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Your title is correct, everything else you said was absolutely irrelevant. People are going to you because it’s your job to sort these things out. You’re also making a statement like men 50/100/200+ years ago weren’t saying the exact same things to people in your position. If a man 200 years ago dropped a drink at a bar, is he getting on his knees and cleaning it up? No, he’s going to tell the bar staff he dropped his drink. If men 200 years ago went to a bar and forgot to bring money, some of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:23 PM
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I'm surprised to see nobody here talking about the new Jubilee Surrounded video, it seems right up this subreddit's alley. Mark Manson (Author of "The subtle art of not giving a f*ck") argues against 20 people in the manosphere, and argues his claims like "A woman's body count doesn't matter" and "The most attractive men are those who respect women". Some things I agreed with but some things were just eye rolling, overall very entertaining. Absolutely despised some of the manosphere guys though.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 03:43 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 03:37 PM
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16, worked at a takeaway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 03:35 PM
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Yeah it's wrong. I know America works with different cultural norms where you literally ask the person you're dating to go steady/exclusive, but here in the UK this would be a no go, by agreeing on a date, you are exclusive to that person for the time being, we don't really ask people to be exclusive because that's just expected. You shouldn't really be flirting with anyone else or going on dates with anyone else, and you especially shouldn't be sleeping with anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 03:34 PM
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You refuse to listen to any black pill because TikTok adverts? I’m a bit confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:09 PM
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The primary custody is whoever is able to provide for the best interests of the child. Dumping the kid on someone who doesn't care for the kid just because of their gender is damaging and stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:49 AM
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This is so utterly stupid that I'm inclined to believe this is ragebait and just want to tell everyone to stop taking this seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:28 PM
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That's the meme version
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:17 PM
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I really wish we could see basic information on the people writing comments sometimes, like age, height, weight, gender. It completely changes the context of the discussion. You'll talk to someone who's clearly lying or exaggerating something, then 5 replies later you find out they're like 50 years old and suddenly everything they wrote starts to make sense and it's not that they're lying per say, they're just out of touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:03 PM
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My point is when people are actually allowed to protest the regime safely, there's a gigantic turnout for it, even when that protest is taking place outside of the actual country they're protesting for. Also, "they" didn't create anything, there's always been Khamenei loyalists in Iran.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:37 AM
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Meanwhile the Anti-Regime Protest in Canada <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:45 AM
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>yet you have seen a tall, handsome but awkward guy get no women whatsoever. I actually, truly have not, and I know like 5 guys like this. Tall guy struggling sure, handsome guy struggling sure. But someone who’s both tall and handsome at the same time? Never seen a guy like this struggle regardless of how autistic he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:07 AM
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They're counted towards the 63%. If you include men who have sex at least once a year, then this number drops to around 30%. So 30% of men under 30 are not getting any action at all. So it's more accurate to say, 30% of men you should know should be getting nothing, are completely single and sexless, with a further 28% on top have had some sort of fling/fwb/casual experience at some point in the past year.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 11:15 PM
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Defines single as not in any kind of relationship, people who have girlfriends/boyfriends are not included in this 63% stat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:10 PM
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Different beauty standards for different audiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:56 PM
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You messed up by talking about men claiming they like women with no makeup. Men like women with makeup, most men who claim they like women without makeup actually prefer women with makeup. Ask the men who like "no makeup" to give you a picture of their ideal woman, and most of the time they'll show you a picture of a woman wearing makeup without realising she's wearing makeup. It's not that men are lying about this, it's that men don't actually know when a woman is wearing makeup unless it's sup…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:37 PM
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This says far more about who you personally hang out with than it does about what's actually happening in the real world. Statistically, 63% of men under 30 you know should be single, then 25% under 49. You've probably never seen it come up IRL because it's not a topic people talk about IRL, men aren't exactly going around telling women IRL about how their height matters after all. And if you do bring anecdotes into the conversation, I could very easily just turn around and tell you how the vast…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:34 PM
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A decent amount of muscle is better than too much muscle which is better than no muscle at all. A decent amount of makeup is better than too much makeup which is better than no makeup at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 05:57 PM
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Post is about how much money random Iranians have in their bank. Half of the comments are just talking about how hot they are. https://np.reddit.com/r/interestingasfuck/s/W1Vtoipjlh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:36 PM
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A date implies the possibility of a kiss, but that depends on how the date itself goes. The possibility of sex may also depend on the success of the date for some. What would you call this social construct if not a boundary that slowly breaks down over the course of a successful date?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 05:28 PM
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The implicit, unwritten rules, cultural norms, and interpersonal limits that dictate acceptable behavior A metaphorical bubble around a specific actions we believe may or may not be appropriate to ‘push through’ depending on the person, time, and place. In order to figure out what these rules are from person to person, you gotta poke, prod, and push the boundary to find out where the soft boundaries are and where the hard boundary lies. During a date, Boundaries between two people dating can be …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 05:12 PM
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If it’s not a Fuck Yes, it’s a No. I’ve never met a girl who’s said “I don’t know…” when they actually mean Fuck Yes, And if I one day do, and if they’re going to play those types of games, then they’re going to learn pretty quickly they’ll get exactly what they specifically asked for, I.E saying I don’t know means no, saying maybe means no. If they want sex, they have to say yes. I absolutely refuse to play those games.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 04:55 PM
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Pushing boundary = Going in for a first kiss without explicit verbal consent that she does want a kiss. You’ve never kissed before, so you’re pushing that kissing boundary for the first time. Pressuring = Constantly attempting to push a boundary, especially after already being rejected. You’re putting pressure on her that builds up until she either reluctantly gives in or blows up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 04:46 PM
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This is why I stand by the advice of “If it’s not a Fuck Yes! Then it’s a no”. If someone’s not obviously interested in wanting to date you and won’t go out of their way to make time for you, then they’re likely just stringing you along and you’ll have better luck elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 12:19 PM
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Someone can be beautiful, but that doesn’t mean you’re attracted to them. It just means they’re not your type. As an example, Megan Fox is objectively beautiful, but I’m not attracted to her. It doesn’t really mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 12:01 PM
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I have personally witnessed this in real life to not be the case. If a man is attractive enough, women will do all the talking, flirting, setting up dates and finally dragging him home if the man is too much of a sperg to do it himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:53 AM
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On the rise. The algorithms we have now simply did not exist 15 years ago, and you can trace back Blackpill mindsets all the way to 4chan’s r9k in 2011, then the incels subreddits starting in 2013 which led to it’s first ban in 2016. These communities had no algorithms, they never appeared in popular or all, you had to purposely stumble upon it and choose to stay. Tiktok and tiktok like algorithms still wouldn’t show up for another 2 years, not until 2018. By that point, Blackpill was already ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:43 AM
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I’m assuming 6ft
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 10:07 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 10:07 PM
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Agreed. Very attractive men are the most privileged group of people in terms of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 10:05 PM
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Aye, the dating scene is one of the few areas in the world where you’re still allowed to be incredibly racist without anyone giving you a glance. You can sue an entire company for not hiring you because you’re Indian, yet a woman straight up saying no to dating Indians is almost universally accepted as a perfectly normal mundane opinion.
/r/BlackPillScience21/01/26 04:13 PM
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Men’s bodies This study showed that when placing traits in order of importance. Men believed that Personality and intelligence was most important, followed by facial appearance, then ability to talk about feelings in 4th place. Followed by overall body build, ability to emphasis, sexual performance, then finally at dead last, physical strength. So in the top 4 traits, facial appearance was the only physical trait and it came 3rd in the list. If I were to read this study back in 1993, I wouldn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:13 PM
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Preselection, tons of studies have shown it’s true; even random YouTubers have tested it and found this out.
/r/BlackPillScience26/05/25 11:54 AM
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People overwhelmingly date people with similar BMI’s. There’s a direct correlation between a person’s BMI and their partners BMI. - https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4772434/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:41 PM
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It could be subconscious. Why do obese women tend to date obese men, are those obese men attractive, or do these women only find obese men attractive because they themselves are obese? If those obese women find obese men attractive, then why don’t we see healthy fit women finding these obese men attractive? I’d argue how attractive you are plays a role in who you find to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:09 PM
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If I see someone that looks and dresses like a smackhead, I’m going to assume they’re a smackhead and avoid them. If I see someone is dressed in decent high quality clothes and well groomed, I’m going to assume they’ve got their life together. I agree with the other dude, how you present yourself tells people a lot about who you are before you even meet them. It’s very rare that someone looks and dresses like a smackhead but actually has his life together. This is just the halo effect in action,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 12:55 PM
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Got to agree, for example, women wasn’t even allowed to participate in clinical trails until 1993, meaning anytime before that, all medication was tested on men. Same for cell research, they almost always tested with male cells because female cells were too unpredictable (hormonal differences). It makes sense we’re spending more on women’s health these days considering we only tested on men and male cells in the past and now we’re playing catch up.
/r/BlackPillScience10/05/25 12:48 PM
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Yes, they would. You are vastly underestimating the amount of assholes who can easily get into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:45 PM
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I spend a good 10 minutes trying to read comments and figure out what everyone meant by “fake” and “photoshop”, I had no idea what anybody was talking about, I sat here thinking “he has those tattoos, it’s not fake”. Eventually I realised people actually believe the M S 1 3 that is clearly and obviously added to the photo in calibri font is what people are talking about. I genuinely honest to god did not think anybody was dumb enough to actually believe they were trying to pass off the labelling…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 01:35 PM
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Nobody said you can’t be masculine and gay. We’re discussing whether or not having gay sex is or isn’t masculine. Masculinity is a spectrum, not binary. You can have 100 masculine traits and 1 unmasculine trait and still be considered masculine, or not, depending on who’s judging.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 01:54 PM
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No. I’m a healthy fit man who takes care of his health, have a successful career, and financially secure. Out of the 3 women who’ve approached me, one was a drug addict high on cocaine and the other two were morbidly obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 01:51 PM
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There’s a big bias with this. Questions like that are going to naturally have answers that people want to see. If you’re not neurodivergent and you saw that question, odds are you’re not going to open the thread and reply “No”. And even if you did, who’s going to upvote it or reply to it? 15-20% of people in the US are neurodivergent. So even if we kindly presume only 15% of people here are neurodivergent, that thread is going to look identical to if 50% of people here are neurodivergent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 01:45 PM
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No definition of the word masculine in the west allows the inclusion of gay sex. To be Masculine is to have the qualities or appearance traditionally and socially expected of men or boys. Gay sex is the opposite of that, thus the opposite of Masculine, thus unmasculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 01:35 PM
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Your Pill Colour Rainbow Pill Gender identity I don’t see how gender is relevant here Your timezone 24/7 party baby 🥳🥳 How long you have been posting on the subreddit I forgot, it was around the time your mum came over to my house.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:32 PM
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No, both men and woman have seen a drastic increase in loneliness over the past 2 decades. It’s a societal shift that can’t simply be blamed on “people are lazy”. There’s a ton of variables that go into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:41 PM
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Autism isn’t literally increasing in the population, we’re simply diagnosing it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:37 PM
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All it means is that for one reason or another, you’re good enough to fuck but not to be in a serious relationship with. That ain’t got nothing to do with ‘sexual energy’ my man, as most men don’t exude any sexual energy yet get into relationships anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:37 PM
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“It’s not about looks” “I have a lethal face card”. I don’t understand why people who are good looking try to claim it’s not their good looks that help get them laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:24 PM
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I was basically going to say the same thing. I’ve been around the manosphere for over a decade now and never once in that entire time have I heard someone claim “Sperm is better than uteruses” or said some weird logic about how they can repopulate the earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:32 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:18 PM
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Incels hide their hatred all the time. You only notice the times they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:16 PM
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The brain isn’t a muscle, and if it was, it still wouldn’t be the largest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:07 AM
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You stopped talking as soon as you got to the most important part, you spoke about how status is important and you can improve it, but then never go on to say how one improves their status. All fine and dandy saying there’s an unlimited ceiling yet I can’t think of a single thing I can legitimately do to improve my status that isn’t something life changing like changing career path, or learning an entire instrument and joining a band.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:46 AM
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Is it a “beauty standard” or just a fashion trend?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 05:23 PM
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Correct. She is obese. Are you saying she’s not?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 04:25 PM
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I noticed often people on here will say “Who says looks don’t matter/aren’t important, people here say it is all the time”. I’m like, yes, people here say it all the time, but if you step outside of this place then you’ll see tons of people who repeat the same useless advice thinking they know the secret cheat code to dating and it’s something dumb like “uughhh, have you tried showing and deodorant?!?” Recently was browsing a post on unpopularopinion that was something like “Starting the gym for…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:31 PM
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That’s mostly just it, politeness, shows respect, patience, common decency towards people, willingness to help out, never rude/mean, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:10 PM
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It feels good to know your partner could have chose anybody, but chose specifically you. Rather than dating you because you’re the only one who said yes. However I would never claim this is evidence of being faithful. It’s just evidence that they prefer you over all other options at this moment in time. They could be the biggest cheaters in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:00 PM
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It’s not a catch 22, it’s a very very simple answer to a very very simple scenario. If you suddenly don’t like a person because you found out they are Jewish, that is antisemitism. There is no catch 22 here. You’re vastly over complicating the question to avoid admitting that is it just full stop racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 08:44 PM
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I have no proof. But if I were to bet my entire net worth on it. I would triple down on the idea that the vast majority of the cause of racial preferences in dating is rooted and sprung from racism of some sort. Rather than any inherent biological component.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 08:41 PM
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It’s not homophobic because it’s literally not homophobic, we don’t have a x-phobia word for a guy who doesn’t like women who gives blowjobs, besides maybe a ‘prude’. if men has a choice Then they would prefer to date 10/10 women, in this instance it’s an actual preference, not a hard requirement. “No I would never date a bi man” vs “I prefer a virgin but I’m not against dating a non virgin”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 08:30 PM
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I never said it’s a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:49 PM
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This is where we fundamentally disagree. Nobody is born unable to be attracted to the entirety of a race.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:25 PM
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Unless that dude was a religious virgin, the vast majority of people would think a dude was weird and would shame him if he didn’t date woman because she did a blow job once.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:21 PM
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just any penis We’re not talking about ‘just any’ person. We’re talking about an entire group of people who all share a trait in common, regardless of wether it’s the colour of their skin or their sexual preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:19 PM
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“What, next time I’ll be the racist for not wanting to kiss a black women as a white man? Get a grip.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 04:58 PM
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Because you’re objectively treating them differently to other people. Yes, if you see an entire race of people and think “ew never” regardless of anything else they offer, that is racist. Yes I am transphobic. I’ve always held this opinion and will die on this hill, but If you are objectively treating somebody differently purely because of some trait like them not having white skin, then that does make you XYZ phobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 04:55 PM
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Because homophobia. No, it really is that simple. These women find it inherently disgusting to think that their man has been sucking another man’s dick. The reason you couldn’t get a straight answer from women is because the answer is that they are simply homophobic, but they don’t want to be labelled as homophobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:33 PM
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the reason why men here are told to be happy alone is because being in a relationship won’t solve your problems, It literally did solve all my problems. When I was 26, I had access to food and water, I owned a home, owned a car, had a decent career, regularly worked out, I ate good food, I had plenty of friends and multiple hobbies both creative and active. Literally the only problem I had was being very lonely, being hit with rejection after rejection, being 26 yet never having had met any woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 11:59 AM
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There are a lot of lonely men who are putting in effort to be their best selves, just as there are a lot of lonely men who aren’t. You can’t lump them all into one group and make claims like “these men choose to be pathetic” even though there are plenty of lonely men who do work on themselves and are genuinely good people, but just struggle to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:51 PM
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You’re not supposed to type in your husband’s specific details, you’re supposed to type in stats of what kind of man you’re willing to date. If you were only willing to date above average height Asian men, then you’re going to struggle dating because you’ve effectively reduced your dating range from 64.4% of the population (aka all non married men) to 0.51% of the entire population (aka only taller Asian men). If you were to break up with your BF right now, then claim the only men you want to da…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:35 PM
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A ton of men are struggling to even get a first date, they can’t even get a single like on online dating. what is this “step up to be good men” nonsense lol. That’s not why these lonely men are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:24 PM
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Check his profile
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:29 AM
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Women are wonderful effect
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:22 AM
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You can do pushups on your knees. Tricep dips or bench dips from a chair/couch, crunches, sit ups, ‘superman’, side planks, and if you have access to a bar, pull ups/chin ups
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:40 PM
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Get your test levels checked out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:54 PM
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Flowers are a bad gift if he doesn’t have a vase to put them in, chocolate is always a good gift.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:09 PM
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Have you seen this study before? TL:DR, when women are hooked up to a (fake) lie detector machine, their n count increases compared to when they answer the question on an anonymous questionnaire or in person interview. Women do indeed lie about their count, even in anonymous questionnaires.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:58 PM
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Let me rephrase, which direction, on average, do you think it’s being skewed towards, are people claiming they sleep with more people than they do, or less people than they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:22 PM
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I mean, you said they lie, what do you think, do you believe most people skew the answer higher or lower than what is accurate?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:21 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:07 PM
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Men lie up. Women lie down. Overall it even outs, creating an accurate survey.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:06 PM
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Some do, some don’t. Personally, I don’t, having 1 FWB is already fairly time consuming. I have no interest in perusing a second woman to sleep with unless she was an extremely easy lay.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:50 PM
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Yes, you’re alone on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:21 PM
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I don’t see how the order changes anything. Chemistry first, standards second. Or standards first, chemistry second. Either way, people have to pass through both gates. How does it change anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 01:48 AM
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every man Nope, some men just got bad rolls and will never be attractive to many women. There really is a limit to what short, ugly, and/or disabled men can accomplish. Do you think if men, collectively improved themselves… that every man could be physically desirable to many women? Nope, if every man got their act together, standards for men would just get higher. As a 5’7 foreign man, I’m only successful with women because most men are lazy, fat, unkempt, plain, which makes me look like a much…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:26 PM
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Was you trying to prove a point? Yes, more men kill women than women kill men, thus we can conclude that, on average, men are the more dangerous gender. So… why can’t we use that same logic for divorce rates?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:24 PM
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The most incredibly average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 02:15 PM
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Nah, hang around with a ‘chad’ for a while and you’ll take this back. I know this autistic Chad, 6,4, blond hair blue eyes, sharp jaw, but autistic. Had several women wanting to sleep/date him despite not even trying. Went to a wedding with him at one point and he had 2 women physically trying to pull him out of his seat just to dance with him, despite sitting at a table with 3 other dudes who they mostly ignored. As well as a few more stories. This dude just cemented how much looks matter to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:18 PM
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Nope, you have to hold onto your n-count comments until the next n-count thread pops up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:10 PM
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We also have no idea how they got together in the first place or what they looked like back then. I know one couple who’s an ugly fat dude and pretty thin woman. Anybody could point at them and go “See looks don’t matter”. Meanwhile back in reality, they’ve been together for 15 years, back when they were in school, he wasn’t fat and ugly back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:10 PM
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Reminds me of a quote, something like “pretend to be idiots, and you’ll slowly invite actual idiots to join you.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:23 AM
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That is why, hot face and hot body makes you more horny, which makes the sex more enjoyable compared to, say, an average or below average person who’s ‘good’ at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:47 PM
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Hot face + Hot body = more horny = more enjoyment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:38 PM
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are the least trust worthy Nah, your physical appearance doesn’t change how trustworthy you are. I just don’t hit on them because simply put, they’re out of my league.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:07 PM
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Every single man that is like this gets laid. No exceptions. Every single one of them. Maybe it kills attraction for you specifically, but every single guy like this I know have or are regularly getting laid. No, it is not true, not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:05 PM
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Yup, while she has muscle, she also looks to be around 30% - 35% bf so she's carry both fat and muscle. (For comparison that's similar to a muscular man being 20% - 25% bf)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:29 AM
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Literally none of that entire comment existed when I read it. You can't post a comment, edit it minutes later, then claim I can't read because I didn't read your edited comment that didn't exist. Anyway "Provide a study that definitively concludes "men aren't hot enough" is the main reason for pairing rates being what they are" - Why does online dating or speed dating studies not fulfil this requirement? The studies show 'Men aren't hot enough' is the exact reason why men are unable to find matc…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:23 AM
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"I am once again asking for studies" "Sure, which study would you like?" "I can't be bothered to read" Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:59 AM
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We have a billion studies that show attractiveness is a benefit in almost all aspects of life. Including kids more likely to get their homework done if their teacher is physically attractive. Maybe some jealous insecure people will hate on an attractive people, but the vast majority of the time halo effect takes over.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:49 AM
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I'm 5'7 and 160lbs, I 100% believe her without a shadow of a doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:45 AM
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I know of several, I can't be bothered try to search for every single one and linking them. So just tell me which ones interest you and I'll look for those for you. I have countless online dating studies which pretty much show the most attractive men are the ones getting the vast majority of the matches. I have 2 separate speed dating studies that show looks was the only factor in a successful pairing, how personality played no part. I have one study that shows women lack interest in men with 'l…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:43 AM
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If she's tall then it's possible, like 5'10 or higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:44 PM
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Nah it's legit, she's just hiding her weight. Super black dress means you can't see any depth, arms behind body, can't see thighs/knees, and her face has been cut off so you can't see her chubby face. Likely wearing shapewear to boot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:38 PM
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Just get a sugar daddy at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:38 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:20 PM
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They’re not looking for specifically low n LTR, but LTR yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:16 PM
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Like, 20% of people give or take.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 09:51 AM
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Co-dependency on what, my past? Like I said, I'm currently single and happy because my past experiences have given me confidence. That's not co-dependency.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:07 PM
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Again you’re making comparisons that aren’t equal. Protecting an defenceless child is not the same as protecting a healthy fully grown adult woman. Try to break up a street fight Again, not the same thing, joining in on a fight 2v1 or trying to stop two people from fighting is not the same thing as being the one and only to step up to a potential fight to protect their partner. The fact you keep constantly having to change the situation to try and prove your point is in of itself proof that the …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:10 PM
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A man protecting their partner from an actual physical attack is not the same thing as a woman being a nurse. You have completely missed the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:58 PM
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I’ve always rejected this idea. But to add to this, I kinda also reject the “Love is not going to fix your issues” part too. As that’s heavily dependent on what issues that person has. For me personally, getting into my first relationship at 26 years old basically cured my low self esteem issues. I don’t think most people realise just how lonely and even scary it is to go your entire life with constant rejection and live with the idea that nobody will ever love you (and thus thinking something m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:49 PM
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It’s masculine because they’re traits that are mostly limited to what we see men do and rarely see women do. For example, a couple is out in the woods and a wild boar attacks, instinctively the man stands in front of the woman to protect her. Very rarely would you see the woman standing in front of the man to protect him. This would be a positive masculine trait. A woman can have this trait, but it’s very rare, so we associate it with masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 12:51 PM
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If I say something extremely racist with no evidence, it’ll be censored for obvious reasons. That doesn’t mean the extremely racist thing I said was the truth, it was just racist. TRP has similar issues but with sexism. Keep in mind the actual TRP subreddit’s main advice includes “Treat women like children because they are basically children” and “buying a dog training book is the best way to train women”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 12:47 PM
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In that case, I'm a proud fatphobe
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:56 PM
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Easy to overeat when restaurants overload their food with oil and butter. Most people don't pay attention to stuff like this until after they gain weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:59 PM
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Even religious people who voted to ban abortion have aborted. Getting paid $1,000,000 just guarantees it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:51 PM
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I think I understand, help with the distinction here. Mate guarding is biologically ingrained into our genes. It's something we do regardless of culture. This is biology. The act of buying a diamond ring to give to your partner, then celebrating it with a wedding, is cultural, this would not exist again without that culture. So it's cultural. If this is true. I would still claim tribal affiliation is biological and ingrained in our genes. I truly believe we are hardwired to like people similar t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:49 PM
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Why do you separate culture and biology like they're two entirely distinct things? Culture is also derived from biology. For example, what is the point of weddings and marriages? It's humans version of mate guarding.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:39 PM
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Everybody smelled like shit back then, our sense of smell gets used to stuff we regularly smell, you ever gone to a house that smelt like shit and the owner doesn't realise because they're living in it? Now imagine growing up in a cave with that smell around 24/7. You would never have known it "smelled" because that was the normal smell. The reason we don't enjoy that smell is simply because there was no evolutionary need to evolve to enjoy that smell. Whether you enjoyed that smell or not would…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:36 PM
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Tribal affiliation, tribalism or in-group favouritism. Aka people like people similar to themselves. If you like tattoos and piercings, and you see someone with tattoos and piercings, it's an indication that they have similar values/beliefs to yourself and you'll get along with them. Nobody is sexually attracted to tattoos or piercings, they're attracted to the kind of people who choose to get tattoos and piercings.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:21 PM
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Every aspect of sexual attraction originates from biology, if it exists, there's likely a biological reason for its existence. In the modern world, there is no logical reason to prefer tall men over short men, in the same way there's no logical reason to prefer pretty people over ugly people. We just prefer those things because our brains are hard wired to find people who are most likely to survive and have resources to be attractive, and find those who are less likely to survive and have resour…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:41 PM
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I mean, I do prefer the women in my porn videos to be naked. In the same way I prefer my partner to be naked in bed. I don't see how that's relevant to what clothes we choose to wear when we walk outside? If I meet with a date at a restaurant, I'm not jerking off in the bathroom or sleeping with her in bed, I'm on a date getting to know her, having fun, and eating some food.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:32 PM
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Not for Redpill men, showing your feelings is universally agreed to be a bad thing to do. Being angry here doesn't make you look masculine, it makes you look like a big baby that gets his feelings hurt over dumb stuff. Masculine for Redpill men is more about being Alpha, stoic, and not letting dumb stuff like this upset you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:27 PM
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Personally I don't. I'd rather date someone who knew this was a bad thing to say, rather than someone who says those things and I need to play some social skills minigame to keep the relationship going.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:24 PM
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Water played a part, but arguably the least important part, I think he focused too much on water. Sunscreen, skincare, healthier food, and less smoking played a much bigger role. Then you've got clothing/hairstyles which make people look older simply because we associate those things with older people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:22 PM
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Nah, there's a few ways to pass shit tests, getting angry is absolutely not one of those ways. You can ignore her statement entirely, you can double down and say something dumb like "My leg lengthening surgery is next week", turn it into a joke, etc. Getting angry proves she hit a nerve and hurt your feelings. You lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:12 PM
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I'm a bit confused sorry, are you comparing porn to what men look for in a long term relationships? Or something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:02 PM
