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Women ghost because they’re someone else more important to them for the time being
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:58 AM
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My point is that most women today dictate and control the terms of the relationship. Yeah you can choose to walk away or not get involved at all but then you’re left single. You then have to try to find the one that isn’t and most men would rather just accept the terms
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:12 PM
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My ex who I’m still pretty close with is married to a guy who’s not gay but allows her to convince him to put on makeup like eyeliner and shit and wear androgynous clothes. Maybe he was like that before she met him but she talks about how it’s actually a turn on for her at times knowing that she can get him to be more feminine around her. Although she’s threatened to divorce him 3 times so idk how far that goes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:09 AM
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Well yeah if you as a guy know that you haven’t really had that much success with women up until this point and a woman comes around that you might think is probably a little out your league, you aren’t a 6’7 Chad you should be honest about what the situation really is with this woman. You either accept it, take a chance that you can change it into something else or not waste your time. The thing is a lot of us guys like to waste our own time and then blame women for why we wasted it. We know ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 10:17 AM
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I was shy as fuck around women and not socially out there majority of my life and in some ways I think that helped me more than not. It was weird because all the women that did take an interest in me were the ones that craved social attention the most whereas I never did and it was obvious I didn’t have good social skills. I’m not saying it’s not the case for most people but at the same time I think when it comes to attraction women can really be attracted to a guy that’s genuinely just being wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:00 PM
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I can confirm I am fuckboy. No but seriously it’s not the greatest feeling knowing that you’ll never really be able to connect with someone deeply and will always be seen as that guy women look for when their sexual fantasies want to be met. I rather be the other guy tbh. I would happily trade places with this guy even if it meant my partner thought I wasn’t the best she had. Having the other qualities to deeply connect with someone and keep them around means a lot more than being able to please…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:28 AM
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To me a creepy woman is a woman that intentionally manipulates a man into believing they’re genuinely interested in them while having no real interest other than using them for selfish gain. The lengths some women will go to just to keep a man as a sort of a lap dog is creepy to me and it’s becoming more of the norm. It’s easy to pass off blame on to the men because women have the out “You should have known better” and it also doesn’t help when we as men reinforce it by saying it also. This type…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:11 AM
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As a guy that's been hit on by women far more times than I ever thought I would I can tell you it's never really a comfortable situation when it's from someone that you don't know or at least had a physical attraction to in that moment. Even as a man I'm always weary of anyone who approaches me that I don't know or have never seen before. This is probably on a much larger concern for women. Do I think women feel like they're wanted in public? Should they?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 06:56 PM
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That's definitely a different way of looking at it and that makes sense. I was more referring to women that are inclined to have sex with diffrent men often and are more open about it in terms of promiscuity compared to women that dont
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 06:57 AM
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I have a hard time believing you're in great physical shape but have a hard time attracting women even at your height. Maybe you're not picking up on the signs women are attracted to you. Having an above average physique can get you in the door with A LOT of women...5'6 or not
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 04:21 AM
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Yeah I agree I just think that's a woman's way of approaching a man without actually approaching him
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 06:20 AM
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I see a woman's way of approaching men a lot different than a man's approach. Women approach men by basically giving off hints or signs that she's obviously interested. Such as smiles, comments, body language. They might not physically walk up to a man but they leave it up to the man to pick up on those hints and then act on them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:08 AM
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Women are attracted to the idea of a man based on looks. Men are attracted to what they can physically see in front of them. When a woman sees a man dressed in high designer clothes she will create an idea of what that man is about and will either be attracted to that idea or turned off by it. Even if the guy isn't physically attractive to her she can be attracted to an idea she creates of a man that's dressed well. For example women having an attraction to men in firefighter uniforms. It's the …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 08:59 PM
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That's a different way of looking at this for sure. Granted most men don't want a woman with a high count but theres also an intrigue for some guys to be that guy that a woman finally decides to give up her "old ways" for and cleans herself up. Some guys see that as an accomplishment and being the Alpha male. I don't but I see guys that have that mentality a lot more these days
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 08:41 PM
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It's more of a mindset over actions. When you put a woman on a pedestal you believe they're above you and thus you do whatever you can to keep her. This is different than believing a woman is on the same level as you and you do things to make her happy and please her. Guys that put women on a pedestal only doing things in hopes that she will be content with him
