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| 3 | Are we all serious or is this some kind of fetish | Purge Week! | pm_me_hairy_nudes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 06:14 AM |
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| 1 | CMV: individual women take general criticisms of female behavior personally because they are solipsistic, invalidating the purpose of this subIn the comments OP is already throwing tantrums about statements like "men are shallow", while tossing out shit like "women lust after serial killers" and being a little twat when people are calling him out... Dude just take the L and go somewhere else if you don't like being called out for being a disingenuous, whiny little hypocrite. back to middle school where you can circlejerk about how boys rule and girls drool, since it's a topic you like to obsess over and you can argue with children who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 11:49 AM |
| 3 | What, or when, do you think the breaking point will be?yeah, I feel the same way. Some of the guys here drain the soul out of my body but guys I know irl are nothing like this. they're normal, empathetic, and responsible people. And not writing hate speeches about women in their free time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 01:13 AM |
| 2 | What, or when, do you think the breaking point will be?in every day and age, there has been people saying that society is collapsing. that shit has been said by people panicking about change since the dawn of time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 12:45 AM |
| 3 | What, or when, do you think the breaking point will be?trust me, most of the guys here are more held back by dressing poorly, being terrible conversationalists, being whiny/selfish/bitter/immature/hard to be around, not getting in shape, and not going outside. and less held back by society and male beauty standards and the gender war nonsense they're imagining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 12:23 AM |
| 51 | What, or when, do you think the breaking point will be?This is an echo chamber of some of the worst people in society. They're not good people. they're bitter, hateful, selfish and dangerous. They take zero accountability for their lives, and the few times they can admit any responsibility, they blame society, women, anyone else for most of it, rarely themselves. hate to break it to this echo chamber of human landmines, but society is not collapsing. Normal couples are out there, doing just fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 11:15 AM |
| -1 | How do redpillers justify sleeping around if they diminish the worth of women?you like a post wall car? after its been ran through and used? you fucking beta lol. DM that car it's an aging fat skank and trade it in for a newer model | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 12:39 AM |
| 1 | How do redpillers justify sleeping around if they diminish the worth of women?Lol this is easy. Redpillers don't care about women. They don't care if they diminish our "value" because they actively hate, hurt and manipulate women. If our value as human beings was all in our vaginas and being fucked made us lose our worth, you'd imagine they would care about that if we were people to them. But we aren't full people to redpillers, we're disposable sex and status objects. like cars or shoes or watches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Social circles are really not a good way to meet womenwhere did he say he was the one doing ALL the work for his friends? It goes both ways. his female friends could be inviting him out, planning events, willing to hear his problems, being supportive for him, etc has he even been asking them for help and being direct about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Social circles are really not a good way to meet womenehhh I think people are overthinking it. if he truly is close with these girls, like not just acquaintances but like good friends, he should ask them about his dating troubles and say "be brutally honest if you have to." generally cultural influences can have an impact and make things harder but you can't blame 100% on it. maybe in the middle of bumfuck nowhere the 100 women in the area won't be into you, but zero dates for a hot asian guy with a good personality & job in a decent sized midweste… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/23 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Social circles are really not a good way to meet womenhas OP said that he's average or unattractive? He seems to be rating himself pretty high last I checked. Assuming he's actually a "7" and has a great personality... then what is wrong there? that's a totally separate issue from introducing people to each other. is it a good way to break the ice with a girl and have someone vouch for you? sure. Are your female friends going to fix cultural ignorance or a lack of attraction or turn you super duper hot? NO. Are we going to do all the work for you b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/23 09:10 PM |
| 4 | Social circles are really not a good way to meet womenbelieve what you want to believe lol.. it's easier for certain people to fixate on anything but their own behavior so they can avoid responsibility and self awareness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/23 06:28 AM |
| 1 | TRP is slowly becoming more and more mainstream, what is this going to mean for the future?true, women need to be accountable and blamed for not wetting the dicks of the men we don't find attractive or safe around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 09:28 PM |
| 3 | Social circles are really not a good way to meet womenAre you sure they're not just hesitant about wingmanning for you particularly, OP? I've introduced several couples to each other. But only after knowing the guy for a while and if they seem like they have good chemistry. And esp not if the guy is a creep, fuckboy or an asshole, or has red flags. If you've been hinting to them you're looking for a gf, why aren't they introducing you to their friends? you should ask yourself that, why these girls don't feel like their girlfriends are safe or good … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Women Aren't Lying, They are just being Politetwice i've had exes who really tried to make me "pay" for ending the relationship. insults about insecurities, light property damage, self harm threats, then shit talking me to all mutual friends making them "pick a side", etc. to each their own, I don't want emotional closure or a huggy heartfelt sendoff, i just want to be safe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 12:23 AM |
| 5 | Women Aren't Lying, They are just being Politethat's good, I guess? for both of you? you get your revenge fantasy and the girl is relieved this guy won't leave a bunch of angry voicemails, threaten self harm, say shit like "you're a fat ugly slut anyway", drive to their house and yell at them, etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 11:57 PM |
| 3 | Women Aren't Lying, They are just being Politehonestly more guys need to do this. an "ok" would be better than 80% of my breakup responses. Mostly personal insults and passive aggression and angry voicemails and threats of self harm. it would be so much less stress to just get an "ok" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 11:42 PM |
| 2 | TRP is slowly becoming more and more mainstream, what is this going to mean for the future?More and more people continue to be single. women are already cautious of men. If more and more men become dangerous and bitter, women will continue leaving apps and avoiding places where men are. the more women retreat, the more dangerous and hateful the guys will get. RP will never let them blame other men or society or their own egos, everything is women's fault for having self preservation. it's a positive feedback loop. some Andrew Tate worshippers will have the money to bring over teen gir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 11:10 PM |
| -1 | Who should men model themselves to and look up to?Sure, he has some average self help content and he says some feel good content from time to time. if you're part of the demographic he panders to and don't care how he treats others, I can see the appeal. but me having to take him seriously as one of those he dogwhistles about is absurd. you wouldn't tell a black guy to check out your racist therapist. Also it's hard to not see his self help books as preying on mentally vulnerable people who are eventually exposed to his other content. Such as s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 03:59 AM |
| 0 | Who should men model themselves to and look up to?Obviously you're projecting. I have never pretended to be a "taskchair" internet expert in those fields. While JP isn't either but he won't shut up about them. Dude literally admits he's terrible at math and science and can't understand research papers but thinks his uneducated opinion and animal metaphors are soo wise and should inform policy. His popularity skyrocketed bc he's a fucking grifter lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 12:57 AM |
| 5 | Who should men model themselves to and look up to?Because he's a troll who likes to dogwhistle misogynistic tropes. If you can't answer a yes or no question about misogyny and need to vaguely dogwhistle while wiggling your eyebrows at your incel audience, you're probably a misogynist. Also he's an idiot grifter. Too dumb for real science, mathematics, economics, statistics or climate science but can't stop pretending he's an expert. Repeating 'pareto principle' and stupid aesop fable metaphors doesn't make you an expert on a topic, when you're … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 10:37 PM |
| 2 | Society tells men to step up and be better but then actively prevents them from doing so.It is different once they move in with women. not much has actually changed. I have not met a guy who didn't subconsciously assume i'd be doing all the cooking for two people while he's gaming and picking up his laundry and cleaning his shitstains off the toilet upon moving in. even when i'm working 10+ hours that day. I wonder what about their gender leads them to believe their leisure time is more important than mine. they seem to have the idea that if she bends and she doesn't break, it's fin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 08:03 PM |
| 5 | Anecdotal evidences of the state of men's mental health right now. Please add your own. Discuss.If you need someone to talk to, please go seek help, but lashing out at strangers and putting words in their mouths for you to strawman is not productive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 05:10 AM |
| 1 | What even makes a woman unattractive, really?Almost all the guys I know are in relationships with women from similar backgrounds and would definitely care if their girlfriends were lazy, unambitious, antisocial, unattractive, too short, uneducated, unable to take care of themselves.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Are we dating the same guy/girlthey think we're all bullies who hate the other gender and would make shit up for no reason, like we're some "mean girl" stereotype from some high school drama. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 11:26 PM |
| 4 | Are we dating the same guy/girlYep, that's my experience as well. The one I am in is very well moderated and there is plenty of positivity, people wishing each other well on the date, etc. Very little gossip that outside the scope of safety or cheating, when there is, it gets ignored. when certain guys assume it's going to be all bad, I assume they're projecting about themselves. they would use a group like that for toxic purposes, slut shame, lie about their ex, etc and assume everyone else is like that as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 09:53 PM |
| 25 | 'Leo's doing what every man wishes he could do...'Dude, there is no reason to invent a victimhood narrative around a man who has written a whole book responding to all the tabloid misinformation about him and Megan. that guy has been pissed off at the british press all his life and feuding with his brother. he's said their familial problems long preceded his wife being in the picture. or, yknow, this evil half black harlot ruined his life, forced him to write this book and you can tell she's evil because youtube experts have analyzed her microe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Women do not naturally desire older men; they are forced to settle for them; and have a strong preference for men their own age.Honestly, let them have their delusions. They'll get a reality check when they're the 40 year old creep at the club, being avoided by college kids. maybe they'll head over to SEA, trying to buy sex and company for money or a visa, on account of being such terrible people that they'll never be loved for who they are. It doesn't really matter, you don't have to fix them. what the bitter, hateful minority of guys do in their spare time is their business | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 09:21 PM |
| 1 | The long and short of it is as a man you need to be attractive and high value and if you refuse to do that or simply can’t then unfortunately life is unfair and you will miss outya that's very true, hard agree there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 09:04 PM |
| 1 | The long and short of it is as a man you need to be attractive and high value and if you refuse to do that or simply can’t then unfortunately life is unfair and you will miss outeveryone says PC versions of what they mean, at work, with friends, whatever. esp w/ men who give off certain vibes. this isn't new | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 02:06 AM |
| 1 | The long and short of it is as a man you need to be attractive and high value and if you refuse to do that or simply can’t then unfortunately life is unfair and you will miss outYes, she should be as blunt or as politically correct as possible, depending on your mood that day. maybe a little extra apologetic groveling for the sin of rejecting a man as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 11:21 PM |
| 1 | The long and short of it is as a man you need to be attractive and high value and if you refuse to do that or simply can’t then unfortunately life is unfair and you will miss outShe tried to turn you down politely and then she slept with someone else. What a fucking bitch right? Doesn't she know how important you are? You're so right to be angry. Women ☕ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 09:35 PM |
| 1 | The long and short of it is as a man you need to be attractive and high value and if you refuse to do that or simply can’t then unfortunately life is unfair and you will miss outLol I was with you up to the pornstar stuff. There's nothing immoral about sex. you can have a preference for your partner's history, experience or lifestyle or whatever, no need to piss on anyone who doesn't fit it. No hate on any man or woman who likes a BBC lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 08:32 PM |
| 2 | The long and short of it is as a man you need to be attractive and high value and if you refuse to do that or simply can’t then unfortunately life is unfair and you will miss outthat particular girl isn't into you then. idk why you're like "what the fuck" when she's just living her own life, not owing you anything, she can change her mind and do whatever she wants. You just need to meet more people and be the kind of person girls will vouch for I am bi and I feel 10x more stressed rejecting or cutting things off with a guy than with a girl. I'm unlucky with guys maybe, there's always more violent/angry/entitled attitude. Like "fuck you you npc, i'm the main character" k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 08:19 PM |
| 1 | The long and short of it is as a man you need to be attractive and high value and if you refuse to do that or simply can’t then unfortunately life is unfair and you will miss outEverytime others suggest appealing to women in a respectful way or meeting women through friend circles, local events and not off an app with some 80/20 ratio, some guys here act like it's a tall, ridiculous ask. it makes me wonder how effort these guys here actually put in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 01:42 AM |
| 2 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableif I met OP irl and he started talking about his wife I'd be like cool, cool, how sweet... and then slowly backing away when he gets into his weird anti western women boomer tangent. Guys, it's okay to like women from other countries. But it's possible to have a mutually respectful relationship without turning it into some anti-western women narrative. It's like someone loudly repeating how much their ex wife sucks like a decade into the marriage with the new one. Add in some subtle boomer misog… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 09:50 AM |
| -1 | This is why women have become more choosy (from the perspective of studies and experiments).Did you not say it's hypocritical to expect someone to be both physically attractive and an "emotional provider"? You also said it's heightist, lookist, racist, to not be attracted to someone. Doesn't that mean you think you are entitled to other people's sexual attraction? You're acting like I pulled your own words out of thin air. Strange that you're confused I respond to things you brought up yourself. I hear the clicking and I smell the gas, is this gaslighting or is the stove on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 06:31 AM |
| 5 | This is why women have become more choosy (from the perspective of studies and experiments).Many guys do not want a woman taller than them, especially when it becomes very obvious when she towers over him when wearing heels. but men practicing a preference just doesn't get the same level of PPD outrage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 06:13 AM |
| 1 | This is why women have become more choosy (from the perspective of studies and experiments).I'm confused, I am not sure why "tolerant emotional provider" and physical traits need to be mutually exclusive. Why not both? I assume most men want a physically attractive and kind, tolerant woman as well, right? Not every man can possess those traits, but that's the way the world is. A woman's pants aren't supposed to be some equal access sexual resource that all men are entitled to. You aren't owed friends, you aren't owed sex, you aren't owed relationships. but chances are, if you look aver… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 06:03 AM |
| -2 | This is why women have become more choosy (from the perspective of studies and experiments).Aren't most women selective for all those traits? Provider-like physical traits and provider-like personality traits? And lol, stop being so emotional and relax. angry ranting and lobbing childish insults hardly makes you sound like a "rational male", if that's what you were trying to come across as | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 05:16 AM |
| 3 | This is why women have become more choosy (from the perspective of studies and experiments).Not saying this is what I think because i'm childfree, but I assume vulnerable women feel that similar culture/background, provider characteristics, financial resources and height would make them feel safer when pregnant. Also I'm just plain tired of PPD men calling women racist, "lookist" or "heightist" to have sexual preferences. Treating someone with respect does not extend to being forced to pity fuck them. And this is only done to women on PPD, men never call other men those things for havi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 10:46 PM |
| 2 | There's now a mens version of are we dating the same guy, What do you think about this?If the guys can keep the conversation civil, kick out bad actors, stay on topic and don't throw in manosphere womenbashing Andrew Tate nonsense, I don't mind it. All forums need moderation I think it's funny how the PPD guys here don't bring up lies and fake stories when it's a men's group, but think women on similar groups are lying by default. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 07:04 PM |
| 1 | The Real Dog PillI have nothing to add to the gender circlejerk stuff but just wanted to say if anyone is INTO being treated like a dog AND willing to put on a headband AND take risky pictures, pm me... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 10:00 AM |
| 8 | Most men here put “pussy on a pedestal”LOL dude. sex is nice but have you tried walls, refrigerator, air conditioning and running water? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Men are an average of 70% of dating app users in the US and 85% in Europe, with women a small superminority in bothyall have porn, hands, tissues and lube, or pay for an escort. what more do misogynists need, to stay away from women they don't even like? more realistic looking sex robots? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 05:13 AM |
| 8 | Men are an average of 70% of dating app users in the US and 85% in Europe, with women a small superminority in boththen why do they want to date them then? leave the women alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Why do American women seem to be dissatisfied with the quality of American men?what if we want to peg a cute guy with a girly face and a bubble butt though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 07:39 AM |
| 4 | Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELYActually, yes. If men had a similar fb group, I could care less. The normal ones who aren't redpilled misogynists can have a space about dating, and it can be a similar space to the women's fb groups, without turning into a misogynistic revenge porn cesspool. Like the women's groups, and for all social forums in general, the concept can be fine but it CAN turn toxic if unmoderated and if crazy people use it. Here's what you guys are missing. Usually, one picture and "has anyone met (first name)?… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 10:05 PM |
| 4 | Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELYYall immediately jumped to "it's going to be all lies" without even being in those fb groups. In my local group, most of the posts asking don't even get a response. maybe 5% of them is "he's a good guy, I know him" and 5% is like "oh he has a wife/has a criminal history/tried to assault me" etc. Seeing you guys on PPD panic about this just makes me LOL. This is so tame and yall have a huge victimhood complex about it. I just can't take MRA guys seriously anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELYWe could literally care less if the roles were reversed. If guys made facebook groups or chats to avoid crazy or dangerous women, they can go ahead and do so. Way tamer than the frat boy fb group chats back in college about guys mocking girls and sharing their nudes Lol yall are projecting hard, ones freaking out about the tables turning are you guys on PPD and not women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 08:35 PM |
| 19 | Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELYThis might blow your mind, but sometimes men lie and sometimes women tell the truth. And we generally trust other women or at least want to hear what they have to say. We don't have the same "women are all or mostly liars" mindset that PPD has. I know it's impossible to generally believe women, but at least entertain the concept. Guys, if a random guy messaged you and said your girlfriend cheated on him, stole his money, and keyed his car, would you trust him or at least hear him out? Call us ov… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 09:52 AM |
| 0 | Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELYNot more than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 09:28 AM |
| 2 | Men depend more on women personally; women depend more on men institutionalyif you could be so kind, can you define "treat them as disposable"? because so far, it sounds like it's defined as "not want to fuck them". a low bar to clear for victimhood and "disposability", isn't it? There are men out there who don't want to fuck you. Are they treating you as disposable? Homeless men especially, living on the government's teat, who don't want to fuck other male taxpayers in gratitude. Despicable. Not sure why "men and women getting along" and presumably fucking more, has an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 10:22 AM |
| 2 | Besides sex, do you even like women?it sounds like you're totally misunderstanding me. I never argued that women had it worse than men in the past. You can't compare apples to oranges. How much marital rape/beaten wives/brainwashing/subservience is worth how many men sent to war? The answer is no one knows. It's all subjective on how much you value agency over safety The only point I was trying to make is that if you don't have agency, and some other party has power over you, you are more likely to be exploited than to be protecte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 12:07 AM |
| 5 | Besides sex, do you even like women?You can tell that to my grandmother who didn't want her feet to be bound and was beaten by her parents for it and had to run away from home to go to college. You can tell that to an aunt who was slapped and berated for having a firstborn daughter instead of a son. You can tell that to the infants dumped to die of exposure in rural china for the crime of being born female. You can tell that to the women who were raped and beaten by their husbands, yet unable to work and survive on their own becau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 11:02 PM |
| 3 | Men depend more on women personally; women depend more on men institutionalyLOL how much do you think the difference is? Yeah single moms supporting kids is such a giant part of that "pot". In the same line of thought, fuck the old, poor, and homeless, how fucking dare they Sally down the street better not take another $130 this month to feed her entitled poverty line kids. Stealing the breadcrumbs from starving execs from large cap companies who get billions in tax refunds?? that fucking bitch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Men depend more on women personally; women depend more on men institutionalyi will agree with any dude on here that dating apps are harder for men. sure. But in terms of making friends at the age people get settled, yall are not special. Everyone does, man or woman. the reason why some people move to a new city and make friends at any age is because they put in the effort, unlike those who sit on their ass at home and complain why life doesn't doordash them everything they want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 09:15 PM |
| 4 | Men depend more on women personally; women depend more on men institutionalyLol so would I. We all pay taxes and have a job. Shouldn't that be normal for every grown ass adult? Almost every woman and man here does that shit and we don't have a fucking martyr complex about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Men depend more on women personally; women depend more on men institutionalyHave the guys complaining tried going outside and having hobbies and a coed friend group? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 09:03 PM |
| 2 | When men are unable to get a wife, ultimately they will resort to betraying their tribe, this is how Ephialtes betrayed spartans, it is because he couldnt get laid.I'm going to laugh my TITS off this shit is HILARIOUS Sorry, what do you have that the CCP would be willing to traffic you some unwilling "waifus"? does this creepy high schooler have the country's nuclear codes? I completely understand lol. the alternative was being likable and attractive enough for a girl to genuinely like you. Basically, impossible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 08:35 AM |
| 7 | Do you think mothers are confused as to why their now grown nice guy son has yet to find a partner?Ehhhh most moms do know why. They are not confused, they're just being nice and trying to build your confidence to talk to girls. A lot of guys with no relationship experience, at all, in their mid to late 20s, do have something a little off about them. Maybe it's anxiety, social skills, completely absorbed in school or work, etc. Which is okay if you don't act like an ass from it, people are figuring themselves out at every age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 08:12 AM |
| 0 | If a guy had 'gay' experiences...buddy you don't have to give your whole self righteous background story, none of it is relevant. I really don't care how many "diverse friends" misogynists have. You keep on ignoring this funnily enough but let's return to the fact that you happily generalized all women as being biphobic AND homophobic in a room full of misogynists and redpillers. How is that different from going to a room full of white nationalists and saying how black people hate Jews, or going into a room full of homophobes a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 01:05 AM |
| 19 | Men depend more on women personally; women depend more on men institutionalyAs a woman, I see your point as well -- I work so hard and my boss and the government hasn't sent me the harem of femboys I've been asking for. A job paying a salary and for healthcare, who wants that? That shit is worthless, I want to be paid with sexual favors and domestic servitude. The system is failing women, it baffles my mind that other women contribute anything without being provided men to use for our personal enjoyment. Why aren't the men being properly distributed? Next time before I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 12:41 AM |
| 1 | If a guy had 'gay' experiences...Dogwhistling misogynists and dogwhistling racists are similar, no? How is this different than when you walk into a room of racists and said similar generalized negative statements or, "hard truths", about black people, with no stats and just your "feelings"? The only difference is you expect your misogyny to be tolerated and racism to be not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/23 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Whats your sexual fantasy that will remain a fantasy? WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThis is going to sound really gross but it's the power trip/revenge fantasy, plus being turned on when guys look distressed or emotional. But he has to be actually interested in pegging/bondage for it to work realistically. i'm pretty sure hurting someone in that way who truly didn't want it will switch off horny brain and make me feel like a terrible person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/23 08:26 AM |
| 1 | If a guy had 'gay' experiences...hardly feel like we're comparable, you're the one spreading generalized, misleading, and toxic statements towards a gender, knowingly dogwhistling in a subreddit full of womanbashing redpilled misogynists. it's one thing to kid about race or gender in a comedy show or in front of friends, it's another to do it in a room full of incels or a klan rally. kettle meets disingenuous misogynist, more like. Feel bad for your "diverse" female friends if you actually have any. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/23 08:00 AM |
| 1 | If a guy had 'gay' experiences...The way you think saying generalized statements about all women is okay, but me flipping it satirically and saying similar things about men is "misandry", speaks to the double standard that you have. You might think you have diverse experiences and all that, but "I have friends who are women" and "I have friends who are diverse" does not make you not a misogynist when you act that way. You're still someone who can dish it to all women, but can't stand it when it's said to all men. I hope you can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 11:00 PM |
| 1 | If a guy had 'gay' experiences...anecdata is not hard statistical evidence. When I've rejected guys in the past, i've heard everything from racist, biphobic and sexist remarks. Is that enough to make some "sweeping generalizations" about men? all men are racist, biphobic misogynists who are frequently cruel to butch women. men are also extremely homophobic and transphobic. There's even a giant manosphere industry of grifters who are very anti women and spend all their time generalizing and malding about women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 03:41 AM |
| 49 | Young men provide in peace their labor to the society, in war their blood; in exchange they get to get a wife to have children and he is deeply invested in the well being of society, modern society destroyed this social contract and expects young men to uphold a society that gives them NOTHINGYoung women work so hard, get multiple jobs and wage slave themselves, they pursue higher education and pay their rent and taxes. Now more young men refuse to be self sufficient and have the basic ability to take care of themselves. They don't pay taxes or work hard and decide they want to play video games and live without stress. Men are saying these women need to grow up, that they need to be career mommy bangmaids, but for what? Whats their reward for it? There's nothing for them, men prefer … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 01:52 AM |
| 1 | If a guy had 'gay' experiences...can you give an example? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 01:32 AM |
| 1 | If a guy had 'gay' experiences...Source for any of that toxic misogynist garbage? I could say the same sweeping generalization that all bi men view women as subpar inferior human beings and bash women on the internet, but I recognize saying shit like that can be hateful and dangerous. I'm surprised people tolerated a statement that was such a toxic, sexist generalization towards women, but then again this is PPD and anything that bashes women gets a million upvotes. They don't view gay men as full men. They view them as less th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 01:32 AM |
| 6 | Women in their twenties: Would you be okay with a 10-year age gap?tried a couple dates with guys a bit older, it was awkward as hell describing college parties and studying for finals to a dude who's been working for 10 years. the physical attraction is not there but the ick feeling is. as for him having a "great job", I know im not cute enough nor young forever for gold digging to make sense career wise. so i'll probably stick with actual gainful employment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Whats your sexual fantasy that will remain a fantasy? WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADya dw. I keep it SSC | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 02:33 AM |
| 3 | Whats your sexual fantasy that will remain a fantasy? WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADthe theme of revenge fantasy bondage pegging? yeah there should be more. i've found out a certain level of anger is a turn on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 02:31 AM |
| 5 | Whats your sexual fantasy that will remain a fantasy? WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADBDSM and roleplay aren't for everyone. no need to be judgy about it lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 02:07 AM |
| 4 | Whats your sexual fantasy that will remain a fantasy? WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADroleplay or BDSM is not "grape" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 02:05 AM |
| 12 | Whats your sexual fantasy that will remain a fantasy? WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADMeet a guy off a dating app, he acts like a typical smug asshole, kind of sexist, tries to neg me, etc. We get back to his place to hook up, i handcuff him facedown to the bed "as a joke". Then I get out my strap on and violently peg him in the ass while pulling his hair, he protests at first and then learns to like it. I also really like guys wearing animal ear headbands? Not a furry I swear but ugh they are so cute | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Mainstream Feminism is a female supremacy movementI need feminism because my granddad gaslit my "hysterical" dead grandma about her chronic pain until the cancer was too late to treat. I need feminism because my culture heavily prefers boys over girls, and because of the one child policy, female infanticide was common and accepted. I need feminism because it sucked being forced to do chores while my brother sat on his ass I need feminism because i saw my dad be physically violent with my mom and I would like DV against women to be taken serious… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 07:22 AM |
| 0 | Mainstream Feminism is a female supremacy movementthere's a spectrum, it's not just total gender equality vs stoning women to death and trading child wives. is there some rule where you need to have it the worst to criticize at all? In the west we still have forced birth by the government, sexist double standards against women, the entire womanbashing manosphere industry, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 06:28 AM |
| 0 | Mainstream Feminism is a female supremacy movementWomen aren't oppressed, we're just lower in the social, financial, cultural, corporate hierarchies globally. Many of us experience being treated as house servants or sexual objects. In some places, we're also sacrificial, disposable fetus incubators. We get explicitly and subtly reminded to put men first from family, pervert strangers, boyfriends, culture, coworkers, bosses, teachers, and idiot redditors. PPD is happy to remind us what our "value" is as women is. Unless it's that time to play ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 03:28 AM |
| 2 | Ladies of PPD: What do you consider Husband Material?Just some guy or girl who I find cute, feel 100% comfortable around, doesn't require me to mother them. Who sees me as a fallible person who passes gas, makes mistakes and has weird nerd hobbies and still sincerely cares about me. I want to share memes and banter and argue about shitty movies and tickle them in bed and then handcuff them to it and do gross disgusting depraved things together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 01:48 AM |
| 1 | What does the word misogyny mean?Lol, buddy. I asked, numerous times, to give a couple CONCRETE real life examples where you were called a misogynist for seemingly no reason. Which you still have not produced. And throughout this thread, I still haven't seen any receipts. So what am I supposed to think? Strawman or totally real widespread social phenomenon? your same schtick is the same BS we see on right wing echo chambers. got no data, not even a believable anecdote, but this group of people is out to get you and it's a total… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 11:33 PM |
| 1 | What does the word misogyny mean?How many times do we need to ask for concrete fucking examples with the full context? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 11:18 PM |
| 3 | What does the word misogyny mean?Can you give an actual example of someone calling you a misogynist which confused you and give the full context? You're making it sound like it's totally out of the blue and this happens to innocent confused guys everywhere, so at least give us one example that's concrete. Honestly, I don't think this is a sincere question, if OP is over the age of 12. Is racism, transphobia, homophobia also confusing? If you are constantly being accused of being a racist, misogynist, or homophobe by different u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 09:45 PM |
| 7 | What does the word misogyny mean?Did you get accused of misogyny for holding a door open for someone? Can you provide the full context of what happened? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Women focus on careers because a career is a good investment, a man generally isn'tsorry, what do you need me to explain? what is complicated here? some are single and own their homes, some put up their first property as rentals and co-own their current place w/ their fiance/husbands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Women focus on careers because a career is a good investment, a man generally isn'tnot sure why it matters, some are single and some are not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Women focus on careers because a career is a good investment, a man generally isn't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 02:17 AM |
