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Models by Mark Manson has been my favorite. As far as pick-up artistry reading goes, I think it is most in line with TRP principles.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 09:02 PM
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Yup, assuming interest is also my solution to my obliviousness.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 08:34 PM
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I never notice. I'm extraordinarily oblivious. It takes some pretty big IOIs for me to see that someone's attracted, even if I already have rapport with them. Kino is really the only time I can truly judge attraction for some reason.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 05:13 PM
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I feel the same, actually more so. Recently out of an LTR (I found TRP during that relationship). She branch swung. I've gone on some dates since, fucked a few girls, yada yada. But I'm just thoroughly not interested now. My labido is weak to non-existent. I've even turned down blatant opportunities for sex with very attractive women. My hearts just not in it. That all being said, I'm certainly in the anger phase. It's not that I even feel anger necessarily though, I just...don't care. No sex dr…
/r/askTRP12/08/15 01:55 AM
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I'm agnostic, but I've also studied and actively participated in Christianity, Taoism, and Nichiren Buddhism throughout my life. I personally think agnostic is the logical conclusion (despite however inconclusive agnosticism is) when one takes an objective look at religion. That being said, I'm sure there's a lot more monotheistic beliefs in the married redpill sub. Polyamory and most theologies don't mix well.
/r/askTRP11/08/15 10:16 PM
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Women never grow up. 17 or 47, AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 07:03 PM
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As someone who frequents YouTube as a source of learning for my hobbies, it'd be nice to see some RP stuff in the feed.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 01:05 AM
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Directly pursuing other women is hard dread, and only really suggestible if softer dread techniques are not creating the proper response. Soft dread: lightly flirt with other women in front of her, have an aesthetic physique to the point that women check you out/flirt with /you/. Have your time and space where she doesn't know where you are, or where she knows there are other women. If soft dread isn't working, go harder. Flirt more in front of her. Have obvious (but not overtly sexual) contact …
/r/askTRP28/07/15 04:42 PM
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Rinsed and repeated exactly like that 5 times, which is what makes me doubt whether it was lmr or not. That's a good answer for that.
/r/askTRP26/07/15 02:37 AM
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Hmm. Well she kept getting really excited and initiating sexual actions. No problem playing with her tits and and other escalations, but anything that got too close to her pussy was stopped. I'll just take it as genuine discomfort or insecurity about sex on her period, and see what happens when we meet again.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 08:53 PM
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Thanks, makes a lot more sense now. ♂
/r/askTRP25/07/15 08:45 PM
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She did say she thought it was gross and implied she has a rather heavy flow.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 08:22 PM
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So just to clarify, affirming there have been plenty of women without giving a number is the course of action you're advising? Also, that explains why they ask it, which I understand. What I'm wondering is why you dont answer?
/r/askTRP25/07/15 08:12 PM
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Welcome to some of the greatest depression an average man will go through. It seems like never ending pain. Everything is dull, there's very little enjoyment of everything. You'll be sad and angry and resentful and depressed. You'll probably want to contact her at some point. Your productivity will probably drop for a while. You may even lose a couple of your good habits for a while. The good news is, all that's pretty normal. You're right that the sadness will probably be palpable to others. Sp…
/r/askTRP23/07/15 10:46 PM
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The girl I'm in an open relationship with is very light skinned (basically white) and she has many guys compliment her when we're together. Jealous, little to no abundance mentality. I'm still big I can't workout for a while because I'm injured. To be honest my facial features are good but my skin is too dark. I'm in the sun all the time and my face, forearms, neck and legs are darker than the rest of my body. Male hamstering. There's plenty to do anyway. What's the injury? Can you swim or run? …
/r/askTRP23/07/15 07:36 AM
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If you're not moving, I'd break up. A year away in an affluent setting? People are quick to forget their roots when presented with better.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 05:20 PM
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My girlfriend is great. She's aware of RP because of me sharing it with her early on. Pre-RP we had an ongoing conversation about feminism, aa she identified as such, and even pre-rp I didn't agree with feminism, so we debated it often, and RP was too compelling not to share with her at the time. But beware, I still HIGHLY suggest against talking about it, I just got lucky. She felt resentful for like a week, before really looking at things objectively, and accepting it (this is unlikely to happ…
/r/askTRP26/06/15 04:53 PM
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I have no need nor desire to control my LTR. She asks me anytime she wants to do something she knows i may dislike, she avoids spending time with other men, as she recognizes her hypergamous nature. She loves me and wants to keep me, and behaves accordingly. If i had to "control" my LTR they would not be an LTR. I am very sweet and caring to my LTR, because she deserves it. She treats me very well, cooks for me, does my laundry, cleans, never shit tests (although she does occasionally comfort te…
/r/askTRP09/06/15 10:14 PM
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This isn't the place for non redpill questions.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 08:50 PM
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Of course its weird, you're behaving in opposition to how you've behaved your whole life.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 08:49 PM
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She's a slut. Break up with her.
