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I’ve studied the culture and been here so long I’ve let myself get wrapped up into it I would expect that the japanese chicks interested in black dudes is expecting to meet a foreigner, not someone behaving like japanese, so this might be hurting you more than you imagine. You might also be missing IOIs due to shy japanese girls. In any case, most of them will expect you to do all the work, from meet until fuck and everything before and after. She may not appear all that into you, due to societa…
/r/askTRP16/05/19 10:32 AM
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The logic is: Don't pay for her shit. (More than you would if she was a male acquaintance that might disappear tomorrow without paying you back) By paying for her, you show her that she is important and valuable to you. On the blue-pill surface, this is nice and good, but the more you pay the more you will be seen as "provider" instead of "lover", which has... consequences. Read the sidebar if there is any confusion.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/19 02:34 PM
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And dominant. Bad choice for a first dog.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 10:45 AM
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When you're spinning plates, the most important thing is that you manage her expectations to avoid problems. The only certainty is that over time, for whatever reason, all plates will break (leave you). Don't spend too much time trying to salvage plate A. Do let her know you are not in a relationship. Nexting her is probably the sensible choice.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 11:22 AM
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The freudian slip in your headline should tell you all you need to know. She has moved to a new place and using all resources at her disposal to set up an orbiting beta bucks safety net for herself. Block her immediately. Do not give her any more anything. You will never fuck her.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 09:17 AM
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TRP makes women live up with the consequences of their actions. Realising/Accepting the consequences of ones actions is one of the most painful things you can do. Pretty sure it's worse than childbirth.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 07:35 AM
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Ban evasion is not allowed.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 07:27 AM
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Blackmail.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 10:05 AM
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It is a power struggle. Everything is a power struggle. But you're thinking too much. If she's wet for your dick, then it doesn't matter if she sends you 1 or 1000 snaps per day. If you're not actually fucking, why not? Reassess, and drop her or fuck her.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 10:17 AM
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You're hamstering. Focus on what is in front of you and not some bimbo on a screen that in theory possibly maybe if the stars align and you work it just right may or may not be someone you could fuck.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 09:01 AM
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princesses should be treated like whores And she will love you for it. The only person in the world* to not put her on a pedestal. He must be a very special guy. * From the perspective of her hamster.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 08:07 AM
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[Asias Lawyer] said Asia "does not intend to prosecute Bennett for his conduct [...]" Children can't consent. Except boys.
/r/MensRights05/09/18 05:08 PM
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He's not your friend. Just casually stay away from him and let him deal with his issues. If he acts out, just deal with him as if he's your annoying little brother.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 11:11 AM
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Humans are social animals. If you do not interact with (a reasonable number of) other humans in more than a superficial sense, you will have a bad time. Probably without realizing it.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 01:30 PM
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All relationships (romantic or not) contain various amounts of power play. Women have a primal need to have a man that is stronger than them (to know that he will keep her safe), which is why she will test him to see what the current status is. If his dominance is obvious, then she will feel less need for her to test him. If he cannot overcome her insignificant bullshit, how can he achieve success in the world?