| 0 | Women focus on careers because a career is a good investment, a man generally isn'tI know right? it's fantastic advice. More than half of my girlfriends already own their own homes lol. And they're late 20s early 30s. kids, go into a STEM field. Or live in a LCOL area. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Women focus on careers because a career is a good investment, a man generally isn'tSure OP I agree that trad relationships are extremely risky for the women involved. But if you keep your career, manage risk properly, and avoid unnecessary self sacrifice, you will probably be fine. Women need to be cautious and realistic but I don't think we need to go full doomer at least in western countries. If you are a woman, always put your career first, and don't ever sacrifice more time or energy when you're unsure if the guy would do the same. Get a backup home to move back into, just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 08:57 AM |
| 1 | It's insane how the other gender refuses to recognize their privilege.yes, men can lie to women, but men never lie to themselves. truly champions of moral superiority. And men are always self aware too, incredible. As a woman i endeavor to be a fraction of the person an average man is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 12:59 AM |
| 0 | This sub in a cumshellI am sympathetic to the problems men face which may disproportionately affect them. Don't get me wrong. However - it is hard to take the MRA narrative seriously when 1) they refuse to acknowledge the hierarchy of power, $, and politics that causes most of the problems they complain about is controlled by other men, 2) and try to use women and feminism as the scapegoats, 3) cherrypicking, misrepresenting and bullshitting data, and 4) is typically said by disingenuous misogynists who expect to get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 10:09 PM |
| 1 | It's insane how the other gender refuses to recognize their privilege.yes all shallow guys say that they're shallow, men never lie. it is known | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 09:02 PM |
| 11 | It's insane how the other gender refuses to recognize their privilege.true. women don't have social lives, hobbies, jobs, money, or any ambitions. i'm sure a woman who miraculously has those things will give it up for an uncertain future with a disrespectful asshole she is unattracted to. how are you like, still single and not drowning in a tidal wave of pussy? girls must be following this guy up and down the block | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 10:18 AM |
| 2 | This sub in a cumshellgod i hope that any girls unlucky enough to meet you irl finds out your reddit profile. and knows to run far far away for self preservation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 10:01 AM |
| 1 | This sub in a cumshellthirst and desperation is what causes men to call you 50 times in a row and threaten suicide if you don't get back with them and send you long rambling texts about how you're a fat ugly bitch anyway. i'd prefer respect as a person and not as a commodity, physical strength, $$$ and social influence over receiving more thirst, any day of the week | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 09:58 AM |
| 7 | This sub in a cumshellyep. accurate LOL. i'm convinced that most pilled guys don't come here to argue or learn or do anything productive. they come here to be sexist and hateful to women to feel better about themselves. there is nothing to gain from the 1000th post about women getting laid easier. but how else will they start circlejerking like misogynistic little twats without feeling like the pathetic bullies they are? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 12:02 AM |
| 0 | What’s the most disheartening thing you’ve seen in your local dating marketyes, some men would. plenty of young, vulnerable, poor people would. i like the petty "especially by women" part you added... Only on PPD will you have a guy judging women for it, judging men for it, and then judging hypothetical women for judging men for it -- all without acknowledging that he's being a petty bitch who wants his hypocrite cake and eat it too. And no, you're projecting again. it's pure entitlement for the manipulative creeps who think they can go to a politically unstable, pover… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 05:14 AM |
| 14 | What’s the most disheartening thing you’ve seen in your local dating marketLol ok judgy. would you suck dick to escape homelessness or poverty or danger? plenty of men would for survival, doesn't matter if you are gay or straight. if you don't know what it's like, then maybe you should mind your own business instead of moral grandstanding about people doing what it takes to survive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 09:38 PM |
| 0 | What’s the most disheartening thing you’ve seen in your local dating marketare you talking about the men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 09:38 PM |
| 0 | Rising women's complains today about dating do not add up to the reality of their sexual privilegeSure women complain. it's the internet, people complain about everything, and dating IS stressful. you're the one extrapolating a few complaints and turning this into the victim olympics. most women here have been saying men DO have it harder. when one group of people has more problems than another group, is the second group just supposed to shut up completely? You can just avoid that content if you're not interested. why are you acting like someone is forcing you to hate scroll twitter? it's li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 08:44 AM |
| 3 | Men value the availability of sex, women do not. This is the most important factor in dating / relationshipsit's crazy how some people push their male superiority complex onto other species like it has to be some divine rule of the universe. are yall going after preying mantises, hyenas and seahorses next? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 10:52 PM |
| 3 | Women often use fear as an excuse to be rude to men even though men have assaulted/victimized more men than womenLol, consistency with judging someone's character and consistency with how much attention you must give a stranger is two entirely separate things. Cmon now. we should try to see cheating, theft, assault, etc. as equally rude, shitty human behavior regardless of gender. But we can give strangers attention and conversation based on whatever list of preferences we have. I'm not sure why this needed saying. yes I exercise personal taste when talking to strangers, never pretended otherwise. I'm an i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 06:14 AM |
| 4 | Women often use fear as an excuse to be rude to men even though men have assaulted/victimized more men than womenI'm not sure why you're arguing a point I never made, but pretty sure we agree there. I agree completely, I don't owe friends or family anything either. I want to give them my attention, because I like and trust those people. You said "your judgment of what is rude is ONLY and MERELY based on your feelings"... like that's true for you too. if strangers aren't "owed", "entitled to", "should expect" or whatever word you'd like to use, conversations with other strangers, why is it rude to ignore a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 03:58 AM |
| 5 | Women often use fear as an excuse to be rude to men even though men have assaulted/victimized more men than womenCan you give some more examples of rudeness, OP? Based on the one you made up, I really could care less. Apparently a stranger coming up to me and saying "hi", if I ignore him or give him a quick nod and keep going, is that "rude"? Why should strangers be entitled to each other's attention? Random women don't owe you anything, and neither do random men, but my guess is you'd only call the former "rude" for enforcing boundaries. Is it also rude to blow off telemarketers, street vendors, buskers, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 03:01 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about these "Are we dating the same guy" groups?In a culture where men are teaching other men manosphere bullshit and how men should be using, manipulating, and treating women as inferior, you're really going to focus on the way women protect ourselves? Hahaha no thank you. GTFO with your ridiculous gaslighting. you guys could make your own facebook group for sussing out cheating or abusive women, no one's stopping you. It'll probably turn into a cesspool of sharing nsfw, degrading, humiliating, objectifying and misogynistic content, but who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 09:28 PM |
| 20 | Women often use fear as an excuse to be rude to men even though men have assaulted/victimized more men than womenIsn't that the point? When a man gives off red flags, we do act extra nice, make up excuses to leave, be polite and then we run home and complain from the comfort and safety of our own homes. This is literally what happens, all the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Their is no incentive to date as a manI'm not sure if this needs saying, but if you are "putting in the hard work" trying real hard to get with a girl, she isn't that into you. Outside of paying sex workers, you don't buy or earn women, you make relationships based on mutual chemistry. It's intense friendship with sex, it has to be mutually wanted. The hard work isn't pressuring women into relationships, the hard work is finding the one who you like who likes you back. go out there, find a coed hobby or sport and meet new people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 07:25 PM |
| 7 | Question for Men: What would you do if you were a woman?Who isn't a slut for dumplings? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Social awkwardness is the biggest death sentence for menIt sucks that antisocial, more "niche" people need to be more social, reach out more to find similar minded, "niche" folks, but that's just how the world is. Looking for similar people is more work, navigating relationships and acknowledging misunderstandings is more work. But there are girls out there that will understand your experience, if you want to find them. I know autistic men who have girlfriends and a good social life. They tended to be kind, wholesome dorks whose girlfriends are often… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 03:01 AM |
| 2 | Men leveraging anything for dating/sex is badI never said that. Why are people here constantly shoving their own words into my mouth? If you want to argue with someone who believes that, FIND SOMEONE WHO DOES and take it up with them. damn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 09:13 PM |
| 6 | Men leveraging anything for dating/sex is badLol yeah totally said that too. there's citations and video footage. anything else you want to tell me i think? so we can get it all in at once? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 04:03 AM |
| 4 | Men leveraging anything for dating/sex is badyes, that's exactly what I assumed. I said that 100% word for word. you're not being a disingenuous, creepy internet cretin at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Men leveraging anything for dating/sex is badIsn't this your own goalpost LOL. you're the one who brought up trying to fuck women trying to escape from poor countries. wtf are you talking about computers. as if you can't fly overseas yourself or look at a mail order bride catalog. if you want to clarify "the few women with COMPUTERS from poorer countries" maybe you should have said that in your post, yea? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Men leveraging anything for dating/sex is badLol are you sure you're replying to the right person? I said no one cares if everyone's safe, uncoerced and on the same page. The only problem is sexual coercion. Anyone scamming that man for money, a place to live, or safety because the other option is poverty, homelessness, or being stuck somewhere unsafe is OBVIOUSLY BETTER than the manipulative asshole taking advantage for sex, are u serious? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 03:02 AM |
| 4 | Men leveraging anything for dating/sex is badWhat the strawman are you talking about. No one gives a fuck about what you do to flex and improve your status. The keyword is uncoerced consent. here's a heads up... vulnerable people who don't have many other means to get out of a shitty situation WILL lie to you and use you for money or a visa. be real, don't think you're any different. if you were a refugee fleeing a war torn area or a hungry homeless person looking for food and safety, you would probably suck dick too. And if the guy was a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 01:15 AM |
| -2 | Women have a stronger ingroup bias than men. Thus men’s dating woes will never be fixed unless they develop an ingroup bias of their owni assume that a lot of the "straight" guys who mald over how much women suck on the internet and how much better men are, are probably gay and just have compulsively heteronormative hang ups about embracing it. sucks that their crisis fuels some toxic misogyny but hopefully they'll be in a better place when they come to terms with it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 11:40 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men want women more then women want men, and that’s why we don’t care about your standards.Sure women totally are, and your revenge bdsm fantasy and your essay length projection totally isn't the childish tantrum that it is. sure buddy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 08:47 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Men want women more then women want men, and that’s why we don’t care about your standards.If you hate independence and freedom so much, maybe you should take your own advice and give up yours to a daddy or mommy dom near you? you're a cunt, other people see you as a cunt, and you will always feel like a cunt. But maybe someone out there will happily clap yours and you may finally feel better about yourself. you will finally feel remotely seen and accepted for the scared little boy you feel inside. sounds like you need to try bottoming if you think it's so great. Maybe you'll calm dow… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 09:42 AM |
| 2 | Older men are more bitter and resentful and have more baggage than older womenyou are kidding yourself. Just look at the guys on PPD, the blame, bitterness and resentment is much more towards women than towards themselves. If they are more bitter towards themselves than to women, I am not seeing it. The posts here are much more about outward blame to society and to women, than self aware and reflective. Plus here and out in the world, I am constantly hearing about how the world should change to fit male needs and how culture needs to change to appease men more. Even MORE … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 02:12 AM |
| 1 | If you only want intimacy through sex, you don’t actually care about intimacy. You just want sex.The real problem seems to be angry pilled guys trying to speak for all men again on PPD. Part of their revenge fantasy is reducing women to disposable sex objects who are only good for sex guess that's what happens when pilled men start spewing toxic shit and then say "all men are like this" to escape being judged as an individual. Most men don't seem to think this way. Lots of guys being offended here, but OP wasn't talking about you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 06:50 AM |
| 2 | Women can only blame themselves for "number of sexual partners" standard.if a hot guy and a hot woman both find it really easy to get casual sex and enjoy having casual sex, are they both loose and un-valuable sex partners? Since sex corrupts someone when it's easy to get and validates someone when it's hard to get. if so, good you don't have any weird sexist double standards about this. Hot guys who would get laid easily should keep their legs closed if they want to stay valuable for their future partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 06:19 AM |
| 2 | Single Men vs Single WomenI told you to stop bothering me. bye. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 09:07 PM |
| 1 | What is a stereotype about your gender you hate?I wouldn't say hate, but they irritate me a lot... women with internalized misogyny. Stop believing hissy internet teens about who women are, or who you are. Stop trying to appease stupid little kids with a narcissistic revenge fantasy. of course they want to think women as a gender are lazy, stupid, incompetent, shallow whores, they're at that stage in life where nothing is their fault and mommy brings them chicken nuggs as they play call of duty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 09:13 AM |
| 2 | Men are good or bad people based on how they treat women, women are bad/ good people based on how they treat everyone beside menI have no idea why some men seem to think "vagina is queen" and women get protected more than men. The average woman does NOT think random men are coming to the rescue if they get assaulted in a public place. I expect most men to ignore it happening, or possibly join the perpetrator (if they think they won't get caught), and other women to look out for me and call the police. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Single Men vs Single Womenafter birth, a man can use the legal system to force paternity testing - after that the guy has the same amount of parental control over the kid as the mom does. here, since you seem to have trouble reading. Please stop bothering me, I'm really done with this conversation and your made up male victimhood nonsense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 04:19 AM |
| 2 | Single Men vs Single WomenLOL what is this BS you completely made up. after birth, a man can use the legal system to force paternity testing - after that the guy has the same amount of parental control over the kid as the mom does. i think you're projecting, as you very well know, women lose their bodily autonomy in many states in the US and many european countries once pregnant. honestly, your strawman arguments aren't worth coming back to 3 days later. not sure why I responded to a lot of bad faith made up BS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Single Men vs Single WomenI'm not really sure what you mean-- I never said it's all a facade. I'd say women are typically more friendly and more polite with other women, and the way we express ourselves may be hard for a straight guy to interpret. It is sort of a cultural thing, between girls, we know where we stand. If I hug a girl I know and act friendly and we compliment each other, between girls it might be a conversation starter. to a guy watching, he might think we're bffs or something. Do you really have mostly al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 07:43 AM |
| 2 | Single Men vs Single WomenIt is real sweet that you think women are always amazing friends to each other, but that's hardly the case everywhere. Gassing each other up and feminine cultural norms aren't always indicative of "ride or die" friendships. sometimes it's just "how we talk." Straight guys don't always get it. I hardly want to bring up Amber on PPD, but since you did, I'll bite. Depp has a history of assault, violence, sexism, racism, transphobia, property destruction, drug abuse, lying about charity, and he supp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 04:43 AM |
| 2 | Single Men vs Single Womenlol, are you a woman? do guys think female social groups are judgment free therapy sessions? I love the girlfriends I'm close to sure, but I'm not deluded that our gender's friendships are magical somehow. women are fallible, average human beings and we can be mean, kind, rude, judgy, supportive to each other. and that's fine. female friendships used to be portrayed as catty and backstabby in pop culture, but now we've gone a full 180 when men on reddit want to complain how easy women have it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Single Men vs Single Womenhey real question, once a woman has sex with a man, is that man no longer responsible for any of his own actions? Or is he now free to abuse, assault, cheat and be selfish as a partner and a father? you make men sound like they have zero agency and zero responsibility and once they touch pussy they magically transfer over all of their sins. what are they, too stupid or too self unaware to be responsible for anything? sounds pretty pathetic to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 03:00 AM |
| 3 | Single Men vs Single WomenWho picked being a dad? Deadbeats are responsible for their own actions. Society needs to stop giving shitty fathers a penis pass. This is why whiny ass manchildren never grow up and blame women for everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 01:29 AM |
| 3 | Single Men vs Single WomenShould both parents abandon the kid then, and throw the kid in an orphanage? Since single moms are so useless. Should those women follow the deadbeat father's footsteps? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Single Men vs Single WomenThen prove it, with statistics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Single Men vs Single WomenThe problem imo is parenting, plain and simple. Fathers (and mothers) are not disciplining their angry violent kids into being responsible for their social lives, and expressing anger in productive, nontoxic, and non-misogynistic ways. Parents nowadays do not know how to deal with violent, angry, entitled kids and are enabling them instead of squashing the problem young and teaching responsibility. It just happens that boys are more often violent and angry than girls are, and judged more lenient… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 11:38 PM |
| 0 | Single Men vs Single WomenDo you have sources for any of that? Is this some intentional covert operation to feminize boys and what even is the point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 10:59 PM |
| 3 | Single Men vs Single WomenThis gets repeated by red pill a LOT but is it proven that it's easier for women to form social circles and get support? Why is it "less work" for women? Where are the statistics backing this up? It seems like this is a common viewpoint on reddit when complaining women have it better. A lot of young women ALSO grow up in broken families and have no real goals in life. A woman can post about having a bad day on social media and get flooded with support. Not really, that women will get judged for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Women actually don't like it when men judge other things than their looks.Plenty of people trash women for acting entitled or asking cringe questions about how much money or property a guy has, right off the bat. So why shouldn't we trash men for acting entitled when they ask similar cringe questions like that to their date? If they want to provoke, troll, or act self important, they don't need to date, they can just stay on reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 08:51 AM |
| 0 | Girl posts me vs the girl he cheated with and it backfired on her, people (largely men) defend the bf cheatingweren't we were talking about online hate and trolling? let's stay on topic idk if random women are telling random unemployed internet men they're career failures who are only worth anything if they're providing for women, and sending hateful dms. the chronically online men have a special kind and level of hate towards ALL women that doesn't exist the same way vice versa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 06:29 PM |
| 0 | Girl posts me vs the girl he cheated with and it backfired on her, people (largely men) defend the bf cheatingyou mean, for women right? rather be a man getting bashed for stuff unrelated to gender, than being bashed by angry men who don't value your humanity and see your worth as solely based on being a convenient disposable woman shaped sex object | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 11:02 AM |
| 22 | Girl posts me vs the girl he cheated with and it backfired on her, people (largely men) defend the bf cheatingThat doesn't surprise me. Not all men are outwardly misogynists, but a huge number of them will support other men, help them gaslight you, instantly distrust women, and show a unified front on defending treating women like trash The amount of men who will happily witchhunt a random woman with their internet incel homies is unreal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Most women don't care about toxic masculinity and actively perpetuate it when it suits them.dude, this is some unrelated tangent I don't care about. You can find someone else to argue your edgy, personal, biased version of "body positivity" with, but don't do it with me lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Most women don't care about toxic masculinity and actively perpetuate it when it suits them.that's a great example. so here was your misunderstanding, apparently. glad I could clear this up for you Body positivity = don't bully fat people, show basic human decency to them, love yourself despite your weight. It's not about fucking chubby people they aren't attracted to. Similarly, toxic masculinity = don't be forced to act hypermasculine, don't hurt others or yourself by performing gender roles, love yourself despite your gender nonconformity. But again, it's not about fucking men they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Most women don't care about toxic masculinity and actively perpetuate it when it suits them.masculinity and femininity are loosely defined social constructs that I don't have anything to argue about. just want to point out, even if some behavior is now super masculine, or no longer gendered, people will STILL have preferences for and against it regardless. Are you still going to call someone toxic if they think being bi is masculine, but still aren't into bi men? why is it weird that attraction can disappear if you find out about your partner's sexual history? maybe a guy finds out his… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Most women don't care about toxic masculinity and actively perpetuate it when it suits them.You are convoluting two things - whether someone views you as masculine or not, or whether someone prefers you sexually or not. Whether someone gives you grief about your masculinity because you aren't straight, they're being an ass. Whether someone is no longer attracted to you because you aren't straight, they're allowed to have preferences. PPD men hate women especially so they go after women for this, but gay men sometimes prefer gay men and straight men sometimes prefer straight women. And … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Most women don't care about toxic masculinity and actively perpetuate it when it suits them.Of course not. You can't be happy, because your worldview has such a low standard for "toxic" sexual preferences that almost everyone fits it. Everyone besides maybe a couple blind pansexuals. It's convenient for you to target women because our preferences are constantly being dismissed and criticized by men on reddit, but please go ahead and tell a man on PPD that he is a toxic feminist for thinking shorthaired butch women aren't "intrinsically feminine". and not being sexually attracted to the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Most women don't care about toxic masculinity and actively perpetuate it when it suits them.There are billions of people on this planet and neither gender belongs to a hivemind. I'm not sure what you mean by "I'm the only one actually being honest", quite a lot of people generalize about all men and all women on PPD. You're hardly a special person for generalizing about gender on this trash fire of a subreddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 07:10 AM |
| 0 | Most women don't care about toxic masculinity and actively perpetuate it when it suits them.Ok, I give up. Categorizing people, defining gender, people having sexual preferences, it's all evil and harmful. I acknowledge I've been toxic. I am a narcissist for having preferences. I apologize from the deepest, most sincere part of my heart, for all the futa and femboy hentai that i've read, because gender labels are toxic and feeling attraction for or not for those labels is toxic. also I apologize for buying that plastic strap on, because plastic is bad for the planet, and for being a fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 06:59 AM |
| 0 | Most women don't care about toxic masculinity and actively perpetuate it when it suits them.That's very interesting about your sister. If you're not misrepresenting anything, clearly she is extrapolating, generalizing and being toxic about gender. You share a lot in common with your sister then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Most women don't care about toxic masculinity and actively perpetuate it when it suits them.You don't see dating apps from a woman's perspective, because we often get verbally harassed for expressing preferences in our profiles. Don't want a conservative man? a republican will dm you and complain, or a guy will lie about being "moderate" and then blame you for having boundaries or preferences. Have a height preference? men will lie, call you shallow if you point it out, verbally harass you. Care about religion, education? same old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 06:34 AM |
| 2 | Most women don't care about toxic masculinity and actively perpetuate it when it suits them.I don't know if you're telling the truth, because PPD guys frequently lie and misrepresent on this sub. Even if you are truthful and your sister does think all men are rapists, why do you think sharing your sister's extreme outlier views has anything to do with women in general? And why should your crazy sister's views be used to victim blame women when "men do crazy shit and treat women like trash"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 06:07 AM |
| 0 | Most women don't care about toxic masculinity and actively perpetuate it when it suits them.For the 1000th time PPD, no one is entitled to sex. You are not "hurt" by people's preferences any more than you "hurt" people with your preferences. Also I have no idea why you're so hung up on the "masculinity" aspect. Whether a preference is gendered or not, it's ALL valid. If women thought it was masculine or not, she can still prefer it or not prefer it. it's pretty obvious that PPD only goes after women for expressing this preference. When a guy isn't into bisexual women? Butch "unfeminine… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 05:56 AM |
| -1 | Most women don't care about toxic masculinity and actively perpetuate it when it suits them.Lol, you're the one projecting your "desperation to get mad" at women on me. you are still clueless about what toxic masculinity is. It's about hurting yourself or other people from your gender performance, it's not about how masculinity is defined and whether other people feel the attraction tingles from your performance of gender. I don't know if you're a troll or you sincerely believe in the drivel you're spouting, but if you do, men are also racists, transphobes, and bodyshamers, who have to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Most women don't care about toxic masculinity and actively perpetuate it when it suits them.So you don't know what toxic masculinity is, either. nice. It has nothing to do with other people's dating standards, by the way. some women are attracted to traditional masculine straight men. The same way some men are attracted to traditional feminine straight women. I've heard this a billion times on PPD, men can have types for race, weight, height, education, boob size, personality, income, n count, cisgender or not, all of that and but women's standards are racist, class-ist, shallow, every… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Most women don't care about toxic masculinity and actively perpetuate it when it suits them.OP you have no idea what toxic masculinity is. the "toxic" part of "toxic masculinity" means when you're hurting yourself or hurting others by conforming to hypermasculine gender norms if a guy enjoys feeling like a provider, who is he hurting? if a woman enjoys taking care of kids and being a sahm, who is she hurting? the only problem is when people feel forced to do any of those things, in which case, they should have adult conversations with each other and make their own choices to stay or no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 09:11 PM |
| -2 | Your mother didn’t “lie” to you. Women didn’t lie to you. They genuinely thought they were telling you the truth….and that most girls were not they themThis is one creepy little kid, and I feel so bad for the mom, who wasted so many years raising a salty, bitter, projecting little boy who makes up random sexual stories about random strangers to mald over. a random woman in your tiny little personal bubble doesn't speak for all women, any more than a whiny, sexist, bitter teenager on PPD doesn't speak for all men. get real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Financial abortion doesnt make senseDon't worry, men rarely pay child support, it's quite easy for them to avoid paying child support, so they're not actually affected the way you think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/22 04:47 AM |
| 0 | Financial abortion doesnt make senseOP you are really bad at making this point, but I agree with you. Financial abortion is not equal to abortion because money is not equivalent to my bodily autonomy, to me being able to own my own body. Governments should be able to fine or tax you, but they shouldn't be able to tell you to sell or rent out or donate your organs. If I want to take a medicine that will save my life but increases the risk of miscarriage, I should be able to choose that. Interesting attitudes from so many men here -… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/22 04:30 AM |
| 1 | If a woman has to lower her standards for you to have a shot with her, the relationship you’ll have with her will be shaky at bestsure the guy was obviously insinuating those things, but it's not as if he is immune to same problems we have. There is always more info and more context, and he could give it, but he's choosing not to. interesting right? it's like the only thing he heard is that one phrase that triggered him and he got no other context from it and then repeated it to other salty internet boys to trigger them as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/22 10:21 PM |
| 1 | If a woman has to lower her standards for you to have a shot with her, the relationship you’ll have with her will be shaky at bestthere was so little info. everyone has their own "which is more likely" based on their own biases and narratives and personal insecurities. Men will be "she a bitch" and women will be "she's making a joke or his profile sucked". also this is reddit. This site's primary views on women is we lie about rape, we're shallow and unquirky, and petty and rude. otherwise we don't exist lol. so I'm real good when men start spitballing what a hypothetical woman was thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/22 09:33 PM |
| 3 | If a woman has to lower her standards for you to have a shot with her, the relationship you’ll have with her will be shaky at bestseems like everyone is projecting while we don't even know these, possibly not even real, people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/22 04:33 AM |
| 21 | Why are so many women unashamed of being overweight in OLD?Some men have been rude, horrible, even violent to me before, can I do the same to other, completely unrelated men? Feedback goes both ways, if not, it's a double standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 03:30 AM |
| 5 | Why are so many women unashamed of being overweight in OLD?that's literally the point they're trying to make | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 03:26 AM |
| 1 | You cannot blame men (fully) for being very cynical about women these days.You're absolutely wrong. Most people, esp men, never listen to women's complaints. Men on reddit are constantly telling me that "feminism" is a dirty word, that we're liars, exaggerators, and untrustworthy, rape and sexual assault is rare and if it did happen, we deserved it and to stop making life inconvenient for men. We are hardly brought up on reddit unless reddit wants to complain about women being shallow, false accusers, "unquirky", annoying, and Karens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 03:19 AM |
| 1 | It's not that only men can be "shut-in" or "socially inept," it's more that being so hurts their dating success more than it hurts women's dating success.isn't that the point though, having control over something for your own benefit means it's disposable, damage-able without repercussions, likely when the "owner" stops getting benefits from it? Objects have no say and no control over possession, treatment and disposal, and if you don't have rights or legal protections to exercise your own agency, an easily disposable object is what you are. And it's human nature that when someone can exploit something or someone for their own gain, they probably… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 07:43 AM |
| 11 | Women are too extremely fickle and flakey for regular guys to have a chance in this day and ageThe girl: I liked him initially, but the more I found out about him, I don't think our long term goals or perspectives are a good match The guy: women are soo complicated and mysterious, I just don't get them, they're like a different species, female brains are so illogical. We need some evolutionary psychologists and men who are self certified female experts to figure them out. can anyone (just men though) explain how females think in the most patronizing, unflattering way possible? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 05:02 AM |
| 1 | It's not that only men can be "shut-in" or "socially inept," it's more that being so hurts their dating success more than it hurts women's dating success.isn't that what you guys say though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 04:54 AM |
| 1 | It's not that only men can be "shut-in" or "socially inept," it's more that being so hurts their dating success more than it hurts women's dating success.women are still the more disposable sex. PPD guys are just projecting -- one sentence they're complaining about their own disposability and the next they're screeching about how bad they would treat women and how they'd like to dispose of us when we're no longer of use to them sexually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 08:54 PM |
| -1 | It's not that only men can be "shut-in" or "socially inept," it's more that being so hurts their dating success more than it hurts women's dating success.Instead of always asserting it, maybe you should define "disposability"? Women have been disposable because in most civilizations, we rarely had legal protections and were often treated like property. What is your definition? If men have been disposable, women have been MORE disposable. Even now in many parts of the world, we can be coerced into relationships often at child bride ages, are seen as property of men, marital rape or assault being totally fine, denied human rights and legal protecti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 08:53 PM |
| 0 | It's not that only men can be "shut-in" or "socially inept," it's more that being so hurts their dating success more than it hurts women's dating success.The "eyes of evolution" leading to "a biological impulse to protect women" isn't even proven. If they are, they've been a complete nonfactor relative to cultural conditioning in many parts of the world, which have made exploitation of women widespread and mainstream. Pushback against this is only recent and localized to certain western countries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 08:30 PM |
| 0 | CMV: It’s a sign of extreme inequality that women facilitating sex work is seen as more and more publicly acceptable, but men using the services of a sex worker is just as taboo for men as its always beenYes, they should be happy they're no longer being stoned to death. Getting insta rejected by most white collar jobs, being mocked by your peers if your content gets discovered, or attacked by the moral crusading conservatives, that's nothing. Isn't society so much crueler to poor men who subscribe to Onlyfans or hire an escort? Those whores should stop complaining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 08:59 AM |
