you adaptability, etc. A lot however can fuck you up. I've got baggage from my college ex, and it still impacts my life, but that's not always a bad thing. I learned what to pay attention for and what expectations I needed to have in order to have a happier relationship. There's been one or two times my SO has done or said something th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 07:01 PM
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I don't disagree that it's her baggage to deal with. I disagree however that her issues alone will make or break a relationship. This does seem tangentially related to our discussion on divorce/marriage yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 06:35 PM
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I mean just Google "mismatched couples." You'll see a ton, and like 80% of them the chick is hotter than her partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 06:34 PM
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Idk I personally really disagree that an unstable guy is more likely to break a woman than most stable guys. At the end of the day whether he's selfish or not does not directly relate to how normal his life is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 05:51 PM
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"electronics and cars are really shitty examples of overspending". I don't think you're going to find many really agree with you. To most people in America, if you have more than 1 working standard vehicle than licensed adult, that's a luxury, and a much more expensive one than some purse or jewelry. It's not a real necessity for transportation because you can physically only drive one car at a time. Now you make one of those a hobby car or roadster that costs six figures or more and can't even …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 04:28 PM
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On some things yes, on some things no. Anything that takes a long time to make good on, for example, must be accepted on faith or based on other characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 03:10 PM
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Pretty impressive hamster. 99% of the guys buying this stuff for pleasure are not going to use their yacht to transport illegal imports. Almost nobody is going to rent their Bugatti to Instagram models unless they specifically buy a Bugatti with the sole intent to make money by renting it to Instagram models. You're trying to rationalize why male overspending is ok by making it sound practical but, in all actuality, it's going to sit in a marina or a garage until the owner wants to get his rocks…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 03:03 PM
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IF we are going to be honest with our equality, men need to understand women's nature makes them very apathetic towards nearly all men. Even the ones they are married to. And that's the way it should be. I think perhaps it's shifted. Once upon a time, women were actually fed MORE of an informational diet about the dangers and evils of men, and society was more RP. Women thus believed AMALT way more than they do now, and their husband/father was the exception to the rule. Now we actually have mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 05:53 PM
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Yeah very much agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 05:46 PM
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There's still intense pressure on women to "make it work," and most women realistically acknowledge that leaving means taking the kids, and raising them on their own is very, very challenging. This is the Beta Bux of women--you married a guy and had kids, but he's since started straying or stopped investing in the family as much. What do you do-leave and struggle raising kids on your own, or make the best of a shitty situation and cope with it for the involvement he does show? Men haven't really…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 04:06 PM
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Maybe others here have said that. I certainly haven't. Both genders can be shitty or kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 03:45 PM
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I mean until the last hundred years or so, yes. Now it's pretty equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 03:28 PM
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You have to remember though a lot of these guys feel pride very, very sensitively and insecurely, and anything that sets it off is going to be met with extreme hostility. Your dad, on the other hand, probably had a better sense of security in himself and wasn't threatened by a teenager being...a teenager, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 03:14 PM
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I mean the same thing could be said for TRPrs but they love to preach. It's a mixed bag, there's certainly knowledge of value that comes from diverse experience. I think me and gummut are the only female military veterans on this sub, and for all the ranting she does, poppy works in some type of non-profit/social work type field that deals directly with low income/homeless men. Cxj is a male nurse who works in a heavily female dominated environment, and we have an Amish/Mennonite guy floating ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 03:09 PM
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That's why I eventually decided nursing school wasn't for me, tbh. I liked working in healthcare and love people and biology, but it's become massively overwhelmed with endless certifications and further specializations just to practice in a general field. And I get it, to a degree--you have people's literal lives in your hands, but the pay and support systems just don't compensate--at least to me. Not to mention the lack of respect for the field from patients as well as other healthcare members…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 02:57 PM
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That's a hell of a hamster you've ridden for yourself. If a woman does something bad, it's obviously her own fault and she's a bad woman. If a man does something, it's because a woman enabled it and he's a hapless victim! Welcome to the Men are Magnificent concept. Guys are never in the wrong!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 02:24 PM
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Man, I thought this joke was hilarious the first 100 times I heard it, but like anything else Reddit killed it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 11:53 PM
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This on its own tells us nothing. You ever known a 17yo? Unless he's actively inside a girl right this second, chances are he's unsatisfied with his sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 11:45 PM
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No more than women have ever been. Don't mistake me. In my family, my mother is indeed the violent, cruel, and terrible person, and I intimately understand the powerlessness men can feel due to women. As bad as she is, though, she's never put him in the hospital. He's never not had the money to stay at a decent hotel if he needs a night off. And in his case, the only reason he stays is his religion. She's cut off his family, his friends, and his hobbies, and both my sister and I don't speak to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 05:36 PM
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Of course women can be abusive. Never heard of the book "A Child Called It?"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 12:53 PM
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Eh, I can't imagine being bi. But who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 12:49 PM
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I believe it's male divorcees who are less happy than female divorcees, specifically. Men keep women around for stability and comfort more than they realize. Look into the Pew studies on divorced people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 04:24 AM
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I have done neither. In any case I'm done with this conversation. You seem hostile and I don't see a benefit to continuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 04:20 AM
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Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 01:18 AM
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So she agrees with me. In any case, both of us are telling you we don't think it's really all that much worse for men on average, and you haven't really given much evidence for why it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 01:18 AM
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Many of us can have civil and interesting conversations without pulling bitch moves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 01:16 AM
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You're a funny guy. Also that's not reflected in reality or current demographic statistics. But good try.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 12:11 AM
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So you agree then that women take on a disporoportionate amount of work in a relationship or marriage? Then why is it so far to suggest that it renders them less satisfied than men? Edit: also you never did answer when I asked a few days ago, what are your wife's thoughts on who benefits more from a marriage, young men or young women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 11:54 PM
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Look at the Pew studies about divorce and happiness and beliefs about remarriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 11:50 PM
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I think if you want to do this right, I'd never separate the two. The children wouldn't have been born without the other and it will be absolute misery for children if the marriage crumbles. Sure. But, likewise, I've told my BF I see no point in a LTR if it doesn't result in marriage and family. I've also told him I'll probably leave at some point down the line, if we don't ever have kids. Kids should not be had without marriage most of the time, I'll grant you--but more and more I'm coming to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 11:01 PM
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At what age group? 21 and in college, sure. 41? 52? 35? Throughout life, I'm pretty sure. I think it might dip in the thirties as we come to terms with our biological deadlines, but after that's dealt with it rises. But feel free to do your own research. And its so fucking worth it. I can sit in front of the camp fire, kids trying to burn their faces off while making smores, wife and her family chatting away and just enjoy all the hard work we've done to get to that moment. And there are a metri…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 10:29 PM
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Sure. The most compelling argument against this is that divorced women actually report increased happiness single while divorced men report less. I believe the working theory is that as women are naturally more social they have more community connections, greater community involvement, and better friendships and support systems.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 09:53 PM
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Well, by that measure, comparing a boyfriend and a husband is basically no different. A husband asks you to give up your name is really the only concrete thing. There are studies out there, and marriage actually made women's happiness dip, I believe. The most recent studies have shown single women are actually the happiest by far, IIRC. And I believe it-I'm prone to anxiety and depression myself at times, but honestly there was a very fulfilling security I experienced single. I was not responsib…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 09:50 PM
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Dude I'm talking about studies from the WHO and the Pew Research foundation. They're hardly political bodies. Google it if you don't believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 07:54 PM
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Not a simple question, I don't think. I mean, historically women basically couldn't financially survive on their own so they definitely "needed" it more on a very tangible, concrete level. In the modern era, it's much less concrete, certainly either gender has the capabilities of living autonomously with few struggles, but a lot of data coming out now suggest men gain health, happiness, and comfort from being married, and at greater levels than female. I'd say at the least it's pretty comparable…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 07:53 PM
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Disagree, sort of. I do think holding off on monogamy too long will leave a woman lonely, but in today's world it TOTALLY makes sense to put it off long enough she can tell he actually wants her and not just an open casting call to fill the role of "girlfriend." Plus so many RP totally ignore the statistics showing men typically gain as much or more than women from marriage. When it goes south, sure, it can be really shitty, but in general men show a net positive from it and often more of one th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 07:14 PM
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God has no place here, silly sado.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 07:02 PM
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There is something to be said for getting over "fear of missing out," though. I don't have the exact study saved anymore but at least one pointed out when controlling for religion and income, getting married for the FIRST TIME after like 28 was more likely to be a lasting marriage even with a higher N than virgins getting married at sub-22. A lot of those divorce/n-count statistics are further convoluted by the fact that they don't often separate first marriages from subsequent ones, and once yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 06:57 PM
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Don't be a bitch, dude. She pointed out the only source you have is your own partners, which is shoddy research material when extrapolating it to the entire female population. There's no need to bring her personal n-count into it other than you trying to get snippy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 06:48 PM
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He's black pill. Go through his history and it's all miserable self-depreciation, griping about women, and bad information. It's just cleaned up enough it doesn't sound like the blatant Incel stuff here so it skates under the radar.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 06:42 PM
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*millennial men. Millennial women are apparently over achieving at school and work and everywhere else, and let's face it you'll need us to pay for your retirement since the boomers will drain previous security nets.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 06:38 PM
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Several have the threads saved, but long story short: BPP is a long time RedPill EC. Regularly mentions his bondage relationship with his wife. His teenage son was getting lippy at some point and he thought it was smart to pull out the bondage ropes and hogtie him untill he was obedient. The whole post is dripping with skeevy implications about how sexy his wife found it when her husband tied up her son and metaphorically conquered a younger, virile male... Who also happens to be her son.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 12:28 PM
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Ty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 03:13 AM
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Ask away.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 10:22 PM
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Shit, you beat me by a couple of points. Yeah well. I make $15/hr next to high school drop outs at the moment so it's not like it's doing me any good. But it's very chill which I needed after deployment. I just haven't figured out how to fail upwards yet, which I think is a lot of "success," when all is said and done. It's not my potential or my work ethic, I know that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 09:55 PM
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I generally approach relationships with a combination of business and playfulness, which is mostly a form of self-preservation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 09:37 PM
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Idk. I'm smart and easygoing but damaged so I'm a bad example. I've got all the hallmark traits of being very codependent but thankfully my logical parts keep them in check most of the time. I'm smart but I have low self-worth at times (more in career/life path than personal relationships). I'm generally highly capable and effective at whatever tangible job or processing I set myself to, but I fear being a disappointment and as such I've in some ways given up trying to aspire to much because any…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 09:23 PM
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Negative Ghost Rider.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 09:09 PM
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Using your IQ to justify a stance is ridiculously bad form, mate. I say that as someone with a comparable IQ, lol. Also I quite like gender roles from time to time. I'll pick and choose which ones I care about, sure, but it doesn't mean I don't see them, recognize their historical and social value, and respect them. Because I happen to have pretty impressive EQ as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 08:55 PM
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Yes, it's very much that obvious. Sorry bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 08:47 PM
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You're doing that thing where you hear what you want to rage about rather than the actual conversation at hand. As someone who quite enjoys discussion with you but gets annoyed at this quirk, please take a time out for yourself and eat something. Low blood sugar makes you grumpy, Grandpa.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 08:29 PM
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What have you done to improve her sex life lately, jw?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 07:32 PM
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Yes but with hookers. Not with wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 07:00 PM
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Shoulda been a DJ.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 11:34 AM
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I've almost exclusively dated blondes who are my height and stocky. My SO is only a fraction of an inch taller than me. Granted, I'm 5'10 so I'm not exactly petite, but I think only one of my exes is above 6'. My family is full of dark-featured basketball player builds and I distinctly have always been drawn to men who don't resemble my father/brothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 11:30 PM
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I like the cut of your jib.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 02:22 PM
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Many men aim for a woman who's reasonably cute and makes good relationship material. But they end up with nagging landwhales instead. Tbh I don't feel all that sorry for them because most men aren't exactly catches themselves. TRP even says that. From what I see, most people end up with an approximate match. Maybe men have it slightly better by some measurements and slightly worse by others, but as a whole I don't see a need to feel sorry for them for their mate options. Neither do I for women i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 12:15 PM
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I was a Lincoln kid, so that meant Pius X, lol. But honestly I was always kinda jealous of cities with good enough train systems to be able to actually have effective public transportation!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 09:45 PM
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Nah that's still pretty standard. I'm just a bit younger than you and the oldest of six kids, and as soon as we turned 16 we got some kind of wheels (usually used and not nearly as fancy as a Hummer though) just because it's basically required to get anywhere. Since I was the oldest and our high school was 30 minutes away (only Catholic School in town), I was lucky-I was gifted my Jeep (that was as old as I was and already had 100k miles) and my dad covered the insurance as long as I took my you…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 07:30 PM
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Oh Omaha is much worse than anywhere else in the state for that, but I do know what you mean! We're horrendously dependent on our vehicles here, and public transportation or on-foot transport is nearly nonexistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 06:05 PM
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Totally fair. There's not a ton of outdoor stuff in Nebraska, perhaps surprisingly for some, because 90% of our outdoors is boring flat farmland. I moved up to Michigan about a year ago and spend a lot of time in the boonies with the BF's family, and I've fallen in love with the outdoors all over again. Skiing and snowmobiling in the winter, hiking, kayaking, boating, and more in the summer. I personally haven't dropped much weight yet so I can't speak to that, but I can definitely understand wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 05:46 PM
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Sure. Women settle too though. Most of us can't score a Hemsworth brother or the perfect Doctor/S.E.A.L./Actor/NFL combo, but we get by alright. The qualities either gender considers when deciding to "settle" make an impact as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 03:56 PM
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Not sure what your point is but it appears to support my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 03:46 PM
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I mean, men have a variety of tastes. Some men here have actively stated they only like anorexically thin women (SnowdensJacket, the crazy drunk). Others like Reluctantly_Red love objectively fat women. Safe to say as a woman you'll always find somebody into you, but you'll also always have someone telling you you're too fat, regardless of your dress size
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 03:17 PM
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Sorry, as a former Nebraska resident I have to rep my home state pretty consistently... You do know Nebraska ranks only 24th in obesity and the rate for the Omaha/Council Bluffs metro area is 34% compared with the US average of 37%... Right? We've got a lot of farm folks, even in the cities, and while they're redneck they're not especially fat, due to actually having strong agricultural employment levels. Fat rednecks don't have jobs. You're thinking Alabama. Edit: granted the US in general def …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 03:10 PM
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Not really. Married women couldn't get credit cards or loans in their own name until the 80s. Women were paid lower until the 70s. Maybe your mom wouldn't tolerate it but plenty of women did. Older women are/were able to get benefits in the thirties and were often entitled to their dead husband's pensions. There's definitely been safety nets here and there but for younger women looking to escape a shitty situation, the odds were slim.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 07:22 PM
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Funny thing about that. Being a wife and a mother used to mean being respected and dignified. This is a pretty incorrect picturesque way of looking at it. I mean, yes those roles were more respected than they are now, sure, but the amount of crap women had to put up with because they were dependent on men is not something to overlook. Ask your mom and grandma if they had a neighbor who was regularly beat by her husband or who drank/gambled away their life savings and she couldn't get out because…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 05:54 PM
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You're not far off.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 05:46 PM
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Visited a buddy's parents in the Michigan boonies this weekend and got drunk, rode through trails going 50mph in a side-by-side, won a frozen t-shirt contest, and lit a mattress on fire. I have been to redneck paradise and I am its princess.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 03:01 AM
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I think you mean Rock Me, Sexy Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 02:59 AM
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Fair enough lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 07:52 PM
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... It's guerrilla warfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 07:23 PM
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Idk how relevant my personal thoughts are but for me it comes down to shared culture. I've dated mostly white Midwestern guys because I'm white and Midwestern and the standards I have to meet are known and familiar to me. While I wouldn't immediately discount someone because of their racial appearance, I would definitely discount someone with a cultural background that is foreign to me. I wouldn't know how his family wanted me to behave, I wouldn't be aware of cultural habits or sensitivities, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 08:22 PM
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There's a reason women tell other women to always be mindful of the threat men can pose. Even the good guys can be aggressive or push limits if they're under the influence. In my case, they're not hoodrats, either. I grew up in Nebraska. They're white UMC guys; the first one has his doctorate now and the second is a goofy slacker type whose parents are white collar professionals. It's literally all men that pose a basic level of risk. Just depends what kind of risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 04:30 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 02:44 PM
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I had a drunk "friend" literally pull my shirt and bra down in the middle of a bar in college, totally exposing a breast (there's a reason we stopped hanging out after we graduated).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 02:34 PM
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First I want to commend you for sharing home duties. But secondly, I also want to point out that's not necessarily the norm anymore. Yard work: many LC/MC folks live in apartments or condos where the grounds maintenance is outsourced. Car maintenance: personal vehicles have advanced in the last 20-30y where working on one's own vehicle is impractical and much more technical. I've never met a guy who actually did filters on any of the things you mention. Even my dad who was a decent handyman real…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 12:26 PM
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If you're more concerned with enforcing "fairness" than realistic practicalities, I've got nothing for you. I've only used the men's restroom at bars when there was literally noone in line to use it and the female bathroom was over packed. It cost men literally nothing for me to go in and do my business and get out. I'm all for gender neutral bathrooms, fyi. But other folks aren't as focused on practicalities as I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 11:47 AM
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Here on PPD.... Anonymous photo thread during the original Purge Week. Going strong nearly 2y now. He's my Bear. Today, Me F30, him M32. If it doesn't work out with this one I'm cool being a cat lady for the rest of my days, but he's pretty great most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 12:53 AM
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Sure. But to suggest you'd push your daughter towards marriage rather than your son doesn't suggest you're actually seeking what's best for them, even though I'm sure that's your intent--rather just what fits the male prerogative. No impertinence or personal attacks meant, genuinely curious--but have you asked your wife if she thinks your kids should marry? How about boys vs girls in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 10:16 PM
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Doesn't change the statistics on it. Even with all the TRP scare tactics, statistically speaking marriage is still likely to benefit your sons and be detrimental to your daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 08:37 PM
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I prove a lot of things such as AWALT is real, you are the one to put judgement of value. Not really. Not to the extent you claim. Again scroll up. You didn't deny you think all women are inevitably going to divorce-rape even when statistically that's laughable. You may not be crazy, but you follow the steps of those who are. What is the name of those who are paranoid and hear things which aren't real? Let me make something clear. We disagree and you don't like me. That doesn't make me or you cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 08:15 PM
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You consistently suggest women suck without providing reasonable justification. Call me crazy all you like, I'm pretty normal. The people here who also strike me as reasonable and normal seem to appreciate me as well. Maybe confirmation bias, but I'm ok with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 08:06 PM
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If you work for the army that explains your views. It's very tradcon in some ways and progressive in others. I wouldn't encourage my hypothetical daughters to get married. Women still perform more labor and are expected to make more sacrifices to the good of the family. I've seen way too many smart, pretty, capable women taking care of man-children and their offspring, often while providing equally or more financially. If you want her to be happy, don't advise her to get married or have kids. Sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 07:45 PM
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I haven't really changed the subject. You keep leading in weird directions. Many of my comments are 3 lines or less-hardly enough to significantly change the conversation. In any case, this is getting boring. I basically expect you to tell me I'm wrong and women suck without ever providing legitimate justification for the extreme-ness of your stance, because that's what you often do. Show me something new and I'll choose to change my perception of you. Until then, goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 07:30 PM
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Because you do, as well. But feel free to tell me how you're right and I'm wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 06:34 PM
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Maybe you should read over your own history and reflect on it. It doesn't appear that way to me and I'm not even a bloop. Go back several months so you don't remember writing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 04:04 PM
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But you don't define AWALT other than to speak negatively of it, throughout much of your comment history. It's clear that you consider AWALT bad and AMALT good.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 01:33 PM
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is not a small subset of women who show AWALT traits, up to 80% correlation to be precise. I.e. it IS a trait of the group "women". But that does not mean 80% of women are divorce-raping whores. See the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 11:41 AM
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Sure. But that doesn't excuse you consistently giving data to absolve men while never giving data that confirms your claims about women. You have a tendency to want to "prove men innocent and women guilty." Maybe we see that only 2% of men are criminals in Brazil, and I'll agree that's a minority. It doesn't change the fact that they are statistically MORE violent than women. But you'll claim it's only a subset of men so we shouldn't judge them so harshly. But when a standard appears by which wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 09:55 PM
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I responded to an earlier comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 08:10 PM
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The same can be asserted to AWALT. As I said before, from what I can perceive, is around 70-80% of women's behavior in the sexual and relationship markets can be described by it, thus... it is a trait of women. At least from my crude assertions. Except you can't state this as fact or shared trait with any quality of scientific thought. What are your metrics for collecting data? What are the standards and metrics you are measuring? How are your data points calculated? What qualities of statistics…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 08:10 PM
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You preach, call other people idiots, and refuse to give them credit for valid points because it damages your pride. There is no benefit to debating with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 07:29 PM
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I could. There's just no benefit to attempting it with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 06:37 PM
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You typically don't make arguments worth addressing. You preach, and when anyone counters you call them dumb. There's no motivation to actually discuss anything you say most of the time. You're here to shill RP, not to debate. And that's ok, but don't blame me for declining to engage with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 05:20 PM
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Bummer!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 03:38 PM
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What the heck are those gifs from?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 03:31 PM
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Are you in Michigan? Ever get down to the lower peninsula? We should get beer and bitch about men. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 03:29 PM
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He announced a few weeks ago he was moving in with his new GF he'd known for only like 4mo, I think. Kinda curious how that one's working out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 03:11 PM
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I can't decide if I feel personally attacked and triggered by this or not. 😆 In any case, this is me, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 02:36 PM
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You are so very impressed with yourself it's genuinely hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 10:55 PM
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Many, many people plan to get together if they're in the same place at the same time for coffee/beer and reconnecting. Very few go into it with the straight expectation of sex. Maybe the possibility, sure, but it's foolhardy of you to expect it as a given. I'm pretty sure you're the weird one here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 10:54 PM
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Most well-adjusted people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 10:25 PM
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Camo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 10:10 PM
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Remember this is the guy who refuses to tip female servers ANYTHING because they get enough money and attention from other men. His standard is pretty much established.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 05:22 PM
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You went in under the guise of catching up but that was not your intent. Women are not mind readers any more than men and just because you want to fuck them does not mean you're entitled to it. Why on Earth would you plan a sexcation without letting your planned sex partners know and then blame them when you don't get sex is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 05:17 PM
