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| 1 | FSW you BOTH lose your baby.. but only SHE gets to grieve. Because 'you're the man', and it's your job to support HER. Period.I'd chalk it up to being disgusted at seeing her fiance cry and ruin her strong manly image of him. | /r/FeminismStopsWhen | 22/07/20 09:43 PM |
| 2 | "When I was single, I would have to have someone to sleep with on a regular basis so I didn't sleep with everyone I came in contact with. Now, the thought of having sex feels like more work then pleasure...but I do love my boyfriend and I want this to work. I feel the stress of relationships past."Are these all the same person? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/04/20 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Sometimes I think NiceGuys is a front; to show men how women truly think and to give women a false sense that their schemes are actually working.Correction - dry up her vagina and she'll stop banging you. I don't think that's unreasonable at all. Basic cause and effect. You don't just leave your friends when they stopped being useful to you yea? Lol, well the woman in question was clearly willing to stay friends with him, just not fuck him anymore. So this analogy is flawed. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/04/20 03:08 AM |
| 5 | Sometimes I think NiceGuys is a front; to show men how women truly think and to give women a false sense that their schemes are actually working.She does, but younger less experienced guys (read: BP) might not understand that, and my point is that they're constantly fed quotes like that which can understandably lead them to believe that it was something in the way the approached and cultivated the relationship they have with said woman, that ruled them out as an intimate/romantic partner. When it was really just simply the woman not being attracted to him and nothing to do with being 'too close'. But that's what the FZ is, the idea of th… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/04/20 01:19 AM |
| 8 | Sometimes I think NiceGuys is a front; to show men how women truly think and to give women a false sense that their schemes are actually working.Disagree, it's a "first world" friendzone if anything. She was into you at one point, and you did something to dry up her vagina. Usually the 'friendzone' entails being someone that would never be considered sexually, ever. To be fair though that's closer to the actual definition than the misuse of it I was referring to, I'll give you that. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/04/20 09:59 PM |
| 6 | Sometimes I think NiceGuys is a front; to show men how women truly think and to give women a false sense that their schemes are actually working.Beating me up? I recall being mostly agreed with, with the exception of maybe a couple. I was told once “you’re like family to me”, which was fucking weird since we’d dated Not really the FZ. You were at one point more than platonic. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/04/20 09:44 PM |
| 26 | Sometimes I think NiceGuys is a front; to show men how women truly think and to give women a false sense that their schemes are actually working.To be fair, there are a lot of people who use the word incorrectly, and that number of people has increased to the point where the definition has either been changed or at the very least associated with the 'incorrect' definition. So now, it's impossible to use the word without being mocked. I made a thorough post on unpopularopinion about it. At risk of being downvoted, the 'incorrect' definition in question I'm referring to is that a lot of young guys throw "friendzone" around and accuse women… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/04/20 09:22 PM |
| 2 | In this state of emergency, the mods are self isolating for the weekend. Always remember to be safe.a momth I see what you did there | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/03/20 09:59 AM |
| 3 | Some men "have no business dating."They "aren't divorced" - does that mean they're married, or that they've never been married? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/03/20 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Imagine having the courage to ask a stranger on a date, and they say this shit. Bullet dodgedI will take 'things that never happened' for 500, Alex | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/02/20 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Woman rejects date and then goes mad at him after being rejected herself - Bullet Dodged!Counter point (regarding coffee at least) - if it's Tinder or Bumble or something and you're meeting them for the first time as a stranger, it's better to do something more basic and less costly like coffee or drinks (though I personally prefer the latter since I'm more an evening person). If anything, that's more likely to lead to the bedroom than anything you mentioned. Having a conversation is participating, as long as you're interesting and not letting it turn into an interview. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/02/20 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Woman rejects date and then goes mad at him after being rejected herself - Bullet Dodged!"Who do you think you are?! I'm supposed to be the gatekeeper dammit!" | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/02/20 06:44 PM |
| 4 | I shared this in r/MGTOW a week or so ago and a mod on this sub liked it: Was having a nice chat with a solid 9/10 visually, and we got onto the subject of deal breakers... Things went wrong because of the usual script. Will post quotes in comments, would like to hear you guys thoughts.But if he was capable of doing so, would he? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/01/20 11:41 AM |
| 1 | She's raising a QUEEN peopleNo car? A man will just use public transportation or ride a bike. There's no shame in doing that. In fact, not relying on cars for transportation is the hallmark of a man living in a properly developed urban area. It's possible she doesn't live in the city though and in a very rural area inaccessible by public transportation, so it would be understandable. I live in a huge city with tons of public transit and don't have a car, and a lot of the adjacent cities in the area are accessible. Though s… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/12/19 10:44 AM |
| 1 | She's raising a QUEEN peopleSorry, thanks for fixing it for me (and not stealing my karma), I tried to find a way to crop it out without having that arrow covering the best part "peace of advice" | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/12/19 09:55 AM |
