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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 25 | Dating in your high 40s | plastic_avocados | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/24 03:11 PM | |
| 15 | Should I stay or should I go | plastic_avocados | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/24 01:15 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Should I stay or should I goAt this point, I'm not sure. I don't know if it is even possible. I need to find a way that I can figure these things out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/24 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Should I stay or should I goYeah my wife loves girl trips. She went a week to Mexico last year. I made her feel guilty about it because I wasn't exited for her. I was jealous that she spends our money on trips for her but I don't (none of my friends would go on guy trips). I was a bit upset because I enjoy resort vacations and been asking for a while to do that again. We always end up going to Disney because that's what she likes, but I really don't enjoy. I have chronic back issues and the standing in lines are hard on me… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/24 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Should I stay or should I goNo, no, not sure, yes and no for the last one | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/24 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Should I stay or should I goI'm just going with the flow too and will be ready if divorce is inevitable. I might be the one that ends up asking for a divorce in the end, I'm just not sure of what is the best option for me yet. I want to make the decision for me, not for her or the kids. I think it's time to be selfish and put our needs first. good luck brother, hope things turn out the best for both oif us, divorced or not. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/24 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Should I stay or should I goI don't feel like this is the situation but my eyes are wide open | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/24 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Should I stay or should I goWe did last year and it didn't go very well. When I expressed my feeling and insecurities, I felt they were miniminized. It created more conflicts, she didn't like me displaying her flaws that I shared with the therapist. She cried and made me feel bad after our first session, said I made her out to look like a monster. I wasn't even trying to do that, I was just expressing what had hurt me. The psychologist never said anything really helpful. Basically just that Woman and Men are different bull… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/24 12:14 PM |
| 3 | No more Mr nice guyI just ordered it today on amazon after another redditor suggested it. I haven't read a book in 30 years but now I'm exited to read it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/24 11:56 PM |
| 4 | Should I stay or should I goI can say that they were together all night as they share their snapchat locations with me. But I know this can be tricked/turned off but they aren't tech savvy enough to do this. I don't think either would cheat, but there always a chance I know. I've been living for myself since she first mentioned divorce 18 months ago. I play disc golf 2 hours everyday, go to the gym 5 times a week and hockey twice a week. I keep myself sane by being super busy. This is one of the issues she brought up last … | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/24 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Should I stay or should I goI am not leaving the house, I told her that I wanted the house if we split, that I would buy her out (not sure if I could afford it, but that is a different problem down the road). She would most likely have to pay alimony but my kids at 15 and 17, so that should not be for a long time, I haven't looked into that yet. I would rather keep my full pension than receiving alimony. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/24 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Should I stay or should I goThanks, I just ordered the book on Amazon. I haven't read a book in decades, I agree that her actions has had consequences on our marriage. I have major doubts about it working out long term now. I would normally be insecure right now but right now I don't feel insecure as I am at peace with it ending. Scared of the unknown but at peace. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/24 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Should I stay or should I goI really doubt that she is cheating or ever did. Maybe I am naive but I don't think it's something that she could do. She does have good qualities. Her and her sister live 4 hours apart but once in a while they have work that requires them to stay in the town that is right in the middle (2 hours for each) and they meet up. They are pretty close. The last few years have been hard on both of us, I take some of the blame as I was in the peak of my depression and I wasn't the most pleasent husband t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/24 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Should I stay or should I goyeah we have two teenagers. I truely doubt that she has ever cheated, I don't think that's in her DNA. Although the thought has entered my mind from time to time due to my insecurities. She does very little to make me feel secure | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/24 04:57 PM |
| 4 | Waves of depression won’t quitAnti depressent has worked wonders on my depression. I tried going off twice but the depression comes back. Some people jusr need it. There's nothing wrong with that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/24 01:03 AM |
| 2 | How do I know its time for a divorce?I'm in the same boat brother, I don't know either. My wife keeps bringing up divorce when we get into fights, like the 4th time in a year and a half. At first I wanted to try to make it work but it seems I am the only one bending. I am now wondering if now is the right time, kids are 15 and 17, couples therapy didn't help. The constent threat of divorce forced me to work on myself that I am in a good place mentally and physically. I think that I am ready for the single life but debating if one l… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/24 12:21 PM |
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