plsdontkickthecat Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	New to this sub, first time posting! But saw this on twitter today and was so shook I felt it needed to be on here. LVM if ever I've seen one. The audacity	#JustLVMThings	plsdontkickthecat	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/09/20 07:10 PM

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11	A household with a LVM father and a pickme mother is a terrible environment to raise children. So many people have unresolved childhood trauma from being raised in this dynamic. Yes yes yes!! My cheating abusive pos excuse of a dad was horrible to me, my brother and my mum growing up. She was unhappy but decided to stay 'for the kids'. It look him giving her an STD and a drunken call from his mistress to wake her up. As much as I love her and I am proud of her for finally leaving, I often wonder what my life would have been like without a physically and mentally abusive dad. For a while I was a pick me, choosing men who would pay any kind of attention to me - defo some …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/21 01:11 PM
17	This is why we block. This one was triggered because I posted a pic of me and my current bf at a wedding - he must have stalked my FB to see it cause we weren't even friends. Regina George? 😂 That's a new one. I know what you mean, sometimes no reply is better but her response was perfect hahah	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/11/20 01:47 PM
46	This is why we block. I did!! What bugged me was the pure nerve he had to type it out let alone send it. I wish I had this sub years ago cause I never would have gone out with him in the first place, but you live and you learn!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/11/20 12:49 PM
87	This is why we block. Last year I got the nastiest message I've EVER received from an ex of mine it outlined all my flaws and everything I hate about myself (a year after we broke up) it really affected me for a few months after, after he had sent it he blocked me. At the start of the lockdown (almost 6 months to the day) he unblocked me and messaged me again, wishing me the best and telling me that he 'misses me' I was shook. I told him to get lost and never message me again. I'll never understand the thought proces…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/11/20 12:22 PM
3	How many men have actually given you orgasms? If we wanna get technical, only 0.8% of the guys I've been with have ever achieved that. Including my current bf. think it was a mix between a mental block (not feeling 100% comfortable) and them just not knowing what to do lol.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/20 06:31 PM
2	Need some HVW songs for my playlist Next girl - Carly Pearce (it's technically country but such a good song, sums up my last 'relationship' with a LVM)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/10/20 02:18 PM
1	Thoughts on dating younger men? Current thoughts: they always want someone younger and it puts you at risk of waiting for him to grow up/supporting him/always unsure if he is secretly pining for a younger woman...Change my mind. I've only had one experience 'dating' a guy younger than me and it was a disaster. He was 2 years younger than me , seemed so mature at the start but that quickly changed. Long story short I found out (partially via Reddit and partially through my other friend) that him and my best friend (who was living with me after her bf dumped her) were sleeping together behind my back. She was also younger than me, and a year younger than him. Never gone for a younger guy since.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/09/20 10:08 PM
2	Makes me 😤 to see a gorgeous queen put in effort for date night while her man does the absolute least I remember I wanted to celebrate 6 months of being with my ex, we were going to the cinema. I put on a nice dress and got ready, he showed up wearing joggies (sweatpants) and a dirty t-shirt with scabby trainers, I ended up changing into jeans because I felt so shitty walking beside him. Should have dumped him then!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/20 02:58 PM