| 9 | Something tells me that she is not done with giving guys a chance.I mean let's be real, do they need to? Simps exist everywhere. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/12/19 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Men: Pay my shit, prove your worth and value to me, treat me like a goddess---- Fuckboys: "literally say hello and you're already winning"Dude, no one here said anything about not to judge? I'm sorry you can't tell the difference between judging and bullying. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/12/19 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Men: Pay my shit, prove your worth and value to me, treat me like a goddess---- Fuckboys: "literally say hello and you're already winning"So bullying people is healthy and not doing it makes you a pussy. Riiiight.... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/12/19 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Apparently, a woman who spends her entire youth on her back for money and shits out a few kids is being extorted by society when no one hires her STD riddled talentless ass and taxpayers welfare is not enough.I read "cuts face"... that got dark quickly | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/12/19 10:00 AM |
| 2 | Men: Pay my shit, prove your worth and value to me, treat me like a goddess---- Fuckboys: "literally say hello and you're already winning"I'm not really sure what you're trying to say here. You're talking about bullying like it's something to be proud of having done, depending on the target. You need help if you think that. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/12/19 10:40 PM |
| 3 | Men: Pay my shit, prove your worth and value to me, treat me like a goddess---- Fuckboys: "literally say hello and you're already winning"Who said anything about "toxic masculinity"? Promoting bullying is never cool, are you in high school? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/12/19 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Men: Pay my shit, prove your worth and value to me, treat me like a goddess---- Fuckboys: "literally say hello and you're already winning"Oh no, I'm sure it would. Just saying that when she wrote that she probably didn't have fuckboys in mind. Just trying to write a "men bad trash" statement. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/12/19 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Men: Pay my shit, prove your worth and value to me, treat me like a goddess---- Fuckboys: "literally say hello and you're already winning"I think "non-men" refers to literal non-men - women, or anyone else that doesn't 'identify' as a man. Not fuckboys. That was just a "men bad" statement. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/12/19 10:27 AM |
| 6 | Men: Pay my shit, prove your worth and value to me, treat me like a goddess---- Fuckboys: "literally say hello and you're already winning"That's not exactly something to be proud of, dude. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/12/19 10:23 AM |
| 4 | Hmm that's a lot of first datesOr it's a test to see if you're enough of a sucker to do it. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/12/19 02:47 AM |
| 6 | Hmm that's a lot of first datesGreat test - suggest going to McDonald's or Burger King. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/12/19 02:46 AM |
| 10 | Hmm that's a lot of first datesI can think of several more reasons to do that, especially with new girls from apps. Coffee, or drinks at a bar. Nothing crazy. Regardless of who pays, it's a bit much to commit to get dinner (or do some outlandish outing) with someone you're meeting for the first time and don't know how you'll click. If there's anyone who's a gold digger, it's those who would say no to that. Don't know about expectation, but I've actually had girls offer to pay for me before. I mean sometimes I'll dance around … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/12/19 02:44 AM |
| 4 | Coffee dates prevent women like you from getting a free meal and then ghosting.How about 'because they're a stranger you're meeting for the first time'? Which I assume is the case here. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/10/19 06:37 AM |
| 3 | Confused Thot on SA Seeks both romance and an open relationship, but also despises cheatingTo be fair, "cheating" does literally refer to doing it behind their back against their wishes, hence why it's called 'cheating'. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/10/19 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Bullet dodged.Lol. As soon as she made those first statements that idea went out the window. She would have been a possible lay if anything and nothing more. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/09/19 05:40 AM |
| 2 | Bullet dodged.Look at this convo...this a beta pursuing a used up thot. Her lack of pursuing you is clearly evident...know what that tells you? Shes entertaining herself by your need to 'get to know her'..while shes probably talking to at least 10 diff guys just like you.. Right, but what pursuing am I doing? Honestly as soon as she made that first statement I lost any interest that might have been there. That should have been clear, at that point it was more a matter of calling her out on her shit. Just stop… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/09/19 05:38 AM |
| 4 | Bullet dodged.And by the way - she's 37. Thirty fucking seven. Let that sink in. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/09/19 04:42 AM |
| 21 | Going your whole pregnancy knowing your boyfriend/husband may not be the father, yet still leading him on is one of the most emotionally abusive things you can do to someone.It's just talk and 'be the bigger person'. Like when someone says "I forgive you" before being executed for a crime they didn't commit. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/09/19 07:03 PM |
| 3 | "Overheard my girlfriend say she would leave me for someone taller. She's 4'11, I'm 5'9."Jeebus... at least that sub doesn't seem to be having it either. Seems just as unanimous over there that he should run, no? Is there any comment suggesting he do anything that doesn't involve leaving her or faulting him for wanting to? Dug pretty deep couldn't even find any. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/09/19 12:10 AM |
| 1 | "Overheard my girlfriend say she would leave me for someone taller. She's 4'11, I'm 5'9."Mods are gods | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/09/19 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Imagine referring to your own child as “baggage”She's a garbage person, but the title is misleading. She put 'baggage' in quotes in reference to what men who reject her see her kid as. I was expecting someone unironically calling her kids baggage. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/08/19 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Strange phenomenonHaha, I remember this one. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/08/19 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Women today with their problems think there are endless man and that they, the used up thot are the price.Yeah, they are the 'price'... to pay for having no self respect | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/08/19 02:04 AM |