/r/askTRP24/05/15 07:53 PM
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This^ Not a real man, at least. Your intentions mean nothing compared to your actions.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 06:21 PM
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After reading the whole thread, I've determined you're just whiny and stubborn. You refuse to change your job, even though you've been clearly told why it makes you a low value woman. You refuse to change at all. You're just looking for validation for your promiscuous lifestyle. You could find other options if you were actually open to change. Don't expect anyone here to feel sorry for a slut.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 06:01 PM
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Same here. Sore losers hardly even deserve that much attention.
/r/askTRP08/05/15 07:25 PM
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That second paragraph all sounds like male hamstering and excuses. You even admit you procrastinate, after insisting you don't have the time. Good on you for working on yourself, but you're not there yet. An RP male doesn't make excuses for why he's not getting what he wants.
/r/askTRP02/05/15 03:49 PM
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I know you don't want to be directed anywhere else, but /r/RedPillWomen may be a better choice. Women with a red pill understanding will likely offer better advice, as they have a better grasp on the female perspective.
/r/askTRP30/04/15 11:49 PM
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Read the damn sidebar of /r/theredpill. You have a nearly complete lack of abundance mentality, and a lack of self-worth. Read the sidebar. Read the sidebar. Read the sidebar. Don't expect advice when all the information you need is IN THE SIDEBAR.
/r/askTRP29/04/15 09:49 PM
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A deadline for?
/r/askTRP24/04/15 02:40 PM
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Emotion is needed to know what you want. Emotion is indicative of what you like and do not like. Emotion defines the destination, logic and rationale is the compass to get you there.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 06:44 PM
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Rarely are plans followed perfectly, life gets in the way. Some days your mood is shit and you miss some stuff, some days another opportunity takes place of part of your plan, and sometimes you just outright don't do some things. This is all okay, and preferred, honestly. If everything went exactly according to plan life would be boring, there would be little to overcome. I probably get only 50% of my to-do list done on any given day, but through prioritizing the important things get done. Don't…
/r/askTRP22/04/15 03:45 PM
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Had a similar situation with my current LTR. We had broken up for 6-7 months after I became a complacent little beta and her hypergamy kicked in. We were both not in good places at the time. Jump forward. She's much more stable mentally, I was much better off in my own life as well. We get back together, I start becoming complacent, her hypergamy starts resurfacing. We almost broke up again. Then I found RP and everything has been cherry since. She's astoundingly loyal, recognizes and controls h…
/r/askTRP21/04/15 08:12 PM
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In this context sounds like she's looking for validation. Trying to get you to give her comfort. Just don't enter her frame. "And?" is a good reply, I'd just throw an ambiguous look and not reply.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 07:54 PM
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Obviously the need for escalation isn't necessary in and LTR, but the need for interaction is. Dates with an LTR should reaffirm comfort and commitment, without interaction that just doesn't happen well. Apologies for the confusion, kinda mashed together LTR and single viewpoints. Heh. She's a real LTR.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 07:14 PM
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This. Home movies are a much different environment than theaters. I don't even take my LTR to the movies. Just so dull. Shouldn't even count as a date. Limited opportunity for escalation, no real interaction.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 06:54 PM
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Your last statement is so important. Momentum is absolutely key, and one day can turn into two just as fast as two days can turn into the rest of your life. Like was said in another comment, I plan my next day and get to bed.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 06:45 PM
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Meditation can help. Daily goal setting can help. Exercise can help. Really though, there is no key to self-awareness, aside from direct practice. The easiest thing to to, and what I do, is define your main goal (where youd like to be in 5-10 years. If you don't have a main goal, figure it out). From there, think about actions you take and opportunities available to you and assess whether they move you toward your goal or not. Constantly think "is this helping me". Listen to the gut reaction, it…
/r/askTRP31/03/15 07:37 PM
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Your desperation is going to ruin you, get rid of it. An attitude of outcome independence is paramount, and is not something present if you're desperate. Anyone can fill you up with canned lines and techniques, but that's not RP. RP is becoming a valuable man to yourself. There is almost nothing that will change you overnight, that is not possible. Go, and experiment and explore, but do not hold the idealistic goal of taking a girl home tomorrow. If you hold that over yourself, if/when you go ho…
/r/askTRP31/03/15 07:28 PM
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I agree with top comment. Lines are, for the most part, useless. This was my favorite technique (provided you have a strong enough frame to give the right impression). Approach, give a (real*) compliment. Walk away. 9/10 times, if done with the right attitude, they will try to stop you from walking away. I've even had girls grab my arm and immediately withdraw, shocked that they even behaved that way. Its great. *a real compliment is complimenting something that they had control over that day. T…
/r/askTRP27/03/15 10:47 PM
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I would definitely skip the family event, and as she has already flaked twice, I don't think she deserves a reschedule. But, if you still have interest despite her flakes, next time you go out with friends or something let her know you're going and she's welcome to join.