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I find this quite funny given your thoughts you've expressed here. You don't like being judged because your demographic data fits a stereotype, but when it comes to women that's different, right? AWALT no matter what credentials they bring to the table. I sympathize, but I also find your experience ironic because of the prejudice you yourself often express.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 05:09 PM
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I basically never demand pics on this sub, but I have to demand doggo pics. DM me that pupper.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 05:04 PM
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Bit generous with ourselves, aren't we? 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 01:33 PM
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True. Although I think the format reinforces that; the EC/SECs often hang around for years and many of them still seem stuck in the same anger phase the newbies arrive in, judging by their user histories.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 01:47 PM
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Most times men find a balance of not hating women, but not pedestaizing them. I think this used to be the case. I don't think it is anymore unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 11:44 AM
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Eeeeecxactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 11:41 AM
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Lol. For real though it starts to get in my brain if I don't keep tabs on it. Reinforce every terrible thing about men ever, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 04:33 AM
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I mean yeah. It's why I take breaks from this place every few months too. Need to remember what normal people are like.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 02:51 AM
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I really love that you've kept that flair for a while fyi. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 01:04 AM
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It's very rare. I've got very close male friends who would for me and I for them, but even then I know I'm the bottom on the priority list after all their other male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 12:45 AM
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Fair points. Just more of a minor note, you mention being bisexual and also pointing out you don't date men-is it a bisexual/heteroromantic thing, then? JW.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 06:44 PM
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What are the significant difference you perceive?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 06:25 PM
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Zooteir is great. The bear one made me lol so hard a few months ago when I was fighting off a respiratory infection that I ended up in a coughing fit for 5 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 05:52 PM
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I mean, we millennials aren't that much better, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 02:44 PM
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Men think of who they can rely on. Who will answer the phone at 3am and be there for them no questions asked. If there's one thing I'm truly jealous of men for, it's this. It's much rarer in female friendships, and pretty much unheard of between men & women if they're not fucking or don't want to. Spent 5 of the loneliest months of my life in Kuwait basically on my own because I was the only female & didn't want to bone anyone I worked with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 01:17 PM
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Generally these aren't the same women in the having-sex-with-scary-guys group and the don't-talk-to-strangers group.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 06:55 PM
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The point is I'm not failing and neither is she. We're not asking for help, we're saying there's other ways to succeed. And you're ignoring that. It's funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 04:22 PM
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There's more than one way to exist, yours is not the only correct path. Your inability to understand that is what makes you look myopic. I don't know what reality you think I need to face. You seem to assume an awful lot about people you don't know and it sounds pretty dumb to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 03:29 PM
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That's not what's going on. She's not asking you to care in the "help me" sense, she's describing her own life and her situation, and you're actively telling her her experiences with her SO are lies because he's faking it, because that's what you do. Shockingly, not everyone in the world is you and people see and do and feel different things. Reality is indeed reality, and there are more experiences and perspectives than just yours. The fact you can't seem to understand that is laughable. There …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 02:16 PM
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It's not about your life though. It's about hers. But you don't really care and want to keep talking about your own situation. It's hilariously naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 02:03 PM
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Throughout this whole comment thread, you're talking more about your own life than trying to understand hers. And then insisting you know her situation better than she does. It's impressive and shockingly myopic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 01:51 PM
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So a guy gets drunk and shows off a weapon (pellet gun), including waving it out the window at bystanders. She gets nervous and calls the cops, and a male cop shoots and kills the guy cause he thinks he's reaching for a gun.... And this is the woman's fault. Holy fuck you're nuts. This guy could've NOT pulled out a weapon when he was drunk, the officer could've been more restrained, etc. But tbh I think MOST rational people would've at least considered calling the cops on this dude, female or no…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 01:50 PM
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You are honestly so in your own head it's sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 01:15 PM
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.... Don't tempt me... Halloween is coming up, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 01:05 PM
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Always gone for burly-built smartasses. I used to like computer nerds cause they were the type I primarily socialized with. Eventually I got an appreciation for practical skills and hung out with more farm boys and military types. BF is an office guy who likes comic books and outdoor sports. Bit of both, more or less.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 12:28 PM
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Yeah ongoing leg issues. Basically I sprained the ankle too many times over the last 10y and the joint is falling apart and taking the rest of me with it. But MRI later this month and then hopefully I can actually see an ortho about surgery or chopping it off! 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 11:23 AM
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I've been busier lately, plus I've just been taking more time away from the sub. There's too many stupid angry people here lol. I need to vibe with my other normies a bit more or this place gets too frustrating. Plus we've been running around Michigan this Summer so my weekends and holidays have been packed. Beautiful part of the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 05:11 PM
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I'm actually a bit saddened I'm not on this list. RIP my friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 04:42 PM
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Some men. The majority of them think of themselves and their pricks first and foremost.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 12:52 PM
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Grew up in Nebraska and live in Michigan now so I'm part of the vanilla "standard" English Midwest. Our accent is often considered "non-accented" although it's not. The further north you go in Michigan the more you notice the "oo" sound becomes Canadian. I'm not really a fan. I've always considered exceptionally "foreign" exotic accents pretty enough to listen to but not really ones I'm personally interested in pursuing, primarily for cultural reasons. My relaxed Midwesternism is comfortable and…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 12:49 PM
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Ok let's break this down. Your argument hinges on thirst being equivalent in some way between the sexes. Too eager to get something (especially play) Do you think women are really as eager as men for sex? If so how does that manifest equivalently? Desperate Do you think women are equally as desperate for sex? 3.An adjective used in describing a person deliberatley, fishing for attention, compliments, etc. This one could be argued for validation but for women that's not explicitly tied to having …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 06:30 PM
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I'll definitely make a note of that! 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 11:17 PM
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I'll make sure you get one!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 11:03 PM
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Not really. He came to visit shortly before I deployed, we kept talking while we were 10 time zones apart, when I got home I moved 4 states away to live with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 09:25 PM
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Met the BF on PPD. /u/BPremium. Been together almost 2y now. He's a dork, I'm a dork, it's all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 03:05 PM
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You know that the crazier this sub gets the more you start to sound blue right? Makes me chuckle. I remember when you seemed angrier. I don't know if it's the sub changing or if you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 06:50 PM
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"Where should we begin" is one of my favorite podcasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 06:48 PM
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I didn't know I knew you IRL. And thanks for calling me v attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 07:48 PM
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Jeez.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 11:41 AM
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This is... Nothing to do with the definition of solipsism.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 11:23 AM
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This is actually quite funny. Thank you for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 11:21 AM
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Can confirm. In bed and the BF is snuggling the furball instead of me. Cheaters, both of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 03:56 AM
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I wish this stereotype would die. It's a rich stereotype, not a Catholic one. I went to Catholic School, K-12, uniforms, nuns, etc, and the richest kids threw parties and did drugs. The rest of us were too busy with studying and extra curriculars and jobs. Similar to my friends at public schools.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 11:51 PM
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She's hot though, and as we've been told 10,000 times, that's all that really matters. /S.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 11:18 PM
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Eh. I feel like he really doesn't know how to be funny unless it's extremely sexist. There's plenty of great comedians out there who comment on gender politics but...I honestly don't know what he'd talk about if it wasn't his fury at and attraction to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 06:39 PM
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Holy hell, OP, this whole thing just comes off as so myopic and catty, except framed through the "logic" of a Sperg. This doesn't reflect the reality I've seen, TBH. Most of the single moms I've ever known are really hard working and dedicated, they're just pulled in a zillion different directions. But if it makes you feel good to sit on your ivory tower, don't let me stop you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 05:14 PM
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That makes me hot tell me more
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 12:25 PM
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THANK YOU for that. Holy fuck can we just set that up for auto reply on every n-count thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 12:24 PM
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My favorite "type" is like, burly stocky orangutan-built guys, for lack of a better description. They're often built a bit on the strongfat side just naturally, which is totally fine! I'm similarly built. Just like.... Not... Blankets of flesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 06:24 PM
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depends on how fat he is, if that is included in your uggo remarks. I can get over just about everything but being suffocated by a blob. Can be husky but if he's got a fat apron I'm out. if his game is really that good, and back when I looked for casual sex, sure. I was not very picky on looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 05:04 PM
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Nah standard VA hospital, but I think I might be outsourced to a Civilian ortho specialist, we'll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 01:37 PM
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So the wall is a woman developing self-preservation? If that's the case, than the frustration with the wall is that men cannot as easily take advantage of her? So men do take advantage of a woman's naïvete, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 08:45 PM
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So the wall is a woman developing self-preservation? If that's the case, than the frustration with the wall is that men cannot as easily take advantage of her? So men do take advantage of a woman's naïvete, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 08:45 PM
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ITT: the same guys who bitch about women taking advantage of men totally ignoring when they've taken advantage of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 08:43 PM
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You think women are responsible for all the evils of life though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 08:12 PM
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I'm not denying that there has been a lot of rape, but the idea that most conception from rape is far fetched. I think we'd simply have to agree to disagree. Rape is pretty common in the animal kingdom, especially in species with a clear but not extreme size discrepancy. Course I'd be curious to see any data on the matter. Another manosphere trope.....women date across and up. You're using this incorrectly. IIRC women date THEIR OWN equal or up. We don't have penii, so we can't date "across," "u…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 05:49 PM
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You ascribe a lot of anatomical instances to behavioral tendencies that cannot really be verified. "Scoop" aspect of penises as evidence for AFBB -- Actually imagine why this would be useful for a moment. It necessitates rapid succession of mates within a few hours. Are we really talking AFBB or are we talking more about a gangbang at best, gangrape more likely? The idea that women really had much choice in mate selection and using the penis shape as supporting evidence is humorous to me. Rememb…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 05:29 PM
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Have an MRI next month and then hopefully a referral to an Ortho specialist. On the one hand I hate that it's so long between appointments and I'm preparing myself to be ignored again, on the other I'm finally getting someone to look at me, so fingers crossed and trying to stay optimistic. Fasting seems to be working for the moment, I'm not putting on any more weight lately, so hopefully I can at least stay where I'm at until I can get back to the gym without being in severe pain. Bad news is my…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 05:16 PM
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Some women. Not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 01:02 AM
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Yup. Plus as far as women go, so much of attraction for us is initial chemistry. I've had great text communication only to be really disappointed when we met, and I've gone on a lark for a coffee with a guy I was lukewarm on only to walk away with butterflies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 11:53 PM
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Probably true. I was usually down for coffee or a drink early on, but the biggest issue for me was I was OLD when I was also working or in school 60-70h/week and I'd just get too busy and distracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 11:24 PM
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Lotta guys get salty at girls ghosting but back in my OLD days it happened a lot to me as well. People just get distracted by real life and if you don't take steps to be a part of that early on it's easy to get forgotten in the shuffle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 10:09 PM
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Just remember to push for a face-to-face within the first week or two. Any longer and people typically just forget and lose interest without an IRL connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 09:57 PM
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A good creamy soup on cold days, fruit salad in the summer. For fruit salad I usually just chop a bunch up and throw in a tablespoon or two of honey and lemon juice; I'll make enough to take for breakfast for 2-3d. Soup: I found a great Chicken-Gnocchi Olive garden knockoff recipe, or a bacon corn chowder.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 09:49 PM
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Class warfare in action. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 05:35 AM
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I cannot support legislation that would financially trap women in potentially dangerous relationships or medical situations. While I get that it can irreparably change the direction of a guy's life, it does for the women too. And it doesn't directly threaten their lives. Forcing women to have children they can't afford is likely to force women to stay in abusive relationships, and overturning abortion can actually kill women with high risk pregnancies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 12:59 AM
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And women have been doing that for men for millennia, and still do in many countries. I don't know what else you want me to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 10:42 PM
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Is it just a dollar amount that dictates what's a legitimate grief, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 10:30 PM
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Good luck with this one then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 08:36 PM
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I have no idea what you're talking about anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 08:02 PM
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OP and his fucked up hobby horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 06:03 PM
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Boo. But ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 02:04 PM
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Exhibit A. Seriously though, have you had to go to court for your kids? Has anybody you know? What has their situation actually been? Very few men actually have to go to war for their kids (most custody agreements are reached mutually), and of those that do, if they're a non-criminal and can hold down a job, the battle is not that crazy 99% of the time. (Also, being white helps a lot, but trying to keep race comments to a minimum).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 01:30 PM
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Female sexuality has to be that way. Our own sexuality has throughout history been a much greater threat to our survival, rather than the "orangutan with a stick," as you put it. Other than that, cute lit class piece. Very strained and hazy in that beachy California sort of way, like BLL or Californication.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 01:16 PM
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If you become the victim of such a crime, you deserve justice. That is not in any way diminished by what someone is wearing or how much they had to drink. People who drink too much shouldn't be told "you should have been smarter, now deal with what you asked for". Victims deserve justice. I don't disagree with you on any of this but the world is not always black and white. Justice is neither science or art, and perfect outcomes are few. Everything looks terrible from all sides and people rarely …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 01:00 PM
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Say a girl gets raped at a party a la the Brock Turner case. Should she have used more common sense? Should she have worn something less suggestive? Should she have been drinking? All of these things the answer could reasonably be argued "yes," even though there will be some who rant about victim blaming. But there's also steps that could've been taken that weren't. None of it absolves the rapist from actually raping, either. A marriage is not a legal contract in the sense of a purchase agreemen…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 12:11 PM
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Where is "here?"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 11:35 AM
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Come on now we could make the same argument for rape or any other dishonest action one person acts against another. So it's the [victim's] fault for lacking common sense, not the [rapist's] fault for lacking morals and dignity? There's reasonable common sense to act with in all aspects of life; I don't think it's too much to say when it comes to signing legal documents related to paternity, marriage, etc, men should have an understanding of the gravity of the documents. Of course the mom did som…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 11:33 AM
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It's not written like a girl. It's written like a guy larping as a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 01:03 AM
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No. Because it's written like fanfiction. I know women can be shitty thank you much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 12:47 AM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 09:18 PM
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I'd be curious to see who said that and when. You have a gift for twisting context after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 09:17 PM
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Not to any greater extent than men. But again, I'm done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 02:03 PM
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Oh come now that's the most basic of English. If you don't understand this I don't know what else to tell you, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 01:47 PM
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I don't smoke anything but cigarettes (although I'm trying to quit at the moment), I rarely drink, and I got 7h sleep. You don't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 01:37 PM
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Men have more potential to damage and are more likely than if they were to be women. However violence is not a trait of men, it is a trait of criminals, that they are mostly men just it. It is a non sequitur. This line of thought does not proceed. Women have more potential to be respurce-occupied and collect prizes from men. However, sexual opportunism is not a trait of women, it is a trait of the women who golddig, and that they are mostly women does not make it a female trait. Same paragraph j…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 01:02 PM
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I repeated the exact context back to you with different genders, then you tried to tell me I was right, I think. In any case, it's a new day and I'm done with that convo. Safe to say you don't pay attention and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 11:25 AM
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You the PPD MVP.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 11:19 AM
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I'm 99% this is some dude writing odd Literotica to get his nuts off to. It's just weird to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 11:16 AM
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Brit is another story, I've heard it sucks bad for you folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 11:12 AM
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And the shitty thing is, those people exist everywhere. Good news is you're not a sociopath. Bad news is you need to take a chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 05:03 AM
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Get off PPD. And if you find yourself hating women to the point you can't function in the real world go hang out on some girl subs where they talk about all the awful shit men can do too. But this place will eat you up if you let it. Tap out, unsubscribe from the sub for a while, and work on the people you know IRL for a few weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 04:39 AM
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That they won't get anything at all if they don't try for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 04:37 AM
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I'm saying if we try to base arguments off data we don't have, none of this is worth arguing about anymore. I could make the same point about the number of women who never report or pursue a rape charge against a guy, and how men are probably even MORE predatory than we know, and you'd laugh me out of the sub because you won't like or agree with it. So I'll tell you right now I refuse to have conversations on made up data or suppositions because it simply won't go anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 04:26 AM
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Pretty much this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 04:23 AM
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Dude you need a Xanax or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 04:19 AM
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Only a very small number of men fight for custody, in fact it's lower than the number of male stay at home partners that take care of kids. Because the vast majority know it's pointless. So they don't fight and they won't get custody. See how that's a self-fulfilling prophecy? It's also a total cop-out for the sake of debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 04:12 AM
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Ok straight up if you're going to quote 47000 word articles to me, instead of offering a blunt and 100% transparent and honest point (which again you don't seem capable of presenting anything the way it's actually written within context), I'm going to block you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 04:09 AM
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You blatantly miss context. I'm quoting your own words back to you with the genders swapped and pointing out how skewed you're presenting it, and you fall directly into it over and over again in different comments. I get that English is not your first language here but you are only proving my point instead of yours by not paying attention to context.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 04:07 AM
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IN THE CONTEXT OF JUVENILE DETENTION FACILITIES ONLY? or do you have some general context?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 04:04 AM
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Very true
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 04:02 AM
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No prob! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 04:01 AM
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This. /u/sublimemongrel has posted countless times on the actual legal structures and statistics of custody, and while she doesn't operate in family practice, her sources and data are pretty top notch. While I can't speak specifically to OP's situation, statistically speaking men who actually fight for their kids, keep their noses clean, and generally play the game, they get equitable custody. It's not perfect but neither is it the hellscape men like to croon over.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 11:46 PM
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If by a "long shot" you mean 10% to 2%, then sure. I literally could not find any sources that suggested women sexually molested children at a rate even close to men, and I have been looking. It has been rising in recent years but even then most studies put women at less than 20% of offenders. Violence against children, perhaps. Many studies suggest women can be just as physically abusive especially given the size disparity between children and adults, but sexually speaking it's apparent men are…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 10:49 PM
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However I have data on what happens when men start earn equal or less than women (divorce) or when they lose their work (also divorce), and other specific 'parts' of the hypothesis which show it explaining data. I don't have many of those by memory alone but I can ask TRP to send me their papers. Do you happen to know if the data supported your 70-80% claim? It's behind a paywall for me. Doesn't matter. It needs to be compared to the overall male population not women for a trait to be considered…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 10:26 PM
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No other data that I'm aware of shows anything different, and both data points have a similar order of magnitude, which I don't think is a coincidence. If women are 9 times more likely to molest a child in one context, and 8 times more likely in another context, then I think it should at least raise some eyebrows. Then Google it. The data about rape is not limited but is fairly comprehensive, at least for the United States, including multiple official sources from the United States government it…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 09:15 PM
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I want you to notice something. For the men you gave actual criminal statistics. For the women you gave an unclear and indefinite description. What is "behave by TRP theory prediction?'" what study or publication puts it at 70-80% You do not have the information to back up your claims on women. Furthermore, statistics do show men are 4x as likely to kill their woman as women are to kill their man. They are more likely to put their woman in the hospital with physical damage. They are more likely …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 08:54 PM
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(I made a general statement, and then provided two specific data points to support that statement). Oh come now that's a pretty weak defense and I think you know that. You cannot extrapolate that data set to all women everywhere and the way you worded it most definitely implied you meant to. demonstrate that men are statically no more dangerous than women are We have literally all of human history that disagrees with you, not to mention science. You won't convince ANYONE women are just as danger…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 07:57 PM
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You prove me correct with this comment. Above, you say women are toxic because they see men as criminal. I point out men here generally see women by their "crimes" as well, and you suggest the behaviorist approach of TRP is best. Do you not see how these women ARE taking a behaviorist view of men? Or do you think men are not more violent and aggressive and criminal than women are?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 07:30 PM
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You need to recognize the sample is incredibly specific. It doesn't ask about All Women, it asks about the staff of juvenile detention centers and kids who are from a specific high risk category. It's like you took the grades of a hundred first grade classes specifically in low-income areas and decided it was the average for all students in the country, at all grades, in every region and neighborhood. You absolutely HAVE to qualify it with that to properly present your point. It's not, as you pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 07:10 PM
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Hateful? My God if the world was so lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 06:31 PM
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As opposed to men thinking divorce rape and outrageous CS/alimony is the norm? It's not, according to actual data, but try telling that to them. The men here struggle to name 5 nice things about their SO that don't begin and end with "she lets me fuck her." At least the women still say nice things about their SOs. They don't owe the strangers here anything just as the men like to remind us they don't owe us anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:38 PM
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I see what you did there. Keep the shirt on, Hulk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:31 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/cp9fbp/if_written_like_a_news_report_what_stories_from/ This popped up in my feed yesterday and I just about died. FL Man headlines are just great.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:26 PM
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So meta data? I'd like to see the actual sources that state it, considering the actual study you linked suggests men are consistently perpetrators at significantly higher rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 05:23 PM
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He won't respond. He doesn't the second you poke a hole in his hot air
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 04:53 PM
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His data is cherrypicked at best, false at worst, and he refuses to interact when it's pointed out to him. Check the brief interaction we've had elsewhere in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 04:38 PM
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from your CDC data, men were the perpetrators by a significant majority in every context except prison/juvie. Given that you misrepresented the data so impressively I wouldn't consider your other statistics worth a fig unless you can provide compete sources and context.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 04:13 PM
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Look at all these goddamn pearl-clutchers! Listen here, y'all tell us on the reg how women cheat, branch swing, file for divorce, divorce rape for resources, etc. You don't measure it, you don't polish it up, you don't dress it up to look pretty, you want to force us to look it in the eye and say "We Are Worms." AWALT. Well here's your moment, All Men. Men are more likely to rape. Men are more likely to murder their SO. Men are more likely to put their SO in the hospital. Men are more likely to …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 02:57 PM
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Look at all these little TRP bitches who can't handle that the reverse of AWALT is AMALT, and that shockingly men are prone to doing some shitty things at rates greater than women do. Men are more violent, thus OF COURSE they are more likely to be child rapists, etc etc. Men are more likely to kill their opposite-sex partner by a factor of 4 than women are. Except for the under-30 crowd (where the numbers are about equal) men are much more likely to cheat on their spouse. We have literally hundr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 02:07 PM
5

