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11

This isn't strategy, this is giving away strategy lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 03:34 AM
23

I accidently sent a text meant for another guy to a guy I went on ONE date with. He was super rushy and when he realized my mistake he stopped talking to me because I still had options apparently lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:24 AM
68

Not condoning stealing at all but imagine having $400 and the first thing you buy is a PS4, like can you be anymore of a low life?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 05:33 PM
113

Never swipe right on every man as a woman, I just wanted to do a lame experiment because I was bored earlier this year. I had like 3k messages in my inbox....never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 02:24 AM
49

Yup. I made the mistake of unblocking an ex from 10 years ago. He did not change at all. How do you not evolve in a decade??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 10:21 AM
28

I cant believe I use to think requiring some of these in a man was having too high standards 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 03:38 AM
9

I like games too but it's very risky dating a man who games nowadays. Mix pandemic hopelessness with increasingly high reward games and bam -- you got an addiction brewing. It's easy for men to slip into it becoming a obsessive habit if they aren't accomplished/attentive to other areas of their life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:00 AM
3

Lord, did we have the same ex? They're totally addicts and will hardly ever realize it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:55 AM
173

Studying coding and comitting to my skincare routine and sleep schedule.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 06:09 PM
29

If this is true, how embarrassing. I bet he justifies it because he's not "hurting real women". They will not last once she gets tired of lying to people asking about her fiance's occupation, telling them that he's an "animator".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:35 PM
13

Wow, we're taking literal homeless men off the streets and into our beds now? I mean I'm not too surprised because we have prison wives. I have no words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:03 AM
32

Damn, this was deep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 03:22 AM
83

Exactly. One reason it's so bad is because they see themselves in their pathetic fight as them vs. society. The entitled man babies have successfully victimized themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 02:05 AM
24

I cant believe this dude (99 percent sure he's some neckbeard tech bro 'software engineer') wasted this much time building this BS app and gathering data.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 05:03 AM
13

Wow, relate to every point, thank you for this. I'm one year out of my emotionally abusive relationship. Along with trying hard to not beat myself up for not healing from it fast enough, it turned my life up side down and felt like I was trying to escape quicksand during this whole recovery process. I'm just now starting to feel like my old self but with a new outlook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 05:06 AM
22

My past pick me self was sooo impressed with mediocrity 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 02:15 PM
1

I love how the seat progressively goes further and further back lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 04:24 AM
101

Coffee dates are always lowballing no matter what. There will always be the next dude who will be smart and offer dinner first so no need to ever consider compromising.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 02:33 AM
16

I'm a year abstinent with a high drive and there are definitely times when I want to jump someone's bones but I get emotionally attached from rushed intimacy. It's too much energy and way too risky to sort through men that actually make an effort to please you. Also, maybe I've just had bad luck but a lot of guys can't keep up or have a low sex drive? Even when I attempted to do things like FWB, they were one pump chumps or would flake out on meeting up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 02:01 PM
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Everything always has to be about their ego. Peep the last sentence. He doesn't care about getting her back really, it's just that his ego was shattered and he's trying to gather the remanets reaching back out to her, rubbing it in her face while simultaneously ripping and tearing her down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 11:45 PM
31

Wtf an STD diagnosis would make me want to have LESS sex with random people, not add "19 more bodies". I swear the stigma does not effect dudes in the slightest. They just keep slangin' and spreadin' with nary a care in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 04:39 AM
2

I still struggle a year out of my abusive relationship. I did grow in a lot of ways but didn't have an ideal glow up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 05:05 AM
7

Ask how they feel about holidays. All my exes sucked at gifting, celebrating, and remembering important dates like my birthday or anniversaries and they were important to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 04:31 AM
6

Ahh I had an ex that listened to mostly female artists and he was abusive lol. Granted it was EDM type music though. There's no winning either way it seems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 04:28 AM
6

Wow another idea creeps have invented. I keep adding to the filing cabinet in my head of worst case scenarios men can do to me. Thanks, true crime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:54 PM
4

Working in customer service will teach you this quick. Had so many men think I was flirting with them when all I'm doing is my job. Like calm down, bro 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 04:17 PM
1

Beauty???? Where sis?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:14 AM
11

Imagine if he got turned down when he arrived in Sweden lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:52 PM
6

My ex was good about this but he still ended up being LV and walking ahead of me like an asshat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:38 PM
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Spinster and proud 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 03:06 AM
8

Add the hipster Berklee bros to the list too lol they seem to be all over Tinder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 09:45 PM
3