/r/askTRP03/07/18 10:15 AM
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You should do what you want to do, but at the same time, the chances of you going on a random first date with someone who is worty of being wined and dined is fairly low, so save your bucks and do something simple, cheap and easy. When your investment is low, your mind is clearer and you can better evaluate if this is someone you want to spend more time with, and if that time should be spent mostly fucking, or if you want to listen to her talk for extended periods of time.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 07:34 AM
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until they carve their way out of Cost Accounting and into forensics history. This may be the greatest sentence I have ever read.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 11:41 AM
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My experience is that people who are openly polygamous have psychological trouble. This is distinct from a man having "plates", i.e. someone who will respond to or initiate booty calls that he does not otherwise spend much time with.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 05:57 PM
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If you don't like her doing it, find someone who won't.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 04:57 PM
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In general, as people climb the economic ladder, they dress nicer and nicer until they get fuck you money (relative) and DGAF. Maybe there is a disconnect between the way you act and speak (class) and your style that she picked up on. Or she was just fishing trying to check your reaction to see if you are a pretend hobo.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 07:50 AM
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A simple "I don't do stalkers" should suffice. If she's not doing something to salvage the date after that, she's not that into you and you should find some other slut.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 07:08 PM
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Maybe that is what you need.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 02:58 PM
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Picking up chicks requires a sacrifice of time that could have been spent on something better and more productive. I'd say it's a high investment, - and statistically speaking, medium reward (as it's not always a lay). I'm not sure about the medium reward. I have gained a lot of extra free time due to my LTR. She washes and cleans, cooks more than me, and I'm 100% guaranteed a result from "eyyy gurl, want some fuk". I otherwise agree with what you write. If getting girls is the focus of your lif…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 04:58 PM
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Stop being a white knight and realise that if she wants to ride the carousel, she's gonna ride it with someone. That someone could be a stranger, or you could hook her up with someone you know. Do your roommates a favor and serve them a slice of pussy. If they are decent people, they will help you out sometime in the future.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 07:13 PM
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Practice like this: Fuck her hard, then when you're close to cumming, slow right down. Go super slow until you've recovered, then fuck her hard again. Repeat as needed and you will develop better stamina. Most girls also find it exciting. Like someone else said: Control your breathing. Also for missionary, there are SO many ways you can position her hips, there has to be a way to make it less intense for you. Also, grind her clit with your pubic bone.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:18 PM
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Most likely, you're bad at sex. Either that or you've got some hygiene issue. I've found that the most important thing to good sex is that you (the man) do to her the things you want to do. Don't worry too much about her pleasure (although you have to make sure she's wet before you stick it in (or use lube)) but just focus on doing what you enjoy, and she will enjoy it in turn. If she does not enjoy the kind of sex you want to have, someone else will.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:12 PM
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If it's illegal to have sex, only bad boy Chad has the balls to get some on the regular. Meaning boring losers do not get to procreate. This is a brilliant codification of Alpha Fucks and Beta Bucks.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 11:34 AM
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"lol" "k"
/r/askTRP20/02/18 05:00 AM
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Online dating gives the illusion of higher availability of males and thus female value is artificially inflated leading to her being more selective. It is also much more difficult to create sexual tension on a dating site/app than in real life and honestly the person you meet might be completely different from what they seemed like online. The only things you can do about it is to get offline, or get really good pictures.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 12:49 AM
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I have a little story about fucking a girl (a long and confusing lie that I accidentally made an so far I have maintained the story) outside and having to stop because people came. She was saying you were a virgin, so you told her a made up a story about fucking a girl? Are you for real? Why do you need to prove anything to this person? Stop. Just Stop. You are taking her way too seriously. Her opinion does not matter. Her jokes don't matter. She's just a bully having fun getting you going. Shit…
/r/askTRP19/02/18 12:42 AM
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Alot of TRP concepts dont apply there. They do. It's just that society hasn't (yet) degenerated the way it has in the west. AWALT, but asian cultural norms regarding dating, marriage and family keep things reasonable. In China they even changed the law to reduce the issue of divorce rape.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 12:28 AM
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Also the alphas of Asia show behaviours that are considered outright cringy or beta by the western standards. And girls love "soft" men like this more than tough, dominant guys. Soft on the outside, hard on the inside, is what they want. Like a grandparent, soft and friendly most of the time, yet hard as a rock when push comes to shove or important decisions must be made (also business.)
