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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	What is the source of men's motivation for working hard? "which I don't watch"... Sure buddy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 02:39 PM
4	Do girlfriends ever increase your self-esteem? Get you a woman that builds you up not one that tears you down. You should be able to be fully vulnerable, cry when needed, and express all your feelings and she should be able to respond with kindness, empathy, and encouragement. If she's not, drop that bitch and don't waste 2 years of your life on her. More importantly, you're picking the same type of woman over and over again. That means you've got some unresolved issues that are causing you to gravitate towards this type of woman. I'd strong…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/23 02:39 PM
10	"Self-improvement" makes you jaded even if it works for dating. As someone who went through a TON of self improvement, this is beyond stupid. I had a lot of mental and emotional issues thanks to abuse from my peers growing up. In my early twenties I found Jesus (I can already see the hateful comments), went to counseling for 2 years and did group therapy for 6 (the last few years was mostly volunteering). After all of that my mental, emotional, and even physical health all dramatically improved. At no point do I look back at the broken and sick version of me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/23 03:50 PM
-1	If women don't go for the same top % of men, how did "Are We Dating the Same Guy" become a national thing? Based	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/23 04:28 PM
51	When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you. Dude this is just all human relationships. If you can't add value to someone's life then they won't keep you in it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/23 02:02 PM
13	Can we all agree that positive moral attributes such as kindness, sweetness, patience, and selflessness are not sexually attractive attributes for men? Bro it's literally a bot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/23 04:49 AM
3	Women's selection criterion have changed, but men have remained largely the same I'll still disagree with you. Most humans won't go for someone that can't take care of themselves, period. The only men I've seen do so are ones with the "white knight" syndrome where they think they can save the woman and earn her love. It's just never an attractive quality in a potential mate if they can't take care of themselves. Caring for home and kids has always been the thing women ask/complain about to their husbands. I don't think it's a special requirement at all. Men have traditionall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 06:10 PM
6	Women's selection criterion have changed, but men have remained largely the same I just need to point out that your statement saying he, as a man, can't speak to other men's standards because he hasn't spoken to all men is self-defeating because you have not spoken to all men either. You have only your experience to draw off of. That said I think you're absolutely right that too many men have excessively rigid standards for beauty. I've watched and listened to tons of my male peers talk about what they want or expect from a woman's appearance. While there's always a variance…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 06:02 PM
56	Women's selection criterion have changed, but men have remained largely the same My guy, you basically just said the status quo changed so now women desire a man with a personality and kindness. That's probably been their desire since the dawn of time but men largely oppressed women socially in the past across multiple nations. I will say that marriage is much less transactional now than it used to be. I believe most people say marriage is for love now than for gains, whether social, financial, power, or otherwise. I think the root of your complaint is that men who, historic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 05:52 PM
7	Women's selection criterion have changed, but men have remained largely the same Hmm, I don't think so personally. None of the men I've had "guy talk" with about women ever said "I want a woman who protects me and provides for me." The only exception would be a friend who later became a loser-ass-fuckboy that treats women like piggy banks so he can fuck off and play games all day. But the status quo for men's desires from women seems to be pretty much the same as it has been for at least the last 50 years if not more. Regarding caring for their looks, home, and children - I'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/23 05:45 PM
5	Slut shaming is bad, but what's the actual appeal of being a promiscuous woman? As a man I relate to this as well. I haven't slept around a lot but I did it enough to get fully in tune with what I want, need, and prefer. It only helps me know better what to communicate with my partners in relationships, pushing us towards a closer intimacy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/23 02:55 PM
1	As a man who’s dated quite a bit, I’ve found more women tend to be socially maladjusted than more men. While getting to know someone first was the standard decades ago, that just doesn't work nowadays. People isolate and don't interact as much anymore because they just don't have to. Making friends is way harder than just going on a date. If you don't express romantic interest up front then women will complain that you were only their friend so you could get in their pants. Damned if you do, damned if you don't. While some dating woes may be the result of a "bad picker", there are a lot of women …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/23 01:39 PM
5	As a man who’s dated quite a bit, I’ve found more women tend to be socially maladjusted than more men. Ah yes, attack me personally because you can't accept your own mistake. I pointed out your hypocrisy and you didn't like it. You dismissed the poster's opinion because it was anecdotal and then immediately made anecdotal statements.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/23 06:22 AM
8	As a man who’s dated quite a bit, I’ve found more women tend to be socially maladjusted than more men. Anecdotal: (of an account) not necessarily true or reliable, because it is based on personal accounts rather than facts or research. You said "from your experience" which is literally anecdotal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/23 06:14 AM