Look at Mr NAMALT over here. Bet you're a beautiful snowflake who doesn't hang out with other men because they're too low drama, right? /S. Just in case it's not apparent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 01:46 PM
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Those are patently false. Here's two beautifully researched comments, one from the MRA subreddit, that really go into detail on several topics related to rape and false rape claims. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensLib/comments/9hraly/fact_checking_false_rape_accusations_and_why_we/ https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/3smt92/correcting_rpmra_rape_myths/by
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 01:45 PM
2

Either and both.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 01:05 PM
1

im comfortable The reason men cheat is they're comfortable with what they have but still want what they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 12:48 PM
3

Yeah I wouldn't do it unless I had to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 11:47 AM
1

They also tend to have much higher rates of sexual harassment, legit forced spousal rape, and violence against women. Pardon me if I don't think that's a great trade.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 09:00 PM
1

Yah I'm gonna need statistics on that whole last paragraph. That's nothing more than wishful thinking IMO; instead you're going to have a lot more kids on welfare and men running around knocking up women and then peace-ing out--which is why they changed the laws in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 08:46 PM
5

Yeep.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 07:20 PM
1

The Religious Right and its championing of anti-abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:48 PM
1

Quite frankly, you're rude and sarcastic in your approach and I refuse to actually discuss in good faith with anyone like that. It's worthless for both parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 03:09 PM
2

Fleabag is the shit. Have an updoot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 11:46 AM
2

You need to lay off the drugs my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 11:14 AM
3

That's what I's appreciates about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 11:13 AM
1

Nah. Because you don't want to entertain other perspectives, quite frankly you're not entitled to me admitting anything, and with an attitude like that I don't really even care to continue discussing anything with you or read your sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 12:01 AM
1

The minorities don't typically believe there's a simple one-size-fits-all solution to all their issues, AFAIK.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 09:07 PM
2

I mean, there's a lot of information that points to 1) fewer men paying alimony as the wage gap closes, and 2) the fact that if men actually take the time and effort fight for custody they generally get 50/50. The laws are skewed but they're generally not actually skewed as much as a lot of guys claim. A good chunk of it too is that women are more often than not the social providers of the family. Mom plans the play dates, the couples nights, the family get togethers. That's not going to change …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 06:53 PM
2

Work around the "asking for help" thing, as that's clearly not the way most men operate. The thing that would probably pull most men back from the brink is a purpose and camraderie. They don't need to know that there's someone out there who'll help them, but that there's still something left for him to do and a place for him to be. While I sympathize with you on this, I don't know what any realistic organizational help is supposed to look like given these constraints. Help them. But they won't t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 06:13 PM
1

I fully believe those are your honest to God opinions. I also fully believe that level of extreme thought is unhealthy at worst and undereducated at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 12:44 PM
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I'll give you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 12:40 PM
2

I still don't get if you think the whole thing is fake or you just think she was out of line, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 11:47 AM
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I mean do you doubt it happens or do you think it's just dumb? Cause I think it's a bit much but I can totally see it happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 11:15 AM
1

Well that escalated quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 04:49 AM
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IME working class seem to be a bit bluntly racist, but UMC are much more racist they just hide it more. I also live in the Midwest though so coasts/South might be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 04:41 AM
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My criterion were consistent and unchanged from my original comment and basically you're a fucking idiot for thinking otherwise. Again nobody fucking sees what you're inventing. Go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 04:37 AM
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Dude nobody is interacting with you or agreeing with you. All of your "quotes" were left without significant context and everyone can see that. Please kindly fuck off now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 12:29 AM
1

Which is why I originally said: The DE TOOK ER JERBS folks should actually be directing their frustration at immigrants at the higher levels of society who ARE actually taking nice jobs with good benefits from natives and driving down the value of them then the poor labor immigrants picking produce or what have you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 07:06 PM
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No, you're mistaking me. A skilled tech job is posted. Two applicants of equivalent education and experience apply, one native citizen and one immigrant. The native will ask for more money so they give it to the immigrant, who takes the lower pay in order to remain in the US. Thus with enough immigration, the overall value for the job class itself is lowered. This is an established trend in mid and high level tech fields especially those that are eligible for HB1 visas. It's also why some advoca…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 06:34 PM
1

I need more specified context for this question. To what you are referring is unclear
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 06:01 PM
1

Google HB1 visas and their effect on the economy. It's mixed, I'll admit they offer some economic boosts, but they definitely take lower pay than similarly-educated Americans are willing to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 04:22 PM
1

Drives down the salaries for those jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 03:54 PM
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I felt the same way about Kuwait when I was there. There's a few very wealthy people and a country full of poor immigrants making pennies. Kuwaitis themselves are arrogant pricks and the working class is grasping and cutthroat and hustling to get by. The only thing they have to their merit is oil, which is slowly losing political value as green energy is gaining traction. But, the reason America takes care of Kuwait is probably very similar to the reason we invest so much in Israel-it gives us a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 02:05 PM
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I'm actually more ok with importing from the shithole countries for this reason. The DE TOOK ER JERBS folks should actually be directing their frustration at immigrants at the higher levels of society who ARE actually taking nice jobs with good benefits from natives and driving down the value of them then the poor labor immigrants picking produce or what have you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 01:58 PM
5

Something something "fell down an elevator shaft onto a dozen bullets," I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 01:53 PM
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Nobody really buys this. "Don't want to get cheated on be a better girlfriend." Would you say the same thing if the genders were reversed? Cheating in 99% of cases is because the cheater takes an easier path instead of the right one. Tells a comfortable lie. Says yes when they could've said no. Nothing in your comment suggests the cheater is more willing to take the hard but honest choice in the future. There's no magic "be a better girlfriend/boyfriend" trick. Good partners, good people are che…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 01:50 PM
1

I dream of expanding my baking repertoire when we get a house with a decent kitchen in a few years. I've made plenty of sweets here and there but never a pie. How necessary are the weights for a good crust, anyways? Quite frankly it seems like one of those kitchen tools that are more gimmicky than necessary but like I said, no experience to prove me right or wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 09:33 PM
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We're women. We can't actually eat delicious things or we turn into The Blob, so if you're telling a story including food, be prepared to tell us every juicy, saccharine, meaty detail. It's why we never know where we want to go for dinner. It's a war within ourselves knowing we can't actually eat what we want on the menu, so we're weighing how much we want to suffer in silence that day (Just because I've discovered anew in the last 24h how many guys here have the humor and reading comprehension …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 09:16 PM
1

So you were having some weird conversation you made up in your head and I was the stand in for it. Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 09:04 PM
3

We all have our baggage to bear. At least you have plenty of company with that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 09:02 PM
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Not yours, his. Idk enough about you yet to remember weird anecdotes but so far you seem cool. EssauTheRed, however, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 08:56 PM
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And you nut in your junkie crazy FWB but then we all like to live dangerously somehow I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 08:14 PM
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Ok 1) again, literally every other commentor including other RP men got what I was saying so I don't think this is a woman thing or a not-red thing. It appears you're trying to have an argument with me about something I never said or implied. 2) You half-quoted to try to sneak in a jab. The exact contexts in full sentence is this: it's kinda expected that there will be highs and lows in a couple's sex life. Over the course of a relationship of significant length, there's going to be raunchy sexc…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:17 PM
1

Yeah pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 03:48 PM
2

I'd be curious for a cost comparison but I'm too lazy to Google anything this morning. Safe to say I think we'd see, quite literally, sperm is cheap and eggs & incubators are expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 03:22 PM
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Plus I don't know a single girl my age who hasn't had an abortion I'm guessing you don't know many girls then. It's really not an every-other-girl kinda thing, ffs. I'm thirty and I can count on 1 hand the number of women I know who've had one and I imagine my female friends talk to me about that kinda thing more than yours would talk to you because... Penis, quite frankly. This kinda larping is dumb. Go back to parrotting your TRP/BlackPill talking points, at least then you sound quasi believab…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 03:15 PM
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Not exactly. These types try to over ascribe themselves logic. Of course they're logical, but they have almost a fear of admitting emotion to the point they paint themselves as completely objective in all things, when any attentive outsider could read their actions and show you how they're motivated by the same things as the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 11:15 AM
1

Army does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 11:12 AM
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Yeah tbh I'd tell younger women to stay away from cops/military/firefighters. It's romantic and shit but goddamnit if they don't have a host of endemic relationship issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 02:56 AM
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Do you want a relationship? If not just enjoy the gig and keep fucking whom you can get. Bartenders may not be husband material but it's a good job for random ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 02:54 AM
3

I explicitly stated maintenance sex is not an issue if it's not the standard. But read as selectively as you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 02:53 AM
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No dude it was in place from my first comment. Go back and check if you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 02:36 AM
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Look dude I thought I made it pretty clear there are highs and lows in normal healthy sexual relationships where they've been together longer than about 6mo and it's different from being shut down to nothing. If you want to have a discussion on dead-bedrooms we can but that's not what I was originally referencing-which everyone else including a few RP men seems to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 12:10 AM
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Yeah to each their own. I straight up told him I didn't mind but I would not recommend men randomly stick it in without some kind of ground rules when both parties are fully coherent
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 12:05 AM
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Truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 12:04 AM
1

Sure baby whatever works for you. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 12:02 AM
1

Nah not triggered, highly amused. Can't counter some levels of stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 11:28 PM
1

Wat. Hahahahahahahaha fuck please post more this is dumbass gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 11:04 PM
2

Shit between Betty White and Bea Arthur, sign me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 09:21 PM
3

Yup, basically
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 09:21 PM
6

Eh you got about a decade on me, Grandpa. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 09:09 PM
6

I've always had them, young grasshopper. Old grasshopper..... Insect of some ambiguous age.........
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 09:02 PM
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The vast majority have done something to make her leave, in my witnessed experience. There's a few genuinely sad harsh cases where the woman is a preying harpy cunt but in my time in I've realized a lot of men in are really shitty to their wives and the military still just sort of ignores it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 08:57 PM
1

I'd buy your autobiography. Just make sure the story about the toe/foot guy is told in complete detail. I don't remember all of it except it was hilarious and horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 08:53 PM
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There's maintenance sex once in a while cause life happens and starfish dead-bedroom bullshit cause people stop caring for each other. If you can't tell the difference that's not on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 08:49 PM
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As a female who's served in the military, I have no sympathy for those men these days at least. They cheat even if she doesn't, and a disturbing number are violent and predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 08:18 PM
1

Same could be said of men, tbh. There's still places they had, still have, and might always have an edge.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 07:44 PM
2

I wish I had it saved but there was a /r/Relationships post where the guy got drunk and proposed to the "wrong gf" over text messages. Neither of the women knew about the other, apparently, and he'd bought a ring for one but accidentally gave it to the wrong one. I'm still praying it was fake but there's part of me that imagines even if it is, it's definitely happened to someone somewhere before.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 07:37 PM
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True. But run of the mill "I'm not really feeling it today but i love you so let's just pump one out" is not uncommon for relationships to experience every now and then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 07:33 PM
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Yeah pretty much my experience lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 07:24 PM
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Yeah it's definitely a complicated lens to look through. Benefits and drawbacks on both sides of the gender and generational divides, to be sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 07:23 PM
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I mean the collary for starfish is that I've given the BF explicit permission to attempt sex when I'm sleeping. But I'm also prone to sleep-talking and being really bitchy about it so I take no responsibility for the results he gets while I'm comatose.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 07:00 PM
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Largely the type I remember loving this book was the more overindulged housewives I knew and young basic college girls who'd loved Twilight in high school. Not exactly the intelligent type. But if that's your type, then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 06:52 PM
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It's really fascinating if you can remove the emotion of it. There's so many things at play that I'll probably never flesh out. The fact that female divorcees are 15% less likely then men to seek remarriage. That women really only gained full financial autonomy in the 1970s when they could finally open credit in their own name without their husbands. A lot of it seems to come down to the actual financial and legal emancipation of women, and while I get that it's getting harder for men since wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 06:42 PM
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I find that last point about OLD probably the most interesting part. I haven't pondered it enough to extrapolate it into anything significant, but it's probably a much larger impact than anybody really suspects on the SMP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 06:14 PM
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One thing the guys here tend to overlook is that on a long enough timeline in a relationship, it's kinda expected that there will be highs and lows in a couple's sex life. If she only dated a Chad for a month they probably never had to deal with one of them being sick or stressed. Maintenance sex never happened because the relationship never really got to the point it needed to be maintained. Over the course of a relationship of significant length, there's going to be raunchy sexcapades interspe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 06:10 PM
2