| 9 | Brother of a WAATGM gives her a dose of reality. Cue meltdownAt least the sub isn't having it either. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/08/19 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Girl wants a committed relationship while from the guy while not wanting to commit to him herselfLiving with an SO is a bad idea anyway. If anything happens, you're fucked. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/08/19 11:34 PM |
| 2 | WIBTAH if i dated 2 guys at the same time?Have a feeling Matt wouldn't care. Tom, on the other hand... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/08/19 02:07 AM |
| 5 | When you're wife and daughter blatantly explain you that you're not the type of guy that fucks girls in their prime.you're wife Sorry to be that guy... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/08/19 04:23 AM |
| 2 | 80 Chads later and she wonders why her current man is shocked.....I mean, I see where he's coming from being put off, but at least she seemed like she was actually into this guy since she said he was 'amazing in bed'. I know that's usually mutually exclusive with 'the guy I can see marrying, having kids with, and growing old together'. It's pretty clear he's definitely sexual to her and not just a good 'safe option'. I'm not saying she's a unicorn by any means, but it should be noted that she clearly wasn't going out of her way to misrepresent herself as 'prud… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/08/19 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Because there's no chance she'll end up with poor looks, kids, and a slutty past when "the time is right".There was an episode of Naked Attraction where a guy was eliminated because he was "too perfect". | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/08/19 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Lena Dunham, feminist slut champion of the liberal west figures out being post wall with nothing to offer except sex is a frustrating position to be in. Dunham noted how “people transform once sex is introduced.” It took you 15 years of carousel riding to figure that out!? Yikes, sweety.Sorry to be that guy but... the link isn't working? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/08/19 04:22 AM |
| 23 | [42F] Divorces her husband, spiteful her now ex found a 23F surfing instructor that loves kids and her own parents take everyone but her to Sea World Adventures. "We didn't divorce Bradley, and we still see him as a son."They're not. I was actually impressed because they're usually quite salty and quick to jump on any middle aged man dating someone in her sexual prime. This time they were unanimously siding with him. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/07/19 06:04 AM |
| 8 | [42F] Divorces her husband, spiteful her now ex found a 23F surfing instructor that loves kids and her own parents take everyone but her to Sea World Adventures. "We didn't divorce Bradley, and we still see him as a son."I'm almost certain this is fake, given the OP's history/comments in that thread. (Also mods, I did not "go looking for the OP", I was there for the thread before it was linked here, so don't ban me) | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/07/19 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Case number 65412337809954 of - women are human beings, men are human doings. A human being need not bring anything to the table, that's the job of the human doing.Not saying they don't actually want it, but in the context of this post it was clearly meant for laughs. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/07/19 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Case number 65412337809954 of - women are human beings, men are human doings. A human being need not bring anything to the table, that's the job of the human doing.Honestly I was gonna say the same thing as the above person - you are indeed reading too much into it. It's just another attention whore who happens to use that statement as a caption, but it reads more as hyperbole than anything and probably not someone who actually believes someone should marry her for that. People say that all the time - "yeah, I'd totally marry that person" | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/07/19 09:28 PM |
| 1 | [30F] "My fiancé wants to call off the wedding because he found out I slept around when I was younger."Okay, question that will probably get me downvoted. Is it ever mentioned in the thread comments that she played up the 'prude' facade and acted like she needed to 'take it slow' with him for sexual activities? I know that's the common trope but it doesn't seem to be mentioned here. It seems like they had a happy active sex life and it just never came up. If they didn't, I'd understand. Maybe I'm in the minority here, but as long as they're having an active healthy sex life I fail to see the prob… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/07/19 03:54 AM |
| 2 | GF ends 7 years relationship abruptly to chase her dreams/r/boneappletea | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/07/19 09:09 PM |
| 3 | More r / NiceGuys revealing the truth behind female desire and their dual mating strategy by shaming those who expose the deception.Right - what I mean is they're more threatened by that truth than by guys having a bone thrown at them that might make them more successful. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/07/19 01:21 PM |
| 2 | More r / NiceGuys revealing the truth behind female desire and their dual mating strategy by shaming those who expose the deception.The only time guilt or shame is factored in to their decisions is when they have direct social consequences. Well, there are direct social consequences to openly stating they're into 'bad boys' with nice physical features and think regular guys who show traits of human decency are boring and pathetic people-pleasers and pushovers who they are repulsed by and look down on - being seen and perceived as a superficial bitch. On paper to you (based on what you're saying) that might sound like it woul… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/07/19 07:01 AM |
| 8 | More r / NiceGuys revealing the truth behind female desire and their dual mating strategy by shaming those who expose the deception.I think you misread what I'm saying - I believe the lying is because they're shameful, not because they have some diabolical master plan of 'planting seeds for a favorable scenario' (much less with guys who almost certainly won't even be in their life when they're older). And yes, there is the side effect of guys giving in to what they're saying, which they'll never take responsibility for - but also couldn't care less about. Ultimately though I think one of the huge reasons it dries them up is … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/07/19 06:10 AM |