| 1 | It's not that only men can be "shut-in" or "socially inept," it's more that being so hurts their dating success more than it hurts women's dating success.Like i've mentioned before, ofc you're going to define disposability in a way that feeds your narrative. You want to only concentrate on biological "disposability", "disposability" in terms of who gets rights or legal protection would probably not interest you. Because historically women are "disposable" objects and resources, not protected equally important citizens, and MRA activists probably would hate to talk about that. being used for biological reproduction does not mean a good time. If "i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 08:32 AM |
| 4 | It's not that only men can be "shut-in" or "socially inept," it's more that being so hurts their dating success more than it hurts women's dating success.It's hilarious you think reproduction is success and means you are not disposable. Plenty of women were used for reproduction and disposed, once you had the kid and started getting old, your husband would start hoping childbirth or disease would kill you so he could bang someone younger, usually a child of an age we'd now consider statutory rape. What constitutes "disposability"? Guys here love to assert it but rarely define or prove it. Because if they do, they'll either insert some bias to mak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 03:04 AM |
| 0 | CMV: It’s a sign of extreme inequality that women facilitating sex work is seen as more and more publicly acceptable, but men using the services of a sex worker is just as taboo for men as its always beenWhat is the weather like in the universe where sex workers don't get stigmatized, is it nice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Unless a girl tells you expressly that she's looking for a relationship its fair to be coy about whether or not you are because that's the exact same thing she's doing.^ this insufferable little weirdo. yikes lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 10:50 PM |
| -1 | Unless a girl tells you expressly that she's looking for a relationship its fair to be coy about whether or not you are because that's the exact same thing she's doing.this guy is obviously one of them :( I wish there was a way, to ensure 100%, that our paths may never cross irl. the tiny fractional possibility keeps me up at night | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 09:39 AM |
| – | The sum of the Modern Women Mindset and How to Operate More Effectively as a Man.My thoughts? Yikes lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 08:06 AM |
| 24 | CMV: It’s a sign of extreme inequality that women facilitating sex work is seen as more and more publicly acceptable, but men using the services of a sex worker is just as taboo for men as its always beenIn what universe does OP live in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 07:19 AM |
| 2 | Unless a girl tells you expressly that she's looking for a relationship its fair to be coy about whether or not you are because that's the exact same thing she's doing.One of the daily "let's generalize all women" and "let's mislead women and treat them badly bros" threads. lovely. Thanks to PPD for constantly giving me new red flags to look out for, and adding to the trust issues I already have. Is dating men really worth it? Do I really need someone physically stronger, larger, taller than me in my house who I need to be on the lookout for hidden toxicity or sexist spite? Knowing that even when the red flags are found, it'll be miserable, stressful and possi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 03:41 AM |
| 4 | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?No one promised that to him. Pussy is not a resource we distribute equitably to just the male population. Usually most incels aren't 5'2" balding janitors. They are whiny average height average everything men who don't want to change but want women handed to them on a plate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 06:20 AM |
| 3 | Women of purple pill debate, what things do you agree with from the red pill perspective and what things do you not agree with?I get it a little bit, in the sense that if you are an insecure person with self esteem issues, sometimes you have to overcompensate and be a little toxic before you settle, get comfortable and then tone it down. Growing up, I had a quiet, anxious, insecure phase then faking confidence/ being kind of toxic phase and then hopefully I'm a normal person now (debatable). So I get it a bit. To me, for some guys it's okay to play mind tricks on yourself and dip your toes in some lighthearted misogyny … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Women hypocritically use shaming tactics to try and dictate what preferences men are "allowed" to have, while advocating for women being able to have whatever preferences they wantobviously I mean the general idea, not literally.. I don't look at a magazine cover, see that the man is on it isn't personally fuckable to me, and start shouting "SOCIETY FIX THIS!!!! I DON'T WANT TO FUCK THIS MAN!!" bc I realize I'm not the center of the universe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 07:55 PM |
| 0 | Women hypocritically use shaming tactics to try and dictate what preferences men are "allowed" to have, while advocating for women being able to have whatever preferences they wantNo one socially aware walks up to a stranger and starts rating them out of the blue and tells them how fuckable they are. it shows you think you're the center of the universe, when in fact it's cringe and no one cares. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 08:26 AM |
| 4 | Women hypocritically use shaming tactics to try and dictate what preferences men are "allowed" to have, while advocating for women being able to have whatever preferences they wantGood for you, but other people exist and some things are marketed towards other people... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Women hypocritically use shaming tactics to try and dictate what preferences men are "allowed" to have, while advocating for women being able to have whatever preferences they wantSome guys think their unprompted opinion on a woman's body is always welcome and so important. Dude, no one asked. She wasn't in your recommendations on Pornhub, she was on a magazine that soccer moms pick up at the grocery store. Not everything is marketed for men's dicks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 09:30 AM |
| 1 | What actually happens when women lower their standards and settle for men they don't find attractive: resentment and unhappinessYou really sound butt* hurt, coming mostly from your negative experience with some women which is pretty narrow and can't speak about the general population really. Women having "inflated egos" is by far not one of the top reasons why men struggle with dating. It's quite naive to think that is the only/top reason. I'm sorry if that's been your experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 07:05 PM |
| 2 | What actually happens when women lower their standards and settle for men they don't find attractive: resentment and unhappinessThey are delusional and have no self awareness about their behavior. Even many average, mediocre men have inflated egos and main character syndrome. Rejection does not cause some of these men to have any self awareness because they will always blame other people or some immutable thing about themselves, but never their own words and actions. I have met guys who will neg, walk over your boundaries, and make sexist comments about your looks and software job, and when rejected they will delude them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 06:48 PM |
| 10 | What actually happens when women lower their standards and settle for men they don't find attractive: resentment and unhappinessAnd millions of men are delusional too. You only generalize that about women because you haven't dated men and seen how over inflated many of their egos are. I've had solidly average, mediocre, boring ass, sometimes balding male strangers try to neg me or whine or ask for nudes or a booty call or try to run straight through my politely expressed boundaries. We need to get to a state where the majority of men realize they are nothing special and learn to be more humble, and stop being so cringe w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 03:17 AM |
| 2 | The feud between RP men and alpha feminists is unnecessaryNo one would care about people's preferences if they're not hurting anyone or screeching about morals and misogyny along with it. You're actually an outlier on PPD in being respectful about it, most guys here say their preference for low body count women and then say "btw i fucking hate WHORES and women are only good for SEX and if other men touch my SEX OBJECT that SEX OBJECT's VAGINA is STRETCHED OUT and ICKY and WORTHLESS" etc etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 11:52 PM |
| -1 | Men don’t value loyal women either, and the reaction to the Bezos divorce is proof.yeah. The terminally online reddit crowd has a knee jerk hatred of women. Seriously just own up to it, maybe it'll give you insight why women avoid you. Or at the very least, why few women have sympathy for hateful sexist bullies being single, you're all just dodged bullets. It's also funny how they blame Mackenzie for all the unethical shit Bezos has done at Amazon while they deny her responsibility and influence and ownership of anything there. Women only have agency when it's convenient to bl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Prettier, dumb women will always triumph over an average to less attractive intelligent women.Idk OP, that's not really what I see. Most of the highly educated couples I know are "power couples"... doctors dating doctors, engineers dating engineers, etc. One thing I think PPD gets wrong is how most men want to be super dominant and better than their wives at everything. In my experience, a lot of guys do this masculinity gender performance art in public, but in private they don't mind taking the backseat and switching it up. They like having a partner they can count on, who is their equa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 08:10 AM |
| 0 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!We were already talking about the newer version of the study... I thought it was clear since we were talking about the sample size (2701) for the new version. I'm not sure if you are deliberately trying to misrepresent what I was saying, but really I am done with this conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 08:28 AM |
| 2 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!ehhhh you're saying that you're honest now, but earlier you were going pretty extreme and saying the study was "debunked as misinformation". on the basis of what you said so far, that doesn't quite scan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 08:15 AM |
| -5 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!It's their fault they didn't take high school stats... don't worry about them LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 07:57 AM |
| -6 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!"Debunks"? It's not her fault that guy doesn't understand statistics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 07:56 AM |
| 5 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!It really looks like you are cherrypicking with an agenda, plus misinforming people. You ignore all the findings that show statistically significant differences and then concentrate on just the "caveats" section of the paper. I think it is fine to bring up that this study is for couples who are over 50, so sure the scope of this paper can be limited to couples over 50. That's no problem. 2701 is a fine sample size for 1.7million marriages, if you've taken a high school statistics course, you wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Men are not looking for a virgin as some women here claim, but rather they are looking for characteristics we often associate with virginsK, so you're high then :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 03:46 AM |
| 4 | Both sides are saying the same thingWe admit that all the time... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Men are not looking for a virgin as some women here claim, but rather they are looking for characteristics we often associate with virginsLol you have to be high to think we're as vocal and as rude about it as the salty bitter men on PPD. maybe we should copy them and write daily PPD posts about how 30+ balding wrinkly male whales are post wall, repeat how ugly we find fat older men like 10000 times, and speak for all women about how we want to fuck young hot masculine pool boys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Women put virtually zero effort into dating, and certainly far less than menI pay in 3 cases on dates. When I invite because that's polite, when I feel like I make a lot more money than him and feel bad, and if I want to be as nice as possible while rejecting because he gives off red flags and I don't want him to get mad for any reason. I've had some guys insult me after rejection, harass me for weeks, stalk socials, go on weird tirades etc so at this point I pay preemptively so they can't use that against me if they get mad at me later. If a woman pays for you and then… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Delight and Camaraderie in HumiliationI don't understand hate for an entire gender, maybe you do, but I can understand laughing at the misery of sexist horrible self unaware assholes just fine. :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 07:22 AM |
| 2 | Men are not looking for a virgin as some women here claim, but rather they are looking for characteristics we often associate with virginsIdk if you're speaking for all men, but you're definitely speaking for the type of men who mald on PPD lmao. Women should be more honest about our physical preferences too, you'd be surprised we don't love old, balding, promiscuous men with emotional baggage either. but they'll be screeching we're shallow, horrible and unsupportive if we so much as mention it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Delight and Camaraderie in HumiliationNope. women are more socially conditioned to be polite, supportive, cautious in public. It's not our fault that some men use misogyny and hate towards us as stress relief, and build us up in vague, rarely concrete ways to look immoral and all powerful so punching down feels better for them. Never any stats beside their weird assertions and sweeping generalizations. Young girls take the bullshit of seething, whining, sexist men too seriously. Maybe you're right, when people like them walk around … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Delight and Camaraderie in HumiliationYeah, that's your takeaway. I made a mistake, I took you seriously and talked to you like a reasonable adult. I won't do that again lol Bye then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Delight and Camaraderie in HumiliationNo one specified dating culture, the OP didn't and you didn't originally. you're tacking it on now just to ignore everything inconvenient to you. and cherrypicking just the things you want to see. you literally just concentrated on your dislike of female "diversity hires" in STEM to say women aren't economically disadvantaged. if you look at the data instead of tunnel visioning into your own random biases, women own anywhere between 20-40% of the wealth in most countries. that's the stuff that's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Delight and Camaraderie in HumiliationHonest question, it's weird how PPD guys keep saying the "women are wonderful" narrative is where we get our privilege, but often don't quantify it, say how it's expressed, or compare it to anti-women narratives and prove it's more influential. Can you mention something concrete instead instead of just asserting it's there? Because concretely, there is less pop culture representation, economic and political disadvantage for women. That's just a fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 07:08 PM |
| 0 | Delight and Camaraderie in HumiliationAre you speaking about yourself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 06:55 PM |
| -4 | Delight and Camaraderie in HumiliationWhat garbage. I never saw any of that "women are wonderful" BS growing up, where was that? I got plenty of TV shows telling me women were shallow, stupid, less important, never more important than a side character though. you made that shit up just to feel better about bullying an economically disadvantaged, physically weaker, less socially influential, lower class. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Delight and Camaraderie in Humiliationthis is stuff that every woman needs to be aware of. More men than you think have subtle disdain to outright hatred of women. The probability of your partner or potential partner being a closeted hateful misogynist is higher than you think, and if they show any red flags like watching misogynist Twitter content, it's much safer to be single. Every girl needs to be taught growing up that it's not our fault, to not hate ourselves like they hate us, and to give them a wide berth because they are da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 06:35 PM |
| 10 | Older men hitting on younger women is not harassment, nor immoral, nor illegalThe same old recurring troll post -- older women really could care less about some paunchy balding man's revenge fantasy and his lack of self awareness. less bullets to dodge for us, so win win? You can be the weird old guy at the club that girls escape to the bathroom from, we're not stopping you. Good luck and shoot for the stars | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 07:55 PM |
| 2 | The patriarchy and toxic masculinity exist, but women play a role in it too by selecting men with toxic traits.I think "toxic masculinity" just means "toxic gender conformity" for guys. Guys don't cry, guys shouldn't be vulnerable or weak, "girly" things are bad, guys acting "girly" is gay, and being gay is seen as an insult, etc. some guys who are hyperfixated on their masculinity treat women like sex dispenser trophies, so I think it affects us as well. Even if it didn't, if you have a son or a brother who doesn't share that he's depressed or suicidal, you'd still care about it as a woman. tbh I think … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 08:48 AM |
| 1 | What's the male equivalent of a promiscuous woman?If you have to add "old" and "not good looking" to the concept of male virginity to make it not appealing, it's not about the virginity that's the problem, it's all the negative qualities you attached to it. Few people are turned on by old, unattractive virgin women either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 05:58 AM |
| 5 | What's the male equivalent of a promiscuous woman?Agree the virginity part is cute. Cute blushing guy who you can teach stuff too lol sign me up.. just too bad a lot of virgins also show up bitter and angry and socially inept and a victim complex. in that case no thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 07:14 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to men's fortunes in dating.....the few, CONSTANTLY ruin it for the many......Why does anyone mention anything? it's just a random detail in the story Did you get offended by it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 01:15 AM |
| 0 | CMV: If legal, age doesn’t matterdoes this guy have trouble reading? It's like you're having conversations with yourself. jesus christ. I'd say look up age gap relationships correlation with abuse and IPV, and do your own googling, but you're probably going to invent something else I said and respond to that instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 01:12 AM |
| 3 | When it comes to men's fortunes in dating.....the few, CONSTANTLY ruin it for the many......Saying men don't help doesn't mean she's saying men should be helping me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 01:03 AM |
| 1 | CMV: If legal, age doesn’t matterYou'll prove it for me. Like I said before, go ahead and let some 50 year old try to fuck your high school senior son or daughter. report back when you're done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 12:59 AM |
| 8 | When it comes to men's fortunes in dating.....the few, CONSTANTLY ruin it for the many......Where did she say men were obligated to defend her? Idk if women have the privilege of being confrontational. sure reddit loves upvoting any case of women being confrontational, but most of us know we can't win a fight and are unnecessarily polite because we are afraid of what angry men could do to us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 12:12 AM |
| 2 | CMV: If legal, age doesn’t matterFor barely legal kids and adults decades older, those elements are almost always there. 99% of the time. Go ahead and let some 50 year old pick up your son from high school for senior prom and see if you feel the ick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 11:17 PM |
| 2 | CMV: If legal, age doesn’t matterThe same guy who complains about this stuff will get pissed off when it's their barely 18 son or daughter dating some 50 year old who tells them to skip college and live with them. Or get pissed off if a nurse gets "together" with their senile old dad at the nursing home and starts draining his savings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 09:42 PM |
| 3 | A man reaches the age of 30 without ever experiencing sex, intimacy, or a romantic relationship (30 year old virgin). What is your initial honest reaction / assumption, can his life be corrected, and what advice would you give?Just wanted to chime in here, I feel for you and you're not alone. When parents keep their kids in their shells and they grow up without being socialized well during their formative years, it is a nightmare for them to figure it out as an adult. After some stuff happened when a teenager, I had severe panic attacks and anxiety, and I couldn't even talk to anyone without hyperventilating. It took like a decade of exposure, faking confidence, and leaning into my innate socially awkward goofiness un… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in menSome of you will do anything to attract women ONLY on the basis we're a hivemind of hormone driven NPCs who output sex if you put the right cheat code in. You will roid out at the gym, listen to basement dwellers (if male) who also have no game, fake personalities and interests, literally anything but respect women as individuals with different preferences who are allowed to change their minds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 01:59 AM |
| 10 | Are men capable of raising kids by themselves?People can also do things like gaslighting, isolating, manipulating.. Everyone thinks they're so smart and would never be a victim until it happens to them. My dad was a quiet nerdy family guy. It was only after marriage and 2 kids when he hit my mom soo... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 10:36 PM |
| 10 | Are men capable of raising kids by themselves?Lol dude, you're 21. If you have kids now you will regret it like everyone I know who had kids young. Go live your life, make friends, travel, move around, figure out what you want professionally. That life will be over once you have kids. If you're so sure you want to be a daddy, think about it again when you're 27-28. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 10:19 PM |
| 10 | Are men capable of raising kids by themselves?People can do this thing called lying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 10:09 PM |
| 15 | Are men capable of raising kids by themselves?Idk, gay couples raise kids just fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 10:07 PM |
| 3 | Are men capable of raising kids by themselves?This is totally unrelated but I am so curious. Where do men who so badly want to have kids (and say it's because of paternal caretaking instinct and not because "muh legacy") get those ideas from? Did you guys have good dads or are from specific cultures that emphasize male parenting? Is there specific reading I could send my dad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 09:59 PM |
| 15 | Are men capable of raising kids by themselves?victim blaming women for not being psychic, classic PPD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 09:47 PM |
| 3 | EVEN if you could FORCE monogamy and "redistribute" love and relationships, you can't force a woman to genuinely love you and you FEEL the differenceMhmm your ranting about "muh biology" was very logical, and you're the smartest bestest iamverysmart boy ever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 11:53 PM |
| 39 | Women's standards are giving men body dysmorphiaLol is this a joke? who is calling those men dad bod or skinny fat? Is this coming from a fellow american? Almost all americans are fat, come on. We have the best fat people. it's patriotic at this point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 08:29 PM |
| 3 | EVEN if you could FORCE monogamy and "redistribute" love and relationships, you can't force a woman to genuinely love you and you FEEL the differenceCool good we agree, mr. "muh biology" lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 08:25 PM |
| 12 | EVEN if you could FORCE monogamy and "redistribute" love and relationships, you can't force a woman to genuinely love you and you FEEL the differenceNice unrelated rant. You can write a whole soap opera about how men providing is manlier and better than women providing in a dual income relationship. the spirit of masculinity isn't going to feed the kids or do things that actually make my life better and if it comes from an ugly aging badly balding fat man it'll probably make me laugh and seek a divorce | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 08:03 PM |
| 15 | EVEN if you could FORCE monogamy and "redistribute" love and relationships, you can't force a woman to genuinely love you and you FEEL the differenceSure but the year is 2022 and now men bring so little to the table. Couples are dual income, men are still worse at housework and childcare, and women still carry the kids. The least men can do is stay attractive and be loyal when they do so little. So nowadays it's more disrespectful that men age badly than the other way around. It means a lot to women that men don't bald or get ED. Why does a working mom need to come home to some fat bald whale who let himself go? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Women when a women expresses a preference: she can have whatever standards she wants. Women when men express a preference: he's misogynistic, insecure ect...Lol there's some context there definitely missing. I don't really care if a man wants low n count women. I care if he's a misogynist who thinks women are sex resources only good for sex who get used up the more it outputs sex. There are some men who are respectfully, unsexist-ly, into less promiscuous women and don't obsessively hate women who aren't their type. But they're not on PPD lol. On PPD those two groups are essentially a circle Also what are you on about. Men are always telling women t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 04:30 AM |
| 0 | What happens when people "give up"?This thread is very concerning. Idk if anyone needs to hear this, please don't give up on everything. There's friends, family, pets, career, hobbies, travel, good food with or without dating women. Please look after yourselves. Call a hotline if you need to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 05:13 AM |
| 1 | What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls?Are yall in the thread kidding? When men enter women dominated hobbies or past times, I rarely see people care. When women enter men dominated ones though, there is far far more hatred and sexist contempt. I've never seen that level of hatred from women when a guy wants to take yoga or do makeup or want a group of female friends. And on a whole, women are far more accommodating to gay guys who are feminine than men are to masculine women. On the other hand, I've been told to kill myself and make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Are men who follow the Manosphere and preach about women's standards even close to being one?If you're the one with a stable job and career path, is he too attached to traditional ideals of manliness to be a good stay at home dad or housekeeper? Would you want that? if you don't, I feel like bail now lol. Idk if it's red flags, but it's yellow flags for sure. This guy has a version of what he wants to be but his head's in the clouds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 10:16 PM |
| 11 | Why shouldn’t women give up on dating if you guys act like a 25 year old is elderly?looking at PPD men angrily upvoting aging women revenge fantasies like..... lol have fun with that, go be a middle aged misogynist trying to date college girls. For women with options and self esteem you're a red flag ticking time bomb waiting to ruin someone's life. your creepy ass isn't a prize. IF yall manage to convince more women that AMALT, more women would avoid dating men and we'd probably live happier and longer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 09:24 AM |
| 3 | What is the worst thing about being a woman?The thing that scares me the most really is the wave of antifeminist, extremist counterculture that makes women the target for their hatred. It's why I'm here lol, rage clickbait. But boys have a LOT more rage extremist content pushed to them than girls do, and the youtube algo drives up their chances of malding in their parents house when they should be outside meeting people and socializing during their formative years. I'd say the worst thing is seeing it affect your family. I have a brother … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 07:13 PM |
| 9 | What is the worst thing about being a man?Speaking as an Asian woman, it is also because they love their sons more than their daughters and they see women as lesser. Even though women are equally now expected to provide for their parents as men, there is still a strong preference for boys. My aunt was bullied and beaten for having a firstborn daughter by her in-laws and I've heard stories of people just dumping their newborn daughters to die of exposure in some field. We can talk about forced birth and controlling women's uteruses when … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 03:00 AM |
| 3 | Single moms are terrible at raising kids. We need to stop this culture of idolizing single moms and demonizing fathers.Certain people worship the male parent with the selfishness, money, and independence to put themself first, even if that parent abandons them or doesn't give a fuck about them. Women should copy men here. Abort, abandon, put up for adoption the kids if the dad does. Look what being selfless, nurturing and raising the kid alone gets you... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Opinion: Andrew Tate was a net positive overallI'm glad I can be the "feminism stand-in" for all your rants and strawman arguments, hope you got it out of your system. from this point on, please stop assuming my opinion in anything that I didn't directly say out loud. First of all, I deeply apologize for saying "boys should be able to call fat women ugly". What exactly did you want to CHANGE about body positivity for women then, since I apparently misinterpreted you? Btw, I never said it's only men who enforce toxic gender conformity on othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Opinion: Andrew Tate was a net positive overallI'm sorry you feel gaslit then. If you don't want to be more specific than "all of society", then you don't have to be. I didn't feel like addressing the strawman versions of "body positivity" and "toxic masculinity" because it didn't seem worth my time, but we can talk about it if you want to. How much do those things actually impact the lives of angry and lonely boys? Would calling a fat woman ugly make them less lonely and depressed? What about telling boys to never express their emotions and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 10:37 PM |
| 2 | Opinion: Andrew Tate was a net positive overallYou're going to have to be more specific than "society", do you mean society in America? Since the society you're talking about is always pro-woman and anti-men, do you mean subcultures in the country that aren't misogynist or conservative? It just sounds like you oversimplified a complicated culture around gender in a way that panders to the male ego. Just for the sake of argument, let's pretend you're right. Let's say I'm an angry, quiet, average boy with few friends and lots of insecurities, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 09:26 AM |
| 5 | Opinion: Andrew Tate was a net positive overallI disagree that anyone is loved unconditionally and your generalizations sound like hyperbole, but I will say this-- some issues affect men more than women and vice versa. For instance when I used to be depressed, no one was targeting disillusioned women like me to buy their stupid courses and hormone pills. Sure I'm a feminist, but it has nothing to do with most of my life, work or social circle. When I was lonely or bored or unhappy with my job, the youtube algo didn't send me into a rabbit ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 07:19 AM |
| 7 | South Korea’s Gender War And The Future Of Gender Relations In The Westyes, and it's all self serving, out of context bullshit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 07:45 AM |
| 1 | South Korea’s Gender War And The Future Of Gender Relations In The WestI'm full Asian and you have no clue what you're talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 01:21 AM |
| 3 | South Korea’s Gender War And The Future Of Gender Relations In The WestHahaha yeah we would never | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 01:12 AM |
| 10 | South Korea’s Gender War And The Future Of Gender Relations In The WestThis is hilarious to me as an Asian woman - this guy has literally no idea what he's talking about and is leaving out a whole lot of context. The incel boys over there don't just expect a submissive Asian waifu, they expect her to work full time, birth and parent kids, suck up to the in laws, do all the cooking and cleaning, and still look young and pretty at the end of all of it. All the while male favoritism and domestic violence against women in Asian cultures are sky high. You cropped all of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Why would people attracted to the Red Pill philosophy listen to you when you claim it doesn't work?Here's the truth that EVERYBODY knows and I'm just gonna say it. An average looking, basic, boring man could get a similar woman to commit, but he will never attract enough women naturally to be a fuckboy. Practically almost never. So if your goal in life is getting puss and you're an average looking and boring man with low charisma, we all know that you'll probably have to lie and cheat and manipulate. You pressure drunk college girls at parties, you tell the gullible teenager she's sooo mature… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 04:32 AM |
| 1 | The traits men want in a DAUGHTER vs WIFEI'll give you the benefit of the doubt that you're from some upper middle class or rich boomer background where women lazing around was common so you think that way. and not because you're intentionally trying to dismiss and demean women and their domestic labor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 09:02 AM |
| 2 | The traits men want in a DAUGHTER vs WIFEThis comment explains perfectly that even though I would like a stay at home husband, I don't trust most guys to actually do it properly. They really think that working or middle class stay at home moms are sitting on their asses doing nothing. House, dishes and laundry stay clean, groceries get stocked, dinner gets made, kids are fed and driven around and attended to, all by fairy magic I guess. ^ most men think like this, don't they? Really serves to show women to never give up your job becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 09:29 AM |
| 1 | American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.You're the one literally following my comment history being all hissy and catty.. so yeah. That's gonna be a block | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 07:52 AM |
| 4 | American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.you're one weird little edgy kid. Go do your high school homework. I hope you're not an actual adult, that would be just sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:36 AM |
| 4 | American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.No ones talking about a normal immigrant who marries someone abroad, we're talking about the special kind of weirdo who hates all "Western women" or "American women" or "women with education, money and options who don't want to fuck me or kiss my ass" etc etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat womenSo that's why you're inventing narratives and shoving it into other peoples mouths lol. Me or random rich celebs or the universe don't revolve around the MRA male victimhood complex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:23 AM |
| 4 | American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.Lol are you going through my account history? I must've really pissed you off hf fam it's kind of a rabbit hole | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat womenNow you're just making up things I said. if you want to talk to yourself and circlejerk feel free, I don't give a fuck lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 04:08 AM |
| 10 | American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.Sounds like the words of a bitter, pissy woman hating twat from the manosphere. If our lives are peaceful and we make decent money, why do we need someone like you to come in and make us miserable? We don't give a fuck lol. Good riddance to the men who need economic coercion for women to pretend to like them. have fun on your trip abroad buddy and get outta here lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat womenWhy do reddit neckbeards care so much about this middle aged pedo sympathizer who had a history of assault and property damage, paid hush money for a voicemail where he said the n word, and let guys in their mid 20s "date" his 15 year old daughter? Where did I bring up Amber? You're obviously projecting and giving Depp a pass for being a drunk, stoned, violent manchild with poor work ethic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat womenpoor baby manchild needs to stop showing up to work drunk or stoned, and assaulting crew members then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 08:40 AM |
| 5 | Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat womenWhen did that happen? Depp was still in fantastic beasts despite the rumor he beat his ex wife. Movie studios says he lost gigs because he was drunk, forgetting lines, and assaulting crew not because of DV rumors | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 09:05 PM |
| 7 | Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat womenI refuse to believe men never get indirect communication. Sometimes that's the case, but shouldn't it be basic social intelligence that if someone is too busy to hang out every time you ask, they are politely trying to avoid you? Both for guy friends and for relationships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Great article about the cognitive dissonance of what women are looking for in datingthis is definitely the manly, unemotional, logical response to someone pointing out the issues with an article 5 whole days ago LOL ok whatever makes you feel better, salty. I'm one fat unfuckable 50 year old feminist with an army with cats, hope that makes you feel better <3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Women here, what advice would you give to your sons going into dating?You might get pressured by society into trying to match with everyone, be everyone's friend or thirst magnet, but that's not a sustainable or possible way to live for 99% of men. All interpersonal relationships are more or less the same, is there chemistry, mutual benefit and is that friend/girlfriend/boyfriend a good match for you. If my kid would froth at the mouth that a girl (or boy) turns down his sexual advances, but be understanding that a coworker doesn't want to shoot the shit after wor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 06:27 AM |
