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Fascinating Womanhood, the name of the book :D
/r/RedPillWives04/10/20 02:23 PM
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Just now, I found out what's going on with RedPillWomen (that the moderators are almost all TRP men), unsubscribed and I'll be joining you ladies instead. I'm not married and currently not even in a relationship, but one of my biggest goals in life is to have a happy family. So yeah, thank you for existing! 😁
/r/RedPillWives24/09/20 05:16 PM
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...can you please just use protection?
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/20 07:30 PM
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Just make it clear that you won't have kids with him until you are married and settled. Good thing about being a woman is, you are in control of getting or not getting pregnant. If he tries to pressure or manipulate you into having children outside of marriage, then you have your answer.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 05:51 PM
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I have only a few girl friends and I can openly talk about the issues discussed here with one of them (haven't tried the others). She doesn't know the term "red pill" nor do I feel the need to introduce her to it, but we almost always agree on topics like femininity, wanting a "leader" for a boyfriend/husband etc. And if we don't, we're able to still respect each other's opinion. I feel really lucky to have her. We're in Central Europe though, so it's probably different here than in America - al…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/20 06:07 PM
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No. You are trying your best and that's what matters. If you feel like you need psychiatric medication, please consult with your psychiatrist to see what will be best for you. my fiance hates it. He gets extremely irritable when I'm in a low mood, and my higher/good moods aren't much better, because he says I'm too jittery and it annoys him. Your fiance could use some attitude check though.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 03:50 PM
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I doubt I'd go on a date with an ex because well, we broke up for a reason. But if that's the case, I'd still wait until a commitment. He would need to show me he truly wants to be with me again, and that he didn't go out with me just because he's bored and doesn't know where to stick his peepee.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/20 03:46 PM
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I really loved her for quite a while, but I agree she seems like she forces herself to be this happy girl all the time. Another thing: she talks all the time about how she volunteers but I've never seen her actually volunteer (or document it or write/post about a specific volunteer project, you know what I mean). Also, every time she features her husband, I can't help but feel that there's something off about him. Can't really figure out why or what exactly it is. I still watch some of her video…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 08:26 PM
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Yes please! 😁
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/20 12:09 PM
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Oh I'd love that!
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/20 05:15 PM
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You can't do anything about this. Some humans are just bad people, and unfortunately this man is one of them. Also, a 14 year difference isn't often the best foundation of a healthy relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/20 08:30 AM
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For starters, you can check out the RPW Wiki, I'm sure you'll find something useful there! Also you can lurk here and learn a bit. That's how I started the journey. There are some youtube or Instagram channels you can follow, if you want, I can recommend you some and you can go from there 😊 But if you want to "be a better girlfriend", I think the most important bit is communication with your partner. Sit down with him and have an honest talk, find out what he likes about you, what he'd like you …
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/20 01:57 PM
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What does "marry well" mean? Is it marrying a rich man? Or is it marrying a man who will genuinely love you and care about you? If it's the second one, I know it sounds cliché but I assure you he won't care about the shape of your nose. Also, as far as I know, you need to "renew" fillers every few months. Is that something you want to do for the rest of your life? Can you afford that, or will every "filler session" be paid by your parents (or future husband)?
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 05:44 PM
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Don't forget that she's still a child and will be for some time. When I was 10, I wasn't even interested in "girl stuff". As thecomment above says, it's great if you can find a positive role model for her, but just also let her be a kid for a while longer.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 07:48 AM
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Did you grow up with a RP mindset, or have you had to cultivate it? Hard to say. During my childhood and puberty, I definitely hung out with boys more because "I was not like the other girls who play with barbies". But then again, I don't know many girls who could be classified as "RP" when they're young. I started being more interested in femininity (and relationships) when I was around 17 or 18. I always wanted to work in healthcare so I'm guessing I always had a nurturing side to myself. When…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/20 12:49 PM
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Well, I for one am glad we have the freedom to choose. I'm hoping to go back to school to study nutritional therapy - wouldn't be possible without feminism. My friend is studying medicine and she'll be the best damn doctor I know - again, she wouldn't have the freedom to do that. Some other positives: People who don't want / can't afford to have children have the choice to not have them. Women who are infertile aren't looked down upon for their "inability to have a baby". Women can choose to be …
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/20 05:42 PM
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I made avocado pasta and it turned out great! Really recommend to put the tomatoes and corn in it, it adds a delicious sweetness and crunchiness to it. Also baked these super quick peanut butter cookies. Added chocolate chips to it but they would be great even without them, I'll try them next time.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/20 02:58 PM
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...fights all the time, but all of them stem from me screwing something up So you make all the mistakes, but he doesn't make any. Doesn't that seem a little odd? he has a hard time remembering that I’m only 18 Of course he does. He's almost 2 decades older. He could be your dad. He probably doesn't dven remember what it feels like tobe your age. I have lied about guys that i slept with In your opinion: do people in a healthy, loving, trusting relationship have to lie? Do they have to be afraid o…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/20 08:11 PM