Yuuuuppp. I remember when 'bros before hoes' was a thing. Still going on until this day obviously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 06:58 PM
101

In reference to to the title, yes men don't appreciate doormats unless they can take advantage of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 06:04 AM
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These be the men out here having daughters one day lmao. We're doomed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 01:37 AM
24

Sorry but if you can put with this, I consider her nasty as well by proximity. This is freaking disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 02:54 PM
3

Yeah Issa no. I recently recovered from extreme pickmeism and not knowing any better so I dated a guy with two very young kids despite not having any myself. Granted there was a lot of other red flags I chose to ignore, he decided to run back to his baby mama after we broke up. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 05:13 PM
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FDS is very anti-OLD (understandably so). I've been on two dates despite. I know, shame on me. Restaurants are open in my area and I make sure to thoroughly vet the guys and provide proof they've been tested for covid. I haven't had any luck past those two dates but plan on resuming once the pandemic settles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 07:53 PM
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This woman probably just saved her life. A murder of another woman leaving a club happened last year in my city: https://www.nbcnews.com/news/crime-courts/suspect-charged-death-woman-who-vanished-after-leaving-boston-nightclub-n978741
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 11:52 PM
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The guys into dank memes always rubbed me the wrong way. They come off as 4chan, basement dwelling stoners that are overly immature. Also those types of memes are just unfunny to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 08:21 PM
16

The Kevin Samuels drama is unsurprising. Black men just now have a mouthpiece for their misogny towards us wrapped up as a 'HVM'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 07:32 PM
9

The cycle of abuse does not magically stop with their next victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 02:10 PM
49

Should've blocked him after he ghosted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 03:38 AM
12

Seems like baby showers are more common than weddings nowadays.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 05:17 PM
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Seeing how a guy keeps his living space could mean doging a bullet if he's messy because guess who will be cleaning up after him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 11:56 PM
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Correct. The handbook says dating/relationships should feel effortless on the women's behalf. If he's adding stress and negativity just let him go and cut your losses. Trust your intuition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 04:50 PM
20

Because some pickme out there would accept the bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 11:20 PM
15

I literally just took my glasses off rubbed my face with both hands and sighed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 08:08 PM
2

Right? And men love hoes especially when they're free (i.e porn, pickmes)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:53 PM
43

Oh I totally agree with that but they definitely want the ego boost and free validation from being approached.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 02:04 AM
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Modern men want to be chased so bad 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 12:54 AM
10

Give n***** some art supplies and they turn into Dr. Phil. Smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 01:03 AM
26

I'm convinced this coming generation of men are doomed. Forgoing basic human interaction for games..Like imagine your Gen Z father being a video game addict in his youth. Embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 07:31 PM
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Ok despite her being weird, she ain't lie about this fact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 03:33 AM
20

Male emperor penguins are like this too! The moms go out to sea for months while the dads raise the young from egg stage until she gets back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 11:12 PM
26

Sounds perfect. Too bad most men would consider this "simping".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 09:52 PM
21

I'd send him to the rooms & shares section of Craigslist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 11:52 PM
75

From reading affair reddit, I found out they'll go as far as having burner phones 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 11:49 PM
7

True, I only see maximum benefit for women breadwinners if the husband is still working so he still brings something to the table 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 03:35 PM
10

I really don't believe women should be breadwinners in a relationship with children for this reason. I guess a few relationships with stay at home dads work but most of the time it's a breeding ground for resentment for the woman. Why do you have to slave your ass at work everyday only to come home to a kept husband?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:39 PM
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She also could've been under immense stress dealing with him during her pregnancy which can effect gene expression in offspring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:36 PM
8

Yesss, I take similar supplements (collagen, vitamin c, MSM and biotin are the holy grails to amazing skin) and have a diet high in animal fats and protein. These changes make me glow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 10:21 PM
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I'm surprised his 55 year old peen still works. He doesn't deserve to be the father of that child with his selfish belief in archaic vagina myths. But he has a super young wife so it explains a lot 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:28 AM
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Easy. They'll lie about it or conveniently "change their mind" when the time comes. That's why we vet to expose future fakers. The strategy is to simply dump him if there's no ring after a year. Waiting any longer than that you risk getting strung along by the type of guys that ask this question in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 12:33 AM
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All the guys replying on the post are agreeing that bare minimum dates are the best to dodge the evil gold diggers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 11:45 PM
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Thank God I found FDS so I can no longer waste my time like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 11:33 PM
12

