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They say men shouldn't reveal their weaknesses to women, ever ask why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:59 PM
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Well done sir, Michael will be waiting for you in the gates of heaven with a sticker and gift bag for your good service.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:11 AM
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I thought we're in the post-sexual revolution? Im still confused why men are demonised for what women are encouraged to do. I think because men's sexual strategy is framed as negative because women can't benefit from marriage or exclusivity. The problem is for the last 2 decades women have benefitted from a dual mating strategy of using men for dates, attention and whatever else with the idea of sex AND used marriage to level up and exploit a man long-term in the form of indentured servitude. A …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:10 AM
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You still listening to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:20 AM
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Take the virtue signalling elsewhere. If you don't like my advice as the gender you're trying to target then ignore it and go about your life. Funnily enough its the best advice for you.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/24 09:03 PM
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If men are trying to compete they are either insecure or you're masculine and they're treating you like another man (which still means they're insecure). Are you acting feminine or are you more masculine and stoic? How you come across significantly changes your response.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/24 08:54 PM
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Get comfortable approaching literally. At 40 you're not on most men's radar young and old even IF your super attractive. Men nowadays associate older women with a variety of issues and headache's so you'd have to break that stereotype and showcase why your not that.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/24 08:49 PM
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A beautiful girl will keep you focused on her rather than other beautiful women. Its much easier to be in a relationship esp long term with a girl you find attractive/beautfiul. I can imagine there's a correlation between the treatment the women gets in the relationship with how she looks. A pretty girlfriend energises men to provide and be better than he is, because he feels like she deserves the best. Bear in mind that the longer we're with you the "less attractive" you become, in the sense th…
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/24 08:33 PM
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Those aren't in spades and even if they were, would they tolerate anything less than a feminine woman? I'd tell OP to binge watch Kevin Samuels and see the end stage of what "girl boss" gives you.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/24 06:47 AM
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anecdotal vs the overwhelming evidence showing/stating otherwise. And the chances of a woman being okay with a KFC fast food date with fries is slim to none. Any grown woman isn't going to that, even if she's desperate. That's kid stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 10:05 PM
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Ah yes, relieve women of any/all responsibility and put it on the men. You are apart of the machine that allows women to do as they please and feel no ways about it. You didnt add anything valuable, just gave an emotional outburst. You don't make your gender look good. You seem to have some unresolved anger and also are very immature. Live some life and relive some of the bitterness you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 06:57 AM
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Open your eyes. Women are demanding steak dinner without even a conversation first. Women are very demanding and expect to be given the world b4 the reciprocate even 1% of that back. If you don't agree your simply being facetious or you aren't paying attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:35 PM
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Alpha Male Strategies is a one stop shop for all things self development. Start with his old videos and work your way up to recent ones.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/24 12:51 PM
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If a man is complaining about his spouse being high maintenence, that shouldn't be a compliment. That means he's not happy somehow and is frustrated, its not a flex. If he's complaining about work he's venting and is seeking comfort. I'm not sure why women assume men don't share the same emotions as them, and we need to be placated like a toddler. If he's complainign and venting, be a good wife, listen and comfort him. That's your job.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/24 01:00 PM
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You're right I didn't see the group name. What I said is still the truth and you should re-educate yourself on the red pill bc you sound naive and idealistic as hell. If you read correctly, I said sow wild oats BEFORE being married. Men get oneitis with their first lay and 10 years down the line they're asking themselves what if and regretting not experiencing women and the world before trading in their player card for a wedding ring and nagging wife (generally). The difference is that most guys…
/r/ExRedPill05/08/24 03:42 PM
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Before a man gets married he should sow his wild oats. I don't mean chasing ass, but strategically pursuing and laying down. You will get the practice, confidence, resilience and knowledge of women. Right now, you are prey for a women who you're attracted to and who may present feminine initially before the games reveal themselves. If you have little REAL knowledge of women and how they act, you will not pick well and end up married to a chameleon and not have the strength to walk. You have to f…
/r/ExRedPill05/08/24 01:31 PM
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What you think and feel doesn't correlate to reality. If your a man, you should be realistic not idealistic. Leave fairy tales and fantasy to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:16 PM
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Imagine if women found out that most of them are "mid" and men have tolerated them simply for in house sex. Yes relationships are about give and take and everyone wants something in the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:15 PM
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If you really want the things you say you must proceed in a way that secures that outcome. A 29 year old man generally is still making his way in his career so he will not be able to retire you until his mid 30s. Most men won't be able to retire their women, now women are in the workforce 2 wages are required to maintain a home and its been that way for decades. The man you're looking for is most likely in his late 30s-early 40s and is looking to settle down quickly. Instead you've made your goo…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/24 09:26 AM
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But those men who make more will demand more like kids, femininity, respect, fitness and above-average looks. By the sounds of it, OP would have a better time enjoying the rest of her days w an average valuable man who she respected. There are NOT enough HVM to go around and if you don't want to lower your requirements, then loneliness is the next option.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/24 09:38 PM
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I agree she sounds anxious and fearful of relationships. If she seeks a HVM he'd hear these red flags and categorise her accordingly. She's essentially prepared and ready to escape as soon as something goes wrong. Why would someone risk marriage with a person like that?