| 22 | More r / NiceGuys revealing the truth behind female desire and their dual mating strategy by shaming those who expose the deception.At risk of getting downvoted - yes, they're lying, but I don't think it's for the purpose of that meticulous Disney-villain agenda of manipulation that you describe. I'm pretty sure in most cases the lying is out of shame - those guys dry up their vagina, but they don't have an explanation or any idea themselves as to why and are ashamed that that's the case. Like for instance, a lot of people have tried crystal meth and enjoyed it - but are they gonna proudly share with the world how much they … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/07/19 05:01 AM |
| 7 | Toxic Masculinity Example #5891: Ask a girl on a date. She says she doesn't want to date you, but to be friends. So ask a different girl on the same date. wHaT aN AsSHolE!!!!!!!!!!To be fair, the girl herself doesn't seem to care or be losing sleep over whether he takes her or not (at least not from what he mentioned) - just the sister and the reddit NPCs. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/06/19 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Bait is out, where are the REAL men?Grind? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/06/19 04:16 AM |
| 2 | "I'm overweight, a feminist, a single mom, and a leftist"Is this real? I thought this was like staged satire given her first message. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/06/19 06:55 AM |
| 5 | She claims to have been forced to ride the carousel and broke free. Her ex gives it to her straight. She was thrown off from the carousel.Reading that made me think of Heracross and Bulbasaur. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/06/19 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Man asks about Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks. Woman [35F] responds confirming her youth was for the fuckboys and her fiance is a good guy for when she is ready to settle down. He is the one that "wins".redditor for 1 day Yeah lol okay. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/06/19 02:34 AM |
| 3 | Man asks about Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks. Woman [35F] responds confirming her youth was for the fuckboys and her fiance is a good guy for when she is ready to settle down. He is the one that "wins"."OK" here is used as an interjection, not an adjective. "Ok, Cupid, you matched us so we'll give it a shot". | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/06/19 02:32 AM |
| 53 | [19F] Knocked up by Tyrone, now she's looking for her best friend.White girl using the N word? Should report that. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/05/19 04:56 PM |
| 6 | I struck goldOoh ok | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/05/19 05:35 AM |
| 8 | I struck goldI feel like I'm missing something... what does that mean? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/05/19 05:33 AM |
| 12 | He compliments me, he's too nice, and it's turning me off. You don't have to be Nostradamus to see where this is going.What sub is this? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/05/19 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Why won't Chad commit? Why is it impossible to find Prince Charming? Because we're just *too* incredibly amazingBolde is a satire site... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/04/19 02:17 AM |
| 0 | Thanks for the exposure r/niceguys! Instead of holding women accountable for their poor dating decisions, let's continue to focus on NiceGuys™ as being the problem.Where is this exposure? Also I think /r/niceguysdiscussion is pretty good and open-minded. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/04/19 03:03 AM |
| 3 | "I'm leaving my wife after finding out my son isn't mine, and she only married me because I was a responsible guy that would make a good father."To be fair, in hindsight the kid IS better off with him than with her. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/04/19 02:07 AM |
| 16 | "I'm leaving my wife after finding out my son isn't mine, and she only married me because I was a responsible guy that would make a good father."Well to be fair the thread is asking about him. So they aren't necessarily giving her a pass. Her actions aren't conflicted and pretty unanimous. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/04/19 02:25 PM |
| 3 | Sluts are gonna slut but how do they not seem so slutty?Regardless of whether she's afraid of 'losing' him, his desire for her will probably dry her up first anyway. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/04/19 02:44 AM |
| 1 | I want a man, but all men which approach me are stupidShe doesn't want to have to look for a needle in a hey-stack. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/04/19 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Stupid hoe-ass cunt fucks up her life, fucks up her childrens lives, fucks up her profile, fucks up everything she ever touches. Piece of shit expired sloppy cunt ass excuse for human excrement shows how rank and useless her scag peanut brain can muster. Fuck you!!!!This has to be fake. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/04/19 02:23 AM |
| 3 | The OP was complaining about how hard dating is for a woman with options.It can be annoying trying to find interesting messages... Like looking for a needle in a hey-stack! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/03/19 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Another NiceGuy™ not getting the 50K upvotes he deserves because he's exposing a woman's poor dating choices that can't be denied.Eh. Even if he is correct, it's not really the place for comments like that when a person is dead. I can't imagine someone posting that and not expecting to get shit on. Usually I agree with the criticisms of /r/niceguys but this guy bringing it there definitely deserves to be there. It's almost just as bad as this dude. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/03/19 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Got off the cock merry-go-round and settled for a provider that doesn't give her the tingles 🎠Not regretting it... Riiiight. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/03/19 04:35 AM |