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 08:29 PM
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Those women tend to be more focused on looks and how men are perceived in the social status so they would more than likely see shorter men as a turn off because there is so much of an emphasis on taller men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:26 AM
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From what I've seen it takes certain personality types for short men to be successful with women. Seeking out women that are into the club scenes, tinder, very into their social media is probably not the best move for shorter men. Finding women within neighborhood communities, locally, within certain social circles you'll find a lot more success
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 07:07 PM
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Most of those men don't know how project the best qualities they possess to a woman and so the woman doesn't see any attraction in them. Women will find attraction in a man if they see he posseses a strong quality about himself, it can be something as trivial as a heavily tattooed guy, a guy thats really into cars, a guy that loves to cook. Attraction for woman is mainly based on the "character" they see you as
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 06:08 PM
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This is mainly dependent on society trends varying from city to city. In certain cities and even states as a whole you see more of an acceptance of bigger women because they are the majority for the most part. There was a study that showed how dating markets for women can vary based on major cities vs rural areas and the overall surroundings of the area. Bigger women had less of a dating market in major cities that revolve around a higher nightlife scene and cities near coastal regions and beach…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 08:04 PM
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Wow that's pretty eye opening because I thought it would be the exact opposite there. So men just don't cold approach women anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 05:54 AM
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Where do you live that this is the case? I just stopped going out to clubs frequently maybe 2 or 3 years now but when I did there was always a hunt to take home a woman from most guys. I don't know what part of the country where men have just stopped going after women in public. I've heard this for a long time now but whenever I'm out in public I see the exact opposite. Either the men have girlfriends/wives or they're on the hunt for a woman. Granted I live in LA but whenever I travel I see the …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 05:50 AM
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That's the opposite of the PUA mindset. The mindset of a PUA isnt to force a woman to want to have sex or agree to sex but to have a woman desire to have sex. It's natural seduction
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 12:08 AM
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Being seduced into sex isn't the same as being pressured/forced/bargained into sex. A woman that may not have had intentions on having sex with a man can be seduced into sex. Seduction is a real thing and it's far different than being pressured into it by manipulating the mind. I think many people have forgotten that seduction does still exist. But I would agree most men aren't able to seduce women they use manipulation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 11:47 PM
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I worked security for a few big name artists and from my own personal experience I've been sexually harassed by women over 100 times. It's was mostly unwanted touching but I've had a few instances where women would grab my private areas. It was one of the reasons I quit doing security for shows and concerts. I think a lot of women see any sexual advances they give a man as wanted but after the few first times it happened it definitely felt more on the harassment side. I never reported anything t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 06:37 PM
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I would say most of those types are just into the pleasure of having sex and don't form any other connection to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 06:37 PM
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It's not validation. It's the same feeling and pleasure that would come if a man worked and saved up to buy that brand new Porsche they wanted for so long. It's an achievement not a validation. Sex is almost always seen as an achievement for men the first time they have sex with that woman. After the first time maybe I could see sex just being a validation that the woman is still interested in them sexually. That's really the only strong exception
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 06:23 PM
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Sex isn't used as validation for men. Sex for most men is a conquest, moreso achieving a goal. The pleasure for most men comes from knowing they were able to seduce the woman into sex. Buying hookers takes away all of those aspects. That's why for a lot men including male pornstars will tell you the attachment that it's just for business takes away a certain pleasure of sex that can only be achieved through seducing a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 06:08 PM
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Sounds like you know what you should and shouldn't say that works or gets results that you want. I think you're just second guessing everything you want to say before you say it. Don't think so much. You've already slept with her so if the problem is she's not giving you equal feedback when you talk then it might mean it was just a sexual relationship she wanted from you and maybe your problem is you want more than that and she doesn't. I would cut back on the sentimental stuff and keep it flirt…
/r/seduction02/04/20 05:43 PM
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Those are just men that are running game to get with the one woman they feel they have the high chances of either sleeping with or being in a rebound relationship with but in most cases they aren't women that they're hung up on just women they feel they can fall back on again
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 04:16 AM
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