18yos do not undergo IVF.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 05:41 PM
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You used it wrong at first and don't seem to understand all the factors that affect it. Plus you obviously don't understand what IVF is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 05:27 PM
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Never disagreed with you on that point. It just took you at least three comments to say that in plain standard English.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 05:06 PM
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Your words are so dumb they make your underlying arguments incomprehensible. You're the one weaselling and everyone here is telling you as such. But do what you like, I'm about 2 steps from blocking you completely because you can't actually present your comments understandably.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 04:45 PM
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No, semantics is arguing over minute details or similar word choice. This is you actually using totally inaccurate to blatantly opposite word choice and refusing to specify the sources or references in your text to the point it's meaningless, not nuanced. Quite bluntly you're just an idiot and don't want to admit it even though every person here sees it in your history.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 04:33 PM
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No you actually used incorrect and at times total opposite terms in reference to what you meant. That's not autistic or liberal that's just dumb. You don't get points for using big words if you use them incorrectly to the point you can't even get a coherent point across, and let's not forget I am hardly the only one who tells you you need to be more specific and accurate when you type things. It's not because we want to argue, it's because you're literally stringing incoherent word jumbles toget…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 04:15 PM
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There's nothing about the content itself I really disagree with so why debate it. You didn't explain your point clearly until 3 comments down, as per usual, and just looked like an ass. Ignoring this is not useful for discussion. Fix the regular, persistent flaws with your presentation of ideas or don't, but if you keep bungling it like this the first 5 times you say something you'll keep looking like an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 04:01 PM
1

anecdotal This is not the proper usage of that term. Anecdotal means a personal testament or story. It would be accurate to say there is some statistical evidence, but statistical/anecdotal have totally opposite definitions. I'd forgive this if it wasn't part of a basic High School education, at least in the Northwestern hemisphere. Besides that I have no issue with any of your argument in this comment. What I have issue with is this persistent use of terms incorrectly and your foggy references …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 02:58 PM
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You are claiming that fecundity selection and sexual selection are the same\related. We don't know that. No I actually never said that, and you're right that we can't know it, but I have to ask, do you know what fecundity means? What I was referring to was this comment you made which is 100% inaccurate. Evolution ABSOLUTELY needs live births to go on to be live adults that procreate, or the whole process stops. http://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/cnbjl9/why_shouldnt_men_prefer_younger_…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 01:57 PM
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1) what on Earth are you quoting because I know you don't know those terms yourself. 2) what point do you think that has to support your argument? I'm genuinely curious because it appears to be a total nonsequitor to me given the discussion at hand. It literally sounds like you just googled "sentence about sexual selection" and quoted it to me to try to (poorly) support your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 01:30 PM
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Your use of IVF is at odds with the actual definition of the term and renders the point you made there nonsense. I literally don't understand what you were talking about. Evolution is not concerned with just live births. Those births need to go on to be adult humans who procreate in order to pass on the genes that are relevant, and thus achieve evolution. You cannot have a single individual who does/does not procreate as an example of evolution, it's a description of genetic change in a species …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 01:13 PM
1

There's always that argument to be made. To each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 01:02 PM
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I don't even care if he has a well-reasoned, statistically supported or interesting opinion, but that was none of it, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 07:03 AM
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So that's a no then. Fuck I thought the evopsych stuff was bad enough. Semi-serious question, are you on PPD because if you tried to speak bad science to the boys on TRP they'd laugh you out of the sub? Just please look up the actual terms before you use them, this hurts my brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 04:45 AM
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1) You need to specify your ages for fertility. Peak successful fertility is in mid to late twenties, statistically speaking. Much younger and the female body is literally not biologically prepared to devote nutrition and resources to a growing fetus. 2) "Less Baggage" in terms of less experience, perhaps, but also much poorer equipped to handle it. 3) in any case, picking a young and inexperienced girl to bear your children is basically asking for divorce rape. She's not educated, she likely do…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 04:00 AM
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Do you have even a basic grasp of biology and the correct terms to use? FFS.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 03:55 AM
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These are all really dumb and really sad to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 06:15 PM
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Um. This isn't that rare. You do know at potlucks it's standard order for the womenfolk to bring a dish or make drinks, right? The BF and I regularly offer to grab each other drinks if we're heading to the kitchen for something. If he's online with his Bros when I finish dinner, I'll make up a plate and bring it to him. And this isn't a rare thing, I'm not unique among women AFAIK. That's just what people do when they take care about each other. The BF has been pulling more than his weight latel…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 06:02 PM
3

Doooo it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 05:49 PM
3

I'd read it. Probably write you an Amazon review as well. No promises on my grammar or eloquence though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 05:42 PM
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That has its own hurdles. I'm kinda on the fence on the subject of PatTest, but the biggest issue I see coloring the issue is privacy. Once any kind of genetic test is mandated by the government for any reason, there is a non-zero chance it can be used for any number of things. I imagine in the next twenty years we're going to be facing issues with genetic discrimination on insurance, possibly job hiring, etc. They're already using information from 23andMe and other such companies to track down …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 05:31 PM
1

I usually ask. Like 70% of the time. The other 30% he's either not playing a very high-speed, attention-focused game, or I just want to come in and pester him for attention for a minute or two. Most of the time he chuckles and gives me a hug and then chases me back out the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:09 PM
1

Yeah I'm probably more like your W in the chore thing. I don't mind spending half a Saturday cleaning and just lazing the rest of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:06 PM
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Then yeah this is just young people being dumb and not really understanding how to navigate the SMP yet. Stop taking it so seriously and learn to shrug off the dumb shit and the dumb people. Things will change a lot within the next 5y for you so just sit back and enjoy the ride and don't freak out about all the missed connections. They're a daily thing for you right now but they won't always be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 02:41 PM
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None of these are woman-only events. I remember speaking a few years back with someone who's a mod here now about how he 'tested' a girl by getting one of his buddies to flirt with her. She 'passed' but I thought it was kinda a gross thing to do. Or the boy who teased me in high school only to bump into me years later and confess he had a giant crush on me. Or the guy who turned me down only to drunkenly text me a year later in college. These are signs of youth and immaturity and insecurity, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 02:36 PM
1

Liar. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 01:48 PM
0

Sorry I meant to flip that lol. He steals most of my pillows.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 10:47 AM
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Getting used to what the other prioritizes in cleanliness. 99% of our quibbles are about chores. He likes the dishes done every night, I hate it if the laundry isn't done several times a week. Accommodating someone else's schedule. I like to go to the gym later in the evening but he prefers to go right after work. He's got food allergies which restricts what I cook sometimes. I prefer to eat healthier than he does so he's had to get used to his veggies. Stuff. He let me decorate everything but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:29 AM
3

This is a dumb Q because there isn't really an RP way of life, at least according to the classic RP. There's a bunch. There's no one way to be. It's a toolbox, right? Take what you need, leave what you don't? For every person that could be something different. Don Draper could be just as RP as Ward Cleaver could be just as RP as Casanova or Deadpool.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 12:39 AM
1

I think I just hit peak PC.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 10:57 PM
2