| 1 | I understand the hate towards menbruh you literally called suicide attempters attention seekers... plus where did I say "attempted suicide" is where women are so oppressed compared to men? Maybe you're confusing me with someone else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 04:36 AM |
| 1 | I understand the hate towards men? when men talk about suicide, I don't see lots of women jumping in to trivialize it. But when women talk about suicide, guys be piling out the door trying to invalidate our experiences and diverting the topic to men In the words of Wanda, that doesn't seem fair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 11:07 PM |
| 1 | I understand the hate towards menEven hypothetically, if all suicidal women preferred jumping into incoming subway trains and succeeded, wouldn't some men on reddit still minimize it in some way and call it invalid for some reason? Womens' suffering wherever they see it might not suit their male martyr worldview. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 09:43 AM |
| 0 | I understand the hate towards menofc sweetie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 08:57 AM |
| 0 | I understand the hate towards menYes, women never have it tough and you're the world's biggest bestest sad boi ever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 08:54 AM |
| 1 | I understand the hate towards menIt is so weird to me that some men who have issues dating also have their entire worldviews warped on men being the world's most pitiable martyrs. Everything is about them and they can't admit where women have it tough too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 08:40 AM |
| 1 | I understand the hate towards menIf a man posts a pic of a gun on facebook along with some text about being suicidal, would you call that guy an attention seeker? How is that situation different than a depressed woman posting pics of her cutting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Most men that aren't having sex are otherwise fairly normal dudes, not women hating misogynists like reddit and society would lead you to believeI'm so sorry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Great article about the cognitive dissonance of what women are looking for in datingHahaha sure. I'm sure none of you actually looked at the "studies" referenced in this idiot's blog post. It's barely passable fanfic, not exactly peer reviewed science lol but if it confirms their misogyny I doubt guys here will actually check the sources. Yes, the constantly rejected incels on PPD are right, women don't know what we want. You should listen to them instead of us. Please be as edgy and and whiny and self centered as you can be on dating apps. Open with a neg. Call the girl fat. W… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 06:01 AM |
| 2 | Most men that aren't having sex are otherwise fairly normal dudes, not women hating misogynists like reddit and society would lead you to believeI'm trying real hard to be offended, but all I'm managing is secondhand sadness. I really hope you're a troll, because it's kinda icky imagining an actual adult in his mid 20s who says shit like this unironically. I can almost smell the used tissues, takeout boxes, and mountain dew from here... In the off chance you are real, I'm so sorry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Most men that aren't having sex are otherwise fairly normal dudes, not women hating misogynists like reddit and society would lead you to believe"Whenever I talk to young women these days it honestly boggles my mind how much these shallow and ignorant creatures are showered with so much fucking attention and how these creatures can dismiss you so easily because of things like height despite everything else about you being great." ~ Exciting-Necessary-5, 25 Aug 2022 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Most men that aren't having sex are otherwise fairly normal dudes, not women hating misogynists like reddit and society would lead you to believeLol yea, people in software esp need more socialization. some software developers are at heart sourpuss loner lazy introverts and need to smack themselves to leave the house. And own up to being responsible for their own shitty situation. speaking for myself in particular | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Most men that aren't having sex are otherwise fairly normal dudes, not women hating misogynists like reddit and society would lead you to believeYou should stop speaking for all men, not all men are as hateful, sexist, and toxic as you and believe the same things you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 08:25 AM |
| 2 | Most men that aren't having sex are otherwise fairly normal dudes, not women hating misogynists like reddit and society would lead you to believeI'm also a software engineer and a woman. I'm not sure why you're crowing about yourself like it's hard. It's really not at most companies, and we're not high value just because we have upper middle class income. 100-200k is hardly that much gold to dig esp when the guy is a sexist antisocial asshole who makes women miserable. I know some antisocial guys in software who can't make friends or relationships because of their salty whiny personality/lack of social skills, and go down a rabbit hole o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 08:21 AM |
| 6 | Hypergamy exists - and it will get worseHow is any of this new? This type of "hypergamy" exists for casual sex for sure, because horny men outnumber horny women. Is this a hot new take? It seems like certain men will still seethe over the idea of horny slutty women, they'd do so regardless if they only number 20% or 10% or 5% of all women. Is it a shocker that some women are sexual creatures looking out for their own self interest, and why does it stress some guys out so much? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Men should shoot their shot. Always. Sorry if that makes you uncomfortable, women.Good for you? So do I, I'm Asian American. Does your "misogyny is over" take only apply to specific cross sections of society so you can construct your MRA narrative? Does everything inconvenient gets invalidated? It seems exhausting for someone to put effort to creating this narrative. If you have a kneejerk dislike for our perspectives and struggles, you don't have to date us. You don't have to want women and that's totally fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 05:40 AM |
| 2 | Men should shoot their shot. Always. Sorry if that makes you uncomfortable, women.I'm from an Asian culture where sexism and domestic abuse against women are rampant, and boys are favored over girls. I've seen my dad hit my mom and how little he respects her opinion. I've seen relatives shun other relatives and treat them like dirt because she wasn't a virgin at marriage. I've seen them bully women until they get pregnant with a son. I've seen relatives who work full time and split 50/50 and are still domestic housemaids when they get home. I know what misogyny looks like. Yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Men should shoot their shot. Always. Sorry if that makes you uncomfortable, women.You want that to be true, but it's not. you have no idea how it is like being a woman and how society tries to reduce us into objects with no agency. Being talked down to at work, having your own agency and ambitions constantly downplayed, getting double standard slutshamed, being made to do chores that all the men in the family ignore, being ignored by dad because you're not his mini me, hearing what men really think about women in male dominated spaces (bragging about how much they disrespect … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Should cheaters be automatically dumped?Is the woman mentally disabled and unable to understand him communicating "I want a divorce from this sexless marriage"? If not, maybe he should try that first before being a lying insecure coward who blames others for his own shitty life choices | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 08:13 AM |
| 7 | Men should shoot their shot. Always. Sorry if that makes you uncomfortable, women.I'm pretty normal now so I think I'd be a normal man. at least in the states normal men have a social life, treat women as people, have some sexist biases but aren't malicious or cruel about it and are open to change. I don't think most men are "losers" and if someone thinks they are one, it's on them to make some changes in their life and be self aware and not blame others for everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 07:41 AM |
| 3 | Men should shoot their shot. Always. Sorry if that makes you uncomfortable, women.Lol yeah you got real pissy about it earlier... just saying, dude relax. Only women get overemotional amirite | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 04:43 AM |
| 2 | Should cheaters be automatically dumped?lol where did I shoot the messenger? I didn't go after you in any way. if you're feeling attacked somehow, we don't have to continue this conversation then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 04:34 AM |
| 33 | Men should shoot their shot. Always. Sorry if that makes you uncomfortable, women.the average redpill or incel guy on PPD is a sexist woman hating ass who lacks self awareness. He is antisocial and unhappy outside of dating but blames women for his general state of misery. if he is extreme he's a danger to our safety. before he is deprogrammed by having a social life, coed hobbies and can see women as people, telling him he needs to cold approach and put women in his warpath is a bad idea. that's the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 12:28 AM |
| 11 | Should cheaters be automatically dumped?The first guy is a liar who can't communicate relationship issues and is too weak/insecure to leave, and the second is a liar who has no respect at all for you or relationships in general. Not sure whether the 2 reasons matter, both cheaters suck, so why not just dump in either case? In either case it's so much better being stress free and single, and you can always find someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 12:06 AM |
| 49 | Men should shoot their shot. Always. Sorry if that makes you uncomfortable, women.Dude, know your audience. If you were talking to a typical crowd of normal, socially intelligent, empathetic men, I would say sure good message and good luck, as long as they try not to cross anyone's boundaries or put others in a weird spot at work or be so pushy they're uncomfortable, etc. But no this is PPD. Half the guys here have some amount of low to high grade sexism and resentment towards women and think their sex life is everyone else's highest priority. If you push them into shooting t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 11:50 PM |
| 7 | Men should shoot their shot. Always. Sorry if that makes you uncomfortable, women.You advocated for men not worrying about women's comfort when being pursued, so why should women worry about men's comfort when they're pursuing? If you don't care about ours, why should we care about yours no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 11:24 PM |
| 7 | Men should shoot their shot. Always. Sorry if that makes you uncomfortable, women.you got defensive real quick, did you feel personally attacked? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 11:13 PM |
| 3 | Do most men lack basic decency?if you're using traveling all over the world, you probably were in a lot of countries where that is how women are "supposed" to act - demure, play hard to get, allow you to take all the initiative, you should pay for everything, traditional, etc. Well, you need to date men as a woman to find out. The amount of extra domestic labor, main character syndrome, lack of respect for your boundaries and career, and assumption that we're incompetent by default in most things, is really not worth the $20 … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 07:18 PM |
| 3 | Men should shoot their shot. Always. Sorry if that makes you uncomfortable, women.you're literally proving her point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 06:26 PM |
| 3 | No guy wants to be "husband material" over "hookup material"Why are you ignoring that that guy's girlfriend probably also invested significant time, effort, attention to him as well? She invested a lot into that relationship, assuming it wasn't some entirely single sided thing, and not only is her man likely not chaste and pure like he expects her to be, he's also self obsessed and and doesn't give a damn about her companionship other than sex. again, insecurities are valid whether they come from relationships with our friends, family, coworkers or partn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather have a loving husband? Or guaranted 2,000 USD a month for the next 18 years?Can I get more than one for variety? huh it's kind of sad these hypothetical husbands earn on average -$5k a year on top of the $24k opportunity cost. are they working for some kind of MLM? Well, since they're not contributing anything to the household income besides expenses and a negative salary, can I assume they will be house husbands and do all the domestic labor for me? I hate scrubbing toilets and cleaning bathrooms, I'll take 5. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 04:31 AM |
| 3 | Thoughts on stay at home dads?Or likely because many men don't respect women period and won't take up childcare or domestic labor because they think it's "demeaning" work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Women really dislike autistic menHmm. Well I'm really done with snarky reddit edgelords trying to get the last word, let's save ourselves some time and block each other lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Women really dislike autistic menYes, it is? not sure what point you're trying to make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Women really dislike autistic menon the surface level, things are better sure but that's because we've taught people to lie and keep the sexism out of the view of most women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Women really dislike autistic menLots of men fake being woke or at least normal, then mask off when in front of other dudes or "cool girls". had guy friends who felt too comfortable and started saying that shit with me there. They don't actually care about being a sexist pos, they only care if it hurts their chances of being laid. it's all an act | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Women really dislike autistic mensaying hypothetically if we wanted to directly intervene. didn't mean to imply it's something you thought | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Women really dislike autistic mengot a lot of male dominated hobbies, work in a male dominated industry, etc. Very used to guys hating on women invading "their" space and flexing about disrespecting all the women in their lives | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 09:29 AM |
| 4 | Women really dislike autistic menPeople should help them by offering affordable mental health services and a reasonable social safety net, but making friends and finding romance is our own responsibility. it just feels sad for governments to send free escorts and fake friends to autistic people's houses, yikes right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 12:40 AM |
| 4 | Women really dislike autistic menyes, we know that once behind closed doors where there's few or no women, a lot of men start shittalking women to act cool and stop their whole woke act. But clumsy and awkward guys can think the same way about women, they can be just as sexist plus extra resentful because they are denied easy targets. They might even find pill communities and lash out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 09:43 PM |
| 9 | Being "a good listener" made me prone to being 'friend zoned'Then stop investing so much time into a friendship you're faking, straight up ask them out and if they say no, leave if you don't value the friendship. You're wasting everyone's time by doing what you're doing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 06:36 PM |
| 6 | Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do?No chores at all. If I'm making all the money I'm wearing the pants. He's the house husband, he should be barefoot at home in a skimpy maid outfit and a warm meal ready the second I walk through the door, leaving dirty footprints from my coal miner boots. The 2.5 kids we raised together will keep a respectful distance and speak only when spoken to. I barely remember their names and largely ignore their attempts to talk to me over dinner. I leave my dirty plate and utensils without washing up and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 08:48 AM |
| -2 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.but the small ones are cuter though.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 09:57 PM |
| -1 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.I agree 100%, penis shaming is body shaming. There are other ways to say a man has hangups about their masculinity Tbf everyone needs to get on the same page with this. Both men and women can get real immature about someone's dick size, first of all isn't it the same as fatshaming and second of all mind yalls business, its someone else's naked body and don't be creepy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 09:46 PM |
| 1 | What issues do you actually feel for women about?no such thing as abusers with power? Dude cmon #metoo was an absolute failure. All of the men you listed still have their careers and lives and riches regardless of the accusations. How many rich famous men had their lives destroyed by provably fake stories? how short is that list? The conclusion of #metoo was people on Twitter and TV got mad for a bit and promptly forgot about everything and the hollywood predators who went after countless young women and men got off scott free. you can even st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 04:25 AM |
| 1 | What issues do you actually feel for women about?seems like you know a lot of trashy people, rapey men and toxic wallet stealing women. that's messed up seriously, are you sure you're okay? I hope you get some closure for the creepy shit you went through, if you need it, because it sounds pretty fucked up. I'd have trust issues too if it were me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 09:52 PM |
| 1 | What issues do you actually feel for women about?I didn't even know Bieber was accused of sexual abuse, and I doubt most Americans not on Twitter keep up with sex scandals. you're heavily overstating the power of women to be believed, we really don't get believed often. If the story shows we're flat out lying, true crime Twitter will be fact checking. If the story sounds plausible, the average man is pretty sexist and doesn't believe women over men if all things were equal, and the average woman has pretty bad internalized misogyny and doesn't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 07:32 PM |
| 1 | What issues do you actually feel for women about?Wow. I'm worried more about you being drugged and having your butt fingered nonconsensually, it's up to you how you feel about it but maybe you should be telling the police? At least a therapist? again, it's your life and you can worry about one thing over another and that's your business not mine. yikes to the drugging and stealing and sexual assault though. Sorry to hear about that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 07:37 AM |
| 2 | What issues do you actually feel for women about?if you prefer being raped to being falsely accused of rape, that's really a you thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 05:12 AM |
| 2 | What issues do you actually feel for women about?Wasting police time is already criminalized. sure you can make it a more severe punishment, but remember you too can be a victim of rape. unfortunately for your revenge fantasy the law won't be specifying "female accusers only", it'll affect all potential victims the same. lol what if it was you, your friend, or your son who got raped by a creepy uncle or boss or priest, and then law enforcement thinks your case sounds iffy and throws yall in jail instead of the actual rapist. Wouldn't that be a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 05:10 AM |
| 0 | What issues do you actually feel for women about?Even if you're a man, there is a higher likelihood that YOU will be sexually assaulted than you will be the victim of a false sexual assault accusation. Your creating an environment where victims are more afraid of being mocked and not believed, is worse for you personally. Got sexually assaulted by a pedo priest or creepy uncle? must be seeking attention or hush money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 06:39 PM |
| 0 | No "issues" presented by TRP are solvable without also compromising the idea that women deserve equal rights to men.Lol child support is enforced zealously? Most men don't pay and all they need to do to avoid paying is run off to a state that won't enforce it. Dads fully paying child support is a rare exception. Women pay child support more reliably than men do Yes, women love having kids when the man isn't there, poverty with kids is fantastic. They must be planning for all that to happen, it definitely can't be men abandoning their family after originally planning to help. Women are to blame if the dads suc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 12:25 AM |
| 3 | No "issues" presented by TRP are solvable without also compromising the idea that women deserve equal rights to men.yes, the data shows men in poverty abandon their kids but women in poverty do not. single dads would be richer than single moms because they are fairweather fathers - only responsible for their children when they have the resources for it to be easy. which is why more single moms should just abandon their kids as well if they're poor. the burden of kids is huge when you're already poor, and society actively teaches their own kids and misogynist reddit manbabies not to respect single motherhood. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 08:51 AM |
| 2 | How Long is Too Long to Wait For Sex?I'm actually curious, how long does it take for most lying fuckboy wannabes to give up? will they wait 2 or 3 months, dating and texting a girl, before they ghost after sex? can I filter them out if I say the only sex I want is pegging only? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 06:19 AM |
| 2 | Women often like guys who treat them as disposableI see plenty stupid men simps losing their self respect and enjoying being treated like trash. plenty of guys get off on being treated like dirt by the prettiest girls on insta and being her eighth in line and would let her step on their balls if she dangles just a tiny bit of hope she'll fuck them. and they'll pick that any day over a solid boring relationship with an average girl. PPD gives no fucks though, girls simping blows their mind while boys simping is just another friday. Yall only wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 10:43 PM |
| – | Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively datingasking to see some genuine attraction is how women protect ourselves, because male attention is not respect, connection, empathy, compatibility, or even attraction. as PPD men tell us all the time, most men are horny and misogynist and insecure, they could hate our entire gender and us as individuals even find us unattractive, yet still want to fuck just for clout. look at this comment section of horny weirdos, come on. Do you think we enjoy painful pleasureless sex with someone who might hate u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 10:09 PM |
| 1 | since these tend to be the declared "goals" of most men and women on this subreddit what are the best ways for women to lock a down a "good partner" and for men to get more access to sex.lol making my point... maybe this is why you're on reddit so often lol. just too annoying irl :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 06:24 AM |
| -1 | since these tend to be the declared "goals" of most men and women on this subreddit what are the best ways for women to lock a down a "good partner" and for men to get more access to sex.Yikes, if you're a grown adult and not a teenager, I feel so bad for the people you know in real life. you must be so immature and annoying to talk to. maybe they just tolerate you? I mean, if you're this intolerable in person, people probably could barely stand you... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 06:00 AM |
| 3 | Straight Women will judge the ways a guy asks them out, but only because they never have to do the asking out part.ya, agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 01:49 AM |
| 0 | since these tend to be the declared "goals" of most men and women on this subreddit what are the best ways for women to lock a down a "good partner" and for men to get more access to sex.best man = double standard slut shamer, cares about looks the most over personality, smol fragile male ego can't handle women smarter or better than him Haha if the "best men" are that pathetic, I'll take the lesbian commune lol. thank god I'm bi :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 01:35 AM |
| 3 | Straight Women will judge the ways a guy asks them out, but only because they never have to do the asking out part.oh I mean people in general, don't be gross or whiny. not you in particular lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 01:27 AM |
| -1 | since these tend to be the declared "goals" of most men and women on this subreddit what are the best ways for women to lock a down a "good partner" and for men to get more access to sex.FTFY For women: get a great high paying job, go travel, avoid sexist whiny little men who think womens lives, personalities and looks should revolve around their erections and smol egos, if you want a kid get IVF, join a women only lesbian commune... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 09:03 PM |
| 3 | Straight Women will judge the ways a guy asks them out, but only because they never have to do the asking out part.well I do kind of agree, lots of women don't know how to ask out strangers. but imo most women will initiate hanging out 1 on 1 with guys they truly like, usually after knowing them in the same friend group. If you are lazy like me and want others to do the asking for you, find a coed group of friends and be fun, comfortable to be around, and not gross and whiny lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 07:33 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is a average guys "league" when skinny and plus sized women play on the same level playing field?Is there something about you that keeps you from finding a girl who is similar to you looks wise? Shitty personality, no interesting hobbies, antisocial, not meeting new people but still blaming women for not showing up to your doorstep? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Women here love to say that their privilege is limited to casual sex, but access to relationships and casual sex are two sides of the same coini do, I don't see women saying anything about men being worthless, subpar, biologically and morally inferior. Also go look at vague gender generalizations in any male dominated sub, they're so much more sexist than 2x. Men say that shit way more often and more seriously than women do, so again it's PPD projection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Chad is a low-value man whorethe slutshaming double standard only works as long as you think you have options, and now men can no longer coast on having society artificially enforce their socioeconomic superiority. so good luck to all you boys throwing hissy fits about it in the comments. Yes, men should totally aspire to be that high school has-been working a dead end job in their 30s who the girls never text or call back after hooking up. I know a couple low value fuckboys from HS like that. At least they're still cute no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 06:08 PM |
| 0 | Women here love to say that their privilege is limited to casual sex, but access to relationships and casual sex are two sides of the same coinI haven't really seen many women saying all men are worthless and subpar, this seems like some kind of projection about how the manosphere treats women. I haven't noticed other women telling me dead seriously that men are biologically and morally inferior and are stupid sluts who need to be oppressed socially, politically, and economically for society to function properly. Sure we should pile on women who are truly serious about that... but it's not really common or influential so society focuse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 05:56 AM |
| -2 | Women here love to say that their privilege is limited to casual sex, but access to relationships and casual sex are two sides of the same coinMen were never forbidden to complain about issues related to their gender, on the contrary, society is normalizing men seeking help and sharing their emotions and problems. People criticize when they bring sexism and entitlement into it, not the issues themselves. And people lose sympathy when someone in a tough spot starts acting i.e. sexist, racist, like a choosing beggar, etc. That's what incels are doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Avoiding CC and post-CC women is a matter of common sensenever said he was an incel, just that he was using their language | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 05:13 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Why do women care so much when a man prefers inexperienced/virgin women?That's back in the day lol, when women didn't have jobs or many options and attracting a man was all that defined them. The whole "key and lock" thing only makes sense when the lock's job is to be opened for only one key and that's its life purpose. But now everyone is a "key". I don't think men understand that there's a lot of loser men out there who peaked in HS, are working dead end jobs so they're not dating material, but are okay for a casual fuck until their mid 30s and the girls usually g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 05:11 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Why do women care so much when a man prefers inexperienced/virgin women?I actually don't mind it when men are hypocrites about promiscuity. No one needs to date a clone of themselves, just don't be sexist, shitty about it, make grand generalizations about gender and treat everyone with respect. However a lot of the same guys freak out and lose their shit whenever a woman has different standards for men than what she has for herself. It seems like they just want to have their insecurities justified while mowing down everyone else's standards and boundaries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 04:38 AM |
| 1 | The elephant in the room that women have attempted to get us to ignore: women are not attracted to genuinely nice guyswhen you're ugly inside and out, and don't want to change - yup blackpill confirmed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 08:31 AM |
| 54 | The elephant in the room that women have attempted to get us to ignore: women are not attracted to genuinely nice guysit's almost as if physical attractiveness is the real deciding factor lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 05:59 AM |
| 0 | Avoiding CC and post-CC women is a matter of common senseI don't mind virgins at all. it's kind of cute and i personally have an innocence kink. Incels aren't just virgins lol they're salty, bitter, sexists who hate and blame women for their lack of a sex life because they're the easier target than other men who they have to compete with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Avoiding CC and post-CC women is a matter of common sense"cock carousel", Chad, stacy, obsession with other people's sex lives, it's all incel dogwhistling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 05:54 AM |
| 4 | Avoiding CC and post-CC women is a matter of common senseIt's normal to have preferences with women for sexual history and habits, but the bitter incel rhetoric is pretty off putting. you aren't special you know, literally everyone has insecurities and doesn't want to be used it sucks that "people don't change, people can't change" because you and your incelspeak is really not appealing to anyone right now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 09:56 PM |
| 3 | Women flex way more than men.I'm just saying the other way around is my experience, but it's probably the crowd you hang around that makes you think that way. I know a lot more higher achieving girls (nerds who went to compsci, engineering, law or med school) and less guys... and the guys flex more but have a mild aneurysm when their gf's achievements are brought up. but just anecdotal, really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 09:28 PM |
| 5 | Women flex way more than men.It sounds like the men you know are flexing over your flex, if you know what I mean. It sounds like they all have big egos. Like I would go on a date with a guy and can't get a word in edgewise because their bragging or unsolicited life story takes up 90% of the conversation. If they ask me anything about my hobbies or job, it's only to try to one up me and nitpick what I did. Women flexing, even when he asked and wanted to know, literally triggered him Guys are probably like that to each other … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 09:17 PM |
| 3 | Why do women push back so hard on the notion that dating may be easier for them?Just because it's illegal, it doesn't mean it doesn't happen. coworkers don't always share their salaries with each other. So men should never be expected to equally share domestic labor and childcare? And career women are "children" for expecting equality in the domestic sphere? Interesting double standard. Then why do women with careers need to waste their time with you lot then? Seems like you'd add more stress to our lives and make us miserable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Why do women push back so hard on the notion that dating may be easier for them?The gender pay gap is mostly from 2 things: 1) men are assumed to be more competent even when resumes are identical, and are offered higher starting salary, 2) esp after there are kids, men start shafting women with all the childcare and domestic labor, and women who have careers suffer at work and need to work less hours and become less productive. Which is why we should have equal maternity and paternity leave so that men can actually bond with their children and workplaces will stop discrimin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Women with dating apps, how often do you match with top 5% of meni'm very average lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 05:05 PM |
| -1 | Women with dating apps, how often do you match with top 5% of menthat's an incel fantasy lol, and I'm not trying to end up on tinder swindler. I date in my league like most people who are self aware of their own attractiveness. Not that the incels will listen to this, they're busy cherrypicking data and angrily screeching about their victimhood complex into the void as usual | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 07:36 AM |
| -1 | How are people supposed to find partners?Clearly, a lost cause... try "females" of a different species then, please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 12:32 AM |
| 1 | How are people supposed to find partners?people aren't stupid, we can see the subtext when you say "men" a bunch and then "the feMaLes" for women. it makes a distinction between your attitude towards one gender over another and it's obvious incel dogwhistling. A pretty big fucking red flag just stop trying to date women yall, some of you are too far gone to be fixed for a mutually loving relationship. Even having a history of being this stupid, sexist and hateful is enough to send most women running | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 05:20 PM |
| 0 | How are people supposed to find partners?I'm just pointing out that if you can't stop yourself from doing /r/menandfemales all day long while people are directly telling you that you have a problem, you might be a lost cause. Have you considered just not dating the "females"? Men like you might not even truly enjoy being around women, if you don't mind showing a lack of respect towards and clinical detachment from them. There are hobbies, pets, careers, fulfilling things to do... so if you don't like women, don't date women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 02:00 AM |
| 0 | How are people supposed to find partners?It might be easier to give up on the "females" then. If you feel this much detachment from women as people and irritation towards them, it's probably best to leave us alone. You would be miserable with someone you don't truly respect, and that someone would be miserable with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 08:33 PM |
| 0 | How are people supposed to find partners?After reading the comments, I don't think many of you care that much or want to spend much effort on meeting women. You want to do it over sausagefest apps, not leave your current social circle, succeed with completely random strangers, and if you joined a coed sports team or hobby or new friend group, you'd probably expect pussy immediately within the first week of showing up. If you have a shrinking and small social circle of guy friends and aren't doing any work to fix that, do you blame the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 05:20 PM |
| 0 | This sub is toxic for women (as well as men)It kinda opens your mind to see how a lot of men see women. You realize many guys feel subconsciously superior, more important and capable than women, can't empathize with us, and use women for their self image and confidence issues. All that plus rejected horniness makes them incredibly resentful. It's hard to tell how many men are like this exactly, 90% of male friendships I've had imploded after realizing their ulterior motives or mild sexism. The only good guy friends I've had are hippie sto… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for menok.... most well adjusted men with coed friend group and hobbies, you smarmy little nitpicker | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for menanecdotal evidence huh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 05:46 AM |
| 2 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesI don't think most men who bring it up are serious about the "implication". They bring it up to just to get attention and then lash out at people sympathizing or offering polite advice. I sort of get it, if someone in my family got into a car accident, I might spend some time thinking that life was so unfair and being alone, depressed, and lashing out even at well meaning people. For both cases, most strangers don't truly know how you feel and can't help you and blaming them for your circumstanc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for menLike where? wasn't in his post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for menWhat do we not get? we understand that it really is super duper, mindblowingly, horribly catastrophically impossible for certain guys to succeed in dating. Has the pity or sympathy helped any yet? We agree every time and say a bunch of polite general advice, what more do you want from us? Do you have that annoying friend in real life who was dealt a tough hand to be fair, but just won't shut up about it, keeps racking up sympathy points, and brings up the same shit every single time you see him?… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 04:32 AM |
| 5 | Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for menIf the person complaining about a dating app is a normal and self aware person who didn't become a sexist piece of shit, I do have sympathy. But like other women said, what can our sympathy accomplish? This post goes up like 10 times a week and it doesn't seem to have changed anything. You don't get closure, women don't start fucking men for charity or pity, and you post this again next week. As a society I think we have a lot of introverts or ambiverts sitting at home and losing their sanity. W… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps make misogynist menI think we also know the abundance is an illusion. We know if we're average looking ourselves, who is a good fit and who is a catfish. Plus the older you get, the more you avoid red flags, look for long term compatibility, have a certain type, feel less "adventurous". By now I know Christian conservatives, artists, gym bros, etc are just not it for me, when I was younger I tried it out of curiosity or boredom. it does seem like marketing. in the sense that generally some want mass market appeal … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 06:25 PM |