/r/askTRP15/03/15 09:57 PM
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This. This, sounds like a comfort test. In cases where the women in an LTR is feeling unloved in someway, its usually best to break away from your frame for a minute and be tender with her. Beta traits are not all bad, and can be a welcome addition to your game in an LTR.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 07:11 PM
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You fucked up, own up to it. If you break up you get what you deserved. You broke an agreement, and if you loved her so much you wouldn't have done it. Keeping this from her will likely lead to shame and resentment, and eventually collapse the relationship whether you tell her now or not. Spare this girl and yourself a lot of trouble by being a man and coming clean.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 07:01 PM
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Its hard to swallow, but as you progress through the phases it will get better. I'm an RP male in am LTR with an RP women, and its just delightful. You absolutely don't have to keep them at arms length. Me and my girlfriend have a very close relationship, and we talk about everything together (keyword talk, I still do not emote like a woman). She is, for the foreseeable future, my partner in crime. I trust her fully, trust is without a doubt the foundation of a healthy LTR. Just because AWALT do…
/r/askTRP14/03/15 04:58 PM
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Hypergamy (women's basic function) and polyamory (mens basic function) are two separate things. Hypergamy is the tendency to trade up. Generally monogamous but going through partners quickly. Polyamory is the tendency to have multiple partners simultaneously. Neither are good or bad, it is all contextual. Both are seen as bad in terms of LTRs. Hypergamy tends to have a stronger negative connotation because it opposes what we are told about a women's nature by society and even women themselves. I…
/r/askTRP13/03/15 09:40 PM
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EFT has the roughest track record around in regards to emotional therapies. In some cases it has completely eradicated phobias, and in many others done absolutely nothing. I did EFT tapping for 21 days (how long I give any new habit before deciding to keep it or throw it out). Didn't do too much, though in particular negative high-energy emotion did seemed to be improved in the short term from tapping. All in all, not worth the effort. Read books, lift, spend time in nature. All better.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 09:26 PM
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Hey there, OPs boyfriend here. Thanks for the time to write out your reply, LittleRed99. Really helped her a lot. She determined not knowing our (or my) direction on the grand scheme of things was where the concern came from. I.E. whether my intentions were to be a provider etc. Most of our relationship has been a weird mix of pills, and upon finding TRP, a lot of questions that didnt have answers came up in regards to our relationship. Also worth noting I am employed outside of music (my art), …
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/15 02:21 AM
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Same here. My mother loves me like no tomorrow, and has done so much to help me even when I was at my worst. I would absolutely be working toward her retirement, but she happened to inherit a large sum of money, so she's set. And god does she deserve it.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 10:21 PM
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My mother certainly loves me quite unconditionally. She frequently reminds me that she loves me, has helped me out emotionally and financially more times then I can count. She's a spectacular mother who has never asked or expected anything from me, aside from doing what's best for me. But, in general I see most mothers to not be like this, and I just feel endlessly lucky to have a mother like mine. If there's any legitimacy to the "you'll marry someone like your mother" statement I'll be tickled…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 10:20 PM
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Full non-contact is optimal. Be damned what she thinks at this point. And alphas don't get mad? I disagree, although how you should show anger should be controlled and concise. Anyway, I'd just let it go.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 01:00 AM
1

So you're saying this is the only pussy possible to get?
/r/askTRP09/03/15 10:32 PM
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Don't, unless she replies. Any further requests to meet up will come off as beta most likely. Sounds like you're getting some oneitis, I'd just let it go and move on to other prospects.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 10:29 PM
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No need to explain it to her unless she brings up commitment.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 10:25 PM
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