/r/askTRP19/02/18 12:18 AM
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Just text her. Then focus 100% on getting the fuck out of that house.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 12:12 AM
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You could also see it as him showing that he is the man and giving her the food he wants her to eat. Chinese dating culture is very different from the west. They are much more RP in general, yet the men also often act very beta in some circumstances.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 09:02 PM
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There is no such thing as soft nexting someone you live with. Soft nexting an 8 year LTR is also going to be troublesome. If I were you, I'd be looking for a way to end it with as little drama as possible. This will also put you in the right frame of mind for when she comes around. You need to be able (physically and mentally) to leave the relationship at any time you decide to do so. Even in an LTR. You could take terdmuffins advice - but when she says "nothings wrong" you only have one option:…
/r/askTRP18/02/18 08:38 PM
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Yes, text game can absolutely be beneficial. I don't think anyone denies that. The problem is that the average dude isn't very good at it, and so it becomes more of a liability for most. It's also a good idea to appear more mysterious and unavailable by not texting constantly.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 03:36 AM
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Mystic River. Sean Penns performance is amazing. His character has some serious psychological problems, but the basic mindset is RP.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 12:31 AM
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Because she isn't LTR material for you.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 09:42 PM
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In this situation, she is just wasting time messaging you and not that interested. You must demonstrate to her that she is the party spending the most time keeping the conversation going, or in other words, you have higher value than she does, since you're spending a minimum amount of energy on the interaction. You need to keep it 100% bullshit but lighthearted. Reply with "why not both?" Keep smileys to a minimum. They require more energy and reduces ambiguity.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 07:04 AM
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Either she's shit testing you to be more exclusive, or she's having trouble handling the idea that her SMV isn't high enough to keep you, due to shitty self-esteem and/or mental issues.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 07:05 PM
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I eventually learnt she doesn't have the sex drive I do I read that as "She eventually found me less attractive and wanted to fuck me less." Clearly, dumping the plates and agreeing to be exclusive was a bad choice. when she turns me down for sex [...] she feels terrible inside This is probably true. She has no idea why she isn't "in the mood". please consider that she has been in an abusive relationship (the very one I mentioned aboved where she constantly wanted to have sex) There is your answ…
/r/askTRP07/02/18 06:07 PM
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Huge positive. Don't be unhappy, they just want more of you.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 08:23 PM
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Is there any way this can turn out well? No. Run while you can.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 02:03 PM
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There's an app for that. Calendar.app
/r/askTRP08/01/18 09:11 PM
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The Red Pill does has no morals. You are the only one who can decide if you want to lie. However, I don't think lying about wanting to wife her up is going to get you in her pants. Work on yourself more.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 05:06 AM
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she got mad as hell and said to me why haven't you told me she didn't pay her half of the rent? I said because i don't want to whine to her The correct answer is "Because it's not something you need to worry about. I'll deal with it." Do not share your difficulties with her too much. It will not be good for your relationship.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 08:51 AM
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If you are in an exclusive relationship, and your partner asks to stop being exclusive, even for a short amount of time, with severe restrictions or whatever, you are no longer in an exclusive relationship and can never go back. I bet she's already done something with someone. You should have known this would happen the moment she went away, and taken appropriate action.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 06:37 PM
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A compliment always helps get someones attention. You should not continue to compliment her.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 12:19 AM
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Hard work and busting your ass. Choice of degree matters less and you can do great with all of them. It all depends on your personality.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 10:04 AM
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Your frame is shit and sound thirsty AF. Do you not have abundance? If she wants to come visit you, good for her. If she doesn't like your living situation, that's too bad - for her. If she wants a nicer living situation AND you, she should do something about it.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 11:21 AM
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A lot of girls actually enjoy the job and aren't just doing it for the money. The type of girl who cares more about feeling desired than making big bucks because she had really shitty parents and need the validation
/r/askTRP23/10/17 10:33 AM
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It is illegal for the employer to discriminate based on gender or race, so it seems disingenuous for them to even ask. That said, they can assume a lot based just on your name, since names are often chosen based on gender and race. (Ever hear of a white man named Shaniqua?) Unless you think it can give you an advantage, I'd leave it blank.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 04:39 PM
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Yes of course. But like anything you haven't done in a while, it may be difficult in the beginning.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 09:06 AM
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Humans are social animals. If you don't socialise regularly, you will develop serious mental issues.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 07:11 PM
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Maybe they should start working seriously on that secession. To save the rest of the US. Make California Mexico Again.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 01:01 PM
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Just ignore it. I'm sure you wouldn't pass on a possible FWB situation or multiple-night-stand if she turns out to be interesting, right?
/r/askTRP11/10/17 10:07 AM
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TRP is a whole-life philosophy. It only pertains to girls as most men who find TRP are having trouble in that area, and sex is a primary drive for men.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 10:23 AM
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If you look at statistics of self-reported penis size vs. researchers measuring, the average size is significantly bigger when self-reported. What do you think might cause this? If you interview women about how many men they have had sex with, vs. having an anonymous survey, they will (on average) lie and report significantly less sexual partners. What do you think might cause this? Do you think the above might somehow relate to your post? The answer might surprise you.