6	As a man who’s dated quite a bit, I’ve found more women tend to be socially maladjusted than more men. You literally said "from my experience" which is about as close to anecdotal as you can get. The "versus statement" was your statements about men. OP was not stating that men aren't maladjusted but you took his observations as an attack on women and responded in a "men versus women" mindset instead of just weighing in on your own observations about women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/23 06:09 AM
-1	As a man who’s dated quite a bit, I’ve found more women tend to be socially maladjusted than more men. People. What a bunch of bastards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/23 02:27 AM
8	As a man who’s dated quite a bit, I’ve found more women tend to be socially maladjusted than more men. I think the point was that women aren't held nearly as accountable as men are. Which is pretty easily upheld by data on crime statistics alone. Women receive vastly lessened penalties for the same crimes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/23 02:26 AM
3	As a man who’s dated quite a bit, I’ve found more women tend to be socially maladjusted than more men. You have to date everyone to be able to point out that women are just as maladjusted as men? Makes no sense. It's pretty obvious how maladjusted almost everyone is without even dating them. You friends? Family? Coworkers? Acquaintances? The only ones who aren't nowadays are people who bothered to go to therapy and work out their baggage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/23 02:24 AM
11	As a man who’s dated quite a bit, I’ve found more women tend to be socially maladjusted than more men. This isn't a men vs women conversation. OP is pointing out maladjusted women exist and all people talk about is maladjusted men. Kind of like that you just did. Also you said he can't generalize from his anecdotes but then did the same thing???	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/23 02:16 AM
26	q4men: what contradictions do you see in women? Women talk about how much they love romance but neglect to do anything romantic for their man. Women spend a lot of time trying to get a man to open up only to use that trusted info as a weapon. Women want men to show their emotions but mock men when they express them. Or worse, shut them down. Women want to talk about being mature in a relationship while rejecting accountability during fights. E.G. they get into a fight where the woman is wrong but instead she manipulates the man into apologizi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/23 04:22 PM
3	q4men: what contradictions do you see in women? Saying "eligible" doesn't mean anything. A hotdog on the floor is "eligible" to be eaten but I sure don't want it. It's the same argument incels use to complain about women not picking them. It's not about how many women are eligible or how many women a man rejects. People are attracted to what they're attracted to and they don't have to justify why they pick who they pick. Additionally you're singling out men who are promiscuous. Most men I know don't want to hook up with a stranger. Also you'v…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/23 04:08 PM
6	Men of PPD, to what extent are you willing to sacrifice basic morality in order to win over/impress women? When I was young I found myself roasting friends to seem funny to impress girls. However that didn't last long as I quickly realized I was just an asshole. Nowadays, I don't compromise my morality at all. I am who I am and I'll be sincere about that the whole time. Why? Because I don't want to be with someone who doesn't know me and accept me as I am.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/23 03:08 PM
2	I was in charge of my penis at 18, and I handled it just fine. LMAO underrated comment	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/23 07:29 PM
2	I was in charge of my penis at 18, and I handled it just fine. I'm not sure how you can claim someone predatory without also directly implying a victim of said predator? Of course there is a victim in predatory relationships. I'm also not defending shitheads that do that. I'm making the point that just because someone has a fun fling or a relationship with someone younger than them, in which both parties are consenting (consent meaning not coerced or manipulated), are just fine. Nothing illegal or immoral about two adults getting their rocks off with each o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/23 07:29 PM
5	I was in charge of my penis at 18, and I handled it just fine. I agree that men are the primary perpetrators of violent sexual crime. Though, I would also argue that if men actually reported the sexual assault they've experienced like women do, the stats would shock you. Not that I think women would overtake them. However, we're not talking about sexual assault and rapists. We're talking about predatory behavior. Scumbag women do the same manipulative shit that scumbag men do. All you've described is age and experience. That's how life works. You make choic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/23 06:16 PM
12	I was in charge of my penis at 18, and I handled it just fine. Men aren't more predatory. Women just prey on men in different ways that society continues to turn a blind eye to because "women are dainty perfect angels". Abusive women literally use that narrative to their advantage and then there isn't justice for the guy because "tough it out". Regardless, an 18 year old is fully capable of making the choice to choose a sexual partner or romantic partner. There's nothing predatory about people being with each other in a consenting relationship. Regretting t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/23 04:40 PM
4	What does a modern woman bring to a relationship? Underrated joke	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 12:39 AM
6	A lot of men in this sub say they have been berated and humiliated by women for making a move Dam	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/22 07:35 PM
4	Does it really boil down to looks as far as what makes a woman a potential partner vs a best friend? Looks can be a hindrance though in my mind it's less about having the hottest woman possible and more about not being with someone they find unattractive. Men and women alike will date someone with less than ideal looks if their personality and intellect make up for it. We've all experienced being attracted to a person much more after we get to know them. That said, you may be unattractive physically OR you may have off-putting characteristics. Or both. Not saying that's the case but it's a poss…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 04:15 PM
