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| 1 | Damn RightI've basically replied to this a bunch of times and gotten chastised for copying it, so I will let you look at my replies to other comments for details. But basically, men with less experience and with observably wrong calculations were listened to over me, and many of my (male) coworkers observed it and pointed it out to me too. I honestly don't want to be an entrepreneur. I thought about it for a year when I decided to leave the last company and take a year to travel and reflect- I had been sa… | /r/MensRights | 02/01/17 08:32 PM |
| 3 | Damn RightWell, if five people are too lazy to read that they all said the same thing, why shouldn't I use the same answer. You clearly are not an engineer if you do not look for the most efficient method to accomplish a task. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/17 03:10 AM |
| 3 | Damn RightWhich is why suicide rates are so high for men :( It is not a healthy normal. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/17 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Damn RightVery true. Which is why you have to do what will fulfill you every day. Not what some meme tells you is worth more to society. The sad thing is that this is just as anti-mensrights as women's. You think there isn't a man out there that was just made to feel a bit worse because they want to be a social worker or teacher or nurse or librarian? Just because STEM is associated with men doesn't mean they can't be beat down by the system that says "Engineer: BOY" "Childcare worker: GIRL" mentality tha… | /r/MensRights | 01/01/17 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Damn RightI can't find the article, but actually, this has been disproven in the UK, at least in finance and leadership roles. Due to non-compete clauses, the men take a comparable amount of time off in the financial sector and leadership roles as the women, and yet the women still are promoted less and are paid less. I will keep looking for the article. | /r/MensRights | 01/01/17 06:18 AM |
| 0 | Damn RightBut this meme is about people who are being told that they will be valued if they go into engineering, and I am saying that women often aren't. | /r/MensRights | 01/01/17 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Damn RightI actually did care. The guys on H1B Visa's got treated worse than me and I tried my best to take their Saturday shifts on their daughters birthday and such because they got hit with all the overtime because the managers knew they couldn't leave. Don't assume that just because someone is fighting to be treated with dignity they aren't fighting for others as well. Maybe you need to take a look in the mirror if you think that you can fight for men's rights without also fighting for women's rights.… | /r/MensRights | 01/01/17 06:02 AM |
| 5 | Damn RightUm, how about social workers? Yeah, they get paid crap, but it is really important work they do. Just because our society undervalues those who serve children (the people who will support us in our old age, by the way) doesn't make it useless. | /r/MensRights | 01/01/17 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Damn RightI mean, climate change deniers prove that daily. But yeah, it was pretty systematic. The only people treated worse were the H1B Visa guys :( We consoled each other. At least I could get out, they were stuck. So I am not saying I was the at the bottom, but I am saying there were systematic problems. | /r/MensRights | 01/01/17 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Damn RightI also think that people don't see how this whole meme is negatively affecting men's rights as well. It is part of the system that implies that social jobs SHOULD be paid less than STEM. But as men become more equal participators in fields like teaching and nursing, they are wondering why they aren't valued as much as someone who makes a few clicks on wall street. Why does a guy who works an 80 hour week teaching need to then turn around and drive an uber just to make ends meet just because 100 … | /r/MensRights | 01/01/17 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Damn RightI am sure because my male colleagues were often the ones even more upset than me about some of the cases. The ones that listened to me recognized that I was often the one predicting the "fires" that could be prevented and got as, if not more, frustrated than me when they ended up working crazy over time on something that was completely avoidable. And why were they forced to work even more of the over time than me? Because I will be completely honest, the H1B Visa's were treated WAY worse than wo… | /r/MensRights | 01/01/17 05:32 AM |
| 2 | Damn RightOr quit and find that I enjoy a career that yes, gets shit on, but I actually make a difference EVERY SINGLE DAY. Maybe being a teacher gets paid less because it was historically a woman's job, and we do get treated like shit by parents and admins and everyone else, but I can tolerate the shit when it doesn't feel like a waste of time. Who wants to waste 1/3-1/2 of their waking hours for 5 years? What does that prove? It proves to me that you should be applying to other places where you might be… | /r/MensRights | 01/01/17 05:27 AM |
| 5 | Damn RightVery different industry. I was in semiconductor and the shelf life of is often closer to 2 years in our area (Lam to AMAT and back each time you want a cost of living increase because both companies are short sighted and refuse to ever give a raise in house). And I will repeat what I have said to the others: I wasn't expecting that. But I was expecting to be treated as well as the kid 4 years younger than me who didn't have a masters. But nope. They wanted pretty pictures from me, no matter how … | /r/MensRights | 01/01/17 05:18 AM |
| 2 | Damn RightYeah, I am really glad these cough cough men splained to me how it was to work in engineering. Not like I had peers that were men that totally noticed what I noticed and also backed me up that there was a problem. Which was nice, but didn't make it tolerable as a career choice. | /r/MensRights | 01/01/17 05:09 AM |
| 2 | Damn RightI wasn't expecting that. But I was expecting to be treated as well as the kid 4 years younger than me who didn't have a masters. But nope. They wanted pretty pictures from me, no matter how many times I told them that FEA was a waste of time for calculating I-beam stresses. Or that the FEA the idiot without a degree made (because apparently doing enough CAD data input is just as good) which predicted 2 inch deflection in the support when we could clearly see with our own eyes that the deflection… | /r/MensRights | 01/01/17 05:06 AM |
| 2 | Damn RightI wasn't expecting that. But I was expecting to be treated as well as the kid 4 years younger than me who didn't have a masters. But nope. They wanted pretty pictures from me, no matter how many times I told them that FEA was a waste of time for calculating I-beam stresses. Or that the FEA the idiot without a degree made (because apparently doing enough CAD data input is just as good) which predicted 2 inch deflection in the support when we could clearly see with our own eyes that the deflection… | /r/MensRights | 01/01/17 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Damn RightI wasn't expecting that. But I was expecting to be treated as well as the kid 4 years younger than me who didn't have a masters. But nope. They wanted pretty pictures from me, no matter how many times I told them that FEA was a waste of time for calculating I-beam stresses. Or that the FEA the idiot without a degree made (because apparently doing enough CAD data input is just as good) which predicted 2 inch deflection in the support when we could clearly see with our own eyes that the deflection… | /r/MensRights | 01/01/17 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Damn RightI wasn't expecting that. But I was expecting to be treated as well as the kid 4 years younger than me who didn't have a masters. But nope. They wanted pretty pictures from me, no matter how many times I told them that FEA was a waste of time for calculating I-beam stresses. Or that the FEA the idiot without a degree made (because apparently doing enough CAD data input is just as good) which predicted 2 inch deflection in the support when we could clearly see with our own eyes that the deflection… | /r/MensRights | 01/01/17 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Damn RightI wasn't expecting that. But I was expecting to be treated as well as the kid 4 years younger than me who didn't have a masters. But nope. They wanted pretty pictures from me, no matter how many times I told them that FEA was a waste of time for calculating I-beam stresses. Or that the FEA the idiot without a degree made (because apparently doing enough CAD data input is just as good) which predicted 2 inch deflection in the support when we could clearly see with our own eyes that the deflection… | /r/MensRights | 01/01/17 05:03 AM |
| 194 | Damn RightI got a degree in Physics, masters in Mech Eng. And I got treated like crap for 4 years as an female engineer before switching to be a Physics teacher. Turns out that going to work every day to have your voice ignored or your ideas stolen feels like a waste of effort. So maybe part of closing the wage gap would also be working on making workplaces not be misogynistic so women who did get their engineering degrees wouldn't leave them at such higher rates than men. | /r/MensRights | 01/01/17 01:47 AM |
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