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If I understood correctly, you don't want him to be submissive. There's nothing wrong with that. If the things he wants make you uncomfortable, don't do them. However, if he needs to be submissive to get pleasure, you might be incompatible sexually. Whether he can or can't separate this from "real life" - only he himself knows that. I personally can be very submissive during sex but I would never, ever allow my partner to humiliate me, treat me with disrespect or hurt me physically outside our b…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/20 02:27 PM
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Why do you worry about that? If there's something you both enjoy, just do it (😂). Whether it's "emasculating" is irrelevant in this context.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/20 01:55 PM
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I love it!!! You're very talented and you just earned a new subscriber 😁
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/20 07:17 PM
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Get to bed by 10 pm every day Study for at least 3 hours per day Go for a run or a walk daily
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/20 07:10 PM
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Maybe I'm wrong, but I did a quick scan of the marriedredpill sub and to me it seems like the majority of the men there are talking in the same disrespectful, humiliating tone about women as on TRP. But yeah I'm sure that there obviously are also guys on there that genuinely want to have a happy marriage and family. :)
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/20 07:01 PM
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Girl please. Wake up. This man is manipulative, he's keeping you as a plan B in case things don't work out with the girls he wants more than you. Please, I'm begging you, stop being his doormat, leave him, work on yourself and when you are ready, enter a new, healthy relationship. From what you are telling us, this is seriously the OPPOSITE of a healthy, loving relationship that's making both people happy.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/20 02:21 PM
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It kind of looks like you already know what to do about some of your features. Here's some of my ideas: extremely dry unkempt hair Get a quality conditioner, do hair masks. In my experience, the shampoo can be the cheapest stuff you find in a supermarket or wherever, but the conditioner needs to be good. Otherwise it doesn't have to be crazy expensive: you can use coconut or olive oil as a mask if you have dry hair, a vinegar "wash" also did wonders for me. Also, if you can, go to a good hairdre…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/20 02:10 PM
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He’s unclaimed me as his woman 6 months ago, and recently asked another girl out. I genuinely believe he loves me and wants to be with me. I don't get it. He's dating another girl, he literally told you he doesn't want you anymore, and you think he "loves you and wants to be with you"? Why? I mean it's one thing to fight for a guy and for your love, but this man obviously moved on already.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/20 01:37 PM
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AvalonPlum said it better than I ever could. So I'll just add that looking through other people's phone is not okay and when you do it, most likely you will find something you don't like or agree with. Your lack of trust is a much bigger problem than his "maybecheatingbutidkbecauseihavenoevidence".
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/20 11:26 AM
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which can make it look like I'm purposefully waiting till there's a more public conflict Yeah, I see how he can think that. Really, being 100% open and honest is one of the most important things in a relationship in my experience. I'm sure that if you work on this, things will get better between you two. Wish you all the best! 💕
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 10:07 PM
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How about staying out of it in front of his parents, and then confronting him in private when you can have a 1 on 1 discussion? Nobody likes having everyone in the room against them. Obviously when you're "in public", you can't lie and say how much you support this behavior of his when you actually don't (which is perfectly understandable of course), but there's also no need to rush to disagree with him or have an opinion at all cost.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 09:43 PM
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You broke up for a reason, and I don't think you would break up just because of "being stressed out from school" if you loved each other as much as you say. Seems to me like you're lying to yourself because you miss having a boyfriend. Go no contact with him (tell him first so he knows what's going on), that will help. Speaking from my own experience.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 09:34 PM
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We are not together anymore Oh right! I completely overlooked that in your post, sorry. 😄 In that case, maybe it would be worth visiting TRP and asking them. At the very least they can offer an explanation from the male perspective, which we can't here. But yeah, she sounds very immature to me. That isn't the greatest trait when you're trying to have a serious relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 12:57 PM
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Zakdoekjeleggen wants you to ask r/TheRedPill for advice. While it's definitely more "appropriate" subreddit to ask for advice, they will most likely tell you to leave her and never look back. If you are ready for their cold hard advice, go there. If I were to give you my opinion, I would tell you to try and work on it because I can see how much you care about her. However, it would be a LOT of work and honestly, I'm not sure if it would be even possible for you to fix your problems. She lied to…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 12:09 PM
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I see I see. You know him much better than any of us so if you're saying he's a good guy, I'll take it as a fact. Is there a way for you to get married without his parents approval, or is it necessary? Also, 6 months is still not a super long relationship so for now, I'd advise you to give it time. It's possible that they will change their minds or that he'll be able to convince them. :) And maybe just something to consider: don't forget that you're still allowed to vet him and see if he's truly…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/20 09:43 PM
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How long are you seeing each other? Are you officially dating? Did you meet his family? How is he with your kids, did they meet him? I don't know a lot about you guys' situation but just based on what you wrote, I wouldn't be so quick in submitting to his leadership and calling him "Captain". Don't forget that in the beginning of a new relationship, he needs to prove he's worthy of you as much as you have to prove the same to him. Also I'm sure you know this but... please make sure that your chi…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/20 09:20 PM
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Of course I'd get sad. That's normal. What is not normal is him being an immature idiot and you fussing over a fight (that we don't know anything about so we can't offer any advice about that) and expecting him crawling back with an apology. More importantly, this isn't healthy. I don't know how old you both are. If you're teens, that's at least understandable, you're still learning. If you're older, you both seriously need to work on yourselves...