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The algorithm just notices when you watch/interact with stuff and keeps showing you videos of that. If you randomly find 1 video of a woman going "imagine being a man who's 5'10 or shorter teehee" and spend 10 minutes making/replying to comments on it, TikTok is just going to keep sending you those types of videos. Heightism exists, but it's far less prevalent and more invisible than racism or sexism. People aren't actively aggressive towards short people, they're just more ignored/passed over.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:58 PM
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They're just hating for the fun of it. If a woman like that actually flirted with them, they'd be on their best behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:50 PM
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You don't just casually have 2 hookups and 2 FWB in 2 years without being promiscuous. Whereas the first woman only has sex within a relationship that tends to last at least over 2 years on average. Answer: B.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:46 PM
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Most men aren't I will agree, but claiming no men don't is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:11 PM
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I prefer modest clothing and I never picture this. Modest to me doesn't mean a table cloth lol. These are examples of modest, let me know if you disagree because I am genuinely curious to see if we have different definitions of modest. Example 1 Example 2 Example 3 Example 4 Example 5 Example 6
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:19 PM
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You’re trolling right? This wasn’t a serious reply… right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:58 AM
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Lol, there’s a difference between simply reflecting on the past to learn from it. And making a Reddit post on /r/offmychest about how you’re still lusting over a guy 5 years ago and how, and I quote, “The sex was GOOOOOOOOOOD”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:46 PM
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Bruh it’s the men that ask the women out, men will always be the ones paying if this was the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:42 PM
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It’s the “it’s been 5 years” part that the redpill part of this. After 5 years she still can’t stop thinking and lusting about this one dude. She’s been Alpha-Widowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:41 PM
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5/10 Ambivert, I need a mix of being alone and being with people. No social anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:58 PM
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Looks are very much objective culturally, but subjective individually. People in general will lean towards certain types of people other others, while people individually will find different ‘groups’ of people more attractive than others. Henry Canvil and Megan Fox are objectively attractive people, even if individual people don’t think so. Countless 100’s of millions of people will say they’re physically attractive. Shane MacGowan and Susan Boyle are objectively ugly people, even if individual …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:18 PM
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Let me rephrase, I mean to say they ‘fit a niche’. As in tattoos look good to a small niche group of people. For majority of people they shrug look neither good nor bad. They just are. For some people, it’s good (these people are the niche it fits) For some people, it’s bad. Tattoos themselves are very common place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:42 PM
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It’s a niche, women who like tattoos are going to respond well to them, women who don’t like tattoos are not going to respond well to them. But my answer is No. Nobody becomes objectively more attractive because they have a tattoo of a dragon on their arm. He’s just fits more of a niche now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:11 PM
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Fuck how did I miss that. I saw his quote “I’m 6 foot 6, 275 pounds” and my brain just ignored the extra 6 at the end. Either way it still means his BMI is 31.8, still obese, which is my main point. A flabby body can still go very very far (he’s literally a male model with tons of female fans) if it comes with a good face.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:44 PM
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Hey, 1 more thing we can agree on. If he had a decent wage but only worked 24 hours, then you could argue, but a 35 year old working basically minimum wage 24 hours a week? Imagine if you wanted to do… well… almost anything ever. Go out to each, sports, outings, holidays, etc. you couldn’t because he spends all his money on rent. I also wouldn’t date a woman like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:32 PM
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Constructed how? In nature, women go after the men with the most resources for an easier life, a greater guarantee that their offspring’s will grow up and be healthy. That’s completely 100% biology and evolution at play. In modern day, women go after men with the most resources. Literally nothing has changed and still follows basic biological and evolutionary strategies. Just that before recourses was sources of food/water/shelter, today it’s money (which gives you better quality food/shelter as…
/r/BlackPillScience10/02/25 02:59 PM
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Depends on your definition of virgin, does a woman lose her virginity if she’s fingered? If not, are lesbian who haven’t used toys yet also virgins even if they’ve slept with several women? Do they have body counts of 0?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:45 PM
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You stop caring about what other people think and other bullshit the more you grow older. This happens to both men and women. You’re not getting any younger and you don’t want to live with regrets, so you just say fuck it and start asking more people out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:52 PM
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I was going to write a serious reply, then I realised his book is upside down. I’ve been bamboozled.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:39 PM
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In the vast majority of situations, shaved bald head looks much better than having a balding head. Almost nobody is shaving their heads when they have a head full of hair. Everyone knows how bad balding is, which is precisely why they highly recommend just shaving it all off to minimise the issues you’re going to have while balding.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:15 AM
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He weighs 275lbs at 6ft 6.6ft, he has a BMI of 37.4 31.8
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:31 AM
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Zach Miko
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:27 AM
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There’s literally male models who are exactly like that and have thousands upon thousands of women following them and they’re just obese handsome man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 01:53 AM
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Most consistently single men have this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:58 AM
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This is when I stopped caring about “texting rules”, because if you actually like someone, you wouldn’t judge them for texting 3 messages in a row, texting too quickly/slowly, texting during work hours, texting more/less than you did, etc. All of these rules fly out the window when you’re texting someone you actually like and want to spend time with. Just text how you want to text. The only ‘rule’ I follow is that I make sure to text in a way that makes it easier for her to text back. Aka no dea…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 06:03 PM
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You could say this about literally anything. It’s like saying why do people rant on /r/rant? Because people just want to rant and it feels good to rant. There is no deeper meaning beyond that. Also, therapy is expensive, it’s no surprise people don’t want to spend money they don’t have on things they probably don’t need.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:42 PM
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There’s no grand conspiracy. People like to vent and get stuff off their chest. The reason they argue is because other people are going “No you’re wrong”, even though psychologists themselves claim it’s a need. Your anecdotal evidence is just that, anecdotal. Just because you personally are able to be fulfilled and happy life without ever having any friends doesn’t mean the vast majority of people can.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:16 PM
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Just look into the stats, people are far more lonely and single now than they were 15 years ago. That’s just a fact. Singleness has increased, marriage rates are down, a larger and larger portion of people are having less sex, etc. If you can’t get a gf now, odds are you probably could have 15 years ago. If you were a young male adult 15 years ago, the odds are you being single/alone for at least a year was like 1/10, these days it’s 3/10. That’s just the facts. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:58 AM
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Stating a fact doesn’t need to come with an “end goal”. If I say “friends are a need”, I’m not trying to secretly manipulate society into giving me friends. I’m just saying that having friends is a human need. That’s just a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:34 AM
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It would, but most men aren’t doing this so it’s not really an issue for below average men to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:15 AM
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Agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:30 PM
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I would agree, most people don’t claim “Looks don’t matter”, because quite frankly it’s a clearly idiotic statement. Which is why my comment focused on how people don’t say looks matter, even when deliberately and clearly asked “what do women find attractive in men”. However, some people will say “Looks don’t matter… as much as other people claim” which is kind of a way to say looks don’t matter. https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/T6C5lgOZ3v
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:21 PM
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What's the definition of strawman fallacy Lillth?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:56 PM
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What's a strawman fallacy Lillth?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:29 PM
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>Guys thinking something really stupid does not make it a strawman. You could have just said you don't know what a strawman fallacy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:12 PM
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Strawman fallacy. Focus on the actual argument I presented. Also I stand by my statement, nobody thinks being nice, and that's it full stop, is enough to attract women. Basic stuff such as common interests and rapport is also seen as equally important. Plus r/niceguys isn't even about nice guys, even if we assume men believe being being nice is the only thing that matters, r/niceguys doesn't prove this is the case simply because the men on that subreddit aren't even nice, breaking the only rule …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:47 PM
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Point is you posted an argument then assumed you had already won before anybody has had any actual time to make any counter arguments. It's like playing Chess then declaring yourself the winner after 5 seconds because your opponent hasn't made a move yet. Chill, learn patience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:59 PM
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People are constantly asking for her "routine" even though she doesn't have one, and she believes it. She's been a dancer her entire life and weighs like 115lbs. So she's built good core muscles and has a low enough bf% for her abs to show, but to her she hasn't done any special "routine" that people keep asking her about, then they call her a liar because they don't believe her, they think she's doing some special ab workout routine and lying about it, but she's not. I can see why she's annoyed…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:49 PM
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But she’s literally getting all those things from guy right now who don’t care. I assumed she was single in this context, something like this; She's currently single, and found this perfect guy she really likes, there was an immediate spark, but she found out that he doesn't like women who "sleep around". She has a history of sleeping around, but she also really likes this guy, so she'll keep trying to date him and pretend there's no issue, and if the topic comes up she can just lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:38 PM
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Attractive, athletic, tall, rich, charismatic, charming, funny, motivated, passionate, confident, honest, smart, mature, they have the "spark", etc. Could be literally anything and everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:28 PM
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>Then they the fuck are they commenting? The ones who were on reddit, refreshed the front page, saw your post, read your post, and write a comment within that 25 minute gap are going to be the ones who didn't put any effort into their comment beyond making a quick/witty comment. >If someone needs 25 minutes Nobody is refreshing reddit every second to see your post go up the exact moment you put it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:16 PM
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Mother's day is a nice outing to a restaurant, nothing more. Planning should include booking a restaurant, buying a mothers day card, and getting 1-2 small presents. If you have kids, pick up a small present/card with your kids too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:06 PM
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Your post was 25 minutes old, chill. Barely anybody has read it, never mind had enough time to write up a counter-argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:00 PM
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Would you want to be with someone you have nothing in common with? Would you want to be with someone you have different values to you? Would you honestly even want to be friends with someone whose sole contribution to the friendship is being nice? Not fun, just nice No. there is still more to relationships than just being nice and romantic gestures Nobody is literally thinking "Just be nice" is all there is to it and that's that, of course you guys do have to have stuff in common with each other…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:59 PM
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Most guys of all heights had atleast 5 sex partners. Cool… I never claimed they couldn’t? My claim was that the men in this subreddit who are struggling with dating women are more likely to be below average and thus care more about their looks. What was your link supposed to prove, that short men aren’t virgins? explain this Two obese disabled people fall in love and get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:00 PM
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Most men are white 5’9 or taller men with average or better looks. The guys in this subreddit who are struggling to date women are more likely to be below average, hence why people in this subreddit obsess over looks more than the average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:42 AM
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Hahahahaha So, wait, a woman saying “good men are sexy” does not actually mean “good men are sexy” but instead, actually means “attractive men are sexy”. But it’s okay, because she’s not lying because it’s men that just didn’t understand the nuance. This is just something men should have known. That’s your argument? Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:35 AM
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Without more info, this could easily be explained by women simply getting pregnant with men older than 24.
/r/BlackPillScience06/02/25 11:24 AM
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High n count women will like men even if they know that man will judge them for their high n count. These women will simply lie about it to him and hope he never finds out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:19 AM
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“I barely ever eat!” Says the obese person who’s having their third snack of sweets of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:56 AM
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This is the picture - https://imgur.com/k62cNtZ They’re looking at the camera in disgust. Kinda like “ew, who invited you?”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:52 AM
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She didn’t realise that half of the victims of romance scams are women and they actually get scammed out of more money than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:49 AM
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I agree with everyone else, he looks better now, but all it would take is her to lose weight and that would change. Yes, looksmatched.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:48 AM
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There's quite a few layers to the intelligence debate. The most attractive (or sexually successful) IQ to have is exactly 100, go lower or higher and you'll have less success. Makes sense when you think about it, most people have an IQ of 100, and most people will date people similar to themselves. High or Low IQ means there's simply less people like you to attract and date. However, in terms of marriage, the higher IQ you have, the less likely you are to be divorced. People with master degrees …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:38 PM
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26 year olds are zoomers my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:28 PM
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-Leanmaxxing Some men just have chubby faces even at 12% bf, don’t worry too much about it if that happens to you. Some people don’t end up with a lean face until 8%. Also train neck for neck gains. -Fasionmaxxing 2k should be than enough for an entire wardrobes worth of fashionable clothes. My favourite sets of clothes cost $250 maximum. Plus $200 worth of jewellery. I’d say avoid custom tailored stuff unless you can do it yourself, or you genuinely don’t mind spending that extra money for it, …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:13 PM
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Yes, went on date, enjoyed ourselves, made out, we made plans for the next date. She cancels the second date on the day, thought something just popped up, we changed dates and she agreed. Cancels date again on the day, tell her to let me know when she’s free, she never messages me again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:45 PM
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Make sure you’re not filtering by “Top” comments, I made that mistake. 29 BMI is my limit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 03:08 PM
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I’ve been around since /r/incels and /r/braincels days. makes it likely you’ve learnt from some YouTube grifter I have literally the same thoughts about you. The fact you think it’s about genetic determinism makes me think it’s likely you’ve been visiting places like /r/inceltears and the likes, and getting your information from them, rather than seeing where it came from. Genetics plays a large role in looks so it’s a big part of it, because of course it does, but it doesn’t claim it’s the only…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:51 PM
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You, specifically you, would not date a man that does have a specific type of behaviour, the thing to keep in mind is there’s 1000’s of women out there who would. If an unattractive with a bad personality focused on improving his personality, he just turns into an unattractive guy with a good personality. I know countless unattractive men with good personalities who are constantly struggling with women. If an unattractive guy with a bad personality improved his looks, he turns into an attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:44 PM
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Bro, you’re Blackpilled and you don’t even realise it. No, Blackpill is not “waaa if you’re not Chad it’s over”, that’s incel nonsense. Blackpill is “the philosophy that argues that physical attractiveness is the most critical factor in determining men’s dating success. A man’s money, status, and social skills are argued to be other factors of secondary importance”. Half of all Blackpillers are men who are self improving and getting laid. Myself included.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 10:48 AM
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Notice how none of your examples included a subscription for monthly flowers? Because that’s the problem here, not Netflix or food or even subscriptions. But specifically subscriptions for flowers. Flowers are a lovely gift because someone had to actually go out of their way to look at a bunch of flowers, think of which flowers are best for their partner and got specifically those ones. It really is the thought that counts. By turning it into an automated delivery, it ruins the present. You’re n…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:56 PM
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You gave me no context to this. I’m looking at just what you’ve sent me. We see a man get given a phone number by some woman and that causes his wife to work on their relationship. Dread game is when you intentionally work on and get attention from women in front of your partner for the sole purpose of making your current partner jealous and worried. Which would be manipulation. There was no context given as to if this was intentional or not on his part, from just reading solely what you’ve give…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:18 PM
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I’m a bit confused by why you posted this? He never called her ugly, he never judged her attractiveness, never mentions anything about porn, never mentions how she or her mum aged poorly, never talks about the attractiveness of other women or how they’re so much better than his wife, he never judged her attractiveness in relation to his friend’s wives, etc. What you just sent me has nothing in common with your post. This is just a story about a guy who got a phone number from women so his wife s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 02:34 PM
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Yes, imagine if a man was talking about attractive cheerleaders and talks about how his wife is ugly in comparison, uses only fans, talks about how poorly her mum aged and she wishes she doesn’t look like her mum, and has a list of all their friends wives and have ranked them based on attractiveness, and claimed she stays humble because she’s in the middle. That’s bad, that’s awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 01:30 PM
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Zak Efron is 5’8, he’s the closest we have to a short Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:19 AM
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I don’t think it breaks any rules, I just don’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:50 PM
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I reported this comment. Mods please remove ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:57 PM
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This is off topic but I never understood the whole “men can’t be happy” shtick. Men are allowed to be happy, smile, laugh, etc, I’ve never understood people when they brought this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 11:01 AM
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She’s saying don’t expect special treatment from women if you’re not a special person. Aka you’re likely not going to break a woman’s dating rules just for you if you’re just some regular guy, but she’s also saying don’t get annoyed at women if they do break those rules for ‘special’ guys, I.E attractive, rich, successful, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 12:21 PM
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It’s called endorphins and dopamine, and it’s the pleasure chemicals that’s released during exercise, everyone experiences it. The thing is, these feel good chemicals are only noticeable for people who are already used to exercise. If you never exercise and you first start out, your stress hormones go through the roof as your body is being put to its limits for the first time in a long time, and that often far overpowers any feel good chemicals like endorphins. Meanwhile if you’re already decent…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:56 AM
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You didn’t really give an alternative solution? It’s easy to say “these things are bad” but you’re not offering anything else. If you want to date women but can’t, then follow redpill stuff, you become fit, healthy, got your shit together, and become successful with women, then what’s actually wrong with that? How does this make men weaker?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:15 PM
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I don’t, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:36 PM
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The thing is, I’m fine with people using women as their reason for starting to go the gym. The benefits you get from the gym aren’t obvious until after you’ve already been to the gym for some time, get your diet sorted, and start seeing some progress, at which point that’s when people start liking the gym and start enjoying it properly. Until they hit that point, the gym really is just the place where you go to beat yourself up then feel sore the next day, where’s the fun in that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:34 PM
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Did I say that? I don't recall, can you quote where I said this please?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:35 PM
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Who’s getting upset? OP asked why people compare relationships to the past, my answer is because it can predict the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:45 AM
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Stats show 12% of women cheat, just because I personally am not friends with women who cheat, or friends with men who have dated women who cheat, doesn't mean they don't exist and aren't a problem for other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:24 AM
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Nah, but you can meet women through friends of friends and those friends can definitely be prone to gossip, especially if they care about you and want to warn you before you try dating her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:22 AM
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I don't think I know any women who have cheated on their partners, never mind women who freely admit to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:20 AM
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True. If no one tells you then how will you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:02 AM
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Stuff like this can come up naturally through conversation, either through talking with her or through talking with mutual friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:57 PM
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They have less pressure to look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:49 PM
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Looking at the past is a good way to predict the future. If she's cheated on 100% of all her relationships, it doesn't matter how "great" she is in her current relationships, it'll give us the idea that she's just going to cheat in her current relationship to, and you can avoid this by just not dating her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:47 PM
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Don't diss a woman when she's telling the truth, for telling the truth. That's what we want more of.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:11 PM
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Someone said something like “mods should ban people bragging about their relationships and having sex”. And that those people are “Bragging about it to losers to feel good about themselves”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 09:19 PM
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Is it? Then it really shouldn’t be this hard for you to give me some examples on how and why women react differently based on confidence and what are those actual differences. Why are you avoiding answering this question if it’s such a tangible concept? Confidence isn’t tangible because it’s a state of mind, it doesn’t effect reality, it effects your actions, the actions are the tangible aspects of confidence, but not confidence itself. I can say looks is a very objective and tangible aspect bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 06:42 PM
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That didn’t answer any of my questions. How does a man changing where he gets his validation from radically make women go from “Ew no” to “Yes here’s my number”? Anything that’s actually tangible to the real world. What exactly are the things that changes upon meeting and talking to women where the effects of “worry less about others’ validation and focus on your own validation.” come into play? And how does that make her go from thinking “Ew I don’t like this guy 😕” to “Ooh I like this guy ☺️”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:48 PM
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I can’t emphasis enough just how little I have actually changed personality wise, I am the exact same person I was before changing my looks. I’m still the nerdy kid who continues to talk to women like they’re people, like I always have done. What has completely changed is how women treat me now, going from constantly rejected/ignored/platonic for countless years to success after success, with the only variable that’s obviously different being my looks. Let me ask you, “growing up” and “confidenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:24 PM
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Even to this day, when someone on places like AskMen ask how to attract women, and people recommend the gym, almost always there's someone replying "Yes! Go the gym because that makes you confident and confidence attract women" lol, some people will absolutely refuse to admit that maybe women do, in fact, like muscles just because they look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 01:58 PM
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Imagine thinking the world is just the way it was, people being uncaring/rude was the norm and this was normal for everyone... so you thought. Then you lose weight, turns out everyone is able to be pleasant and friendly this entire time. You go to the store and people smile while talking to you, wtf, just a few months ago you would've avoided me and now you're being super friendly for some reason. You realize the world is actually a nicer place than you thought, it's just that you were FAT, UGLY…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 12:42 PM
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Obsessing over my looks was the only thing that turned me from a forever alone virgin to a guy who can now easily attract and date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 12:34 PM
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As someone who is in the nerdy scene, it’s a double edged sword. Nerdy women especially are some of the most openly kinky people around, but often times aren’t the most dateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:01 AM
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As long as the question is related to how attractive they objectively look to society/average person. And less so about their own personal opinions on how attractive they are. “Are they an objectively attractive person?” And “Do you think they are attractive” can have two entirely different answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:52 AM
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They were basically explaining how they thought you were saying promiscuous women are looser than virgin women, then went on to explain how more sex doesn’t lead to a looser vagina and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:32 PM
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If i got a blowjob as a virgin i wouldn’t claim I lost my virginity. I don’t think Oral counts personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:14 PM
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I just assumed he meant blown out as in very loose. Guess we won’t know until he replies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 01:32 PM
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Because then that would mean their doctors took their anal virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 01:23 PM
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He never said anything about sexual experiences. Some women are tighter than others, that’s just a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 01:21 PM
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It really isn’t. I’ve only met two men who’ve outright admitted they want a virgin woman, both of them were sluts. None of my virgins friends have claimed they would only date a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 12:40 PM
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Poor people have the most amount of sex, you can’t blame that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 12:37 PM
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>grab another apple But why? Why after tasting that apple did you not come to the conclusion that maybe you simply don't like apples, why grab a different apple? Because you know what apples taste like based on previous experiences, and you know that specific apple didn't taste right compared to apples you had in the past, so you grabbed another apple. You literally compared apples.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:13 PM
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Don't know what else to add really. If I eat an apple and it taste worse than apples I've had in the past, I'm automatically going to compare, it's not even a conscious decision. I'll immediately go "This isn't like the other apples I've had". But that's just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:56 PM
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Every single ‘marginally assholish bad boy’ I’ve ever met greatly care about other people’s opinions, I think this is where we highly disagree on the definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:20 PM
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I guess it depends if you think your definition of Alpha is correct, which some would debate. According to the Rationalwiki entry: Alpha "An alpha (or alpha male) is a high-status male who gets all the sex he desires, because his controlling and socially-dominant personality is so alluring to females; alternately, an alpha may refer to a male's tall and muscular body type that all females (without exception) are irresistibly attracted to. Alphas sit at the top of the sexual ladder, shitting down…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:00 PM
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Why are dudes so insecure Small dicks, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, could be anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:28 PM
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If they’re good in bed then you won’t compare. If they’re bad in bed then you’ll absolutely compare. Imagine being with a guy who did everything for you, then you break up, and you start dating a guy who does only half the things the other guy did, you’re going to compare and think “Nah f this, I’m finding a guy who can do everything like my ex did”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:26 PM
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Wrong? Sounds like you’re on the right track to betterment to me, keep at it. 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:37 PM
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Nah, depends on a few factors. With glasses I look like this. <image> Without glasses I look like a normal/handsome dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:30 PM
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Nah, almost all studies on the subject have shown piracy basically doesn't reduce income. The people who pirate never intended on buying it. Makes sense, why do people pirate? Because they don't want to spend money. Had piracy not been an option they wouldn't start buying things, they would do something else with their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 01:31 PM
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Twitter recently posted Stop using Twitter and you’ll be 10x happier in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:35 PM
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Bruh, I'm a 5'7 middle eastern dude in a white majority country. I've done almost everything possible to looksmax from exercise to grooming to fashion. I've essentially maxxed out my looks. >it's doable by mostly anyone with some discipline Please, enlighten me, how can I get all the traits of a "Chad"?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:15 AM
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You’re vastly overestimating the social skills required to work in IT and run a marathon. You also definitely do not need to talk to people at the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 10:07 PM
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I get this, it's relaxing to chill with lesbian or asexual women. I don't need to worry about wooing her, I don't need to worry about her trying to woo me and me needing to turn her down. She doesn't need to worry about me wooing her, she doesn't need to worry about falling for me. We can literally just be best buds without any sexual or romantic tensions involved on either side.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:23 PM
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Nah, our culture and society is just so incredibly different today than it ever has been in the past. The whoring was mostly limited to prostitutes and a minority of women, most societies were very strict on monogamy and most women tended to only sleep with their partners while heavily shaming those who didn't. It was common for all women to get abortions, besides in Christianity countries, there was no stigma against abortions, and even in Christian countries, abortion was allowed anytime befor…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:47 PM
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I never said abortion is a contraceptive. You asked how women could be hoes in the past without contraceptives, they had abortions. I don't know why you're arguing so hard against this, it was very common practise back in ancient times. There wasn't any "access" to abortions, people just did home remedies, which worked, but was much more dangerous for the woman than modern day abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:07 PM
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I'm not sure how 1 is relevant to the other, Most mundane people had access to abortion. Abortions aren't that complicated, there's tons of methods to do it, strenuous labor, climbing, paddling, weightlifting, diving, injesting certain herbs, fasting, bloodlettings, pouring hot water onto the abdomen, etc. What has this got to do with AI?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:51 PM
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We as in humankind. Most civilisations could preform abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:08 PM
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Abortions, we’ve always had ways to do abortions even 5000+ years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:34 PM
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Name 1
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:27 PM
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This is literally just another word for Status, which is 1 of the 4 main building blocks of Redpill, along with Looks, Wealth, and Game.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 07:31 PM
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Most attractive programmer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 04:34 PM
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When you start genuinely getting into fitness and health, you start to realise just how… unhealthy and delusional the majority of people are. Take for example all the “I’m only 30 and my knees and back hurt” you see everywhere. People think this is normal, and in a way it is, people have ruined their bodies without even realising it and think that because everyone else feels the same way, that’s just a natural side effect of aging. It’s not, it’s a side effect of an unhealthy lifestyle. I’ve lit…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 09:37 PM
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Same, I’ve yet to bump into a woman that was anti-condom. This hasn’t screwed me yet and the day it does, I’m not really going to care because I ain’t risking an STD/pregnancy just for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 01:10 PM
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Meanwhile some of the most deranged unhinged men I know are getting laid regularly. Had those same "off putting" men you mentioned been more attractive, their behaviours would instead have been seen as quirky and they would be dating, that's basically my argument here. There are men that do have truly weird and bizzar behaviour and it does cause them a huge amount of issues, but they're a small minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 11:12 PM
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what?? How did me saying many normal men with normal lives struggle to date turn into you going on a sarcastic rant?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:44 PM
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lost 130lbs Yup, That'll do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:29 PM
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Looks is the most important step. Before anything even attempts to begin, looks is the first step through the door. Other stuff follows it. From my experience, if we completely ignore looks for the moment like it doesn't even exist, and purely focus on what the men who get laid are doing, you can get a girlfriend so long as you can... hold a conversation, and maybe not be autistic. That's literally all it is, you can be the dumbest dude or the smartest dude, the funniest dude or the the driest d…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:21 PM