I plan on doing this myself--however, there is a pretty damn big disconnect between doing it at birth just to squash any potential for doubt if (worst case scenario) things get messy later on in life and requesting it years after the birth when the kids are in school. I also think I'm paranoid and it fuels this. My ex accused me of cheating when I left him (never so much as entertained the idea) because he was angry. My family is notorious for spinning a request for a boundary as something to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 10:41 PM
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Read this. Last time I'm going to say anything to you on the matter since you seem set on saying women should appreciate rape or dead-bedroom their husbands. http://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/bpdhnk/a_womans_attitude_towards_casual_sex_plays_major/ent89sy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 06:11 PM
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Rule of thumb is just stick to the averages. Average height, weight, facial symmetry, body structure, muscularity etc and you're probably looking at at least 6's across the board. Specific features can be polarizing. For a while in my preteen years I had a crazy crush on Jeff Goldblum and those bug eyes, in my teenage years it was chunky hairy Seth Rogan, but they are not objectively attractive due to the same things that made me interested. Personal taste makes an impact as well. Everyone had t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 06:05 PM
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Why is it you take my comments and insist on giving them the most negative spin possible. Never mind then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:35 PM
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It's not preferring enthusiastic sex that's the problem. It's the lack of credit for women who are still trying when everything else has taken its toll on them. Again let me reiterate I'm not awarding participation brownie points for women who phone in sex on the regular, but rather pointing out porn has set a new standard for "normal" that men have adapted to. As far as the actual sexual arms race referring explicitly to sex, women are being outcompeted by their virtual sisters at a rate they j…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:10 PM
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I think it's uniquely female to explain definitions as "Not this" and "Not that". Its the art of ubiquity Says the king of "Not this rock." Come on my dude don't go calling kettles black without examining your own pot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 04:31 PM
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They weren't raped and they weren't freezing him out, in this context they were offering what they could give. I'm not trying to make anybody feel guilty for anything. I'm stating rationales for why I believe porn has had effects on the mental expectations of men and changed how they behave as a group. Quite frankly, if you feel shamed by that get thicker skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 04:29 PM
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It's the ciiiircle of lyyyyyyfe....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 04:26 PM
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Porn based expectations absolutely have to do with it in terms of getting your nut with or without her. You think men in Ye Olden Days handled it that way when the issue arose? No, they rolled her over and humped her exhausted passed out body and were ok with it because 1) she was their woman and 2) men got that she worked hard and 3) there was no Bunny or Barbie just fingertips away to entertain him. The next best thing was a hooker and you had to go out and find one of those. That ease of acce…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 04:14 PM
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If only we could all be Bunny and Barbie!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 04:07 PM
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No I'm saying they aren't able to accept the thought of their wife occasionally not being 100% all about their dick. You just did the same thing, lol. Trust me I'm all for people having awesome, energetic, freaky sex whenever and however they can get it in, but the reality of LTR or married life is that every now and then life catches up with you. The kids are sick, you haven't had enough sleep, you picked up an extra part time job to pay for next year's vacation, life just happens, and sometime…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 01:57 PM
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You haven't noticed the men railing about "maintenance sex" and that anything less than 100% rapt and devoted attention is a woman dead-bedrooming and doing a disservice to her husband? FFS that happens every third day here if not more common. A large #of men here think their woman should be wet, primed, and enthusiastic 24/7 regardless of any real life jobs or commitment. I just had this conversation with blonissimo or whatever his name is along with a few others last week, and I'm sure it's co…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 01:17 PM
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Legitimately beautiful area up there. I'm trying to plant seeds in the BF's head that we should move to TC or Petoskey or some larger town up there. I'm convincing him best so far by suggesting he get a truck for the winter, lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 12:59 PM
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To a degree, you're right that it's less of a concern. However, I've seen girls slapped in even an UMC college bar, or drunk fights break out. I've seen guys get rough or nasty to women in public. There's no 100% guarantee it'll go well. Sure, in public it'll probably be put out quickly, but it's enough to ruin a night out with friends or a good time. It's obviously enough that it messed with OP's night. You've got to ask, what is her motivation to even risk it? She owes you no honesty, you're a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 01:26 AM
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And what makes you think those aren't very real fears of women? You could be a Nice Guy. You could be a decent fellow. You could also be a drunk or a woman-beater. She doesn't know any differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 11:36 PM
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Yeah pretty much. I generally kept myself to myself if I had a SO, if I was single I was up for most things. I was quite a bit bolder than many chicks though, plus being tall and broad shouldered I had the privilege of not appearing too easy of a target if he got physically aggressive. We literally run all those factors in our heads at an approach, though. Physical threat and size disparity if things went South, how cocky or cruel or insecure he could be (if we have the information for it, that …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 07:36 PM
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A general no is rarely accepted at face value. There's always a "Why not??" Same reason we say we have a BF if we don't actually have one. It's EASIER to give some version of "it's not you, it's me!" It's safer, and it's less embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 07:17 PM
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I'm reminded of the movie "Her." Watch it if you haven't. There are days speaking only to a friendly but interesting robot seems like a dream, other times it seems a prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 06:48 PM
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let’s not pretend it’s all about self preservation. It’s conflict avoidance. What makes you think these aren't the same things for a lot of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 06:46 PM
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Right. But even if that "other" type of guy was rare, if it was likely he was 6" taller and 40# heavier, would you really want to risk it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 06:45 PM
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She has a point though--you both do. We don't know you're cool with a no. There's no Union Meeting with us where it's posted "If you have to turn NockerJoe down, he's ok with just no." We do the song and dance because it provides time to escape if we had to. Treat all guns as loaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 06:17 PM
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You have no idea how many men have asked a woman to dance/date/number, she's said no, and they've proceeded to make a scene or call her a whore. As a lot of others are saying, it's an act of self-preservation. You might be cool with it, but you're an unknown, she doesn't know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 05:26 PM
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Not at all IMO. I think it's common for people to lie to themselves though. I'm positive my ex thought he loved me but it was never going to turn into anything because of his fear of adulting. I think a lot of guys are like that, LV or HV. They can see themselves getting married or having a life/kids with their gf "someday" with no real plans on how to get there, what that looks like, when it will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 02:19 PM
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Tales from the VA: I'm one of two women in the lobby and one of two people who looks under 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 01:43 PM
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Nah Michigan wins when it comes to trees in the fall, IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 11:08 AM
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USAR. Almost done with my 6 and then I'm out!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 03:17 AM
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Yeah def difference in the way we were raised, lol. I've noticed I have to actively recalibrate my internal compass when there's too much tree coverage because I operate so much on the angle of the sun and you can't see it as easily. That also fucked me up in Kuwait, though-the sun was almost directly overhead until half an hour before sunset. I know if I'd gotten lost I'd have wandered for years. Took me forever to get a sense of where anything on base was and I had to operate mostly with landm…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 02:14 AM
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You want a cookie? If we mean so little than please pay us no mind and leave us.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 02:03 AM
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Boo. Yes, dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 11:06 PM
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That's awesome. BF's parents live in the Macinaw City/Petoskey area and we drove up to visit again this weekend and every time we're there I think I fall in love with it a little more each time. We did some of the touristy stuff this weekend but even when that shuts down and we visit for the winter holidays I'm stuck by how cozy it is. I'm from the lower Midwest and while the people and attitudes are similar, I love the wilderness and outdoors here. The Breadbasket I grew up in is more controlle…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 11:04 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 10:56 PM
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Northern Michigan in the summer is one of the most beautiful parts of the country CMV. Appointment with the VA tomorrow, I plan on hosting a private sit-in if I don't get a referral to an Ortho. # ThoughtsAndPrayersEtc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 10:23 PM
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Yeah ladies of PPD, I'm sure that a virgin Muslim girl will be just as likely to cheat or "branch swing" as a former sorority girl who spent her 20s fucking everything that moves. I highly doubt any woman here has said exactly that. What they probably have said is that there's a lot of factors going into it, not in the least* of which is cultural emphasis on chastity to the point that in many countries they will kill a girl for having sex (or even rumor she's had sex) with the wrong person. I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 07:05 PM
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We are not on TRP however. We are on PPD. You don't need my permission to exist in your place, but you'd have it anyways. What I take issue with is the Grand Orators of TRP deigning to come visit us here and lecture us expecting us to be rapt students.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 01:48 PM
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If you think we're always serious here, #1 you should lurk more, and #2 you should be more critical of the impressions your RP fellows convey. We have many men who come in and seek to write off our female population as "immature" or "bitchy" for using the exact same presentation as men. It doesn't make you look smart or important or competent not to understand the message because of gender rather than context.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 01:47 PM
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Cheeky, I like it. But no, my point is, it's damn pretentious of you to come in discussing your "essays" on a sub where Rollo was blocked a few years because he used the sub just to direct traffic to his blog. No discourse, no advice to TRPs, no response other than "if you'd reference [this link] on my blog you can find some answers. Those of us who've been here a while are very attentive to you glorious TRP Vanguards who would use us as a manual ad revenue generator when actually discussing TRP…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 12:08 PM
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It's literally written all over your account history. Not only that but you came in appearing to miss the sarcasm from the previous commentor, which means 1) you don't understand English, or 2) you look for cheap ways to tell women they're "immature." I assure you neither will get you lasting long here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 11:50 AM
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In every article I write, misogyny isn't something that accidentally leaks in. It's a part of the recipe, and I measure and add the precise correct amount. And you were relevant 8y ago until your sub turned into a bunch of 19yo ESLs and it was revealed that most of you guys have potbellies and are married/LTR'd in your 40s. The new TRP ran with your "carefully dialed misogyny" to the point men are shooting themselves in the foot and continue to.... Not get laid, and then claim it's because they …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 11:30 AM
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Hence why I joined TRP and improve myself everyday to get everything that i can to my advantage. Dude nobody cares. You come in here and parrot a bunch of TRP talking points with the least thoughtful or charitable conclusions possible, then pledge allegiance to TRP without even giving the usual it's a toolbox, take what you need leave what you don't You sound like a 14yo who's just discovered libertarianism.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 11:20 AM
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Dude that's either gender tbh. Getting old alone sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 09:50 PM
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I left my N=1 after 6y because I got tired of seeing all our friends marry and witnessing him blanche every time someone asked him when we were gonna tie the knot. He's with the next girl he dated, still not engaged, and they both put on about 70lbs. NoRagrets.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 02:15 PM
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You kinda missed the point of this comment chain.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 03:30 AM
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I mean does it matter if it's sour grapes or not, honestly? Results are what there are
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 10:38 PM
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I think we should own it tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 10:38 PM
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They profess not to want marriages and LTRs. Do you really think they'd offer it if they found one? They want to convince a girl to give them her virginity so they can leave when she's not fresh and new anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:47 PM
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I really think we should start a movement to just refer to women en masse as "wombs." I don't know if it would make less sense of things or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:42 PM
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Well the easiest idea is to swap his manhood for his comment. "it's *majestic and you're missing out.*
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:40 PM
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Truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 08:40 PM
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I have, several times throughout this. I don't know what opinion you expect me to have on Toxic Masculinity but whatever dude. Originally we were discussing high N women and their hangups and somehow we got here cause, yes, I brought up valid points, and yes, it's all related. Sorry I didn't give you the answers your want, sue me I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 08:25 PM
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Now you're getting kinda emotional on me. Idk what the answer is dude, it's why I'm here. I report what I see. What I will say is that women seemed to take a lot of steps to carve out those roles and models for themselves. They may have found guys to help them along the way but the real icons and leaders had to put up with a lot of shit to get where they were, even with help. The closest thing to icons for the deprogrammed male is probably RooshV, who they're welcome to chase if they like. Idk w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 08:03 PM
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Nah dude, I'm actually pretty chill and I'm far from SJW world IRL. I'm just a down to earth chick who really hates that men here project themselves into the freedoms of the female psyche without understanding the pressures it comes with. I've also called out dumb shit by women here more than once, I'm an equal-opportunity blunt and practical person who's probably closer to a fluffy golden retriever IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 07:58 PM
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I generally don't have a qualm with TGP's content, it's the wordiness I refuse to put up with, tbh. When I can convince him to pare it down he's quite on the money most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 07:05 PM
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I don't know what void you're speaking of. What did feminism fill for me? I'm not sure what you're thinking we got and you didn't but I don't see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:56 PM
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The rights women think they want, do not bring happiness to most women. Only small numbers of women are made happier by these rights. I'd like to see statistical evidence of it, but tbh this is something I think would be impossible to calculate. Women are not happier, in general. And happiness with arranged marriages, does seem to be counterintuitively greater than nations with assortative mating. I want to ask something. Why is self-reported data all of a sudden valid when it supports RP? I cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:55 PM
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Not true. Men used to pride themselves on patriarchal values - things like responsibility and providership. The high beta was aspirational. Now we have an entire generation of men who indulge in prolonged adolescence and shun partnership or fatherhood. That's what free men look like, NEETs and underemployed and living with their parents. I have family who exemplify this; while the deprogramming of women pushed them to succeed in male fields, the deprogramming of men gave them permission to not r…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:32 PM
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You continue to ignore the very large, glaring elephant that these women do not have the freedom or choice to self-determine due to culture and religion. What do you need to illustrate this? The fact that India has some of the highest rates of honor killings and violence against women? That in parts of Saudi Arabia women are still not permitted to leave the house without a male relative as a chaperone? That conservative Mormon sects in the US marry off girls in their early teens and hold their c…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 06:16 PM
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For women who are losing their virginity, it's usually a pretty big deal whether marriage is a thing or not. You cannot separate marriage from anxieties about sex/relationships for these women because they are intertwined on such a deep level. She has visions of how her life is supposed to play out. She put so much value on this that her entire life rests on this. If she's lucky it will continue to play well for her. If she's religious in a very religious community it won't matter because she wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 05:57 PM
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Ok, my point still stands: a hangup involving fear of abandonment is at play where it wasn't before. And it only impacts some high-n women; a fair number will fuck anyways and take the chips as they fall.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 05:36 PM
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But it is majestic, and you're missing out. I want to crack such a joke here. Decorum prohibits.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 05:35 PM
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We're not talking about "being her first" though. We're talking about women who are marriage minded. Not women who are "losing their virginity." When you talk about virgins, for women this is EXACTLY THE SAME THING. It's not the same as a woman at N=0 who is looking to go long. Regardless of intent she will have expectations and very little if any experience. No level of hamstering will get rid of those. She will have things come up she was not prepared for, did not anticipate, and could not hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 05:20 PM
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It's typically NOT high N women withholding sex at the start of a relationship. Some certainly do and if so it's probably a function of fear of abandonment (i.e. a more context specific hangup than others) The sex is not the issue. The fear is the issue. It's not manipulation, it's self-preservation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 04:58 PM
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No. Typically I've seen standards change but they don't as a rule get better or worse. They adapt with life goals and not necessarily along strict AF/BB roles. I think a woman at n=0 without the very tight restrictions of conservative religion is a very dangerous risk for a man. FOMO is a big thing and naive expectations are often smashed very quickly without societal and community pressures to endure. Virgins tend to fall into one of two crowds: ultra neurotic or ultra religious. If a man is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 04:52 PM
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Do you ever actually check for a word count on these things? Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 04:09 PM
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Yeah no clue what in the actual fuck you're talking about here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 04:07 PM
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Reposted from my other comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ckoujn/do_you_really_not_understand_why_women_dont_want/evt38ea
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 04:05 PM
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I mean it. Sex is this big giant moment for men that it's not for women. The hangups and anxieties can be, sure, but the event itself is not something we get excited about as a rule. Male thirst makes sex cheap and universally available for women. Hence that we still want the relationship more even if we're literally in the act of sex. This is the thing you need to get through, I think, it's that sex for its own sake is never this big giant emotional THING or primal NEED like it is for men. It's…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 04:04 PM
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These things are opposites. They're related is the argument men are making. They are not opposites. They're not opposite for men and they're not opposite for women either, the reasoning as to why is just different. Do you think single men who would prefer a relationship to being single will turn down all casual sex, as a rule? I don't. And neither will women, necessarily. It requires more specific analysis. You show up at N=20 and say "I'm ready to get married" then pretty soon it's a failed eng…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 03:50 PM
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You're not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 03:42 PM
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Sure. There's a distinction between wanting a relationship and actively pursuing one though. Most women at their base level want one; life sometimes makes actually pursuing one complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 03:36 PM
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I don't understand why you think a pie graph is necessary. I said women with high N still prefer relationships but have fewer hangups about sex. A line graph or scatter plot would be better: X axis is n-count, y axis is a decreasing level of anxieties/mental and emotional restrictions regarding sexual activity. If a woman has fewer reservations about sex, her n-count is likely to be higher. Wanting relationships is basically unrelated to either factor. It's generally a constant among women but c…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 03:34 PM
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If you go back and read my original comment, I said they generally prefer relationships but don't have as many hangups about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 03:28 PM
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I didn't scream anything dude. I was dismissive, sure, but not hyperventilating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 02:39 PM
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Oh look big words used incorrectly. Surprise. It's not an issue of refusing to specify and quantify, I am actually recognizing the outliers vs the normal. Most of the women here are outliers in one fashion or another, I just happen to think I'm more in line with the average women on this criterion and able to give a more nuanced answer than weka wants. I fly mostly under the radar with normies. I can speak the language and girl up when the mood strikes but I'm able to critically analyze more tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 02:36 PM
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Then recognize them as outliers. In your comment I linked you do nothing to indicate you don't perceive them as typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 01:20 PM
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No I tend to tailor my comments to the individual and recognize trends as well as specific personalities. Which is why I tend to avoid conversations with you because you spill pseudophilosophical word jumbles in attempt to appear lofty instead of just saying what you mean. Which means I probably won't continue to reply to you because the only arguments you hold in good faith are with yourself as far as whether to use to 4 syllable made up word or the 5 syllable real world that you don't actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 01:14 PM
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Because they're often the loud vocal minority, you get that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 01:12 PM
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Then perhaps you can use your STEM education. This was your original comment: http://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ckoujn/do_you_really_not_understand_why_women_dont_want/evphwxx Maybe SOME HIGH N women state things exactly as you say, but a) we are not a monolithic group, and b) fucking nuance. That's all I was asking for, and apparently that was too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 01:06 PM
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There are very few women who call themselves feminists here, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 12:02 PM
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Fine muscle tuning. Try focusing on one thing and then intentionally blurring your vision while still looking at the same thing. It's not that different from learning how to wiggle your nose/ears/scalp.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 11:52 AM
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Legal value. No moral or any other type of value, for it is a commodity that is so easily lost or traded or violated. It has social value as well and if you don't see that I don't know what to tell you. And let's not forget there's a whole history of men who violated it in the past. And the majority of people don't, today, the statistics show it's generally the same bad apples, and they exist on either side of the gender divide. Then why women are they the ones pushing for it? That reasoning doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 11:40 AM
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No I get that's what you want. Unfortunately it's probably not what you're going to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 11:33 AM
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No weirdly enough he's generally blue but he gets pretty entrenched on the high N-count thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 11:33 AM
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You also gripe a lot about what women prefer and that it's not you. I'm all for living life on your own terms but if you're not sending signals that you're inviting, you're not going to get many offers. By all means GYOW but if you blame women for not liking the things you refuse to change, doesn't speak much for your sense of practical objectivity. I don't know why you guys don't get that men have to display appealing markers just like women do to succeed in the SMP. It's not good or bad it jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 12:21 AM
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It's gonna dock you for interested female parties though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 12:12 AM
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This guy has the right idea. Although I'd add casual sex isn't ALWAYS unpleasant, it's often the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 09:51 PM
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Yeah I feel that, hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 09:50 PM
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I don't have to go further than your parent comment in this thread, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 09:50 PM
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You're not responding to a few of my comments and I'm quite disappointed, I was hoping for a good exchange. Do you consider them not worth your time or am I too weak/robust a target?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 08:50 PM
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Give it a guess or make it up. There's also a bunch of other significant metrics to take into account that you didn't mention but I'm curious to see what you come up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 08:27 PM
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Ok.... Try to imagine her views in a situation where someone she was not dating and had not had sex with wanted to have sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 08:17 PM
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Disagree, go look at the marriage/divorce studies by Pew Research in the last 10y. Fewer and fewer female divorcees are seeking or expressing interest in remarriage. They express greater happiness with their social lives, workload, and more than their male counterparts and often their still-married age peers. Being a wife still often eventually translates to bang-maid, apparently, so when divorce happens, they get their own lives back and are happy for it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 07:43 PM
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True AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 07:37 PM
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I'm not sure you replied to the correct comment, care to elaborate? I'm mostly curious for a Projection vs Empathy example, from the male perspective directed at females, similarly to what OP gave from the female view towards men above.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 07:36 PM
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No one called you a whore did they? And if they did, they should be reported Weka has in the past expressed very strong opinions on high n-count women and tends to paint them as a universal group, and shown to be very resistant to any discussion or further investigation into the motivations that women have that may lend towards a higher or lower n-count. As to the rest of your comment, I'd need specific examples to understand where you indicate the nuance of TRP. My largest complaint is the TRPs…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 07:33 PM
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Or you are extra sensitive to it. Could be either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:29 PM
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Dunno how much I buy this. Ever seen a real honest-to-god chubby-chaser? The shit they get from their Bros is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:21 PM
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We're all mad here, son.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:20 PM
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I have nothing to offer on what Atlas says, nor do I think the entire public discourse revolves around women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:19 PM
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I never once said they were "bad." I'm very used to the men here assuming I'm passing a moral judgement when I'm doing nothing of the sort. TRP is amoral? Sure I can work with that. Incels are frustrated and hurting? Sure I can work with that. Doesn't make them good or bad. I'm almost always more focused on the practicalities of actions. Incels, at least within the internet world, generally do behave hostile and unfriendly. There's nothing moral about it. They don't want women's kindness, they w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:17 PM
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I don't think there's as much empathy for women as you think there is. There's a fair amount of "YGG'ing" within someone's social circles but outside of that, it's pretty much not a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:06 PM
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Ok now try this from the female perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:59 PM
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No you actively put words in my mouth. And I won't entertain you having whatever one-sided conversation you wish to have with me and subject to intentional misinterpretation when my words are easily read and comprehended for exactly what they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:58 PM
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I judge more on the culture surrounding these groups. Femcels are sad and sometimes jealous but not outright hostile unless poked. Their response to confrontation is circle the wagons or withdraw and wall themselves off. Let me make the very strong point that Femcels and SJWs are often NOT the same sorts of people at least on Reddit. SJWs are the angry loud crazy bitches while the most out there femcel we really get around here is SecSlab or [deleted] (I think that's her name) and while they gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:54 PM
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Ah that makes more sense. And yes, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:48 PM
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Sure. And none of that contradicts what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:34 PM
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You're not getting it. I'm not saying they don't have a right to be frustrated, but if they bite the hand that offers them crackers, they have no real ground to stand on when they go on to claim women are evil for not even giving them the kindness of friendship. If they want to play double or nothing that's totally fair but it's dumb to go on and be frustrated at walking away with nothing if they refused something in between. If you walk into McDonald's and demand a steak and are turned away bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:26 PM
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Idk exactly which points of your post this would fall under but I can say anecdotally from the army (where divorce rates and compound families are practically the norm), I've noticed a trend in men that seems to support your point. There's a LOT of guys who have kids with a STR GF or ONS and then dip out and are NC with their first kids except for CS, only to find a girl later on and gladly take on the role of involved husband and father, but only with his new "real" family. And the men I've kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:21 PM
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I've seen you comment on enough threads about n-count to see that you've decided your views on the matter and no amount of discussion with convince you of anything else, be it the female experience or drives or values or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:03 PM
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Whereas marriage and commitment are fluctuating, incorporeal notions, therefore have little value in the end. If they have little value than they would not fuck up men's lives. They ABSOLUTELY have value. Women are also the ones initiating divorces, so commitment is clearly a temporary, short term notion. Because it's a shit deal for them. Those men whose lives are ruined by divorce not only report higher rates of remarriage but higher interest levels in getting remarried. I could pull up a doze…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:02 PM
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I made a general observation not a judgement. Learn the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 04:49 PM
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Yeah well you think we're all whores anyways, this was meant more for the lurkers. No use attempting to convince you that nuance is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 04:48 PM
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Sure. Doesn't exactly encourage sympathy or empathy though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 04:47 PM
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Well a lot of the guys around here certainly seem to act like it lol. Don't get it twisted it was meant slightly hyperbolic but ya gotta admit having sex is the only part of life really worth doing, according to a lot of these guys. Everything else is done just to get more sex, to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 04:45 PM
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You don't value platonic relationships with women, therefore you only want relationships that include sex. It makes you pickier by some metrics than femcels. And if you already struggle in the SMP and only enter into Relationships with women with the expectation of sex, I don't find it that surprising you're not getting either sex or intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 04:43 PM
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It isnt fair to label every guy who suffers with women as inherently bad Yeah I honestly don't see how you pulled that from my comment. Not gonna touch it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 04:40 PM
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It's high N women making the claim that they care more about relationships than sex and that they really want relationships. It's the same women. They also just say low N women don't care about sex. This is an incorrect interpretation IMO. High N women still typically prioritize relationships over sex just as low N, they just have fewer hangups regarding sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 04:37 PM
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I did. It was not clear what feeling you meant to convey about /r/FA; It sounded like you were blaming others for the bad relationships the sub tends to have, while I think a lot of it is their own doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 03:52 PM
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It's not just the sex thing though. I know for dudes life begins and ends at whether they're having sex or not, but ugly women generally struggle career-wise more than ugly men. It's why a lot--A LOT-- of women in sales do plastic surgery. With age comes respect for men and disposability for women, often even greater than general male disability, when comparing peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 03:50 PM
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I mean, have you actually seen/heard the incels around here? They're just about the only ones who ever doxx, get really really nasty, etc. We used to swap photos under throwaway handles during purge week, but one year an Incel came in and archived all the photos to spit back out a year or two later, made everyone SUPER uncomfortable. I know because my photo was on the list. Femcels have never done anything like that, afaik. Incels genuinely seek people out just to be nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 03:46 PM
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I mean in most cases I think they'll straight up reject intimacy if it comes without sex. They're not usually friendly people. Look at all the memes about friendzoning, emotional tampons, etc. They don't WANT intimacy on its own, they want sex or sex + intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 03:43 PM
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Femcels don't show half the nastiness incels do. They're generally very sad people but few of them are actually malicious or predatory like a lot of the male incels end up being.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 03:38 PM
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I swear to God some of those incels photograph like babes. If they're still incels it's simply GOT to be a performance thing. They defeat lookism themselves without even noticing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 03:35 PM
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More like "Faaaiiiiiiyyyyyyyyynnne."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 03:05 PM
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I feel this lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 03:02 PM
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I don't have a problem with the first perspective until the guys start blaming all of it or making across the board judgements on "how women be" when they don't even bother to take her drives and perspectives into account. The "eh it's not for me" attitude is 100% fine as long as it reflects THE GUY'S ATTITUDE and nothing more. When it's used to pass moral or ethical or logical judgement on women without addressing their differing needs, wants, and metrics for relationships/sex then it just appe…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 02:36 PM
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Reposted: Edit: Dunno if I missed this was Q4Men or if it was flaired late, sorry to the mods. If you want me to delete/repost with Automod I will but I have a reply already so for the moment I'll leave it up. 1) get your depression fixed. 2) you sure it's not BPD? Your post history screams attachment issues. 3) date within your league 4) once you've got those first three, it's just a matter of getting lucky tbh, and it sucks but it's the reality. You can be a 10/10 across the board and still ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 11:54 PM
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There's settling for "below ideal/fantasy" which is what everyone but the Giselles and Tom Bradys of the world have to do, and there's settling for "below my realistic options." Most women will land somewhere between the two and be happy. The "rather single than settle" ones are generally implying case #2, but there's some crazies out there who think anything less than Chris Hemsworth is not worth it. That's also where the disconnect between men and women lies; most men interpret it as case 1 in…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 08:29 PM
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get your depression fixed. you sure it's not BPD? Your post history screams attachment issues. date within your league once you've got those first three, it's just a matter of getting lucky tbh, and it sucks but it's the reality. You can be a 10/10 across the board and still get PnD, ghosted on, or dumped a year in, cause people are shitty and selfish sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 07:27 PM
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You are having fun. Not when you're playing with rocks. Arguing better doesn't allow for debate. Yes it does. It means present concrete ideas or clearly stated criteria or opinions instead of being a 5yo who wants ONLY the candy they want and you have to play a guessing game to figure it out. But really I've no interest in furthering this talk. Figure out your points or don't, no skin off my back.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 06:01 PM
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Again the issue is what you mean specifically by "orbiters clearly chasing." Sometimes it's just being available or existing rather than flirtations or come ons or predatory behavior, and when you layer it over interpersonal environments like work, social or volunteer groups, etc, there's not a one-size-fits-all answer. I specifically remember pointing as much out to you. I work in a cubicle, for example. If there was a guy who dropped by to chat regularly on breaks, it's generally obvious there…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 05:35 PM
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All I know is there's a game it seems like you play with the women quite a lot around here. Aren: SHOW ME A ROCK. PPDWoman1: Here is a rock! Aren: No not that rock. Show me a rock. PPDW2: What kind of rock do you want? I have another one for you. Aren: No not that rock. These rocks are all shitty. Show me a rock. PPDW3: Why not that rock? I mean I have another rock to offer, but why? Aren: No not that rock. Show me a rock. PPDW4: Can you describe what kind of rock you want, please? Aren: No not …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 05:09 PM
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This explains your bitchfest at all of us when it came to the beta orbiter thread a few weeks ago. Did you put a tampon in it, finally? What did your wife do? /u/GridReXX would probably be amused to see this as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 04:39 PM
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I dunno where you're getting that definition from, the most commonly used and googled def is simply "deceitful." Or is it the sexual aspect of it? "Sexually fraudulent," since fraudulent tends to be associated with "swindling?" Open to your suggestions. Curious if the terminology is as strong as "sexually duplicitous" or if you just want to sanitize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 04:17 PM
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I wouldn't call those type of men who lie like that sexually duplicitous. ... What on Earth would you call it then. I can tell you, as a woman, it's pretty duplicitous and it's typically done with the intent of getting sex. But by all means, I'm curious what is the new hamster for why men aren't shitty people too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 01:41 PM
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I feel this hard. Although, as the oldest of 6 kids who'd have to tolerate each other in the back of a suburban for sometimes 8+h, I have DEFINITELY learned to appreciate more cushy travel space. The Amtrak system in the US is sparse at best and sometimes wonkey, but I highly prefer it over plane even though it takes much longer simply because you can get up and walk around. When I can squeeze in an extra travel day to go back to visit my sister, I always check Amtrak first.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 01:13 PM
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The one I saw before I moved out of state was, unfortunately/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 01:07 PM
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Yeah. I could get past cheating, I think, if it was a one-time thing, but if she got knocked up I'd never forgive him for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 12:11 PM
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I'll grant you that both men and women get away with a lot more than we're aware of, and that due to societal prejudice women probably get away with more than men do. I don't think, however, it's enough to offset the 4x1 rate that current statistics show.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 08:36 PM
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Ok but at the end of the day, again, this is why total numbers are significant and cannot be left out of the conversation. Men kill way more women than the reverse. End. You think fewer women WANT to kill men? Not according to a lot of guys on this thread, but their EFFECTIVENESS at it is an essential part of that equation. It's ludicrous to leave it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 07:14 PM
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What's your actual problem with her actions? lol. She works assisting men by providing them the tools to better themselves. What about it is not going far enough? How is it shameful? Besides that you sound like a very sad and nasty person dedicated to being negative and passive aggresive--that whole comment is full of negativity with no actual point made about the practicalities and realities of her work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 06:22 PM
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No, that's not it. We're not having the conversation you think we are and I'm not going to let you put words in my mouth. I worked for a few years in drug and alcohol counseling. You can give an addict EVERY TOOL POSSIBLE to pull themselves up but it takes motivation and responsibility on their part, too, to stay clean. Same with being in any shit situation. She actually works putting the tools in their hands. Doesn't mean she can't recognize when they don't use them. How about RedPill? They sup…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 06:11 PM
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I'd be shocked if anybody thought that but you. Maybe the incels. They like to see women as evil and males as victims regardless of context though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 06:01 PM
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No, she's posted about it before. If you choose to interpret her expectation that they have some agency and take some level of responsibility for their own lives as expecting them to crawl out of any and all problems themselves, that's on you. She can lead horses to water but she can't make them drink. Apparently unless she shoves a tube down their throats and pumps them, she's careless and insensitive. I'm ok being on her side in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 06:00 PM
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She works in non-profit for homeless people, IIRC. Homeless people are primarily men, or so I'm told here, regularly and often.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 05:48 PM
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Nah you're just dumb now. I never said women COULDN'T be a physical threat, just that they were MUCH LESS LIKELY to actually do damage and the outcomes were very, very different. Like that's all I've said throughout this whole comment chain. I don't know what you thought we were arguing but yes, it's pretty apparent one of us lacks reading combination but it's not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 05:44 PM
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Sometimes you're funny but at times like this it's pretty apparent you're unwilling to do anything to address your own situation. I get that it sucks and it's hard but assuming this is the rest of your life you should probably come to an acceptance that doesn't include laments here (go to MRP for that, but then even they would probably tell you to get off your knees and do something about it. Try incels or MGTOW, those are the typical groups for men who don't want to actually do anything but whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 05:30 PM
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He's been a peach honestly, I haven't been the most enthusiastic for leaving the apartment lately and I know it's bugging him. He is getting to the point where he just wants me fixed and back to normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 05:14 PM
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I can try to find out, but I've pretty much resigned myself to going under at this point--several rounds of physical therapy over the years as well as realignments by my PT have done jack, unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 05:01 PM
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The biggest threat to anyone aren't people who are physically more powerful than them, but people who aren't in their right mind and thus willing to do the kind of harm being talked about here (which physically pretty much anybody is capable of) I want to use an analogy to point out exactly how incomplete that statement is. Say you are a human being of average size and weight being attacked by a predator, except you have a choice. You know nothing about them, except the kill rate. Would you rath…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:57 PM
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From a European perspective, there may be various reasons to not go the US (at least not permanently), but feeling ripped off at the end of the month usually isn't one of them. I mean....there is though. For the average worker, you guys might pay higher taxes overall but you also generally have a higher standard of living for the majority of your population. You might pay in for a lot but honestly, y'all really do get quite a bit back. Healthcare, sick/vacation/holidays, etc. That's something on…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:35 PM
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Ok well let's do this on averages. USA: Average salary, 30yo: ~42USD. Average monthly premium for a single 30yo no dependants nonsmoker: ~310. Men usually pay about 10% less than women so we'll say $300 even since this is approximate. **edit: This is for a private plan not subsidized through an employer, just to point out. 300x12 is 3600 for monthly coverage. 3600/yr. I couldn't find broken down by age/gender, but the average deductible for a single-person plan in the US was ~4300. I'm going to …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 02:58 PM
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That's not a Chad, that's a Brad. Brads are Bros. Brads have all the appealing qualities of Chad - handsome, funny, confident, successful. They're also decent and honest people. #BradsNotChads, ladies. Brads, not Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 02:29 PM
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What point do you think we're arguing? That there's not enough people saying "Feel bad for the men!"? Do female serial killers exist? Sure. Have women occasionally murdered a romantic partner or SO? Yes. Are women sometimes terrors to live with? Sure. I'll admit those things willingly and freely. What else do you want exactly? > Sure, her options might be limited, but if she had wanted to (and didn't care about the consequences), she could have done any degree of harm to your father. The situati…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 01:41 PM
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But how much of that tax rate is specifically directed at healthcare?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 01:20 PM
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Because women killing or seriously injuring their partners is much, MUCH rarer than the reverse. Women might throw hands but it's like comparing being hit by a skateboard to being hit by a F250. Sure, both CAN kill you, but one is SIGNIFICANTLY MORE LIKELY to kill you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 01:06 PM
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It's not about recognizing men have problems. It's straight up women have it worse in this situation so you're not going to get the same level of sympathy. You want to pick homelessness and the fact that there's not enough facilities for men? Sure, men objectively have it worse by a lot of standards, you'd get a lot of support for it. But this? Men have it way WAY simpler by default than women, so no, it's simply not something most people are going to feel wrecked about. He loses money? People i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 12:42 PM
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Eh I was the sacrificial lamb for that anyways regardless of if he was around. I think I personally as well as my siblings would've fared better if he'd left and fought (like I said he'd win a case hands down) than made us all just stick it out. But that's more of a case-by-case situation. As it is, his two oldest daughters (myself and my sister) are basically no contact with either of my parents because he enables her too much to even have a relationship with him, and his first son is a functio…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 12:21 PM
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Men's problems are 4x less likely to result in death at the hands of their partner the moment he tries to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 12:14 PM
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And men have all those options available as well. What men have that women don't is simple brute strength, which is universally available to the average male, is constantly equipped, and can effectively be used to kill a weaker woman much more likely than the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 12:11 PM
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Hey at this point I'm not going to complain about the method if it's effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 12:10 PM
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Physical fitness is used as a proxy for capability. No, it's not. They mean very different things. Google it. It's preferential because they are hired to do the same job ,with the same pay but each gender has to pass different requirements. The job is almost never directly related to PT. Do you know how few jobs these days actually involve physical labor? The requirement is literally "display a standard of fitness the Army dictates is appropriate for your age and gender." Which brings me to my n…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 12:09 PM
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I'd like to see the math on it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 11:33 AM
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Catholic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 11:32 AM
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Yeah I've done like 3+ rounds of PT.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 11:31 AM
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Why not come to a country where you can pay 10% of your paycheck for average healthcare? So much appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 03:16 AM
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Shhh. Boomers don't like the brown peoples either, you know that! We can't....INVITE them into our country and just give them our amazing American fast food and labor jobs. Perish the thought
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 02:38 AM
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If he left he would have to pay his abuser for not working. Sure, and that's shitty. Is it really worse than sticking it out? For him it's his damn Catholic pride, but if it were me I would've bit the bullet, paid her off, and GTFO decades ago. Men will lose their kids and in most circumstances have to pay their wives support or alimony if they are married. They also risk losing half of their worth. Their abuse allegations will likely be laughed at. I'm going to say the same thing I've said to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 02:26 AM
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Will the test be the one that was all these years for men?Or will they simply lower the bar so that women can reach it too?As far as I know these test had a certain mindset behind how they were created and had to do with the minimum requirements for a soldier to not be a liability during combat.It still feels very much like preferential treatment to me. It's neutral across the board. 2. The previous tests have all been a measure of physical fitness, not raw power and capability. 3. Not to mentio…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 02:21 AM
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Repeated sprains and soft tissue injuries have made my ankle really unstable. It's started to affect the alignment of my knee and hip but it's mostly white-hot pain in my ankle and really really tight cramps on the outside part of my calf most days. The joint just feels like it's disintegrating on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 12:22 AM
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I have posted many, many, many times about my growing up years and how my mom is thoroughly abusive towards my father and myself and my siblings and the effect it's had on us. I totally feel empathy for them because I've seen how ASTRONOMICALLY shitty a bad woman can be to a good man. But you know what? My dad is a lot more complicit than most female victims in some very typical male ways. My dad is the sole breadwinner. Yes, he'd probably be on the hook for a fair amount, but there's no doubt i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 11:49 PM
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But I would argue that ,in the army example, a case of preferential treatment would be the lower physical requirements. Great you've listed exactly one way that women have it better -- and the easiest freebie one you could. Do you think everything else about the military is equal and/or a cakewalk for women? Not to mention the Army is slated to go to a gender-neutral PT test in a year, so that qualifier will disappear before too long. But please tell me more about how women have it such cake in …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 11:19 PM
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Ty. Me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 10:13 PM
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A straight number value is kinda hard to imagine: If they're 10/10 personality I'm imagining they have the reliability and initiative to go to the gym once in a while so their body would be fairly fit. If that's the case I could do pretty uggo in the face and shorter in height. My bottom height is probably 5'6-5'7ish though cause I'm 5'10 and any shorter and I'd feel like a giant. I don't mind baldies or facial hair or whatever so hair loss is a non-issue, too. Even if you're uggo you can looksm…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 10:10 PM
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My leg is basically going from bad to worse almost daily now and it sucks and I hate it. Have an appointment at the VA the first week in August and I think I'm going to threaten a sit-in if I don't get some Tramadol for the meantime and a referral to an orthopedic specialist/surgeon. If this is as good as it's going to get, just take the whole thing off. There's days I can't get my brain functioning around the hurt and I'm stuck sedentary and getting fat and I just want it off me. And I fucking …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 10:04 PM
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I'd be curious of course, but then I met the SO here and we're doing ok after two years, so it would have to be pretty egregious shit for me to consider it a problem. I care about how he treats me/acts and how I treat him/act. What goes on in his head isn't too much of my business-unless it relates to his continued treatment of me. Like if it was a bunch of posts about how he's looking forward to pumping and dumping me in a ditch or something, sure I'd be headed out the door no questions, but if…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 09:55 PM
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I hate that I'm laughing at this because it's so true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 09:34 PM
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There you go, proving my point. If you assume they're all so similar there's no point in evaluating any other qualities besides "fuckable," then yes indeed, you're in for nothing but a world of hurt if you try to LTR them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 09:22 PM
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I have never seen a situation where a woman was disadvantaged by her gender. I'm going to quote it back to you: just because you haven't looked for those things doesn't mean they don't exist. Shit, go through my comment history if you like-I've done plenty here of both telling my own personal anecdotes in the Army as well as given plenty of statistics and sources from time to time. Is the world more equal now than it was before? Yes, but there's still circles where women will probably always be …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 07:52 PM
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Yup. I think I'd be very interested in a few posts or a subreddit that discusses this sort of left-out area. I don't have any problem with guys maxxing their SMV to whatever end they want, but I think there's a lot of valuable points to make on how to look for the good qualities in women and recognize that, yes, All Women tend to have this perspective or share that trait, but here's some other important factors to take into account if you're looking for a long-term partner/family unit. Here's th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 06:11 PM
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Bit too far with that one, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 02:51 PM
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There is no such thing as male privilege. I'm not one to scream MUH PRIVILEGE TOXIK MASCULINITY!!" But there's absolutely some circles where simply having a dick gets you ahead. And sometimes these situations do translate directly into the SMP. He does get it wrong though that it's "privilege" to be patriarchal and responsible. That's....idk if there's a term for it, maybe one of the burdens of masculinity. I don't think I'd qualify it as toxic unless it reaches harmful levels of self-sacrifice.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 12:12 PM
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Did... Did this guy just write a poem about his dick? How do I make it stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 11:41 AM
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0- Had a chick friend who was bi and we were drunk and she was like "let's try it?" I was like sure why not. She got as far as the first button on my pants and I realized, nope, I'm not going to get anything whatsoever out of this, sorry. She took it in stride. "When you know, you know."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 05:12 PM
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Nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 01:49 AM
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I'm getting flashbacks to my high school days, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 12:32 AM
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Hahahaha ty
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 12:26 AM
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I'm giving myself a headache trying to understand the physiology going on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 12:07 AM
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Dude you end up whining about your exes more than a 17yo girl on Myspace. Every other post is just how women do nothing but take advantage and now you're moving in with a chick you've known for barely 5min. You're looking for something that makes you feel vindicated and blameless for the shit you've been through instead of taking the useful lessons and applying them. But carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 09:12 PM
1

