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| 2 | I WILL BE YOUR WINGMAN FOR A DAY IN NYC (FOR FREE)This is good shit man. | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Who here has become successful at their career, started making significantly more money, made a dramatic change to their physique, and dresses way better than they did before and actually had that lead to the kind of dating/sex life that they wanted? What's your story?Hmm...I gotta do something different that's for sure. What do I do if it's fishy? That's happened...Politely back away and leave? | /r/seduction | 09/04/20 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Who here has become successful at their career, started making significantly more money, made a dramatic change to their physique, and dresses way better than they did before and actually had that lead to the kind of dating/sex life that they wanted? What's your story?Ok, I'll remember that. Though I'm not going down on a girl our first date. I def don't insert fingers unless she's super wet. | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Who here has become successful at their career, started making significantly more money, made a dramatic change to their physique, and dresses way better than they did before and actually had that lead to the kind of dating/sex life that they wanted? What's your story?You are right. I don't think money=women. I mean, you could by a fake chick. But, I have learned it's much more than money that gets women. I've had female friends fall for loser dudes who do nothing and they end up supporting the guy. I've had chicks come over to shitty apartments and not seem to care. Material things don't really matter. Money is for experiences and enjoying the world. | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Who here has become successful at their career, started making significantly more money, made a dramatic change to their physique, and dresses way better than they did before and actually had that lead to the kind of dating/sex life that they wanted? What's your story?If you just asked me to tell me about myself, I'd say I travel the world, speak 2.5 languages, love to make videos, go to EDC every year, etc. | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Who here has become successful at their career, started making significantly more money, made a dramatic change to their physique, and dresses way better than they did before and actually had that lead to the kind of dating/sex life that they wanted? What's your story?I replied that because that was what the OP asked about. | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Who here has become successful at their career, started making significantly more money, made a dramatic change to their physique, and dresses way better than they did before and actually had that lead to the kind of dating/sex life that they wanted? What's your story?I have full hair! I'm not "small". But, it's obvious I'm not Top20. If go out with a group of friends, girls flirt with them, but not me. Anyway, I've gone out with a lot... Something key is missing. I get some first dates, but it's hard to get past it. I've tried going slow and not pushing. That's actually my more natural preference. I got few replies to subsequent texts. I've switched to going for a kiss at least on the first date...still little. I've taken it all the way to the bedroom...stil… | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Who here has become successful at their career, started making significantly more money, made a dramatic change to their physique, and dresses way better than they did before and actually had that lead to the kind of dating/sex life that they wanted? What's your story?This is what I would have thought. I've done that before. I feel like if there's not even a kiss on the first date, I get ghosted too! I used to play it like that...really slow. It got me nowhere. | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 06:29 PM |
| 39 | Who here has become successful at their career, started making significantly more money, made a dramatic change to their physique, and dresses way better than they did before and actually had that lead to the kind of dating/sex life that they wanted? What's your story?I'm an ER doctor. In the last 10 years I made from $200-$400k (increasing every few years). I've always been well muscled with an athletic build. I am 5'8" and weigh #150. I'm constantly told I dress well by males and females. Gay guys often hit on me. I have to really, really, really put effort into getting girls. If I do nothing, nothing ever happens. No girls flirt. No one asks for my number. If I try, I get 7's. Maybe and occasional 8. I have friends, who are naturals and they get laid all t… | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 07:35 AM |
| 3 | Long time lurker, I HAVE to speak up on how to increase your success with MINIMAL effort and there is no BS trick - it's a simple path that doesn't include anxiety.Hmm, I've done all that...I get dates. I dress well, I travel, I can talk about anything... But I have trouble escalating and making it sexual. I'm too nice. For that I need practice. I do online dating. I rarely cold approach. I guess I will try salsa classes. | /r/seduction | 10/02/20 09:13 PM |
| – | Moving On and Being GhostedGod damnit axe122, why didn't I meet you 10 years ago? I wasted so much time with that shit. Talking about nonsense. Pretending to be interested. I really could have used your advice. Missed so many opportunities. Now my rules are, never talk about work. Kino a lot. Talk about sex. Make a move to the bedroom the first night. Escalate! Can you believe there were dates I didn't try to kiss? I was so fucking lame. If you don't do as axe122 says above, you're losing. Ok, maybe if you are on Christia… | /r/seduction | 27/01/20 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Just got rejected and I feel like my heart was broken before I even went on a dateThe lesson to learn here is that a letter to a girl is a pussy move. That's blunt but you need to hear it. A girl doesn't want some simp writing her a letter. You have to be bolder. In the future, you have to be the leader. Kiss her. Look her in the eyes. You should have kissed her instead of hugged at the bus. It might not be too late. You just have to kiss her. At least tell her your feelings in person. Girls are creatures of the moment. They like to be led and need to be led. They have a puss… | /r/seduction | 26/01/20 05:49 AM |
| – | 48 and newly single - My approach to getting a kiss on the first dateNice! I'm going to try it! Also, I'm 45...but can't date a 45 year old. I'm looking at 35 and under. But maybe I still want kids. My ex-wife was infertile and here I am, 45 and no kids. | /r/seduction | 25/01/20 07:50 AM |
| 13 | I've taught infield pickup for over ten yearsHas what you taught changed? The forums always say the game changes. But has it really? A confident guy is what wins the day...and that's really all it is, right? | /r/seduction | 25/01/20 07:48 AM |
| 0 | I've taught infield pickup for over ten yearsGreat answer. Do what you need to be able to truly be happy with yourself. | /r/seduction | 25/01/20 07:46 AM |
| 5 | I called it and it worked! [FR]Ok...I hope I can help out here, since I've learned so much from this group and others. First, overall, congrats. I know all that shit ain't easy. But... When a woman gives you such a strong IOI, you have to capitalize. Even a small IOI should be acted on swiftly and decisively. It takes a lot for a girl offer that up...unless you are a 8-10 yourself. Then girls are more shameless. By your own rules, it was you turn to act. You really should have gotten her number at the table when you were flir… | /r/seduction | 23/12/19 07:36 PM |
| 1 | to use ED medication or not?Yeah, it dilates all of your blood vessels and so you can get a stuffy nose, sometimes. Sometimes it gives me back pain too. But not enough to bother me. And the sex is awesome so... | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Got denied for a kiss, feel great!For sure. If you are a DJ, movie director, Navy SEAL, pilot, guitarist, then sure, talk away. Don't let her talk about her boring ass job though. Get them out of that frame. | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 03:34 AM |
| 1 | I can see why sliding into dm’s barley work. Too many options and plus guys, 90% of the time you’re boring.Please post examples. I'm dying to know. | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 03:20 AM |
| 3 | to use ED medication or not?It's a lot to do with your mental state. Once you get in your own head, you're fucked. With new chicks I use ED meds. Once I am comfortable with her, like second or third time, I can bang all day. This is common, from talking to my friends. Def stop jacking off so much though too. Try to go three days with no porn or jerking it. I'm serious. Not talking out of my ass. | /r/seduction | 21/12/19 07:44 AM |
| – | Got denied for a kiss, feel great!I agree. You HAVE to at least kiss. If you don't, you'll get ghosted. What I've also found is that most (70%) are DTF the first night too. It's been said on here so many times that a girl is all about her feels in the moment. It's true. She wants to feel like a girl and be excited. It's our job to create the path to fun sex. Here's what I've learned after 30 years of being a dork... Never talk about work. Touch her/tease her. It's ok to talk about sex. Go for the make out/kiss at the end. You do… | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 10:53 PM |
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