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I love how triggered the men are in the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 08:41 PM
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I think coffee dates as the first date are the safer option. No alcohol involved and quite short. What if you go to dinner and the guy is a catfish or really annoying? You could escape faster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 08:03 PM
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Majority of them are monsters in disguise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 05:56 PM
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Jennifer López is Puerto Rican and she's tan. Zuleyka Rivera too. There's many examples of tan latinas, even for us Latinos. It's the most common description.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 12:22 AM
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I think the media thinks all Latinas are tan, dark haired, curvy women actually. Never heard someone describing a Latina as super pale.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 03:17 AM
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The best meme on the internet. So accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 02:43 AM
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Your comment makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 12:11 PM
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This, I'm glad I woke up and left him but I was this girl before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 09:40 PM
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Because then those men would have to admit they're pieces of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 06:59 PM
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Your definition of masculinity is being a gangster or a thug?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 12:28 PM
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This is what I've been saying for a very long time. Great post OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 12:26 PM
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Are you joking or...?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 12:25 PM
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In reality the world doesn't care about your new found decision but here 🏅 have a gold medal lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 06:42 PM
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The world is not equal princess. You must work with what has been given to you. You don't see men doing the same for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 12:38 PM
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I struck a nerve. You won't listen to reason so this conversation is over. I'm already bored. Keep being a cheap buffoon, no woman worth her salt will end up with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 12:36 PM
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You mean *Peterson, which speaks a lot from your mental state sadly. You're being brainwashed. Lady, you earn respect from the first interactions. You must vet a man before investing in him. It's more efficient that way. You cannot expect him to provide for you and your kids after you always paid for your meals. That never works, he'll be too comfortable and will just say that you never expected him to step up. This way, you're not creating any misunderstandings. Anyway, my words are falling on …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 12:28 PM
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False rape allegations aren't as common as TRP or MGTOW makes you believe. Actual rape is rampant. Women can pay child support also, sexual shaming is way worse for women hence the several terms for promiscuous women, you don't go through pregnancy or labor to even compare it to child support (reminding you that it's their children too so boohoo, having to provide for your offspring) and again, STDs. That's why lesbians are the least likely to carry STDs compared to heterosexual and gay couples.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 12:11 AM
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Haha rape allegations happen IF you rape a woman, you'll never get pregnant, men sleep around more so there's more probability that they carry STDs, women have to get abortions if the baby is not wanted, he could spread rumors of her "sluttiness", post nudes on social media, etc. Women still get the worst end of the deal. Men's penises won't fall off if they pay for dates. They'll actually appreciate the woman more. A girl that pays is a girl that is low value. A beautiful woman has many prospec…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 11:21 PM
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Pick meeeeeeeeeeee pls
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 10:58 PM
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No self-respecting woman with prospects would say that. You're literally glossing over the fact that men don't respect women who pay for their time. That's not integrity, that's not having standards. 50/50 never works because you'll be investing way more than him always.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 10:54 PM
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You're seriously giving me man vibes. And I care about living my best life surrounded by people that love me and won't take me for granted. Time and emotions are always invested, but at least you'll come out of the relationship knowing that you didn't lose your dignity as a woman. Men aren't angels, if you cheated on them and they could they would take everything from you, they would leave you with nothing. Don't be a doormat. Be smarter. Why be satisfied with sardines when you could get the who…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 10:45 PM
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Yeah, that's the most convenient argument from men. "No one's being used for sex". Thing is, the risks aren't the same for men and women. She can get pregnant, get an STD, be shamed by her sexuality, raped, etc. It's never on even ground unless she gets a real commitment. It's better to sleep with a man who's financially stable and generous than with a cheap one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 10:36 PM
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Seems like you would sadly. And yes, but it's better to cry in a house with everything taken care of than being heartbroken and resenting the money you spent on a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 10:25 PM
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I rather be cheated on by a handsome man that provides for his homestead than a broke, ugly man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 10:21 PM