| 8 | Dating apps make misogynist menMost of the guys on the apps really aren't bad. TBH I think society pressures women to get married and it actually causes some kind of reverse psychology, makes it feel like a job and you end up wanting to procrastinate it. Men flooding us with matches also makes it feel like we have all the time in world to procrastinate choosing a relationship. IDK, can other women relate? As a chronically lazy procrastinator, I talk myself out of some matches because I imagine 20 years in the future us being … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 05:22 AM |
| 2 | If the bar for men is low, the bar for women is even lower.It's hard to hear but people don't want to plan long term with men or women who do not have their shit together, just coasts, sits around doing nothing all day, has no job or car or home, and not going to school. Sucks but people need to look out for themselves. If you're cute and have no red flags, the casual sex crowd probably don't care? Any actual statistical evidence for a gender difference for this trend? I'd like to know in the general population, not the antisocial incel-leaning reddit c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 08:40 PM |
| 2 | What does a red pilled woman get out of the ideology?Huge chunk of them are probably bots and LARPers, and maybe a few people with a lot of internalized misogyny, and that one girl who has Jordan Peterson as her father | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 06:12 AM |
| 13 | Women don't have to accomplish anything in life because they could always live off a manmany men don't notice the women doing normal 9 to 5 shit just like them, are yall just following insta models and influencers? this is what happens when you only pay attention to women with your penis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 08:27 AM |
| 2 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadI would settle for men being forced to donate blood and organs to pay for child support. Most deadbeat dads don't pay anyway, win win situation for everyone and their lack of bodily autonomy. Refusing would get same criminal punishment as abortion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 10:38 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of single men who used surrogacy to have children without a wife?aww so sorry, didn't mean to be rude. sorry you interpreted things that way but I got nothing against "all men" lmk if they make any femboy robowaifus. I would preorder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 01:42 AM |
| 0 | What do you think of single men who used surrogacy to have children without a wife?never said it was all men, I was pretty specific. sure whatever you whiny ass troll | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 10:20 PM |
| 0 | What do you think of single men who used surrogacy to have children without a wife?kids will still hate a shitty selfish rich dad who spends no time or effort on them and passes them off to family members and won't do shit for them when times get tough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 09:35 PM |
| 1 | So what is being the pillo sphere view of this jonny depp amber herd thing im wondering??You're still ignoring JD's inconvenient history of jealousy, paranoia, creepy behavior like writing bloody messages and mentioning wanting to murder/rape his wife, history of intimidation and property damage, impulsive violence, audio transcripts where AH mentions him beating him and putting cigs out on her and he just waltzes right past it without challenging it as if it really wasn't a random absurd allegation. I'm sure it's cathartic to see a possibly abusive woman to be put down like this, b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 09:21 PM |
| 0 | So what is being the pillo sphere view of this jonny depp amber herd thing im wondering??That story about her abusing her ex was misinformation spread by reddit. The timeline of when Amber became toxic lines up with her story of suffering physical abuse for years and lashing out from years of it. In phone calls, she mentions him putting cigarettes out on her and beating her, he just has zero reaction to the accusation, he accepts it and continues with the conversation. Reddit would prefer believing a 22year old girl plotted half a decade of fake abuse, fake photos, fake bruises, fak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 04:06 AM |
| 3 | So what is being the pillo sphere view of this jonny depp amber herd thing im wondering??Yeah, her inconsistencies on the stand was muchhh worse perjury than Depp making up these fake ass stories about his finger injury and spinning tall tales about AH and her friends trashing rooms to create a hoax and getting the media involved. how dare she pledge money on a payment plan, and pause them after her ex came after her with frivolous lawsuits? What a huge fucking bitch. I see that the edited MRA version of the audio transcript of her "taunting men about how nobody will believe them" i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 02:57 AM |
| 0 | is it realistic to expect men to just be confident if they have faced a lifetime of rejection and isolation?Do those men have friends both male and female, a good social life, normal amount of self esteem? all of that usually come with having at least one or two relationships by your mid 20s. It sounds like this question is more about fixing social anxiety in general, to be confident in both your friendships and romantic relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 10:17 PM |
| -1 | So what is being the pillo sphere view of this jonny depp amber herd thing im wondering??I've heard that same argument from my dad dislocating my mom's jaw after clocking her in her face. "Why are you on her side?? She shoved me after!! it was mutual abuse!! I'm the real victim here!!" Yeah lol, telling us about the abuse is manipulation. she should just stfu, never lash out, never try to get sympathy, politely ask JD if she could leave him safely, and suck it up like a good little girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 09:07 PM |
| 5 | So what is being the pillo sphere view of this jonny depp amber herd thing im wondering??It marks the end of MeToo. It's already rare that a woman would be believed about being sexually assaulted or receiving DV from a man without plenty of evidence or similar victims coming forward. Now any woman who has evidence of DV will be an Amber Heard. Men can just say you're a mastermind faking bruises, photoshopping pictures, and getting witnesses to lie for years, even when you're a naive 22 year old dating a much older more powerful man. Society has always preferred the smug looking, cha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 05:31 PM |
| 1 | CMV: women do not "set up" male friends with other women unless he meets a certain attraction thresholdLol, sure you don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 05:34 AM |
| 5 | CMV: women do not "set up" male friends with other women unless he meets a certain attraction thresholdAnd I know guy friends who've tried to wingman and set me up with their unattractive, quiet, doesn't talk to girls, friends. some people are just shitty matchmakers. some people just want their friend to touch some grass. I don't get super offended by their attempts and overgeneralize and get all sexist and bitchy about it like you're doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 06:06 PM |
| 1 | One of the biggest reasons men will continue to struggle with women.Saying it's full of sexist men doesn't mean literally every man here is a sexist incel but you read it that way, got super butthurt and condescending, and started bitching about it on your soapbox. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 09:51 AM |
| 2 | One of the biggest reasons men will continue to struggle with women.Lying about your sexual history to your partner is disrespectful and manipulative she never said anything about "all PPD men" but you read it that way and started ranting about it and how you hate certain women who complain about sexists and act like "bitch(es) in heat" lol that's a pretty telling off the rails reaction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 05:49 PM |
| -1 | One of the biggest reasons men will continue to struggle with women.You literally said to lie, intentionally, that's pretty disrespectful no one brought it up until you started ranting about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 02:39 AM |
| 0 | One of the biggest reasons men will continue to struggle with women.Dude, you literally said men should lie and disrespect women... when called out, you started ranting unprompted about women who complain about sexists like they're the real problem, and not the actual women hating incels themselves. Maybe you're in need of touching some grass, yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Do you agree with the right to have financial abortions ?Take abortion out of this equation entirely. This is not that kind of debate. This discussion/debate here is simple: Should you have the right to opt-out of parenthood? Yes or No? Should you be forced to be a parent against your will? Yes or No? If you remove forced pregnancy from forced parenthood, then we're no longer talking about real world scenarios where one parent is carrying the pregnancy. We're talking about test tube lab babies then. As I've said, FINE, if parents grew their babies in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 09:15 PM |
| 8 | Women LOVE to throw out the classic “it’s not your ____ it’s because you’re a misogynistic asshole” yet misogynistic assholes are consistently the ones getting laid. This alone proves that women are unable to have an honest conversation about dating and discredits anything else they have to say.Another post where a guy imagines something he wants to be true for all women, throws out zero evidence besides himself repeating it, puts some shit in quotes that he doesn't want to respond to. All that effort for a self pity circlejerk cringe.. continue doing this to yourself please. Maybe being a sexist, whiny, bitchy incel will work someday, just give it time. After all you're so sure being a misogynist is such a positive thing, I'm sure one day the women will come flocking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Question for PPD. Do you believe dating is hard as men are making it out to be? Primarily the ones on this sub? Why or why not?Sure. I do think it sucks for men more than it sucks for women. Men are more horny, less cautious, less slut shamed, it is what is. I can't tell if all average men face this, because some PPD guys say they're average, complain about dating and then start dropping a whole circus tent of red flags everywhere. The men I know irl all had no trouble dating. And this is mostly slightly chubby, social, well adjusted nerdy Asian and white guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 01:30 AM |
| 0 | Do you agree with the right to have financial abortions ?Most female rape victims don't get believed, it's always a "he said, she said as a conniving, lying, hysterical woman", are you kidding lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 12:39 AM |
| 0 | Do you agree with the right to have financial abortions ?https://www.wbrz.com/news/investigative-unit-rape-victim-ordered-to-pay-her-abuser-child-support/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Do you agree with the right to have financial abortions ?The discussion is not about bodily autonomy it's about not forcing people to be parents against their will. So you just want to ignore the inconvenient, major key differences between a biological abortion and a paper abortion, the literal fucking process of forced pregnancy? Fine, sure. If men and women grew their babies in a vat in a lab and no ones bodily autonomy was at risk there, both can abort and it'd be fair. Why not. But if you want to compare actual abortion with paper abortion and ign… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 12:31 AM |
| – | Do you agree with the right to have financial abortions ?If the bio dad decides to suddenly be a parent after shirking any childcare and financial support, he should be responsible for 18 years of child support payments with interest. If the mother provides any evidence of contact with the child trying to act as a father figure, he should have financial responsibility. The PPD guys in this thread really trying to have their cake and eat it too LOL. I hope they never procreate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Do you agree with the right to have financial abortions ?Abortion is about bodily autonomy rights, not about financial responsibility rights. If we had a law forcing fathers to pay child support by selling their blood and organs, THAT would be a parallel to banning abortion. Such a law might make sense if bodily autonomy didn't matter -- already few deadbeat loser dads pay child support and some are too poor, so they may as well pay with their bodies the same way forced pregnant women do. You have the "same fucking rights" as women do in terms of fina… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 07:31 PM |
| 0 | Do you agree with the right to have financial abortions ?Happens to little girls too -- getting raped, pressured into having the kid, police do nothing about the rape because "he said she said", and the rapist comes back and gets custody and forces his victim to pay child support. Child support laws should account for rape, men or women, but they don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree with the right to have financial abortions ?Women who are raped by men and keep the baby will likely be forced to share custody with the rapists if the police don't bother to investigate the rape (they usually don't). And those women pay child support to their rapists as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 06:56 PM |
| 18 | No matter the "pill" you take as a man, in the long run it is no match for the nit-picky nature of womenhey OP, go outside and touch grass. Since I need to too, maybe see you there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4W Can you describe/show what “attractive men” look like to you?This is easy, nerdy femboys... Zero facial hair, not much muscle, around my height, skinny, wears glasses, dorky smart, trivia geek, easily flustered, wears sweater vests, pretends to hate wearing skirts. if I can't get at least 80% of the above, I'll probably pass lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 05:49 AM |
| 15 | This “small subset” of women who claim to be struggling could hop on Reddit right now and have their pick of the litter but they won’t do it. That’s an option most men will NEVER haveWell a lot of men don't think their friends could be gross, creepy or too pushy towards women. They usually don't see that part of them, and even when they do, if they're already friendly with that guy it takes video evidence and a jail sentence for them to believe a dumb girl over their bro lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 08:49 AM |
| 6 | This “small subset” of women who claim to be struggling could hop on Reddit right now and have their pick of the litter but they won’t do it. That’s an option most men will NEVER haveIncoming from massive pool of available options, the daily PPD thread with hundreds of upvotes: "are women shallow, obese and untrustworthy thots who want Chad instead of nice guys like me?" then a comment section full of women hating incels angrily upvoting each other's misogynist bad takes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 04:09 AM |
| 1 | What standards do women have that are “too high”?Same when women who fit your standards aren't willing to date or fuck you, but I'm sure PPD guys who hear this won't flip out and try to create bullshit reasons why a double standard should exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 09:00 PM |
| 0 | Women say that the bar low for men? Is this really true?It must be so hard for incels for not able to treat women like garbage, like the 6 ft alpha Chads always are. In a just world, all men should be equally able to treat women like trash, no matter their own looks. I just feel so much sympathy, it must be so hard on them. there's a low bar for crude, creepy, sexist behavior? what do these women mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Strategic pluralism: the scientific name for "alpha fucks beta bucks"Believe whatever you want right now but before you have an open, honest, fulfilling relationship, hopefully there's therapy and couples therapy in your future | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Strategic pluralism: the scientific name for "alpha fucks beta bucks"can we confirm that the "thanks but sorry you're not my type" is normal and "I know no one asked but you're short/ugly/fat/unfuckable to me" is the problem? FDS hardly speaks for all women lmao, women aren't a hive mind. While speaking in generalities about either gender is common, don't go overboard. buddy if you got trauma and baggage like the FDS users you're complaining about, seek therapy before getting into a relationship. Best of luck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Strategic pluralism: the scientific name for "alpha fucks beta bucks"Don't see how any of your soapbox speech is related to what I just said. Edit: reminder, seek help | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Strategic pluralism: the scientific name for "alpha fucks beta bucks"Never said that it's OP who seems to think men do all the working and providing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Strategic pluralism: the scientific name for "alpha fucks beta bucks"Lol calm down, you're missing the point. It's okay to be insecure, it's not ok to hurt anyone because of them. For example, lashing out at women and flinging misogyny around on PPD or being shitty towards your innocent partner bc of past dating troubles. You're allowed to have any preference or insecurity you want if you're not hurting someone. Going up to a swimsuit model who you personally wouldn't fuck and calling them ugly, like Jordan Peterson did, is obviously asshole behavior. Same w/ sha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Strategic pluralism: the scientific name for "alpha fucks beta bucks"sorry did you mean to talk to OP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Pro-Choice women, is there a flaw in my argumentation for financial abortion rights?You basically said it yourself, abortion is a bodily autonomy issue and financial abortion is not. People seem to agree that consent to sex means consent to financially raising your biologically children, but it does not mean consent to removing 9 months of bodily autonomy and risking permanent damage to your body. A better analogy would be, if the mother can veto the pregnancy, the father can also veto making blood and partial organ donations for a successful pregnancy. i.e. the mother has live… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 11:35 PM |
| 0 | Strategic pluralism: the scientific name for "alpha fucks beta bucks"Daily reminder to PPD men that women work and provide nowadays, yall aint special. Also we get it, you're insecure and afraid of vulnerability. A lot of us are. Remember to seek help before dating and not to offload your issues onto your innocent future partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 09:43 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of single men who used surrogacy to have children without a wife?If a single dad isn't a sexist piece of garbage and will do all the gross, time consuming, sleep draining childcare for his son or daughter by himself, and would give them zero doubt that their dad is always 100% behind them for at least 18 years, I see no problem. Not many men are socialized to do change diapers, feed babies and make large sacrifices of time, sleep, effort for them, but each individual is different. There are a few good single dads out there. Not all of them are woman hating, s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 07:16 PM |
| 5 | Majority of TRP people want a familyThat quote is about his sons. I don't doubt a RP dad (like my own dad) could value and treat his sons with empathy, love and understanding while viewing his baby mama as semiconscious sex furniture + robot maid. They ignore their daughters though, at least brainwash them with some internalized misogyny and self hatred. Also RP dads shaft all the parenting and kid stuff onto their wives, it's easy to have fun parenting when you don't do jack shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Do bisexual men have a difficult time with women because of their orientation? Would you date a bisexual man? If not, why?Idk how often to say this, but sexual history is a totally valid preference to have. Some men would be uncomfortable if their partners had a high n count, did porn, worked as an escort, slept with someone they knew (like if their ex was their dad or brother) etc. Same for bisexuality. Preferences for past or present attributes aren't -phobic anything imo bc most of these preferences aren't choices, they're natural sexual attraction & romantic feelings aren't easily controlled. Also some people a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 07:19 AM |
| 1 | I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men.ya lol, sure he did | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 09:33 AM |
| 1 | I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men.I don't get what why that's related, does the existence of support structures like women's shelters prove that women have no "macro respect and empathy" for men? is there a specific support structure that you want for men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 05:32 AM |
| 1 | I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men.The woman you were talking to must be living under a rock, most women know that dating, especially online dating, can be harder and more sexually frustrating for men. But what can we do about it? What do you want women to actually do after pitying men, take female viagra? give charity bjs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 03:01 AM |
| 1 | I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men.A lot of individual women care for a lot of individual men who are friends and family, how is that not "macro respect and empathy"? If men have it towards women and women don't have it for men, what do you guys do differently that makes that distinction? This thing you're describing needs some definition, it's too vague. By what concrete metrics can we measure this "macro respect and empathy" and what should women do to be better about this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 02:50 AM |
| 1 | I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men.I know what you mean by macro. To restate the question, do you think men generally don't get this not sex related, platonic, "macro love" aka "macro respect and empathy" from women in their lives (including mothers, sisters, cousins, friends, coworkers, classmates, mentors)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 12:19 AM |
| 15 | I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men.Does this "macro love" mean respect and empathy, or does it have to mean sexual relationships? It sounds pretty entitled if it's the latter. If it's the former, do you think men generally don't get this "macro love" from their sisters, mothers, aunts, & women who are their friends, classmates, coworkers or mentors? Or that they do, but because they care little about women outside of sex, they'll still hate the entire female gender if they're going through a dry spell? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 11:33 PM |
| 1 | If men want to protect their assets in a true 50/50 relationship, they should not expect traditionality from a woman.50/50 if there's no kids, finances are equal and the guy totally does his housework is fair. It's not super romantic or trusting if the two are hyperaware and the guy has a complex about it, but it's worth something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 02:06 AM |
| 4 | If men want to protect their assets in a true 50/50 relationship, they should not expect traditionality from a woman.Why the fuck would any high earning woman want such a shitty bargain then LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 01:42 AM |
| 4 | If men want to protect their assets in a true 50/50 relationship, they should not expect traditionality from a woman.I actually do, having money and choices is nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 01:39 AM |
| 2 | If men want to protect their assets in a true 50/50 relationship, they should not expect traditionality from a woman.Honestly, I don't think most guys in penny pinching, 50/50, transactional, modern relationships deserve to be fathers. You can nag your 50/50 partner to account for your pregnancy medical costs and career impact on top of the 50/50 childcare they'll totally do, but why would you? You can save yourself the headache by avoiding that whole situation altogether. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 07:11 PM |
| 9 | If men want to protect their assets in a true 50/50 relationship, they should not expect traditionality from a woman.There are more paranoid schizophrenic men than women on PPD and their insecurities and double standards make up more than half the content on this sub. They imagine every possible way they could be taken advantage of by women in a relationship and assume only they can be the victims of those situations. Women being financially empowered has nothing to do with having more doubts but just gives them the ability to act on their doubts. I don't think that having less money or influence will make me … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 06:55 PM |
| 3 | Most men who don't have "success" with women are a-social. Lack of social skills is a far bigger hindrance than the aspect of looks.I've been on dates with guys who I thought were better looking than me who didn't know it, but still uncomfortable with the lack of social skills in person and bailed. a-social is a yellow to red flag. The chances of him being pilled, an asshole, mentally unwell, majorly depressed, identify as iamverysmart, it's too high and it's no fun for a partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/22 06:59 AM |
| 6 | Do bisexual men have a difficult time with women because of their orientation? Would you date a bisexual man? If not, why?Is it fatphobic to not date a fat person? Is it racist to have a preference for redheads? Is it kinkphobic to want a vanilla sex life? Is it homophobic for a straight person to not date a gay person? Is it transphobic for a straight person to not date a trans person? No one is telling straight men their preferences are racist/fatphobic/transphobic but they sure love telling women any preferences they have are shallow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 02:48 AM |
| -1 | Women want to date someone on their level or higher because they are turned off by sharing their RessourcesHa this is ridiculous, did a middle schooler write this? The entire purpose of sharing resources is because there's kids and someone needs to stay home and take care of them. But women know in general men don't hold up the childcare and housework part of the bargain if the women is providing. Men are raised with a lot more pride and ego than women are, cleaning toilets and making lunchboxes and cooking and changing nappies is beneath them. Most men think "sweet, more time to game and go out" not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/22 07:56 PM |
| 4 | Dominant/masculine women, are submissive/feminine men a turn-off?agree there, women definitely do it too. waiting for their partner to clean their house, do their taxes, get groceries, pay the rent, plan and make all the romantic effort while they coast or shop or play video games. most people don't have the money and time to enjoy 100% passive partners. Even if they did, it's difficult to respect someone who just wanders around a messy house, adding to the mess, doing nothing all day with zero ambition or curiosity. even rich people have jobs at least for en… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/22 07:38 PM |
| 1 | How often do you get hit on?outside of a stranger every three months being confusingly friendly and asking if I'm single, usually it's once a year and within a friend group. I'm an average looking nerd who hangs around similar people who also lack social skills. Honestly, big confidence boost even if 0 attraction there. I usually awkwardly flirt back and then run out of the doctor's office or grocery store and never return again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/22 07:35 AM |
| 13 | Dominant/masculine women, are submissive/feminine men a turn-off?I don't think women in general mind feminine men, many might prefer it, if we're talking just the physical traits. As long as "passivity and femininity" isn't actually a stand in for traits like "lack of direction" or "apathy" or "laziness" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/22 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Women would not give so much importance to getting old if male attention was not a priority for themI don't think older women with financial stability care about what pissy horny redditors think. if they leave us alone when we get older, that's all the better for everyone same for you, do you think attention from a mentally unwell grandma sending you dtf messages has any positive value? why do you think we care if weirdos we don't like want to fuck us or not? yall think your erections are made of gold or something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 06:22 AM |
| 2 | Women say most men are “awful,” toxic or undateable, or that “the bar is so low” which is such a joke. Most men worship the ground women walk on, even attractive ones, and women are ridiculously selective.Yes, most of his content is basic uncontroversial common sense that shouldn't need to be said aloud, most people should already take that for granted. But the rest is vague toeing the line with implications and dogwhistling at crazy people. He's a troll and an excellent gaslighter if someone's response to sexism is "aren't women and men biologically different?" and coughing loudly, he's probably a JP fan | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 07:48 AM |
| 3 | Women say most men are “awful,” toxic or undateable, or that “the bar is so low” which is such a joke. Most men worship the ground women walk on, even attractive ones, and women are ridiculously selective.therapists shouldn't be peddling politics to vulnerable depressed people let alone cult worship of western civilization, judeo Christian values, masculinity and hierarchy. all the JP fans I know became easily triggered extreme conservatives, can't even talk to them without being called a post modern neo marxist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 05:41 PM |
| 15 | Women say most men are “awful,” toxic or undateable, or that “the bar is so low” which is such a joke. Most men worship the ground women walk on, even attractive ones, and women are ridiculously selective.LOL where are the "vast majority of men" that do this then? can you send some my way there are much more whiny aggressive manbabies than selfless chivalrous knights out there. I haven't gotten any guys to grovel at my feet and bend over backwards to please me. but i've gotten guys send me bitter angry texts after rejection and try to isolate me from mutual friends in retaliation and cross explicit boundaries idk why adults still need this advice, you can get a relationship with the person you li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Women really don't like men who LOOK YOUNGER than themdude hate to say it but you might need to move to LA | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Women really don't like men who LOOK YOUNGER than themSome men have cute boyish looks that aren't "mainstream" but there's also not many guys who look that way and are straight. the women who are searching for someone like that would still be REALLY into you. It's a low supply niche market, but you just need to find your target audience.. out of curiosity/thirst I looked through your history, you're actually cute. The redpill vibes would probably turn women off, but based on looks alone there's nerdy women who would definitely hit that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 12:26 AM |
| 1 | What are some examples of female privilege?same with women lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 11:12 PM |
| 10 | Older women shaming men for dating and sleeping with younger women out of jealousy and labeling it as “predatory” is extremely hypocritical and inaccurate, most men go after younger women because women age faster and younger women are far more attractive, not because they’re easier to manipulateMost old women don't want an old creepy man who chases after barely legal girls. The quality of male attention matters and if it's coming from a pedo or predator or incel, it's better to NOT have it. If older women actually wanted the attention of predatory creepers, maybe redpill weirdos would probably get laid more often, whine less and be less bitter. But unfortunately pedos and predators aren't in hot demand like you think | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 06:20 AM |
| 5 | paying for the first dateIf a man is panicking that making a good first impression is a waste of $20, he doesn't fucking like you. There's subtext here. Offering to pay means "I might be serious about you" for men and "I can't treat you back because I won't see you again, but you might be bitter and harass me afterwards. here's some money to avoid that situation, bye" for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 05:32 PM |
| 0 | What would happen if men and women exchange their situations in dating ?Do men also get pregnant, experience less orgasms, get double standard slutshamed, have their "value" set from their fading looks and fertility, get taken less seriously at work, are pressured into unrewarding domestic servant and parenting work, and feel unsafe at night due to being smaller and having less muscle, bone density and testosterone fueled aggression? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 01:13 AM |
| 0 | women (and guys) are you currently leading someone on that you don't have feelings for? if so, why? be honest this is reddit.have no idea what your situation actually is or if you're writing fanfic, but sure, ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 07:59 AM |
| 2 | women (and guys) are you currently leading someone on that you don't have feelings for? if so, why? be honest this is reddit.she's just uncommitted and having casual sex, normal things unlike being a misogynist woman hating hissy incel. Good for you for being a manipulative piece of shit, I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 03:26 AM |
| 1 | CMV: It's a Just-World Fallacy that "misogynistic/sexist" men don't get laid. Ironically, they get laid just as much, if not more than the kind, agreeable men do.this comment was 3 months ago. lol btw how tf am I supposed to know if a random man will feel "validated" or depressed or get pissed at me if I tell them they're ugly? Plus I don't owe anyone shit and any mature adult should have some clue if they're ugly, average or hot by their 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 07:46 PM |
| 5 | What's wrong with being cautious in a world where you're on your own?Agree with parts of this like the wording of 'toxic masculinity', but disagree with everything else. The angry kid that becomes a monster is more likely a product of a broken home, missing parent, poverty, or bullying, not because they were a bit antisocial and started reading feminist tweets. Also I heavily doubt the redpillers actually think men are inherently beastly rapists, unless they've been reading some blackpill feminist literature and got some heavy influences from Andrea Dworkin. Redp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 03:22 AM |
| 1 | The threat of violence and sexual assault, while real, is dramatically overblown and overused by women as an excuse for misandrist behavior and to generalize the entire male population, most of which is harmless to themIdk if girls memeing on Twitter "contradicts" abuse typically appearing later in a relationship after trust. It's different crowds of people you're talking to, and the first crowd is well, memeing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 09:53 PM |
| 0 | Question for WOMEN: What are some key takes or strategies or ideological differences you have learned both here and from TRP?The point is you'll be coerced to give up a high paying career in that situation, it's hardly a choice. Most men are unsuited for truly equal dual parenting and fatherhood, they have main character complex and don't want to become a caretaker. The woman whose man bails and has i.e. 2 kids, a baby and a toddler is now parenting full time and probably quitting her full time job. Some of my older relatives and coworkers had kids and not a single husband does their equal share. Doesn't matter if you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 07:34 AM |
| 0 | Question for WOMEN: What are some key takes or strategies or ideological differences you have learned both here and from TRP?Its hardly easy or practical for everyone to juggle going to school or relearning your old job, walmart part time to pay the immediate bills, and taking care of little kids all at the same time. even if you succeed and work yourself to an early grave, your career & savings got set back a decade. Instead you could've been stress free & chilling with $1M in your 30s from your salary and investments. I've seen this happen to a girl I know from college, never saw someone's life go from 100 to 0 so q… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Question for WOMEN: What are some key takes or strategies or ideological differences you have learned both here and from TRP?I'm really having trouble parsing "I don't think wallMart pays more or even has less timmings than fresher in most stem field". not senior level yet, maybe that's the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 03:43 AM |
| 0 | Question for WOMEN: What are some key takes or strategies or ideological differences you have learned both here and from TRP?I have no idea how to read this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Question for WOMEN: What are some key takes or strategies or ideological differences you have learned both here and from TRP?you'd be surprised what they're paying for software developers nowadays, people are getting 140k-150k for mid level. all that to lose, and a high chance of it happening, while there's so little to gain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 05:33 AM |
| 0 | Question for WOMEN: What are some key takes or strategies or ideological differences you have learned both here and from TRP?You're probably no longer working full time as a doctor or software developer or engineer when there's 2 toddlers at home and a shitty husband who doesn't help out. If it's a long enough gap, certain technical fields are hard to get back into, "woman in STEM" or not. After a 5+ year gap of doing domestic servant work instead of coding, are hiring managers going to trust you can still be a senior engineer? yep, being one of hundreds of single moms working at Walmart, sounds pretty aspirational hu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 05:07 AM |