Your goal is to get sex. This is how you do it. Whether you want to be honest or not is up to you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 08:04 PM
2

Ok that's fair, I agree. You can do both simultaneously, just not with the same guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 06:16 PM
2

I don't know that I much agree, but to be fair we'd have to more clearly define casual vs serious relationship. Women know men generally stop working at things, alpha or beta, after a few months max. They also know there's some version of hte wall that's true, and they have limited time to find a guy who won't treat her as disposable once another woman catches his eye. They spend a lot of their early years finding out what they need and what they can do without and TRP paints this as cock-carous…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 05:55 PM
2

Nobody gets everything they want in life unless they're billionaires, and even they usually have to wipe their own assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 05:49 PM
2

If that's really all you think women go for with betas then you have learned nothing from being here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 05:48 PM
2

Eh good luck, the incels fucked a lot of it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 05:22 PM
5

Of course. All humans do. But it's not the single-spectrum Alpha/Beta, at least to me. More like a bunch of overlapping Venn diagrams of different qualities and skill stacks, I suppose. I find this difference actually kinda peculiar and fascinating from listening to the men here for so long. For a lot of them it's simply "Will fuck/Won't Fuck." Our own categorizing system is so much more delicately attuned and nuanced and layered, at least from what I've discussed with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 04:54 PM
4

Paul McCartney I appreciate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 04:52 PM
2

I fail to see anything wrong with it other than it makes some guys angry she didn't touch their peepee when they wanted her to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 04:05 PM
1

There's been different periods when they've been welcome to different degrees, several times for as long as I've been here so 5y now, and they inevitably fuck it up for the rest of us. Anything from invalidating anything that doesn't conform to strict Lookism, raging the most Sharia Law shit against women, derailing thread after thread to poor-woe-is-the-incel, or straight up combative comments and insults and doxxing. They don't believe they can be helped so they resist all suggestions, advice,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 10:10 PM
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You're not trash. Stop that right now. Also, I say this with all the warmth I could possibly convey over the internet, but get off PPD. Right now, reading this shit every day, it's not good for you. You're in a place where it will be clouded by anger and hurt and self-hatred that's not justified. Pick a few of us here if you like (hell, pick me, if you like) and check in from time to time, but block this site from your computer for a few months cause it will hurt, not make it better or make you …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 08:48 PM
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Guys acting like her ex, and thinking like you, are why all women don't think that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 08:46 PM
3

shhhh. I pass. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 06:37 PM
1

I think you're seeing men as out of power here because they lack the pool of choice in mates women do, but I don't think it's the whole picture. [Take this thread from just yesterday, for example]( https://www.reddit.com/r/JustNoSO/comments/cgtmtv/bf_leaving_me_and_1_yr_old_baby_because_i_am_not/ ) ​ Shit like that happens when women don't have financial power or legal recourse. Again, women have seen for generations what happens when women are entirely at the mercy of men and how iffy that situ…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 06:36 PM
1

Right, but this data doesn't show it's specifically a *woman* thing. The men in those countries aren't going for Muslim women en mass to raise their families.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 06:12 PM
1

That's basically why I'm saying there's no easy answer. But sure imply I'm dumb so you sound cool, don't let me kill that dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 06:11 PM
1

While I get your point, that's not exactly illustrating liberal-minded women breeding themselves out within the same dating pool. Men in Sweden or Germany aren't en mass marrying and procreating with women from Mauritius.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:06 PM
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I was nowhere near as drunk as the two of you and it was still hilarious. ​ "Miiiiiiiiiilk."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 02:28 PM
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Once upon a time back before we knew the Incels would do dumb shit like store photos and doxx, during the first purge week ~2-3y ago there was a thread where a bunch of us anonymously shared photos. I thought he was cute, he thought I was, we got to chatting and he hopped a train to come visit. Would I recommend it to anybody? Hell no. Did it work out for us? Pretty great so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 02:28 PM
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He still does. We met here. Every now and then he'll hollar at me from the other room, 'You put THAT on PPD?!?" But usually we chuckle about it. He just gets mad when I spend too much time "yelling at those idiots again," he doesn't post much since we got together (his choice, I've never made any statement on his Reddit history). His handle is /u/BPremium, unless he's got a new secret one I'm not aware of!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:37 PM
1

Incel harder bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 11:08 AM
1

Oh, hey GLO, long time no see. And I'd have to see some data on that--remember, of there's anything we can count on it's male thirst.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 11:07 AM
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I actually mentioned this earlier today. It's a complicated change in society we're still adjusting to as a country, and tbh I don't think there's an easy solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 01:02 AM
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As /u/petrichordium said in another thread today, a lot of it comes down to the funds necessary to have kids and give them a good upbringing. Kids unequivocally do better with stable parents in a stable relationship, and for most people that stability means marriage. It's a massive financial risk to have kids on one's own, and as we're told literally every day here divorce lines everyone's pockets but the kids. Remove that pressure and honestly most people are probably quite a bit more ok with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:59 AM
2

I swear to christ. Truth is stranger than fiction in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 09:06 PM
2

Yes and no. They're still the most valuable method of collecting internal views that we have. And what would be the possible motivation for women wanting to be seen as happily single (maybe you-go-girl, sure) instead of on the hunt (Thirty, flirty, and thriving)? You have good points but you fail to make a compelling case for why it's not worth taking a look at. ​ Not to mention it's way more scientific than the OKCupid study that gets trotted out every time a newbie wants to stick it to women s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 08:52 PM
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Yeah, 99% of the reason I want marriage is to create a stable home life for kids. If I find myself single past the point kids are an option, tbh being a forever GF is ok. That's the problem with a lot of TRPs, though, they think they can have a classy conservative girl be the forever-gf AND-ALSO willingly bear his kids. That's not how 99% of women are wired, keep chasing dat unicorn. Edit: the funny thing is I realized my future MIL made this same point when she, I, and my future SIL were having…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 08:29 PM
2