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I'm not buying it. If I'm happy without a car, I don't choose or even attempt to buy a car. If I'm happy with my job, I don't choose to go to more job interviews to try and get a new job. If I'm happy with the way I look I don't force myself to change my appearance. If I'm happy with an aspect of my life, I don't purposely put myself in situations that make me uncomfortable for the purpose of changing that specific aspect I'm apparently already happy with. That's mad. People work on the stuff th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 09:46 PM
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So which is it, constantly and consistently try to talk to people over and over again to get over your fear or rejection and meet new people to make friends/dates, or for people to not be a tool/instrument anymore? I mean, first things first, what exactly is the definition of “Be happy alone” in this context? Because in my mind, someone who’s happy alone is not spending their free time trying to get used to being rejected by people in order to make friends. So before you reply to my first paragr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 08:07 PM
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I haven’t seen the full video yet, but it doesn’t sound like he’s saying “enjoy being alone” full stop. He’s saying “If you want to make friends, you have to first enjoy being alone because it helps you avoid being needy and people don’t like needy people.” He’s not saying enjoying being alone is the cure to loneliness, he’s saying it’s the path to obtaining friends and dates. Which doesn’t really go against people’s ideas here of “men are so lonely and women can fix that”. His second advice is …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 07:38 PM
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Success in what way, being sexually attractive and wanted by women, or women wanting to date you because you’re rich and can give them a fun life? Women wouldn’t exactly fall head over heals for Bill Gates. He’s not magically sexually attractive because he’s rich, he’d attract gold diggers but they wouldn’t be sexually attracted to him. They’re not getting wet and horny for him. They’re not imagining sleeping with him. Meanwhile when you’re a 6’4 Greek god, you know women are falling over their …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:03 AM
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Combination of popularity, social standing, and respect among their peers/society. For example, a professor and an oil rig worker may earn the same amount of money, but people and society respect the professor far more, so he has a higher status. Basically, if you were given a CV of someone and had to guess how ‘respected’ that person was, that would be their status. Like if you were talking to a guy and he said he’s a pilot, or you were talking to a guy and he says he’s a dishwasher, the one yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:07 PM
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It’s comments like these that really out the people who made them. You clearly do not talk to gay men. Yes, they talk about bad dick, all the time. Same type of deal when men say “I’ve never heard of gay men complain about men, women must be the problem”, like bro, when was the last time you actually spoke to a gay man about anything sex related?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:27 PM
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Sounds like he’s started dating someone else and it’s going well for him. Don’t be surprised if he comes back 1-2 weeks later like “Sorry been busy”. Aka his dates didn’t go well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:21 PM
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Alright so you have some resemblance of a monkey brain. Now imagine you walk into the gym, and it’s full of very attractive men, their muscular arms are on full display exactly as you like them, they’re just everywhere, you sit on a bench and there’s a muscular arm to the left and right of you. You move to the treadmill area and there’s more muscular arms. However, you’re not allowed to look, you’re not even allowed to glance. Their muscular arms are right next to you all the time but it’s compl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 12:36 AM
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I thought Percy Jackson was the name of the author, never knew it was the name of the series.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 12:32 AM
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Are you a demisexual or something, have you never been physically attracted to a guy, saw his ass and just had the urge to slap it? Women have this urge.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 12:30 AM
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Sexy woman wearing leggings doing squats to the left of me. Sexy woman wearing leggings doing stretches to the right of me. Sexy woman wearing leggings doing bent over rows in front of me. Here I am, stuck in the middle of them, staring at the floor or the ceiling. I saw a woman wearing baggy joggers once, I was kinda proud of her ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 10:05 PM
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Stacy doesn’t mean an attractive girl. It’s a name of a particular stereotype of women, a combination of rich, blond, dumb, attractive woman who wears heavy makeup, likes shopping, Instagram, and buys expensive clothes/jewellery/bags. She is promiscuous and shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 07:31 PM
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Unattractive men critiquing other unattractive men’s profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 07:26 PM
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Neckbeards do go too far, a lot, like saying Ciri is ugly and they don’t want to play as a woman (Yawn) but some of their criticisms do stem from an actual issue some of these games have, usually from the writing and presentation. As an example, I present Baldurs Gate 3 as my argument. Baldurs Gate 3 is extremely LGBT friendly and almost nobody cares. There’s gay relationships everywhere, everybody is pansexual, you can play as a trans man/woman, you could play as a man and gale would hit on you…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 03:51 PM
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I’d still love him, but yes I would be ashamed and embarrassed, regardless of man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:22 PM
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Damn, even 25 books is still really good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:20 PM
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Women know this too, tell two different men to tell women they’re a virgin and watch their reaction. “Don’t worry, you’ll find someone!” “What really?!? How?!?” Can you figure out which one is replying to the tall handsome guy and the short balding guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:21 PM
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The answer is you shouldn’t. You should not be putting time and effort into trying to date dudes who are specifically trying to not date women like you. That’s not going to go well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:03 PM
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But like I said, why would you want to date a man who’s specifically and intentionally filtering your age out? He can’t filter your age out in real life, true, but if you knew the man you were talking to was specifically trying to filter out women your age from his app, why would you want to date that man?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:51 PM
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Kinda, women simply don’t want to date around someone who’s always eating healthy, no alcohol, exercises daily, etc, because it makes them feel bad that they’re not doing that themselves. I should also add, when women say “a man with muscles” it means something different from when a man says it. Women think muscles and think of The Rock, Bodybuilders on stage, Ronnie Coleman, etc. they’re not thinking of Chris Evans or Ryan Gosling, men women love.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:58 PM
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Most women in the western world are overweight or obese. Keep this in mind when women claim they don’t like men with muscles. The men with muscles likely don’t like those women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:39 PM
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If a 45 year old dude is filtering 40 year old women out, did you even want to date him in the first place? This means when meeting men on dating apps, you’ll automagically be matching with men who are not filtering you out, which is what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:00 PM
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50k followers and YouTube go hand in hand. Why is one considered brainrot F and the other a cool A?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:04 PM
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Only if he’s average/unattractive. Attractive men get compliments all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:29 PM
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There’s a stat going around where 50% - 70% of women have a plan B ready if their current relationship fails. She sees other men, you just gotta get used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:25 PM
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There's nothing that indicates it's from 2024. The meta data of that website says it was published 28th May 2019. The link it takes you to says 2019. <image> >I’ll never understand why you guys go out your way to try “prove” this wrong, even if the study is inaccurate, we all know it’s true Because it's wrong? Lmao. Every study done on the subject has shown married women are happier. You can't just make things up and claim it's fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:44 PM
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Paul Dolan himself has gone on record to state he made a mistake and his work is inaccurate. His work, the study, is inaccurate, it's wrong, the researcher himself said that. Just because some blog/website didn't tell you this doesn't mean his work is suddenly accurate and correct. Your link is also from 2019/2021, his is from 2023, his is more up to date. It's literally not an opinion, his work is Objectively wrong by all accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:35 PM
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Nope, Not a single has claimed single childfree women been ranked as the happiest. There's been 1 single study that concluded single childless women were happier than married women, the infamous Paul Dolan study, the media quickly took it and ran with it and spread it everyone, now everyone thinks it's true. It was debunked since the Paul made some grave errors in his research. when corrected for those errors, married women were happier than single women. Every other study done on the subject ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:34 PM
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I wasn’t able to go today because it’s too cold It’s literally winter, it’s not going to get warmer. Are you really going to skip out on exercise just because you were cold? Your cavemen ancestors fighting off storms are embarrassed by you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:01 PM
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Pretty useful info to know, if you’re an unattractive person and want to be successful at dating, you’ll want to prioritise working on the more important stuff first.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:56 PM
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I literally could not care less about this story and I have no idea why everyone else cares so much. A porn star sleeps with a lot of men? Whoopdie fucking do la. That’s literally her job, porn stars do that every day, often with multiple men, suddenly it’s a big news story everyone needs to study because she did a 100 men in 1 day challenge. What’s the big deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:47 PM
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Not much, just acknowledge looks are the main factor in attraction, if men in the future asks why they’re unsuccessful while they have normal social skills, then just tell them it’s likely because they look bad and need to fix their entire appearance. Too many times men will post to places like dating_advice or somewhere else and asking for help as he’s been forever single and he’s lonely, and it’ll be some skinny short dude with poor facial hair and in boring baggy clothes, like the opposite of…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:38 PM
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It was a Japanese superstition that sexual arousal would result in more nosebleeds. Anime ran with it and use it as a way to tell the viewers “This guy is horny”.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:27 PM
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I’ve mentioned this study quite a bit, it also aligns my own experiences. If a girl likes you, she’ll laugh at your dumbest jokes no matter how stupid they are. She’ll even sometimes laugh at things you wasn’t trying to make a joke about, she just thought you were making a joke and that’s enough to make her laugh. Being funny isn’t what makes you attractive, being attractive is what makes you funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:54 PM
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>I myself am a pretty visual man so I would say attraction is slightly more important than personality, but this isn't true for everyone This is true for the vast majority of people, men and women. Of course both are important to individual people, but generally across all people if you have bad looks and a good personality, you'll struggle to date. If you have good looks and a bad personality, you'll still find plenty of people to date, you'll just be dating other people with bad personalities.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:22 PM
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Slim fit. Modern looks too baggy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:15 PM
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Why are you pretending people haven't been going on and on about how looks aren't important? I can recall like 10+ times I've debated with people on this very subreddit about that exact topic. Reddit thread - 447 comments, maybe 10 of them mention something looks related And when you google "How to attract women" you get these articles. What attracts women to men sexually, The hard truths and facts - 20 points of text after text, with only one of them, point 16, relating to something looks based…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:11 PM
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All the women are going to convince her he’s a terrible person and they should break up, and he’s going to be like “You’re breaking up with me because you chose to attack a drunk dude and I didn’t join in? lol”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:51 PM
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I think so, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:18 PM
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Christ, I'm glad I haven't met any of these women, don't think I could deal listening to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:57 PM
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I don't think she's leaving details out, she's just exaggerating details. Upon a first read you'd think the guy is a creep trying to join the women in her uber, but read the text again very closely, what did the drunk guy actually do, start to finish, from his perspective. He was drunk, spoke to a woman, the woman walked away. He saw an uber (likely assumed it was his) and tried to get in. At this point in time the uber was empty, he was trying to enter an empty uber. Suddenly he has a woman pul…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:49 PM
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It's his car, he has to handle it. You can't just enter a random Uber because the destination is already set on the app, and the driver isn't going to do the trip if it's not for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:43 PM
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Most women have never been in a physical fight before, stories like these kinda show the consequences of that. They believe they can manhandle a drunk man and nothing bad will ever happen, and in most situations they’re right, because most men won’t hit a woman even if that woman is hitting them. The moment another man gets involved however, things can escalate very quickly, men who don’t hit women don’t have the same restraint for other men, and men understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:33 PM
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I do have to ask, what did the drunk guy do that made him a pretty despicable creep? Look at what he does. He’s drunk, he spoke to a woman, the woman walked away. He sees an Uber and tries to get in it, the woman at the time was not in the Uber, he was getting into an empty Uber, but before he could he had a woman behind him screaming at him and dragging him saying it’s not his Uber. She goes in to get bartenders, and we don’t hear what happens after that, so it’s possible he just got out the Ub…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:25 PM
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Notice his actions, not what OP described. What exactly did he do? He was drunk, walked up to a woman and spoke to her, she walked away. He saw an Uber and got in it. (The woman was not in an Uber). Then suddenly he had a woman pulling him and screaming at him. Notice how she got bartenders to help, but never actually mentioned anything about the bartenders pulling the drunk guy out or anything? He probably got out the Uber after the driver told him he’s in the wrong cab. The drunk guy didn’t re…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:18 PM
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Not necessarily, sometimes they weren’t cute, just tall and strong, other times your friend gets attention and you assume it’s because he’s a funny person, not because he’s cute. You see girls liking the bully and you assume it’s probably because he’s the ‘bad boy’. I was also called cute myself but didn’t get any of that kind of attention so to me it mustn’t have been just looks, but now looking back I know it’s because I wasn’t ‘attractive’ cute, I was lil baby cute. Then you hear women talkin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 01:16 PM
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Those videos were old, but I also randomly found them from a 7 year old Reddit thread, I’m sure I could find much more if I looked into it. The UN Woman stuff is was from their “LGBTIQ+ Communities and the anti-rights pushback” article, where they paired up “Men’s rights” with anti-gender and gender critical groups saying these groups threaten LGBT. Feminism is about women having rights/chances equal to men, very few feminists care about focusing on fixing specific issues men have. In which case…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 03:10 PM
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We won’t really know what happens until they plan and go on a second date. I’ve also had two first dates that also seemingly “went well”, only to never go on a second date. As well as plenty of my friends, it’s normal for a first date to appear to go well only to get ghosted afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:31 PM
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The entire Men's Rights Activist is entirely about that. They bring up a whole host of men's issues, and the media labels them anti-feminist and misogynist because they had the audacity to tell people they're focusing on men's issues, not women's. Just look at their Wikipedia article, literally the second paragraph describes how it's actually secretly a backlash of feminism and they advocate for violence against women. When you look into these claims of violence, turns out the entire thing came …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:49 PM
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The ones who freely post pictures of themselves on the internet know they're not that bad looking, hence why they're posting pictures of themselves on the internet for everyone to see, they're fishing for compliments. If a guy knows he's ugly, he's not going to post pictures of his face online for everyone to criticise and make fun off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:03 PM
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>He doesn't seem to have a shit personality.... He shot and killed a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:09 AM
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I agreed with that thread, I even upvoted it at the time. But I wouldn't say it's because men's view of women has changed or their standards have changed, but more so because men are more desperate than women. So men are fine with their partners not conforming to some gender roles just to keep them happy, even if they would prefer their partner to conform to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:05 AM
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I genuinely have no clue what you were trying to tell me here or what it was I said that was wrong. It sounds like you disagree with me then wrote a comment about everything I agree with. Obviously physically attractive people are lusted over I agree Of course of he were sexually unattractive, people wouldn't be talking about how hot he is I agree There's nothing "blackpilling" about the idea that women are aroused by sexually attractive men, and anyone who wasn't raised in a dark cave their who…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:59 PM
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Far less people would be simping, but some people would still be simping. Take a look at, well, any handsome serial killer. Hell, google Jeremy Meeks, dude almost murdered a child and he ended up getting bailed out by women and became a model who married a billionaire's daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 10:30 PM
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I promise you, if luigi turned out to be a fat balding dude, he would not be receiving these horny messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 10:14 PM
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Some people on this subreddit still for some wild reason: "Looks don't matter! If you're struggling to date it's because of your bad personality." Reddit for the past week: "OMG Luigi's so fucking hot please rawdog me 😍😍😍"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 09:42 PM
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I also like attention. In no situation would I ever crave attention from an ugly obese woman to the point I attempt things to get her attention, I just shrug my shoulders and move on with my life. Like what 99% of women would do to an ugly dudes who don't care about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 09:37 PM
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What do you mean, what would I be spouting if I were alive before emancipation?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 08:17 PM
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I wouldn't say men have changed their views on women all that much, men still vastly prefer healthy youthful feminine women with smooth skin and a "banging body" who are compassionate, kind, empathetic, and trusting. This hasn't really changed all that much throughout the years. In what ways do you think it's changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 08:05 PM
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>if women really can’t change the way they view men because they’re just so tied to their biology because men were able to change their views on women’s gender roles Can you rephrase this please? I'm a bit lost on what you are trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:29 PM
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I’m talking in generalisation and you’re replying in individuals. Yes there’s going to be some women dating depressed men, that In no way indicates women on average don’t mind dating depressed men. You can also find ‘many’ women dating 5’4 men, that doesn’t mean there isn’t an obvious preference for taller men. In the same way there’s an obvious preference for stable and mentally healthy men. we’ve been to space And ravens enjoy shitting on the cars of the people they hate, that doesn’t mean rav…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:56 PM
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Emotional men I mean like depressed sad men in particular. humans are not bound by evolution I find it so baffling when people say stuff like this. Why do you think 70% of the population is fat? Because your body craves extra food to store away for a rainy day, despite the fact we consciously know we won’t be running out of food anytime soon. That’s just one example of 100’s I could list to explain how you’re acting in evolutions wishes. women like strong men??? Source?!? I don’t even know what …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:25 PM
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First things first what’s your definition of masculine man? Because right off the bat it sounds like your idea of a masculine man is entirely different from mine. Someone can be emotionally intelligent and doesn’t care about gender norms, but is still masculine. He can still wear a pink shirt and drink girlie drinks from a straw. A masculine man to me is someone who’s brave, hard working, self reliant, self sufficient, mature, rational, confident, competitive, dependable, a provider, in control,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:13 PM
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Is it, or is a large part of that a subconscious expectation from evolution and biology? Do you genuinely believe the reason women don’t want to deal with emotional men is because of patriarchy, and that by dismantling it, women will start to take depressed men more seriously? In my opinion, men are disposable because sperm is plentiful, it’s an evolutionary trait. Women like strong rigid men because they’re more likely to survive and reproduce, not because patriarchy. Even the most leftist prog…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 02:59 PM
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men benefit from deconstructing patriarchy How?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 02:29 PM
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Not really, if I’m sitting alone at home all day, I’m not going to dress up for myself. If I never went out again I would never dress up again, I have zero interest in fashion or dressing up beyond when it’s in and for the presence of other people. I dress up for other people, which makes them happy, which makes me happy. The dressing up part isn’t what makes me happy, it’s the other people enjoying my company that makes me happy. It’s like saying people work in charities for themselves, yes wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 01:11 PM
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Now we’re talking about different things. Enjoying attention from ugly people is a vastly different thing from going crazy because an ugly person isn’t giving you attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 01:08 PM
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Yes, but I only felt pleasure at looking at myself well dressed because I know that’s exactly what society expects a successful well dressed man to look like. In which case I’m not really doing it for myself, I’m doing it so other people will look at me and think “what a well dressed handsome man”, which in turn makes me feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:02 PM
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Why did this question make you so angry to the point you’re calling people sad for asking it? It’s a perfectly valid and curious psychology question with answers that tie back to social conditioning and conforming to societies expectations. Plenty of other women in this comment section answered the question without any issue, yet you’re here saying people have sad lives. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 12:00 PM
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This literally never happens. Women do not give a flying fuck if an ugly man isn’t giving them attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:54 AM
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Everyone’s palms are lighter than the rest of their body. Your palms have an extra layer of skin to protect them, extra layer of skin means it needs less melanin to protect itself from the sun, less melanin means lighter skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:20 PM
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Basically just this. It’s when a woman married someone she’s not really into, at least not in the way she was with her ex’s or FwB. She picked him because he’s the safe stable who’ll raise good kids compared to her more exciting but unpredictable Ex’s. The kind of relationship where she used to have high libido in the past but nowadays it’s “not today I have a headache” and eventually fades into a sexless relationship where she ‘loves’ her husband but is just never in the mood anymore for some r…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:47 PM
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Eeh, that’s because they can’t make love with those chat bots. Must be hard being in love with words of a screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 01:37 PM
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In the future they’ll have AI sex bots so it’s all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:11 AM
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I could list like 50 things. Two of them being having someone who helps with the cooking and cleaning. What kind of question is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:28 PM
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I'm confused by what you're trying to say. >Stop talking about going to the gym all the time. If that's what attracted women the most, we wouldn't work as much. What has working got to do with going the gym? People work because they need money to live their life. People go the gym to look and feel better. These two things are entirely unrelated and there's nothing stopping you from doing both.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:39 PM
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Oxford's definition of interesting is "arousing curiosity or interest; holding or catching the attention." Cambridge's definition of interesting is "Someone or something that is interesting keeps your attention because he, she, or it is unusual, exciting" Being entertaining makes you interesting, it catches and holds people's attention and interest. >I think a lot of those people can be very interesting, but being social, charming, and charismatic is a whole different issue. Anyone can be intere…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:33 PM
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When I say geek/nerd, I was referring more to the 'smart' guy, the university student who got a masters/PhD in school and went on to develop a good career, he's educated, established career, well read, instrumentalist, multi-lingual, political, I know plenty of men who fit this description but have little to no luck attracting women. I was most definitely not talking about the nerd sitting at home playing league of legends all day. You would be right, that guy is typically not interesting. My ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 12:16 PM
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I appreciate the high amount of effort you’ve put into this, but I disagree with about half of it. Some of the most interesting people at a party who regularly got attention from women have had most of the traits in your bad list, lazy, uneducated, unemployed, never reads, watches slop, can’t play an instrument, can’t make art, speaks one language poorly, no political opinions, etc. Being an interesting person has almost nothing to do with majority of your ‘interesting’ traits, if that were the …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:04 AM
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Yes, sounds like she still loves him. Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:40 PM
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Feign ignorance, never heard of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:36 PM
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or watched on the internet You make it sound like the internet isn’t literally the collective knowledge of all of humankind. “You do realise people are just repeating what they read in a text book right?”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:20 PM
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Educated people tend to earn more money, and want to spend their free time enjoying their extra money, more holidays, more luxuries, etc. as well as having a bigger focus on developing their career. Being smarter means they’re more picky on who they date/have kids with, and they’ll take more precautions when it comes to sex, buy and use protection more often, buy and take plan B, etc. Overall it means less kids on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 07:56 PM
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The question boils down to what is the cause and effect. Sure, you noticed men who are indifferent have more success, but that doesn’t automatically mean indifference is the cause of success, it’s the effect of their success. Indifference doesn’t turn into success, success turns into indifference. If you’re successful in dating to the point you feel indifferent to it, then what made you attractive wasn’t the indifference, it was everything else, and all of that led to your indifference to dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:46 PM
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Of course women have it worse, but it’s not exactly a paradise for men either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 11:12 AM
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Considering my entire family escaped and were accepted as refugees in another country, ya pretty bad. As an example, when the regime first came into power, learning and teaching Kung Fu was illegal. Obviously it’s not that bad now, but it’s still pretty bad and simple things are illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:38 PM
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she walked around naked too much I’m sorry, how is that an ick?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:42 PM
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Because it appears to be the most accurate of the lot, Bluepill is useless and Redpill focuses too much time and energy on game and is far too pseudo intellect for me. The simple idea that people do indeed like and want to date attractive people really shouldn't be as controversial as it is. I started out making fun of redpill even through they had some truth to it. So I probably started out purple, but quickly turned black when that idea started taking off. Makes sense and has a ton of evidence…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:30 PM
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Relationships should be peaceful, if it’s not then you either have children or something is very very wrong. If I’m with a woman and I don’t feel at peace, that is a red flag. This should not be controversial.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:54 PM
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Now that’s funny lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:02 PM
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What number would you start to consider to be hoe behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:27 PM
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You're doing the same thing, I asked for some examples twice and you offered nothing, you're just throwing out words. I can't explain if you're right or wrong without knowing what you're talking about. It would be like me saying "the way red pill men describe women’s attraction, is as if the women were dogs. Its not as if they say “women are like dogs”, they just talk about women as if they act like dogs". Then I proceed to not give any examples as to what I just said, you just gotta believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:24 PM
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You’re basically just saying random things now and claiming them as fact without even attempting to describe what you mean. I don’t think I’ve ever heard anyone say women act like men or women turn into men or anything to suggest women’s sexualities are the same as men or anything even close to that. You have to give some examples. Black pillers tend to prove that looks don’t matter everyday, at least the way black pillers think they do. As much as black pillers say women prove black pill by exi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:53 PM
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That’s even darker than red It’s not that dark and scary. Most people are misinformed on what the Blackpill is. It literally just means when it comes to dating, looks are the most important aspect, followed by money, status, and social skills. Because I believe this, I regularly workout, eat healthy, take care of my appearance, dress to impress, etc. Blackpill has nothing to do with how to treat women or if you should hate/love them. Compared to redpill which tries to teach people to treat women…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:34 PM
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It’s not just a popular word that randomly got trendy, it became popular for a reason. There are reasons why these words became popular. Calling men gay became trendy because it was an attack on either their masculinity or their lack of sexuality towards women/a specific woman. Men could use it to make fun of other men, women could use it to explain why a man didn’t like her and insult him for that. ‘Bitch’ is a very old word that’s managed to stick around to the point it’s now used for both neg…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:08 PM
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I also don’t hate women, you seem to have prejudged me. Redpill is just a set of philosophies that try to describe what women like in men and set to be like those men. Blackpill just means looks matter far more than people think. There are also plenty of men hating feminists out there, just as much as there are women hating red/black pillers. Just as much as there are feminists who don’t hate men, and red/black pillers who don’t hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:56 PM
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Going through 7 people in 4 years is hoe behaviour. The average Lifetime Sexual Partners is 7. Nevermind 7 in 4 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:51 PM
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Women love to call men they hate incels, it’s an insult used against a lot of men they don’t like, including men who are clearly married with kids. Women could have called these misogynist, sexist, bigot, or 100’s of other different insults, why incel? Because incel implies they can’t attract women and are virgins. That is exactly what makes this insult more attractive to use compared to just calling a man sexist. Call a man sexist and he’s just a guy that thinks differently of women, call a man…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:30 PM
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I have no idea what you meant by half of that. looks don’t actually matter like black pill thinks they do, We have a shitload of evidence to show it does matter. Also black and pill both top from the bottom, where the ugliest/most oppressed is the most moral/enlightened. I have no idea what this means. try and hamfist studies into their beliefs. Bluepill has 0 studies for their beliefs. This is solely a Blackpill thing. Black and blue pill both think the genders sexualities are the same What? Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:18 PM
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Blackpiller here; I didn’t, I just thought if I was a friendly decent person then I would find a woman who liked me for who I was. Fast forward the most agonising late teens/early 20 dating attempts and by the time I was 21 that’s when I started caring and focusing on what women find attractive in men. Overall I believe it’s made me a better healthier more successful person overall. I exercise almost every day, eat healthier foods, dress to impress, etc. Feeling good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:53 PM
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For facial hair: 60% prefer beards, 40% prefer clean shaven. For body hair: 9% of women prefer no chest hair, the rest either don’t care or prefer chest hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:36 PM
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I understand what you mean, The RedPill is first and foremost a philosophy, it’s a lifestyle choice, it’s not an ideology with political goals However, there’s an entire award winning political documentary literally called “The Red Pill” which got quite popular and introduced the masses to the concept of the redpill through the men’s rights activists, so it’s easy to see why people would think it’s closely linked to an ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:19 PM
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Blackpill is just redpill but with more emphasis on Looks and far less emphasis on game. Redpill: Game > Looks = Status = Wealth Blackpill: Looks >>> Status = Wealth > Game. Bluepill: Personality >>> Anything else In what way is Blackpill closer to bluepill?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:06 PM
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Your first example is a woman going on a date with a man she’s never met 1 on 1 before. Your second example is a man who’s been with her wife/girlfriend for years, possibly even gotten married, and had a child together. Very very different situations that are not comparable at all. It would be comparable if the man had a one night stand with a woman and asked for a DNA test. Or if a wife brought pepper spray in case her husband randomly snaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:43 PM
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Hoeflation means men have to pay an ever growing price for worse quality women. Men expect the bare minimum from women because of hoeflation. These two statements directly support each other, not contradict.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:39 PM
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Because men are already struggling with dating as is, giving them suggestions that makes dating even harder for them is going to be received poorly. That’s fine, then stop complaining when things don’t go your way Dating is like job interviews, you got to create a CV, write a cover letter, apply online, hope you get an interview, go to the interview, move to the next round, go to the second interview, etc. it’s very one sided and if you make a single mistake you’re out. Your suggestion of “well …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:25 PM
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“Relative to their taller counterparts”
/r/BlackPillScience07/12/24 06:15 PM
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How does that disprove the study? “Short men are on average fatter and dumber than taller men” You: “That’s BS because I’m average height and smart” what?!? You could have an IQ of 250 and be the most muscular man in the world. The average IQ will still be 100 and the average westerner will still be fat.