| 9 | Question for WOMEN: What are some key takes or strategies or ideological differences you have learned both here and from TRP?I learned a lot from PPD. That men peer pressure each other to be lying misogynist fuckboys and such behavior is the default because it's in their "biology". Also it's hard to even filter them out, because men encourage each other to lie and manipulate when dating women, so avoiding dating the wrong guy is incredibly hard. If you accidentally pick that guy and he ruins your life, you can lose everything you worked your entire life for and other men will high five and laugh at you for being a gul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Will Smith is a great example of how weak men are today, and why men (especially weak men) should not be getting marriedincels having a field day spinning another bullshit male victimhood narrative, going full throttle sexist double standards by ignoring Will's own cheating and this couple's open relationship. literally losing their damn minds at the woman in an open relationship but obviously not the man, because being a "beta simp cuck" only matters for one gender. and ofc Jada needs to be blamed for the slap too, she was being a manipulative evil bitch by looking sad and it's not like Will has free will or any… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Women. What percentage of men do you meet in your regular day to day basis that you are attracted to?like I said, I don't find them attractive until after getting to know them first, so I wouldn't go up to meet them. otherwise strangers are just potentially toxic eye candy Maybe in certain cases I would try to meet them, if I think I "know" them from a distance. Like hearing about what they're like from mutual acquaintances, or if they stream on Twitch as a side hustle or if I've stalked their social media out of curiosity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 02:01 AM |
| 3 | Women. What percentage of men do you meet in your regular day to day basis that you are attracted to?hard to imagine dating a guy based on just looks alone, men can be funemployed or toxic from getting pilled from the internet or have a criminal history. You have to interact with them first. like have a comfortable, interesting conversation, figure out what kind of person he is, see him do something like working on a passion project, or carrying a puppy out of a burning building, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 10:33 PM |
| 1 | The Ukraine situation shows how equality of the sexes is a facade and incapable of being upheld through harsh situations.unless your hand picked examples of sinking lifeboats or cabin floodings didn't happen the same amount to men as well, I doubt they biased the study enough for it to be thrown out completely. Also PLEASE can we be done here. Jesus christ I don't know how many more times I need to repeat "statistics and aggregated data please" but I'm really just done and blocking preemptively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 01:15 AM |
| 6 | How many of you who think women should settle more often, have actually expereinced a relationship without attraction or low attraction?Second gen immigrants with parents who had an arranged marriage, or a marriage for convenience will understand lmao. If you're lucky, it's low interaction, zero affection or trust, being distant, but usually it'll be constant arguing and threats of divorce and physical or emotional abuse. I remember going to a white classmate's house for a HS school project and then had a bit of a mental breakdown in their bathroom after seeing her dad kiss her mom on the cheek. the people here who grew up norma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Women over 25 don't like 'feminine' looking menI'm asian myself.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 04:45 AM |
| 1 | The Ukraine situation shows how equality of the sexes is a facade and incapable of being upheld through harsh situations.yes, a few lifeboats full of women sunk. my point is you and that redditor are biased and will likely not point out the times when a lifeboat full of men sunk. yes, sometimes the womens cabins get flooded first. but I doubt you and that guy will point out the times when the mens cabins get flooded first and how that might bias the data. idk how many times I have to say you need aggregated data, NOT SINGULAR EVENTS, to find out the general picture? all you've done is cherry pick events that might… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 09:23 PM |
| 1 | The Ukraine situation shows how equality of the sexes is a facade and incapable of being upheld through harsh situations.same to you.. you clearly don't want a good faith conversation. literally repeating a few cases where lifeboats with just women sank as if it explains ALL the data, over and over and over. Look even if people were sorted into lifeboats by gender, on average you'd still expect each lifeboat to have the same chances of survival given enough data, and similar survival rates for men's lifeboats and women's lifeboats. why isn't that the case? vaginas making their lifeboats extra unlucky or something?… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 11:53 PM |
| 1 | The Ukraine situation shows how equality of the sexes is a facade and incapable of being upheld through harsh situations.the argument is, chivalry was attempted on 18 ships but was done so poorly that women and children died in higher numbers anyway? yikes, but ok. I really have a hard time believing that. also, why trust these stories about chivalry when you can look at the numbers? there is immense pressure for survivors to lie and make up stories of attempted chivalry when they survived and the wife and kids did not. For someone who believes a few anecdotes and sinking lifeboats disproves a study about chivalry… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 06:59 PM |
| 1 | The Ukraine situation shows how equality of the sexes is a facade and incapable of being upheld through harsh situations.ofc there will be dramatic anecdotes and ways the data can be biased, but if there is a decent number of samples, we should still get info from the overall picture. If you think 18 boats was not enough, feel free to find a study with more boats and share the results. btw I'm not blaming men for going full Squid Games during a shipwreck. i'm just saying the whole chivalry on a sinking ship thing is overused fake news from hollywood. no one likes to talk about the dad abandoning his wife and kids … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 07:16 AM |
| 2 | The Ukraine situation shows how equality of the sexes is a facade and incapable of being upheld through harsh situations.Lol totally BS. 2-3 boats where floodings or a lost lifeboat lowered survival rate for women -- I totally believe that this redditor would bring up any factors that biased the data in the opposite direction. Then random anecdotes about events on other boats, that could have been completely made up by a guy who wanted to tell a dramatic story. OK. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 07:25 PM |
| 1 | The Ukraine situation shows how equality of the sexes is a facade and incapable of being upheld through harsh situations.yes, in the systems that men created, in the conflicts that men created, and while limiting women from participating. who should you be blaming, other men, or the women who largely had zero say in any of this? if you're going to pretend men were all selfless martyrs then i'm going to pretend men were all instigators and genocidal murderers and invaders and I would be doing the same shit that you are doing. The question was, would you go to war if there was a gender equal draft? note the gender e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 07:03 PM |
| 0 | The Ukraine situation shows how equality of the sexes is a facade and incapable of being upheld through harsh situations.pfft since the dawn of time, men have disallowed women from participating and societies made women second class citizens, so it was barely worthwhile to participate. and it was only recently that modern warfare, guns and vehicles evened the playing field so that physical strength and stamina wasn't everything and women stood a chance. you seem really bitter and upset about this. are you in the US and have you served in the military? do you pinky finger promise to not dodge the draft if it was eq… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 08:06 AM |
| 5 | The Ukraine situation shows how equality of the sexes is a facade and incapable of being upheld through harsh situations.https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2130003/Study-sea-disasters-men-better-survival-rate-ships-down.html The researchers analysed some of the world's most famous disasters, ranging from the HMS Birkenhead that grounded in the Indian Ocean in 1852 to the MV Bulgaria tourist ship that sank on Russia's Volga River last year. Out of 15,000 people who died in 18 sinkings, only 17.8 per cent of woman survived compared with 34.5 per cent of men. In three of the shipwrecks, all of the women died, E… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 02:39 AM |
| 1 | The Ukraine situation shows how equality of the sexes is a facade and incapable of being upheld through harsh situations.idk I've already had multiple recent conversations with guys complaining about the draft, about women not being drafted, how to be ineligible for the draft and their plans to move to another country if it happens. Tbh I agree with them, there should be an equal draft. But hot take, if you're whiny and bitter and pissed off about an unequal draft and complaining about women being cowards, you better set an example lol and actually go if you're called when the draft does become equal. I'm pretty s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Entitlement/Expectation is what destroys the male desire to provideyeah, why bother fixing a status quo that heavily disadvantages career women, when you can use shame and mild sexism instead? what's even the point of a woman if she no make the baby | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 07:22 PM |
| 0 | I think the vast majority of frustration and anger comes from.high expectations. We need to work on lowering that for general happinessA relationship with you would be mutually rewarding for sure, I for one can't imagine how it wouldn't make an average single woman's life happy and definitely not miserable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 09:36 AM |
| 5 | Entitlement/Expectation is what destroys the male desire to provideI don't buy into the armchair psychologist lizard brain instinct nonsense, when there are perfectly real economic consequences of being the partner who could get pregnant That woman making 100k a year dating a janitor who somehow makes less than minimum wage.. once she has 2 kids, maybe a year or two off bc difficult pregnancy, husband becomes whiny bitch who doesn't do any childcare or domestic labor.. goodbye middle class lifestyle hello poverty lmao There are less female ceos but you can bet … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 08:30 AM |
| 2 | Entitlement/Expectation is what destroys the male desire to provideLMAO making kids without extreme vetting is the dumbest fucking idea for career women. A woman in some high paying industry like law or compsci should be making $175k+ by her 30s. If she gets pregnancy complications and takes a year off per kid, goodbye a year of two of $175k. If the husband turns into a loser who shafts her with all the childcare, goodbye future career growth too. maybe you're part time now or you quit entirely to do mommy maid work full time. Hundreds of thousands from career … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 08:02 AM |
| 21 | Entitlement/Expectation is what destroys the male desire to provide"low value men tend to provide for a woman and receive little or nothing in return" PPD guys keep forgetting that women work. Everyone works. did some not get the memo that it's late stage capitalism now and a household needs 2 working partners to survive? did yall want a pat on the back for doing the same work because you did it "manlier"? The golddigger relationship is not representative of average relationships. Wtf are you salty little manchildren providing lol, a free coffee or dinner for t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 11:51 PM |
| 4 | Men often say “agreeableness” is a top trait they desire in a partner more so than women state that. Why is that?aww thank you, weird cringey internet stranger | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 06:46 AM |
| 11 | Men often say “agreeableness” is a top trait they desire in a partner more so than women state that. Why is that?It's a red flag, it means the guy has likely seen some red pill shit and won't respect opinions from women Toxic men specify "agreeable" to signal that they find lots of women bitchy and disagreeable. This way, women who they date will second guess themselves, try not to be "one of the bad ones" and not stand their ground to avoid being a sexist "bitchy woman" stereotype. And the guy can walk over her boundaries and be lazy and avoid doing housework for a bit longer before she gets tired of bein… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 12:49 AM |
| 2 | “My wallet my choice” should be a real thing when it comes to reproductive rights for menEven better, women should just dump the kids at the deadbeat dad's place and $300/month might stop being so unfair a burden. it's time we stop gaslighting women about this, no amount of single mom struggle love or sacrifice will get them a crumb of respect from society or their own kids. dump the kids at their dads place and leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 08:25 AM |
| 2 | “My wallet my choice” should be a real thing when it comes to reproductive rights for menIn most cases where men needed to play child support, the child was originally wanted and it's just a deadbeat dad who just bailed and abandoned their kids. women know child support is basically 2 extra grocery trips a month, if the father even pays it, and barely anyone PLANS to be a single mother lol it's basically an one way ticket to the poverty line. even still the whiniest men still think they're the ones wronged by giving their biological offspring just enough grocery money to not starve … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Do you think young men are becoming more or less sexist?Most women have zero idea lol. They think the average man in the west is some feminist leaning progressive guy and project their empathy and expectations of equality onto him. Whenever a space is like 90+% male (sports, gaming, certain careers) and they start talking about women with zero repercussions, their real unfiltered opinions about women will fucking shock you. When men want to play a big man, on top of being a rude asshole to everyone, they'll drop hints about treating women with disres… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 09:03 AM |
| 7 | What is the wall?Red pill copium for frustrated, bitter, hateful young men, telling them they'll get their revenge fantasy when they're old, wrinkly, balding and rich, emphasis on the rich part, by attracting golddiggers exclusively | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 08:27 AM |
| 1 | The way some women here on PPD describes their S/O is so unflattering and insulting that if they read it they’d break up with them on the spotMost people are average looking to ugly, do you really think the average woman says to the average man that he's the hottest piece of ass she's ever seen? Be real with yourself, the average guy or gal here isn't a fucking 10/10 model and if you want to called one you better be okay with being white lied to. here's an idea if you prefer to be seen as a hot piece of ass instead of complimented as a holistic person, maybe skip the relationship and JOIN the strip club | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Dual Mating Strategy: Why men need to be aware of TRP it's teachings even if they don't agree with it.\^ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Dual Mating Strategy: Why men need to be aware of TRP it's teachings even if they don't agree with it.\^ LOL none of the stuff you want to imagine is certain. Who knows if she loves him or whether she's into him for just money. your weird certainty about it just shows you're projecting your own narrative of male victimhood onto her partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Dual Mating Strategy: Why men need to be aware of TRP it's teachings even if they don't agree with it.I started off saying both women and men can do this but the RP or incel guys absolutely freak the fuck out when a guy gets insecure about his partner's dating history. And yea his girlfriend is the one being gaslit, of course she should leave. The guy sucks ass, he made her feel guilty for his decade old insecurities, implied he's only into her for her looks, constructed some transactional self victimizing narrative for their relationship and now wants her to put up with this shallow cynical vie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Dual Mating Strategy: Why men need to be aware of TRP it's teachings even if they don't agree with it.It seems like the incels are the ones losing their shit over it and sympathizing with the whiny bitch who needs to get over himself. Pfft fine. Let's use the religious girl instead of med school girl as an example. Idgaf really. Religious girl gets bitter at her husband for fucking hot surfer girls and wasting his best years on them, while she's off praying to Jesus 24/7 in her early 20s. she feels settled for because now her hubby is balding and has dad bod. Instead of leaving the relationship,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 11:28 PM |
| 1 | If men are the problem in western dating then why aren't women leaving the country to find other men?lol I got more where that came from. at least the West isn't "state owns your reproductive rights and makes divorcing abusers a nightmare" China and "beating your wife and kids is legal" russia and "lmao what rape" india and "women are property" middle east | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 11:04 PM |
| 2 | If men are the problem in western dating then why aren't women leaving the country to find other men?immigrant background | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Dual Mating Strategy: Why men need to be aware of TRP it's teachings even if they don't agree with it.how much does the different 2 answers matter really? if he's going through his partner's preferences and hypothetical relationship choices from almost a decade ago, he is trying to start drama. He can be insecure about his partner being into athletes in college, valid boundary really, and end the relationship respectfully instead of intentionally trying to make her feel miserable. if this was a woman who looked at her husbands old photos and noticed he was "wasting his best years" on hot surfer … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Why are women so much more content to be forever alone than men?Being shitty towards women while bragging about getting laid is a bonding activity for the bros and how many guys get their self validation. that also makes male thirst high supply, high risk, and probably not worth ruining your life over | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 09:24 PM |
| 3 | If men are the problem in western dating then why aren't women leaving the country to find other men?There are enough whiny, selfish and sexist women-hating men in the West, why would a Western woman try to date where it's almost all whiny sexist women-hating men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Dual Mating Strategy: Why men need to be aware of TRP it's teachings even if they don't agree with it.everyone must seem retarded to a dumbass misreading shit on purpose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 08:39 PM |
| 0 | Dual Mating Strategy: Why men need to be aware of TRP it's teachings even if they don't agree with it.I meant her CURRENT self would prefer him NOW as a younger man, not her PAST self. jesus | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 08:35 PM |
| 1 | There is not a shortage of single men who have their life in orderI knew you were from a different planet, and this just confirms it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Dual Mating Strategy: Why men need to be aware of TRP it's teachings even if they don't agree with it.LOL at this guy. Maybe his gf would've preferred to date him when he was younger, less wrinkly, more fit, more stamina in bed, no dad bod and not balding. Why isn't he sorry to HER as well? Male physical preferences for youth and male insecurities aren't more important than everyone elses lmao. Him being insecure is fine but don't stay around being a snide salty little bitch and making both of them miserable on purpose, if her previous history bothers him so much. She did nothing wrong and can't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 01:45 AM |
| 1 | There is not a shortage of single men who have their life in orderHonestly I don't care about this conversation anymore, you can repeat "sociopathic" over and over like a broken jukebox with zero evidence, lol I'm out cya | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 05:55 AM |
| 2 | There is not a shortage of single men who have their life in orderYou can still contribute to society and have a partner while being childless, it does not mean you are antisocial. If you know your unborn potential babies might have miserable painful lives, then you have empathy for not subjecting them to it. Does that seem "sociopathic" to you? Just because you claimed it was and repeated it a bunch doesn't mean it's sociopathic. This crises I was talking about like overpopulation can literally be solved by people having less kids. There are almost 8 billion … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 11:35 PM |
| 2 | There is not a shortage of single men who have their life in orderSo sorry, it's spoiled to have the "privilege", I totally misunderstood. Everyone on the planet with access to condoms, birth control or self control is "spoiled" then. So all developed countries, then? Who is the real sociopath, someone who is childless, or someone who has a child on an overpopulated planet right before a climate change reckoning during record levels of economic inequality, without much of a safety net? Who really lacks empathy for the children here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 08:16 PM |
| 2 | There is not a shortage of single men who have their life in orderHaha this makes zero sense. Why does avoiding something your "biological imperative" tells you to do, mean you are "spoiled"? Are nuns, priests and monks spoiled? Are aromantic or asexual people spoiled? Are childless couples spoiled? A person choosing to be single is part of their "biology" and their natural choices as well. Who are you to decide what is natural and what isn't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 04:30 AM |
| 2 | There is not a shortage of single men who have their life in ordersex toys actually give them orgasms though, men on the other hand.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 04:00 AM |
| 1 | With access to easy sex, it is up to women to control their n countsok, so maybe you're talking about the fuckboys exclusively instead of the average man and that's your perspective. in that case lol, my bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 03:22 AM |
| 0 | With access to easy sex, it is up to women to control their n countsLol at men gatekeeping relationships... doubt OP has much relationship experience. maybe you mean the fuckboys exclusively, and not the average single man in his late 20s or early 30s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 03:16 AM |
| 0 | There is not a shortage of single men who have their life in orderNah lol just someone with a sense of sarcasm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 03:06 AM |
| -4 | There is not a shortage of single men who have their life in orderThere's also no shortage of shitty men and the ones who whine the loudest are the shitty men. Now that women outearn men, why would a decent woman want sloppy seconds from a 30 year old single father or fuckboy golddigger? The only thing they're good for is easy sex lol don't kid yourselves. Probably has shrunk STD dick from being passed around or beating his meat to porn all day long men these days are the laziest most entitled princesses and spend their early 20s trying to be fuckboys and chas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 09:24 AM |
| 1 | There is not a shortage of single men who have their life in orderyes, they're the exact same people and how dare someone have a preference you disagree with lol. That must be super freaking hard for you :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 09:09 AM |
| 0 | There is not a shortage of single men who have their life in orderhow is it spoiled for someone to enjoy being single? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 08:45 AM |
| 2 | Being "hookup material" is better than being "boyfriend material"Needy nearly 30 year old single guys lmao, the drama they text would surprise you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 09:36 AM |
| 2 | Being "hookup material" is better than being "boyfriend material"Whiny little man looking for validation gets off my property, I see that as a win | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 09:11 AM |
| 2 | Being "hookup material" is better than being "boyfriend material"clearly you apparently | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 08:49 AM |
| 3 | Being "hookup material" is better than being "boyfriend material"LOL looks like some RP guys haven't had the experience of being politely herded out of the house after a hookup and then ghosted afterwards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Women of this sub,LOL I have standards. incels and redpillers are fair game.. they're basically asking for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Women of this sub,yes, I get off to it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 02:39 AM |
| 4 | Women of this sub,It's kind of a turn on to be mean to men or piss them off, but i feel guilty if it's towards normal, regular guys who don't deserve it, so I come here to be mean to incels and redpillers instead. it's my toxic stress relief, i hope no one irl finds out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 07:55 AM |
| 3 | Until feminine attributes are no longer connected with inferiority and being under a man, more women are going to reject traditional femininityjust describing personal preferences here in a simplistic way.. I know there are other types of men lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 11:27 PM |
| 8 | Until feminine attributes are no longer connected with inferiority and being under a man, more women are going to reject traditional femininityAssuming the kpop boy or Justin Bieber lookalike in a Manhattan bar is a normal sociable person he would do quite well probably. Girls like “non threatening” and then they actually have sex once or twice and realize how repulsed they are by fucking another woman I would love to see more data on this, we're both probably biased. I thought I was into beards and taller guys because that was the normal thing to like, but whenever it came down to actual sex I just couldn't get into some tall bearded … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 10:56 PM |
| 4 | Until feminine attributes are no longer connected with inferiority and being under a man, more women are going to reject traditional femininityBecause lots of Asian cultures are sexist and socialize girls with a sense of inferiority and Confucian penis worship early. Give it a few decades and they'll realize how full of bullshit the misogynist incels and Western sex tourists are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 10:13 PM |
| 6 | Until feminine attributes are no longer connected with inferiority and being under a man, more women are going to reject traditional femininityyou'd be surprised how many women are into femboys LOL... it's much higher than you think | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 09:56 PM |
| 0 | Why do red pillers want to date women when you guys hold such negative views on us?As if RP men don't play the victim Olympics on PPD as well while whining about everyone else's complaints, even those of us who come from incredibly misogynist cultures or abusive households. They complain just as much or much more but just want their victimhood trophy to be called something else. If your vague accusations had substance I'd assume you'd actually tell me the major grievances men have against women who're making them "suffer in silence"... instead of going full ad hominem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 03:52 AM |
| 2 | Why do red pillers want to date women when you guys hold such negative views on us?In what ways do these men suffer, besides not being able to get their dick wet as often as they like? whenever RP men complain about that kind of suffering I really have to LOL. As a woman from a second gen immigrant family and knowing others from similar sexist cultural backgrounds, we talk. We know who is getting beat by their husbands, whose dad beats his kids, or ignores his daughters and favors his sons, who was gaslit about her chronic pain by her husband until her death from late stage ki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Why is there so much conversation about the amount of effort( or lack there of) that men put in when it comes to dating?The study, which analyzes data from the Bureau of Labor Statistics' American Time Use Survey Yes, I'm sure the Bureau of Labor Statistics is intentionally fudging their data. those silly americans with their conspiratorial pro-women agenda As if you actually have any proof of women lying substantially more than men in these surveys, other than a totally not sexist gut feeling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 08:26 PM |
| 0 | Why is there so much conversation about the amount of effort( or lack there of) that men put in when it comes to dating?Phone surveys and self reporting are common for these sort of studies about people's behavior. idk how else research could be done in an area like this. If women lie about this significantly more than men do, and the truth is "women... pretty much never do housework or cook or clean or listen to their men", you should send me links to some reputable studies, they'd be a lot more convincing than biased anecdotes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Why is there so much conversation about the amount of effort( or lack there of) that men put in when it comes to dating?The study, which analyzes data from the Bureau of Labor Statistics' American Time Use Survey, found that women aged 15 and older spend 5.7 hours daily doing housework and looking after kids and elders, while men in the same age range do so for 3.6 hours each day. That’s about 37% more time dedicated to keeping things running smoothly in the house. Women ages 15-24 spend 54% more time on housework than men the same age and women ages 25-34 spend 51% more time on those chores. The gap exists for w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 07:39 AM |
| 0 | Why is there so much conversation about the amount of effort( or lack there of) that men put in when it comes to dating?your friends are probably just lying and whining. Plenty of men love to complain about their girlfriends or wives with hyperbole, sexist dog whistling and context missing, it's like a whole genre of comedy. I doubt they tell you about the extra housework their gfs or wives do or whenever she makes dinner, because first they would look bad, also because women doing domestic labor is "normal". I broke up with a guy because he got used to playing games while I made dinner and that's probably not th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 07:18 AM |
| 2 | It seems like the core of the issue in dating is that men want women who are more attractive than themIdk it's what I've seen in my personal experience. but don't mind it if it bothers you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 07:53 PM |
| 3 | It seems like the core of the issue in dating is that men want women who are more attractive than themWhat guys want/try to do/feel they deserve, and what most CAN do, is different. Many guys try to date up in terms of looks and fail. I've seen an average guy's OLD account. Lots of messages to the super pretty insta girls way out of his league. When that fails, people more average, and so on. If he gets someone at his own attractiveness level, he's "settling". No doubt if he feels he's done something to "earn" someone hotter he'll jump ship immediately | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Average men wanting chad’s lifestyle are akin to middle class people wanting a billionaire lifestyleLove the moaning and groaning from triggered redpill boys, OP you're doing god's work <3 I always thought the victim complex of the wannabe fuckboys of PPD was hilarious. It must be so hard to want to disrespect and treat women as disposable and replaceable objects but not be able to. Poor babies they are the real victims here LMAO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isGuess we're all "full of it" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it iswhat do you call one person noticing stuff casually without making it a peer reviewed scientific study? use that word instead of opinion then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isidk it's called a personal opinion, are we allowed to have that on reddit now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isI'm not saying it's impossible for two adults with a large age gap to have an relationship. just that it's really rare for the older one to not be some manipulative weirdo and both are prepared for later aging related issues | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 01:35 AM |
| 3 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isWho is trying to legally ban them lol? point them out to me and how many people think this way outside of some tiny fringe minority. And no most people who criticize age gap relationships nowadays will ALSO shame an older woman in a large age gap situation. the gender doesn't matter. Also I think it's a little pedantic what you're arguing. Who cares if someone says age gaps *very potentially creepy* or just inherently *creepy*? People on the internet speak in generalizations all the time and som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 03:36 AM |
| 5 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isYou would be doing the same thing you're mad at others doing, mentally noting a yellow to red flag and worrying about your son and asking follow up questions. IDK if being quietly cautious is enough of a distinction for you to keep your moral high horse here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 11:46 PM |
| 3 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isMost people argue against imbalances with a high potential for abuse and manipulation, not ALL imbalances. You obviously have some issues with women so maybe it's easier to discuss it without the sexism. Would you be 100% comfortable with your 20 year old son dating or marrying a 50 year old man? Personally I'd have to discuss this with him as a red flag, ask how practical it is for his long term goals, and pressure him to date a guy his own age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Question for: fit and attractive womenSeriously, stop harassing me on definitely not your alt and leave me alone. I'm not going to apologize for trying to care about a stranger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 04:45 PM |
| 0 | Question for: fit and attractive womenIf I saw someone pick up an unattended baby and I wasn't sure if they were the parent, I might ask them to make sure. I could be wrong and offend them if they're really the parent. If so I would say alright my bad and then go about my day. i.e. how offensive is it to say "are you sure you want to go cave diving? IMO it's kind of dangerous" or "this seems like a red flag, are you sure you're okay?" If trying to check in on someone is evil Internet trolling, then I guess I am one. Fuck me for tryi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 09:42 AM |
| 0 | Question for: fit and attractive womenSometimes when you see red flags and worry about a stranger you mention them, discuss it quickly with them, maybe you're mistaken or maybe you're not. I don't think worrying about a stranger is a rude thing to do. And I backed off when she became angry about it. I personally was in an age gap relationship (22F with 30M) that was bad for my mental health and I would have wished someone warned me about them. I'm very, very sorry for offending you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Question for: fit and attractive womenYou don't have to engage with me if you don't want to, and I am just genuinely concerned. Again, goodbye then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Question for: fit and attractive womenI genuinely feel for you, but I won't continue discussing it if it makes you uncomfortable. Goodbye then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 11:33 PM |
| 3 | Question for: fit and attractive womenIt's not the FWB stuff, it's the 15 year age gap since people know that relationships like that are often imbalanced and unhealthy. Generally men who date 15 years younger, don't they have issues? Some of those guys are total losers and the women at their age can tell, but younger women haven't picked up the red flags. They might have a mid life crisis and want to use someone to relive their youth. They might not be able to relate to you because you're a generation apart and are too old for all … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 09:48 PM |
| 1 | If women suddenly switched to being the stronger sex, how would it affect dating dynamics?I would personally be really into this, how do I sign up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Question for: fit and attractive womenIf you are 35 right now, your FWB is 50 years old?? If you were 25 when you two met, he was 40? I'm 25 now, and even guys who are 30 are pushing my age limit. I hate giving unsolicited advice, but are you sure you're truly happy with this? I wouldn't do it unless I was being paid Melania Trump amounts of money and negotiated the amount of gross old man sex to 1 time a year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 07:57 PM |
| 1 | The reason why so many men only look for sex is because women, generally, don't know how to be appealing in other ways.ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 05:53 AM |
| 1 | The reason why so many men only look for sex is because women, generally, don't know how to be appealing in other ways.TBH by calling things off because of your commitment issues when the guy brings up long term stuff and acts overly romantic, and then going straight back into serial dating without going to therapy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 05:34 AM |
| 2 | The reason why so many men only look for sex is because women, generally, don't know how to be appealing in other ways.Oh east asia is getting there. the last time I went back to China I actually saw dramatically more chubby kids, it's not as bad as the US but we've successfully convinced them the joys of cheaply produced processed foods | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 03:03 AM |
| 1 | The reason why so many men only look for sex is because women, generally, don't know how to be appealing in other ways.^ also untrue, in my experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 02:38 AM |
| 2 | The reason why so many men only look for sex is because women, generally, don't know how to be appealing in other ways.I see your perspective. well the term"agreeable" itself is vague. I'm probably thinking of it when it's excessive, while you're not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 10:26 PM |
| 0 | The reason why so many men only look for sex is because women, generally, don't know how to be appealing in other ways.I guess you can, if you avoid the people who you don't like. Being confident but agreeing and tolerating everyone even people you dislike is hard to imagine. You'd have to be really basic or a saint. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 09:44 PM |
| 2 | The reason why so many men only look for sex is because women, generally, don't know how to be appealing in other ways.There's no point in trying to pander to guys with that attitude, they can only make you miserable. It's not like we HAVE to be around them, we can just ignore them and hope they never have kids. There's a reason why OLD is full of toxic men, it's because they aren't being picked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 08:10 PM |
| 5 | The reason why so many men only look for sex is because women, generally, don't know how to be appealing in other ways.Agreeable doesn't fit with those other traits unless you naturally agree on everything with your dates | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 07:58 PM |