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Good comeback hobo.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 10:17 PM
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The whole point is not being used for sex and not getting anything in return. Women risk way more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 10:16 PM
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No, you're just not understanding my point. We want a masculine man. A provider, protector and lover. Most of the men here aren't that and that's why they're ranting about it, but you don't see the same energy against TRP. For real though, how can you honestly say that high quality men are unrealistic? Are you satisfied with cheap, broke, toxic, parasitic men that will live off you if you let them? Girl, many do what you're advocating to later realize their dear 50/50 husband is cheating on them…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 09:54 PM
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What part of having a high-quality man do you not understand? Men can provide and support you at the same time. What kind of men are you dating? And yes, you're satisfied with so little when you could get so much more from a partner. He'll treasure you. Being a pick-me won't help you with men at all. They'll leave you for a beautiful woman that knows what she deserves and you'll be left with nothing, only resentment. I hope you see the light someday, good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 09:29 PM
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Survey? What kind of factual survey you'll get from Reddit? Debate me with facts, not other's "opinions" as you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 08:49 PM
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Seems like you need more backup because you can't debate me seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 08:46 PM
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Honey, I don't know if you're a real woman or a troll, but if you're a woman I sense a strong pick-me energy in you. Women with high standards get a great man, not a dusty one that won't commit. Enjoy being a hooker that pays for her client.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 08:39 PM
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Because everyone tell us we should get married, even kid's movies drill us the message. Live happily ever after with your prince! But what they don't tell us is that the majority of men can hardly classify as good men, let alone a prince. So subreddits like these are created, to filter what we don't want and try to appeal to what's already established for us as women since millennia, without losing ourselves in the process. You risk your dignity, your heart, your family, everything you've built …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 08:27 PM
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Aww did I hurt your feelings? In this case we're talking about dating. If she's a high-quality woman she deserves a high-quality man. What can men offer if it's not money and experiences? Most of them can't and/or won't take care of the house nor the kids (if they have any) and they barely give emotional support. Let men be men, not "parasites".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 08:18 PM
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I just got out of a 5 year relationship, he was my third boyfriend and highschool sweetheart. The second one lasted a year and 7 months. I left all of them and now I'm focusing on myself. I do have prospects, but I'm not into dating right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 04:24 PM
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This. I dated a toxic, ugly man and he cheated on me. They do it because they're insecure and need the female attention more than a handsome guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 03:56 PM
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TRP advocates the same shit and even rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 03:38 PM
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You sound like a broke man. These women are upgrading everything about themselves, especially their good-looks since that's the #1 thing men see in women. The least the men can do is pay for a measly meal. Men that are killing it out there take care of their women. Your rant speaks a lot about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 03:19 PM
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Thing is, great majority of men don't do equal labor in the relationship and women always have to pick up the slack. So men must make themselves useful for something, it's no surprise that divorced women are happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 12:46 AM
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That's a great screening technique if you want a masculine, high value man that will take care of you and your family. It works great.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 07:58 PM
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This, I completely agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 07:35 PM
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Their argument is much more complex than that. They're screening out cheap dating prospects that will use them for sex and live off them. We all know that women carry a bigger burden when they sleep with a man. The consequences, be them good or bad, fall more heavily on their shoulders. What you're seeing there is women having standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 07:32 PM
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All I see in porn is men beating women and practically raping them, that speaks a lot of the kind of sexuality they crave. So if you think they're repressed, I'm actually glad it is that way. And even then, a lot of men still practice those desires with unwilling women. No, beauty standards are created by men. Straight women wouldn't be so worried about their looks if men didn't put so much emphasis on prettiness. They worship a beautiful woman. And if they don't end up with one, they think they…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 12:26 PM
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Aha... Why is porn male-centric then? Why do such controlling beauty standards for women exist? We're being raped by men in huge numbers and killed by our own lovers or ex-lovers. And YOU think male sexuality is repressed? Goddamn, if men get to be "free", this would be more of a hell-hole than it already is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 03:40 AM
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I have a thing for Michael Jackson in his Bad era. He looked so hot. Also, Andy Black is the closest to a male 10. He looks like a gorgeous fallen angel or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 10:52 PM