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 02:43 PM
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Happy to help! 😁
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 04:48 AM
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I'm quite new to this sub as well, but I read a couple times that this whole redpill stuff is a "toolbox" for everyone - so you take the things that you want or need and leave the rest. I really like that idea. You don't need to dress super feminine, do full face of makeup every day and fill your day with cooking and cleaning if that's not who you are. It's possible that you'll "work up" to that in time but if you don't, that's perfectly fine too. I think this subreddit's main goal is to make wo…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/20 08:19 PM
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I'm not familiar with the prices in the US so my opinion probably won't be that relevant... but yeah, $400 for two blinds DOES seem like a lot. From what you're telling us, I absolutely have a feeling that he doesn't care much about your opinion in this matter. If you expressed that buying a new table is important to you, the response shouldn't be "ok anyway let's buy the blinds today". That's just not how a discussion between two adult people works. Especially when you are both working so it's …
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/20 08:56 PM
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Okay, so I got a couple things to say. Apologies if it's a bit too long. 😄 Cooking: You basically have two options here. First, and that's the one I like better personally: does your man know how to cook? If not, it could be fun to try and learn some new recipes together! Cooking together with your SO is super nice and fun and cozy (and honestly, it can lead to some pretty steamy moments 😇). I would try to suggest that to him and see if he would be into it too. It's not a super redpilled advice …
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/20 06:29 PM
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Try some DIY! There's plenty of tutorials on homemade hair masks or face masks. (Be careful since you have a sensitive skin but I don't think most of the face masks made from natural ingredients are very "aggressive") Thrift stores for your clothes. There are often really pretty pieces you could find in expensive shops! Like someone said before me, I'd also keep the gym, it's good to have a social interaction. But try to combine going to the gym and working out at home so you don't "need" to go …
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/20 07:46 PM
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I've even considered lying about my sexual past Don't. Just don't. Not only is it a "slippery slope" but mainly it's just a stupid move. You don't lie to a person you want to have a serious relationship with. (Ideally you don't lie to anyone but... yeah.) I wouldn't be surprised if there was a guy who wouldn't mind your past but WOULD mind that you lied about it. I sure would. Others said it better than I could so I'll just agree with basically everyone here: It's not such a big deal. Just refle…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/20 10:15 PM
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Meditate every morning Do my skincare routine every day Drink at least 1 l of water every day Study for 30 minutes on work days, and for 6-8 hours on free days Exercise every day for *at least* 10 minutes Buy a plant and a nice pot for it!!! Have a successful first date with my crush
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/20 02:21 PM
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Nutritional therapist is like a nutritionist - you can advise people on what to eat, help them lose/gain weight and live a healthier lifestyle in general, or you can work in hospitals, school cantines or other facilities and make meal plans for them. I decided it for several reasons: first, I'm working as a nurse now and I realize how much people depend on pills - I did some research and found out that a huge amount of health issues can be prevented (or even healed if the problem already occured…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/20 05:52 AM
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First, get back into uni this year (nutritional therapy). Also, get back to playing piano and, if possible, riding horses. I used to do both of these in high school but stopped due to lack of time. Get better in photography. I'm very interested in learning to be a good photographer and now that I got a REAL camera as a gift, I can't wait to learn. Get a driver's licence! Live a healthier lifestyle in general (exercise, sleep 8 hours regularly, drink more water, establish a skincare routine that …
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/20 07:06 AM
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Inspired by Nikki has mainly homemaking videos (but also some "sit-and-talk" kinda videos) but they are really aesthetically pleasing so if you're interested, check her out! Cynthia L is my role model for who I want to be when I'm older! Also, she's Christian. The Feminine Fancy might not be everyone's taste but I like her style and her confidence. That Feminine Housewife is another channel I really recommend, and I honestly don't know why she has so few subscribers.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/20 06:45 AM
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And not just the heart 😏
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/20 05:07 PM
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A youtuber called Mrs. Midwest made a really helpful (at least for me haha) video about this topic! 😊
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/20 06:26 AM
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Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/19 05:10 AM