/r/askTRP01/10/17 07:28 PM
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She's in flip-flops and has granny arms though.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 04:14 PM
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girl on side you have an open relationship with. A plate is someone you are having sex with regularly that you are not in a relationship with. Like 'Friends with Benefits.' An open relationship is a situation where you have found someone you really like and want a long-term relationship with, but one of you (very rarely both) want to also fuck other people. When people mention open relationships here, it's usually because the girl is no longer sufficiently attracted to the guy, and want fresh di…
/r/askTRP20/09/17 11:59 PM
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Just smile and wave boys. Smile and wave.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 10:10 AM
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Yes.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 07:14 PM
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It's a great lifestyle if you enjoy it. Maybe it's great for you. Maybe you'd be better off going to work 9-5 and flying model airplanes all weekend every weekend. I don't fucking know. Decide what the fuck you want to do and go fucking do it.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 10:02 PM
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I have my own business with a few employees, and I'm at my peak (I'm 32) Hopefully you can look back on that statement in a few years and realise that you were simply on a smaller peak while nowhere near the summit. Her: "But I was just on my period it's ok you don't need to use one Yeah, your little swimmers can survive inside her for up to 5 days. Considering ovulation happens 14 days after the first day of her period, her period being 5-7 days, that leaves just 2 "safe" days, assuming that ov…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 07:24 PM
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And in the next breath, when a girl gets married, she becomes part of her husbands family, leaving her own. (Years ago, literally, now more figuratively.)
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 12:28 AM
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It's a muscle. It can (and should) be exercised.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 11:05 AM
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During her period, be nice. Not overly nice, of course, but show your softer side a bit more. During ovulation (about 14 days after the first day of her period,) when she is at maximum fertility, getting good genes is very important. So be more dominant and assertive.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 09:03 PM
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Maybe check the personalfinance subreddit or one of the related subreddits in their sidebar. I'd try to invest as much of it as I could in a S&P500 index fund. Maybe spend a small amount on something nice that you have been wanting - new bed/couch/whatever.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 12:08 PM
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I am still having sex with the first girl There's your problem. And like another guy writes, be aware that any kinky girl will be a huge slut. Unless you manage to turn a normal girl kinky.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 11:57 AM
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At first, current LTR would sometimes comment something about desiring a gentleman. I never commented beyond a grunt or a "hmm?". Suddenly she started talking about how I was a perfect gentleman. The hamster is strong.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 01:28 AM
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Stop worrying about things you can't control. If you see someone you find attractive, approach and find out if there is interest. And to answer your question, OKCupid did some statistics and found that most women are interested in white men while asian men are the least attractive. Be aware that demographics of the site blah blah etc.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 09:44 PM
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TRP is not about changing the world, it's about changing your world. Go somewhere else for the civilization building and politicking, this is not the place.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 03:20 PM
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about me wanting to go to his GF's baby shower. Dude, stop. You're not going to your friends girlfriends baby shower. It takes two to make a baby. You're going to your friends baby shower. Your friends girlfriend is an accessory to the situation. She could be fucking Rosie O'Donnell and you'd still go. Because it's your friend. And stop with the bullshit negotiating more or less time. You will go to this event and you will be there until you want to go home. Do not EVER let your wife control you…
/r/askTRP23/08/17 01:14 AM
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So she's throwing IOIs like confetti and liking you on tinder and setting up a date with you, and you worry about whether or not she has a boyfriend? Get real bro. (Maybe she does, maybe she don't, but she wants you now and that's all that matters.)
/r/askTRP22/08/17 09:34 AM
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Norway.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 06:37 PM
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Ruin the mood? Bitch please. Just pull away when she puts her lips on your neck. If/when she tries again, just tell her you don't like that and go back do doing whatever you were doing. If it's girls you see more than once and they've done it before, just let them know that you're no longer teenagers so don't do teenage bullshit.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 06:36 PM
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At the end she utters what could have been the seed of realization: Men care more about things than women do?
/r/MensRights20/08/17 04:05 PM
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So the social worker should ignore the patient getting raped?
/r/MensRights20/08/17 03:23 PM
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You are an animal. Your parents made you because hormones told them it felt good when they put their genitals together. There is no "reason" you exist beyond that. Life is what you make of it so go do whatever the fuck you want to do with your life. Anything is possible (almost) if you work hard to get it. Or if you decide to be a bum and live on the beach, that's possible too.