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Evolutionary speaking it's simple, men needed to be strong and big to fight off or intimidate predators and other men. Women weren't the protectors. It was better to look dainty and small so you could awaken men's protective instinct. Same with our neotenous features (although being small is included here). Another possible explanation is that in this time and age where feminism is permeating everything, women still want to feel like they're the lady in the relationship and men want short/er wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 03:19 PM
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Oh I do believe that's true, when she's really pretty men are more scared to approach. When she's average and relatable guys flock to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 03:06 PM
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Oh no believe me, it happens way more often than with handsome ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 01:01 PM
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I get you but you can be used by ugly dudes too and it hurts more because you settled.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 11:06 AM
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What's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 11:03 AM
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If a girl is hot, why should she settle for the ugly dude? Makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 01:51 AM
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The doctor I used to go to for my appointments did this to his ex wife. She used the money that her dead parents left her to put him through medschool and he cheated on her with his secretary. His ex wife got so depressed from that situation that he was able to take their kids away from her forever. NEVER PAY FOR A MAN, he'll destroy you without a second thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 12:32 AM
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Preach 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 12:19 AM
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Please do, it's a smarter investment. Your heart will be more protected if the relationship doesn't work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 06:04 PM
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Precisely. Although he must have some attractive features that I personally like. I don't need a model-tier guy but I wouldn't date Quasimodo neither.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 06:00 PM
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This is exactly what I think. I'd either be a stay at home mom or a career woman, but never both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/19 11:38 PM
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Cunt coaster 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 04:40 PM
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This is gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 04:39 PM
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Because they're huge pick-me's. I've seen a couple of former Redpill women that admitted they wanted the male attention. Needless to say, they were used as ragdolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 02:37 PM
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Men sure like to chase and beg for the "hairy fish".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 02:34 PM
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Haha I have manyyyy stories to tell... Once I confronted my ex (yay!) for letting a girl kiss him (the fuck) and he acted like he was the victim of the situation. He was in his car at college talking to this particular girl, how do you not see a girl leaning down to kiss you through the window? I proceeded to enter my cousin's house and left him in his car after slamming the door shut. A couple of minutes passed, I felt something was wrong and when I got out of the house he was nowhere to be see…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/19 12:45 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 02:00 AM
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That's alright then, not all women want marriage. Although she could change her mind. Or she's waiting for you to change your mind with time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 11:30 PM
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She wants marriage and you don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 11:17 PM
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Simple, I actually can't feel sexually attracted to a man who isn't financially stable and generous. I feel unsafe by the many consequences that sleeping with a broke man brings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 02:48 PM
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I've always associated quietness, calmness and introvertedness with femininity actually. Marilyn Monroe was an introvert too.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/19 03:42 PM
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Yeah, Loki even has more fangirls than Thor. He's hugely popular.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/19 06:54 PM
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You're completely right.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/19 06:46 PM
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I'll be honest with you, in your place I would break up with him for good. How can a man feel comfortable letting you pay for the majority of things, not having a car/making you drive him everywhere for so long and not even putting effort on taking you out? We're redpill women. He has to step up his game as a man, especially at his age.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/19 06:08 PM
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This is the best response on this thread.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/19 05:55 PM
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That's why I only date provider types.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/19 09:44 PM
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Feminism doesn't make me paranoid for no reason. The news makes me paranoid and anxious. More than 50% of female homicides are perpetrated by their male partners. Yeah, I don't think TRP and feminism are the same AT ALL.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 12:53 AM
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Logically wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/19 08:17 PM
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It's wrong in so many levels. That's why you're getting downvoted.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/19 03:28 PM
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You must be joking right?