/r/BlackPillScience07/12/24 06:11 PM
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Yes. But the study isn’t saying “short men date fat women”. It’s saying “Short men date fatter, dumber, poorer women compared to their taller counterparts”. Which is an entirely different claim.
/r/BlackPillScience07/12/24 04:21 PM
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I mean, most people in America are fat so, yes, technically speaking most short people do date fat chicks.
/r/BlackPillScience07/12/24 03:43 PM
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It did, but at the exact same time it also pointed out how short men themselves were also dumb, fat, and poor relative to their taller counterparts.
/r/BlackPillScience07/12/24 10:56 AM
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I’m more than willing to change my mind on this if you can show even a single example of an upvoted post/comment related to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:05 PM
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Eeh False equivalence. When men are complaining about shitty women dating loser men, they’re almost always talking about women deciding to date a clearly abusive toxic dude. The actual equivalent here would be women dating a kind, caring, compassionate, masculine, muscular, easy to get along with 8/10 man who’s also jobless and messy. Which I’d be willing to bet most terpers would not give a shit about in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:47 PM
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An abusive toxic person who puts others down and blame their problems on everyone else, addicted to drugs/alcohol/smoking, obese, has mental health issues and not getting help for it, etc. Simply being jobless and having no motivation doesn't scream "loser" to me, it's more of a cry for help, especially when OP adds all of the other positive traits such as "kind hearted, feminine, cooperative, in amazing shape (works out?), easy to get along with". I had a male friend of mine in a similar situat…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:02 PM
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Because she's kind hearted, feminine, cooperative, in shape, easy to get along with, low n count, 8/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:44 PM
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Give her a chance? Sure, if there’s potential to fix her. However, if I’ve tried to fix her and nothing changes, then I would likely break up with her. So yes, I’d give her a chance, but no I wouldn’t stay with her if it keeps up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:20 PM
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This, people really don’t want to admit that, yes, women are just as shallow as men when it comes to looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:06 PM
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I’m making a point that in my experience, confidence clearly wasn’t the reason she and other women were into me. Confidence doesn’t make women slip into your DM’s or try to forcefully make out with you after you’ve already told her you’re taken. That’s just not what’s going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:41 AM
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Aah yes, that's what made that woman sexually assault me, it was my confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:26 AM
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Ask any fat person who lost weight, they'll all tell you how people started being so much nicer. Confidence has nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:15 AM
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Well first things first, this assumes women mean all men, as a collective group, should self improve, in which case you would be right, that doesn't work. >If all men suddenly improved That will never happen, so it's not even something to bother discussing, so you as an individual should self improve so you can attempt to become that top 20% while everyone else stays weak, poor, and fat. >Men are already improving but women don't like it HEAVILY disagree with this, men are not already self impro…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:12 AM
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I still find it funny that to this day, some people will still convince themselves that if a guy improves his appearance to make himself look attractive, the reason he started seeing success in dating is because of his newfound confidence, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:52 PM
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Eeh, agree to disagree then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 05:26 PM
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I'm just saying don't tell the men you want to fuck "you're like a brother to me" because you'll be sending the wrong message.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 05:14 PM
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I assume OP wanted men to be aware of their attraction to their male friends. There’s no reason to hide your lack of attraction. This is a response to OP’s third point. Being friends first gives you an opportunity to demonstrate you are safe and trustworthy. A good foundation upon which a romantic connection can be built. Nothing says safe like, ”You’re like a brother to me” The idea here is the woman will feel safe with the man before they become romantically involved. The issue here is in this…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:59 PM
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Nothing says safe like “You’re like a brother to me” I really hope you haven’t been telling men this, this is an awful thing to say to a man, they’re going to think this is your way of hinting that you don’t like them and see them more as a brother rather than a romantic sexual interest you wish to kiss and fuck. Just say “I feel very safe with you”, that’ll get your message across sooooo much better than calling him your brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:40 PM
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Good deal doesn’t equal most, most just means more than 50%. And I definitely believe more than 50% of healthy weight women look attractive facially.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:51 PM
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Young people voting Exit Poll Breakdown Young male votes were evenly split when taking into account PoC. While 63% of young white men voted trump, the vast majority of PoC men voted Harris, evening it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:40 PM
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Yes, that’s pretty substantial by any metric or statistic you use. Especially when we’re talking about a group of 75,700,000 people. 5% of that is 3,785,000 men. Imagine putting 54 football stadiums next to each other and filling all of them with men, that’s how many men that is. For comparison, Harris lost the election with 48.4% of the votes to Trump’s 50%, a 1.6% difference, that 1.6% difference was enough for this to be the worst election for the democrats in 20 years, that 1.6% was consider…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:24 PM
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Young people voting Exit Poll Breakdown
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:30 PM
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50-50 men and women If we’re going there, 55% of men voted for Trump. 60% of white men voted for Trump. In the under 30 category, 63% of white men aged 18-29 voted Trump. Either way it was not 50-50 like you are pretending. Pretty huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:02 PM
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I’ve seen comments like these on Twitter, but never in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:36 PM
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What world are you living in? I find most women are attractive at a healthy weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:34 PM
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This is why I only linked to 1 example instead of hundreds I could have linked, because I knew it didn't matter what evidence I could possibly give you, you would reject it then start talking about sexless scrooges. The exact second I showed even the tiniest bit of evidence that promotes what I described, you got your list of insults book out and started using it. What could I have possibly presented that would convince you? When presented with evidence why not say "You're mistaken because x, y,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:33 PM
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Lmao, yes, it was my confidence that had a woman sexually assault me. Of course, how did I not realise that. I’m telling you now, my personality did not change, I still am the same old nerdy anime watching video game playing programmer I was years ago, what changed was how people treated me. Ask any fat person who lost weight and they’ll all say the same thing, the moment they lost the weight suddenly people were nicer to them and wanted to talk to them. People who put on weight noticed they sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:27 PM
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Red pill = Spinning plates (aka have multiple casual relationships/Friends with benefits) MGTOW = Avoid women completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:53 PM
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At the exact same time, students are more like to work hard, more likely to study, and more likely to do their homework when their teachers was more attractive. Classrooms with attractive teachers also 'expected' their classroom to get higher marks than the average classroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:06 PM
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A lot of the time women on "My 600lbs life" tend to have boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:56 PM
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>what if an unattractive overweight woman also wants to be found desirable Lose weight, get fit, make yourself more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:55 PM
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Incels on the Wikipedia is still labelled as "mostly white men", despite the fact it was likely the most diverse group of men in all of reddit, making up 50% PoC when the website itself is like 20% PoC.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:50 PM
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>the median woman would have a higher match number than the median man after adjusting for the gender ratio I don't know if you're conveniently ignoring information to support your claim, or you're just ignorant. You're forgetting a VERY important tidbit; Men swipe 34 times per day and swipes right on 46% of women. Women only swipe 12 times a day, and swipe right on 8% of men. Women have a 25% success rate on their right swipes Men have a 3.2% success rate on their right swipes. The reason women…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:28 PM
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The stereotypes people have are based on the actual few people who they know exist, but the reason they're talked about so much is because their existence completely goes against some arguments people here have. If you just have a tall handsome guy who's also nice and kind, there's nothing controversial about him, he doesn't break any rules. You would expect this guy to have a girlfriend and most of the time he does. If you have an shy ugly nerd but he's also an asshole nobody likes, again there…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:19 PM
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My dating life flipped upside down and went from imposible to get dates to easy to get dates just by changing my appearance, including changing my face (growing/grooming beard, fixing teeth, skincare routine, swapping my glasses for contacts lenses, the right haircut). As well as other stuff like putting on muscle and replacing my wardrobe. My personality and ‘rizz’ didn’t change, I was the exact same person, what changed was how people started viewing me. Suddenly I wasn’t the skinny nerdy base…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:43 PM
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”vibe is just code for appearance”. ”No, vibe is vibe, how you carry yourself, how you’re dressed, how you walk, it can be displayed without ever opening your mouth” So… appearance then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:38 PM
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Everyone cares about looks equally. The biggest difference is men will find 50% of women attractive while women will only find 20% of men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:27 PM
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Do teenaged girls act rational?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:43 PM
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T makes you confident, not delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:42 PM
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Men ‘overestimate their attractiveness’ because women vote 80% of men as unattractive. If you’re a man and you believe yourself to be more attractive than 70% of other men, you’d rate yourself a 7/10 and be ‘overestimating’ because women will still rate you as a 4/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:36 PM
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Students worked harder when their teachers are attractive and (presumably) get higher grades - https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/psychology/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2022.1059631/full
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:04 PM
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Here’s a translation guide for you between truerateme and normal people ratings. 5/10 = 5/10 5.5/10 = 6.5/10 6/10 = 8/10 7/10 = 10/10 Nobody gets higher than a 7/10 on those subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 01:23 AM
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Your skull doesn’t change shape after you’re already fully grown. If mewing does work, it’s only for kids/teenagers growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 01:18 AM
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Vin Diesel is also a Hollywood multimillionaire. Like I said, very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 10:00 AM
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I really don’t see this at all. I don’t really know what else to add to this conversation, almost all the couples I personally know in real life are looksmatched, besides one couple that’s an average dude dating an obese woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:57 PM
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Yes, majority of couples match with someone of similar attractiveness. People dating outside of their league does happen, but it’s very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:41 PM
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you don’t have to debate me You tagged the post “Debate”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:05 PM
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Without some examples of exactly what these people are saying, this is less of a debate and more of “I think struggling people have bad opinions”. I can’t exactly debate with you why you are right or wrong without knowing what views you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:36 PM
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I believe most people tend to date and marry people of equal attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:12 PM
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Yes. I’d only start being concerned for her if it’s been over a year since she gave birth and she’s lost all desire to stay healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:11 PM
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Where do I sign up? I’m up for this. The issue here isn’t that men wouldn’t do this (they would), the problem here is that the vast majority of women tend to not want this type of relationship at all. This is supposed to be some sort of gotcha like “See, it sounds bad doesn’t it men” but in actuality quite a lot of men would like this. Have all their bills paid and you just need to take care of the kids, clean the house, stay healthy? Great. 😊 Edit: I like how the argument against this is basica…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:25 PM
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<image> Nah. I prefer 2018 miss universe, Miss Philippines.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:04 PM
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“Looks don’t matter it’s your personality” “As someone who improved my looks and became attractive, I can say looks matter, dating is easy now” “Look outside!!” “I looked outside and see ugly men are single” “No not like that look at random people” “How does that prove anything” “Omg excuses excuses complain complain no action stay inside and complain” I literally just told you that dating is easy for me, I’m literally telling you how improving my appearance made me more attractive to women, wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:35 PM
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Nope. Btw if you find a tall women with a hobbit fetish, let me know <3
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:43 PM
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Which is why I said it's like the Bible, you pick and choose the stuff you like and ignore the rest, nothing you linked to is based on any actual scientific elements like you claimed earlier. You talked big game about how it's about the truth and what is proven, science, psychology, and how I need to educate myself, then proceed to give me links from the side bar that's essentially just the rambling essays that some random dudes wrote. I also love how the link you gave "Relationships, the Red Pi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:20 PM
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I don't know where you looked literally the redpill side bar Understand that she is a child and to treat her like one Teasing your bitches Managing your bitches Women are Teenagers that stop maturing at 18
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:04 PM
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That was an experience, 10/10, 5 stars.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:53 PM
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That’s redpill, that’s on the redpill side bar. I literally went onto the redpill subreddit to find things in the side bar that you guys talk about so I could reference it for my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:43 PM
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An actual Q&A session Journalist: “What would you be if you weren’t a footballer?” Peter Crouch: “A virgin”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:40 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:47 PM
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I could do that and give you my findings but I know you’ll just go “noo selection bias” or something dumb and just ignore what I find. Plus… what is looking at couples in person going to do? Am I just suppose to walk around until I see a short fat 25 year old with a girlfriend, what am I supposed to do with that information, how does that prove or disprove anything we spoke about?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:46 PM
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please educate yourself, the red pill is about the truth, female nature, fields of science Bahahaha Your pill has almost nothing to do with finding the truth or science, it’s a bunch of text written by PUA’s and one bachelor of psychology then stapled together into what we now know is The Red Pill. There was no scientist method involved, no studies done, little to no actual evidence of the things they mention, it’s the ramblings of random people in the manosphere. The only thing I can remember t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:37 PM
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That’s literally all the people I know outside personally. You can’t just look at a random fat guy outside with a wife and kids and think “He’s fat and he’s married so looks don’t matter” because we have 0 context about how they got together in the first place. Plenty of people start off attractive and then let themselves go after marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:30 AM
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Bruh, you make it sound like men will suddenly magically become more successful if they suddenly try to attract less women. Where’s the logic behind that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:39 AM
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look outside, look at real people I scrolled through my Facebook friends list and see the same pattern. Men who are a combination of short, fat, bald, foreign dudes are very likely to be single while the men with a combination of tall, muscular, head full of hair, white dudes are getting laid or have a loving relationship. Even my own anecdotal evidence, when I was skinny with bad style, I was practically invisible and women did not care for me. After becoming muscular with good style my dating …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:37 AM
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Men be swiping right on all women hoping for a single match while women will be like “Ermm, stop trying to date supermodels” Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:42 AM
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You didn’t really say anything that goes against looks mattering, just that a boring/bad personality will ruin your chances. If you’re a decent person and can speak to women, that’s like 99% of your personality sorted, if you can’t attract women despite being a decent person that can talk to women then it’s very very very likely that your personality is not your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:23 AM
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Don’t need to look 10 years ago, look at any OLD app today.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:06 PM
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Everyone has different ideas of how to attract women, even without knowing about the pills a lot of people know muscles and money attract women, that doesn’t make these people redpill. The whole premise of bluepill redpill is a reference to the Matrix, he’s given the option to pick the bluepill and go back to living the fake world, or take the redpill and see the world for what it truly is. To take the bluepill is to know the redpill exists and reject it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:24 PM
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The Redpill sidebar and handbook are pretty much what the Redpill is. Following most of it would make you redpilled. To take the handbook and rip out 9/10 of the pages means you didn’t actually take the red pill, you just dipped your toes in and left with some useful advice. If the only thing you took from it is “Get jacked and get money”, you’re not redpilled. You’re purple pilled at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:15 PM
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For me, working out to get dates was met with getting dates. I went from incel to a dating spree. Surprisingly enough, being fit and healthy is attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:11 PM
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Bluepill is just the rejection of the redpill. It’s not the opposite of the redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:06 PM
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We’re just supposed to believe the titles of YouTube videos?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:57 PM
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I mean, the PUA stuff is like the entire point of the red pill. Without the PUA Redpill basically just becomes “If you want to attract women, you need to be successful”. Which I don’t think anybody disagrees with, including bluepillers. Bluepillers hate redpillers not because they don’t want people to make money or go the gym, but because the redpill teaches men to treat women like children, to spin plates, to pass shit tests and neg them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:56 PM
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3-6 months is very long. 1 Month hit's the sweet spot for just long enough to scare away the men who just want sex, but not long enough to make the men you're dating think you don't like or aren't interested in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:12 PM
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If a man is willing to break up an entire potential long term relationship with a girl who he connects with and has a lot in common with, all because he hasn't had sex within the first 3-4 weeks of dating a girl, he's very likely not worth dating long term anyway. "Why did you break up with her? You said you had a connection and she was everything you was looking for" "She didn't let me sleep with her after 3 weeks" lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:50 PM
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This is true, if the guy himself is bad in bed then even she won’t want him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:36 PM
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You’re changing the context, he’s not talking about casually sleeping with women you’ve already pre-established is purely casual. But instead dating women then sleeping with them, then men deciding whether or not they want to continue dating her based on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:00 PM
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Ok, good, he leaves and you can move onto someone who’s serious fairly quickly. Rather than wasting months on end with a guy who wants nothing long term with you but is only with you because he’s having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:14 PM
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I’m not exactly meeting a lot of single women in my age group every weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:26 PM
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I’m not sure what you’re asking? Platonic love = emotional bond based on friendship, trust, mutual understanding, you enjoy being around them. Romantic love = platonic love but with added physical attraction, sexual desires, and a desire for an intimate partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:46 AM
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We don’t have enough info, OP just said he keeps meeting women who complain about how they can’t find a man who wants something long term. why don’t you do IRL I do, I just haven’t met anyone I’m interested in recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:43 AM
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I never said I don’t or can’t meet women IRL. I do. I’m pointing out /u/mylastbestchance’s flaw that the reason these women can’t seem to find men who want long term relationships is NOT because men only want casual flings. There’s a ton of men on these sites who are clearly looking for something long term. The simple answer is the women who can’t find serious guys are simply not picking serious guys. They’re choosing to be with the men who don’t want commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:37 AM
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“Ugly men say they want short term relationships” and “women are chasing chads” can both be true at the same time. There’s also a very very very simply solution to this, don’t match with those absolutely uggo men who are just looking for short term fun. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:09 AM
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Hello, I’m someone who has long term relationship with detailed bio and so on. No, I get no matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:08 AM
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Wait a while before sleeping with men, if he’s only after casual sex then he’s not going to keep going on dates after a month of waiting. Only someone desperate or looking for a serious relationship would wait. Have actual conversations about expectations, are the men also looking for a serious long term relationship or are they just “seeing where it goes”?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:15 PM
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Because they’re all after the same top 20% of men who have easy access to women and the men don’t want to commit either because these women aren’t good enough to commit with or because the men have access to a lot of women that they enjoy the bachelor life more than being in a relationship. Edit: you’d think listening to some women in this thread that all a man would have to do to get a relationship with a woman is to just want a relationship, since it seems like all men just want casual sex whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:08 PM
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Source 1: The study that claimed 6x that got retracted went from 32% down to 6%, in other words 1.125x more - https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/10.1177/0022146515595817 Source 2: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19645027/ this source claims 20% increase. So from a quick glace 1.3x was a bit high, closer to 1.16x
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:18 PM
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Well no. The original myth was “Men are 6 times more likely to get a divorce after their partners cancer diagnosis”. This was wrong, this was a myth from faulty numbers being calculated. The general “men are more likely to leave their sick partners” is on average true. Men are more likely to leave their sick partners than women. Just not 6x the amount like the original study claimed, more like 30% increase chance or 1.3x.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:02 PM
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Come on man, you know people on askmen would not be able to get away with some of the stuff women on TwoX post.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:24 AM
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Yes I agree, which is why I used it as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:49 PM
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“Anyone willing to put in the work” is the big caveat here. The actual step by step process to getting big is very very straight forward. Go gym, follow routine for 1 hour, go home, eat this much food and this much protein, sleep 8 hours, repeat for 2-5 years. Actually going out and doing all of that every day for 5 years straight is hard for a lot of people, hence why I added the sentence “willing to put in the work”. Compared to say, being a millionaire, which has no easy to follow step by ste…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:56 PM
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Tom Holland, Danial Radcliff, Zac Efron before 2017, Ryan Gosling in crazy stupid love, Robert Patterson.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:02 PM
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I realise the vast majority of them are roided. But it’s kinda a moot point, we’re talking about the most attractive physiques being achievable natty, my point is you can each peak attractiveness natty, the fact Henry Canvil is on the juice isn’t really relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:34 PM
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I mean, you’re almost there already, less than half a plate to go. I genuinely wholeheartedly believe most natty men could hit 3 plates for 1 rep if they really went for it while having 15% bf, it just requires strict schedule and dieting. That’s currently what I’m striving for so I’m going on a bulk for winter. But anyway we’re getting off topic. My point is the most attractive muscular physique a man can get for women is easily achievable natty, and the more muscular you get past that point, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:34 PM
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Do I just not exist?!? If you have the muscle, then all you need to do is cut the fat and you’re at 12%.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:16 PM
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2.5 plates is easily achievable natty to anyone willing to put the work in. It could take 5+ years but exercise is a lifelong commitment anyway so there’s no rush. Steroids get you there faster, but come with a bunch of consequences. It’s genuinely not needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:07 PM
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Well this is assuming you can bench 2.5 plates and are down to 12% body fat. You don’t need steroids to be lean.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:51 PM
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Nah, you don’t need steroids to maximise your attractiveness with muscles, most women aren’t into the whole roided look compared to just having a decent set of muscles. Steroids will help you get there faster, but add in all the negative side effects and it’s just not worth it. Unless you want to compete in some sport or bodybuilding, it’s just not worth it. If you can already bench 2.5 plates, then steroids isn’t going to make women fall for you anymore than they were before.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:20 PM
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Evolution and biology. Think back to tribal times. Women are generally the weaker slower gender, and as such as far more vulnerable to being attacked by animals and other people. They’re also the ones who get pregnant, and as such become even weaker, slower, and generally far more vulnerable than they even were before. The only solution to this is to have someone there who’ll take care and protect her while she’s in this vulnerable state. Men are faster, stronger, and do not get pregnant, and as…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:56 PM
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The vast majority of people do not care about the fact she’s a woman or could become the first female president.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:50 PM
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When you say “off your body” what exactly do you mean? I like my mates gym progress pictures, doesn’t mean I want to fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:47 PM
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Both can be true at the same time. Normal guys can have creepy behaviour. I don’t know anybody who would deny this. At the same time ugly guys can do all the right things and still be labeled creepy. There’s no contradiction here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:41 PM
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When you say ‘dating apps’, what one are you using? Tinder and Bumble? Yes they’re going to be full of dudes who want something casual. They’re the most casual dating apps on the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:38 PM
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The closest you’ll find is the removing of all diversity related stuff, which would in a way help straight white men get jobs. Beyond that, nothing really.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:36 PM
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Immigration Wants to start the largest mass deportation program in US history. To remove all undocumented and illegal migrants from the country. And limiting migration in general. Abortion He’s not going to touch Roe v Wade, he’s leaving abortion rights to the state. Taxes Scrapping any taxes for the rich the dems tried to put in place, and scrapping the inflation reduction act. Tips, social security, and overtime wages will not be taxed. Tariffs Tariffs of 10% ~ 20% on foreign goods, possibly e…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:32 PM
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This is one of those things I facepalm at. Most men who say this don’t know what no makeup actually looks like. They see the difference between a woman wearing heavy makeup vs natural makeup and think “See, no makeup up looks good!”. What they actually mean is “I don’t like women with heavy makeup”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:03 PM
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A strong innate desire to have casual hookups with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 04:16 PM
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Usually I just keep to myself at the gym, and these two teenagers were going on about girls and stuff, I mostly just ignored it. That was until I randomly heard one of them say “The worst part about it is she has a body count of 4”. Lmao I wasn’t expecting to hear that. Woke me right up and I just started eavesdropping into their conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:37 PM
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Are you suggesting OP just… went on the internet and lied? Don’t be silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:57 PM
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I have no idea what you said. Him having a nice face is irrelevant, in the comments he mentioned how in the picture of just his body he didn’t have a picture of his face, yet got 3x the matches his normal profile got. His normal profile with his face got 3 times less likes than the profile of just his torso and no face.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:42 PM
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Here’s one - https://np.reddit.com/r/Tinder/s/LgBcB7BChA
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:11 PM
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To start off, weighing 600lbs is far more effort than not weighing 600lbs. In more ways than one. If you don’t have much of an appetite then you’re not going to put on weight, effort has nothing to do with it. could he improve himself Specifically in terms of facial aesthetics I genuinely don’t know what he could do to improve it. Pretty much the perfect face. In terms of developing muscles and changing personality, yes he could easily improve in those areas. But he doesn’t really have the drive…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:54 PM
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You’re writing far too much and saying nothing at the same time, just focus on the point at hand. In order for a man to be desired or wanted, a man will inevitably need to put forth effort And I just gave you an example of a man who doesn’t. So no it’s not ‘inevitable’. That’s all my point was about. Of course I understand putting in effort into these different traits makes you more attractive, and I say this as an ambitious muscular low bf% man myself. I was focusing your idea that men need to …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:28 PM
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It’s actually extremely relevant considering what you’ve been saying, i quote “A males genetic potential can only be achieved through willpower/effort/energy and that is the formula to being desirable/aesthetically pleasing/attractive as a male*” “This inherently proves that women see and rate and desire men for the effort and will power and energy expended far more than just genetics While genetics can negatively impact your success. Having good genetics in of itself will not positively impact …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:53 PM
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I mean, I literally know a tall male model looking dude who does nothing except work then goes home to play video games. Sure if he weighed 600lbs he wouldn’t look like a male model, but he’s not exactly using any effort/energy/will power to not be 600lbs, he just eats when he’s hungry and doesn’t when he’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:27 PM
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Here’s one - https://np.reddit.com/r/Tinder/s/C8erI89JwP There’s not much to “read up” on per say, it wasn’t a full scientific experiment, it would just be a bunch of men posting ripped body tinder profiles with tons of matches. Most came from the looksmaxxing forums which I can’t link to here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:51 AM
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You don’t. I’ve seen multiple tinder experiments done where men just but their ripped body in their tinder profile (no face) and still got matches. There’s a fetish for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:07 AM
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What they say is irrelevant to what the women believe. They already said he was a millionaire which indirectly meant by dating him you never need to work another day in your life, but they still wasn’t interested in the slightest, they didn’t hesitate to say no because he’s short.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:49 PM
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This isn’t Blackpill, some girls cheating on their partners has literally nothing to do with Blackpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:46 PM
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The majority of the reason is simply women who are 29 and younger are dating 30+ men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:44 PM
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Do you truly believe they would have picked the short guy if they said “he’s altruistic and caring and volunteers at the local orphanage”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:32 PM
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I mean, she’s not wrong, most men don’t have the discipline to work out and stick to it. That’s just a fact and why most men are overweight/obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 02:36 PM
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You can take Lilith’s entire post and use it against women’s profiles too, Lilith is complaining about how men don’t show off their hobbies/interests, don’t make it funny, have empty profiles that don’t tell us anything. That’s my point, women have the exact same issues with their profiles, women aren’t magically any better in this regard. They aren’t taking better selfies, and no, selfies aren’t only meant to just show off your face, you can have selfies where you’re on the edge and something i…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 02:31 PM
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No, the vast majority of these selfies is just her face with little or nothing going on with her or the background. If anything interesting was happening in the selfie I would have mentioned it (like a selfie overlooking a city or a selfie of her and her friends playing a sport).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 02:01 PM
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Average looking dudes can fix this by working out and having a body that makes this work.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:57 PM
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They absolutely do not, I’ll open Hinge now and tell you exactly what I find. • Picture of two people walking at a distance, don’t know which one she is or their faces, picture of her far away in some ruins, selfie, selfie, selfie, picture of her and some guy • picture of 3 girls in an elevator (again I don’t know which one she is), mirror selfie, picture in front of white wall, mirror selfie, selfie with cat • Selfie, picture of her in front of big city, selfie, a video of a concert? Selfie, se…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:53 PM
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You hear a lot of women here saying “Ew we don’t want to see your half naked gym pic” meanwhile the guys will say “When I put my half naked gym pic I started getting a ton of matches”. Women really don’t know what other women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:42 PM
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Ya I know women like this, she wasn’t actually into you, but was afraid of being “single” and alone. So she’d rather string along anybody rather than deal with the loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:59 AM
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Most men don’t struggle (seeing as 65% - 70% of young men 18-25 are having sex at least once a month). But that doesn’t mean they’re getting in and out of relationships and dates left and right. Those are two different statements. Most young men are not currently struggling. True, most young men are having sex. That does not mean they are jumping in and out of relationships and getting dates left and right. It could take several months to a year for a young man to find a new partner after a brea…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:57 AM
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There was no actual lie detector, it had nothing to do with the results, they literally just hooked her up to one and she verbally said a different number out of fear of being caught in a lie. https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/jfikn8/womens_reported_sexual_partner_count_dramatically/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:47 AM
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We have multiple studies that show everyone lies about their body count. Women will reduce their numbers while men will increase it. There’s even studies where women will actually increase their body count after being hooked up to a lie detector/polygraph. Indicating that they weren’t being completely truthful to the researches beforehand when asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:27 AM
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You start using the app, and the first time you use it, you use it seriously, you look at all her pictures, read the bios, and based on that figure out if she seems like a good fit, is so, swipe right, if not, swipe left. You do this for the first couple of days, but you quickly realise nothing is happening, you’re getting no matches, you’re not even getting likes, and using this app is taking up a bit of time, so you start swiping faster, you just look at her pictures and decide based on that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:21 AM
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>Gym and getting in shape was about physical capability first, as it was pro-masculinity. It’s also a metric of character. The looks stuff came after I don't buy it, there are many many many other ways achieve those things, regular sports like football, american football, basketball, rugby, baseball, other exercises like running/jogging, boxing, mma, etc. Plenty of ways to get fit, healthy, and strong. If it was just about that physical capability, pro-masculinity, and metric of character, any s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 03:45 PM
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You can have that dumb stuff banned (woe is me, Chad doesn’t need to… Chad gets away with it, dancing monkey, cucked, etc). The thing I’m always confused about on this sub is that you can’t talk about the importance of looks, especially considering it’s one of the 4 fundamentals of Redpil (Looks, Wealth, Status, Game). Even in The Redpill Handbook, going to the gym and getting in shape is literally the first thing on the list of priorities a man should focus on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:05 AM
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There’s a gay man with an n count of 200 skewing the numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 11:37 PM
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I doubt it, maybe it’s just because I’m in a liberal city with little religious influence in the UK, but the vast vast majority of women I both know and have dated are the type to sleep with their guy within a few weeks. The only two women I know who didn’t do this was an Iranian woman and a ‘demisexual’ who only felt comfortable kissing someone after several dates. Literally everybody else one night stands or after a few weeks of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:23 PM
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Yes. It’s just a tooth and she’ll likely get it fixed in the near future, so now she’s a 9 without a missing tooth and you’re banging her
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:21 PM