| 2 | It's good to finally see guy friends not allowing themselves to remain friendzoned forever. "Don't wanna be more than friends but still want me as your emotional tampon? Nah, I'm out."What I don't understand is, if they were into her, what are they supposed to do? Make a move while she's still in a relationship? Seduce her to cheat with them? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/03/19 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Redditor describes to a T why self-respecting men might be cautious of getting involved women with high partner counts.You said in the other conversation that you're okay with being beat up as long as it's not by someone you're emotionally invested in, though? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/02/19 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Redditor describes to a T why self-respecting men might be cautious of getting involved women with high partner counts.So... If you're not 'emotionally invested' it's no biggie if they do those things? Is that what you're saying? And he's not saying that at all lol | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/02/19 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Redditor describes to a T why self-respecting men might be cautious of getting involved women with high partner counts.Dude, I'm the "redditor" mentioned in this thread that made the original comment that started all this. And yes, that was my exact point, she does deem him weak, and therefore not attracted to him because he's a pushover that she can manipulate. The only difference in what I said is notion that he was never physically appealing at all, which I don't think is usually true (though it can be with gold diggers). I mostly agree with everyone here and I did mean lying, not trying to dance around it or… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/02/19 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Redditor describes to a T why self-respecting men might be cautious of getting involved women with high partner counts.To be fair - like I said in the other thread, I do believe that in the scenario you and I described, there is at least some degree of physical attraction as opposed to none whatsoever. That being said, showing 'submissive' traits (i.e. basically being a provider and letting her walk all over you and wear the pants in the relationship) can heavily deter sexual attraction even if they were physically good looking. Which is where the feigning being 'conservative' and making him wait comes from - ne… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/02/19 09:53 AM |
| 1 | [Jackie Chan Troll Face]I wanna believe this is a fake bait troll. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/02/19 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Suddenly and for no reason, the perfect guy she's dating is now "gross" and all the comments are like "YAAAAS!! ALWAYS LISTEN TO YOUR GUT!!!!"Lol no she can't | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/02/19 06:54 AM |
| -4 | Suddenly and for no reason, the perfect guy she's dating is now "gross" and all the comments are like "YAAAAS!! ALWAYS LISTEN TO YOUR GUT!!!!"See I think it would be easier to be angry with the comments if along with telling her to leave him if she's unhappy, took it a step further and circle jerked about 'how dare he be gross and not make an effort to make you happy, leave his ass'. Probably also don't want to be banned, have you seen the sidebar? To be fair though asking those questions you mentioned doesn't really violate anything there. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/02/19 01:21 AM |
| -3 | Suddenly and for no reason, the perfect guy she's dating is now "gross" and all the comments are like "YAAAAS!! ALWAYS LISTEN TO YOUR GUT!!!!"While that is true, it has nothing to do with what the commenters are saying. Sure she's just like all the CC riders and doesn't really deserve sympathy in the slightest - but that doesn't make the commenters' overall answer any less correct. All I am saying is that I don't think it's fair to fault them for answering that question, especially since they don't necessarily seem all that sympathetic anyway. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/02/19 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Suddenly and for no reason, the perfect guy she's dating is now "gross" and all the comments are like "YAAAAS!! ALWAYS LISTEN TO YOUR GUT!!!!"The definitely need to be aware of that nature - while at the same time not expecting it to change. She's definitely a whackjob like all riders, all I'm saying is I don't see a reason to fault the commenters which just basically say go with whatever makes you wet and tingly. They're not necessarily sympathetic, just answering her question. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/02/19 12:42 AM |
| -9 | Suddenly and for no reason, the perfect guy she's dating is now "gross" and all the comments are like "YAAAAS!! ALWAYS LISTEN TO YOUR GUT!!!!"What exactly is wrong with the comments? Why waste her time (and his) with someone that doesn't make her wet? What is she supposed to do, force herself to like him? Negotiate attraction? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/02/19 08:03 PM |
| 2 | 29 year old woman wants a man to take care of her while she never gives him kids.Eh. I mean yeah, that sub is a joke - but of all things to shit on, "not wanting kids" is the problem here? Out of context I would see that as a blessing next to all the single moms that want someone to load their saved game. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/02/19 05:20 AM |
| 1 | [28F] Divorced w/ children: "Why is it so hard to find a nice guy. Guess I'll never know."Those two comments specifically are actually what made me question if this is real. Women do a lot of things but unironically using "friendzoned" as a verb in a sentence feels a little forced. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/01/19 08:55 PM |
| 5 | Can an average in his 30s guy date women in their 20s? Yes. Will the question it trigger post-wall women past their prime? Also, yes.Maybe they're going through manypaws | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/01/19 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Woman leaves boyfriend cause he's to "boring" for her. Runs of to Europe and comes back to find no one wants to deal with her and no "decent" man wants her. Now her ex has money and she's instantly still in love with him.There is no way this is real. Too many tropes in one, plus I can't really imagine someone being stupid enough to post about running away without even have the dignity to talk, and actually expect/hope for validation. Or disappearing from their job and wondering why they're being looked down on (when it would be a miracle they're still employed... if this actually happened). | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/01/19 05:21 AM |