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/19 02:40 PM
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This 100%. We need to have high standards for the men or else they'll walk all over you.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/19 02:32 PM
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Yeahhh no, tell that to Wonder Woman and her cult of men. Men literally worship Gal Gadot. It's all in the features and how the color suits you. Rihanna is another example, she's had the best men fall for her, including a billionaire from Dubai. She's wearing jet black hair most of the time and she looks gorgeous. Also, the modern trend of Instagram modeling was set by Kylie Jenner and Kim Kardashian and they have the shiniest black hair ever. And we all know Instagram is THE platform to showcas…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 12:46 AM
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The women I've seen that men drool over for the most, have dark hair. Case in point, mention Wonder Woman versus any other woman out there and they'll pick Gal Gadot everytime.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/19 02:05 AM
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Tell that to the countless woman-hating subreddits. This is our space. Fuck off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/19 11:57 PM
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You're quite right, my mistake lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 08:14 PM
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At least the "average" guy isn't ridden with diseases and actually enjoys real intimacy. This post makes men sound like beasts that only aspire to get sex in their lives. Unless I'm mistaken and they're just dicks on legs 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 10:23 PM
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Why would I waste my precious time on you losers? Get a life, valuable men aren't "raiding" subs like little kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/19 01:27 AM
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Because that would defeat their purpose, they want to keep the patriarchy alive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/19 06:18 PM
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I think the great majority of women prefer to be dominated in bed. Fanfiction is for women what porn is for men (although a lot of women watch porn also) and 99% of the adult content on fanfiction sites has a dominant male with a more submissive partner (great majority of the time it's a female) and if it's a pairing between a male character and the reader, it's always assumed in the story that the reader is a woman. So it's women writing out their fantasies for other women, it's a huge platform…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 12:07 AM
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Because player types are only for messing around. We don't like being one of many, we want to be the only one for the person we love. Plus, it's a matter of dignity and health. Men don't like the town's bicycle for something serious, we're not different in that regard. I've never been with a player and never intend to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 01:57 PM
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Maybe she was just annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 06:24 PM
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Or maybe your friend is objectively hot in their eyes. Majority of women have plain faces, that's why it's called average. Why wouldn't guys sleep with a normal woman? Especially when even celebrities would look quite normal if it wasn't for everything you just mentioned but on steroids. They have way more money to invest in their looks. We also know men don't care about height or actually like women short or shorter than them. That's another plus for her. Being skinny fat could be a positive fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 01:00 PM
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That's terrible advice. The guys you sleep with when you are younger (15-20 yrs old) aren't usually husband/father of your children material. You're more ignorant and horny, it's hard to evaluate actual good potential suitors.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 06:45 PM
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Because that would destroy their usual rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 02:45 PM
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The quality of sperm declines with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 02:17 AM
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I concur, everybody is different. Each person ages differently, I've seen 30, 40, 50 something women that look way better than the majority of men in those same age ranges. The opposite also occurs. But women have a bigger arsenal to look more physically appealing than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 02:16 AM
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Pregnancy, the viability of the fetus and the health of the baby are also heavily compromised with the declining age of the male partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 02:11 AM
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Tall and slender? Are you sure about that? I normally see petite, slim and young women most of the time on those sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 03:59 AM
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I'll go against the popular sentiment here and say that it's a red flag if you want a provider/protector type. I think it's perfectly acceptable to have standards, especially as a red pill woman. We want a man, not another woman. If it was just a joke you could take it as a yellow flag, but if he was serious I would stay clear of him. We're here for the traditional aspect of dating, being complementary. Paying for dates would set the tone of the relationship and you don't want that kind of arran…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/19 08:22 PM
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I think you're right, I've had great success like that. It clears up the expectations.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/19 08:16 PM
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I absolutely agree. Great post.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/19 11:55 PM
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In scenario one it would be nice to know he has my back, not necessarily physically fighting but it is on the table. It's all in the context and how grave it is. In the second one, it also depends on what's being said and the circumstances. In scenario 3 and 4, I would 100% like him to actually physically protect me. I'm very petite and not the military type at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 11:13 PM
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Idk I can be very visually stimulated alright... Every girl friend I've had would spend precious time talking about how hot some guys looked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 10:27 PM
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Belle Delphine manipulates grown ass perverted men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:12 PM
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Being quite direct, yes it matters. It doesn't matter if some say that they don't care, it's definitely not true and they're just virtue signaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 10:18 PM