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I think men and women in this thread have a very different definition of “safe option” What women hear: Loyal, honest, caring, cooks, cleans, has a good job, nice house, never worry about being cheated on, he’s safe ☺️ What men hear: She only wants his money, she wouldn’t have even cared about him if he didn’t have a good job and a nice house. She wouldn’t have even looked at him when they were 21 and in uni, but now that he actually has stuff she wants him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:19 PM
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Porn is cheating if your partner thinks porn is cheating. If you can’t both agree that porn isn’t cheating then the relationship won’t work. You have to think from the perspective of someone who doesn’t watch porn. If kissing another girl is considered cheating, then how is watching that same girl get fucked in the ass as you masturbate over her not?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 12:50 PM
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incredibly rare Come to the uk, they’re in the vast majority of men’s toilets at bars/clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:11 PM
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I mean, the post literally says you can only choose two, and I can point towards 1000’s of rich men who are ugly. Being rich doesn’t automatically mean they’ll put effort into their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:19 PM
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he looks less like a douche You basically did the meme but in the opposite direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:47 PM
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The hurricane being an inside job by the dems is the absolute dumbest thing I have ever heard. It’s obviously just bots trying to create engagement for the sake of engagement and people are falling for it hook line and sinker.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:56 PM
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That account Posts in Polyamory, met her ‘soulmate’, suddenly has low libedo after being with them, oof
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:33 PM
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That’s not a brag, that’s embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:30 PM
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There’s no strict definition of pink pill and there never has been, it’s only concrete definition is that it’s not blue pill and may reject blue pill. But it absolutely was created and adopted by femcels first way back during the incels/femcels subreddits era, and slowly spread out from there. People have their own different headcanons of what pink pill means but it essentially doesn’t mean anything beyond women wanted a pill for themselves and they like pink girly things so pink pill. If there …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:37 PM
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Kinda, it’s the femcels option.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 11:59 PM
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Pink Pill is opposition to the blue pill and against generic blue pill platitudes like “just be yourself” and “it’ll happen before you know it”, usually adopted and used by femcels. But beyond that has no strict definition and women who like the colour pink will use it because, pink.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:16 PM
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I don’t believe it does but I’ll regurgitate what I’ve heard others try to claim. The biggest one is the dismantling of gender norms and the patriarchy. This idea we have that men need to be the breadwinners of the relationship and men need to be strong tough one that carries the relationship. By dismantling the gender norms men will no longer feel the need to ‘man up’, can cry, and can be their true selves without judgement. In reality even feminists also want masculine men so none of that real…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:29 PM
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The hardest part of online dating is getting matches in the first place and setting up dates. None of his points really address this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:50 PM
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Access to sex and intimacy is better than no access to sex and intimacy. To many men a bad relationship is better than no relationship. So this these men, dating > relationship > single.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:32 PM
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Benefits include: Intimacy, sex, little to no commitment to her specifically. Hassles include: Monogamy, inability to date other people, being ‘serious’ with someone you don’t feel serious with, she’s more likely to fall in love which makes breaking up even harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:30 PM
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“you can’t have those things without hugs and kisses, so it’s hugs and kisses”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:05 PM
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The difference is while you are respected more now, you’re probably also not seen as nice as you were when you were younger because now you’ve got the balls to stand up for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:19 PM
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Honestly I’m not entirely sure what you’re trying to say. My point is you can’t be seen as kind while also be seen as assertive, confident, and authoritative at the same time. Either you’re kind and keep your opinions to yourself (and thus are seen as timid / yes man), or you’re confident, assertive, and let people know you disagree with their steadfast values, in which case you wouldn’t be seen as kind and gentle. How often do you see kind politicians, politicians have to be argumentative and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:16 PM
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“So you don’t care if 10 years olds are forced to give birth?!?” The kind, thoughtful, generous man: “I don’t want to engage in this conversation”. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:22 PM
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Greedy parasites? No. Superficial, materialistic, and hedonistic, yes. Not just in humans but the vast majority of animals on the planet. Sperm is plentiful, eggs and pregnancy are limited, so evolutionary and biologically speaking you’ll want to want to mate with a high value partner who has plenty of resources so your offspring has the highest chances of reaching to adulthood and reproduce themselves. The most common mating strategy in all of the animal kingdom
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:21 PM
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Because in some sense they’re both the same thing. If someone has a controversial world view completely contradictory to your own and you protest against it, how can you be seen as thoughtful, kind, and courteous to that person? Take abortion for example, two people debating about abortion to each other won’t likely ever see each other as kind and thoughtful, hell they may even see each other as evil. What would a kind, thoughtful, and courteous person say? They could probably only stay kind and…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:52 PM
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That didn’t really answer anything. So you didn’t know this guy, you talked to him without meeting him, you liked his personality, you met him, he asked you out, you started dating, then you found him cuter after dating. What has any of this got to do with OP’s topic about how nice guys can’t get girlfriends because of their bad personalities?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:07 PM
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OP is describing ‘nice guys’ who is met with “I don’t want to ruin our friendship” when asking women out. You’re talking about how your cute boyfriend asked you out, got into a relationship, and became cuter once you got to know his personality. I don’t understand what your argument is here? What do your boyfriend and OP’s nice guy have in common?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:36 PM
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You said he was cute and you started dating him before he started showing off his personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 10:34 AM
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Cheap rent
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:40 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:12 PM
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The other guy answered it perfectly and I agree, it’s hard to not feel ashamed of even liking women when you liking women is constantly making women uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:01 PM
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why are they too vocal about it online Because they can’t be in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 11:01 AM
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Going on dates requires a man to approach a woman and her reciprocating. The problems start when she has no attraction to him, becomes extremely uncomfortable with him being around, and needing to reject him or feeling the need to escape the situation to avoid rejecting him. Trying to compare this to a husband and wife getting ready for a date on tiktok is baffling.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 11:00 AM
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Anybody can make deep fake porn, especially the guys who aren’t approaching women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 10:50 AM
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global pandemic Intrinsically you would think this, but surprisingly that’s not the case. Out of all the years between 2015 - now, 2019 actually has the absolute lowest rates of dating/relationships/sex. Before Covid even happened. Naturally you would think Covid would have reduced those numbers even further, but when the study was done again in 2022, dating/relationships/sex actually increased despite Covid. It’s almost like people started overcompensating for the time they lost during Covid an…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:29 PM
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I mean, we have stats that support this, 90’s had some of the highest rates of sex/relationships. Before then young people were getting married, before then teenagers were getting married. In comparison, 2015-now has some of the lowest rates of dating/sex/relationships/marriage among young people. This isn’t just random people on the internet, this is a nationwide phenomenon supported by nationwide surveys. There’s no question that there’s a loneliness epidemic among young men, the only question…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:03 PM
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Time: 1 to 3 days a week with maybe some online gaming sessions/Netflix sessions in between. Cost: I’d say about 0.5x to 2x the cost of an average restaurant per week for date night. The cost of going the cinema, shopping, mini golf, bowling, go karting, arcades, restaurants, cafe’s, etc. Preferably you’re both paying half’s towards the date. Or if you’re low on cash then plan a cheaper date like the beach or picnic at the park.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:59 PM
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Your missing my point, a cognitive test will never assign me on those type of deep questions And my point is being able to answer abstract questions with abstract answers isn’t a sign of intelligence, so it makes no sense for something like that to be a part of an intelligence test. So your saying anyone can score above average in a IQ test ? C’mon bruh If English is someone’s second language, they’re going to completely fail on the vocabulary part of the IQ test simply because they haven’t full…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:30 AM
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Your opinions on abstract existential ideas on nihilism is, at least to me, not proof of intelligence, philosophy is so abstract that any answer can be both the correct and incorrect answer depending solely on who you talk to. Some of the dumbest people I know can go on long philosophical tangents because they took one too many magic mushrooms and saw god. There are different types of IQ test, not all of them rely on your knowledge of math and English, many rely on pattern recognition, memory ga…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:48 AM
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What is your definition of intelligence? To me, it’s a combination of the ability to do problem solving, adaptability, reasoning, creativity, and critical thinking. Cognitive tests are good at testing these sort of traits. Anecdotally speaking, I’ve yet to meet someone who I thought “They’re intelligent” and got an average score or less. Or the opposite, I’ve yet to meet someone who I thought “They’re dumb” and could get an average score or better. It seems perfectly accurate from my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:34 PM
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Either you think IQ is a measure of intelligence (and thus understand people with an IQ of 85 can’t do theoretical physics) or you don’t believe IQ is a measure of intelligence (and thus do believe people with IQ’s of 85 can easily become theoretical physicists). You can’t both say IQ isn’t a measure of intelligence and also say it’s a good prospect for careers that require intelligence, that makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:51 PM
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He looks like Jeff Bezos if Bezos was a poor guy. He needs to shave his head, grow or shave his beard, hit the gym, and wear better clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:38 AM
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Amen. It’s like those “Ew I’m not your therapist” posts you see women make sometimes. Not realising being a free therapist is literally just part of being a boyfriend for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:32 AM
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I feel like 5’3 is super short Isn’t the literally the average height for women around the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:08 PM
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Plus, I may have nothing to hide, but that doesn’t mean my messages to my friends and family should suddenly be seen by and critiqued by her. If I message a friend, especially if it’s about something personal, then it means i’m messaging my friend, it does not mean I want my friends girlfriend to be reading whatever I send him. I offer that same privacy to my friends who message me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:27 PM
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Just because the threshold shifts doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. Sometimes universities have a threshold of 30 people, sometimes it’s 200, just because it changes doesn’t mean it no longer matters or doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:42 PM
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Your mum has your dad on a leash. I’ve always went even with my partners. Sometimes she paid, sometimes I paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:40 PM
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Single doesn’t mean aren’t having sex. Which when you look into that stat, you’ll see over 65% of men in that age group are having sex. One night stands, FWB, people who are dating but aren’t ‘official’, etc. Put the two stats together, and at the 50% medium mark, the average man is having sex, some with their girlfriends, some with women who aren’t their girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:44 PM
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Yup, my only post on this subreddit was about exactly that. Even the average 18-25 year old man (who has the least amount of sex out of any age group) is still on average having sex on a monthly basis, likely with his girlfriend. If you’re genuinely struggling with women for years at a time, odds are you’re actually below average or you’re simply not hanging around women enough and asking them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:06 PM
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Insecurity mainly. They think you’ve rejected them so they lash out in anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:22 PM
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Average masculine looking man. In almost all situations women aren’t interested in your above average paying white collar job, that guy isn’t going to parties and pulling chicks because “Wow he works as a programmer that’s so hot”. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:11 PM
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I feel like I’m a bit autistic and even I can tell when a woman is flirting vs just being friendly. Is she literally just being friendly and continuing a normal conversation like a man would? Then she’s literally just being friendly. Is she laughing at your jokes that aren’t even funny, making excuses to touch you, making sexual innuendos, mentioning how she’s single, mentioning how she feels safe around you, picking you specifically to dance with, etc. Then she’s flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:56 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:50 PM
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Halo effect, your looks determine how people will view your personality to a substantial degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 07:36 PM
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Nah she’s right, based on all research we have, your attractiveness does not significantly change how many sexual partners you’ll have in life. If your question is why, it’s quite simple, most people, even attractive people, don’t live life trying to sleep with as many people as possible. Most people aren’t into one night stands with strangers. Most attractive people live a relatively normal life, they’ll exist, get into a few relationship, spend months/years in them, break up, get married, get …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:15 PM
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Not really, personality basically doesn’t matter, as can be seen by the tons and tons of awful/boring/bland people who get into relationships all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:13 PM
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Redpill is Game = Looks = Status = Wealth Blackpill is Looks >>>>> Status = Wealth > Game Redpill focuses far too much time and effort on game, push pull, shit tests, spinning plates, abundance mentality, etc. To the point they’ll convince themselves they can be a 4/10 whilst pulling 10/10’s by just being good at game. From my experience it’s all bullshit, and you’re far better off focusing on improving your life rather than learning how to pass a shit test. Women aren’t interested in you becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:34 PM
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Blackpill. You’re allowed to say it don’t worry. And I disagree, I think people quite often neglect looks and there’s a lot of things you can do to work on it and follow step by step advice to work on it. Go the gym, get muscular, eat well, dress well, regular haircuts, skincare routine, groom a beard, fix teeth, wear contact lenses, wear jewellery, etc. All quite actionable, all very possible. And in my personal anecdote, it changed my life for the better and I started getting dates easily afte…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:31 AM
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Looks without wealth or status will still work wonders, if you go to a house party and you only have 1 friend there, you’ll still be very successful talking to and attracting women just by being a 9/10 man. Compared to say, a completely average guy except he’s known for playing the guitar in his band and goes to local gigs in town. From my personal experience, the first guy will always outcompete the second guy in terms of attracting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:46 PM
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I don’t think “Competence or talent” is enough. I always saw Status more as popularity/standing. Simply being able to play the guitar and sing isn’t enough on its own to get laid, it’s specifically the popularity you obtain from that talent that’s the important part. I don’t like status because it’s seeming hard to define and even harder to actually work on. If you instead focused on working on your looks and wealth, your status will naturally increase alongside with them anyway, both of which a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:49 AM
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The incel community created the term gymcel. It’s a word used for incels who also go the gym. I called myself a gymcel years before TikTok came out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:58 AM
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How do you increase your status?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:41 AM
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What exactly are you succeeding at that they didn’t Health and wealth. What do you mean by already got theirs? 70% of the population is fat, they don’t “have theirs”. and are pulling you down even tho they got some I have no idea what you’re saying. that’s not what a crab bucket is Crab mentality: “a toxic dynamic where people try to prevent others from succeeding or improving themselves, out of envy, jealousy, or insecurity”. If someone tries to lose weight, and another obese person constantly …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:51 PM
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Alcoholic seeing someone quit alcohol. Obese person watching someone lose weight. Someone who joined and quit the gym watching someone make muscles. Or just losers in general watching someone try and succeed. Etc. It’s not just about getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:26 PM
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Redpill is Game > Looks = Wealth = Status. Blackpill is Looks >>>>>> Wealth = Status = Game
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:20 PM
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The crabs in this scenario are women, married men, men who regularly get laid, family members, etc. they’re not blackpillers. And why you will continue to fail. I’m not failing at all, you asked for “what pushback” and I’m just telling you that there are plenty of people out there who are “pushing back”. I don’t care for their opinions at all. I’m doing what I’m doing and succeeding at it, I completely ignore their moans.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:18 PM
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Yup, I’ve always said that love requires both emotional and physical attraction. You have to continue putting in effort into your appearance if you want the relationship to continue succeeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:26 PM
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I’m going to be honest here, there is a lot of pushback. Not specifically related to “Looksmaxxing”, but self improvement in general. I call it the crab in the bucket mentality. You stop drinking alcohol? You’ll have plenty of people question it and constantly ask you “Do you want some beer?” years after you’ve quit. You lose weight? You’ll have people saying it’s unhealthy to go so low in calories (I’m on 1,700 calories chill) and how people who go on diets get headaches and get sick. Just the …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:23 PM
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Go the gym, get muscular, eat well, dress well, regular haircuts, skincare routine, groom a beard, fix teeth, wear contact lenses, wear jewellery, etc. Make yourself as physically attractive as you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:21 AM
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I'm genuinely surprised you're asking this, this seems to be common knowledge among all men at this point. Example 1 Example 2 Example 3 Here's about 600 comments from men explaining how and why their sexuality has been seen as bad or horrible throughout their lives. Even I personally avoided the topic of dating entirely to everybody except close friends out of fear of being shunned for simply finding a girl attractive. That kinda stuff doesn't just come from no where just because we're shy or h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:55 PM
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You’re either lying, very skinny, or blessed with god tier genetics. I’m benching 1.5x my bodyweight and my abs didn’t appear defined until after I hit 13% body fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:42 PM
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Well, ya. I know people say abs are made in the kitchen, but it assumes you’ve also done quite a bit of weightlifting already and have some muscle. If you never do weight lifting then you’ll have no abs to show off even if you have a low body fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:39 PM
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Keep in mind, 70% of women in the US are overweight/obese. Even if we assume “dad bods” are the most attractive, who is answering those questions? Other overweight/obese women. There are numerous reasons why an obese women wouldn’t want a man with a six pack. This is the one thing all of these studies seem to miss, and I wish there was a study that kept a record of what type of women were most likely to vote for what type of body. Personally, I would rather know what kind of body other healthy w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:32 PM
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Why is he called leader of incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:03 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:53 PM
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If it’s actually leather (and not ‘genuine leather’) then it’ll age just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:32 PM
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No, but I can assume she’s reacting to random tiktok videos. See, the problem here is that she’s using tiktok.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:30 PM
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I’ve been around incel communities since the first subreddit. I’ve never heard of him. Why is a dude who has been married twice called “leader of incels”?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:28 PM
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Why do women not want to date men who have slept with other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 04:53 PM
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Interesting that you avoided answering my question. Why do women not want to date men who have slept with other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 01:03 AM
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I answered the question, it’s homophobia because it’s not a preference, it’s a requirement, it’s a dealbreaker, it’s something you would literally ruin your entire relationship over because of it. I prefer big boobs, that doesn’t mean I would reject a small boobed woman, I wouldn’t destroy an entire relationship if the woman I loved got a boob reduction. Let me ask you this, why do these women not want to date men who have once in the past been with other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:48 PM
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It’s not a preference if it’s a dealbreaker, it’s a requirement. Their requirement is that their boyfriend must not have ever done stuff with another guy at any point in the past, ever. The fact he had once been with a man before is enough to completely end their relationship. How is this not homophobia?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:13 PM
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Majority of women will avoid men who’ve slept with other men. Simple fact is most women are homophobic to some extent and hate the idea of their man being either another man or trans in this instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:11 PM
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Losing weight is 99% diet and 1% exercise, if your goal right now is just to lose weight, lets not bombard you with doing several things at once and just focus on the one thing, fixing your diet. The exercise can come later when you've got more energy and feel comfortable dieting all the time. Never buy snacks, if you're feeling snackish pick up some fruit, replace all drinks with water, if you dislike water then try starting off with flavoured water (no sugar). It'll take 100's of days to drop …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 11:10 AM
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Assuming USA Standards: Four pictures of the average woman Four pictures of the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:40 AM
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I know plenty of bland average men that have girlfriends, 100% of all “Very Ugly” guys I know are single. I highly disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:46 AM
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Very interesting, I had no idea the ethnicity played a factor at all. I'm middle eastern so these are my results <image> But if I put White, suddenly the range changes to 25. I wonder why...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:23 PM
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I live in the UK, if I Google “BMI Calculator”, the first link that pops up is from the NHS website, our publicly funded healthcare system in the UK, it’s the official body in the country that decides what’s what in terms of your health. It claims healthy weight is between 18.5 - 23. I am classed as overweight in my country by my countries healthcare system. No, I am not “saying crap”. I’m following the guidelines set forth by my countries healthcare system.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:15 PM
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Yup, I’m just over 23 BMI myself but I have 12% bf, a calculator would say I’m overweight. BMI is not accurate if you’ve packed on muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:49 PM
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Probably like 85ish, give or take 5 years. Unless she’s super rich, then she still has value.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:31 AM
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The quote wasn’t “no respect”, it was “women don’t truly respect”. Which is a different statement. If you’re a man and you go on dates with women, and you tell them you work minimum wage as a janitor. They will lose respect for you, it’s as simple as that. They may still respect you as a person and still finish the date as a courtesy, but most women will not truly respect you as they would have if you told them you were working a better higher paying job like scientist, lawyer, manager, etc. I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:51 PM
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You’re comparing an actual thing that matters (job and salary) to very minor immutable genetic traits. Not the same thing. It’s more like saying I respect and would prefer a woman more if she was a microbiologist over a woman who’s just a waitress.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:30 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:22 AM
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Just wanted to point out, she said males and women in the same sentence. And not a single person in this entire thread has either noticed or cared about it. It looks like she purposely written her title that way to annoy men, yet literally nobody cared. The whole “noooo you can’t say females!!” thing has always been dumb, and will continue to be dumb, then you have someone trying the same thing against men and getting 0 reaction. Funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:01 AM
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You’re comparing ‘women in general’ to your own personal isolated anecdotal perspective. Most women in general greatly prefer their man to make more money than them. That does not mean all women think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:50 AM
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The “Looks are subjective” people will ignore this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:32 PM
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Damn, good point, I was wrong, we should fight the bully and show how macho we are 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 10:11 PM
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When making a new comment there’s an image button to insert an image. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:13 PM
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Doesn't matter, at least you're alive, and that's infinitely more important than the opinion of some random woman on some random date.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:02 PM
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I’m muscular, I can bench 1.5x my body weight, I’ve trained in MMA. It really doesn’t matter how much I train and how much I can defend myself, if some insane person wants to start random fights in public then all it takes is for him to pull a knife and I’m dead. That’s it, dead. No amount of benching or MMA training can help me fight against a man with a knife. No. You do not engage in a fight with these people. That’s how you defend yourself, by not trying to protect your ego and bE tHe AlPhA …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:30 PM
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Men are polyamorous, women are hypergamous. Men cheat more than women. Like the other top two comments have mentioned, jocks regularly having 2-3 women on the go, “are we dating the same guy” Facebook groups are popular among women. What stats do you have to show that the opposite is in fact true, that women date more men than men date more women? Women have orbiters, sure, but they’re not dating those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:08 PM
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Women date older men. So men in their 30’s are dating women in their 20’s which leaves young 20 year old men single. Women are attracted to things typically only older men have, house to themselves, car, spending money, etc. Women believe they’re dating someone when the man thinks they’re just casual. So a woman will claim she’s in a relationship while the guy they’re ‘dating’ will say they’re single. There are more instances of men dating multiple women than women dating multiple men which skew…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:07 AM
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Eeh, I think of love like colours. You could be born in a black and white room, and be given black and white books, and told to study a phenomenon called colour. You read all about colour, it’s a wavelength of light that can be absorbed and reflected by objects, humans use the cones in their eyes to differentiate between the colours of light that enter their eyes. You could spend years studying everywhere there is to ever know about colour. But you were born into a black and white room. Despite …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:53 PM
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What do you call participating in society? My definition is someone who works and pays taxes and/or is raising the next generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:06 PM
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According to a 2023 PurplePillDebate demographic poll. 95% of people here have at least some college experience and and 72% have at least 1 degree. Only 2.5% have declared themselves as ‘Underclass/in poverty’ which means 97.5% are working class or higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:01 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:33 PM
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This is normal behaviour for edgy teenaged boys in a discord group. Like the CompetitiveTennis said, the “The group chat got leaked” jokes are funny for a reason, because it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:17 PM
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Ya I pretty much agree. Love comes down to sexual attraction, emotional attraction, shared values, plans together for the far future, as well as a large amount of time spent together. If you want all of this but without the sexual attraction, you’re going to struggle. How often do you adults meeting new people then within a few years they’re spending most of their time together and planning trips abroad that isn’t their partner? Not often at all, personally I have never witnessed this. Most FwB …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:14 PM
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How do you explain the differences between ‘Friends with Benefits’ and ‘Love’?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:44 PM
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What is “falling in love” in your mind? People fall in love all the time even without the sex. Two people can be best friends and not want a sexual relationship with each other. You can have two best friends start a friends with benefits and not want to enter a relationship with each other. You can have two people who hate each other but want to have a one night stand. You can have one night stands with someone without even knowing their name. You can have people who seemingly have little in com…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:44 PM
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Do you only see romantic relationships as normal friendships that also involves sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 12:37 PM
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You quoted an abstract, not the actual data. The actual data included in the study itself doesn’t tell us anything about how married couples who hate each other raise better children than divorced couples. Not to mention this quote although children are at increased risk of adverse outcomes following family breakdown and that negative outcomes can persist into adulthood, the difference between children from intact and non-intact families is a small one, and the majority of children will not be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:15 PM
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Statistically speaking if you evenly spread the number of likes the small amount of women give out to the large amount of men, each men should still be receiving quite a handful of likes each. You have 300 women each giving out 100 likes to 700 men, that’s still 42 likes per day for each man. We can make it more extreme, 100 women giving out 100 likes each to 900 men, that’s still 11 likes a day. It doesn’t matter how you change the numbers, even if women only give out 10 likes a day, the averag…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:53 AM
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That you’re attractive but the person you’re attracted to hasn’t stated that herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:10 PM
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I never said she wasn’t overweight, just a good sexy figure. Some people are lucky that their fat is distributed in all the right places.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:06 PM
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Yup, I should have mentioned, never once have I gotten an actual reply from the people I replied to. Only comments from other people who agree with me. The first time I posted it I didn’t include the sources, it was the only time someone I replied to actually replied to me and it was “source”, I gave them the sources and that was that, they never replied after that. You’re right, the people saying these things literally don’t care about reality, they just want to post feel good stuff and feel go…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:15 PM
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Like they say, having big tiddies while obese is like being in a fast car because it’s falling off a cliff. She’s got a good figure and big tiddies. A rare combination worthy of being an Instagram model.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:10 PM
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I haven’t change goalposts, you changed the topic which completely changes the context of what I posted. The context is “Fat women think they’re more attractive than fat men” “If more men want to fuck fat women than women fuck fat men then they’re right”. I wasn’t saying “men don’t date fat women”, I was talking about specifically the large subgroup of men who do sleep with fat women but don’t date them, I was using these guys as evidence that just because someone fucks a woman and just because …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:04 PM
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When redditors say something like “Being short only effects you if you allow it too” or “I’m 5’4 and being short has never effected me”, I have a copy/paste ready of all the red pills about how height effects every aspect of your life with the sources included (CEO heights, increased suicide risk, lower salary, hired less, halo effect, etc), then compare it to people having a different skin color. Both you have no control over, both are genetic, both effect how people treat you. Yet specifically…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:22 PM
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Good metaphor but I personally disagree. It works for sports because there are hard rules involved that can be exploited. The game is purposely and intelligently designed in such a way that multiple strategies can exist simultaneously. You can knockout someone in the first round or hug them for 12 rounds straight and win via points. If you changed the rules then suddenly those strategies no longer work. Dating is a sandbox with almost no rules, you’re free to approach it in whichever way you lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:32 AM
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We’re talking about fucking, not marriage. Plus the men these fat women marry tend to be fat themselves so I’m not sure what your point is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:08 AM
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How did you type this and not see the irony. Men see women as inanimate objects to fuck. Not as people to date. Hence why they’ll sleep with fat women and not date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:18 PM
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It’s pointing out the flaw with all of the ‘game’ and ‘strategy’ people post. If it’s not good enough to work for an ugly person, then it’s probably not that good of a strategy to begin with. If you can give the advice to an ugly person and it works, it’s good advice, if for some reason your advice doesn’t work because the person doing it has an ugly face and short height, then it means that advice probably isn’t all that useful to average people either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:16 PM
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“WeLl AcTuAlLY I uSEd tHe SeArCh BaR 🤓” Bro, you’re making yourself look worse, just stop. The issue wasn’t how you found the comment, it’s that you bothered to copy/paste a link to something someone said from over half a year ago that’s practically irrelevant to the topic at hand, and for what, so you can force a cool ‘gotcha’ moment that doesn’t exist? Lets use a different example “Can people just say they don’t like the movie and move on?” “Alright, I don’t like the movie, happy?” “Well actua…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:37 PM
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Blue pill man searching through 200+ days worth of a guy’s comment history to find something incriminating. Just to find a comment that basically says “childless men shouldn’t date single mums”. Man, you can’t make stuff like this up 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:29 PM
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If you specifically go out of your way to watch videos of men hating on single mums, then that’s exactly the kind of videos you’re going to find. The vast vast majority of people are not bullying and berating single mums online. The same logic can be applied to literally any other topic in existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:21 PM
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I’ve never even read the books or watched the series. But I do really like the quote.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:03 PM
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It’s like that quote “Any man who must say “I am the King” is no true king”. You either are a badass alpha, or you have to constantly try to convince people you are indeed a badass alpha by explicitly stating it multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 11:20 AM
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What are you going on about? It’s basic reproduction strategy which 95% of all animals on the planet follow. https://youtu.be/ktkr76jzJis?si=xNmANTEGmnHDbA76
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 02:35 AM
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Men want harems, men do not want women who’ve been part of many other people’s harems. These two things do not contradict each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 02:26 AM
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The pills and their effects on society have been fun to watch, we’re raising an entire generation on mewing and looksmaxxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:20 PM
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Vote for the next UK Prime Minister.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:08 PM
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You can make a man nut by doing nothing but a handjob, doesn’t mean he wouldn’t greatly prefer a blowjob or sex instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:28 PM
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Best way to avoid being seen as ‘unmanly’ when defending your liberal views is to, quite simply and honestly, don’t be an unmanly person. When you’re a high test bearded man packed with muscles, dress nicely and got your life together, when you look like a man who has their shit together, your views hold actual weight. If you’re an obese man child with no muscles who wears graphic t-shirts then your views will be seen as unmanly and can be ignored. I’m liberal myself and I don’t hide that fact, …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:28 PM
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They’re just making sure you haven’t changed your mind, sounds like they don’t want you feeling left out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:18 PM
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What they mean to say is “Don’t judge me for having a high body count” without specifically outing themselves as someone with a high body count. Meanwhile people who have never had sex are gross and weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:17 PM
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How often do you actually hang out with average women at bars? They get no where near the amount of attention you’re imagining. An average looking well dressed pick up artist would pull far more women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:09 PM
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Some random YouTuber who’s famous for playing video games made a short about dating which basically boiled down to “you don’t need that macho man alpha bullshit, all you need to do is do the stuff you love and you’ll find her, and if you don’t then it’s because you’re desperate and they don’t like desperate”. This is a dude who’s attractive, talented, and financially successful, pretending to be an expert on dating. Half the comments where like “Yo he just destroyed Andrew tate” and the other ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:48 AM
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I doubt it but okay whatever you say 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 03:06 PM
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Nah 3) Damaged traumatised people are more likely to be unhealthy because of mental health issues. This should be obvious.