| 2 | Woman leaves boyfriend cause he's to "boring" for her. Runs of to Europe and comes back to find no one wants to deal with her and no "decent" man wants her. Now her ex has money and she's instantly still in love with him.It's a saved state of a certain post (and comments) from a specific time, just in case it (or any of them) get deleted. Which is usually what ends up happening. Plus many subreddits don't allow direct links to reddit even with NP, so it surpasses that. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/01/19 05:17 AM |
| 1 | I want to be with my boyfriend eventually, but I want to ride to ride the carousel first.Oh, I see what you're saying. I didn't mean it like that at all, I was not trying to "one up" anyone. In fact I don't consider myself high up there at all and if apps like Tinder didn't exist I'd probably be a virgin/have chronic dry spells. I have had my share, but like some said, I did have to work for it, unlike women who have it fall into their lap. Which I imagine is what you meant by "jackhammer blood sweat and tears". But what I meant was, IF I were to have them fall into my lap like that… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/01/19 05:06 AM |
| 0 | I want to be with my boyfriend eventually, but I want to ride to ride the carousel first.What was 'shaming' about that comment? Is the carousel in itself shameful? I always figured it was more the expectations after and dishonesty and how they viewed 'commitment material' that was. And I know there's no such thing, my question asked IF there was. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/01/19 04:48 PM |
| 2 | I want to be with my boyfriend eventually, but I want to ride to ride the carousel first.Yeah, I'm referring to high value men who don't have to do shit and are on chooser level. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/01/19 04:47 PM |
| 2 | “Just because I slept with them on the first night theyre less interested because Im now a slut who sleeps around with everyone? Hm”Or maybe they still are interested, but know that if they showed it they would lose your interest, and are therefore feigning disinterest? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/01/19 03:06 PM |
| 1 | I want to be with my boyfriend eventually, but I want to ride to ride the carousel first.Let's be real, if most of y'all had the capability to ride the "vagina carousel" you'd do it. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/01/19 03:02 PM |
| 13 | I want to be with my boyfriend eventually, but I want to ride to ride the carousel first.She literally said that... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/01/19 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Alpha widowed so hard RIPI mean, have you seen the kind of person she was? To be fair it's probably what she would have wanted. Look at her Twitter. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/01/19 11:58 AM |
| 4 | Oh how I love when uncomfortable truths get posted to r/niceguys. Where are the 50K upvotes for this NiceGuy™?He probably would have gotten better open minded responses with the first paragraph alone. When you publicly use RP lingo/memes like "alpha fucks beta bucks" you're asking for it. Also - 90% of the time the reason the people he described "don't get a kiss on the first date" is because they don't go for it. They sit and wait for her to do it. Or they "ask her permission". They are intimidated by the MeToo movement and have been brainwashed to believe that any move they make resulting in rejection… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/01/19 11:26 AM |
| 3 | Aww, how sweet! Friendzone Fiona marries her guy best friend when she's 33. She'd obviously make a great partner after rejecting him for a decade and letting him finish last when she's past her prime years.It's /r/offmychest. Have you seen that sub and who moderates it? One time I got a random inbox notification that I was banned from there even though I've never posted there, ever. This also happened to many others with that sub. I think they literally grabbed the entire list of subscribers (or even mere posters of a couple times) to subs they don't like and went out of their way to ban them all. That's how sad they are. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/12/18 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Oh look, yet ANOTHER woman finds that "opening up" a relationship backfires on her.I love these. My favorite part of all of these are when she talks about how she didn't expect her partner to benefit from it. It baffles me how these people openly and shamelessly state that and expect sympathy. Kinda makes me wonder if these are all real. Honestly maybe if she said "I didn't expect it to bother me to see him sleeping around, I thought I would be happy for him" would actually be more believable. I mean it would obviously be a lie, but at least more believable to be a real person… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/12/18 12:52 AM |
| 2 | Shots fired.Harpoons would be more efficient | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/12/18 08:50 AM |
| 1 | It's cool r/niceguys. Let that NiceGuy™ (who's obviously a horrible person for wanting better for his friend) know he can find her on our sub along with the hundreds of women who rejected guys like him for jerks.I mean, to be fair it is a bit weird that apparently he had all those feelings for her for that long and she never knew, which is what it sounds like. He didn't flirt or make any advances, just followed her around like a puppy. And yeah I know that some young men don't know any better and think they should 'get to know her' before making a move - but sticking around long enough to watch her go through three whole relationships making zero effort? What was he expecting? But if course the sub and … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/12/18 05:59 AM |
| 3 | Only Chads need applyThey need to add a "no but who's your hot friend" button. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/12/18 01:03 PM |
| 4 | My Ex will be here in a few yearsIt's a Jewish thing | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/12/18 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Let's have an open realtionshiphttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H47ow4_Cmk0 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/12/18 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Let's have an open realtionshipHaha did she mention that she didn't find anyone to fool around with? I must have missed that bit. That makes this all the more amazing. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/12/18 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Let's have an open realtionshipOh god, thanks. This is why I come here. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/12/18 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Some gold diggers will use online dating to get free meals. Do not expect sex or a relationship for obliging.Eh. That comment is being dogpiled and downvoted to shit, but I mean, is there any indicator that this person is a "feminist" who thinks they're "owed dinner", like everyone seems to be assuming? Out of context, their statement alone is actually quite true. They're not saying they expect their dinner to be paid for (in fact pretty sure it's a dude looking at their post history) - they're saying that many suckers habitually and voluntarily do so without thinking and probably expect sex, which is … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/11/18 09:23 PM |