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I think she's a genius, knows how to work a room full of depraved men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 01:16 AM
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You have many things going on for you right now. You're petite (quite feminine), young and have big lips (many women pay for injections to have those same big lips). Concentrate on what you can enhance. Do exercise, take care of your skin and grow out your hair. Work with your baby face, not against it. Use pastel colors on your outfits and make up. You can be the sexy cute type. Also, you can minimize your wide nose with make up (check out nose contouring videos on YouTube). Don't sleep with br…
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/19 11:06 PM
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*In USA you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 09:59 PM
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I think that's because women barely get much satisfaction from sex with men. They barely orgasm with them if at all, so it's not really something they're obsessed with. Lesbian women get the best deal, bisexual women get the second spot and well... Straight women are the last ones. There's actually a study and everything. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/amp/health-39077293
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 01:19 AM
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1) Read anything about royal/princess etiquette. 2) Speak softly but with confidence. 3) Sway your hips a little bit when you're walking, don't overdo it. 4) Good posture. 5) Smile, look down and then up into someone's eyes. Makes you look bashful, humble and cute. 6) Keep your hand movements delicate, unhurried and graceful. 7) Never talk with your mouth full or eat while walking. First sit down somewhere.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/19 08:35 PM
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Except men are happier in marriages and women aren't. Single men are less happy than single women. There's literally a study.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 10:31 PM
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I'm sorry that happened to you... Sounds like a nightmare.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/19 03:08 PM
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I don't really care. It's just porn. Ladies aren't completely innocent themselves 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 03:49 PM
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Definitely, but people don't really analize situations and/or what they say 😂 They think because a person is unattractive, they would attach themselves to the hip of their partner and never disappoint them, since the woman in question could do so much better but instead picks the ugly man. Little do they know, that never works.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 02:26 PM
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This. I feel sorry for the women that think that ugly men would treat them better. It's quite common to hear that we should settle down with an unattractive man because they wouldn't cheat and other silly things. I've found it's the opposite, good looking men have less reasons to stray. They already know how hot they are and have tasted validation. Ugly men haven't and would surely drown in the attention of any other girl that shows interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 03:42 AM
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Fat with rolls isn't the same as curvaceous though, it just sounded like criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 05:43 PM
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I agree, each one has their own experience though. I'm petite, thin and curvy but I don't really need to starve myself. Actually on the contrary, it's an uphill battle to gain weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 03:17 PM
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Why specifically fat puerto rican girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 03:10 PM
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Oh no I don't like to compete. If he has options cool, as long as he's not a fuckboy and actually wants something serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 02:24 PM
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Yeah that experience is pretty common.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 03:57 AM
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Because they still do the tasks assigned to the female gender and work at the same time while taking care of their husband. Not all husbands are good and hard-working.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 08:57 PM
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Being short as a woman makes you look cute and feminine. But being fat does impact anyone's attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 02:28 AM
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You're ignoring my point. It's not right to dump your mental issues on another person. Nothing more, nothing less.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 01:46 AM
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The mantle of Captain Marvel has been passed between many women and men. That's not really a good example.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 03:25 PM
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He's not my ex. We've been together for 5 years and counting. You don't have any idea how it affects the other person's mental state. A lover is not supossed to be your psychiatrist/nurse/parent. We each have our own problems, it's unfair to dump your negativity on the other person 24/7. You gotta solve your own problems instead of not doing anything about it and cursing the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 03:11 PM
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Oh no honey, I know plenty about depression. What I described is part of my boyfriend's history with depression. There's quite a thin line for some people between being an expert manipulator and being depressed. I'm not talking about you specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 03:06 PM
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And how do you differentiate between an extreme manipulator and a depressed person? It's almost impossible. Better safe than sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 02:14 PM
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I'm in the same boat and it gets so tiring...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 05:30 AM
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I'm talking about negative people. People who tried drowning themselves to manipulate you. People who drive fast and recklessly with you in the car. People who actually overdosed on pills and alcohol because you were busy with school/work. People who post self-pitying posts in social media. People who can get over their "depression" but choose not to and like the attention. It gets tiring and stresses others emotionally. If you really have depression, work on overcoming it and don't expect anyon…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 05:13 AM
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Did the men share house/childcare duties also?