Right? I get hooking up in your 20s but my almost 30 year old pussy gets mad dry at the thought of casual sex and FWBs now. Dealing with mediocre peen and STI risks is exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 06:05 PM
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Even though I had low self esteem at the time, in the back of my mind I always felt like my ex should've worshipped the ground I walked on. I just didn't have enough sense to leave when he didn't. But trust, I was doing him a huge service by dating him, he was a complete loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:57 PM
7

Wish you could send it to his mom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:51 AM
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Yikes. Imagine paying your own way to fly out to meet a stranger with empty promises during a pandemic. She has a young son too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:16 PM
18

They want a roommate with girlfriend/wife benefits included.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 06:43 PM
22

I think he's just a mechanic or in auto repair too so she's definitely providing. How does she have so much energy to be breadwinner, mom and personal chef..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 06:01 PM
41

His vidya game habit definitely still bothers her based off of the mental gymnastics she's doing to justify it to strangers on the internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:45 PM
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They don't like us over here. They think us demanding better treatment in dating and relationships is misandy lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:20 PM
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This is why we don't do walk dates. It signals low effort from the jump. Now I'm off to datingoverthirty to see the excuses the pickmes are giving him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 03:33 PM
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I view hi as low effort. They can't go out of their way to formulate a proper greeting based off your bio. They send it out to anyone they match with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 01:35 AM
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I did an experiment where I swiped right on every guy and OMG the thirst and desperation. I got about 1000 matches in a week. My messages were overflowing with ugly, "hi" and bad openers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 11:52 PM
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Any men on imageboards are bottom of the barrell T R A S H. Why even bother?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:03 PM
40

I'm a fencesitter and the only way I'm having kids is if I make really good money to have them by myself or have a HVM that goes above and beyond in parenting and providing. Until either of those two things happen, I got my ish on lock.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:24 AM
38

I always see suggestions saying to do this if he splits the bill but I'm afraid the crazies (especially meeting those from OLD) would try to attack out of anger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:31 AM
9

This was what was kind of vague in the handbook. I was confused because it doesn't really tell you that you move on if they don't suggest an impressive date right off the bat WITHOUT you having to tell them what you prefer. It's key.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:32 PM
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Yup. When they try it it's because 99.9% of the time they want to feed their bruised ego and need a reup on supply of sex and validation. When you respond they think, "Ah, she still cares about me despite it being 10 years later. See, I knew I wasn't an asshole!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:19 PM
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I think she's been lurking here on FDS 😂 https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMJUfT1J4/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:34 AM
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I mean who wouldn't jump at the chance to have a free barber 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 04:22 PM
26

Marble balls!! I'm deceased 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:34 PM
34

He must be mass sending them out then lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:48 PM
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This was me down to trying to make it look presentable too. I learned the hard way LVM men are not appreciative of this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:02 PM
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Eww 5.8k LVM and some pickmes like the idea of treating men as the prize? I wish I wasn't suprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:02 AM
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It's ok to blame mothers too considering the fact internalized misogny is alive and well and some mums do coddle their sons and create mommy issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 11:59 PM
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Nasty. 10 years worth of drool, dead skin cells and sebum from an unwashed face caked up in those pillows. Why would anyone be proud to be his second mama washing these biohazards?? Tik tok is really showcasing that the bar is in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 09:31 PM
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Ok but one encourages you to cater to men (most who aren't even capable of being a HV provider mind you) and basically place your worth in maintaining relationships and FDS is the complete opposite. I respect women being homemakers, practicing hypergamy, trad femininity, whatever but I'm not for advocating taking care of men or trying to salvage relationships with underserving men that don't bring much to the table.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 10:29 PM
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FDS = Why Men Love Bitches RPW = Fascinating Womanhood Yeah...no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:39 PM
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RPW and FDS can't coexist tho lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:15 AM
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They need a vice to cope with their shitty personhood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:39 PM
21

This is interesting. I mean LVM of any race still gonna LV but I always assumed it was just us black folk with our men bashing us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 02:22 AM
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As a black American woman it's a thing that we're known for being mules for our community. Ride or die culture ensures that we must pull out all the stops to keep our musty, dusty men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 08:36 PM
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Trueee. I had one guy randomly approach me at the subway have the nerve to basically say, "well take my number anyway in case things don't work out between you and him". Seriously?? They're adapting and getting more persistent and desperate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:12 PM
1

Right!? It's rather catty and petty of them to go through all the trouble when preventative actions could've been taken in the first place 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 11:44 PM
71