I went to basic 5ish years ago now and they were already startign to become a thing. Generally the nerdier jobs like intel, med, and DEFINITELY Signal. All the biggest Army weirdos I know are all radioheads. Also, a big number of the weebs are black. Don't ask me how or why.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 07:47 PM
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These ideas have merit but they're out there enough that they can't really even be tested for decades or more; they're too unfamiliar still for them to be accepted as a version of normal and thus most data would be skewed enough to reduce its worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 07:09 PM
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This ties back into your larger questions of macro-economics, of course. For a lot of people, following the money and promise of a better life typically means migrating sometimes across the country. The "Villages" that used to exist before the internet exploded have done a lot to weaken the extended social network a lot of families used to rely on. We've had to outsource childcare from families and neighbor's teenaged kids to daycares and other such facilities. Some businesses are starting to pi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 07:04 PM
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Excellent response. This results in a situation where women do not need men at all for basic individualist existence, but very much need men for any kind of aspirational family formation. This part in particular stuck out to me because it's the most complicated part of all of it to fix, IMO. Women would never get on board with anything that removes their aspirations for autonomy because we saw the crap situations many of our mothers, aunts, and grandmothers faced when financially trapped at home…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 05:25 PM
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Neural handshake achieved.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 05:09 PM
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The majority of them at that age are just edgelords trying to look badass by being above or disinterested in everyone, or overemotional teens handling rejection or heartbreak for the first time. A really good piece of advice I heard once on TV was that it doesn't mean anything or sound sophisticated to be critical of everything/everyone around you, although a lot of young people make that mistake. It's a lot more intelligent and thought provoking to ask questions when you disagree and try to loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 03:42 PM
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Hey at that point it's basically about self-identity, right? Idk I'm a white girl from Nebraska, any time race comes up I just pull a Homer Simpson and fade into the bushes, I figure I have less than no context for it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 02:41 PM
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Lol she's not and has said so many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 02:18 PM
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I stand corrected and humbled, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 01:59 PM
2

Doubled, not tripled, according to that study. Still a big leap that should be noticed but come on, read the links you post.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 01:49 PM
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It made my opinion of men drop. I grew up with something of the opposite of the WaW effect. I thought men were strong capable pinnacles of responsibility and selflessness, then I figured out that mostly only exists in stories. I figured they were more likely to be above their own carnality than women. Popular, handsome, ugly, nerdy, men are kinda assholes just like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 12:12 PM
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I think it's more likely but I have reservations about integration as well. We'll have to just wait and see.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 11:55 AM
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Loool
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 11:46 AM
1

I generally don't feel disgust at people for simply not fulfilling my sexual preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 11:44 AM
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Nah. Further segregation is not going to increase effectiveness of 95% of units and missions, and will only drive the wedge deeper in communication. It's a net loss IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 11:43 AM
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Your point literally makes no sense. I won't be berated by the most intentionally daft person on this sub for my point making no sense. This is my final answer to you on this chain. No, I see no utility in it. Is it important to know what men generally prefer, as you said? Yes. But disgust other-izes someone in a way that I've never seen necessary. There's more utilitarian as well as kinder ways to approach preferences and disgust isn't one of them. And, again, I hardly think other-help is the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 11:41 AM
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Dude there's so many. SO MANY.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 11:01 AM
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No I'm still maintaining my point that I see no utility in it. That hasn't changed. It's just there to feel better about oneself. And understanding practicalities is different than passing judgement on them. They're one way, you're another. Nothing calls for more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 03:27 AM
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The number of weebs in the military is growing and kinda weird, ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 03:26 AM
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At least from the RPs here, I don't see much disgust at themselves. I see disgust at women and occasionally incels. It's not introspective, it's extrospective. And there is no utility in that besides self-flattery and false pride.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 03:08 AM
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You say there's a need. What is it? Where's the utility in it? I don't see it, so I see no need to claim it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 02:20 AM
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Well things are markedly different in that regard now, at least in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 02:04 AM
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Fun fact: about 5-10y ago they finally started making body armor for females that addressed specifics like lower center of gravity and, yes, boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 02:03 AM
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I think disgust is something of an excessive way to characterize it. It needlessly assigns a judgement where one doesn't have to be. It's not my fault I'm not into you, it's not your fault, it just is how it is. Why describe someone as disgusting if there's no utility or benefit to it. All it does is define one person as 'below' the other with no reason other than opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 02:01 AM
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Yeah that's my buddy. Or was, rather. He just got out, did one turn at Hunter airfield and a tour in Afghanistan and got the heck out. I'm not too far behind him, thankfully. The army isn't a good place for folks who don't drink the koolaid, maybe even more than it was before.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 01:57 AM
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And as far as the range goes, women still aren't really taught to shoot guns. I hadn't touched a weapon before BCT and I qual'd with 28 in BCT, up to a 34 now. It comes with familiarity and typically when it comes to weapons women don't have it prior to serving compared to men. Once you get it though the basics are simple as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 01:48 AM
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When was that phased out? That's a code that originated in the Vietnam era. General intelligence is 35 series, has been for at least 20y now I think. My buddy is one, says he much prefers working with the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 01:45 AM
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I'm a homebody now and once I hit like 26 I realized I couldn't really puke-and-rally like I used to at weddings or events, but the bars were a fun time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 01:42 AM
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Perspective I guess. I see it as, they don't fulfill my sexual preference but there's nothing wrong with their existence or state if they're not in my lane, so why is it any business of mine what they look like or do with their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 01:40 AM
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I think you're making up English now to try to obscure your lack of point. This grammatically doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 01:28 AM
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You get that the PT standards are based on personal fitness, not to compare soldier to soldier? Besides that, they're officially going to a gender-neutral PT test next year (which if you ask me is gonna be a shit show but that's got nothing to do with it being unisex). And he didn't ask about tech school, he asked about BCT. Besides which, I'd again be curious to see what data you have on trainability by gender and MOS.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 01:27 AM
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Um...I know... I'm a female in the military. But thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 01:22 AM
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Maybe it's the occasional progressive in me but I don't think that's a bad thing. It's said recent generations are a lot more accepting of physical handicaps, racial makers, gender orientation, etc. I think there's a virtue in looking past differences for similarities. You can say you prefer to associate with one group without passing judgement on another.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 01:21 AM
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When I was in my bar going days a few years ago, I had two main methods: 1: Goofy and playful. Like I'd walk up to a cute guy at the bar and bump into him "accidentally" and just gush, "OMG, your bicep is SO BIG." Way over the top and silly and fun. I was a FUN girl to be at the bars with-not trashy or sloppy or rude or anything; I generally stayed sober enough to drive and picked up more than one drunk sorority sister off the sidewalk, but I was lively and fun. We'd do games like who could get …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 01:16 AM
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Statistically speaking women are less likely to get remarried and less likely to want to. Pew did several studies on it, something like 15% more women than men have no desire to do a second marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 12:49 AM
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We french braid each other's hair and do makeup with warpaint. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 12:39 AM
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I hate to say it but basic training probably isn't enough for a lot of men. Deploying, maybe, but the guys can have that. It's hell for women unless you've got a REALLY good group of chicks to fall back on. The gender segregation is in a lot of ways necessary cause bad shit happens, but it also throws up astronomical barriers to just getting your job done or getting the right information half the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 12:38 AM
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Maybe our other veterans who went to a mixed gender basic training can chime in. There's a funny thing about Basic, although I speak strictly from the US Army perspective. The guys who have natural ability do well, the ones who don't really struggle. The girls on the other hand tend to be highly trainable. They generally don't come in with the same natural aptitude but they show a lot more improvement over the 10w or whatever it is now. Kinda like that bell curve. The guys who struggle will stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 12:13 AM
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Idk it got old fast. Was funny for a thread or two but now blech
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 08:15 PM
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Eh. Maybe it's just me being raised in a more mind-your-own-business culture but that attitude is just rude to me. Especially this part: I kind of just like starting trouble, and its also kind of a power move like "I can do whatever I want. Just try and stop me." Why ya gotta be. Just don't tell me if you come to GR, I don't need any part of that. I like my life quiet and uninterrupted by general asshattery.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 04:36 PM
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Holy hell my dude. I'm in GR and a recent inhabitant of MI but even I know this is pretty dumb. Between this and the not-tipping-female-waitresses I've realized you're just a troll who gets his rocks off being a nuisance. I just don't get why you do what you do other than to get attention for being a bad boy or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 04:10 PM
2

I see what you did there. I think. I hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 12:13 PM
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I have three monies. Take my offer! 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 12:01 PM
3

The OP of the thread about what makes a perfect female partner said 'no male dogs." When asked why, it's bc he thinks women are fucking their pets.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 11:56 AM
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I actually agree with CP here (and that acronym is too perfect for me to not make it a regular thing, /u/CainPrice, just FYI) I don't think he's using "angry powerlessness" to belittle women here. Angry and powerless is just that feeling frustration at being stuck in a situation you can't do anything about--something women are very familiar with. While we've achieved a lot of legal parity, there's parts that still conflict and biologically there always will be and we can't do anything about them…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 11:54 AM
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It still registers as immoral to me whether or not she's complicit. I have to take your words about the stock tip thing for face value because never in my life would I want to be in finance. You don't have to see what's gross about it. I have a feeling even if I explained the distastefulness of it in a crystal clear to 99% of the world, Smoogs would find a way to not get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:22 PM
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I suppose the only concrete thing that comes to mind is the respect factor. In the Chernobyl show, there was an understanding of the fact that these men have lives and families and friends. In war it's understood by most that the cost is paid by fathers, brothers, sons. When you call an old mentor or buddy for advice or input, you respect them. You understand there's more to them than a sack of meat in clothing. They have value outside of the going rate for flesh. They have experiences, skills, …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:07 PM
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It's a moral thing, so yes it's very hard for me to explain exactly why it's gross. I'm not going to do what 10,000 TRPs do and rationalize why I find something distasteful. It just is for me, and I'm ok with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 07:52 PM
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It's not commodifying of their bodies. Not as gross to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 07:44 PM
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I don't think men are totally responsible. I find the attitude pretty gross regardless of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 07:34 PM
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I mean yeah, but I'd take it as a sign of mistrust. He can get into any of mine any time he likes, he knows 90% of my Instagram is makeup and fashion tips, recipes, and workouts and my Facebook is mostly old high school friends or family that lives out of state. Edit: and the Facebook marketplace. Got a really cute bedset from there a few years back.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 07:31 PM
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I don't often get actually morally grossed out by stuff around here but this one kinda squicks me. I think it's that this is an aspiration. It's the aspiration of commodifying humans. In a much greater TERRIBLE example, I watched the Chernobyl HBO series and they're debating how to clear the roof of debris so they can close up the radiation leaking into the atmosphere and one of the guys asks how much it will cost in human lives. It's a lot more gruesome cause in that case they're talking about …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 07:27 PM
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It's not even the cheating bit I don't think. He's taking steps so that his primary source of "good relationship feels" is his GF. Even if actual cheating never crossed a person's mind, enjoying that attention too much in other places can often lead to taking an SO for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 06:59 PM
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Spoiler: if you do either you're basically a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 06:25 PM
5

I... No.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 05:53 PM
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/u/PadThai42, before you're inevitably ripped into by some folks, I just want to say your post is super wholesome. Idk about the specifics but the fact that you're actively taking steps to remove yourself from temptations to cheat and increase your attention to her is awesome and your GF is really lucky in this aspect. Keep being awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 04:31 PM
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The average CS is something like $430 a mo or 5160/yr. The average income for a male of any race in the US is just under $60k/yr. Even for your average 30-35y it's around 42k. That evens out to just over 12%, not 30. Any of our many lawyers here can chime in on alimony, it's a more complicated process AFAIK, but safe to say for most men it's not 30% of their income. Again I don't know where you're pulling this 30-40% from but I have never seen that in any reading, ever. You're not looking at it …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 04:24 PM
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Ok... Let me say this once and loudly. NO ONE IS ENTITLED TO ANYONE ELSE'S ATTRACTION OR SEX ORGANS, OR THEIR TIME, MONEY, AND AFFECTION AND FRIENDSHIP. I don't see why that's so hard to understand. How you got there is literally of 0 importance for any of it. You are not entitled to shit. What you agree to give is on you, but s/he is not a bitch or asshole for taking what they're given regardless of if the giver mistakenly believes they're gonna get something for it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 01:11 PM
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None of this contradicts what I've said except for your second point which is categorically false, according to anything I've ever read, and I've read a LOT on it. As to your other points, really why just even get married or have kids? All the TRPs here keep telling us it's a cakewalk for women but these sound like pretty significant sacrifices and risks, don't you think? It's almost like both parties have to sacrifice in a marriage, but heaven forbid you suggest it's anything but perfection for…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 01:08 PM
1

Haven't even heard of a Ski Erg but I'll check it out. Even the elliptical is hit or miss on whether I can do it more than once a week. And I looked into IF. I'm cautious about it cause it seems even more temperamental than keto in the sense that, if you fall off keto for a day or two you can get back on with minimal discomfort, while the whole process seems a lot more difficult with IF.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 12:21 PM
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At best you're a place holder until she pays attention to him again or the finds someone he likes even better. In either case, he won't be sticking with you. GTFO.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 11:28 AM
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It was a joke, my dude, I'm the last person to suggest dating a crazy person is a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 11:18 AM
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Incorrect. Statistically speaking, women fare financially worse after divorce than men. The whole Divorce-Rape thing might happen here or there but by and large it's not the norm. Again, statistically speaking, women take the career hit for having kids, not men. When comparing men with/without kids, kids made little difference on their paycheck. When comparing women with kids vs without, kids are paycheck killers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 11:15 AM
2

... Now I'm beginning to agree that you're a bot. Google it then, you're trolling me and I'm done. You don't "metabolize" glucose into fats. Glucose is the end result of everything. You can store glucose as fats but everything goes back to carbs to be utilized by the body. But really just go fucking Google it at this point, I won't respond again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 11:09 AM
1

Energy utilized to metabolize either compound.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 11:02 AM
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That's the shitty thing, it's something I'm natural at so I'm absolute crap at explaining it to others. Start with an easy sense of humor. Then get rid of 90% of your pride and judgement. Then cultivate a genuine interest in the other person's happiness and well-being. That's all I've got.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 03:11 AM
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You have the option of calling out sick for work if you're a cook or employee. Also you presumably have co-workers to shoulder the load when needed. And yeah, I'd totally tell my kid to go amuse himself if I was cooking or been ill or what not (as long as they're of the age they won't kill themselves inadvertently if Mom takes a nap for 20min). Sometimes people need a day off or they're ill or whatnot. People have days where mediocrity is the best they can do. If it's not the norm, I wouldn't fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 03:03 AM
1