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/24 09:36 PM
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If you don't want kids and seek travel and seeing the world, at best you're LTR or rotation/side piece material. Men aren't getting much in return marriage-wise apart from sex, which isn't worth a ring.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/24 09:33 PM
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Wow. Women can (almost) have it all and through fear they sabotage themselves. You do know that most women won't even get the chance of finding a good guy, they'd try their hand at HVM lottery and likely end up losing. My advice is to stick around and appreciate the "good man" you have, because in life you only get so many chances. Don't let superficial standards get in the way of your happy ending. Relationships are about understanding and teamwork, don't get cold feet when things start to get …
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/24 07:46 AM
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I'm confused, the majority of women are femnist and expect a man to meet their laundry list before they even THINK about what he could want. Even if they're told what men desire, they chalk it up to patriarchal, animalistic and childish and decide to prescribe men what they supposedly "need". So a woman trying to be what a man wants today would be rare not the opposite. The reason why woman aren't getting married in the church is due to prosperity preaching and procrastination . Being told to wa…
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/24 04:58 PM
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I believe if you wish to be married, you do everything which improve your chances to attract a man and get him to marry you. Things that attract a man and keep him are a healthy body weight, good looks (subjective) and femininity. A woman could have been around the world if she hasn't got those traits she isn't likely to get married. Time is more efficiently spent learning the target audience and adjusting to their wants and desires and picking suitably, rather than living a life of hedonism for…
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/24 10:44 AM
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This advice is the reason why women end up lonely in their later years. Every year you waste means your less likely to be married (which is what you want). You need to looksmaxx, study men and what they wants and then put yourself in positions to find a "good man" who wants to settle down. Postponing out of fear will only have you losing later on.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/24 08:21 AM
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Women are fully aware men want to have sex with them and MAYBE more if things go well. Using this knowledge, they leverage their beauty and sex to get what they want out of the man. They use game to make the man fall in love and lead them down the marraige road (while being in-lust) Ofcourse they don't want to discuss sex, they would disqualify themselves if they clarified their desire for sex, casual or not. They want the man to chase "possibility" of sex, esp after all the investment (dates+ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:24 PM
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That's fine we're free to believe what we want.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:36 PM
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False, there are plenty of rich men dating women who are there strictly for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:35 PM
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Women know that they are on thin ice at the start of the relationship, so they wait until the man is in the honeymoon stage to start to whisper in his ear. At the start she makes it seem that sex and fun is all she desires, until she starts taking him down the marraige road. They bait the man sexually and then use him however they please later on. If women stated their true desires at the start, there would be a lot less marriages. Women have agency and if they stick around after the needle has …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:29 PM
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I'm speaking strictly looks
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:24 PM
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Men inherently are interested in having sex, first and foremost. In the pursuit of chasing sex, women use it as a means to get what they desire out of the interaction ring/resources/ltr/gifts/free attention. They use man's desire and it becomes a vehicle to get what they want. Men doing the same thing (sexual strategy) is demonised just like op framed it. To recap, women make men "chase" and they have their way w them once they fall in love. Men making women "chase" are immature, childish, manip…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:23 PM
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I agree, avg men will never have the option of casual sex so thats not an issue. The problem is women not wanting avg guys anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:42 PM
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They are analogous because both genders have dating strategy. Women seek a ltr/ring and children but utilise men's lust/desire for sex to help them reach that objective. Men use women's desire for ltr and money/status to help them reach their objective.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:26 PM
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Find a way to get him back on his grind, remind him of when he met you, how strong he was. He needs to self improve and become a man that is attractive to you again. Maybe introduce him to the red pill. Don't nag him to be better tho, find a way to make it his idea and keep the fire stoked.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/24 01:03 PM
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You framed casual/non monogamous sex in a certain negative light. Casual sex is a valid dating strategy for men mostly. Women's dating strategy is marraige or a ltr and they use various (manipulative) means to attract and secure one. Demonising a valid male dating strategy, presupposes women don't have agency to avoid or do the exact same thing i.e. a girl using a naive man for dates/gift etc while freely fucking a chad. Women don't say from the jump "I'd like to marry you and have kids" that wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:00 PM
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No I mean abundance, money, social skills, hobbies, fitness, sexual tension, leadership etc etc. Most guys aren't this and girls want that esp the 9s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:43 AM
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We agree, most guys don't have the true qualities to keep the interest of a woman of that caliber, it's easier w a less attractive girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:40 AM
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"pulled" that doesn't imply keeping the woman for longer than 6 months. But with their looksmatch they managed the solve the "puzzle" to long lasting relationships. If the 9 was as feminine and easy as the looksmatch they would choose the prettier option 9/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:39 PM