/r/BlackPillScience11/06/24 11:39 AM
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Jesus Christ what a thing to say to someone.
/r/BlackPillScience11/06/24 11:36 AM
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Close relatives are the ones who are the most likely to molest them, dad, uncles, granddads. Your idea of blaming fatherless homes where she invited strange men into the house isn’t accurate to what actually happens in real life.
/r/BlackPillScience11/06/24 11:33 AM
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Yup, I don’t know any rapists or murderers, I literally don’t understand what they want me to do about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:20 AM
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Would you rather be stuck in a car with a woman driving it or a bear driving it? If you got offended by this question then it means you’re the problem, you should learn to drive better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:18 AM
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This is a hypothetical situation where there’s literally no difference between these two besides their 3 inch height difference. In which case yes the taller guy has the advantage. Of course real life situations is different and introduces a million other variables that play into attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:30 PM
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Basically statistics, if you were betting on a horse to win a race would you choose the small slow one or the big fast one? If the 5’10 dude became violent then the 6’1 dude has an advantage. If the 6’1 dude became violent then the 5’10 dude is at a disadvantage. Statistically speaking, the 6’1 guy is clearly the winner and will give you a higher chance to produce an offspring that’ll survive into adulthood. Basic mating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:22 PM
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I can’t tell if they’re all just roleplaying or they genuinely believe they’re casting spells with actual magical properties.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:19 PM
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I wouldn’t say anything because she would be delusional and would have plenty of people asking what is wrong with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:33 PM
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I’ve lost count of the amount of men who claim “I prefer women with no makeup” just to show a picture of a women with makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:32 PM
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When they say they don’t like muscular men, they’re thinking of Dwayne ‘The Rock’ Johnson. When they say they like men with a bit of muscle but not too much, they’re thinking of Chris Hemsworth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:31 PM
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This, my experience has been the complete opposite. The older the woman the more likely she’ll hate porn and even call him a pervert. The younger the woman the more likely she herself watches porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:59 AM
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That’s so broad, then the answer would be yes, most men like healthy attractive feminine women, especially in countries where most women are overweight or obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:02 AM
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I still want to date cute women obviously, just not… Barbie. When I think barbie, I think fake, heavy makeup, obsessed with shopping and fashion, probably gotten plastic surgery, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 08:33 PM
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Bro I don’t even want barbie.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:52 PM
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Don’t be quirky. Be on time. Have a clean living space. How are any of these impossible standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:18 PM
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Absolutely, but for different reasons. Men find most women attractive and will date them despite not really liking them as a person, often just for sex. Women find most men unattractive, and will date them for a variety of other reasons despite not really liking them sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:20 PM
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She was hot, he also had a kid of his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:43 AM
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She was in a relationship with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:27 AM
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Bruh, nuclear family is a type of relationship that only ever existed specifically in USA after WW1, and practically disappeared a few generations later. To claim it’s the foundation of a successful society is ludicrous when the concept couldn’t even survive for more than 50 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:58 AM
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Exists in both US and UK. Foreigners are doing it, immigrants are doing it, people in their own country are doing it. It’s been said more than enough times here that most women aren’t attracted to most men, and usually settle for them because of other means, wether it’s out of insecurity/fear of being alone, emotional or financial stability, to help raise her kids, etc. I’ve lost count of the amount of conversations I’ve had with women where she talks about past boyfriends and mentioned she neve…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:29 PM
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Our company uses teams and I just react to the message with a 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:30 PM
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I’m sure kicking a 13 year old boy out the house for something his dad is at fault for just before Christmas will have no unforeseeable consequences on their relationship /s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:44 PM
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25% tip every month + service charges on-top of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:28 PM
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I don’t really get ‘promoted’, I just get a payrise that’s bigger than inflation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:51 AM
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Lmao what? How dare people have the audacity to want things like… food, and a place to live. Yes, people are going to have an issue when their rent is half of their paycheck and food is another 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:45 AM
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Hey, you asked, I answered.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:55 PM
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True, I was too hasty with that answer. Somewhere between 48% to 59% of women are solely responsible for their household shopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:37 PM
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I’m pickier than most women. This is what most women say.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:30 PM
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6 days 21 hours ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:27 PM
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Yup, in other words, 48% of women are solely responsible for the household shopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:24 PM
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She’s trying to say these men are getting women not because they’re toxic, but because they’re attractive. You however have just tunnel visioned on the toxic part, believing that if you become toxic, you can get women too. When that’s not the case. All being toxic will do for you is make people hate you more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:55 AM
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Well that makes sense, if your work is to literally have sex, you’re going to be tired of having sex outside of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:00 PM
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Yup, we live in 2023 now and have updated data after the pandemic that shows people are having more sex these days. The 2018 data is outdated yet people will still hyper focus on it to support their world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:58 PM
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Majority of men don’t care if their female partner is bi. Majority of women will flat out refuse to date a bisexual man however. “Especially if you’re a man dating a woman” because that’s statistically likely where the issue will exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:19 PM
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Typical reddit reply: “I dislike this thing my partner does” “Wow you absolute hate them you should just split up already, toxic relationship!”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:12 PM
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Please find a different study without the name Paul Dolan in it. His study has been debunked for many years now and yet was the catalyst for the myth that single women are happier. He misunderstood the survey he did his research on. No other study done on the topic has ever came to the same conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 09:50 AM
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As long as the study is good then where it comes from doesn’t really matter. There has to be somebody, somewhere who is paying money to get these types of studies done, so it makes sense a organisation based around families is going to pay for something like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 09:46 AM
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This seems… off. You’re basically saying men are miserable at restaurants? Like we’re not even talking about hobbies anymore, you’re literally just saying you go to restaurants and see men are miserable. I don’t really know how to reply to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:57 PM
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Women are rarely single for long periods of time unless they specifically made the choice to be single and are avoiding relationships. If a woman decides she wants a relationship, she can usually find one. Whereas men can be single for long periods of time despite wanting to be in a relationship the entire time, and because they’re the men they have to put themselves out there while constantly being hit with rejection after rejection. If a woman wants a relationship but can’t find any for long p…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:21 PM
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You listed quite a lot of female dominated activities and acting surprised why men aren’t participating in them. Men are going to their own male dominated hobbies, pool/snooker, gym (weight lifting), nerdy hobbies like tabletops war gaming, card games, e-sport café’s, fishing, going to bars to watch sports with the boys, cycling, chess, etc. They have hobbies, it’s likely they just don’t talk about them with you because they assume you wouldn’t be interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:14 PM
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Destiny: 5’8, looks like a nerd, yet is a millionaire with status. New guy: Towers over Melina, attractive, yet jobless and unknown. Redpill wrong yet again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:49 PM
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Why thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:16 PM
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/r/tinytits is one of the biggest porn subreddits. Men’s preference for boob size is negligible in comparison to height preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:07 PM
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Eeh, I wouldn’t straight up call them fat, they’re overweight for sure. I personally save the word fat for when their waist is equal to or bigger than their hips. Plus, these clearly don’t exercise, you could easily be healthy at a BMI of 26 if you exercise and were built with muscle, I can find some examples if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:29 AM
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This is 5'4 and 150 pounds, or BMI of 26. 5'3.5 and 152 pounds, BMI 26
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:12 AM
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Redpill has always been Looks, Wealth, Status, and Game. Looks has always and will forever continue to be a big part of Redpill. You are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:53 PM
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Redpill = Looks, Wealth, Status, Game. It has always been Looks, Wealth, Status, and Game. It has never not been that. Where did you get that info from?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:50 PM
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Yes. If anything attractive men are more privileged than attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:22 PM
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Everybody is kinder to attractive people regardless of motivations. Men are simply more attracted to attractive women, so those women get treated better, even if the men have no intentions of trying to sleep with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:05 PM
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A woman who looks perfectly normal under some clothes but has a slightly bigger belly than expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:40 PM
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Woman: “Our vagina’s don’t increase in size based on the amount of men we’ve slept with”. Man LARPing: “Actually I’m a woman and I can confirm my vagina increased in size the more men I slept with, you can’t deny my experience otherwise you’ll get banned”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:06 PM
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Nah, I’ve never felt like I needed her specifically. Sure, this sounds nice. Absolutely not, I want to feel like her best friend, someone I can just chat shit to and enjoy time together, I never want to feel like I need to ‘fight’ to keep the relationship together. I don’t know what this means Just text back when you feel like, stop playing games. Nope, nope, nope, this is fucking stupid. Dumbest shit I’ve ever read.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:43 PM
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Helped me, I don’t struggle with women anymore. Also 5’7.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:38 AM
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just take a look around There’s plenty of reasons why women would date a man besides being genuinely attracted to him. This is where a lot of “Alpha fucks, Beta Bucks” comes from. Women will regularly settle with men they aren’t attracted to. Test scores to get into academic programs I don’t understand the metaphor. Test scores are exactly what these programs look at to decide wether or not they should accept a student. What do you mean? Beyoncé and JayZ Being the #1 thing to look for does not m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:28 AM
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The threshold for social skills is much lower than the threshold for looks. Yes if he just jumped at women’s feet and immediately sniffed them then of course women wouldn’t like it, but this is the equivalent of a person looking like an actual goblin.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:19 AM
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If literally nothing I do or can do matters until I become attractive, then looks is #1. If looks is the primary thing women look for before any other aspects, then looks is #1. It literally comes first above all others.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:01 PM
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I’m going to say I have a pretty good chance, morbillion here I come.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:14 PM
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It’s pseudoscience because they try to bullshit it as something that has some scientific backing when it doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:04 PM
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Second paragraph is exactly what I’ve noticed. I know people who bought their homes despite only working as a cashier so they’re definitely doing just fine. The people who went to university and got degrees are only making 3x their salary at the absolute maximum, most of the time just 2x.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:31 PM
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I’m a software engineer and the most math intensive things I’ve done is tons of complex algebra, trigonometry, and different types of sorting algorithms. Used vectors quite a bit too. I only did higher maths in high school, never done college maths and I’ve gotten by just fine. You should be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:27 PM
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UK, average $100k job in America is closer to $60k over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:03 PM
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I usually like to make fun of America, but if there’s one thing I’m jealous off, it’s how well they pay their STEM workers. Nobody I know is making triple digits worth of $ despite a ton of them working in STEM jobs, programmers, software engineers, mechanical engineers, architects, accountants, veterinarians, etc. Yet the average salary for most of them in USA is triple digits or very close to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:23 PM
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If every woman stops talking to you then yes you’re likely the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:51 PM
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I’m doubling up with the other guy. 5’7 Arab guy here who went from skinny to muscular, it made a fucking huge difference. Night and day. I literally went from a forever alone virgin to getting laid multiple times. Women like and are attracted to strong men. Especially when they’re constantly surrounded by overweight flabby men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:35 AM
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They told me they hooked up with me because I was hot Women tell men they sleep with why they slept with them. That doesn’t really help the virgin guys who are always getting rejected. It’s considered a ‘secret’ because women usually don’t tell these unattractive men why they don’t like them, they tell them they’re not looking for a relationship or they prefer to be friends as to avoid any backlash or negative feedback. These dudes grow up hearing all sorts of different excuses, but women will n…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:27 AM
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Unfathomably based glowup. Reminds me of myself. Daily reminder that if you’re struggling with women, you just need to be more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:04 AM
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Get cheated on. That way I can keep my dignity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:12 PM
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Netflix/Disney+ Most people have no idea how to actually find those websites unless someone has explicitly gave them a link to it. Even then it’s full of ads so you also need to teach them how to download the right ad blocker extension too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:17 PM
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The opposite, the women I’ve been with were thrilled to hear about how they could just go to a single website and watch any movie/Tv show within seconds completely for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:04 PM
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Sample bias: The people who participate in a subreddit dedicated to discussing what works and what doesn’t in dating and heavily promotes self improvement are going to be people who participate in self improvement and stay healthy. Same with class. Only 38% of the population middle class or higher, compared to this survey which indicates 62% of the people here claim to be middle class or higher. So it’s skewed towards richer people in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:59 PM
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Redpilled men are falling, going from 15.2% to 11.9% over 2 years. Blackpilled people now account for almost 1/4th of the entire subreddit. Up from 17.7% in 2021. There’s twice as many blackpillers here now as there are redpillers. Blackpillers get banned from this place regularly and it’s literally against the rules to talk about it, yet regardless of that, the amount of people identifying as blackpilled has only steadily increased. It’s not like they’re all virgin losers either, the stats show…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:23 PM
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I’ve had the complete opposite experience, multiple straight up told me what they like, multiple told me what they like after I asked them how they like it. I’ve never struggled to make them orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:41 AM
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Woe has been has been there for 4+ years now, very old rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:10 AM
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That’s like 70% of all women my man. It’s the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 02:57 PM
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If you’re interested enough to spend a significant amount of your time here to the point of answering demographic surveys for the place, it’s probably because you subscribe to the pill theories in some form, even if you yourself don’t follow a specific pill, you respect them enough to debate with people who do. Plus, the pills are varied enough that anyone can fit into them. If you like the Redpill then you’re Redpill, if you don’t then you’re bluepill, if you kinda like it then you’re purple pi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 10:00 AM
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I get 1000x more attention with the six pack than I ever did having skinny noodle arms.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:12 PM
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No, otherwise just dirty dancing with someone would count when it clearly doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:16 AM
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/r/asexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:34 AM
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Bro, please stop making theories about sexualities you’ve never experienced before. They like men because they were born straight. They don’t like sex because they lack the libido necessary to want to fuck. These two things are not as interlinked as you believe they aren’t If I lose my libido for a few days because I was sick, I still find women and only women attractive, regardless of the fact I have no sex drive necessary to want to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:58 PM
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Which is why she’s asking for advice and why people are suggesting she should advertise the fact she’s asexual and looking for someone else who’s asexual. Chill the fuck out man, she’s not wasting anybody’s time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:11 PM
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So if your girlfriend said that all future sex is off the table for whatever reason, your love would persist through the years? Of course not, but not my point, sex isn’t the defining difference between someone you simply like and someone you love. That’s my point. She could’ve said plenty of things besides sex and the love would still fade, no more hugs, she’ll never pay a penny towards a date again, she’ll never cook food again, she refuses to get a job, she’ll never clean again, etc. Sex is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:59 PM
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This is going to get removed for Rule 7, but I’ll share my experience, arab man here. Do women have something against Arab men We’ve been delt a bad hand, we’ve been seen as terrorists, we’ve had constant wars against the west since before we were born, women assume we probably have poor view of them and are weary of that. I’ve lost count of the amount of people who’ve assumed I’m Muslim when I tell people where my family’s from. East Asian countries have had a better rep recently, thanks to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:03 PM
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There’s plenty of reasons why someone would want to be your partner but not your friend. They don’t want to juggle another friendship, they find it hard to be friends with someone they really like, etc. It’s not black and white. Attractiveness and genitals are important Of course, but that doesn’t mean other parts of you aren’t important too like your personality and values.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:39 AM
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You just did it again. If a man find you interesting and attractive and asks you out on a date, that does not mean he only sees you as walking genitals.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:12 AM
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Both, kinda. They want to spin plates until they eventually meet the perfect woman, then they’ll ditch all the other women and have a traditional monogamous relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:55 AM
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I fully accept that I’m privileged in some aspects, that didn’t make the loneliness any easier to bear. Being single was literally the worst thing about my life. Beyond that I had a great life, great job, good family/friends, great health, bought my own house/car, etc. I really didn’t have any other major issues in my life beyond just being an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:52 AM
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What doom and gloom?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:41 PM
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Only if they’re young like 18-24, otherwise no.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:23 PM
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Don’t quit sports and get a job. Unless you mean quit being a professional athlete, in which case keep trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:19 PM
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Women are a lot more forgiving Isn’t the stats something like 70% of women won’t date a man who’s slept with another man? I don’t think they’re as forgiving as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:34 PM
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I’m not in love with my best friends. If I’m not horny for a few days and don’t want sex, I’ll still be in love with my girlfriend. At the same time, I can fuck and cuddle women who I’m friends with while not falling in love with them. There is a difference, and sex is not that difference. My emotions and feelings for my girlfriend go far deeper than my emotions and feelings for my best friends or even female friends who I’ve slept with in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:22 PM
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Why do you need a man Strong biological urges. Asexual people still feel love, regardless of wether they’re able to be horny or not. She wants to be in love with a man because she still has those urges to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 02:59 PM
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I hang out around a lot of nerdy communities, the women tend to not drink much alcohol yet are some of the most sexual people I’ve ever met.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 02:53 PM
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Just in your head. If you’ve lost count then it’s probably too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 02:51 PM
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Yes they count.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 02:50 PM
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TIL that all women have the exact same vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:42 AM
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In databases we call this a many to many relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:46 PM
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I’m fine when healthy Incels admit they want someone similar to their own weight or even slightly above it but can’t find anyone. But to straight up try to claim you cannot date morbidly obese women is insane. Even during my incel days I’m pretty sure I could hit that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:43 PM
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Vast majority = the greatest part of something to the point the alternative is almost irrelevant. Vast vast majority = an exaggerated version of the above. Reality = Very misogynistic men are happily walking around dating women like it’s nothing. Either all of these men are all dating the vast vast minority of women who don’t care about the sexism, or she’s wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:27 PM
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“Women will date misogynistic men” does not mean “Where have all the good women gone”, it doesn’t even mean “Women like arseholes!”. Women will date misogynistic men, women will also date kind caring men, both of these are true at the same time. My point is against TSquared’s comment. As far as I or many men here have witnessed, a man being misogynistic has no significant effect on their ability to find and date women despite TSquared’s claims that the “vast vast majority” of women don’t want th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:57 PM
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”Women don’t like those men” ”I’ve seen thousands of women go for those men” ”Well they were just dysfunctional/low self esteem/low quality/broken/mentally ill/etc” Seen this same conversation 100 times on here. Simple fact is these women are not dysfunctional people, they’re just normal mundane average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:28 PM
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Physically attractive? They can be. Would I date one? No.
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 12:51 PM
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This is a backwards way of looking at things If a guy is nice and is rewarded for it, he’ll continue being nice. Thus everyone just sees he’s genuinely nice. If a guy is nice and is punished for it, bullied, used, etc and his life is suffering as a result, he will become resentful for it, but then you just say “He’s not nice then he’s bitter and angry!”. The only difference between the first and second guy is how they were treated in life. The first guy isn’t some entirely different breed of nic…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:51 AM
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What is your perception of misogyny that these guys exhibit. Some quotes in the group chat, “women are so fucking stupid fr”, “Women are barely human”, “women are hard to work with”, “Mike still trusts women hahahaha”, “Women age like absolute dogshit”, “Women are actual dogs that ruin everything they touch”. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:11 AM
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The only time they’ll lose all interest over the most minor thing is when they weren’t all that interested in the first place. If a woman is truly interested in a guy, she’ll put up with straight up red flags, nevermind minor missteps. This has been acknowledged and expressed by a large number of men The ‘large number of men’ is the 80% of men who are seen as unattractive. Every now and then they will manage to attract some random women who seemingly ends up dropping them over some minor insigni…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:51 PM
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The main ‘problem’ (if you can call it that) with the “men overrate themselves” studies is that it’s completely dependant on what other people vote them as, it is not dependant on how they’re compared to other people as a whole. Women rate 80% of men as below average. Which inevitably means a perfectly normal average man who believes himself to be a perfectly normal average 5/10 man is actually seen as a 3/10 man instead. Thus he fits the definition of “Overrated himself”. A perfectly healthy, f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:49 PM
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What are you basing that off? What stats show relationships and dating in England are better than other countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:19 PM
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If only 1% of the male population approach women, and women walk past 100 men every day, that’s still 1 man approaching her every day despite the fact 99% of men don’t approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:34 AM
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Some of the most misogynistic men I know were the type of men who had an easy time time dating and sleeping with women. Their misogyny did not deter the woman from wanting to date them. I can assure you, there are countless countless examples of women knowingly dating a misogynistic person and not caring about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:31 AM
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Sound, I’ll happily bet £100 on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:51 PM
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If someone is chooses to abstain, there is no time limit involved, they are automatically celibate or vocel until further notice. In the same way someone who starts being a vegan are a vegan from day 1 until they aren’t anymore. If you’re trying to use the literal definition of the term Incels, then Incels don’t exist because they can just hire a hooker whenever they want. There’s a definition of incel that exists beyond just the term ‘involuntarily celibate’. And most Incels do not include some…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:56 AM
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Over a reasonable time frame No it doesn’t, former incel here, it means you’ve never had sex despite trying your best. If you didn’t try your best for whatever reason, you were given a different name. Fat Incels were called fatcels, men who’ve never asked out women were called mentalcels. Etc. Incels didn’t want anybody who was simply down on their luck to try and come in and claim they were like them in the same way /r/foreveralone doesn’t want anybody who’ve had previous relationships before. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:33 AM
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What comment of yours got removed? If you’re talking about this comment. It didn’t get removed because of your flair, it got removed because you didn’t follow the flair of the post. It was a CMV post, which means only comments that attempt to change OP’s viewpoint are allowed. You didn’t do that, you agreed with him, so the comment was removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:20 AM
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Men rarely feel physically attractive Average men rarely feel physically attractive, I can guarantee you this “PERFECT 6’1 hunk” is doing fine and is regularly complimented.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:15 AM
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Just don’t answer, it’s okay. I think her feedback is useful, you’ll get far more responses if you format your comments into smaller easier to digest paragraphs rather than one big block of text. Create a new paragraph every 3-4 sentences, space it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:25 PM
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In order of priority as follows. ⁠Body: Eat healthy, go gym, gain muscle, lose/put on weight if needed, r/fitness side bar is a good starting point, you want a routine to follow (such as PPL, google ‘PPL Routine’) and be eating 0.8g of protein per body weight, for example if you weigh 160lbs, you want to eat 160*0.8 = 128g of protein every day. ⁠Face: Monthly haircuts (I personally prefer short back/sides trim ontop). If you can grow a beard, do it (then keep it groomed, beard oil/beard balm). I…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:24 PM
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This sounds like some Redpill dread game bullshit. No, cheating on your wife will not improve the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:27 PM
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Because they themselves are losers and the only people they believe are worse than them is Incels. So they try to make fun of Incels to make themselves feel better. “I may be a 32 year old virgin BuT aT lEaSt iM nOt aN iNcEl!!!1!!1!” Normal people have better things to do than browse incel forums searching for something to rant about.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 05:22 PM
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I was an skinny nerdy ugly short incel, despite having plenty of friends (including women), going out every week, meeting new people, going to parties, having hobbies, having my own car/place, etc, I could not for the life of me attract any woman. I was browsing incel places since /r/incels was a thing. But over the years I worked hard at the gym, built muscle, changed my diet, replaced my entire wardrobe + wore lifts, grew out a full beard, started wearing contact lenses, started skin care rout…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:11 PM
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Literally changed my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:19 PM
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Blackpill = Looks >>> Wealth, Status. Aka wealth and status still matter and play a part. Boogie is a famous dude on the internet, he still has massive status. His girlfriend is a nobody from a broken family and sees Boogie as a father figure who will fix her trauma and give her a better life. This is her - https://youtu.be/lsiNajqCljA?si=wu_B-pOiWMg27aYo From her perspective, she’s going from a broken home and following the life of a celebrity, that’s a massive upgrade.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 01:42 PM
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Isn’t that who I spoke about in “Men who struggle”?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:08 PM
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Just change your flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:16 AM
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It’s sarcasm my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:51 PM
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What is your height, weight, athleticism? And almost nothing has changed within the past 2 years so whatever worked for you 2 years ago would still work today. The average man gets between 1-2 matches on tinder per week, if you get more than this, then you’re at least above average.
