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ASK RPWplumgem/r/RedPillWives10/08/16 02:03 AM
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Living in a colder city and how the heck do you look cute in winter? I don't know how to dress. I need warmth from my apartment to the train and the train to work but also look flawless at work. Any suggestions? Working-girl Instagrams? There are some trends that just don't work in a corporate environment and I don't want to the person who brings that in.
/r/RedPillWives06/02/20 06:53 AM
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Oh my goodness! Please keep us updated. I'm trying to summer-kondo. I want to get my room and wardrobe for summer in a place that brings me a lot of joy and maybe even put a couple of things up on poshmark. I would love pictures of the new chicken coop and bunny hutch. I like the master list idea you have. I find that when I finish one project, i get so wrapped up in the satisfaction that it takes forever for me to start up back again or I delay in gathering what I need to start up. I don't do i…
/r/RedPillWives06/02/20 06:47 AM
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What are ways you make it pleasant? I don't have kids yet but I'm curious about this. I don't always have the best attitude about tidying when I'm by myself and I'd love any and all advice you might have about improving my attitude.
/r/RedPillWives06/02/20 06:06 AM
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I think that going to school after you have babies will be very difficult but doable esp. if your husband understands and is willing to help out. It will be almost impossible if you decide to homeschool. You'll have to go back when they are much much older and in a traditional school setting. ​ What might be a little easier on everyone is for you to go back to school while still trying for a baby. I understand that maybe be controversial but that would allow you to work towards something you wan…
/r/RedPillWives06/02/20 06:03 AM
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I don't go into the world looking for women with similar ideas on femininity or gender roles. What I do instead is look for the inner RPW in my interactions with other women and let that stand out. For example, I belong to a book club and it's a mixture of men and women and one woman in particular who is very crass and very liberal (not related) who always always brings beer and cheese and I love her for it. I am complimentary and make an effort to connect with her about her thoughtfulness and I…
/r/RedPillWives06/02/20 05:52 AM
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I recommend joining some sort of philanthropic organization or dedicate yourself to an extracurricular like a sport, yoga, volunteering, book club. There you will meet women who have kids and you get mom friends as well as give back or learn a new skill. Good move not complaining about your spouse. It does make people see you differently but that isn't on you. What is on you is living in a way that is consistent with you and the values in your home. Not trying to be nauseatingly positive but thi…
/r/RedPillWives06/02/20 05:39 AM
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I recommend the Marquette or Creighton Method of NFP. They have apps and usually you can find training tracking groups in your archdiocese. It can also be easier if you have a well trained Catholic OBGYN. Only abstinence is 100% effective and that can be hard on a partnership over time. It's okay to ask your husband to refrain for a period of time while you work on healing, quelling anxiety, and getting knowledgeable about your cycle. It's always an option to use birth control for non-prevention…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/19 04:43 PM
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I want to print this out and tape to my wall!
/r/RedPillWives17/12/19 09:58 PM
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J loved this! Do you have any other recommendations? I am looking at thrift stores for old etiquette books but this kindle book is just what I'm looking for!
/r/RedPillWives06/12/19 02:44 PM
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I find that a good therapist invites you to examine your worldview and its origins. If you're worried, you can have an introductory meeting where you ask what their modality is and how they might address certain issues. Depending on what the issue is, you should be able to recieve faith-based counseling or recommendations or ask a like minded friend for a suggestion. I find that the smarter the therapist, the more willing they are to do the work themselves and are understanding of different worl…
/r/RedPillWives06/12/19 02:43 PM
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I like the seasonal Mrs. Meyer's ones. They're only about $10 and make me hungry but the pumpkin spice one is lovely and makes the house feel cozy. I think they are soy too.
/r/RedPillWives07/10/19 05:31 PM
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Does anyone have any tried and true autumn baking recipes? Bonus if there's rhubarb in it :D
/r/RedPillWives07/10/19 05:30 PM
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Can anyone recommend Tv shows? I feel like I've been living under a rock. I love Call the Midwife and Fr. Brown and Gotham on Netflix. My tastes are varied but I would love to know what you're watching.