So happy for her. Diddy is notorious for being a LV commitment phobe. I'm glad she decided to move on from being the forever girlfriend, she's too riveting talented for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 02:59 AM
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He just told you who he was in the last sentence. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:49 AM
19

Wig snatched.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:47 PM
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As a nurturing person this makes me so sad and reminds me of my former pickme ways. She was glowing with excitement trying to make him happy but the loser just had to take advantage of her spirit. I will never do any grand romantic gesture for a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:00 PM
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I thought it would've been a literal kid/baby but instead it was a man baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:06 PM
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Wow, I'm so sorry this happened to you. I've never even had a man do what your ex's 'nice' things were for me. I feel like being thrown the loop like that would've broken me. You're so strong for not allowing his abusive behavior to continue!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:12 AM
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Thank you so much for offering this! May I have a link as well?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:35 PM
8

Yes! These are mostly to help me cope with lack of physical affection with not being in a relationship which is my biggest love language but I rather try to work with these ideas than put up with LV men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:36 PM
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Thank you! And yes I do plan on working on my emotional well being. These things are just help with the physical feelings of being partnerless. I really like physical touch/affection so I hope investing in my self care in these ways will help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:33 PM
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Not investing in him (usually emotionally and even financially speaking) if he hasn't invested in you. That way if you end up getting played it'll hurt a lot less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 07:13 PM
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Say it louder for the people in the back: No man is worth being in competition over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:51 PM
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Lmaooo the forehead wrinkles!? I'm dead 😂 This is a brilliant idea and sadly some of the pics in your collage would apply to my ex too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 11:07 PM
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We were LDR and he ended up being all talk and no game.. When we first started talking he would mention that he would want to go to the store to buy whatever I needed for my period. I found it sweet. When I had my first period while living with him he actually cuddled me and comforted me when I was complaining about cramps. I was like "Wow! He cares and understands!" Then every period after that one he began to complain how much of a hassle period sex was (he'd start asking to try anal) and star…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 10:35 PM
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datingoverthirty is pickme central anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:34 PM
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Eh, don't put all asian men on a pedastal. Yeah they have some great cultural ideals but not all of them follow it. My ex was Laotian/Chinese and he really showed me that NVM of any race exist. He was a felon and a deadbeat dad with a pickme baby mama. He didn't like brushing his teeth and had a forever forklift driver job trajectory. His family was so dysfunctional, absentee dad and an alcoholic mother that liked to gamble. He did have a skincare routine though so I guess that matters 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:00 PM
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They'll spend an eternity going through dry spells, fucking up, seeing if the grass is greener, balding, playing vidya, collecting rebounds and spending no time working on their emotional maturity to finally reach out again and have the audacity to be like 'wyd'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 02:43 AM
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Always keep your expectations low especially with OLD dates. I had a prospective guy text me 15 minutes late for a pre-screen call. I blocked him for not respecting my time.. Remember they're trying to impress you, you are the prize. Men can leave in any stage of a relationship/courtship even years down the line, for the most mundane reasons. There's a saying in my community that's kinda applicable in situations like this: If you stay ready, you ain't gotta get ready.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 03:36 AM
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Ahh yes, I still have to remind my self to set the bar high when all I've dated was bad men. And not to romanticize bare minimum treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 07:04 PM
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Oh my lord, that quote is amazing 🙌🏿
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:38 PM
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Wow. Our stories are so similar. My ex had a racial fetish towards me, I met him here on Reddit and he love bombed the heck out of me. Entered a two year long LDR with him. I tried to break up with him several times but he'd always cry and beg for me back. We moved in together and his gaming addict ways became way more apparent and he revealed himself to be an abuser when I was pulling out all the stops to get more love and affection from him. I'm kicking myself that I didn't have the strength t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 10:41 PM
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If it's true I believe it. Many women don't know what a healthy relationship looks like. They expect and even want the addictiveness of the highs and lows of an abusive relationship. The thought that your husband should be a dick to you in some cultures is normalized because they "own" you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:28 PM
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This stung lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:00 PM
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I used to work at a grocery store as a cashier and older women would always compliment me. It would make my entire day and remind me that customer service isn't always depressing 😭 As soon as a dude would approach me, it would sour me right away. First of all, I'm just working and getting paid to be nice to you. Second, it never fails to come off as creepy and third, they're never attractive ??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 05:55 AM
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Her and Larissa are the queens of 90 Day Fiance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:55 PM
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Disregard this loser. I'm sorry you had to deal with scum. You look amazing. People can leave unsolicited comments on Tinder nowadays? This is why I don't mess with OLD anymore 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 10:06 PM
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