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I'm talking to someone new - didn't even see each other in real life yet (just videochatted) and I'm trying not to get my hopes up, but so far he ticks most of the boxes (and it's more than clear he's attracted to me too). Today, we talked about previous relationships. He told me about his past girlfriends and I said I'll tell him about my ex boyfriends too if he wants (since I think it's a good opportunity to learn about the person's past, and also "bond" in a way... if it makes sense) but he j…
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/19 04:26 PM
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/r/RedPillWomen29/09/19 11:56 AM
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Glad I could help :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/19 08:15 AM
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I think it's basically taking the time to improve yourself, whatever that means for you personally. Go to the gym, eat healthy, learn how to do make up, how to dress well, start journalling, improve your skills, read books about what interests you, find a new hobby. Figure out what areas in your life need work and do that. If you want to call it "nun mode", call it that, but from what I understand, it's just a fancy term for working on bettering yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/19 08:07 AM
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cult crap spiritually bereft slaps a pink coat on whatever nonsense MGTOW thinks up :D You didn't do a very good research about what this community is, did you?
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/19 08:01 AM
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Haha no worries :D I agree with you.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/19 03:23 PM
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Actually I said I'm not going to be friends with benefits with him. I won't sleep with him, I won't cuddle or kiss him. We'll just talk as friends and we also agreed to not see each other for some time. I never gave anyone sex without being in a relationship with that person first and I never will. But thank you for the reminder. :)
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/19 12:34 PM
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At least I'll be wiser next time. 😂
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/19 08:44 PM
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Yeah. I'm not gonna lie, I was pretty sad when he told me. But at least he said that pretty early and didn't wait until I'm madly in love with him. So he gets plus points for being (kind of) honest.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/19 07:46 PM
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Okayy, here we go! blogilates - I followed her monthly calendars when workout was a new thing for me. I thought it's so practical because she literally tells you what workouts to do every day (there's a focus on a certain body part each day of the week, one day is rest day a.k.a. stretching day). Chloe Ting - recommend especially her ab workouts, I personally could see results in 2 weeks of doing her workouts every day (while not changing/improving anything in my diet). She has workouts focused …
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/19 03:35 PM
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Honestly I still have a lot to improve but I try to wake up at the same time (around 6), drink water right after I get up, eat some breakfast (varies from scrambled eggs to oatmeal with honey/fruits/chocolate to donuts 😆) and tea, have a shower, brush my teeth, do my hair and sometimes makeup (usually just cream, concealer and blush, sometimes a bit of mascara as well). Then do whatever I have planned for the day. It helps me to write down 3 main things I have to get done and really make sure I …
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/19 04:51 PM
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First of all - are you me???? We have the exact same age difference, currently in LDR too and even the 7 hour time difference is the same. The only thing different is that he's coming back next month. 😂 Sorry, back to the topic. Of course it's not ridiculous! It's natural that you want him to tell you he misses you too. We had a similar problem. I literally told him that I'd like it if he could tell me sometimes that he misses me and that he wants to be with me. And that fixed it. Really, simple…
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/19 03:40 PM
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what? 😂
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 08:01 AM
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Thanks so much for this!
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/19 05:06 AM
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It is RPW relevant. 😁
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/19 03:09 AM
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Women Who Run With the Wolves is a great book.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/19 04:32 PM
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I love her! Found her around the time when she published her second video and subscribed immediately. 😁 If you guys like her, you might also enjoy Sarah Therese's videos! Although I don't agree with all her views and opinions, I still learned a thing or two from her, and her videos have this nice, warm vibe. :) Edit: added words.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/19 04:28 PM
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Pass my chemistry and microbiology exams Drink 1.5 l water every day Complete a "beach body" workout program (in case anyone's interested, it's here SPRING CLEANING OF MY ROOM.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/19 10:10 AM
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