| 6 | The reason why so many men only look for sex is because women, generally, don't know how to be appealing in other ways.Ehhh untrue in my experience, being overconfident and snarky gets a lot more guys than being timid and agreeable. but it's possible I attract masochists or something. As long as you're unemotional when arguing, you're fine. Most men hate emotional women so if the guy doesn't care about your opinions, emotional arguing will never fix that. Just give up and dump him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 07:04 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Yeah I see that too especially with the "women like assholes" thing. The redpill guys want the moral high ground and to victim blame and to be assholes themselves, so they try SO hard to believe women are into assholes (wouldn't that be a mental health/self esteem issue if this was actually the case?). And not a single one has a study or poll or hard evidence to prove this happens significantly. They want attention, sex, and validation from women, while still maintaining superiority by objectify… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 06:32 PM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]I agree.. men don't understand how much women are into feminine/androgynous guys. This is my gut feeling really but I think the more comfortable and financially stable women are, the less they pick hypermasculine men. Many not all women but a larger subset than men probably suspect. It's weird that some men worry about being effeminate or "looking gay" for dressing too well because many women actually LIKE men in certain styles and nice hair and a skincare routine. Just generally gay men are mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 03:08 AM |
| 1 | CMV: It's a Just-World Fallacy that "misogynistic/sexist" men don't get laid. Ironically, they get laid just as much, if not more than the kind, agreeable men do.well it depends on the person. In some cases, an average or even good looking guy might be socially stunted, whiny or redpilled and the same looking person but funny, charismatic, well dressed, mature and no red flags would be much more dateable. And in the other cases, the guy actually is physically unattractive and people are trying to spare their feelings and hinting that they're lacking in the looks department so they have to get some positive traits somewhere else. also who cares that much … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 03:38 AM |
| 4 | CMV: It's a Just-World Fallacy that "misogynistic/sexist" men don't get laid. Ironically, they get laid just as much, if not more than the kind, agreeable men do.Is it a secret that women care about physical attractiveness? Are those guys living under a rock? Also, what is the alternative in these hypothetical, apparently super common conversations where women are explaining why they're attracted to a physically attractive asshole over an ugly guy? Rubbing the attractive guy's looks in his face? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 01:15 AM |
| 0 | Q4W would you date a man who earns less than you?If I was really loaded, I probably wouldn't care at all. If I felt really safe with my financial situation ($200k+ a year, tons of savings, could retire by 30, etc) I could date someone unemployed as long as he wasn't lazy, apathetic, incompetent or dumb. Sometimes people are passionate about something that doesn't make money like history, journalism, art or music, we get it. Most men aren't ready for a SAHD/career woman dynamic though. If I'm working and he isn't, outside of washing my own plat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 12:28 AM |
| 1 | How can men fix online dating? Issues from a woman's point of viewWhen I explain to you how something works, that's not an """excuse""" it's just a fact Mhmmm this is exactly what someone who has tons of statistical evidence and wants to argue in good faith, would say. I definitely, completely, totally believe you now. I never accused you personally of anything, chill out. Also, while you leaving the top down on your convertible might be dumb and careless, stealing is still morally wrong. I would still blame the thief more than you, just like I would blame the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 05:41 AM |
| 1 | How can men fix online dating? Issues from a woman's point of viewOP asks men to fix this? lol. Hey OP, here's an idea that will blow your mind: you get more of what you incentivize Sounds like redpill copium to me unless you have a Gallup poll or scientific study proving that women go for assholes controlling for all other factors. Even if your copium is true, why is incentive a valid excuse? There's incentive in being an ass to retail workers, people get an ego boost or power trip from it. There's incentive in borrowing money from your friends and never payi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 11:23 PM |
| 3 | How can men fix online dating? Issues from a woman's point of viewYep lol, I'm an average looking nerdy person looking for someone similar. Not a catch at all, feelsbadman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 06:14 PM |
| 2 | How can men fix online dating? Issues from a woman's point of viewThe less successful ones can be more bitter, persistent and manipulative and get fatigue from OLD and they're usually the ones who head into the redpill echo chamber. believe me I go for the average looking nerd type on OLD and many are undateable. First date they compare you to "other females", slip in "you're one of the good ones", talk over you for 2 hrs, get butthurt later over text while writing r/niceguy and redpill copypastas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 08:28 AM |
| 0 | Society has failed (Men).Lol they're the ones circlejerking obsessively in their little male superiority club. if they can dish it then they can take it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 05:04 AM |
| 2 | Society has failed (Men).Lol they are. Basically just the adult version of a whiny boy in middle school saying "all girls suck!! I'm cool now right?? guys?? attention and upvotes please??" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Men and women are not the same.Yes, I'm sure that there were a few exceptions, but a few exceptions don't disprove that during time most women couldn't get loans or bank accounts because banks discriminated against them. I'm not sure what kind of unrealistic image fuels your narrative.. do you think most women historically were the privileged aristocracy who sat around and did nothing all day? Yeah for sure even peasant women were sitting at home staring into space 24/7. They definitely weren't helping in the fields, feeding … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 10:30 AM |
| 1 | What standards are TOO high?Sure, you're definitely not an incel. Just another guy generalizing and hating on women's choices, like it's some sort of chauvinist male bonding exercise. Yes many women want to date men who are at their education level, and they're shallow for doing so. Because everything we prefer is "shallow". Want to date someone at your education level? shallow. Picked a broke PhD student with a useless history major over a rich blue collar plumber guy? shallow. Vice versa? shallow. Guy with a 6 pack? shal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 02:45 AM |
| 1 | What standards are TOO high?Sure, you're definitely not an incel. Just another guy generalizing and hating on women's choices, like it's some sort of chauvinist male bonding exercise. Yes many women want to date men who are at their education level, and they're shallow for doing so. Because everything we prefer is "shallow". Want to date someone at your education level? shallow. Picked a broke PhD student with a useless history major over a rich blue collar plumber guy? shallow. Vice versa? shallow. Guy with a 6 pack? shal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Men and women are not the same.Across the nation, boys are in much more trouble than they have been ever before. The U.S. News and World Report uncovered that at the turn of the century, boys received 70 percent of all failing grades in schools across the country we can do this too. Found some random statistic and have now confirmed women are the superior sex. Guess it's time to make redpill reddit posts and Youtube content to convince other women to generalize men as low-achieving, criminal, unintelligent horndogs, how they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 02:12 AM |
| 3 | Men and women are not the same.Would you not expect a historically oppressed and disenfranchised group to vote for its own, and its children's, economic self interest? Women were only allowed to open bank accounts in their own names for the last half century. When economic wealth, resources, higher education naturally become more equally distributed over time and conservatives stop forcing women to incubate fetuses against their will, women may vote differently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 01:56 AM |
| 2 | What would make you decide that you and a guy are sexually incompatible?why would that person have high self esteem? A person who lets their partner be satisfied to their own mental, physical or sexual detriment is a total doormat for the partner who DOES get off when they have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Women who claim there are no good men on dating apps or that all men want on there is sex are showing that they are low value.hypothetically if 95% of men on OLD were wife beaters, would you still blame women for not picking them? Maybe men on OLD skew socially stunted, red flag, uneducated or unemployed, or fuckboy... let's say that's 100% the case, do you think women should HAVE to date them because that's all there is? I'm sure in an alternative universe if 95% of women on OLD were obese, you'd be blaming men just as hard for not committing to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Women who claim there are no good men on dating apps or that all men want on there is sex are showing that they are low value.No, I'm saying that men who meet that criteria IS THE ACTUAL TOP 20% for women seeking a serious relationship. go check out your competition on OLD sometime and see how many average looks/height/weight, employed, college educated guys with decent pics there are, looking for serious dating and not hook ups. there are not many. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Women who claim there are no good men on dating apps or that all men want on there is sex are showing that they are low value.Mhmm if they're being propositioned by fuckboys and ignore them, it's their fault. as always blame the women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Women who claim there are no good men on dating apps or that all men want on there is sex are showing that they are low value.LOL is this from /r/misandryfetish | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Women who claim there are no good men on dating apps or that all men want on there is sex are showing that they are low value."Women have done exactly that"? Not sure if you're not getting it or if you're intentionally misreading what I said. I said it would be wrong for women to "complain" their way into the MEN'S SECTION OF A SPORT and getting in game advantages over their male opponents. In that case they're making their biological disadvantages everyone's problems and forcing men to be easier on them and bend the natural rules of their sport to change. Imagine coed football where women weren't allowed to tackled or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Women who claim there are no good men on dating apps or that all men want on there is sex are showing that they are low value.I don't care if the fuckboys change or not lol, they just aren't quality matches if you're looking for a serious relationship. Women who want to date seriously and not hookup will just avoid them because there's no compatibility. But there are just so many fuckboys or fuckboy wannabes who don't mind wasting our time or lying about their intentions. That's how women get a full inbox of guys wanting to hook up even if their profile says serious dating only. There's nothing wrong with being a hones… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Women who claim there are no good men on dating apps or that all men want on there is sex are showing that they are low value.None of them was willing to admit the problem is women or womens insane hypergamy though Yeah 2 days trying, sure sounds like your "women friends" tried hard. Did you fit all or most of the criteria I mentioned by the way? Haha the entire gender is to blame, that's hilarious. Yes, let's ignore that the average couple makes roughly the same income with 10k or less difference, and usually dates people of the same attractiveness. Let's ignore that men are more horny, send messages like a mass maili… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 09:47 AM |
| 0 | Women who claim there are no good men on dating apps or that all men want on there is sex are showing that they are low value.Is it extraordinary to be average height/looks/weight, college educated, middle class job, decent not creepy pics, ready for commitment, no red flags, and a profile with more than 3 sentences? If these are "extraordinary" standards for men, maybe the women are right for avoiding like 80% of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Women who claim there are no good men on dating apps or that all men want on there is sex are showing that they are low value.How old are your "women friends"? early 20s casual sex crowd? Or looking for serious relationships after some dating experience? Haha if we're swiping on top 5% that's seriously sad for men. The bar has never been fucking lower. If you're average height, weight, looks, college educated, ok dressed, middle class job, no glaring red flags, pics that aren't low res flexing in a mirror, edgy filter, a face closeup, or a gun, you're already like top 20% of men on OLD. It might not be enough for a fuc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 02:11 AM |
| -3 | Women who claim there are no good men on dating apps or that all men want on there is sex are showing that they are low value.incels already don't care about women's problems and most will never will lmao. they'd have to be incredibly self centered that after all that sexist rage fueled vitriol they post, they expect women would still be sympathetic or pity date them. How can anyone expect that level of charity? A second spent with a toxic, angry sexist is more than enough let alone a lifetime "Casual sex market more difficult due to biological differences in horniness and pregnancy risks" is just nature, no one is hur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Women who claim there are no good men on dating apps or that all men want on there is sex are showing that they are low value.You definitely stopped listening and concentrated on the NUMBER of matches. I said to make the profile to look at the QUALITY of the matches. The KIND of men who are pestering the average woman looking for a serious relationship. The vast majority are fuckboys, guys looking for casual sex only, unemployed deadbeats, guys with red flags, seething redpill boys. That's like 70% gone immediately. Once you filter by education level and average height and looks and then oh no personality or same field… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Women who claim there are no good men on dating apps or that all men want on there is sex are showing that they are low value.People finding a fake profile with an obvious photoshop job funny and interacting with it is hardly evidence of anything. But whatever. I hardly care if incels are unable to get laid, I doubt any of them care about problems that women face disproportionately. Men are just hornier than women and want casual sex more than women do due to society not slutshaming men, and not having to get pregnant from sex. Are women supposed to apologize to men for troubles they face due to biology, hormones and s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 09:50 PM |
| 17 | Women who claim there are no good men on dating apps or that all men want on there is sex are showing that they are low value.You should make a profile with an average woman's photos and see what guys are out there. If a woman is looking for a serious relationship, 70% of profiles of men are fuckboy wannabes, fuckboys, guys who have red flags in their profile (mentioning their ex, low effort profile, edgy/weird/cringe photos, self absorbed or sexist redpill language and bragging about being an "intellectual", gun shown in photo, unemployed bum who has stopped trying, needs therapy more than gf, etc). If on top of that,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 07:23 PM |
| 1 | This should be a Razor: Never attribute to hypergamy that which can be adequately explained as self-preservation.Nanobots and vasectomies... I was kidding, if it wasn't obvious. I don't understand, everything you've told me so far seems to indicate you wanted sympathy and victimhood status. Why not happily take the "victimhood" label after arguing so passionately that it belongs to men? You perceive society's feminist manipulations as horrible wrongs and "existential crises" for men... that makes men victims of sexism, right? It seems like you want men to come across as strong when it suits them but weak w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 06:15 AM |
| 1 | This should be a Razor: Never attribute to hypergamy that which can be adequately explained as self-preservation.Pffft morality is not objective haha. It's stupid to complain about women being more "immoral" because 1. morality is subjective and girls are not "wrong" here, so your condescension towards their choices here makes zero sense and 2. even if "Stage 5" morality is "right", the vast majority of differences here are likely due to social conditioning, which kids cannot be blamed for. Girls who look up to Disney princesses, are told to be nurturing, do housework, be kind, chaste and pretty, will have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 10:56 PM |
| 1 | This should be a Razor: Never attribute to hypergamy that which can be adequately explained as self-preservation.We are angry when it is women of all people who instill masculine stereotypes unto men when it is in their own selfish interests to do so, such as White Knighting and Chivalry. Come on, we both know it's toxic people of both genders doing it, it's not a black and white issue. Plenty of mean girls or dumb jocks or traditional parents just enforce these stereotypes. Let's be realistic though, most of the power to change the stereotypes lies with men. Men define what masculinity is because it's the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 03:02 AM |
| 1 | This should be a Razor: Never attribute to hypergamy that which can be adequately explained as self-preservation.I am serious, how do you know feminism is hurting young boys and call it an existential crisis, yet provide no evidence besides rants and anecdotes? If I assumed everyone on the internet told the unbiased truth, I'd be pretty gullible. Also I'm sure there is some overlap between MGTOW and "toxic masculinity" believers. They see the same problem, but get to different solutions. I don't know what MGTOW says about it directly, but lots of mgtow guys seem to complain about following masculine tropes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 10:08 PM |
| 1 | This should be a Razor: Never attribute to hypergamy that which can be adequately explained as self-preservation.So there hasn't been any studies that shows feminism is hurting young boys? None of the 3 things I asked for got answered. I guess I still don't believe the "feminism is causing a male existential crisis" thing you were mentioning. And yeah my bad "conspiracy" was hyperbole when I said earlier, I didn't mean it literally. Also I don't lecture my brother daily about toxic masculinity lol. Only two or three times where it was applicable to what was going on, maybe once about complaining about our … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 10:33 PM |
| 1 | This should be a Razor: Never attribute to hypergamy that which can be adequately explained as self-preservation.maybe there should be studies about the impacts of feminism on young boys before we jump to any crazy conclusions? You're going on and on about yes, this is totally happening, it's evil, it's an existential crisis, how about let's first establish: what does "feminist" curriculum look like in a boy's "formative" years how many boys in this country actually get this "feminist" curriculum and is it a significant number do these boys, compared to boys who didn't, do worse later in life and is this d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 04:11 AM |
| 1 | This should be a Razor: Never attribute to hypergamy that which can be adequately explained as self-preservation.Honestly, I'm amazed you're writing such long essays and am a little concerned how you spend your time haha. But thanks I suppose for taking this conversation so seriously? Sorry, I don't want to send manosphere youtubers views and even though fringe internet nonsense makes me a little curious, my attention span for this stuff is capped at 10 minutes per day. I won't be watching their silly fearmongering videos, but thanks for the content. I find it so funny that a little criticism, even from a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 07:31 PM |
| 1 | This should be a Razor: Never attribute to hypergamy that which can be adequately explained as self-preservation.and one day the patriarchy will answer for it /s /s <<<<<<< this is called sarcasm. I was being sarcastic. It's called a joke. Also your two points The problem you are complaining about men being forced to be 'real men' or be emasculated is actually being addressed by feminists, it's called toxic masculinity. If the term pisses men off, maybe men should rephrase it themselves. The whole point of it is: men should feel free to display their emotions, and not be afraid of not fitting the macho man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 04:26 AM |
| 1 | This should be a Razor: Never attribute to hypergamy that which can be adequately explained as self-preservation.I can see you're trying very hard to make this a black and white, one sided issue. But if that's the narrative that makes you happy, I'm not trying to change your mind or anyone else's. IMO if any man is gullible and self absorbed enough to make personal dating issues into a class struggle, that's not a loss for anyone that they become too toxic to date. Also sorry to be blunt but I plain don't believe you about feminism (the core movement not strawman radicals) being evil. You repeated it so ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 11:35 PM |
| 1 | This should be a Razor: Never attribute to hypergamy that which can be adequately explained as self-preservation.Experience taught us feminists are not interested in talking. This is not a debate. Therefore we encourage naive men to see for themselves and attempt to engage feminists in any kind of debate in their own platforms and then come back to us and report their progress. That is why we direct young men to Feminist forums where they purport to welcome a debate The vast majority of women who see a toxic entitled sexist asshole coming to "debate" their claim to human rights, equal treatment, and value … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 10:46 AM |
| 1 | This should be a Razor: Never attribute to hypergamy that which can be adequately explained as self-preservation.I'd like to see more info before reaching any conclusions.. such a short and vague article. Could just be clickbait.. it might just be mostly old ladies who barely outlived their husbands who have the money. "They" censured you? Really, all of feminism censured you? There are forums like this one where feminists redpillers incels etc come in and rant at each other. There are appropriate places where someone is willing to have a conversation with you and "debate" feminism. I doubt a college class… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 02:40 AM |
| 1 | This should be a Razor: Never attribute to hypergamy that which can be adequately explained as self-preservation.Still a lot of wild accusations, from someone whose background in gender studies is dubious. plenty of people on Reddit love to criticize something and then how many unbiased classes, books or content made not by youtube trolls did they use to reach their conclusion? usually none. Feminism is a very wide community with lots of disagreement and a few radicals, that reddit trolls love to stereotype with those radical caricatures. They don't want a good faith discussion, they just want to rant abou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 08:37 PM |
| 3 | The fundamental problem with this subreddit is that people here project their own views of the world to represent their entire genderSo much sexist stereotyping and projection to unpack. You know men can be incompetent, rude, and stupider than women sometimes right? It's like you're comparing the top men on the bell curve to the worst women for every scenario you mentioned. Women can be stereotyped by influencers and OF, but men can't be stereotyped by twitch streamers and insta "entrepreneurs"? We all know morality about sex is garbage our culture made up, but men want their male privilege to slutshame women and never get sl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 06:53 PM |
| 3 | The fundamental problem with this subreddit is that people here project their own views of the world to represent their entire genderphysically weaker than almost all men, need to be cautious always double standards for promiscuous behavior free stuff from simps? ask the average woman LOL both genders are influencers and streamers making trash content, success rare anyway someone didn't get memo that women work now. in STEM every boomer supervisor disrespects, mansplains & questions your competence while mediocre male coworkers get promotion for worktime vid games laws to force you to stay pregnant & being a unwilling host to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 09:53 AM |
| 1 | This should be a Razor: Never attribute to hypergamy that which can be adequately explained as self-preservation.I can see you hate gender studies & feminism, but you're making a lot of accusations about what it is and what it is doing. It's unclear if those are true or not and whether you actually have the background knowledge you're claiming.. The wikipedia page about gender studies mentions many different ways gender is studied, from culture, history, classes, race, literature, and even anthropology. If you studied gender studies in college, why would you say anthropology and those fields have "nothing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 11:34 PM |
| 1 | This should be a Razor: Never attribute to hypergamy that which can be adequately explained as self-preservation.Gender studies is an interdisciplinary academic field devoted to analysing gender identity and gendered representation. It includes women's studies (concerning women, feminism, gender, and politics), men's studies and queer studies.[1] Its rise to prominence, especially in Western universities after 1990, has been noted as a success of deconstructionism.[2] Sometimes, gender studies is offered together with study of sexuality. These disciplines study gender and sexuality in the fields of literat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 08:04 PM |
| 1 | This should be a Razor: Never attribute to hypergamy that which can be adequately explained as self-preservation.It isn't, yet men are expected to still provided value to the woman even long after she has cease to provide any kind of benefit or even an intangible pleasure to him Ha really? Here I thought in this sub we idealized absentee father, emotionally unattached fuccboys with main character syndrome who sees women as accessories to his lifestyle. In real life, excluding out of the norm golddigger relationships, how common is it that men need to provide value unequally to women they don't care about? … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 06:43 PM |
| 1 | This should be a Razor: Never attribute to hypergamy that which can be adequately explained as self-preservation.A woman will be attracted and intrigued as long as you are providing a value to her. The moment you stop providing that value she walks. Aren't you complaining here about "women's attraction being conditional and only if you provide them value in a relationship"? both sides are supposed to benefit and get value out of a relationship. Why would it ever be expected that women stick around in relationship if there's zero value in it? As an aside..... I think it's rich that in just a few decades bei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 06:46 PM |
| 2 | This should be a Razor: Never attribute to hypergamy that which can be adequately explained as self-preservation.I literally quoted the part I was responding to.. but of course you'll ignore that. Yep, I was being hyperbolic and talking about whininess about "unconditional love even if you provide zero value to your partner" in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 07:00 AM |
| 3 | The amount of effort men put into their female friendships is SEVERELY DISPROPORTIONATE to the amount of effort females put into their male friendshipsOP obviously doesn't know how to read social cues... The women usually know it's not friendship. it's orbiting with ulterior motives. 90% of the time she won't take your money, won't hang out with you alone, won't want to get dinner together, is always "busy", etc. She's figured out your angle and is trying to get some distance, trying to reject politely and sending you "I'm not interested" signals by responding slowly w/ one word answers It's "SEVERELY DISPORPORTIONATE" bc she's trying not to l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 06:43 AM |
| 2 | This should be a Razor: Never attribute to hypergamy that which can be adequately explained as self-preservation.A woman will be attracted and intrigued as long as you are providing a value to her. The moment you stop providing that value she walks. This is true for EVERY relationship. I love how the redpill get all offended that love is conditional on both sides and women aren't self sacrificial motherly robot maids to their romantic partners. If men stopped feeling emotional, sexual and romantic attraction they would also walk LOL. Red pill trying to be victims again. If there's no kids to take care of, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 06:20 AM |
| 2 | If all women are attracted to a similar type of man physically...what type of personality appeals to the broadest amount of women?No PPD thread would be complete without two redpill bros circlejerking how dumb women are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 02:59 AM |
| 6 | A woman shows her true self when she’s young"It’s mostly women who slut shame other women" really? The TRP guys and incels on PPD are always going on and on about sluts and whores and all that drivel. The women on PPD seem to be much more liberal minded about sex. If you'll be honest with yourself, sex being moral or immoral is purely subjective. Obsessing about women's virginities is just sexual objectification, jealousy and insecurity. If a guy is insecure about their exes having had more sexy sex sex in the past, they can break up with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Do men who are obsessed with dating much younger women seriously overstate the desire that younger women might have towards them? (Kinda NSFW)The OP is directed towards the guys on PPD who are obsessed with the age gap relationships with the guy being older. Even creepy ones like the woman is early 20s and the guy is like pushing 60. It's not talking about whether it's possible to be an older guy with sexual appeal. Obviously, on top of real criticism of age gap relationships, some women are going to be insecure about aging bc society is harsher on women for it. But what does that have to do with the OP? It's directed towards the TRP … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 08:40 AM |
| 20 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".Also same. Like people say, the odds are good but the goods are usually shitty entitled men who usually make you more miserable, more stressed out, more messes and stuff to do around the house, more whiny and clinginess, and their egos are always more important and more sensitive than yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Why tie sexual/romantic access into value for someone’s humanity?What wild claims am I making? You're the one who said No because I've already refuted that point with a sufficient answer, when I said there is no physical difference between people of the same sexuality but their is between trans and cis people. Shouldn't it be up to you to prove that being un-attracted on "physical differences" is not prejudicial, while being un-attracted on "sexual history" is prejudicial? You made the claim, you kept saying "physical differences are okay because it is" but I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 08:17 PM |
| 4 | Will women really make a guy waits months for sex in order to “develop an emotional connection”?you have absolutely no way of knowing if the woman you're involved with is going to wait for a reasonable length or just prolong it indefinitely. you could ask her?? If she's future husband lifelong romance shopping and you're looking for a hookup & sex immediately, communicate and leave if it's not your thing. There's nothing wrong with waiting or not wanting to wait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Husbands’ lack of full-time employment is associated with higher risk of divorce, but neither wives’ full-time employment nor wives’ share of household labor is associated with divorce risk.LMAO they can wet the dick if they're pre-wall by some cougar w/ money and then their homeless penniless ass get kicked out the door if they bald in their 30s or when we get bored of them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 05:14 PM |
| – | Why tie sexual/romantic access into value for someone’s humanity?You're the one claiming that not being attracted to bisexual men is prejudice while not being attracted to transwomen is not prejudice. Shouldn't the burden be on you that the distinction is valid? I'm just pointing out a double standard I think you're trying your best to avoid. Women get to be just as insecure about their partner's sex history as men are. If men can whine about their partners having intact hymens or whatever, women should be allowed the same concept. That's just what's fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Sen. Josh Hawley says liberals' attacks on manhood are driving men to pornography and video gamesIf men became video games and porn addicts because a motivational speaker in college told them not sharing emotions, insecure in being themselves and acting "macho", and being sexist as a way to flex is "toxic", they're probably screwed anyway because nothing can save people with such a victim complex and lack of self responsibility Also Josh Hawley sounds like a whiny boomer wannabe and can take his moral outrage and shove it up his own ass LMAO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Why tie sexual/romantic access into value for someone’s humanity?Being unattracted to the male physical form is a fully reasonable and fair justification to not be attracted to the trans women that have it. Why is being unattracted to "male physical form" reasonable and being unattracted to a bisexual person's sexual history unreasonable? If a guy found out his girlfriend did porn before, worked as a prostitute, had an ex with a much larger dick than he had, he could lose attraction to her. According to PPD and its hatred of high body count women, this is tot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Husbands’ lack of full-time employment is associated with higher risk of divorce, but neither wives’ full-time employment nor wives’ share of household labor is associated with divorce risk.Which makes the filthy homeless beggar whore statistics in the OP even more filthy come back and talk when they stop acting like filthy homeless beggar whores and maybe then your contention will have a leg to stand on cool, give it a few decades for women to accrue more wealth and maybe the men will become the filthy homeless beggar whores! we can only dream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Husbands’ lack of full-time employment is associated with higher risk of divorce, but neither wives’ full-time employment nor wives’ share of household labor is associated with divorce risk.one second you say marriage is uncommitted "masquerade" and the other second you say marriage is committed LMAO. scared of joint resources? get a prenup. boom I fixed your problem, marriage now uncommitted AND no compensation. No more men OR women as whores. Isn't that what you wanted? In this day and age women might start getting more education, more money then men so it's only accordingly that when our men gets bald old fat and ED, we can protect our own assets and drop that penniless post wal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 10:02 AM |
| 0 | Husbands’ lack of full-time employment is associated with higher risk of divorce, but neither wives’ full-time employment nor wives’ share of household labor is associated with divorce risk.whoring themselves in marriage \^ This you? Do you read what you write | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Husbands’ lack of full-time employment is associated with higher risk of divorce, but neither wives’ full-time employment nor wives’ share of household labor is associated with divorce risk.whoring themselves in marriage Uncommitted, uncompensated sex isn't whoring Please make sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Husbands’ lack of full-time employment is associated with higher risk of divorce, but neither wives’ full-time employment nor wives’ share of household labor is associated with divorce risk.lol so any type of sex makes the woman a whore, even in marriage? even when the guy is getting fucked literally and metaphorically? Do male hookers, sissies, pegging and CBT not exist in your reality? How are you this much of a prude, are you an angry little high school boy or did you escape recently from an Amish enclave? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 06:32 AM |
| 0 | Husbands’ lack of full-time employment is associated with higher risk of divorce, but neither wives’ full-time employment nor wives’ share of household labor is associated with divorce risk.I think women should get in on this as well.. plenty of women make enough to not settle for entitled aging bald losers with a disappearing hairline and dad bod and ED. For the first time in history Western women aren't financially coerced into unhappy marriages with loser men, we should maximize that freedom for our own self interest like men do. Further careers, make that money, sign prenup before marriage, and divorce for a younger hottie or keep him FWB. If you want kids just go to a sperm ba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 02:45 AM |
| 0 | How many of RP men have literally no other hobbies, ambitions other than attracting female attention?I'm in the software field as well, over 70% of the engineers mid 20s to 30s I know are in relationships. Maybe 10% are engaged. All average looking asian and white dudes, short to average height, kinda introverted but regular self aware, not toxic people. still ended up with a girlfriend. No, they are mad at being told that women like nice decent men only to find that women prefer degenerates, assholes and jerks. no they need to face reality and look around them. The majority of people in their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 05:24 AM |
| 1 | The men who want to have casual sex, and the men who shame women for having casual sex: are they usually the same men? If yes, how does it make sense to do both?As a man, its far better to gain access to women by being arousing than getting commitment through being a provider. But they're only arousing in their 20s or early 30s.. once they're past 30 they bald, get dad bods, have less energy, if they haven't had an interesting career or hobbies by then, they're not just useless and no longer attractive, but boring. Sprinkle in some entitlement and toxicity and everyone he tries to talk to will run for the hills sure girls might use young more attractive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 07:24 AM |