2	How many of you women are actually into "abusive" sex? Guy here that enjoys these things. I was very timid in my first couple relationships but as my comfort with sex and my self esteem and confidence grew, I found myself enjoying being dominant toward my partners. And frankly they loved it. Even if a girl hasn't done it before me they end up really enjoying it. The disconnect seems to be that people think doms are just abusive and ignore consent. Every woman I've been dominant with has always provided consent. The entire time we try new things I ch…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 07:26 PM
2	Women are not the romantic gender, men are. You were driving a great point home until you brought up the girl paying you with sex. Sex is not an exchange of "I do a trick and you give me a treat". If that's all it is to you I'd other you to study all of sex and not just getting off. I vibe with your original message though. I set firm boundaries with women in relationships now that if they don't pursue me like I do them, I'll just leave. I don't have the resources to blow all my money, energy, and time on someone who doesn't put forth eff…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/22 04:41 AM
1	Why are most divorces initiated by women rather than the man? So she had anxiety and depression issues when I met her and frankly most people deal with those on some level at some point in time. She got a lot better while we dated and eventually got married. Then slowly but surely she grew more and more unstable. She would switch personalities sometimes as well but I didn't pick up on it until later because it wasn't drastic differences. Just seemed like mood swings to me at first. Eventually it felt like walking on eggshells with her and she started doing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/22 11:26 PM
5	Why are most divorces initiated by women rather than the man? While I agree with your thought on good husbands, I'm a bit of an exception to the rule (and a couple others I've encountered). My ex just up and told me one day out of the blue she was divorcing me. I asked, among other things, if I was a bad husband and said no. She had just randomly decided she never actually wanted to be married, have kids, settle down. In all fairness though my ex has a LOT of mental health disorders that I was woefully unaware of before the marriage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/22 08:00 PM
53	What age do you think Men and Woman are at their most sexually attractive? That's gonna be a huge fucking yikes from me	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/22 04:08 PM
4	Women claim they wear makeup “for themselves” but they clearly do it to increase their SMV, which affords them immense privilege and attention they would not otherwise receive Agreed. And they would ostracize themselves from 90% of the hetero dating pool	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 11:39 PM
9	Not really understanding the whole work on yourself movement. I don't understand why you would think improving and growing as a person is wasted effort at any point ever. Every person should always be growing and trying to improve who they are. Not compared to others but compared to past-them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 11:20 PM
10	Men should never completely open to women. Man you didn't read what I said at all then. I said every man has gone through this shit. Not that every woman does this. We've either been through it or witnessed it up close. Your initial response came across as dismissive to the original point. Hence why I spent the time affirming this is, in fact, a true reality that many men face. I personally haven't really had it happen directly to me but I'm also very selective with who I date. But I've seen it happen to friends who are just dating, in L…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/22 09:16 PM
23	Men should never completely open to women. I think perhaps that's where you're the one with a disconnect though. This is literally the same shit all men go through. We've all been around to see a bro getting his fucking knees cut out by his girl using deep, personal info to bring him down in a disgusting power struggle. We've all hung out over a beer and listened to a buddy talk about how his ex said the most fucked up shit using the secrets he shared with her. The point is that women spend a lot of their relationship trying to get their…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/22 08:13 PM
3	The whole sex acts thing, sexually history generally, etc. is resolved by just not committing Sick burn!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/21 06:49 AM
12	The whole sex acts thing, sexually history generally, etc. is resolved by just not committing All of this. Nailed it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/21 06:49 AM
6	Most of you are embarassing and I laugh at your posts every day Found the simp!	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 02:25 PM
0	Let’s speak plainly. “Husband material” = I will NOT fuck you unless we are committed or you have shown me more of your provider qualities. I'm what most girls value as "husband material". That has never stopped me from having sex with a girl who felt that way about me. If anything we had more sex more often. Early in the relationship too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/21 04:39 PM
6	Let’s speak plainly. “Husband material” = I will NOT fuck you unless we are committed or you have shown me more of your provider qualities. Ya had me up until "demand commitment in exchange for sex". Yikes!	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/21 04:38 PM
0	Women often say that they can't be nice or polite to men because it's interpreted as romantic interest by the latter. Do you think that is true? I'm probably a 6 or 7?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/21 10:39 PM
88	Women often say that they can't be nice or polite to men because it's interpreted as romantic interest by the latter. Do you think that is true? As a man I've seen this from women too. I'll be very nice and engaging or go out of my way to help them and they sometimes interpret it as interest. I think it's overall just a very human thing to be drawn to sincere kindness. Especially nowadays as more people become less and less kind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/21 06:10 PM