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/19 09:29 PM
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Another person commented how depression is a lack of meaning, which stems from a lack of goals (in summary it's laziness manifested) and I truly agree with that, it's what I'm observing in my relationship. I've tried helping him in any way possible but he doesn't want to make things better for himself having all the answers in front of his nose. With our history and how he acts, I'm starting to think it's attention seeking behaviour and manipulation tactics. That's what I don't like and it's gro…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 02:34 PM
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This! This right here deserves gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 02:52 AM
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He can open up. My point is that he shouldn't be like that 24/7. No one likes that. It saps the other person's energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 02:45 AM
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I'll be honest, it depends on the frequency. I'm quite empathic and I don't have any problems listening to his struggles, as long as he's not crying/venting/being suicidal the majority of the time. I'm in a relationship with a guy like that for years now and I feel like I'm falling out of love. Of course there's others factors in play, but him being negative 99% of the time is making ME depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 12:18 AM
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I didn't know videogames are masculine 😂 They're gender neutral if anything. Actually, everything you mentioned is gender neutral if you think about it. How you do it is what makes it feminine or masculine. If you're a hot man that knows how to cook and likes to keep his home tidy, believe me no woman would be repelled. Same thing the other way around, good-looking people don't have problems with these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 01:04 PM
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You're not "damaged goods", please stop thinking about yourself that way. There's a bigger world out there and normal/mentally healthy men would most likely just ask about your scars and move on.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/19 03:52 AM
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Why sadly? Short girls are awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 10:16 PM
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Ooookay, you're delusional 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 01:35 PM
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Sure ignore all the rape, beatings, mass shootings, homicides, wars, etc. that men do on the regular 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 08:09 AM
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Yes, you should be ashamed of generalizing and not digging deeply in these subjects. Young women aren't always rays of sunshine, older women aren't jaded as a rule. Women are capable of having kids whenever they want before menopause. Some of the most attractive women nowadays are the ones "approaching the wall".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 10:17 PM
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This is so cringy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 09:49 PM
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They should know beforehand that you're only interested in casual sex. That way you can exit the sexual relationship without a problem, you were already upfront about it.
/r/seduction25/04/19 10:14 AM
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My advice: Do whatever you want with your life. Don't overthink it. You want to a have a dream job? Go for it. Or become a housewife if that's your preference. Forget about the age of a hypothetical man, be more concerned about his character and what he can provide for you. Life is not a controlled environment, not a laboratory where you get to manage every single thing. The world doesn't end if a relationship doesn't work. You're a woman, a person, a human being, not a puzzle piece that needs a…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/19 10:22 AM
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Depends on the type of woman you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 02:44 PM
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True, a handsome shy guy will just be called "mysterious". As long as he tries to interact with women he'll be very succesful. On the other hand, if he's ugly they won't even look at him twice. Charisma only takes you so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 02:13 PM
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Many men like providing for their women when these women offer dedication and acts of services to them. I don't see it as a bad thing, they complement each other. A ying to their yang.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 09:34 AM
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There's no social decline 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 12:28 PM
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I used to wear them because they're fashionable. But they're very uncomfortable and they don't do much in terms of attraction honestly. Nowadays I only wear them for formal occasions. I've had men approach me more frequently without them than with them. I'm 4'10" if that helps, quite petite.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 03:06 PM
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They didn't date, Rihanna addressed those rumours. They're friends. And Depp looks handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 01:57 PM
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Yes, looks like I have to repeat the premise 100 times for you to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 01:52 AM
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You want me to call him creepy too? Now I'm confused, I thought you loved him lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 01:50 AM
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"The idea that robust fertility for a man will continue well past a woman’s decline in fertility is untrue. Although the female ovarian reserve is perhaps the most crucial component of a couple’s per cycle fecundity, the age of the male partner also has significant impact on reproduction." ^ Again, read it well and let it sink in. Read it throughly. Look for your glasses if you need them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 12:47 AM
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No, I answered OP's question after the sentence about Leonardo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 12:43 AM
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No, that's just wishful thinking from your part.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 05:04 PM
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Where? I didn't mention creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 05:03 PM
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Unless a woman wants a disabled kid then sure, she should look for a 50+ old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 03:54 PM
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Saying he's not handsome doesn't mean we hate him. That's really dramatic. And like I said, if he wasn't rich or famous he could kiss goodbye all of the supermodels.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 03:52 PM
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No, read the scientific paper. They clearly said that there's not a big difference. You can keep looking and type birth defects related to male fertility decline and you'll find tons of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 02:44 PM
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Sure, call us bitter because we don't agree with you haha. The fact stands, he's an ugly man now and you're insecure about it apparently. Are you his age? There's nothing wrong with mature men, but this particular man didn't age well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 02:42 PM