| 1 | The men who want to have casual sex, and the men who shame women for having casual sex: are they usually the same men? If yes, how does it make sense to do both?the post said I am explicitly talking about the men who go out of their way to shame, ridicule & discourage women from having casual sex. Also fuccbois aren't husband/bf material either, but they aren't aware of it. Plenty of girls who are fwb or hookup w/ guys find them annoying or boring, want them gtfo after sex, nothing going for them other than being a convenient peen. if they are lazy bums they'd age out of being hot and then be utterly useless... and commitments are for people you respect… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Why tie sexual/romantic access into value for someone’s humanity?Why does having some physically masculine features mean not dating transwomen is not prejudice? Sure transwomen are more likely to have different physical attributes, but physical attributes like skin color is what a lot of prejudice (like racism) is based on. Straight men who won't date transwomen are still discriminating against a class of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Why do a lot of you talk badly about men, even though you have a loving boyfriend/husband at the moment?? don't remember you at all... easily angered tryin to sound smug reddit boys all sound the same to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 01:05 AM |
| 2 | Why do a lot of you talk badly about men, even though you have a loving boyfriend/husband at the moment?I know, she's such an fucking bitch. Women, amirite | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Why tie sexual/romantic access into value for someone’s humanity?"A preference of life history that excludes any interaction with men" sounds like total hypocrisy. Don't men judge their partner's life histories and sex lives ALL the time and hate "high body count" women? Don't some men in certain cultures want their wives to be virgins? Are we not allowed to date someone with their previous sex life in mind? Men feel insecure and uncomfortable if their partner's ex has a big dick and he has a micro. Why can't women feel insecure and uncomfortable if their par… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Why do a lot of you talk badly about men, even though you have a loving boyfriend/husband at the moment?you know, I keep referring to this guy: One of my friends was in the exact situation as the guy who was your BFF, and I first-hand witnessed the level of mental pain he went through — and I actually counseled him several times to end the friendship with this woman (but he didn’t listen & continued being friends with her & continued getting his heart broken). please read the thread before jumping to conclusions and picking arguments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Why do a lot of you talk badly about men, even though you have a loving boyfriend/husband at the moment?Well, clearly you're not the same guy I was talking to. huh. Well looks like you're a little mad, hope you calm down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Why tie sexual/romantic access into value for someone’s humanity?well, do you want to elaborate why that's a preference and women being turned off of bi guys isn't just a "preference"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Why do a lot of you talk badly about men, even though you have a loving boyfriend/husband at the moment?That sounds like an "everyone does this" thing, that we should all try to avoid when we realize we're doing it.. also are you on an alt? Not really sure why you're responding to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Why tie sexual/romantic access into value for someone’s humanity?Bisexual men have dated & married women for centuries. They've just either kept their mouth shut and not told their partner about their attraction to men or they've buried it down. All because women couldn't get over the fact that the dear husband they've been married to for 5 years likes the idea of sucking a penis. Wherever it is safe to disclose your sexual orientation, people shouldn't be lying about something like sexual orientation to their partners. Women or men can end relationships for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Why tie sexual/romantic access into value for someone’s humanity?Is it bigotry to not want to date a transwoman as a straight man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 08:16 AM |
| 2 | Why tie sexual/romantic access into value for someone’s humanity?If a straight man doesn't want to date transwomen, is that "disgust based on prejudice" like a woman not wanting to date a bisexual man? Sometimes any physical attributes or backgrounds or practical concerns (learning a new language, converting to some religion, needing to adhere to cultures you don't agree with) will turn people off. Is that anti-religion, or cultural-ist? What if someone only wanted to date redheads, is that "disgust based on prejudice" to all ethnicities that don't have red h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 07:59 AM |
| – | Why do a lot of you talk badly about men, even though you have a loving boyfriend/husband at the moment?without even knowing her situation well why are you so committed to telling her she's the problem and picking her friend's side? you're an internet stranger and telling women what they think and what actually happened in a situation you know next to nothing about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 07:20 AM |
| – | Why do a lot of you talk badly about men, even though you have a loving boyfriend/husband at the moment?sorry are you on an alternate account? how do you know what happened? plenty of guys here have chimed in with telling her that she hurt him by remaining friends... no one is talking about the responsibility of the guy to be honest about friendship or to distance himself for his own mental health. Often men do blame women for "leading them on" when they could have exited the friendship much earlier after given a clear no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 07:13 AM |
| 3 | Is it really true that women will reject a guy if he looks too good?This is kinda true lol... well, limited to how attractive they are themselves. probably normal to be self aware and self conscious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 03:47 AM |
| – | Why do a lot of you talk badly about men, even though you have a loving boyfriend/husband at the moment?*He hurt himself and her as well if he knew what he was doing and kept putting himself in this situation. Unless she said a romantic relationship was possible and led him on intentionally this is HIS fault unless he was forced to be friends with her somehow. Shouldn't men be held responsible for their emotion-driven decisions the same way women are? A woman pining for a friend for 10 years and losing it mentally would be called hysterical or overemotional. But when guys do it, it's always the wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 03:30 AM |
| 2 | Women, what do you think WE get wrong about you?ALL men simping e-girls can't find a girl to date? is there not a sizable chunk of them guys who could get dates but choose e girls instead? Even if there are few women who want to date ugly or average guys, who cares? There are gay guys living in small midwestern towns where there are few other gay guys. They deserve dates too no? Why can't you or other straight men just date them even though you're not into them, aren't you're depriving them of sex they deserve to have? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 05:05 PM |
| 6 | Women, what do you think WE get wrong about you?Why do men simp for e girls with big titties instead of finding an average or ugly looking girl with a great personality? Men's actions give more chance to "objectively attractive" women blah blah blah. Isn't it's totally arbitrary who you pick to be "deserving" of being laid and who should "help the truly deserving"? What about a "truly deserving" gay guy or chubby girl or someone you're not into.. shouldn't we also convince you to fuck them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Men, does this sound logical to you?I just find it funny how adamant you are in having the last word, even making up random bs about "explaining my humanity" as if I attacked it in the first place.. if you really don't care, you're free to "drop it" whenever you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 09:42 PM |
| -2 | CMV: The intractable problem of women as reward.Why do men think they don't get sympathy and women are drowning in sympathy? In what ways? Women also work, also struggle, also carry shitty college debt, also have periods of depression, and also get treated like disposable workers. The major difference is women in their 20s probably get more faux sympathy from horny guys.. trust me when "sympathy" has ulterior motives which you don't reciprocate and only based on looks and vagina and men swipe on anything, it's basically worthless lmao. In my … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Men, does this sound logical to you?I can read the part where you admit you like to pester someone when they don't consent to something and won't take no for the end of the conversation. I've met guys like you lol, no reason is good enough for them because they lack respect for other people's opinions. They ask for reason after reason while you repeat "I just subjectively don't care for this" a billion times. "I can see the gears in her head turning while I'm watching her think. I find it cute and intriguing." ....I'm sure it must… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Men, does this sound logical to you?You really have trouble with criticism, damn... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Men, does this sound logical to you?Are you sure you enjoy "solving human puzzles" or whining and annoying people to get past their personal sexual boundaries for selfish reasons? Sherlock plenty of people have insecurities, just break up respectfully if it matters so much to you that she tried something she didn't like and won't do again. Playing a whiny victim while negging people for anal is pathetic. The world doesn't revolve around the insecurities of men who want anal because their girlfriends tried it once, everyone has ins… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Are we all serious or is this some kind of fetishDo you want me to be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Are we all serious or is this some kind of fetishyou seem a little testy. is everything alright champ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Are we all serious or is this some kind of fetishHey schadenfreude is a completely valid kink what do you have against it? It's 2021. it's time to stop being so narrow minded | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 08:50 AM |
| 1 | Are we all serious or is this some kind of fetishit must be miserable to be denied access to sex it's basically a hate crime.. aww so the schadenfreude is just guys lashing out bc they can't coerce other people into unwanted sex awwww that must be so fucking hard for them :( It's not a terrible storyline though the whole dumb bimbos vs self righteous nice guys trope. it's isn't like, not a turn on? That's all i'm saying "Psychopath and sociopaths" really. stop kinkshaming, seriously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Are we all serious or is this some kind of fetishthanks for bringing this to my attention, i had no idea women ass raping men was so common | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Are we all serious or is this some kind of fetishSorry not a terrific writer, my fanfics are usually just run on sentences for instance, this is a different one. the setting is still a kitchen right? he gets fired from work and becomes a SAHD so I make him wear the maid outfit. but he's just so bad at cooking and cleaning and it's frankly pathetic really but I know he's just a good for nothing brat trying to get out of chores. he starts crying as I push his head down into the remains of the grease fire he almost started sorry the rest is too e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 07:45 AM |
| 2 | Are we all serious or is this some kind of fetishwhat's the problem with ass rape if it's consensual roleplay though? you shouldn't be discriminating against people who are into certain kinks we're people too. kinkshaming is absolutely disgusting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 07:26 AM |
| 0 | Are we all serious or is this some kind of fetishlike I get it, it adds some spice to your boring or lackluster personal sex life. it's kind of hotter to think about yours and others personal preferences not as reasonable individual choices but as instead as a vicious struggle of opposite teams and systemic sexual oppression like damMNNN like I'm into it too. like we're in the kitchen. a guy's mansplaining about shit I do for my job he has no clue about, right, and I just accidentally trip while wearing a 10 inch strap on. something along thos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Are we all serious or is this some kind of fetishunfortunately i'm serious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 07:01 AM |
| 0 | Are we all serious or is this some kind of fetishmmmmmmmm nice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Are we all serious or is this some kind of fetishit sounds like self reflections always good for people lol can't relate but the focus for me is the gender war fantasy it's pretty hot though but I can only take it seriously before getting off. Like the 24/7 roleplay has to get tiring for some people. right? like I'm into it, for like 30 minutes, and then yknow. how do people take the pill after that? is there like an actual pill? asking for a friend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Are we all serious or is this some kind of fetishcan you describe in more detail | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 06:32 AM |
| 2 | Are we all serious or is this some kind of fetishstrong emotions like self righteous anger or feminist revenge fantasy can be part of the kink. like everyone of this gender is a shallow dumb slut or whiny little brat who needs the D. or the big black strap on. i'm saying blackpill gets worse when you're sad/horny but maybe you're almost a regular person when you're not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Hypothetical Discussion: How would you imagine a more matriarchal society functioning? What are some aspects of such a society that you as women have always dreamed would be true?ideally? in an ideal universe, through sexual selection and evolution, women pick men with little seahorse baby pouches who can carry pregnancies after conception, then apply the same stringent anti-abortion laws, physical and career impacts of pregnancy to men instead of women. After relegating men's duties to the domestic sphere, them losing power and political influence, and pop culture shifting to fun female characters instead of male, society will naturally lose respect for male opinions, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractivenessIf you're young, there's still hope for you. I get it. Hormones, echo chambers, and teenage angst are a bad combination, and this is just one phase that you might grow up from. One day, you might still be able to talk to women as if they're individuals who happen to be female, who have no obligation to you, awkward average men or society to choose a particular partner. There is a source in your life where the unquantifiable, vague and negative generalizations and hatred towards all "modern women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractivenessI'm really seeing some age disconnect here.. how old are you? have you had at least one relationship with someone incompatible? A relationship that made you miserable, stressed out, tired all the time, fucked with energy and confidence? If you're a kid with little dating experience, you probably shouldn't be giving adults way older than you dating advice lol. if you're young, maybe you'll grow out of this weird phase you're in. You know, the one where you're telling women older than you with mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/21 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractivenessdid all this repetition convince yourself? where did all these average looking couples come from then? are they lizard people? actually the average looking guy perfect for a specific woman is still a unicorn. wanting to date an average looking guy doesn't mean any average person is gonna work. No special connection, easy conversation, shared interests backgrounds ambitions, sincere respect for each other not just sexual desperation?? also wtf does anyone need to "pedestal" anyone. On the contrar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractivenessnot... literally... jesus | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractivenessits a joke username back when i had a poor sense of humor it's ok to like sex lol but let's be real is it healthy to obsess over it and make it such a focus of your life? you got off temporarily not unlocked some massive achievement and if it's a casual unremarkable hookup the other person probably will forget your name in a month. yeah I think it's sad after an entire lifetime for casual hookup sex with randos to be that important to an elderly person if he agreed with red pillers as i said I w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractivenessyes we women are all the same and we don't know what we really want, which is being kept on rotation by a negging gaslighting alpha chad fuckboy. aren't we all ridiculous. so tragic for us to have been born female and have such inescapable biologic instincts guess my entire college dating history and all the incognito mode pegging porn is a lie, my identity is in shambles, please send help | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractivenessHow many guys do you think are like this? do you think it is like... twenty percent or more on OLD? the slutshaming double standard, the wall crap about women expiring, the Chad Tyrone Stacy classification stuff, many into borderline creepy age gaps, constantly ignore women's opinions on what we want, how they feel SO used for being disposable providers etc. do they know most young women nowadays who can work also... work?? provide?? do the same basic stuff all adults do?? women are "depreciatin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 06:51 AM |
| 3 | Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractivenesssomeone has to get real with some of the redpill guys here. if my brother was on this shit i would beat his ass until he had maturity hobbies interests ambitions friends who weren't feeding him unproductive sexist cringe all the time. Outside of the sexism and whininess being gross to many people, it's self destructive mentally. how fuckable he is with random strangers isn't the crux of his character and he should want to be healthy fit accomplished active respectful mature secure regardless. if… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractivenessdid I or did i not say I wanted to date an average introvert like myself? Ok so apparently i and all other women have a biological desire to be used for sex and treated like garbo by alpha chad fuckboy, who we probably have nothing in common with. sorry I didn't get the memo was there a google calendar invite? i'll book myself a time slot on his harem rotation asap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractivenessI like to think im an empathetic person but hyperbole like women are depreciating assets, the wall, generalized preferences attacked, slutshame double standard, all this becky stacy chad high school fixation crap and im lost pretty quickly fuck all yall you sour little human turds | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 06:17 PM |
| 11 | Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractivenessyou literally said womens' tastes were "universal", how am I strawmanning you? those were your words not mine. All I meant is that women of all backgrounds and ages don't have the same universal standard of tall blonde Chad fuckboy, if it's not obvious this rant is a long time coming I've had pent up nausea since reading this sub for the first time . my first reaction was oh no are they all like this.. fuck as an average introverted woman looking to date a similar guy the more I see of this sub … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 06:47 AM |
| 12 | Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractivenessthis sub is basically redpillers and incels talking over women and inventing reasons to ignore our opinions and then putting words in our mouths to convince yourselves to continue the self pity circlejerk. Yeah, you caught us, we of the female gender all have the same universal type and it's alpha six feet blonde Chad with the biggus dickus, we're meeting for the biweekly orgy at his house next Saturday and you're not fucking invited | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 04:50 AM |
| 0 | When purely looking at things in terms of maximal sexual success, are men better off listening to women or ignoring them?just curious, why ask this question in r/PurplePillDebate? You don't want women to give their opinion, obviously from your tone. It seems like you're already dismissive and angry. the question "why should your opinion matter" is not a question that brings good faith debate and you already know that the women here don't share your life goal of getting regular casual sex with the hottest people. If this is your mentality, why not ask a redpill specific forum where you can get the toxic circlejerk … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 06:42 PM |
| 2 | What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive WomenI don't check this account too often, thanks for the very honest answer, it is always interesting to see things from a different cultural background. One thing that annoys me is deep down, the mindset in the West is deep down very similar to yours but the people in this sub lie to ourselves and to women.. We want "sexual liberation", but deep down we still want to slutshame women for high body counts. We want "50/50 and men do not pay for dates" but deep down, a man naturally wants to show affec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 10:39 AM |
| 1 | What do you really get out of dating today? (Question)I am not stealing my ancestors DNA. I am inheriting it. It's still mine. Since humans have 99.9% of the same DNA, maybe I should also own 99.9% of your copyright? The rest of your DNA, maybe you have matching chunks with your siblings, cousins, relatives from distant ancestors, shouldn't they have "inherited rights" from those ancestors as well? If you plagiarizing 50% from your dad and 50% from your mom is "inheriting" a copyright that doesn't exist yet, why can't the rest of us do the same thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 06:52 AM |
| 1 | What do you really get out of dating today? (Question)My ancestors passed on my unique genetics to me. Not to you or anyone else. me. As to me not being a work of art, well, now you're just being hurtful. Sure you're a special snowflake, but in terms of "originality of creative work" you're still stealing your parents work, and they stole it from their parents, and so on. We probably shared a common ancestor a few thousand years ago, can I claim my inheritance to that section of your DNA as well if I also have it? Are you ever going to address whet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 07:49 AM |
| 1 | What do you really get out of dating today? (Question)Ok, so you want to set precedent for human DNA to be copyright-able. okay, so at least prove that the basic 3 factors to get copyright protection are valid here. Did you author your own DNA? Nope, your parents did. Is it in a known medium? No. Is it original? Sure it's unique, but like 99% of it is same for every human being out there. And a large chunk of it is shared by bananas and monkeys. And you got it from your parents with zero work and zero creativity. You're basically trying to steal ow… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 07:54 PM |
| 1 | What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive Womenthanks for the reply! a lot of people here are the redpill and incel type so I try to piss as many of them off as possible, so I got a lot of angry messages so it's nice to see a genuine response. I hope you and your family are safe, watching the videos of what is happening is very chilling and as an american, feel shame and disillusioned about it. it must be unimaginably worse for someone living in the area. sometimes when discussing women's issues I don't want to discuss men's issues at the sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 10:02 AM |
| 3 | What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive WomenI'm actually a computer science major and I'm doing decent as a software engineer but thanks for the sexist stereotype lol. I ask "what is the purpose of being a submissive traditional woman if you are more likely to be oppressed by men than protected?" and the guys are like, "no, I want to talk about how feminists all want protection from men (did not say that), you're gender studies (ok sure), why don't you protect Afghanistan by yourself" etc. It's funny how the OP made a hyperbolic emotional… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 09:10 AM |
| 1 | What do you really get out of dating today? (Question)First, you're arguing human DNA is copyright-able which I'd like to see any legal precedent for.. you seem super sure of it but have you tried to copyright your DNA? Does it fit the google search definition of the 3 basic requirements for copyright protection? Can you even prove the first step of this BS? Second, you gave away the copyrighted material to a LITERAL DISTRIBUTOR of that kind of material fully knowing the risks and agreeing to them consensually. Every adult who has sex, particularly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 08:53 AM |
| 2 | What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive WomenI never said they had to... I'm saying if the selling point of being a "traditional and submissive woman" according to this sub in the past is protection from men. This is what I'm questioning here, not the strawman you wanted to bring up. Please re-read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 08:18 AM |
| 3 | What do you really get out of dating today? (Question)You're hilarious. First of all, if you think your spunk is a gift there's no law to force anyone to give back a consensually given "gift" when it's jizzed inside someone. You've already relinquished ownership when you discarded it. Under your logic, you should jizz and piss on other's peoples things and then claim them as yours. "10% of your sandwich is now my jizz, give me your sandwich!! My piss watered this tree, now all these apples are mine!! Sorry detective, you can't use that crime scene … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 07:53 AM |
| -4 | What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive WomenI don't think you read what I said... the point is, I'm asking the question whether women can rely on protection from men whether she's a submissive traditional wife and not a "shitting and spitting on men feminist". My assumption is no -- from my parents case at least, men who see tradwives as expendable and inferior and incapable, don't see any point in protecting them. They're more likely to beat their wives than to protect them. I'm just asking the question that many are ignoring from the AC… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 07:36 AM |
| 3 | What do you really get out of dating today? (Question)No lol. It's your decision to throw your "copyrighted material" into a printer and distributor, fully knowing the risks. If I piss into a water treatment plant, I would be charged for endangering public safety and whining "wahhh you're all drinking MY copyrighted DNA and urine!! give it back!!" is just an inane argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 01:11 AM |
| -3 | What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive WomenThe men here are flipping out about the generalization of men, getting all sensitive about OP's broad and emotional post, saying that Afghanistan is a special case, etc... so if Afghanistan is a "special case", what is the point these men are trying to make in regards to OP's post? The point of OP's post is not that men should protect women, it's that "should women expect protection if they are submissive"? Is anyone here actually trying to answer this question? No one seems to be addressing any… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Both genders want traditionalism when it benefits them, but also modernity when it benefits them as well. This is the reason for trouble in the dating market today. Both sides have unrealistic expectations of both traditionalism and modernity for the opposite gender.Let me help you out... *your (being so ridiculous) is kinda funny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Both genders want traditionalism when it benefits them, but also modernity when it benefits them as well. This is the reason for trouble in the dating market today. Both sides have unrealistic expectations of both traditionalism and modernity for the opposite gender.lmao, *your. You're so afraid of asking for the bare minimum of social courtesy and expressions of people showing care... why? Imagine you're on a date, getting street tacos, you two go up to the counter and you ask for one $1.5 taco bc you're not too hungry. The guy who invited you immediately turns to you & is like, "haha, you're paying for yourself right?" Is that attractive behavior?? Does he seem interested at all?? What does this show about him as a person?? Like believe in yourself, even … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 06:06 AM |
| – | Both genders want traditionalism when it benefits them, but also modernity when it benefits them as well. This is the reason for trouble in the dating market today. Both sides have unrealistic expectations of both traditionalism and modernity for the opposite gender.I call BS, I haven't seen FDS care if a guy is honest about commitment or falling out of love and the relationship respectfully ends without him using her for sex or for free housework, wasting her time while looking for an upgrade etc... Some of them call some of their exes high value for honesty/empathy during breakups Yeah lol. They should be demonized for disrespect bc every human being deserves respect. no one deserves disrespect or emotional abuse in a relationship, guy or girl, fat or ugl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Both genders want traditionalism when it benefits them, but also modernity when it benefits them as well. This is the reason for trouble in the dating market today. Both sides have unrealistic expectations of both traditionalism and modernity for the opposite gender.good bot <3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 02:49 AM |
| – | Both genders want traditionalism when it benefits them, but also modernity when it benefits them as well. This is the reason for trouble in the dating market today. Both sides have unrealistic expectations of both traditionalism and modernity for the opposite gender.yes... they want what they are attracted to and who treats them right. if the guy doesn't commit or respect them, they don't want him. if the guy isn't attractive to them, they don't want him. they would rather stay single than be miserable with people they don't want, problem? why is women having preferences and deciding to stay single if there aren't any candidates so anger inducing? "Guys love these attractive curvy girls with strong personalities, but those girls move on to the next because … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 02:04 AM |
| – | Both genders want traditionalism when it benefits them, but also modernity when it benefits them as well. This is the reason for trouble in the dating market today. Both sides have unrealistic expectations of both traditionalism and modernity for the opposite gender.Nah, I'm replying because your being so ridiculous is kinda funny. Offering to pay when you invite as I've said applies to everyone, you can do the whole "argument by repetition" BS to call it a double standard, but repeating it a billion times won't make it one. I'm a victim of this too :( just today I met with friends, I invited, I paid for the drinks, had a good time but those golddigging hoes never sexed me or venmoed me back. ugh the horror | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Both genders want traditionalism when it benefits them, but also modernity when it benefits them as well. This is the reason for trouble in the dating market today. Both sides have unrealistic expectations of both traditionalism and modernity for the opposite gender.I would offer to pay if I invited anyone out, I expect someone to at least OFFER to pay if they invite me out. It's not a double standard no matter how many times you call it one. Men can apply this same standard if they want. I really don't care if they do. You seem really bothered by this. I'm sorry you feel that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Both genders want traditionalism when it benefits them, but also modernity when it benefits them as well. This is the reason for trouble in the dating market today. Both sides have unrealistic expectations of both traditionalism and modernity for the opposite gender.Haha sure. If the woman invites the man out, if the man is iffy about her and she's the more interested party and she's chasing him, then the guy could expect her to offer to pay when the check comes. If a man wants to think this way, fine, it's reasonable. I don't have a problem with it. If a woman goes 50/50 do you really think they are going to be a generous, loving and committed partner? Or down the road, a responsible mother? She'll spend her money on eyelash extensions and expensive makeup… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Both genders want traditionalism when it benefits them, but also modernity when it benefits them as well. This is the reason for trouble in the dating market today. Both sides have unrealistic expectations of both traditionalism and modernity for the opposite gender.but they're dating and talking about those experiences, how are they wgtow? there's correlation between being good men and being ugly? that's kinda sad. Why is that, are some guys just good guys because they can't find ways to cheat or bag another girl bc of how unattractive they are? LOL I've seen this before.. once an ugly guy gets one girl gives him a chance, he thinks he's the shit and he starts trying to "upgrade". Yknow, upgrade his sex status symbol without considering its feelings and be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Both genders want traditionalism when it benefits them, but also modernity when it benefits them as well. This is the reason for trouble in the dating market today. Both sides have unrealistic expectations of both traditionalism and modernity for the opposite gender.Totally true. The only reason some women do it is because they're told constantly "sexism is over!! sexual liberation is part of feminism!! legalize prostitution!! we won't slutshame you for casual sex" nah, lol. You just become schrodinger's slut even to woke bros - "empowered woman" when they are trying to use you, slutshamed once they cum or if you make them mad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 07:16 AM |
| 5 | Both genders want traditionalism when it benefits them, but also modernity when it benefits them as well. This is the reason for trouble in the dating market today. Both sides have unrealistic expectations of both traditionalism and modernity for the opposite gender.So entitlement. You're expecting traditionalism on the male part while keeping the modern benefits. It's not really about tradition. It's about basic vetting and attraction. if someone who invited me on a date wants to 50/50, I will 50/50 and never contact them again. The person who invites typically times it most conveniently for themselves, their desired setting or food choices, asks the other party to do what they otherwise NOT do or pay for. To expect the social courtesy I would give my own … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 11:41 PM |
| 4 | Both genders want traditionalism when it benefits them, but also modernity when it benefits them as well. This is the reason for trouble in the dating market today. Both sides have unrealistic expectations of both traditionalism and modernity for the opposite gender.Maybe a man can get what he wants while still treating you like shit. Maybe you can't find a guy to put forth effort because women aren't worth effort That's the point, right? For women the odds are good, but the goods are fuckbois, terrible fathers, creepers, cheaters, manipulators who treat you like shit because you 'deserve' it. Men despise this and women lose nearly all of their appeal if they have engaged in it at all. Why? Because it demonstrates women have no sense of allegiance. Women ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Both genders want traditionalism when it benefits them, but also modernity when it benefits them as well. This is the reason for trouble in the dating market today. Both sides have unrealistic expectations of both traditionalism and modernity for the opposite gender.Ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 08:04 PM |
| 5 | Both genders want traditionalism when it benefits them, but also modernity when it benefits them as well. This is the reason for trouble in the dating market today. Both sides have unrealistic expectations of both traditionalism and modernity for the opposite gender.it's good to know this one isn't interested in dating. saves any woman from interacting with a toxic fedora | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Both genders want traditionalism when it benefits them, but also modernity when it benefits them as well. This is the reason for trouble in the dating market today. Both sides have unrealistic expectations of both traditionalism and modernity for the opposite gender.silly bunny... circlejerking over a strawman is for men too FTFY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Both genders want traditionalism when it benefits them, but also modernity when it benefits them as well. This is the reason for trouble in the dating market today. Both sides have unrealistic expectations of both traditionalism and modernity for the opposite gender.yes, some women don't want relationships and just want sex but most of those leave hookups sexually frustrated and without getting off, because most men have no clue how to get a woman to orgasm (bc porn and being selfish and lazy). Just because they do it, doesn't mean they succeed in enjoying it, most will probably stop once they realize men are shit in bed in general and they're getting nothing from it besides society slutshaming them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 06:19 PM |
| 2 | How do you feel about snooping?On OLD there's so many profiles where it's like "checking what's around -- don't tell my girl". Even on the normal profiles that don't mention cheating, after the first 5 messages they are like "want to hookup? can't host though, have to keep it discreet lmao". And no, these aren't "alpha chads" they're often average looking insecure dudes trying to inflate their ego through cheating or treating their SO as a backup source of sex. If a huge population of guys are fuccbois who would cheat if they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 06:10 PM |
| 3 | What Facebook considers "hate speech"This right here. Obviously I don't agree with what this guy said, it is an overgeneralization and maybe borderline misogyny, but overtly racist posts, homophobic posts and transphobic posts and posts that overgeneralize men stay up all the time on FB. Does FB usually do bans like this? Is it automated or is there some employee going through posts and power tripping? | /r/MensRights | 23/01/19 10:22 AM |
| 5 | What Facebook considers "hate speech"I agree. For example, married men cheat 20% of the time and married women cheat 13% of the time. And for cheaters the the rate of divorce is high and probably more likely for the other person to file. But the breakdown into age groups, socioeconomic and cultural differences shows a lot of different trends in marriage infidelity. So it's not fair to say "men vs. women, who's the worst" etc. There's plenty of other factors as well -- like men are more likely to be perpetuators of domestic violence… | /r/MensRights | 23/01/19 10:13 AM |
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