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 05:50 PM
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They’re being honest. No one is outright advertising it, but it’s a normal answer to an otherwise normal question. “How long you been single for?”, “How old was you when you had your first kiss/date/girlfriend etc?”. You play party games like “Never have I ever” or “truth or dare” and people ask those questions there. People know you for years and realise you almost never talk about dates, girlfriend, ex’s, or take part in any topic related to dating or sex, and just realise it’s because you hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:28 PM
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I’ve seen this joke like 20 times
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:16 PM
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Men who don’t struggle: Grow up normally with regular friends, have a crushes on girls, naturally start talking and enjoying time with them, ask each other out, continue to enjoy being with her, get into a relationship with her, maybe this happens a few times before and have a few break ups before find someone they want to spend the rest of their life with, get married, have kids. What exactly did he learn was the success to dating? shrug, he just talked to women, landed dates, and went from the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:10 PM
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I’ve saw people talking about looks all last week like nothing had changed, I don’t think it’s being enforced.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:27 AM
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I'm fucking women while you're in an abusive relationship. Bruh...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:26 PM
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Because you're right, there is no proof of causation, but there is a correlation which makes it relevant to this discussion. The sample size and age of study are both fine, there's nothing wrong with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:15 PM
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Incel bullshits and scam artists: "Here's a link to multiple studies that shows there's a correlation". You, the expert: "Well actually my ex was on it and nothing happened". Cool anecdotal evidence bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:09 PM
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>There's also studies that show women prefer more masculine features when on birth control. Can I have a link to this study please?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:07 PM
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>This study only involved 170 women Which is a decent sample size for statistics. >This study is 10 years old I really don't see how that's relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:05 PM
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This study says otherwise https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23528282/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:53 PM
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Yes, here’s a link to the study https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23528282/ Women are more interested in less masculine men when on birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:52 PM
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Nah I’m good.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:35 PM
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Ma’am, you post to /r/foreveralonewomen. How can you claim you don’t need a man because you’re an independent women with your own money while simultaneously participating in a group dedicated to discussing how lonely you all feel because you’ve never been in a relationship? Someone who was perfectly happy choosing to be single would not be participating in such a subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:03 PM
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The Redpill believe in the Redpill handbook. Where are all these people coming from who are coming in and saying Redpill doesn’t mean anything?!? There’s an entire book dedicated to teaching people what The Redpill is, how can you possibly state it doesn’t have a definition?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:41 PM
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I’ve never seen a man be humiliated but almost all of the times I have seen the women become very uncomfortable just by having this random man try to talk to her and all she wants is for him to go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:03 AM
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I’m 5’7 and I do well in my niche. That doesn’t mean women don’t want tall hot guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:23 AM
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Yes, I went on dates with a ‘boring’ woman and it was a struggle. We had nothing in common, she has no interest in anything I enjoyed, I asked her for her hobbies and got “I used to practice my guitar”, turns out she doesn’t know how to play the guitar and last played it last year, it felt like her job as a receptionist was the most amount of fun she got all month. I suggested all sorts of date nights, mini golf, bowling, arcades, board games, go-karting, running, bouldering, gym, etc, she wasn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:24 AM
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Me: “Can’t wait to read this BS” Article: “Don’t be afraid to ask for help, hold yourself accountable, take care of your mental health, take care of your skin, have a healthy work life balance” Bro this is tame, why be mad? The only thing out of place here is the be vulnerable part. Ignore that and the rest of the article is alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:31 PM
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Can I do anything about it? Yes: Fix it. No: Stop worrying about it. There’s nothing he can do about it, so he just needs to accept that it’s happening and move on with his life and start worrying about things that directly effect him that he can change.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:09 PM
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Almost all the boys who “never care about social shame or social rules” ended up being the dregs of society, the ones who paid attention, studied, and went to university for good degrees are now successful in life. The only thing a boy needs to do that ‘breaks the rules’ is to defend himself. If a bully hits him, defend yourself, hit them back, beyond that, listen to the teachers, pay attention in class, study for tests, then go on to get a good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:34 PM
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The cause of the depression is different in everybody, you can’t just lump everybody together under one “depressed” umbrella and expect a one size fits all approach to it. Everyone has different issues, and different groups of people suffer from a different group of issues. Learning what all of these differences is helps us cater to people differently on an individual level. Depression is not the same for everybody, It is not the same thing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:38 PM
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It definitely coincides with a drop in marriages, I assume since the article I read didn’t mention a specific number, it’s probably just between 1%-3% ish difference
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:17 PM
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You created a 6 paragraph reply on something I already mentioned previously. “This doesn’t mean we should stop looking into white suicides other suicides either, we can focus on two different things at the same time”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:13 PM
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Most normal people do not divorce. The 50% stat is inaccurate, it was based of a 1970 projection that never came to fruition. Stats show 70% of all marriages in the 1990’s made it to their 15th anniversary, which is an increase from the 65% stat we had in the 70’s and 80’s. So only 30% of all marriages end in divorce by the 15th anniversary, the people who tend to get divorced are skewed towards the lower end of people who don’t have their life together too. Which means the average person has an…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:34 PM
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You state this based on what exactly? Why would short men not care about the cause of why short men commit suicide more, fixing the cause would directly benefit themselves, they have no reason not to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:27 PM
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So… what is it when two perfectly normal and healthy people meet up, find each other cute and interesting, start going on dates, getting closer to each other, get butterflies and excitement just thinking about each other, start spending a lot of time with each other and chatting to each other every day. To the point they want to introduce them to their friends and family, then decide they want to spend the rest of their life with them. What is that called, just being friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:16 PM
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We aren’t investigating it because we pretty much already know why. Higher rates of poverty, drug policies, gang culture, systematic racism, heavy policing policies. Same for obesity levels, we already know why, Same for short men and suicide rates, we already know why, childhood factors such as lack of nutrition, early life stress, and social experiences that carry through into adulthood. Social discrimination in adulthood, socioeconomic factors such as getting paid less and being ignored for p…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:10 PM
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People, Fiancé, doctors, and surgeons: “No”.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:46 PM
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I know literally nobody who slept with 6 different women in a matter of months, including chads, nevermind a single month. The average man is not getting lucky with 6 different women in a small timeframe unless they’re all 2/10’s or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:37 PM
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So instead worrying about men being depressed to the point of wanting suicide, just only focus on the short ones?! This is just like SJWs only showing concern for POCs and LGBTQIA while ignoring straight white men who suffer. There’s nothing wrong with that. If black people were 50% more likely to commit suicide compared to white people, then yes it’s worth investigating that to see why black people specifically are far more likely to commit suicide. That doesn’t mean we should stop looking into…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:35 PM
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Purplepill is a mix between the Bluepill and Redpill, you believe some things about the Redpill is true but also believe many of it is wrong. Neutralpill and Sciencepill aren’t a recognised category. They don’t mean anything.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 03:02 PM
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Why are people replying to ‘her’ like ‘she’ is being serious. It’s a dude with a feet fetish that wants to troll people. It literally couldn’t be any more obvious. Also no, I would not date a woman like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:26 PM
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Can’t do sorry, don’t want to dox myself.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 05:12 PM
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They have status in their specific group. Status isn’t limited to just how society as a whole treats you. It’s based on the community you surround yourself with. Gangsters have status in their groups and can get girlfriends easily despite having little or no status outside of their group. For another example, Cult leaders hold a fuck ton of status within their community despite having practically none outside of it. He’s high status to the people he surrounds himself with.
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 03:46 PM
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Still got status. Plus it’s not like the women they’re dating are high quality either. They’re literally druggies.
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 03:11 PM
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Looks —> Wealth, Status. This does not mean wealth and status play no part, this just means looks are the most important, followed by wealth and status. Drug dealers are both rich and high status since they’re able to get the drugs for everybody and sell it to make a ton of money. This is not proof against the Blackpill.
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 03:05 PM
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In order of priority is as follows. Body: Eat healthy, go gym, gain muscle, lose/put on weight if needed, /r/fitness side bar is a good starting point, you want a routine to follow (such as PPL, google ‘PPL Routine’) and be eating 0.8g of protein per body weight, for example if you weigh 160lbs, you want to eat 160*0.8 = 128g of protein every day. Face: Monthly haircuts (I personally prefer short back/sides trim ontop). If you can grow a beard, do it (then keep it groomed, beard oil/beard balm).…
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 12:55 PM
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To make it brief, Blackpill just means you understand Looks are important. It does not claim you should just give up. Do the opposite, Looksmax as much as you can. I was also an ugly short brown dude and thanks to looksmaxxing I’ve ascended. You can do the same.
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 11:01 AM
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Wash face in the morning and at night, use moisturiser afterwards, I have a normal one and one I use in the shower. Because I have a beard I also use beard oil and beard balm after a shower. Beyond that, stay hydrated and change your pillow case/pillow once a week.
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 02:59 PM
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Good luck finding a job that has meaning and pays well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:01 PM
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You don’t need to have your face analysed, 99% of all looksmaxxing advice is the same regardless of what you look like. Eat healthy, go gym, gain muscle, lose/put on weight if needed. Regular haircuts (I personally prefer short back/sides trim ontop). If you can grow a beard, do it. If you wear glasses, buy contact lenses. Once you develop muscles start wearing clothes that show it off, you want fitted high quality clothes, shirts, turtlenecks, blazers, fitted jeans, etc. Wear shoes which gives …
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 01:34 PM
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Complaining about Blackpill is like complaining about capitalism I agree, it’s useless to complain about facts of life you can’t control. You got to play with the cards you were dealt in life. Blackpill disproven Nothing in your post disproves the Blackpill, you just came in, said it’s dumb to complain, then randomly at the end said it’s actually your social skills which are bad thus Blackpill disproven. You didn’t disprove anything, you stated your opinion then claim it as fact. The way to get …
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 01:27 PM
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Except we have the data that shows both of those things are false while the stuff i mentioned is true. I’m not just pulling shit from my ass. We have no data that shows being unloved and alone makes you just as happy as people who are loved. We have no data that shows poor people in poverty are just as happy as rich people. We have no data that shows unhealthy people are happier than healthy people. Hence why they’re the main problems we should fix in our lives. Meanwhile We have plenty of data …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:20 PM
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I updated my original comment with my whole philosophy on this. TL;DR, Money without relationships is an empty life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:47 PM
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I follow a belief that 90% of all human problems comes down to three main factors. Health, Wealth, and Relationships. If you’re healthy and wealthy, but alone and unloved, you’ll feel alone and unloved. If you’re healthy, have a parter, friends, and a close family, but you’re poor, you’ll feel the weight of poverty ontop of you. If you’re wealthy and have great relationships, but you’re dying of a chronic illness, that’s all you’re going to think about. What I’m saying is Wealth, by itself, is n…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:42 PM
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Replace happiness with content and that is an achievable goal to attain. To be in a state of satisfaction with one’s life. I just don’t believe this is possible with money alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:30 PM
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Even if being depressed with money means you need to work 55+ hours a week?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:17 PM
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You think I would be sad The grumpy rich man stereotype is a stereotype for a reason. Plus we’re not just talking about the average person making more money, we’re talking about a guy that’s forever alone. What use is a fancy car and a big house if there’s nobody to share it with? To go to work everyday and then come home to a cold empty house? Almost everybody, including those who get paid $100,000, still have to work for a living, they can’t just quit their job either or be free of those chain…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:14 PM
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You’re confusing being happy with an increase in happiness levels. Your happiness and satisfaction in life will increase with more money, that doesn’t necessarily mean you will be happy, especially if you’re still unloved and alone majority of the time. I could give homeless people food and they’ll show an increase in happiness. If I take him off the street and put him in a homeless shelter his happiness levels will increase, and will continue to increase the more access he has to food, shelter,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 11:42 AM
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“Money doesn’t make you happy” is one of the oldest quotes in the world. Because it’s true. Not only will extra money not make someone happy, the way they have to earn that extra money is by doing more work, something most people do not want to spend their little free time doing. How is this an alternative way to be happy? —— Editing my comment for more info: I follow a belief that 90% of all human problems comes down to three main factors. Health, Wealth, and Relationships. If you’re healthy an…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:42 AM
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That you’re not only interested in other cultures, but interested to the point you spent hours of your time and energy into learning their language just to be able to communicate with them. Plus if you ever go on holiday with them, they’re able to lead you and talk to everybody without needing to worry about the language barrier.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:56 AM
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72% and even I don’t try to claim I “know” trans people when I see one, at least online anyway. Like others are saying, a single 2d picture at a specific angle with specific lighting is vastly different from meeting someone in person and talking to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:54 AM
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Didn’t go to uni, immediately entered the programming industry straight from school.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:40 PM
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The buff fitness instructor who moves heavy things for work is far more desirable. Women don’t get horny for you because they heard you spend your days writing code on a computer. Regardless of the paycheck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:40 PM
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I love socialising and have tons of friends. Didn’t help me get laid at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:25 PM
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Basically if you don’t have “Man” in your flair then you can’t respond to Q4M. If you don’t have “Redpill” or “RP” in your flair then you can’t respond to Q4RP. Basically the new rule has forced women to advertise themselves as women which in turn makes some men here act like a dumbass around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:13 PM
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Only on TwoX Bruh this is Reddit, you can say fuck men on any mainstream subreddit and get 1k upvoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:38 PM
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Not really no. It’s nice to have but I doubt it’s not even on my top 10 list of things I look for in a woman. Healthy weight, facial attractiveness, nice and tidy, kindness, similar hobbies, similar values, lack of addictions, etc are far more important than wether she’s shy or confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:48 PM
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Nah, it would entirely depend on what’s being said, just being part of the conversation is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:20 PM
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She realised there and then men playing piano wasn’t her kryptonite. Attractive men playing piano was.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:39 PM
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Nah it ain’t that, men just get board of her or see no long term relationship with her. He would have left regardless of wether there was sex or no sex, they just happened to have had sex by the time he did get break it off. Men will sleep with women they’re not 100% interested in just because they’ll still enjoy sex with her. I could sleep with someone on a first date while also believing I don’t see anything long term with her. That could be seen as a “Pump and dump”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:21 PM
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A. But I genuinely don’t expect things to be much different in just one day. I feel like I’d just walk around like I do as a man with no significant changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:57 AM
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When I was at a house party and we all did a “Top 5 people in this party you would bang/date”. There was like 8ish women all picking out of the same 11ish men. At this point in my life I was pretty successful and, ‘on paper’ I looked amazing, at 23 I had a decent paying job/career, just bought my own home, healthy weight, ran 5k’s, had social hobbies, no mental health issues or addictions, etc. I’ve been friends with these women for years and we enjoyed catching up and talking about all kinds of…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:40 AM
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Nope, all evidence points towards the idea that women see the average man as straight up unattractive. Less than a quarter of all men are seen as attractive to the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:14 PM
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I don't follow your definition of nice. My definition of nice is to be pleasant, polite, and good-natured.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:11 PM
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That has nothing to do with his question.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:00 PM
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To treat someone as an equal is to infer that they are to be treated like they're another human with the same rights as my own. Neither of us are special or unique compared to one another in the eyes of society or the law and so we should treat each other as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:48 PM
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There’s already a no incel content rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:26 PM
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Most blackpillers are not saying “You can’t do anything, it’s over”, there’s an entire Blackpill website solely dedicated to looksmaxxing that’s almost as popular as the biggest incel website you regularly see on /r/inceltears It’s more likely that you’ve fell into selection bias. You see people say “It’s over, genetics this and that” and immediately label them blackpillers. Whereas if someone comes along and recommends the gym/dieting/fashion, you don’t label them as a blackpilled despite the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:34 PM
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I don’t know, purge week used to be, like the name suggests, a purge for a week. In recent times it only lasted a few days if that. They’re clearly more worried about it than in previous years.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:10 PM
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So why don’t we just ban any talk about ‘only genetics matter’ or stuff related to it and let people talk about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:06 PM
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I did years ago. It got banned immediately, it didn’t even have any posts on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:41 PM
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The only other times I’ve heard of people doing this, it wasn’t a temporary thing, they ended up hiring prostitutes over and over again for months/years on end. Basically an addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:36 PM
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After the recent rule changes, I have a feeling purge week is never coming back.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:30 PM
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No it doesn’t. Blackpill is quote “A philosophy that argues that physical attractiveness is the most critical factor in determining men’s dating success… A man’s money, status, and social skills are argued to be other factors of secondary importance”. Aka Looks is the most important, the other stuff follows it. Looks include a lot of traits you can change, exercise, dieting, muscles, fashion, grooming, styling, skincare, teeth, etc. It does not claim only looks/genetics matter so don’t bother tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:24 PM
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I do. I give everyone ‘basic respect’, I don’t hold strangers to a high regard, I just recognise their worth as a human being and treat them as equals. Then the more I get to know them, the greater or poorer my respect for them becomes. To hold someone in high regards is like saying I have some sort of admiration for them. I don’t have admiration for someone when all I know about them is that they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:15 PM
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Average looking, funny and charismatic people exist. Hollywood is filled with a wide range of people. I literally have no idea what you’re trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 11:27 AM
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Paying for it is not fine if you’re a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 10:23 AM
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Bruh the world wasn’t magically any different 7 years ago what are you on about? 7 years ago was 2016, tinder still existed, social media still existed, bumble had height filters, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:59 AM
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Blackpill = Looks is most important, followed by wealth, status, and social skills. An ugly hollywood star doesn’t disprove anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:54 AM
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How can you prove them wrong We aren’t saying other factors don’t matter at all ever, we’re saying looks is predominantly the most important aspect. To disprove this, just show a single piece of evidence that proves personality matters more than looks. We have a bunch of evidence that says the opposite, all we’re looking for is one that says personality played a larger role than looks. Physical attractiveness was the strongest predictor of attraction, no evidence personality had any effect. Same…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:52 AM
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It’s the one you can’t control Muscles, fitness, good diet, skincare, grooming, styling, fashion, contact lens/laser eye surgery, fixing teeth, sleeping 8 hours a night, fixing posture, etc. I look like a completely different person when you compare by 20 year old self to my 25 year old self because I focused on changing my looks. To the point I’d meet people I haven’t seen in years and I had to reintroduce myself, followed by them being all surprised. I wasn’t on the ‘extreme’ end either, I was…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:48 AM
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Why the fuck would you suggest a paid option? That’s not a solution, that’s a path to an addiction and only further incentivises that the only way he’s able to attract women is by paying for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:37 AM
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0% chance she was going to reply to you after being ghosted for 4 days at 2am. She just wasn’t that into you, you replied with “Good morning :)” followed by nothing else. You basically put the ball in her court to lead the conversation, women don’t lead conversations unless they’re really into you, you needed to follow it up with some substance she can latch on to, even a “How’s your day going?” would suffice. But either way, it’s no big loss, she clearly wasn’t too interested in you to complete…
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 03:42 PM
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Work Home Work Home Lmao not even that anymore, i work from home now, so it’s Home Home Home Home, only leaving for gym, shops, or any outings with family/friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:16 AM
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The question wasn’t “would you immediately jump into bed with this man”, it was simply “On a scale of 1-10, how attractive is this man?”. And 80% of the time they vote him 5/10 or lower. If I saw a man and rated him 6/10, that doesn’t mean I want to suck his dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:11 AM
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Blackpill says looks are the biggest factor in a man’s dating success. Blackpill does not say you can only go the gym you’ve passed x y and z. You’ve probably seen some extreme people say this every now and then, but they do not represent the Blackpill. Redpill is Looks/wealth/status/game. I can tell you, unless you’re making triple digits in a cheap area, women do not care if you’re making above average money. Literally no women cared when they heard I bought my own house at 23. It did not get …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:04 PM
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No, you are wrong. Look at this thread for example What is the highest upvoted advice? “Change your vibe, meet someone you want to date, join clubs, find someone of your wavelength, have confidence, be kind, stop shooting down suggestions, make friends, network like it’s a job, don’t put women on pedestals, stop being insecure, you seem like a man child fix your personality”. You have to scroll all the way down to a +4 upvoted comment to find the first comment that mentions anything looks focuse…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:28 PM
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They hate their life because they’re literally the bottom 10% of people themselves. Hating Incels is the only way they can feel superior to someone else. “I may be a 30 year old virgin bUt at lEaSt I’m NoT aN iNcEl”.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 01:57 PM
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You’re misinterpreting the data again. This isn’t talking about attractive men sleeping with several different women in a short time frame. That 5% could easily encompass couples of all attractiveness levels of people who are simply horny. For example, I know an average dude who’s sleeping with his obese gf almost every night simply because she’s horny. They would be part of the 5% despite him not being an attractive man. Those 5% of people are having more PIV sex than the bottom 50% of people (…
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 01:53 PM
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Nah he was right, I was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:37 PM
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Aah Match.com my bad, I was thinking of OKCupid for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:37 PM
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This, Redpill is Looks/Wealth/Status/Game with a large focus on Game.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:22 PM
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They tested what? All you said is they took pictures off social media and put it on OKCupid, what were they testing? How is this related to how online dating was viewed by society? Plus I never said ugly, just weird and lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:15 PM
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There’s no difference, swipe based dating apps just became vastly more popular. Before tinder, online dating was seen as this niche corner of the internet where only the weird lonely people go to try and find a date because they can’t find one in real life. After Tinder, almost every young single person I know has at least tried it at some point in their life. 45% of all relationships start online these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:54 PM
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No you’re thinking of something else. The concept of the Dread game is when you are specifically and intentionally trying to remind her that you’re a man with power and you can leave the relationship at any time if you aren’t happy in it, which in turn would make her realise she needs to fix her behaviour or risk losing you. Simply withdrawing and focusing on yourself and your hobbies doesn’t do this. Dread game is manipulative because you’re intentionally making someone insecure and anxious in …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:48 PM
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The rise of social media, invention of swipe based dating apps, home entertainment becoming the norm, the removal of third spaces, men becoming more afraid to approach women, etc. Dating has drastically changed over the years. A man who was 21 years old in 2004 only needed to compete against other men in his general vicinity, sexlessness rates back then was also low. A man who’s 21 years old in 2023 is competing against the most attractive men a woman has access to on her dating app or is talkin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:23 PM
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The rise of sexlessness happened within that 20 year period. Tinder was released in 2012 and that was the start of swipe based dating apps. This is also the period when social media starting becoming common place and used for more than just connecting with friends. There was a far bigger difference made in the dating scene between 2012-2023 than their was between 2000-2012.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:16 PM
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The second highest upvoted post of all time on their subreddit is literally exactly what you’re trying to meme about. In it, it claims you, as a 4/10 man, could pull 10/10 women so long as you had good game. I used to regularly see posts about stuff like that all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:17 AM
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Nope, looksmaxxing helped me escape inceldom.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 10:08 AM
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6’5, I look like a slightly less attractive Adam Salah (the guy who’s at the very end of 7.0).