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No I made a new scenario. In that scenario, if given the option most men will proceed how I described. There's zero reason not to. Women would rather chance that, than date avg men. Some of these rich guys are getting trapped by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:19 PM
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It's a theory at the end of the day which I belive is true. But I can agree that a good amount of men are wired for monogomany and there's nothing wrong w that. Whether that is due to natural or environmental factors is another question. If you have a good girl take care of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:13 PM
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I see the benefits of both, you only have the option of one and hate the other. Yeah I'm the brainwashed one
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:10 PM
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Your view of these men are distorted and that's on you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:06 PM
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Take pride in those achievements while half of men will never reproduce 👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:05 PM
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It's also wrong to make the argument "if everyone does it then it must be so" the avg person will never have the chance, so the argument isn't in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:58 PM
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Not sure why you guys create your own definitions. Just bc you don't want casual sex doesn't mean other men agree. Using shaming tactics doesn't change the fact there are men who have high-esteem, intelligence etc but choose not to be monogamous for various reasons. You only show ur insecurity and nativity spouting lies you have no evidence for.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:57 PM
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Remind ursekf of that while women excell in their careers and playing men in the dating game. U sound like a broke fighter looking at the champ saying "I beat him once upon a time" - that day has passed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:51 PM
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Hard to believe and anecdotal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:50 PM
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No bc I don't respond to monogamy in an antagonistic way w ad hominems and shaming tactics. I understand there's a place for both monogamy and polygamy/casual relationships. Your showing ur own conditioning by creating the premise that monogomy is "right" and otherwise means there are "issues". And society pushes monogomy, marraige, blue pill etc. Everything you consume idealises that life to the point it seems like the only right way. His response showed me his mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:41 PM
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I'll tell you where it's gotten women. Dating above and beyond their social and financial status providing a plethora of benefits . And investment in the form of children which secure this. Cleopatra is one example, it's gotten women plenty. Men on the other hand are idealistic, so they believe in love without strategy. Which means they are open for manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:26 PM
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Yes and what IS the *demonstrated man of contemporary times. A blue pilled simp (liberal) . So I'd rather reject the previous persons definition and societies, since they are both trained by feminism and a structure which sees men as vehicles for its industry and future workers. The men of today have no relation to the idealised "Man" and haven't for sometime. It's a story they tell themselves while they are under the boot of their women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:19 PM
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I didn;t miss the point, i made a side scenario based off the point. If those girls wanted to marry the person or have a ltr w them they aren't seeing 6s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:02 PM
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Enjoy your life
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:00 PM
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Who dictates what a "Man" is, you? the bible? the law? I'll tell you this, women are running around flaking, two timing, tricking, prospering and at the end they get to settle down w a righteous blue pilled fool, thinking he won. Women are playing the game they want to and men still trying to be this self defeating "gentleman" is why they're being manipulated and ran circles around. You keep being upfront, loyal, and righteous and enjoy your reward. Dating by nature is adversarial, women have kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:54 PM
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Sounds like you've lived better than 99% of dudes while still having a chance to settle down at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:50 PM
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If a man at ANY scale on looks can bag and date a 9/10 and she wants to marry you, why would you even consider the 6. Humans go for the most beneficial deal, and a prettier girl is better. Guys will say the 6 has better personality, if the personality is equal it wouldn't be rational to take a weaker girl, unless you fear the hot girls standards. Women are having their way because they CAN. If men were in this position (fantasy) mid girls would be starved of attention, bc we want the best ROI. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:49 PM
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The average man don't have the option of casual sex, they're struggling w/women due to looks/money or status so they're rejecting a fantasy/scenario which was never available. But i agree some men desire monogamy, but i don't believe its bc they get tired of slaying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:36 PM
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Respectable perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:34 PM
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I respect that you correlate a desire for casual sex with those traits you mentioned. I'm sorry your conditioning conflates that to a lack of loyalty/control, it simply shows how conditioned you are to monogamy which is what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:33 PM
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The scenario you created begins with the notion the man is overwhelmed. Having a 2-3 rotation is perfectly managable, IF you have the ability and skill to manage them. There's no reason you can't keep the women around, granted you have set the foundation for such a relationship. Being able to even have a harem puts in you in a league far from avg men, women aren't as difficult at that stage. Now back to my scenario. Give the avg man the options on 9/10 models throwing free sex at them, with litt…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:31 PM
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Men are as loyal as his options. Most people saying they don't value casual sex, likely never had the options to do so. If a male has 9/10s throwing casual sex at them everyday, I'd bet they're building a harem asap.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 04:42 PM
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