/r/RedPillWives07/10/19 05:29 PM
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I made an effort to connect with female friends when I wanted to vent and not and bringing it to my family or guy I'm dating. In return, I noticed much happier dates and greater connection with feminine women who helped me gain a new perspective. This week, I won't try to change plans. If he suggests we do something I will be grateful and STFU!
/r/RedPillWives27/08/19 02:53 AM
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I am venting less. It keeps me in a negative space for longer and alternatives like journaling, reading and article and discussing it with like-minded feminine girls, or working out while frustrated are so much healthier than complaining about a problem to every person in my life!
/r/RedPillWives24/08/19 05:05 PM
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Instead of confronting him, I was wondering if better time would be spent working on your intimacy/aggression/temper issues. I find that confrontation can aggravate those issues for me. If your communication skills are on point, that makes it easier to have difficult conversations that don't trigger you or the other person. It also makes it easier to listen to people's words and actions and respond accordingly. I commend you for wanting to be real and wanting to find something real. I think you …
/r/RedPillWives24/08/19 05:01 PM
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My friend had a new baby and I know she's being overwhelmed by family visits and I wanted to do something nice. What would be a nice simple thing to do that wouldn't cause too much hassle for her, the baby and her husband?
/r/RedPillWives24/08/19 02:57 PM
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This sub doesn't believe that being a plate to a red pill man is an acceptable form of dating.
/r/RedPillWives21/08/19 05:24 PM
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He may have alopecia but really you don't convince him to do anything. You break-up if you don't love him or aren't interested.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/18 04:22 PM
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I've helped my mother organize events like this and I saw that she would organize a social event prior to the big event like a tea and personally invite people to go or help.
/r/RedPillWives07/10/17 03:04 PM
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Making S.M.A.R.T goals and entering a serious "monk-mode" for one month. I'm looking forward to reconnecting with my femininity and self improving.
/r/RedPillWives07/10/17 03:01 PM
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I love making baby books and enjoy making collages and creating art that reflects the joy of being pregnant with my baby. Part of me feels frustrated however because I'd like her to grow up with traditional values but I feel insecure about my situation. I am an unwed 21 year old pregnant woman and the father and I plan on co-parenting. Any advice would be appreciated. :D
/r/RedPillWives27/08/16 09:21 AM
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Thank you for these challenges! I really take well to external motivation and I need to take better care of my dress shoes!
/r/RedPillWives28/06/16 08:03 PM
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His reaction and his tone are important and are to be kept in mind as you two are on the way toward marriage. I wonder if he's trying to instill dread. If he gets defensive or angry, I think you'll begin to lose attraction to him. Please report back OP. Hope it goes well!
/r/RedPillWives28/06/16 08:00 PM
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Some thoughts: I can't speak for every radical feminist who made this list because I don't know enough about them nor am I one. But I think they are trying to do something more important than just making a spectacle of themselves. I don't think this is the way to do it but women are consistently self-shamed, shamed by other women, and society for their periods. Sometimes for good reasons. Others for bad. If I smelled bad, I'd rather my friends tell me then ignore it. If I bled through my pants, …
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/16 07:51 PM
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Removing emphasis on orgasms can help. Check out Karezza, a method that encourages intimacy without orgasm. It helped an ex-SO get over his performance anxiety.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/16 06:47 AM
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The Good: I organized a major but necessary spring cleaning in my apartment. I'm going to surprise my (female) roommate with how clean everything everything is in the living room, bathroom, and kitchen. I made a care package for a boyfriend who is moving full of goodies and kind notes. I organized all my crafting supplies which is great because the spring brings inspiration. The Bad: Boyfriend above broke up with me because he wants to move and not be tied down. (This was after I gave the care p…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/16 07:16 PM
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For me: babydoll, plum, gem, little bear, heater. For him: pumpkin pie, big bear, daddy, king, sweetheart. I love hearing what other people call their SO's! I feel like I've been let in on this huge secret. Thank you everyone.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/16 08:23 AM
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My goals for 2016 are Lose 35lbs Wear Lipstick everyday. Follow a skincare regime. (Focus on moisturizing my dry skin) Learn 6 soup recipes by memory (Soup is amazing and I love it!) Read RPW theory at least once a month. Pay off debt. (I currently owe medical bills amounting to 2K. I'm a student so it's a priority for me to pay this off asap)
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/16 10:22 PM
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