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You can't grasp logic can you? Lower fertility=more birth defects.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 02:37 PM
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He's ugly and fat. Get over it. 3 different women have spoken here and you still deny it. Men know nothing about what a woman finds attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 02:34 PM
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Exactly, male fertility declines not much later than female's. Lower fertility = more risks of birth defects. So a 80 year old man can't possibly expect to have healthy children with a 20 years old woman. It's a fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 02:31 PM
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"The idea that robust fertility for a man will continue well past a woman’s decline in fertility is untrue. Although the female ovarian reserve is perhaps the most crucial component of a couple’s per cycle fecundity, the age of the male partner also has significant impact on reproduction." https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3253726/ Also, risk of schizofrenia and autism in children is related to the father's age when conception occured.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 02:15 PM
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Because he's rich and famous. They're using him. That means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 02:06 PM
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Why are you defending him so much lol? Do you look like him? Is that it? Because honestly his glory days of beauty are over. I have no problem recognizing handsome men but Di Caprio is certainly not in that list anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 01:24 PM
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As a man you can't really tell what a woman would find attractive. And even then, anyone could tell he looks very ugly now. https://images.app.goo.gl/P124pEwqahnnY9hf9
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 01:19 PM
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No, he looks fat. His features changed. He even has a double chin that he tried to hide with his beard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 01:16 PM
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He was stunning when young. https://images.app.goo.gl/oR88aw3VQ7BbiS8R7
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 01:14 PM
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Show me statistics then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 01:13 PM
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https://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http%3A%2F%2Fstaticimg.jkcontent.net%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2FLeonardo-DiCaprio-696x464.jpg&imgrefurl=http%3A%2F%2Fridiculouslyextraordinary.com%2Fleonardo-dicaprio-then-and-now%2F&docid=2Pft9bCMu7o_NM&tbnid=_nEsthTzf6e4kM%3A&vet=1&w=696&h=464&hl=es-US&source=sh%2Fx%2Fim
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 01:09 PM
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Oh no buddy, you're completely wrong and delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 12:45 PM
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Are you a male? If so your opinion doesn't really count. He looks fat and weird now. Compare how gorgeous he used to look in Titanic with how he looks now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 12:43 PM
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Di Caprio was handsome once upon a time, but now he looks terrible. And a creepy older guy is one that looks like he could actually be your father or grandfather. 10 years of difference between the couple is no biggie though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 03:41 AM
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That's a lot of info I didn't need.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 10:23 PM
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Oh no you're spot on, the sigh is for the other comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 02:29 PM
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If you think pollution poses a greater risk than the quality of the sperm in fertilization and all it entails, I'd recommend a genetics class. I do agree that people should marry someone closer to their age, but I have to disagree about the babies part. It's been proven that parents who postpone their family to their 30's have smarter and more well adjusted children. Twenty somethings rarely have their life together in all the sense of the word.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 02:24 PM
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sigh Here we go again... 40+ men aren't as hot as they think they are. The quality of the sperm declines a lot year after year. Many birth defects come from the quality of the sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 01:04 AM
1

I actually liked Captain Marvel, she was tough but had a kind heart. I'm surprised people are calling her aggressive, she punched male and female aliens because they're the villains. That's the point, defeating evil.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/19 05:18 PM
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Exactly, she's supposed to be powerful.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/19 05:14 PM
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Men keep producing sperm for years and years but that doesn't mean that it's high quality sperm. Men lose fertility with age too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 06:21 PM
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A woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 09:31 PM
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Women do care about looks, the ones who say that they don't are lying to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 07:13 PM
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Work with your own hair, don't use heat. If you want to dye your hair, use a herbal remedy like henna. I recommend the Long Hair Community Forum for more information about haircare. It's wonderful.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 06:16 PM
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In my opinion, I think neither strangers nor acquaintances should tell a person to smile more. It's their own face, they can do whatever they want with it. It's even less okay if you're telling the person that she would look "more beautiful" smiling. She's not there to smile for you and decorate your world lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 01:21 PM
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Honestly, I don't think your friend is entitled. We can't assume that. You don't live with them. Her boyfriend is providing for her, that's pretty redpill. She probably contributes in other feminine ways. Don't bring her down just because you felt insecure.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/19 05:12 PM
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How is being treated well = not respecting him? That's a big assumption.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/19 04:59 PM
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You'd be surprised, if you have a great body and a pretty face they don't care if you look really young.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 01:39 AM
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Peak at 50 years old? Men get infertile with age too, the younger the better. Just look at Leonardo Dicaprio, a total hottie when young and now he looks like a potato. Your peak already passed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 07:04 PM
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Aurora, she's the best and her music is so fantasy-like and beautiful. She sounds even better live.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/19 06:07 PM
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I think it's true. Specially when the girl is beautiful but shy. People think she's stuck up before actually getting to know her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 12:15 AM
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