Do you know much organic chemistry? There's single-compound sugars and multiple-compound sugars. Glucose is one of the single sugars, and is very often one of the building blocks of more complex sugars. Almost all carbohydrates break down into mostly glucose alongside a handful of other sugars. As such pretty much all carbohydrates release a lot of carbs into your system, it's just a matter of how long it takes. Fat almost invariably takes longer to digest and isn't directly converted to glucose…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 02:31 AM
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And nowhere in my comment did I say there was always an excuse. My original comment in this thread said I don't know why TRPs have so much against maintenance sex as long as it's not the norm. Sometimes for different reasons when life gets complex, maintenance sex might be all the couple can muster for a bit. Doesn't mean they don't care about each other. One or both are being burnt out by other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 02:17 AM
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Don't you come in here with your reason and logic and pragmatism!! Don't you know where you are???
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 02:13 AM
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Sometimes it's because you only have 20 minutes because they wake up from their nap or you have to pull the chicken out of the oven or the dog is throwing up on his breifcase or your in-laws are visiting and sleeping in the next room or one of you has the shits from food poisoning or a thousand and one other time-sensitive things. If you don't get how kinky balls-to-the-wall sex isn't a person's (man OR woman) #1 priority AT ALL TIMES then you have not had much sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 02:09 AM
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That's not what anyone (who's not openly being sarcastic) is saying. There's a big leap between "wanting to shit in her mouth" and "having vanilla sex once a month." If you can't see that then nobody here can help you and you're better off going back to MRA or braincels.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 02:00 AM
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None of that? All of it? Don't get me wrong I'm all about having enthusiastic freaky sex when you can get it in, but sometimes life just catches up to you. Sometimes maintenance sex is just the best you can do after a long day. Maintenance sex is 'I'm exhausted and probably not going to cum this time, but if you want a quickie, I love you and I'm willing to let you ride me for 15-20."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 01:56 AM
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Have you ever had a relationship where you lived with your partner? Sometimes we have other things to do or we're sick or stressed out or what have you. We are not all sex kittens whose only commitment in life is to spread'em when demanded. Never in the history of mankind was that the case unless you were a prostitute. Not wives, hookers only. So you answered your own question. Yes, Porn has changed men's standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 01:54 AM
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I will never understand this abhorrence of maintenance sex. Of course you should be enthusiastic and sexy and kinky when you can, but people have lives and jobs and kids and responsibilities. Maintenance sex from time to time is simply the best you can do, not cause s/he don't love him/her but because they have lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 01:24 AM
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I mean the fear of marriage is much worse, but it might be because I'm a woman. Getting married is something of a crap shoot. Statistically speaking, I'm going to be unhealthier, my body is going to become messed up after kids, I'm going to be unhappier, my SO is more likely to cheat than I am, I'm going to lose financial power when I have kids whether or not I want to and put in more hours for him and my family at home than I will for myself. He won't still find me as sexy in 30 or 50y and it'l…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 01:18 AM
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Idk. I have a vagina. That does a lot of the work for me. On a serious note, I've noticed I attract guys who are impressed with my conversation. I've been told I have an interesting and occasionally uncomfortable ability to make a person feel like they're the only individual in the world when we get into a good talk. Anything from catching up on their personal lives and family, their career, if it's science or military we can get into the deeper details, etc. Wit, intelligence, and empathy. I am…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 01:07 AM
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True, but sugars are broken down quickly. Fats take longer and keep you full longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 12:43 AM
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It's more about reducing sugars. There's a decent amount of research suggesting sugars are worse than anything else at wrecking a metabolism and causing a whole stream of other issues including weight gain. The fat thing, from what I've read so far, is that they're very useful for filling the appetite when the body sends hunger signals. Fats keep you fuller, longer, often with less calories intake than carbs. The bulk of your energy should come from protein.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 12:38 AM
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Also, side-note I don't think I'm going to find a women that's as motivated as me & also I find attractive(not one that's already at a higher level than me) There's a part of me that wants to just joke that you're hypergamous but also I get it. Nobody likes an unmotivated person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 12:35 AM
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No-it's to keep the weight off. I'm used to being a fairly active person but the leg has made that difficult recently. Becoming sedentary has led to some weight gain and many of the people I've known who've maintained or lost weight without feeling like they're starving themselves have done some kind of keto. Ideally I'd get the leg fixed so I can go back to being more active, of course, but in the meantime I'm giving this a shot so I don't gain too much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 12:32 AM
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True. The 50c limit is partially to see if we adjust well, partially to get a handle on how to form the habits necessary. If it works, good, if not, I'll rethink things!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 12:29 AM
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I can work with all that! I'm in the habit of doing fruit and meat and cheese as my brunch at work anyways and from what I've seen I can keep that up, I just have to switch to more berries and less high sugar fruits. And I do love me some good soups. Are diet sodas a total no-go? Like I said I'm trying to slide into it but I'm afraid it might be the one processed thing I might really struggle to totally let go of.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 12:24 AM
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But that would require being very honest with yourself and acknowledging the need for self-improvement, whereas saying ‘I felt like it’ is basically spinning it into a neutral decision. Shh let him live the lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 12:06 AM
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Welp I fucked that up. Can't say it was a bad turn of events, though, we're coming up on two years this fall.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 12:04 AM
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Any user can hide another user on their profile (never bothered with it myself but I know it can be done). That's totally cool here AFAIK. The mods are God when it comes to banning people from the sub. Be nice and they're benevolent, be bad and be smited
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 11:55 PM
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If anybody has any Keto experience, let me know. My bad leg has been acting up to the point it's really painful to even go for a walk after work, and being sedentary has caused me to pack on a bit of weight in the last 6mo or so. I've got an appointment set up with the doc to see if there's anything more than PT to do about it and I'm trying to find a cheap gym with a pool so I can try to get back in the habit of doing some kind of cardio that won't irritate it even more, but in the meantime I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 11:52 PM
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Why do guys?? Lol. This is EXACTLY like the girls asking "why doesn't he want to just stay friends when I tell him I don't want to date him?? Do you like being stuck in the friendzone? No. Nobody does. It's perfectly ok for people to want double or nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 09:50 PM
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I hate it all. I was raised GOP and it's one of the few things that stuck, but I don't recognize this party and I don't recognize its politics anymore. And I really miss John McCain.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 01:27 PM
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Nebraska will not legalize until forced to do so federally. It's still so taboo there. It was probably one of the larger culture shifts I noticed moving to Michigan since they legalized last year.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 01:24 PM
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The Horror.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 01:20 PM
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Just another thing we will have to handle for the boomers I suppose. At least they're no longer half the electorate anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 01:19 PM
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Ty!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 01:12 PM
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I mean... I'd be more happy with the guy who could adapt and roll with the punches. Even if we ditch the swanky place for soft serve at McDick's if the conversation is fun and the walk there is exciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 05:14 AM
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At the risk of assigning one more thing to class around here.... I think it's more reflective of class. As a secondary characteristic I'd agree. But really a lot of it is class.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 04:52 AM
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I feel yah. I'd say it's not a broken drive, at least in me--as I can do LTRs pretty successfully--I'm just very cautious as to who I emotionally invest in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 04:30 AM
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You seem to consistently downplay any suffering/contribution/responsibilities women face and give men the most charitable image possible throughout this thread. How about you just come out and say you believe women suck the life out of everything and are only good for holes? MGTOW is always taking new bodies if you're not already there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 03:30 AM
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Have you dated a man? Do you know what it's like to listen to a man orate on his interests ad nauseum and be expected to pay rapt attention to the most inane topics? Comic books, obscure Russian history, his pet theory on the truths of Area 51?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 03:21 AM
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The things that matter most as far as social markers go in a general sense are competency, confidence, and capability*. If you have all three you're probably high social status as a result. Status itself comes from these. Everyone starts with a level of capability given by luck of the draw. Competency is trained and then executed. Confidence exists when competency is mastered. *By capability I'm including looks. Anything innate, for the lookist folks out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 11:29 PM
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Valid point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 11:14 PM
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Someone let Rollo know he has a bastard son clogging up our sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 09:06 PM
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1 & 2 I'd prefer to keep a cool head and just ignore the bait. My SO is something of a hot-head though so I don't know precisely how it would play. 3 I'd hope he'd just rip him off and give him one good yeet (that word is stupid but growing on me) just to let the guy know to back the F off. 4 both of us would probably get pretty defensive pretty quickly. Assuming the guy didn't have a weapon. Even if the guy was bigger than us and could probably take us one on one, together we'd make at least a …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 08:06 PM
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I mean I'm not sure where you're getting that. He does whatever he likes 90% of the time. Perhaps clarify where you think he's not allowed to self-determine?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 02:05 PM
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You know, I honestly don't think we've ever had a positive interaction until now, but genuinely, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 01:53 PM
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And you have yet to tell me what that support is?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 05:43 AM
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I expect us both to behave at all times with the understanding we are a team. We might disagree from time to time but always remember to treat each other as people we care deeply about and want each other to succeed. I expect him to behave with a general goal of improving our mutual well-being. Sometimes this will mean sacrifices on one side or the other. I expect him to behave with loyalty to me as I am loyal to him. I expect him to handle responsibilities within his capabilities. I expect him …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 05:32 AM
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You've made the very specific claim that I had a life specifically easier than my brothers. What evidence do you have for that claim? Do all women have easier lives than their bothers across the board? Is it your belief than that no woman can have a harder life than any man? Please clarify your meaning because you did not argue averages in your original comments. Girls who are molested by their brothers have it easier than the boys who abuse them? How about a father? In my case it was unique bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 05:06 AM
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You made the claim, it falls on you to back it up. "Question what you believe," right? Tagline for TRP? If you're believing something without proof so much that you cannot imagine a woman might have had a more difficult shake than a man, you might need to reevaluate your stance on "Reals over feels." You suggested my life was easy by some metric but hand-wave it away when I ask you to clarify why. Poor argument to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 04:54 AM
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What support do you think I supposedly received?? Lol. The bulk of any support is in services related to my status as a veteran of the US Military, all of which are available to both genders and much more often utilized by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 04:25 AM
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Perhaps in most cases. Not in mine. I was physically abused, my mother doctor-shopped and kept me drugged for a lot of HS, I was left at a halfway house for a month, slept countless nights in my car in Midwestern Winters, terrorized, and more. My father expected me to just take it because he was Catholic and didn't believe in divorce, and I was expected to help raise my siblings like a good Catholic girl. My brothers did not have to face much of the abuse I did, and while I was still expected to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 04:09 AM
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No, our challenges weren't exactly the same. But what makes you think they had it easier? Be specific please.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 03:51 AM
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Because I already came through a tougher version of what they did and made it through. Our mother is BPD. I am the oldest. My childhood was very physically violent and emotionally abusive, and as the oldest I took most of it. I am extremely well-adjusted based on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 02:43 AM
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Ty
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 09:13 PM
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No worries!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 07:27 PM
1

Huh? Aunt?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 05:48 PM
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Fair. How would I stack up to the Ruskis as a 193-194 cm man?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 05:38 PM
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Ok? Response still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 05:32 PM
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I don't disagree with that statement. What I disagree with is the claim that high N men will be happy with many of the characteristics that come with low N women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 05:31 PM
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The US has many ethnicities. According to online calculators though I'm still tall for Russia, but I don't know what data set they use.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 05:27 PM
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No, they regularly validate the things that sound nice to them without a second thought and rail on the things that don't. It's the main qualm I have with TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 05:18 PM
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It's dishonest. The women here are already railed on for dishonesty when it doesn't validate the male view. This comment, however, does, and when I originally saw it it was highly rated because the male population upvote what sounds nice and downvote what doesn't. While I'll admit it was unkind of me, it's dishonest, and the only way this sub works is if people are honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 05:17 PM
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Not to mention I'm 177-178cm, or 98th percentile for height in my country, which would put me at ~193 as a man-which it probably would, both my brothers are about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 05:12 PM
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Then call it ruthlessness or selfishness. It's diluting and obscuring the actual term with intention to whitewash it into a more powerful perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 05:06 PM
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According to standardized testing, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 05:00 PM
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And true for many others? Not sure what you want me to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 04:56 PM
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No you mistake me. In many statistic studies that take gender into account, women are clustered towards the center while men have a broader spread. I'm statistically above average compared to many females when it comes to masculine qualities. It's more a question of where I fall in standard deviation. If I'm 3 SD's off average compared to other women as a woman, I'd imagine I'd be 3 SD's off average compared to men as a man, even though my position compared to people in general would've changed.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 04:31 PM
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No it's about if having a low N makes you a better partner
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 04:04 PM
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You don't say. It's not like we've never heard of that a thousand and one times here. You have new groundbreaking conclusions to share on the topic???
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:53 PM
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Sociopathic out if necessity is a pretty weird word choice. I don't think there's any situation that necessities sociopathy. People die for each other in war, medical necessity, parents ensuring their children eat while they slowly starve. The sociopathy you describe is always a choice, and most reasonable humans don't consider sexual release a valid reason to choose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:52 PM
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She struggles with it pretty regularly apparently. Perhaps it is catty, if so I don't play that role often so I'll allow it for myself, but do you really think she's oh-so-loyal and so much better than a guy with 5 divorces if she regularly posts about her crushes, rarely about her SO, and the one thread about him she does post said that he doesn't make her feel romanticized enough? Forgive me if I don't exactly think he got a good deal, even if her n is low.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:46 PM
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Yeah of course. Which is why there's parts of RP I think are accurate and downright useful. I'd have to look at it with all my other qualities intact aside from sex organs, though- I think of I'd been born a guy I actually would've had an easier go of it cause I'm a fairly masculine woman. Tall, broad, muscled, with interests in science and logistics. Friendly, bold, gregarious, a little cheeky (translated to devilish as a guy) with a decent eye for clothes. Responsible and reliable, honest and …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:26 PM
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Shame there's no pity for your SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:05 PM
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Nope. Makes me feel pity is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 02:56 PM
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Not what I'm getting at, but I know what you mean. I'm saying there's a fair # of suspicious comments that validate the idealized slut-but-only-for-him trope from newer accounts, which suggests to me that there's some LARPing or dishonesty going on. And while the men here rush to suggest a woman is lying when she says things that don't validate their beliefs, there seems to be little problem taking at face value these new comments by unknowns simply because they say what the guys want to hear. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 02:49 PM
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http://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/cf703y/low_ncount_women_in_serious_relationships_what/eu7uedb Check her post history. There's a few others around as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 02:36 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/limerence/comments/cf6xr8/what_was_your_breaking_point/ Your n might be low but I get why people might perceive you as loose if this is something that you're still going through as of an hour ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 02:29 PM
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What's really interesting to me is the number of fresh/new accounts posting on this thread stories that sound like totally, 100% for real, I swear. And yet nobody is calling them out for dishonesty or partial truths. In no way is this meant as a slight to our regulars who have low n's mind you. Y'all keep being awesome. Just that there's a suspicious number already posted here who play into the Virgin-Cum-SexKitten in accounts that are new/unrecognized.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 02:23 PM
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Yes and most of them these days are ESL/FOB Indian immigrants who will never see white pussy like they dream about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 12:38 PM
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Most of them are risk-mitigating themselves out of the breeding pool. That's the Darwinism for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 12:11 PM
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IT'S LIKE RAAYYYAAAAIIIINNNNNN......
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 12:04 PM
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The whole point of my last few comments, which you've been successfully dodging, is that I believe most often our military is the lesser of two evils. Not that it's good, but that it's better than the alternative. And while the point is to have a force in place capable of committing violence, they have goals that are most often pursued via the less violent option. You've avoided those points every time and as such I've no more interest in this conversation. Goodbye sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:12 AM
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Because I like educating people with statistics and facts. Reals over feels, ya know. In this case, the victimhood is probably justified. Links are ugly cause I'm cooking dinner. https://www.politico.com/agenda/story/2017/09/27/aging-government-workforce-analysis-000525 https://amp.businessinsider.com/millennial-generation-gap-great-recession-financial-crisis-money-habits-2019-3 https://www.thenation.com/article/why-millennials-arent-lazy-entitled-narcissists/ https://www.bostonglobe.com/busines…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 11:50 PM
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Leave tribal sand people to their own devices. I So let the actual terrorists plan more terrorism. Cool. What US Military is designed to do, and what it actually does is to kill people and move shit. Moving shit is very secondary and only used when it helps with killing people. I mean... Do you actually have any experience in this? Military history education? Intelligence operations? Military experience? Or are you just basing this on movies? The shit you give to Iraqi government helps them kill…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 11:36 PM
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Seriously, I don't want to argue At this point I don't believe that anymore. is there any self-awareness among the troops related the fact that we caused that mess, Killed a whole bunch of people, tens of thousands more died as a result of us killing those people, and now the US tax payer is funding corrupt government there, which btw can barely keep Islamic fundamentalist killers at bay. Or you seriously think you're there helping Iraqi people, by being stationed half way around the world, watc…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 10:57 PM
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Did they teach you to shoot a gun? Was that to prevent killing? Yes. They told us we had better have exhausted every other possible resource before we used it and it should only be used in self-or-other-defense if someone else was already shooting at us or an ally. Did you see helicopters with large caliber guns on them? Did you see tanks? Did you see a whole bunch of other people in camo carrying guns? Yes. With the same instructions I was given above. Did you see dead people that we've killed?…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 09:51 PM
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Yes, we all know millenials are losers overall, but that's not from lack of opportunity. They just make poor financial decisions. And tend to be lazy Ok this right here tells me you've done absolutely no research because literally no one who researches or documents this stuff says that. Give me an hour and I'll even do the research for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 09:41 PM
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Look at it this way instead of seeing just a few job postings with a dollar figure. Go Google the statistics for people 25-35 and how much property they own compared to the previous generations at that age. Or disposable income (adjusted for inflation). Or cost of living. Or student loan debt. Or how we buy cars. Compared with every previous generation since the great depression, we are struggling. Gen Z is doing much better, but Millennials are projected by many economists and statisticians nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 08:55 PM
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Hi, female enlisted US Army Reservist here. Just got back a bit under a year ago from overseas. No, to all of this. A lot of what we do is attempt to prevent killing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 08:49 PM
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Sure thing. Just pay me in wine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 07:59 PM
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Aww. I'm blushing from your hedges. Also these should probably be groomed sometime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 07:56 PM
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Oh man, he parted with the POST RETIREMENT BEARD for you?? True daddy love there!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 07:51 PM
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https://imgur.com/EVUy7Zh.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 07:50 PM
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Hey sexy, how you doin? Brought to you by your neighborhood Reddit creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 07:49 PM
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Eh some of us just get comfortable. I've got the same account I first started way back when I'd just discovered Reddit and had no idea what the Pills were. I'm sure if somebody wanted to pull all my records everywhere they could, but 1) I don't think most folks are that crazy, 2) the ones who are, I'm not really afraid of. There's lots of scary crazy people on the planet, if I'm their newest target I guess my number is just up. 3) I don't really say much I'm afraid of getting out because I gener…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 07:47 PM
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Oh God I'm a lowly enlisted but I do know what you're talking about, I just can't think of the name. And actually, what I find hilarious is the ones they had for the WIVES on proper respect based on husband's rank, appropriate seating arrangements and such when throwing a military dinner party and proper place settings and dress codes for the ladies and everything. I found an old copy one time when cleaning out a trailer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 07:37 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:55 PM
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I just did. I make half that now with a STEM degree and military veteran status. Not everyone is your brother. Most of us aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:47 PM
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I have a credit score over 750. It makes more sense to keep paying and just live with it than destroy that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:44 PM
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Still am! I think I'm further west than you. But if you're heading to the GR area any time, shoot me a note! I still have to go out of state back to Nebraska once a month but if I'm in the MI area when you, we can get a beer and bitch about the crazy folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:43 PM
3

Where is this job.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:20 PM
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No dude. I'm 30 as well and a sad number +/- 3-5y is still set back from the compulsory failure-to-launch of the 2008 crisis. We're still making <50k, housing prices are up, health insurance keeps climbing even for us, and now not only are we competing with those older but also those younger. I couldn't get a good job with a STEM BS at 23 and it's made me have to re-configure my life several times. We own something like 60% as much property as our parents and GenX did at our age. We don't have r…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:18 PM
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Yes but as adults we have a bit more understanding of what's appropriate and reasonable. Kids' judgement and risk-taking centers in their brains aren't fully formed into late teenage years at best. We recognize in our legal system that younger people don't posses the same critical thinking skills yet, it's why we charge people with crimes differently before 18. Compared to my coming-of-age years, I feel SUPER sorry for today's kids, they might have some perks but they have so many different issu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:11 PM
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Times change and kids also have to deal with stuff I never had to worry about. Smartphones have made it so you have to worry every moment of your life might be recorded--and that's terrifying if I think of the dumb shit me or my friends did growing up that was just forgotten about because there was no record. I also didn't have to worry about parents checking my grades online cause online wasn't a thing that was widespread until I was well into high school. You're doing the thing again where you…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 05:56 PM
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Because most functional adults understand it's dumb to be jealous of literal toddlers and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 05:10 PM
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Here's the thing. And I'm going to try not to patronize you about it cause it's rude and I really don't mean to be, so if it sounds like that, I'm sorry in advance-- A lot of men-A LOT-romanticize this in their younger days because 1) they want to be loved more than anyone else she's ever seen in her life, and 2) men equate sex with love. It's important to understand that in women, that second bit isn't wired the same way. Sex isn't our primary method of receiving love or often giving love. Thus…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 01:40 PM
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Man that 2nd bit would drive me absolutely crazy, not gonna lie lol. Not like, a divorce-able offense or anything but MAN would that get old for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 12:55 PM
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What differences do you think there would be?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 12:40 PM
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I've got Fe, not Fi. And a lot of what I see is women being told they should STFU and just put up with their man because if they see any flaws they're a nagging bitch, regardless of how they address them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 12:24 PM
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The use of the word "principles" is kinda a weird flex, here, dude. I mean it's not like I don't have principles myself. "Values" is probably a better one. We probably have similar principles in life, just different values. I snooped a bit through your history and I'll tell you, your feelings might change or might not. The most low-maintenance women I've known in life have all had n-counts you'd consider to be shocking, but it's because they know when something is their business and when it's so…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 12:23 PM
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If it works for you, then by all means go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 12:09 PM
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Do you have much of a backbone, or are you a fairly submissive partner? I typically let my SO mostly run things and has had a habit of getting kinda passive aggressive at times. What works for us is that I bust out my "diplomatic but assertive" voice and just say "I am your partner, I deserve better than that attitude, I'm going to take a time out until you can treat me like we're on the same team." Then I go. Leave the room, get in your car and drive, whatever. For us it's pretty small and he k…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 11:45 AM
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You have a whole thread of women doing that here and getting ripped for it. Also, my guy sometimes gets mad at other people and makes comments about their ethnicity, age, and gender, and it bothers me and I wish he wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 11:33 AM
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Really good points, probably worthy of a post at some point if you flesh it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 11:25 AM
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I have a pretty casual attitude towards sex-- when I'm single. I see my SO as my life partner first and foremost and I've never put too much of a priority on chastity. I'm not a hoe-i have a nice quiet office job and I wear pretty conservative/comfortable clothes, but my n is a moderately high number.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 11:21 AM
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If you read my entire comment and that was what you felt needed to be said, I don't know what response to give you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 11:15 AM
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Did you happen to catch last week's Men/Violence threads, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 02:47 AM
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Precisely.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 02:42 AM
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1) assuming he's 30yo like me, if his n was more than maybe 50 I'd probably cock an eyebrow. 2) more than 50. 3) 1 < okay number < 100. Don't want to be anybody's first, don't want to deal with someone who's never sustained a monogamous relationship. I'd look for someone with a similar attitude though. I've never cheated or wanted to. When I'm in a relationship, I'm in it. When I'm single, I just do what I like. I was single for a few years in my twenties and if I'm not with anybody, casual sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 12:07 AM
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Like anything else, better for women on average, better for some men at the very top and worse for some men at the very bottom. Next Q please.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 07:18 PM
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