| 2 | This guy gets it.That's some long game | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/10/18 10:13 PM |
| 2 | "I'm not showing up for our date because it's just weird that you open my car door for me and hold doors open for me. Like who does that?"This is fake. EDIT: To those downvoting me - check the thread for that post, it's public and it looks like OP didn't hide the name. But anyway in that thread it was debunked and admitted to be fake, I think. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/10/18 11:07 PM |
| 2 | [56F] Postwaller is still looking her "goodman" soulmateI read this as "goddamn soulmate" | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/09/18 02:55 AM |
| 30 | My favorite comment from the 100+ sexual partner low libido Carol.. a true factory of sadness worth a revisit.This is actually one of the comments that has me suspecting this person isn't real. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/09/18 02:54 AM |
| -1 | Everyone tries to tell her to stop being so damn picky. She responds by explaining that she has every damn right to be picky.Is anyone saying they don't? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/09/18 04:50 AM |
| 2 | She is not really looking for a bf. She wants some status symbol to "brag" as she out it.Like the movie "Easy A"? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/09/18 05:26 PM |
| 2 | AWALT....AF/BB IN ACTION STRAIGHT FROM THE MOUTH OF A USED UP STACY.I feel like this is fake, just like everything that clearly looks like it shoehorned every trope in the book. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/09/18 05:38 AM |
| 1 | She has a boyfriend, and yet she posted this. Oh and people who aren't attracted to her are "really stupid".Again though, that's a case of possibility of indirect cause and effect, much like my post was. But okay sure, mods are gods I guess. Care to weigh in on this /u/where_muh_good_mens ? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/08/18 11:40 PM |
| 1 | She has a boyfriend, and yet she posted this. Oh and people who aren't attracted to her are "really stupid".I was gonna say, it looks like the Asia Argento story is on a sticky announcement. But sure, while she sucks, what does that have to do with WAATGM? At least more than my post? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/08/18 11:01 PM |
| 3 | Man dumps his fiance: "My fiance wanted an open marriage, so I called off the wedding. Even her licensed female therapist said, 'we live in a modern world, and your fiance wants to have a non-conventional marriage moving forward.'"Well first of all I think he would have noped out anyway after that question, with or without the therapist. Never mind that OP has no way of knowing what went on between them. He had no idea why she was bringing him there in the first place. Then why are you with this man in the first place? If you think he is going to hurt you when you try to talk to him about something, then the therapist should have made this revelation known to her that he isn't a Good Man anyways. So, nothing wrong when lo… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/08/18 02:42 PM |
| 0 | Man dumps his fiance: "My fiance wanted an open marriage, so I called off the wedding. Even her licensed female therapist said, 'we live in a modern world, and your fiance wants to have a non-conventional marriage moving forward.'"He's basically saying what I said? The therapist is doing his client a disservice in only one respect. He didn't encourage her to do this herself. Therapists are supposed to help their clients become self sufficient, mentally healthy, emotionally stable, independent functioning adults. Having your therapist tell your fiancé you want to fuck other guys during your marriage, her not having the intestinal fortitude to be honest with him herself about something central to the marriage, indicates an … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/08/18 06:48 AM |
| 0 | Man dumps his fiance: "My fiance wanted an open marriage, so I called off the wedding. Even her licensed female therapist said, 'we live in a modern world, and your fiance wants to have a non-conventional marriage moving forward.'"I get the guy's anger but I don't understand why he wants to report the therapist and why her license is being questioned. I wouldn't fault the therapist. What exactly did she do wrong? She was his (ex) fiance's paid therapist, not his. She wasn't violating anyone's trust. First of all I'm sure plenty of therapists' patients share with them in confidence about cheating on their partner or fiance or spouse. And if that happens, they're obligated to keep that between them. Not that this even neces… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/08/18 05:09 AM |
| 1 | She has a boyfriend, and yet she posted this. Oh and people who aren't attracted to her are "really stupid".I figured it was at least still relevant enough for the sub to appreciate, for the reasons you described. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/08/18 04:36 AM |
| 1 | She has a boyfriend, and yet she posted this. Oh and people who aren't attracted to her are "really stupid".Just to clear up some confusion - pink are all the girls, and blue are all the boys, they aren't all the same person. AND NONE OF THE COMMENTS ARE HER BF. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/08/18 12:39 AM |
| 10 | Women can do what they want.... but so can MEN!I was surprised to see the first comment was made by a woman... isn't that usually what 'incels' tout? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/08/18 04:11 AM |
| 2 | One of her major demands is left out, be White.Eh, this might be an unpopular opinion but I feel like she's doing this for kicks and in reality doesn't give any fucks. People who really think and feel this way don't put it boldly like that. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/08/18 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Just another girl who’s “in a happy relationship but open to new experiences”. I bet her poor cuck bf isn’t aware how open she isI feel like this is a troll trying to push buttons. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/08/18 05:49 AM |
| 9 | Someone at r/CrazyIdeas gets it.Sorry if I offended anyone by breaking the jerk. I agree with the sentiment, I just think it looks weird and desperate for someone to be making a point of "See? Someone gets it" and have that 'someone' be themselves. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/07/18 01:52 AM |