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 09:57 AM
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Is this your way of saying you’ve already gone the gym and can bench press 100kg and still can’t attract women? Or are you just making excuses for yourself before you’ve even tried anything? Hello, I’m a 5’7 arab who gets laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:46 AM
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Definitely not ‘generally’, they’re the Second Line Looksmaxxing solutions after you’ve already cleared the first line which involves normal stuff like going the gym and getting muscle, fashion, grooming, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:41 AM
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Looks includes a whole load of things you can improve that’ll still take many years to work on. Muscles, fashion, style, grooming, skincare, dentist/teeth. For the majority of people this is all they need, work on this and you’re golden. If you’ve already perfected all of this and are still struggling, then we can talk about how it’s depressing and defeatist. I’ve been here for years and always talking about how I used the Blackpill to succeed in dating, it quite literally and unironically chang…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:37 AM
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My entire dating life flipped upside down solely because of looks. When I looked like a skinny weak geeky nerdy ugly teenager who wore glasses, hoodies and joggers, I was completely and utterly ignored by women or treated as very very platonically by them. I genuinely thought I would end up forever alone. I fixed all of that, started going the gym, eating better food, changing up my appearance, and came out as a muscular strong bearded masculine man, wore high quality stylish clothes with contac…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:32 AM
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Most women do not orgasm from penetration alone Then flick your bean or have your man help. This is barely an issue. Men almost always orgasm while women not so much Then sleep with men who want you to orgasm. Unwashed dick Sleep with men who was their dicks. Foreplay Again, sleep with men who want to get you off. leg shaving Sleep with men who understand hair is normal. You’re really making it hard for yourself by sleeping with men who don’t care about how you feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:39 PM
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BMI doesn’t take into account muscle mass. Men 60+ years ago were doing heavy manual labor jobs more than they are these days. And thus more muscle and thus more test. The smoking thing was from a study that showed smokers had 15% more test, but this could be a correlation ≠ causation thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:07 PM
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I remember reading about it years ago but I can’t find it now, this needs confirming.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:55 PM
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I just googled a study that says smokers have 15% higher testosterone than non smokers. This could be one of those correlation ≠ causation things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:54 PM
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This is largely due in part due to 70% of men being overweight or obese, smoking less, and having less manual labor jobs and more sitting on computers 8 hours a day jobs. Plus, athletes breaking world records these days have less testosterone than their weaker slower counterparts generations ago, so there’s no clear “more testosterone = better” correlation. Testosterone is important to a point, then anything after that is just unnecessary excess. There is no testosterone epidemic, there’s an epi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:40 PM
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I’m not going to say I need some purpose or reason to specifically have female friends. It’s not something I ever think about or feel like I ever need. I don’t see the purpose of having a female friend, that doesn’t mean I’m not open to being friends with women if it naturally occurred. I’m friends with multiple women, the fact that they’re women has almost no relevance to the friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:38 PM
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Mum: Buy her flowers, be a gentleman, treat her like a lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:27 AM
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Do you avoid getting into cars because you heard sometimes people crash in them and die? 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:17 AM
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source: Physical and Psychosocial Correlates of Facial Attractiveness - University of Bologna study (2023) https://gwern.net/doc/psychology/personality/2023-costa.pdf They do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:52 PM
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it is asking question after question The whole point of a date is two people getting together and spending time to get to know each other. It’s not one person asking someone else question after question until something hits. If both people are interested in each other, they would both be asking each other questions to get to know each other and sharing their own experiences and values. If she’s not asking questions or even attempting to hold a basic conversation, it’s very likely not because the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:49 PM
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You’re taking things too literally, the point is it doesn’t matter what he said, he could have said anything, it’s that for as long as she not really interested she’ll still answer with blunt replies with abrupt ends which is why it feels like an interview. The example conversation you gave could have went a completely different direction. Him: How was your weekend Her: Ya it was good, was with friends Him: Where did you go Her: Just that new Japanese restaurant nearby the mall Him: Did you orde…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:46 PM
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Chemistry just requires having an entertaining conversation with someone you find attractive. That’s all, there’s no special or unique formula. And the simple fact of the matter is most women do not find most men attractive, it’s even been shown that straight women will rate women as far more attractive than men. This is almost always here where the problems start and end. As someone who was unattractive/average and worked my way up to being attractive, I can very safely say all of my problems a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:06 PM
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“How to Win Friends and Influence People” is the one I like to recommend to everyone. Literally teaches you the basics and explains why those basics are so important and work so well. My biggest piece of advice is to realise everyone loves to talk about themselves so long as you get them on a topic they enjoy talking about. You can have great social skills while only doing 20% of the talking. Ask question —> They talk —> reply with interest, follow up with another question related to the topic —…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:23 PM
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The average 35 year old man is a balding overweight dude. Are you suggesting Michael Cera looks worse than them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:47 PM
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Well that’s an easy fix, go the gym 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:46 PM
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She’s not average, but she’s not who I’d call attractive either. I’m not saying this because I have high standards or anything, I genuinely believe several women I’m personally friends with IRL are more attractive than her, and they’re not Hollywood superstars.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:21 PM
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Scarlet is slightly above average. She looks good in movies but outside of them she just looks like all the other women I find on a night out. Michael Cera is perfectly average, average face, average height, there’s a reason he’s cast in “average man” roles in movies. That unattractive women is indeed unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:16 PM
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Bruh, if women are ditching you after sex, you may want to think about what you’re doing during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:11 PM
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Don’t tell her any of this, just go on the date and see where it goes. As long as she’s expecting a fat and recessed guy then you’re fine. If she’s expecting some catfish to show up then you’re screwed. Bruh this is pathetic, the average is 5.5 inches, saying very small sub7 is like saying you’re a very short 6’1 man. Finally, if you suffer with anxiety with women, and you do end up in the bedroom, ED (Erectile dysfunction) could occur. If it does, just don’t focus on intercourse or getting your…
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 01:38 PM
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Even my mum got married at 19 in the 1990’s and that was seen as completely normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:00 AM
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This is not how AI works, real life isn’t a Hollywood movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:14 AM
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Porn is one of the biggest money making industries in the world, and it’s fucking free. On what earth makes you think an affordable sophisticated robot with the likeness, capacity, and personality of a human that can also sleep with you wouldn’t sell?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:12 AM
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Stop having kids with shit men. Why does this need to be said?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:50 PM
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Most men would not marry sluts. Dudes marry sluts all the time. Both of these things can exist at the same time. For a different example, most people do not smoke weed. People smoke weed all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:04 PM
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Why not just fuck women you actually want a relationship with Finding a woman who wants to fuck you is easier than finding a woman who’s worth marrying and having kids with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:01 PM
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”No single mothers, no fat women, no high n count, no women over 30, this is high standards.” I’m also a childless, fit and healthy, low n count man who’s under 30. Am I considered a high value man? If the answer is no, then no this is not high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:32 AM
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I’m blackpilled but I have an answer. The Blackpill is mostly limited to just the dating scene and doesn’t take into account the things you’ll need in a long term relationship. Looks is essential when you’re going on dates and meeting new women. But beyond that point, months into a relationship, personality does finally start to play a part. I have a Chad friend, 6’4, strong jaw and cheekbones, broad shoulders, looks like a male model, but he’s also autistic as fuck. The only thing he enjoys tal…
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 10:45 AM
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Carbs are overrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:11 PM
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I never said there wasn’t multiple explanations.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 03:46 PM
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It’s under “The “Gender Paradox” Explained (?)”
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 03:39 PM
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Not confirmed but was hypothesised by the researches.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 03:18 PM
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Men take the fatal suicide options like shootings themselves, hanging, jumping of high places, things which almost guarantee a high chance of succeeding. Women attempt suicide more yet die far less, this is because they take the non-fatal option that has little chance of succeeding, like overdosing on pills, cutting their wrists, poisoning themselves, etc. Not because they genuinely want to commit suicide, but because they want to let people know they need help. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/…
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 02:10 PM
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“Women attempt suicide more” is the answer you’ll receive.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 01:13 PM
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Why?
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 09:49 AM
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If a woman ever asks you what you spend the majority of your waking hours on, it’s over.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:03 PM
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Yup, if everybody was going the gym and was fit and healthy, dating really would start coming down to purely genetics. It’s a good thing most men are not going the gym and obesity rates continue to rise and rise every year. Having a good body in a country where 70% of people are fat is a cheat code you should take full advantage of.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 02:25 PM
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She stopped loving you or stopped wanting to date you and wanted to date other people instead. There’s not enough information to properly explain why she left you, maybe she didn’t find you physically attractive or you weren’t exciting enough, or she fell for FOMO (Fear of missing out) since she’s young and wanted to explore to see what other people are like. She still wants to keep in contact and talk to you because you’re one of her few friends that gives her attention and makes her feel good,…
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 01:30 PM
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“I met a girl once, thus your wrong” Bruh, I disagree with OP too but this is an awful example.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 10:15 AM
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I sat in a mall and saw stuff, thus that must mean it happens everywhere for everyone All stats tell us the opposite is true. Stats > anecdotal evidence.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 11:56 PM
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I was following the Iranian protests last year, and it was the same deal there. Any woman or child killed was all over the news, A woman died and she had posters of her face everywhere with “How could they do this”, etc. Meanwhile for every woman that died in the process and were loved and remembered, there were over 12 men who died and were completely forgotten about. 29 women dead, 359 men dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:04 PM
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It’s not really “skewed in favor of men getting no likes”, most of the video is just using data about what would happen when we apply the two things we know for certain happen. That there are more men than women, and men swipe right more than women. The third point you could somewhat try to claim it was skewed, but not to the point you can clearly see any meaningful difference between his simulation and OLD in reality. Unless you genuinely believe more attractive people don’t get a higher % of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:54 PM
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Ya before I looksmaxxed I was wearing square glasses and it completely changes how you look. But even with round glasses I still look awful in them. I’m sticking with my contact lenses for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:28 PM
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One Woman at a party attempted to kiss me twice despite knowing I was already in a relationship. Another Woman at a party walks up to me, tells me how she’s jealous about another woman because she recently got a boyfriend, and asked me if I knew where to find one. After a night out, almost midnight now, got a taxi back with a woman and she asks me if I wanted to come in just to see her dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:22 PM
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She’s actually gave the ultimatum? Dump her. I’ve been close friends with some women for easily 7+ years now and see them on at least a bi-weekly basis, ain’t no way some new girlfriend is going to change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:12 PM
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I’ve lost count at the amount of times I’ve heard some combination of “The bar for men is so low and they still can’t pass it”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:10 AM
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You can’t be too young, the younger you’re blackpilled the better I’d say so you can start looksmaxxing from an early age.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 06:54 AM
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Yes, let’s risk making her super uncomfortable on the off chance that you have a pleasant conversation. The juice isn’t worth the squeeze. You haven’t said why this is a good idea at all. Keep in mind we’re talking about bothering some random women in line at the supermarket, not some single girls at a party you’re attending.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:54 PM
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don’t approach with the mindset of “I want to get something substantial out of this” Are you just ignoring the part where you have the chance to make her super uncomfortable? Which can be easily avoided by just not talking to her in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:26 PM
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I slayed and I’m 5’7, then I found a GF, even while in a relationship I’ve had 4 opportunities to sleep with other women if I really wanted to without even trying. Attractiveness is a combination of things, there’s no “5’11 minimum or nothing” rule.
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 02:34 PM
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I’ve been friends with a bunch of women over the years, so has many of my male friends too. I have no idea where you’re getting this idea that women don’t have male friends from.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:25 AM
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It’s not that narrow, he’s just saying friends are people you hang out with outside of school or work without any sexual or romantic interests. I see nothing wrong with his definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:23 AM
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They don’t approach random women with casual conversations because based on previous experience they know it doesn’t lead to anything substantial. At most you have a pleasant conversation, at worst you make her very uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:24 AM
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What do you think these guys have been doing their entire lives, talking to women like they’re aliens from outer space? lmao. They’ve been having normal conversations with women their entire lives, they already know it’s not that easy as it’s clearly never worked for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:10 PM
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Looks are subjective to a degree, they’re still very much largely objective. Sure, my mate may find Megan Fox hot and I may disagree and think Zendaya is hotter. But almost every man agrees that both of these people are hotter than the vast vast majority of all obese women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:05 AM
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Correction, autism is not a mental illness, it’s a developmental disability.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:59 AM
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it didn’t cross their minds WHY a lot of men are fleeing to AI girlfriends. Because these women aren’t attracted to these men. The men using AI girlfriends in place of real women aren’t choosing AI girlfriends over women, they’re going to AI girlfriends because it’s their only option for any sort of intimacy. I’m confused where you was going with this, what is there to self reflect on?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:48 AM
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Are you really asking if the 32+ year old woman he slept with was a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:47 AM
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I was going to parties, clubs, music festivals almost every weeekend from the ages of 18-25, I still a virgin at 25, the most interesting sexual things that occurred was kissing drunk woman at a music festival, who then wanted nothing to do with me afterwards, or a women who did want to fuck, but she was both high on cocaine and drunk while I was sober so not happening. Most of my mates were going too, my average friends got almost no female attention or got laid maybe once every few years, some…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:31 PM
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Exercise and become fit and healthy in order to be attractive, then use OLD and find someone who shares a lot of the same interests/values as myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:57 AM
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That’s just a straight up lie. Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:13 PM
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Want a better man? Be a better woman. This shit ain’t rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:48 PM
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It’s hard to not understand what women want when you try to say or do anything to please her but it doesn’t work. Sigmund my bro, she just doesn’t want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:45 PM
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10/10 will be a human again. Or immorality, that would be nice too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:42 PM
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Hot is some combination of tall, strong, muscular, handsome, head full of hair, groomed, styled/fashionable, clean, smells nice, great teeth/smile. Ugly is some combination of short, weak, obese, facially ugly, balding, scruffy, smelly, bad breath, teeth yellow/missing. Example Hot Guy 1 Example Hot Guy 2 Example Hot Guy 3 ————- Example Ugly Guy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:07 PM
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You don’t need to know his exact salary, it’s not going to change your life wether you know he’s paid exactly $65k or $68k. You just at most need to know if he has a good job that supports the lifestyle you’re expecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:09 PM
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I was both. In my school the popular kids were not the bullies. The bullies were always the dumbass bottom grade kids. I was fit and healthy so I played football with the ‘popular group’ and was always one of the best in sports, while simultaneously being the guy who played chess and World of Warcraft in his spare time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:29 PM
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Jesus Christ this whole comment section is cringe. Someone quite far down mentioned going the gym, getting muscles, and being fit. Good advice, then someone else replies to him saying “Yes going the gym and getting muscles leads to confidence and that leads to women” Lmao even trying to slightly suggest that muscles could attract women attracts the white knights who try to make it about “muh confidence” again.
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 12:10 PM
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This still doesn’t give us much information, all the women he’s fucking could also be ugly and fat, in which case that would make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:44 PM
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You do not need to be a smooth talker just to attract women, you just need to know the basics of being able to hold a conversation. In all of my dates she’ll end up doing 80% of the talking. I always love to recommend “How to win Friends and Influence people”. It goes into the absolute basics on how to talk with people and why people liked to be talked to in that way. Biggest piece of advice is just keep talking about her, how she’s doing, what her opinions are, what her plans are, what she’s be…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:48 AM
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Nah I disagree, I have absolutely seen attractive men with poor social skills pick up women by just hanging out. OP just isn’t attractive enough for that to happen to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:27 AM
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I feel like there’s some selection bias going on here. I know several obese unhealthy who smoke and drink who also get laid. I know several fit and healthy men who exercise regularly who are virgins. There really isn’t a clear correlation beyond the idea that unhealthy men will in general get laid less than healthy men for the obvious reason that women aren’t attracted to unhealthy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:25 AM
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Bruh do you genuinely believe humans are going to go extinct in less than 100 years? Even climate change will take 200 years for the full effects to take place.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:38 PM
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Nah, fighting games got a lot of flack years ago for having women with unrealistic proportions basically fighting in bikini’s, so developers started dressing them up and making them more normal. Meanwhile the male fighters were untouched and looked like roided behemoths with 16 abs and are almost naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:37 PM
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They have “Love Hotels” basically everywhere which exist solely so people can go in, fuck, and get out. You can walk into a regular store selling regular things then an Aisle later it’s just porn and sex toys everywhere. The birthrate stuff is a whole separate issue, people don’t want kids, that doesn’t mean people aren’t getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:34 PM
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Blowjob/Titjob from woman, intercourse with the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:22 PM
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I’m not even going to bother trying to argue with you, this is beyond common knowledge. Literally just google it for 5 seconds. This is like “the earth is flat” levels of delusion.
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 10:50 PM
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women couldn’t work Women have worked in every single generation of civilisation since the start of humanity.
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 04:40 PM
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Without knowing what those messages were from women, this isn’t too useful. You can ask any guy their experience with OLD and when women they do, it can be the most bland and dull stuff imaginable. “Hey”, “Good”, “That’s Nice”. “Cool” etc. Like, sure they technically replied, but they’re clearly not invested.
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 01:58 PM
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What part of “end result” you don’t understand The part where you never once said the words “end results”. You just said the results are the same, I pointed out that they’re clearly not. Edit: lmao he blocked me, I’m in a relationship and have a successful career as a programmer, I have no reason to “blame women for my inadequacies”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:04 PM
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Plenty of women would happily help out their boyfriend/husband struggling with money. I know several men who are lazy bums and are or were leeching off their partners. Or men with low paying jobs living with women who own their own house. Money isn’t as big of a factor as you’re making it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:54 PM
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Hot guy: “He’s struggling and needs help” Average guy: “imagine being 30 and poor” Like that one homeless guy that was using tinder to sleep with women just to have a bed to sleep on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:40 PM
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An airplane crashed into a building 20+ years ago, thus the danger of getting into planes is real and you should avoid getting on one at all costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:07 PM
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Meanwhile on tinder…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:42 AM
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He never said it’s impossible for a short man to get a date or anything. He literally just said 1/2 of women reject a man that’s 5’8 or shorter. In other words, there’s still 1/2 of all women who would date a 5’8 man or shorter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:59 PM
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Slightly taller Stats show women are happiest when they’re at least 7 inches taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:49 PM
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Same, right now they’re the most boring 3d avatars I’ve ever seen, no personality going on there. If I could talk seamlessly with an interesting character that had voice acting, then I’d think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:46 AM
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There’s 0% chance that’s even slightly real. Why would you go on camera and tell the entire world that your body count is so high you actually forgot how many it is, while being engaged to someone who believes you were a virgin when you met and you’re trying to keep up this secret?
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 07:53 AM
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I’m tired of these average height dudes trying to explain how they can’t get pussy because they’re not above average height. Bruh, I’m a 5’7 arab and I can get pussy, the reason you’re failing isn’t because you’re “5’9.5” thinking you’d slay if you was 6’, it’s because you ugly bro. Lmao like wear some 2 inch lifts if you genuinely think being 5’10 is the issue.
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 03:37 PM
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Whales have even bigger brains. There’s no evidence that bigger brains = more intelligence, even among humans. Crowd have the tiniest brains yet are as smart as a 3 year old.
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 11:09 PM
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He did that Did he mention that in a comment because I haven’t seen it. His post just says he brought the topic up, nothing about confronting her about her nudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:36 PM
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if motivation can make a difference, practice can make a difference IQ tests are not like normal tests, that’s what I’ve been trying to say, you can’t study for one in the traditional sense. You either think hard and “just get it” or you don’t. Those motivated by money will think a bit harder than those who aren’t. No one is saying it’s perfect, but it’s a fact that it’s the most reliable test we have to predict someone’s future success.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:09 PM
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You’re not wrong. Being born rich is better than being born smart by every conceivable metric. Born Rich —> better schools —> better education —> higher IQ —> better jobs It’s just not the same as being born naturally smart yet going to a poor and underfunded school.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:56 PM
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Both have their options. She can delete her OnlyFans if it’s truly causing her to be forever single, and he can delete his Reddit profile if it’s causing him to be single. But the truth is both should just embrace it and date people who don’t care about that kind of stuff. There’s plenty of men out there that will happily date an OnlyFans woman, as well as plenty of women who’ll watch Naruto with him, he’s already brought up the fact he’s used AI to find nudes of women to a first date, so I doub…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:51 PM
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Because they find the jobs sex workers do to be unattractive and low status.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:24 PM
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People aren’t saying women who have an onlyfans are immoral either, they just don’t want to date a woman who has one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:19 PM
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You can practise for the test Not to any significant degree. Of course people who practise tend to do better than people who don’t practise, but that’s about it. There’s also studies showing being motivated by money causes people to score higher on IQ tests than just practising by itself does. Showing us that motivation is better than studying. Imagine if you’re an average person and you studied chess. You would be able to beat the vast vast majority of people who’ve never played chess. Yet when…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:18 PM
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People who are more educated tend to be more intelligent than people who aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:02 PM
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Sorry no, I didn’t get your point at all it’s tests book smart but isn’t great beyond that I mean, it effectively predicts how your entire life will play out in terms of finances, lifestyle, jobs, etc. Wether you’ll end up in poverty or in middle class. That’s pretty significant. Timmy and Jerry Timmy will have a higher IQ than Jerry, the difference is you can’t meaningfully study for an IQ test, it really is built on wether or not you “just get it”. That the kind of skill that’s much more relia…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:11 PM
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I literally have a friend who’s an awkward tall handsome dude. You can’t control autism my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:54 PM
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It’s only been criticised by people on the internet who find it cringe when others brag about their high IQ. In almost every other avenue, IQ tests are the most reliable predictor of how educated you are and how successful you will be in the future. The ones with the highest IQ tend to also be those who got good grades in schools and went on to get good jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:43 PM
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It changes immensely depending on wether or not it’s an AI or PI. AI is just gathering data and information that already exist publicly on the internet for anyone to see and is done within seconds, at most minutes. It not really much different from when women type in your name to google to see if you’ve been in the news or had a criminal history. A PI on the other hand is vastly more expensive, time consuming, and you’re basically hiring someone to follow a stranger around and personally look in…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:22 PM
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Ya that’s another point I didn’t even mention, if your family/friends posted pictures of you on their public profile, then you can easily be searched for.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:02 PM
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Do you use Facebook or Instagram? Even if they’re private, if your avatar/profile picture is a picture of your face then that’s good enough for these apps to find you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:53 PM
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likely very unreliable From my experience, it’s very accurate, I’ve used it once to prove a point and my friend took a completely unique selfie that’s never been used on the internet before, the app immediately knew exactly who she was and linked me her social media pages.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:50 AM
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Leaking OnlyFans pictures isn’t revenge porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:47 AM
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How is not wanting to date someone for doing something controlling behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:47 AM
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Women use the taxi, they must date taxi drivers or be a hypocrite. Women eat sandwiches from the supermarket, they must date factory men who make the sandwiches or be a hypocrite. Women use the restrooms in public areas, they must date janitors or be a hypocrite. Etc, just because you use the product/service doesn’t mean you have to be happy to date the creators of said product/service or be a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:44 AM
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They are very precise, I remember a friend of mine said she hired a medium online for a reading and the only thing they required is a picture of herself, I said they can get all sorts of information about you from just that one selfie and we agreed to find out what I could find. One face recognition search later and I found out pretty much everything about her, name, address, birthday, who in her family recently died, her opinions all over the internet, her tiktok, etc. If I can find all of this…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:40 AM
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Being 6’5 and handsome by itself isn’t immediately going to make you a top 2% man, especially if you’re failing in all other aspects of life aka poor, weak, awkward, lanky, NEET etc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 10:35 AM
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Most ethnic guys are not Incels. But most Incels are ethnic guys.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 10:09 AM
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There’s vastly more autistic men than women, so this isn’t really a solution.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 05:00 PM
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Sunken cost fallacy, financial uncertainty This doesn’t explain why she would start to date this man in the first place Low self esteem But again, there’s still plenty hygienic groomed outgoing men going around, so how would low self esteem explain to us why she would chose to date the dirty rotten teeth guy? Because despite the men being groomed, hygienic, and outgoing, they’re still more unattractive than the dirty rotten teeth guy. You picture Instagram models I picture an overweight 5’4 Amer…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:28 PM
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I used to before ‘nice guys’ turned into a meme, I use the word ‘kind’ these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:07 PM
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The first guy I checked, Steven Spielberg, seemed fairly normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:04 PM
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listless, unwashed, slovenly, porn-addicted, irresponsible, neck-bearded, weed-brained Yet she met him, became attracted to him, dated him, then continues to date him, then instead of breaking up with him, she asks for advice online about how to basically fix her entire boyfriend instead of finding a boyfriend who is clean, well groomed, active, outgoing, etc. Why? Simply put, because he must be attractive, there’s no other possible reason to explain why she would start dating and continue to st…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:59 PM
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Subbed, always subbed, I can’t put my finger on it but when I hear dubbed voices it just feels off/wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:50 PM
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2/10, that’s a no from me my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:58 PM
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When she asked “How was your day” what was the time to say something interesting about your life. Women on dating apps aren’t interested in hearing you say “good thanks, you?”. Anything is better than that. “Just got off from MMA and almost had my head taken off” “Done a bunch of DIY around the house so I’m knackered” “Been painting my masterpiece” Literally anything, anything is better than just “Good, you?”.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:14 AM
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First one is me, I have tons of friends and my schedule’s constantly booked up as I’m doing all these different things. But 90% of the people at these places is just men and the few women that join are girlfriends of the guys that are there. Even if a woman who’s single does happen to show up, there’s no guarantee they’re someone you even want to date. Plus it’s not like your friends are constantly meeting new people either, if they plan an event, it’s going to be with all the people you already…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:55 PM
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This isn’t preselection, this is just a woman being hot. Her being hot means multiple men want to date her. Preselection is specifically when a person is more attracted to someone only after finding out other people want to or are dating them. Men don’t follow this pattern, a man’s interest in a woman isn’t determined by the existence of other men wanting to date her. In fact it’s usually quite the opposite, a man finding out she has a boyfriend or has several men already orbiting her is a turn …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:03 PM
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all men would cheat if they could, that’s why I choose to date the men that are able to cheat This makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:50 PM
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See, the 420 bot is on my side so I must be correct.
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 11:20 AM
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Being a 10/10 is a multiplication of multiple factors, you can have a 5’10 10/10 guy. I was using 6’4 as an example of how rare a 10/10 person would be. Only 1 in 100 men are 6’4, imagine how often you find 6’4 men and that’s about as often as yours find a 10/10 man. I’ve watched 100 TV shows, I’ve rated 3 of them as a 10/10, go on Amazon and you’ll see plenty of 5/5 stars for stuff, go to google reviews and see tons of 5/5 stars for restaurants and shops. Yet when it comes to people, everyone’s…
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 11:13 AM
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That women are happier in relationships. It’s a pushback specifically against the people who try to claim women are happier single despite having no evidence to prove that idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:46 AM
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1 in 100 people would be 10’s I see no problem with this. 1 in 100 people are also taller than 6’4. So seeing a 10/10 would be about as common as seeing someone who’s taller than 6’4. That would make a 2 20th percentile Considering 30% of the population is obese, this also makes sense.
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 01:54 AM
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He’s rich and has status.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:29 PM
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It’s dumb. 95% of the population are between a 3-7, and if you’re literally a male model you’re an 8.5 at most. Absolutely useless. I prefer ratings based on percentile of population. 50th percentile is 5/10. 70th percentile 7/10. 90th percentile 9/10. 99th percentile 10/10.
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 12:20 PM
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easily help others The man has a brick, what’s a man supposed to do, attack him?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:04 PM
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Meanwhile Nazi Chad gets one night stands after one night stands.
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 10:20 AM
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Yes, porn. Not imagining their life with a girl they was rejected by 20 years prior.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 10:08 AM
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/r/twoxchromosomes is always complaining about men, their boyfriends, their husbands, etc. /r/FDS was literally all about complaining about dating and how to maximise yourself in the dating world. What makes you think women aren’t complaining? women are happier for the first time in history According to all sources we have about women’s happiness since it’s been recorded, women are currently the unhappiest they’ve ever been. Higher rates of depression, higher rates of suicides and suicide attemp…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:11 PM
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Can’t wait to try this as a 5’7 Arab man lmao. Women are going to get shreked!
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 01:07 PM
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