/r/askTRP19/08/17 12:21 PM
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I think some backstory might be appropriate, but anyway... I'm assuming you have more or less brought her to your country? In that case, I'd say it's your responsibility to help her get back home and help with somewhere for her to stay until then. (Could be her friends) This is not strictly RP advice, but I believe in fixing your own fuck-ups. If she was already in your country and you've just moved in together, the situation is much simpler.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 11:06 AM
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A man walks into a bike shop. "Do you have any books about how to ride a bicycle?" He asks and continues "You see, I'd very much like to compete in the Tour De France."
/r/askTRP17/08/17 07:21 PM
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Quoted For Truth. Like "I couldn't have said it better myself"
/r/askTRP16/08/17 10:41 AM
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If you start waking up earlier you find you go do shit just because there's so much damn time in the day. QFT. It really is a game changer.
/r/askTRP16/08/17 12:26 AM
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Some chicks get dry. Don't worry about it. Sometimes a man want to fuck but can't get it up. It happens. It's totally normal.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 08:56 PM
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Pros: Not too much time to spend with you. Recognises her lower SMV (at least unconsciously) and may give you less shit tests. Reduced chance she will find other men due to lack of time. Cons: Not too much time to spend with you. Baby will always be priority #1 (otherwise she's a bad human honestly). Wants to lock you down hard even if she says she won't. Lots of time to think/obsess about you. Inflexible about when to meet. Is on call 24/7.
/r/askTRP10/08/17 10:46 AM
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While he certainly has some chance, if you take any significant action simply to woo a specific girl, then you have failed before you even began. It's as simple as that.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 02:12 PM
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You never had a chance. You will never fuck her. You are hoping to bang someone you have deluded yourself into seeing as The One Girl when you could go out and meet a hundred girls just like her on any random night. You need to block her from your social media and move the fuck on. Go lift, go meet other girls, that is your only solution.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 11:03 AM
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Smoking weed is similar to drinking. It's fine if you do it in moderation. If you get drunk/high every day, or several days per week, that is a problem.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 09:23 AM
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IMO, PUA is just a slice of the pie. It's a toolset. It will absolutely help most people. For some people it's the missing piece and will "fix everything". For some people it will cause other areas to be improved as well. But some people have no slices at all and PUA won't help very much.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 08:28 AM
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It can absolutely be awkward, but if it gets too bad, you can always quit and find some other club. So just forge ahead and do it. But make sure it's something that you want to do.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 08:44 AM
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How are Trump Steaks doing? And Trump University? And Trump Menswear? Yes he's had lots of failures, but overall he's doing pretty great right? I'm sure Michael Jordan has fallen over once or twice and missed a shot here and there. I'm a cuck? No, I'm saying it's cuck talking points. Yes, it is obviously more financially responsible and less work to put your money in a fund and let others work while you play polo and fuck models, but the personal satisfaction from raw achievement is what drives …
/r/askTRP24/07/17 10:31 PM
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The only problem is that this schtick worked in getting him elected. It's proving completely inefficacious in producing any political wins for him as president. Hindsight is 20/20. It appears that he hasn't had a lot of success as president yet, but we don't really know what's going on, except for what we're told by the media. Most of the time during the presidential race, it also appeared as if he wasn't doing very well. He still won fairly comfortably He has certainly turned around Macron, who…
/r/askTRP24/07/17 07:31 PM
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He started with $150 million from his dad "Started"? Would that be when his dad decided to be Chairman of the Board and made Donald CEO of the family business in 1971? Because as far as I have seen, he "started" doing minor jobs (for the family biz) while still in school, and during University set up his first real-estate deals. he could have literally just put that $150M in an index mutual fund fifty years ago and achieved the same level of financial "success" he has today. Assuming that the fa…
/r/askTRP24/07/17 05:26 PM
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He is also a multiple-times-risen-from-bankruptcy multi-billionaire with a gorgeous wife 20 years his junior, who can make the media go apeshit for days simply by the (mis)spelling of a word in a tweet.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 02:51 PM
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Fibrillating. You use the defibrillator to stop it fibrillating.
/r/MensRights20/07/17 07:49 AM
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claim Women also generally claim significantly less sexual partners than they have actually had, while it's the opposite for men.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 05:46 PM
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I'm sure there are respectable sources out there, but in general, don't eat things you get from shady places. Especially not shady places on the internet that might sell you rat poison and you'd never know - until you're sick and/or dying.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 05:30 PM
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