| 5 | Someone at r/CrazyIdeas gets it.Did you just link your own post? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/07/18 03:01 PM |
| 4 | A Tale of Two Women.How do you do self/text posts here? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/07/18 04:29 PM |
| 3 | #BackUpPlanWell no shit, if you're single and not attached/committed to anyone, it's normal and actually encouraged to have a 'back-up' and not put all your energy into a oneitis. This applies to men too. Nothing wrong with that. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/07/18 02:41 PM |
| 6 | #BackUpPlanWhat did dogs do to you?? Apologize to them right now! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/07/18 12:07 PM |
| 7 | "Ugh, Chad doesnt want me anymore, all men are shit, right fellow girls?--I thought sensitivity is sexy? Cosmopolitan told me so! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/07/18 07:08 AM |
| 9 | #BackUpPlanI mean... she's a shitty cunt, but of all things, having a 'backup plan' when you're single, is quite normal especially on dating apps. But even off them - I think many here would agree that it's unhealthy to put all your eggs in one basket and drop everything for a oneitis, and have multiple prospects to explore until one sticks (like for the same reason you don't need to focus on one person at a time on dating apps, because you never know who might fail, so it's nice to have something to fall … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/07/18 03:29 AM |
| 8 | #BackUpPlanA more equivalent thing to do would be to continue sleeping with her but not commit, but make sure to keep her around and string her along with false hope of commitment so that you can get that action. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/07/18 07:50 PM |
| 2 | 31yo woman rejects 30yo man because he was bullied in high school. r/OkCupid still thinks she's probably rightThe Tinder subreddit is not like that in the slightest. One of the mods there occasionally comments in TRP. It's also not even a discussion subreddit, it's just for images of funny exchanges. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/07/18 06:58 AM |
| 4 | 31yo woman rejects 30yo man because he was bullied in high school. r/OkCupid still thinks she's probably rightHis comments and his post read like he already knows this, and just slipped. He's clearly just trying to make a point with a crowd who he is probably well-aware would be in denial of it, probably out of curiosity to see what excuse they would have. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/07/18 06:54 AM |
| 3 | [20F] "I'm a pregnant, stay-at-home mom with a baby girl, and she is my world already. I'm looking for someone to settle down with, and who's understanding of my situation."I finally figured out what SAHM stands for! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/07/18 06:50 AM |
| 2 | 31yo woman rejects 30yo man because he was bullied in high school. r/OkCupid still thinks she's probably rightMaybe not commit with her, but at least bang her if she's hot and I have a shot having matched with her. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/07/18 07:16 PM |
| 4 | 31yo woman rejects 30yo man because he was bullied in high school. r/OkCupid still thinks she's probably rightPoon | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/07/18 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Dating advice app "Juicebox" charges weekly for dating advice from "Experts". Nope. Not kidding.Anyone wanna take one for the team? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/07/18 06:38 AM |
| 4 | She's a former model, educated, wealthy, dates down.. And, can't find a good man.Same thing happened to me as well as a huge "OC" when scrolling down further. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/07/18 06:17 AM |
| 4 | More proof that women don't like actual nice guysRight, it's still possible but this isn't evidence/ammo for that cause. There are plenty of instances where women actually do directly state it (e.g. "he had no 'danger' factor"), so it's not really fair to jump the gun and lump this particular one with those. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/05/18 06:23 PM |
| 3 | [26F] "Im on here looking for honesty the reason im on here because my last [wallet] relationship didnt wana put no trust into because ive cheated he no longer want to be taquatha...so im just looking for a friend i have 6 kids"I read it as "be with taquatha" and thought that was the name of a girl he cheated with. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/05/18 02:09 PM |
| 10 | More proof that women don't like actual nice guysTo be fair she never directly said that his "nice-ness" was the off-putting trait or the reason it didn't work out. She just said it didn't work out, could be anything. Could be distance. Could be opposite schedules. Could be different sexual likes/dislikes. This says nothing. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/05/18 01:58 PM |
| 1 | "Those guys didn't mean anything. You are the number one."To be fair he did say girlfriend and not wife. He doesn't have anything resembling "responsibilities of parenthood". | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/05/18 08:59 PM |
| 1 | So happy with a caring guy that she left him!Not one comment skeptical about this being real? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/04/18 04:12 AM |
| 2 | So happy with a caring guy that she left him!Because they like upvoting drama to the top. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/04/18 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Hey, she's kinda hot...OH MY GOODNESS. SQUIDWARD!!!Would still smash | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/03/18 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Playboy Model Dani Mathers Could Face Up To Six Months in Jail for Body-Shaming PhotoI know this is stating the obvious, but you realize this is happening because the victim is female right? There was no chance of it not happening. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 29/11/16 07:38 AM |
| 1 | 5'6" Asian guy here planning to become a Pick-Up ArtistJust commenting here to say that Elliot Rodger didn't identify as a PUA have an aspiration to be a PUA, despite what many journalists ignorantly claiming "he was a PUA" say. He hated PUAs, the community he was a part of was called 'PUAhate', mainly for those who are bitter and jealous of them and hate seeing shitty people have it work for them. It's amazing how ignorant journalists can be, they just see the term 'PUA' mentioned a lot in the same sentence with him, concluding he had an associatio… | /r/seduction | 09/11/15 10:38 PM |
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